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Christian Parents Who Lost Custody of Transgender Teen Appeal Case to U.S. Supreme Court

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Mary and Jeremy Cox, a devout Christian couple in Indiana, lost custody of their biological son in June 2021. The reason? They refused, on biblical grounds, to affirm the 16-year-old’s decision to start identifying as a girl.

During a lengthy investigation and legal battle, the Coxes failed to convince a state agency and lower courts that they deserved custody of the teen, who has now aged out of the foster system. With the assistance of the Indiana Family Institute (IFI), the couple has petitioned the U.S. Supreme Court to hear their case. They expect to hear in April 2024 if that will happen.

Indiana Court Calls This an ‘Extreme Case’

The teen, identified in legal documents as A.C., was removed from Mary and Jeremy Cox’s home after the Indiana Department of Child Services (DCS) warned a county court the teen was in physical and emotional danger. According to court records, A.C. had developed an eating disorder, was self-isolating, and was in danger of self-harm. A DCS investigator alleged the teen endured abuse from the parents, which they denied.

In accordance with a DCS recommendation, a county judge ordered that A.C. be placed in a foster home that affirmed the teen’s chosen gender identity. The judge also prohibited the Coxes from discussing faith-based beliefs during visits with their teen.

Upon appeal, the Indiana Court of Appeals admitted that a parent-child disagreement usually doesn’t warrant a child’s removal. But “this is an extreme case where Child has reacted to a disagreement with the Parents” in such a way that “seriously endangers Child’s physical, emotional, and mental well-being.”

Although the DCS eventually dropped the abuse allegations, A.C. was never returned to the Cox home. The Indiana Court of Appeals ruled that the couple’s rights weren’t violated, because although they “have the right to exercise their religious beliefs…they do not have the right to exercise them in a manner that causes physical or emotional harm” to their child.

Indiana Couple Cites ‘Government Muzzle’ on Rights

In the Coxes’ petition to the Supreme Court, they describe their case as “novel and chilling,” saying their “deeply held religious beliefs and best judgment” about parenting shouldn’t be subjected to a “government muzzle.”

IFI attorney Joshua Hershberger, who is representing the couple, wrote, “Fit parents have the right to raise their children according to their beliefs.” Urging SCOTUS to hear his clients’ case, he wrote that the “rights of parents everywhere in the United States are at risk.”

A.C. is now a legal adult and can’t be forced to return home, but the Coxes said they fear the state will come after their other children. In a video posted to YouTube in January 2023, the couple described how they “had to become reluctant warriors” to try to safeguard their teen.

Babylon Bee CEO Seth Dillon Praises Elon Musk, Decries ‘The Left’s Attacks on Comedy’ in Address to Students at TPUSA’s AmericaFest

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Seth Dillon, CEO of Christian satirical news site The Babylon Bee, recently spoke at Turning Point USA’s AmericaFest, an annual political conference aimed at students ages 16 to 26 featuring numerous conservative and right-wing speakers. 

During his address, Dillon recounted his personal interactions with Elon Musk, the eccentric billionaire who recently purchased Twitter, renamed it X, and promised to make it a bastion of free speech. 

The Babylon Bee’s Twitter account was suspended in March 2022 following a tweet linking to an article naming Rachel Levine, who identifies as a trans woman and who serves as the United States Assistant Secretary for Health, “Man of the Year.”

The article was a satirical play on the fact that Levine had been named USA Today’s “Woman of the Year.” However, the post was flagged as “hateful content” and The Babylon Bee lost access to Twitter. 

The account was not unlocked until Elon Musk acquired the social media platform and significantly loosened its content moderation standards. 

“You know, it’s been just over a year now since Elon Musk bought Twitter, changed his bio to ‘Chief Twit,’ and sent me a DM and said, ‘Do you want The Babylon Bee to be restored? There will be no censorship of humor,’” Dillon recounted. 

As the crowd cheered, Dillon continued, “We’ve been trying to think of a joke worth $44 billion ever since,” referencing the price Musk paid for Twitter. 

“In fact, we interviewed [Musk] several months back and handed him an IOU for $44 billion dollars and told him, ‘That’s as good as cash sir. That’s an IOU,’” Dillon joked. 

“But as resourceful and committed to free speech as he is, Musk is still just one man. And Twitter, now X, is just one platform,” Dillon said. “Censorship remains the rule on big tech. X is a welcome but rare exception.”

Providing a recent example, Dillon said, “In fact, just a few weeks ago, I was notified that the David Horowitz Freedom Center, a conservative nonprofit, was permanently suspended by Vimeo for posting a talk I’d given about censorship.”

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“Think of the irony of that for a second—as if they wanted to make my point for me more emphatically than I ever could. They censored my talk about censorship. Why? Hate speech, they said,” Dillon continued. “I was giving a talk about how The Bee had been censored unjustly for hate speech on Twitter and they censored it for hate speech. We’ve reached this point now where you can’t even talk about how they’re censoring you without them censoring you.”

Official Trailer for ‘The Chosen,’ Season 4, Shows ‘Man of Sorrows, Acquainted With Grief’

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“The Chosen” dropped the official trailer for its newest season on Monday, Dec. 18, and announced that tickets are now on sale for its theatrical release. The trailer for Season 4 conveys an increasing heaviness that Jesus, “the man of sorrows,” feels as he approaches his death, as well as growing tension among his followers and mounting opposition from outside forces. 

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“Darkness is not the absence of light,” we hear a voiceover of a woman saying as the trailer opens by showing an emotional Jesus. “It is more uncontrollable. And sinister. You were there, waiting because the darkness is not dark to you—at least, not always.” 

“The coming darkness was too deep for us to grasp,” she adds.

