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Jesus Community: The Goal of Every Church and Small Group

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When Jesus came 2,000 years ago, he built a Jesus community. He did not just offer a message of salvation that resulted in a different belief structure. He offered a different way of life—called the kingdom of God—that included a different kind of vision for community. The Jesus kingdom was not something anyone would have expected. No one—this cannot be reiterated enough—no one could have predicted that God’s way would look like self-sacrificial love hanging on a cross. The king the nation of Israel expected was not supposed to die.

The Israelites of the first century expected a normal king—their word for this was “Messiah,” which is christos in the Greek New Testament—but that’s not what they got. And most did not see what was going on. John put it this way: “The true light that gives light to everyone was coming into the world. He was in the world, and though the world was made through him, the world did not recognize him. He came to that which was his own, but his own did not receive him” (John 1:9-11). They did not have ears to hear Jesus and his way.

Jesus Community: The Goal of Every Church and Small Group

The people of Israel had a different imagination for the kind of kingdom God would bring, and this included a specific vision for community. Four popular versions of community of the time illustrate this point:

A realistic vision for the kingdom: This was the strategy of the Sadducees and the Herodians. These two groups, each in their own way, asked, “What is possible within the circumstances at hand?” Since the Romans were in charge, they tried to make the best of things and work within the rules of the power brokers.

A radical vision for the kingdom: The Zealots took this approach. They sought to establish Israel by meeting the violence of the Romans with equivalent violence. They were training to drive out the Romans with power.

An exclusive vision for the kingdom: A group called the Essenses adopted this strategy. They withdrew to the desert to escape the pollution of the culture so they could set up the new kingdom of God in pure form.

An ideal vision for the kingdom: The Pharisees followed this pattern. While they lived among the populace, they established an ideal way of doing “church” that separated themselves from the culture at large. Their goal was to find the right way to serve God so that others would join them and thereby usher in the kingdom of God.

Valentine’s Day Bulletin Board Ideas: 12 Lovely Kidmin Displays

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Valentine’s Day bulletin board ideas are a sweet way to celebrate and share God’s love. Plus, in children’s ministry hallways and classrooms, these displays are perfect for expressing love for the young students you teach.

If you need some inspiration, check out all the creative Valentine’s Day bulletin board ideas below. They caught our attention online, so we wanted to share these vibrant, love-filled bulletin boards. Adapt them to fit your kidmin program, and enlist volunteers to pitch in. Send out a call for help, and some crafty parents might step up as your church’s bulletin board pros!

12 Valentine’s Day Bulletin Board Ideas for Church

Enjoy scrolling through these 12 heartfelt Valentine’s Day bulletin board ideas for children’s ministry!

1. Love Letters From God

We adore this mailbox-themed display. Each message highlights a Bible verse telling of God’s great love. Click here to see another variation on this idea.

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2. Give God Your Heart

This Valentine’s Day bulletin board will make an impact any time of the year. It’s ideal for older kids as well as teens and adults.

Valentine's Day bulletin board ideas

3. God’s Valentine

Using an acrostic, this love-themed bulletin board shares the good news of John 3:16.

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4. This I Know

Create this display based on the classic Sunday school song “Jesus Loves Me.” Click here for another variation on this theme.

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5. In God’s Hands

We love how this bulletin board features children’s handprints in hearts. It’s perfect for a church’s nursery department. The caption proclaims “Our Hearts Are in His Hands.”

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6. Sweet Promises From Scripture

This candy-themed Valentine’s Day bulletin board declares that “God’s Promises Are Sweet.”

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Video of Premature Baby Raising Hand in Worship as Father Sings in NICU Goes Viral

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A Texas father, 33-year-old Daniel Johnson, went viral after posting a video of himself singing to his 2 1/2-month-old baby boy who was born four months premature.

“That moment you’re singing a worship song to your NICU baby and he raises his hands in worship,” Johnson’s video said.

Johnson, who drives a truck for living, wrote the comment that his son, Remington Hayze Johnson, is “proof that God is faithful.” According to Johnson, his son was given only a 21% chance of survival, but “today we are 2 1/2 months old giving God all the praise He deserves.”

Johnson’s wife, Emily, took the video, which shows her husband holding their newborn son and singing “Hallelujah Here Below,” a worship song by Elevation Worship.

“Should the fire that once burned bright become an ember my eyes can’t see, I will remember your sacrifice. I will abide in your love for me. Oh, we sing hallelujah, hallelujah, hallelujah. We sing hallelujah, hallelujah, hallelujah,” Johnson sang.

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As Johnson sang the words, “Hallelujah, hallelujah,” baby Remington raised his little hand in the air like he was praising Jesus alongside his father.

Baby Remington brought a smile to his soft-singing father’s face, an expression that quickly turned to tears of joy as he looked at his son hooked up to a medical system that helps him breathe.

Johnson’s TikTok video has received over 236,000 likes and inspired more than 12,500 people to post a comment.

One person said, “This has me in tears!! Anyone who sees this has to believe there is a mighty God!! Bless his little heart!” Another wrote, “Wherever two or more are gathered— our Father God was there with you and your sweet baby. Prayers and hugs for you all.”

Another commented, “Baby’s hands went right up on Hallelujah. The highest praise…be exalted Father.”

During an interview with “Good Morning America,” Emily explained that doctors performed an emergency C-section after her contractions wouldn’t stop.

‘That Is Not in the Bible’—Candace Cameron Bure and Tara-Leigh Cobble Discuss Untrue Sayings That Make Us Feel Good

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There are some common sayings some Christians believe that appear to be empowering, but are actually false, say Candace Cameron Bure and Tara-Leigh Cobble. The two women discussed this idea in a broader conversation about the Holy Spirit in the Jan. 18 episode of Bure’s podcast. 

“I don’t have any wisdom of my own,” explained Cobble, the creator and host of The Bible Recap, a podcast that helps people read through the Bible in a year. “Any wisdom that I speak to you or anybody else is given to me by God. It’s him at work in me and through me. Any comfort that I might offer anybody is meaningless if it all just terminates on some platitude I dreamed up.”

Bure agreed, saying, “And there’s no other way to know what that is unless you’re reading the Word of God.”

Candace Cameron Bure Talks With Tara-Leigh Cobble

Candace Cameron Bure and Tara-Leigh Cobble spent some time near the beginning of the podcast discussing experiences they have had where their faith came alive, such as when they visited certain parts of the world or spent time in worship with people in the global church.

As the two discussed the beauty of being encouraged by other believers through the Holy Spirit, they agreed that God’s Spirit must be at work in the encouragement for it to be worthwhile. “A lot of things sound really good when you see them on social media,” said Cobble, giving as an example the cliché, “God’s never going to give you more than you can handle.”

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“No,” said Cobble. “That