Tensions Mount in ‘The Chosen,’ Season 4

“The Chosen,” which launched in 2019, describes itself as the “first-ever multi-season series about the life of Christ.” On Oct. 16, the show released a teaser trailer for Season 4 and announced that all eight episodes from the new season will release in theaters in February 2024. This is a first not only for the show but also for any streaming TV show. Tickets can be purchased at www.TheChosenRiseup.com.

Episodes 1-3 will run for two weeks, after which Episodes 4-6 will release on Feb. 15 and will also run for two weeks. Episodes 7-8 will release on Feb. 29. Season 4 will debut in the U.S., Canada, Latin America, the U.K., Poland, Australia, and New Zealand.

“After the full-season run in theaters concludes, ‘The Chosen’ will announce the debut across streaming platforms including The Chosen TV and mobile apps, broadcast and cable TV,” said a press release about the announcement.

The show’s creator, Dallas Jenkins, has said, “I actually think that this is going to be the most impactful season we’ve ever done, emotionally and spiritually.” Jonathan Roumie, who plays Jesus, said that Season 4 has been “quite a ride” and the hardest to act “hands down.”

The tone of the latest season will be more serious than prior ones because Jesus’ mission is weighing him as he approaches Holy Week. More and more, he realizes that he is going to die and no one truly understands why. 

The new trailer shows the Jewish and Roman leaders escalating their hostility toward Jesus and his followers. “It would appear,” says a Jewish leader, “that we now want the same thing as Pilate.”

“Senior leaders in every district,” says another, “should question and expose Jesus.” Roman magistrate Quintus berates the Roman centurion Gaius, saying, “I told you to make life difficult for the followers of Jesus.”

Cardinal Becciu Sentenced to 5 and a Half Years in Prison by Vatican Tribunal

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FILE - Cardinal Angelo Becciu attends a consistory inside St. Peter's Basilica, at the Vatican, on Aug. 27, 2022. Lawyers for the once-powerful cardinal have accused Vatican prosecutors of being "prisoners to their completely shattered theory" in closing arguments of a two-year trial. Becciu is on trial along with nine other people in a case that is focused on the Vatican's 350 million-euro investment in a London property. (AP Photo/Andrew Medichini, File)

VATICAN CITY (RNS) — After a trial lasting two and a half years, which addressed financial mismanagement by the Vatican’s Secretariat of State, Vatican judges sentenced Cardinal Angelo Becciu to five years and six months in prison for the embezzlement of Vatican funds.

The sentencing on Saturday (Dec. 16), which also included a ban from holding any public office, marked the first time a cardinal was condemned by a Vatican penal court. Becciu was present at most of the hearings but did not attend the pronouncement of the final sentence of the tribunal.

While Pope Francis stripped him of his cardinal privileges in 2020, including the opportunity to take part in the conclave that will decide the next pope, Becciu has adamantly maintained his innocence throughout the proceedings.

His lawyers maintained the trial proved Becciu’s innocence. “We respect the sentence, but we will certainly appeal the decision,” lawyer Fabio Viglione told Vatican journalists after the sentencing.

In addition to prison time, the 10 defendants, including clergy members and lay individuals, were sentenced to compensate the Vatican—which prosecutors argued suffered reputational damage due to the scandals—a total of 200 million euros, to be paid to the Institute for Religious Works, commonly known as the Vatican Bank.

The lead prosecutor, Alessandro Diddi, said he is “satisfied” that the work they have done, which was highly contested by defendants, was recognized. “We have been called incompetent and ignorant,” he told Vatican journalists on Saturday, “but the result proves us right.”

A screenshot shows Vatican Tribunal President Giuseppe Pignatone reading the verdict of a trial against Cardinal Angelo Becciu and nine other defendants, in the Vatican press room, Saturday, Dec. 16, 2023. (AP Photo/Andrew Medichini)

The Vatican tribunal, led by known anti-mafia judge Giuseppe Pignatone, voiced gratitude for those who took part in the proceedings of this “unusual trial” before retiring to make the long-awaited decision.

Pignatone admitted the decision will be met by “criticism from all sides. It’s normal, it’s part of the game.”

Described by Vatican experts as the “trial of a century,” the financial trial attempted to tackle corruption and mismanagement in the Catholic institution within the context of papal financial reforms.

During its 86 hearings lasting over 600 hours, the trial also highlighted the challenges facing the Vatican’s judicial system, which was at times overwhelmed by the complexity and scope of the proceedings. It also exposed a network of rivalries and favoritism within the competing departments of the Vatican Curia.

With Pope Francis’ Encouragement, Vatican Allows Blessings for Same-Sex Couples

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FILE - Newlywed couples meet with Pope Francis during the weekly general audience in St. Peter's Square at the Vatican, on Oct. 11, 2023. Pope Francis has formally approved allowing priests to bless same-sex couples, with a new document released Monday Dec. 18, 2023 explaining a radical change in Vatican policy by insisting that people seeking God’s love and mercy shouldn’t be subject to “an exhaustive moral analysis” to receive it. (AP Photo/Gregorio Borgia, File)

VATICAN CITY (RNS) — With Pope Francis’ encouragement, the Vatican’s doctrinal office issued a document on Monday (Dec. 18) allowing Catholic priests to bless same-sex couples.

The document grants priests “the possibility of blessing couples in irregular situations and same-sex couples without officially validating their status or changing in any way the Church’s perennial teaching on marriage.”

But the document cautions that any rites or prayers that may be confused with marriage, which the Catholic Church considers to be a sacrament exclusively for the union of a man and a woman, “are inadmissible” for same-sex couples. It adds that “the Church’s doctrine on this point remains firm.”

The document, signed by the recently appointed prefect of the Vatican’s doctrinal office, Cardinal Victor Manuel Fernandez, and approved by Pope Francis, broadens the understanding of blessings in the Catholic faith by detaching them from the liturgy and sacraments.

“When considered outside of a liturgical framework, these expressions of faith are found in a realm of greater spontaneity and freedom,” the doctrinal statement read. “In this way, blessings become a pastoral resource to be valued rather than a risk or a problem.”

Those seeking a blessing do not have to undergo “an exhaustive moral analysis,” nor should they “be required to have prior moral perfection,” the document states.

It will be up to the priest to exercise “pastoral prudence and wisdom” to avoid any scandal among the faithful or confusion of the blessing with a marriage ceremony, the statement read. Clergy “should neither provide for nor promote a ritual for the blessings of couples in an irregular situation,” and they must never perform the blessing during a ceremony for a civil union, it added.

“God never turns away anyone who approaches him!” the document stated, underlining that a blessing is a way to allow for God’s mercy and closeness. “It is a seed of the Holy Spirit that must be nurtured, not hindered,” it read. The document said that the decision aims to allow faithful to be closer to God and that “there is no intention to legitimize anything.”

In a letter released by the Vatican on Oct. 2, in response to questions from five conservative cardinals, Pope Francis called for “pastoral prudence” in discerning the question of blessings for same-sex couples but also instructed priests to avoid acting “like judges who only deny, reject, and exclude.”

A hot-button issue for years, the question of blessings for same-sex couples has been pressed by clergy in Germany and other parts of Europe, who have demanded that the church allow the practice. A series of gatherings and conferences of Catholic clergy and lay organizations in Germany, known as the Synodal Path, defied the Vatican’s warnings and performed same-sex blessings in churches and public places, causing controversy.

In March 2021, the Vatican’s doctrinal department had issued a two-page document banning same-sex blessings, stating that God “cannot bless sin.” Francis later overhauled the department with reforms and placed Fernandez as the new head. The statement on Monday underlines that blessings don’t always originate from God but can also be imparted by faithful onto others.

This article originally appeared here

Church of England To Introduce Same-Sex Blessing, as It Faces ‘Disestablishment’ Bill in Parliament

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Archbishop Angaelos, left, and Britain's King Charles III attend an Advent service and Christmas reception at The Coptic Orthodox Church Centre UK in Stevenage, England, Tuesday, Dec. 5, 2023. After the service, the king met young volunteers from the church's ministries and members of the Coptic Orthodox Church Congregation, unveiled a plaque and planted a tree. (AP Photo/Kin Cheung, Pool)

LONDON (RNS) — Advent is the season when the Church of England usually runs a campaign to get more people into church, and this year is no exception. “Follow The Star: Join The Song” is a drive to get more people singing, and a new melody for a traditional carol, “The First Nowell,” by one of Britain’s most acclaimed choral composers, Bob Chilcott, has been specially written for the campaign. But this Advent is going to be remembered for a different first. This Sunday (Dec. 17), the third Sunday in Advent, the Church of England will launch its prayers of blessing for same-sex couples.

Called Prayers of Love and Faith, they are the result of seven years of discussion within the Church of England about what its pastoral response to same-sex relationships should be. But the blessing may be too little too late for an institution that has been declining in attendance and support for decades. A bill seeking to “disestablish” the Church of England was presented to the House of Lords last week that, while it has little chance of passing, signals a growing discomfort with the relationship between church and state in the country. A major reason is the church’s stance on same-sex marriage, which stands in contrast to the law of the land and has long alienated politicians and peers.

According to Malcolm Brown, the Church of England’s director of mission and public affairs, the bill is a way of gauging what the church’s critics think.

“We feel rather beleaguered over same-sex issues,” said Brown. “A lot of people in Parliament feel we should be brought into line on same-sex marriage.”

Same-sex marriage has been legal in England and Wales for almost 10 years, but the amendments to the 2010 Equality Act that paved the way for legalizing same-sex marriage also ensured a get-out clause for the Church of England so that its canon law would not be affected.

Just how fraught the issue has been for the national Church of England is highlighted by the bishops’ announcement that they will consider a pastoral provision to protect the conscience of those who wish to use the new Prayers of Love and Faith blessing — and of those who do not. One group within the Church of England, calling itself the Alliance, representing evangelicals, has now urged a delay to use of the prayers, saying they are “a departure from the doctrine to which the Church of England has always held fast.”

But last week’s bill — presented in the House of Lords, the upper chamber of British Parliament — is an indication of how the issue has affected the church’s reputation in a country that is both rapidly secularizing and becoming more religiously pluralistic.

It was presented by the Liberal Democrat peer Paul Scriven, who said: “The separation of Church of England and State is long overdue. We need to reflect Great Britain as it is today, not as it was in the 1500s,” in a reference to the creation of the Church of England by Henry VIII when he broke away from the Roman Catholic Church.

“In a modern, pluralistic, and secular society, it is a rather archaic and unjustifiable religious privilege at the heart of our constitution to be implanted at the very heart of the organization and management of the State,” Lord Scriven wrote in an article for National Secular Society.

The bill is designed to separate Church and State by removing the Church’s privileged, established status, the automatic right of bishops to sit in the House of Lords and the monarch’s role as Supreme Governor of the Church of England — a role recently highlighted when King Charles III was crowned in an Anglican coronation ceremony in May.

Although the bill has little chance of becoming law — it was not presented by the government, so it will be difficult to timetable debate — it does indicate a certain dissatisfaction with the established Church, and so has been noted with concern by its senior officials and bishops.

Brown does not think that the launch of Prayers of Love and Faith this Sunday will change opinion. “They will probably not be enough for those for whom identical treatment of LGBTQ people is an article of faith,” he said.

5 Questions Leaders Are Asking About Their Workplace Culture

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The following are five questions I find leaders are asking this week about their workplace culture:

Tough Conversations

Former major league manager Jim Leyland was recently voted to the Hall of Fame.  He has been known to say, “If you mislead a player you lose them forever.  If you tell them the truth, you lose them for 24 hours.”

While hard conversations may be challenging, leaders must engage in them to have influence and success over an extended period of time.

Leaders, are there any hard conversations you have been putting off?  If so, are you willing to engage in them this week?

For a deeper dive into hard conversations, read 33 Lessons For Leaders On Hard Conversations, Confrontation And Conflict.

Employee Turnover

At the time of this writing, three-time Premier League defending champion Manchester City are currently in fourth place. Legendary manager Pep Guardiola has a reason why.  He said in this article from The Athletic, “How I saw the team, with the problems that we have, changing the core of the team—the midfield players are completely opposite to what we have the last seasons—we change many things but we are quite stable, create more chances, concede fewer than the opponents.”

There are other reasons but Manchester City is not off to a fast start this season largely because the core of their team has changed.

Sometimes changes need to be made to improve your team. But there are also times when excessive employee turnover can hurt performance.

Leaders, are you currently experiencing unnecessary employee turnover? This leads to my next point…

For a deeper dive into the extraordinary leadership of Pep Guardiola, read 35 Qualities Of A Once-In-A-Generation Leader.

Alignment vs. Attunement

Alignment and attunement are different leadership competencies.

Alignment is when your team is all on the same page about its goals and objectives. Attunement is when everyone is in agreement on how to get there.

You can be aligned but not attuned.

Alignment can make leaders assumptive. Attunement assures unity and cohesion.

Leaders, are you not only aligned, but also attuned in your 2024 goals?

Meetings

In this week’s James Clear 3-2-1 newsletter, he quotes business executive Jay Ferro’s thoughts on meetings:

“The three stages of career development are:

  1. I want to be in the meeting
  2. I want to run the meeting
  3. I want to avoid meetings.”

I will write in greater detail on the subject of meetings later this week, but I largely agree with Ferro. I am not a fan of meetings and think they can be a great hindrance to productivity. However, I was in an excellent meeting this week.

The following are five things which made the meeting not only effective, but enjoyable:

  1. The leader was fully-engaged.
  2. Everyone was invited for a reason and had a job to do in the meeting.
  3. Desired outcomes were clearly defined.
  4. We broke into individual groups but switched teams halfway through the meeting.
  5. The meeting schedule was strictly adhered to and we ended on time.

How To Maximize Team Commitment

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Increasing team commitment begins with understanding how commitment is developed and maintained. The word commitment means:
*a promise to do or give something
*a promise to be loyal to someone or something
*the attitude of someone who works very hard to do or support something

There are many things that will try to interfere with team commitment: frustration, boredom, weariness, doubt, opportunities, distractions, etc. It is important to understand that commitment is based on ones own word and determination. The danger people tend to fall into is associating their commitment with their emotions.

“If I feel like it, I will follow through.”

Below are four key principles that John Maxwell shares in his book, 17 Essential Qualities Of A Team Player, about team commitment.

If team commitment is going to rise every member needs to grasp these four principles.

How to Maximize Team Commitment – 4 Principles

1. Team Commitment Usually Is Discovered In The Midst Of Adversity

When difficulty hits we either feel one of two ways:

I want to quit.

I want to complete this.

*Struggles strengthen your resolve.
*Adversity will drive you away or press you closer to the mission.

The bible talks about the process and results of adversity:

James 1:2-4 (NIV) Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.

What are trials of many kinds?  Adversities.

What is perseverance?  Commitment.

What are the results? Maturity (Growth).

2.  Team Commitment Doesn’t Depend On Gifts Or Abilities

It’s dangerous to assume that it is easier for gifted people to be committed because of their talent.

How many less talented people who have worked hard have succeeded?

How many extremely talented people have squandered their potential b/c they never did anything?

We don’t need more strength or more ability or greater opportunity.  What we need to use is what we have.
– Basil Walsh

What has been entrusted to you?  Start with that.  Work with what you have and believe that greater things will take place!

3. Team Commitment Comes As A Result Of Choice, Not Conditions

There is a great example about the power of our decisions found in Luke 5.

Luke 5:1-3 (NIV)  One day as Jesus was standing by the Lake of Gennesaret, the people were crowding around him and listening to the word of God. He saw at the water’s edge two boats, left there by the fishermen, who were washing their nets. He got into one of the boats, the one belonging to Simon, and asked him to put out a little from shore. Then he sat down and taught the people from the boat.

Jesus asked Peter to push his boat (that he had docked) further out into the water.

Could Peter have said no?

If he had said no, could Jesus have got into another boat?  Remember, there were TWO boats at the shore.

Let’s move on…

Luke 5:4-6 (NIV)  When he had finished speaking, he said to Simon, “Put out into deep water, and let down the nets for a catch.”  Simon answered, “Master, we’ve worked hard all night and haven’t caught anything. But because you say so, I will let down the nets.” When they had done so, they caught such a large number of fish that their nets began to break.

After using the boat Jesus told Peter to go out into deeper water and put down the same nets that he had just washed from using all night.

REMEMBER, Peter had fished all night and caught nothing!

Would it have been easy for Peter to allow his condition to influence his decisions?  Yes!  He was possibly tired, frustrated, and ready to dock the boat.

Peter chose wisely. His choices influenced his conditions… When Peter decided to go back into the water after fishing all night, using the same nets he had just finished washing he caught so many fish that his nets started breaking!(VS. 6)

Rather than allowing conditions to influence your choices, allow your choices to influence your conditions.

4.  Team Commitment Lasts When It’s Based On Values

A commitment to something you believe in is a commitment that is easier to keep.

Make commitments based on what you value.

Challenge:

Make a list of your of your commitments and your values.

Do you have commitments that are not related to your most important values?

Sometimes the going gets tough, understanding and applying the principles that surround team commitment will help every person to push forward!

What struggles have you faced that have challenged your level of commitment?

The principles shared in this post were taken from the book, The 17 Essential Qualities of a Team Player: Becoming the Kind of Person Every Team Wants, by John Maxwell.  You can purchase the book on Amazon.  To do so click HERE.

This article on how to maximize team commitment originally appeared here, and is used by permission.

Why I Don’t Like Christmas Carols

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Let me say from the beginning, the problem is me, not you. I have a heart that is two times too small. I’m a Scrooge, a Grinch you might say. Every year around Christmas time, I find myself becoming more cynical. A permanent scowl begins to harden on my face. My nostrils tend to flare more frequently. Why? Christmas carols. I don’t like them. And they’re everywhere! Let me tell you why I don’t like Christmas carols.

Why I Don’t Like Christmas Carols

Now, I realize that I am in the serious minority here. When I tell people that I don’t like the song “Mary Did You Know?”, they look at me as if I’ve just said I like to eat kittens. But, before you write me off as a total Christmas-hating Scrooge, hear me out.

As I read through the Bible, it seems that the story of Jesus’ birth has a soundtrack running behind it. It is an epic soundtrack, a thundering soundtrack, a soundtrack of war. Of battle. Of great, intense conflict.

When Jesus was born, the demonic powers shuddered with fear. They knew that the king had come, and that their doom was imminent. They did all they could to stop the king. They incited Herod to slaughter baby boys. But they could not stop God’s redemption plan.

Jesus’ birth is the story of light breaking into darkness, of hope bursting into gloom. It is the story of sadness being undone, and the demonic rulers being overrun. It is the story of the King of Kings becoming a lowly, grasping, nursing, crying baby. It is the story of hidden glory.

The Christmas Promise: The Word of God Will Never Fail

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The span between Malachi and Matthew lasted approximately four hundred years, often referred to by scholars as the “400 silent years” since there were no records of prophecies or angelic appearances. Then, God spoke. And when God broke the silence, he did so magnificently! It was time for Israel’s long-awaited Messiah to rise up for the salvation of his people. The promise of God’s faithfulness was a Christmas promise.

The first Christmas proimise from God during this history-making moment were angelic appearances to a handful of people, one of whom was a young lady named Mary. Gabriel appeared to Mary and proclaimed, “Greetings, favored woman! The Lord is with you!” (Luke 1:28 NLT) I love the two words the Bible uses to describe Mary’s initial reaction: confused and disturbed. She was frightened. By an angel.

We think of angels as cute little cherub figurine-worthy creatures with harps. Gabriel, however, is a battle-hardened heavenly messenger whose appearance would be quite intimidating to any feeble human being.

The Christmas Promise: The Word of God Will Never Fail

His message to her was one of comfort…

“Don’t be afraid, Mary,” the angel told her, “for you have found favor with God! You will conceive and give birth to a son, and you will name him Jesus. He will be very great and will be called the Son of the Most High. The Lord God will give him the throne of his ancestor David. And he will reign over Israel forever; his Kingdom will never end!” (Luke 1:29-33 NLT)

Mary’s response is to be expected, “But how can this happen? I am a virgin,” to which Gabriel responded with an explanation…

The Holy Spirit will come upon you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you. So the baby to be born will be holy, and he will be called the Son of God… (Luke 1:35 NLT)

And then he utters these powerful words – read them slowly…

For the word of God will never fail. (Luke 1:37 NLT)

Mary responded with faith. Jesus came. The world will never, ever be the same.

Zero in on that message for a moment — “the word of God will never fail.”

This isn’t true of anything else in our entire world. Systems fail. Our health fails. Governments fail. Technology fails. People fail. I fail. You fail. Failure is an absolute fact of life!

But the word of God? It’s the one thing on this earth you can completely trust.

The point is, when God has spoken a promise or inspired a prophecy, you can be guaranteed, with 100% consistency, that God will indeed do the very thing he has promised. That’s certainly true of the Christmas promise.

3 Essential Practices for New Christians

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Christmas services will soon be here and we’ll be communicating the message of salvation through Christ. That IS good news.

And the great prayer of the Church is for an extraordinary number of people to say yes to Jesus in Christmas services around the world.

What is our responsibility to these new Christians?

Like with a newborn to our own families, new believers deserve the very best of love and intentional care.

Helping new Christians grow in their faith is core to the mission of the Church.

How do we get to the core of what we need to teach new Christians?

After all, there are thousands of Scriptures; and hundreds of biblical principles, prayers, and practical applications. There are dozens of parables, warnings and exhortations; 10 Commandments, nine fruit of the Spirit, and one Great Commission.

And it’s all important!

Thankfully, the Holy Spirit leads us to what we need as individuals. I remember when I was a new Christian, that I was inexplicably drawn to 2 Corinthians 5:17.

Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!

I didn’t fully understand the verse in the moment, but I clung to it and over time it gained deeper life-changing meaning in my mind and soul.

In attempting to select out of all this content what you present to new Christians, it’s important to remember that the process of spiritual formation and maturing in our faith is a lifelong endeavor. It’s not a race and we need not be in a hurry.

With that said, the way a person begins their growth as a new Christian sets the tone and trajectory for their lifelong spiritual journey. Therefore, what we teach new believers truly matters.

Further, faith is best developed in community. It’s best lived out in the company, support and encouragement of other believers.

If you select a small and manageable number of major categories that cover the spectrum of spiritual formation, you can provide a framework for spiritual growth over a lifetime.

3 Essential Practices for New Christians (That Will Help Guide What You Teach)

(These three practices can serve as a framework of growth for a lifetime.)

1. Trust God

What we believe to be true about God and his word empowers us to consistently trust him in every facet of our lives.

Our faith begins by trusting God and his promises, and our faith builds as we experience the truth of God and His unwavering faithfulness.

In the early stages we barely understand what we believe, then as we mature, we gain wisdom by experience and a deeper grasp of God’s truth. The interesting question is then, is our faith stronger in the moment of conversion or is our faith stronger the more we understand?

Our faith is stronger and more mature according to the level of risk we perceive as we trust God and continue to take steps of faith. The practicing of our faith requires maturity, not mere belief.

5 Must-Have Church Evangelism Strategies

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Through the years of helping design missional initiatives and evangelism training, I have found five essentials that church evangelism strategies MUST have in order to work in your local culture.

5 Church Evangelism Strategies

1. TOUCH

Church evangelism strategies start with proximity, and genuine interest expressed through conversation and organic relationship building. Oftentimes churches start evangelism training with how to articulate the gospel.

But when your church folks no longer have a connection with people far from God, it doesn’t matter how eloquent your gospel presentation rolls.

2. TALK

When you develop your own strategy, you can’t help but develop a unique language for the process of evangelism. This distinct terminology flows out of your church culture for your surrounding community culture.

In a sense, the new language is a part of incarnating the truth of the gospel in your time and place.

For example, one church in the bible belt, uses the language of “hope” as a door opener in conversation. Another, in the deeply unchurched Pacific Northwest uses the terminology of  ”self-reliance” to clarify the problem of a life disconnected from God.

3. TOOLS

Peter Drucker said that the greatest problem with non-profits (he definitely had churches in mind) is a lack of focus and a lack of “tool competency.” As a pastor, you want your people engaged in sharing their faith.

The single most important question you can ask yourself is, “What tools have I provided for my people to evangelize?” Studies show that people are more inherently motivated than we think. More times than not, their primary motivational question is NOT, “What’s in it for me?” BUT “What tools are you providing for me to do what you want me to do?”

Recently Gloria Dei Lutheran created a simple tool that resembles the oil change sticker you put on your windshield. On the sticker is the name of someone to consistently pray. This simple tool undergirds their mission for membership: Helping one another live life with Jesus every day.

4. TRAINING

Obviously, training is an important part of equipping the saints for the work of ministry.

Your church does not need another pre-packaged or denominationally based program like you think. God has already provided everything you need to get the training done. How you ask? He has given gifts to men and women and gifted men and women to your church. Some of them have the gift of evangelism.

We tend to think that the gift of evangelism is for a few people to do the work of evangelism. That’s not accurate. Remember that spiritual gifts are given with one purpose: the edification of the body. (Eph 4:11-16) Therefore, your job is to release the inherent gifts of evangelism in your church to train and lead the entire body in the process of evangelism and missional service.

5. TINGLE

In the end, the work of evangelism is the first thing that suffers from the temptations and distractions of the world around us and the flesh within us. Motivation is a critical element.

Vision casting and storytelling must consistently invigorate and refuel the people of God.

In the end, the greatest tingle factor for the people of your church is your own life model. Remember pastors, that we teach what we know, but we reproduce what we are. As you motivate yourself for the work of evangelism, tell your own stories of success and failure.

Always celebrate each precious step that each precious saint makes toward intentional living with redemptive passion.

5 Christmas Preaching Ideas From One Passage

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Sometimes all it takes is one key phrase to spark an entire sermon. Christmas preaching is no different. This year, try looking at the phrases you might be tempted to skip over—there might be enough material to ignite all of your Christmas preaching in just one passage. Take Luke’s famous account of the annunciation:

In the sixth month, God sent the angel Gabriel to Nazareth, a town in Galilee,  to a virgin pledged to be married to a man named Joseph, a descendant of David. The virgin’s name was Mary. The angel went to her and said, “Greetings, you who are highly favored! The Lord is with you.”

Mary was greatly troubled at his words and wondered what kind of greeting this might be. But the angel said to her, “Do not be afraid, Mary, you have found favor with God. You will be with child and give birth to a son, and you are to give him the name Jesus. He will be great and will be called the Son of the Most High. The Lord God will give him the throne of his father David, and he will reign over the house of Jacob forever; his kingdom will never end.”

“How will this be,” Mary asked the angel, “since I am a virgin?”

The angel answered, “The Holy Spirit will come upon you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you. So the holy one to be born will be called the Son of God. Even Elizabeth your relative is going to have a child in her old age, and she who was said to be barren is in her sixth month. For nothing is impossible with God.”

“I am the Lord’s servant,” Mary answered. “May it be to me as you have said.” Then the angel left her. (Luke 1: 26-38)

5 Ideas for Christmas Preaching

CHRISTMAS PREACHING IDEA #1 

In the sixth month … God’s clock was already ticking when the angel came to Mary. Just because God announces something to me doesn’t mean it began with me. That will be a surprise to some of your listeners.

CHRISTMAS PREACHING IDEA #2

pledged to be married  We have our plans. God has his. What do you do when the two come into contact with each other? This is a practical question for today, just as much as it was for Mary 2,000 years ago.

Three more Christmas preaching ideas on page two . . . 

Don’t Forget These 5 Things the Christmas Ministry Season

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If you are in ministry, Christmas can be a tough gig. Multiple services. Long hours. Special events. Parties to attend.

The most wonderful time of the year can become the busiest time of the year.

As you are quickly going into this season here are five things to remember.

1. Family Matters Most.

Don’t get so busy that you neglect your family. There is a lot of things vying for your attention during the holiday season.

Yes…there will be extra hours clamoring for your attention.

Yes…there will be an expectation to do whatever it takes to make Christmas special for those who attend your services.

Yes…your priorities will be put to the test.

But don’t let your family suffer because of this. Yes…take care of your responsibilities. But use wisdom in determining how much time you will spend on projects or programming. 85% is okay. Don’t lose your family because you will do whatever it takes to make that extra 15% happen.

2. Attend a Service With Your Family.

Make sure you have your responsibilities covered so you can attend a service with your family. Your kids need to remember you singing Christmas carols with them and seeing your smiling face in the glow of Christmas candles.

3. Give Jesus Your Best Gift. 

Help your family understand that Christmas is all about the birth of Jesus and the celebration of Him coming. Jesus should get your best gift. Teach your family by example that Jesus deserves your best gift. Give toward your church’s Christmas offering. Give toward outreach programs that help the poor and needy during Christmas.

4. Choose Memories Over Stuff. 

Instead of spending all your Christmas money on gifts, consider using the money to make a memory together.

What if you cut back on the gifts you give your children and instead go on a trip together?

How Individualism Corrupts the Church’s Mission

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A popular slogan in the world of sports claims, “Players win games. Teams win championships.” Of course, even non-sports-lovers can agree that some things require the contribution of more than one person. Westerners struggle to think and act in step with this truth, however. That’s because certain thoughts, habits and societal incentives have permeated our culture with imbalanced tendencies toward autonomy, self-sufficiency and (perceived) uniqueness—an unholy trinity of individualism.

How Individualism Corrupts the Church’s Mission

The trouble is that, like fish in water, we struggle to notice our own environment. When individualism is all we know, we filter everything we see or think through this lens.

“Cultural blindness is harmful to the church’s witness in the world.”

Consider something as basic as how we choose to describe ourselves. The typical Westerner draws on a cocktail of adjectives aimed at describing a unique self. “Creative, analytical, spontaneous,” and so forth. Very few of us are inclined to answer a question about our identity with a response such as, “I’m a faithful husband, a loving father and a loyal friend.”

But don’t give modesty any credit for that. For even in cases when the latter descriptions are true, they are still not the main way Westerners view themselves. In an individualistic culture, relationships are simply not the primary lens for understanding identity. And that’s a problem because individualism negatively impacts three areas critical to the Great Commission.

1. Individualism Removes Evangelism From Its Most Fruitful Context

Before his ascension, Jesus left his followers with several sets of instructions for continuing the work he had entrusted to them (cf. Matt. 28:18–20Luke 24:44–48John 20:21–23). Each facet of that work centrally revolves around this command: “Go into all the world and preach the gospel to all creation” (Mark 16:15 CSB).

Sharing Jesus at Christmas: 5 Easy Ideas for Holiday Evangelism

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Yes, Christians should be sharing Jesus at Christmas. But how exactly do we and our teens do that? If you need practical pointers, read the easy, results-oriented holiday evangelism tips below!

Christmas is one of the holidays where engaging people in a Gospel conversation can be easier and more natural. It is a time of sharing laughter, food and, of course, gifts.

And we have no better gift to share than the good news of Jesus. He truly is the reason for the season!

5 Ideas for Sharing Jesus at Christmas

1. Invite another family to Christmas Eve services. Then use it as a Gospel conversation starter.

If there’s ever a time people are pre-conditioned to go to church, it’s on Christmas Eve. The Christmas story becomes an excellent entry point to the Gospel message. Maybe have visitors over for some eggnog afterward. Ask non-threatening questions such as “So why do you think the story of Jesus’ birth is so important to so many churches?” or “What was the most meaningful part of the service to you?” Both questions can become a jumping-off point for sharing Jesus at Christmas.

2. Write a personal letter explaining the Gospel in the context of Christmas.

Nothing is more powerful than a handwritten, heartfelt letter. A letter is both personal and permanent (because typically people don’t throw them away!). The entire book of John is a handwritten letter, primarily written to people who had not yet believed in Jesus. That’s why the Apostle wrote, “These things were written that you might believe that Jesus is the Son of God and that by believing you may have life through his name” (John 20:31).

At some point, you can make the salvation segue. For example: “During this Christmas season, I cannot help but think of you and how much you mean to me. That’s why I wanted to share something that means the most to me…my relationship with Jesus.”

3. Send someone a link to a short video that clearly shares the Gospel.

Many videos are great for sharing Jesus at Christmas. Here are a few:

  • Life in Six Words: This spoken-word piece from Propaganda is clear, compelling and, well, very cool. It’s truly a viral video that millions of believers and nonbelievers alike have seen. Check it out here.
  • Falling Plates: This visually stunning presentation of the Good News is sure to capture people’s attention. Check it out here.
  • Something Amazing: This animated Gospel presentation is short and sweet (two minutes). But it gets the job done! Check it out here.

Short Night Prayer Ideas for Children and Christian Families

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Short night prayer ideas that are meaningful and not the “same old same old” will be a hit with families. Christian parents want to help their children grow closer to Jesus, and praying is a key part of that. But by bedtime, little ones (and parents) are often exhausted and cranky. So shorter bedtime prayers are always a big need.

Bedtime prayers can begin from infancy. Remember to keep prayers age-appropriate, using language that children can relate to. Although repetition helps younger kids get into the habit of praying, variety maintains their interest as they grow.

To help you provide short night prayer suggestions to parents, we’ve collected a variety of ideas below. Parents can use these bedtime prayers to close the day, thank God, and help kids pray for others.

10 Short Night Prayer Resources for Families

Praise and pray to God with these bedtime prayers:

1. Begin with Babies

Parents can model prayerfulness from the very beginning. After babies are born, life becomes incredibly busy. But prayer needs abound! So speak to God aloud with your infant, starting with these sample prayers about health, protection, and faith.

2. Pray with and for Toddlers

Check out these tips for making the most of prayer time with young children. What a blessing to pray Scripture over toddlers and help them become friends with Jesus!

3. Blessings & Benedictions

Short blessings from the Bible make wonderful short night prayer times. Here you’ll find special benedictions from both the Old and New Testaments.

4. Rhymes for Bedtime Prayers

By preschool age, children love rhythm and rhymes. So choose a short night prayer from this list of 41 rhyming ideas.

5. Short & Sweet

This website provides 15 tried-and-true simple prayers for bedtime. Plus, you’ll find 10 key benefits of praying with children.

Youth Christmas Parties: 14 Creative and Festive Ideas for Teens

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Youth Christmas parties are filled with games, snacks, goofy gifts, and lots of laughter. Teens often become little kids at the holidays, eager to gather under the Christmas tree and create new memories.

In youth ministry, a Christmas party is a wonderful way to celebrate Jesus’ birth, enjoy fellowship, and welcome guests. Encourage youth group members to invite friends or classmates. Then kick off the event with some Christmas-themed icebreakers to get to know one another.

For youth Christmas parties that include any kind of exchange (gifts, cookies, ornaments), keep extras handy in case someone forgets or shows up at the last minute.

Need suggestions for pulling off epic youth Christmas parties? We’ve collected some of our favorites, including fresh twists on classic holiday party ideas. Merry Christmas to you and your youth group!

14 Theme Ideas for Youth Christmas Parties

Get into the spirit of the season with these party suggestions:

1. Christmas Karaoke

First, break out the holiday tunes and microphones. Then challenge kids to some rounds of karaoke. This idea for a youth Christmas party works great in conjunction with decorating the church or youth room for the season.

2. Ugly Christmas Sweaters

Gawdy holiday apparel abounds. If you want to be different, swap out ugly Christmas socks. Or have kids bring a pair of “festive” (aka ugly) holiday socks for a gift exchange.

3. Grinchy Games

Let out your inner grinch with some fun (and funny) Christmas activities for youth. For example, have kids each determine their Grinch name!

4. Christmas Movie Marathon

Host a low-key Christmas party that involves binging on favorite holiday flicks. Be sure to preview them ahead of time—and to have the proper permissions in place.

5. Wrap Party

Invite teens to get their gift-wrapping done as a group. Better yet, have teens offer to help wrap presents for parents of young children. Or teens can host a children’s ministry Christmas party while parents shop and wrap gifts on their own.

6. Christmas Photo Ops

Set up photo props so you can take holiday photos of your youth group members. Once you have a snapshot worth keeping, let kids get silly with their cameras.

7. Christmas Scavenger Hunt

This takes a bit of planning, but resources are available online. Weather permitting, head outside and take kids on a memorable seek-and-find adventure.

‘I’m Greatly Concerned’—Rep. Jon Dunwell Talks to ChurchLeaders About The Satanic Temple Controversy

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Rep. Jon Dunwell of the Iowa House of Representatives joined ChurchLeaders Friday, Dec. 15, to discuss the criticism he has received for defending the religious freedoms of The Satanic Temple (TST), which recently erected a holiday display in the Iowa State Capitol. Dunwell, who is also a pastor, angered Christians this past week, opposition that culminated in Mississippi resident Michael Cassidy allegedly vandalizing the TST display Thursday.

RELATED: Pastor and Iowa State Rep. Jon Dunwell Fields Accusations He Is a ‘Heretic’ for Defending Religious Rights of The Satanic Temple

On Dec. 2, The Satanic Temple Iowa announced that the group had a holiday display featuring a depiction of Baphomet at the Iowa State Capitol building. While many Christians viewed the display as demonic and argued that Dunwell should fight to remove it, he instead defended the right of The Satanic Temple, a religious organization, to have the display. TST is a non-theistic organization but is recognized by the IRS as a religion and has tax-exempt status. 

Numerous people responded by criticizing Dunwell, and quite a few accused the pastor of opposing God and needing to repent. ChurchLeaders spoke to Dunwell about his experience as a pastor and politician, as well as his thoughts about the TST display and the backlash he received. This interview has been edited for length and clarity.

Kat Von D on Living in a Parsonage, Attending a Small Church and Choosing Gratitude

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Tattoo artist Kat Von D, who was recently baptized after returning to the Christian faith, revealed that she and her family are currently living in an Indiana parsonage. During the pandemic, Von D left California, seeking a town in the “middle of nowhere.”

RELATED: Tattoo Artist Kat Von D, Who Previously Renounced the Occult, Gets Baptized

She and her family ended up in Vevay, Indiana, a town of 1,700 people near the Kentucky border. Because the 1874 mansion they purchased needs extensive renovations, Von D’s pastor is letting them stay in the unused parsonage.

Von D talked about her new community and church on a recent episode of comedian Theo Von’s podcast “This Past Weekend.” The tattoo artist and TV star, whose parents were Seventh-day Adventist missionaries in Mexico, shared details of her upbringing. She also discussed her sobriety, facing criticism from other Christians, and homeschooling her son.

Kat Von D on the Benefits of a Small Church

Kat Von D, 41, is a member of Switzerland Baptist Church, where she attends Bible studies and relishes the small church environment. When people are absent, they’re missed, she said, adding that she genuinely misses her church family when she travels back to Los Angeles for work. “I’ve never really had that before,” she said, noting that she is estranged from several family members.

Von D said she still gets teary-eyed seeing the video of her baptism. She described making her way back to Christianity in the past five years and having a different understanding of it than when she was a child. Her desire to learn, coupled with 17 years of sobriety, have led her in the direction of growing her faith. “It’s such an intimate and personal thing,” she said. “My relationship with God is my own and…I’ve never really felt like I belonged anywhere.”

Going public with her faith put her under a microscope, Von D said. “I get criticized from all sides now, which I don’t care because at the end of the day…my relationship’s with God, not you.” The tattoo artist, who dresses in black, said people seem to be “close-minded” about her appearance.

“I get called demonic a lot, or ‘you’re serving two masters,’” she said. “There’s no dress code to be a Christian…I thought I was going to get hate from my existing fans [but] they’ve been super loving and open-minded…It’s been the other side that I was just so surprised [about],” she said, referencing criticism from fellow believers.

RELATED: Christians ‘Were the Worst’—Kat Von D Responds to Criticism About Her Baptism

Kat Von D Is Determined To Keep Praising God

Kat Von D, who used to be a “big-time drug user,” said quitting cigarettes has been her biggest challenge. When her son, now 5, caught her smoking one day and asked what the smell was, she said, “I just felt like such a loser. I was like, I can’t be that mom.”

Von D, who moved from California partly due to the state’s governmental restrictions, is homeschooling her son. “Indiana is very supportive to homeschool families,” she said. “The less government the better.”

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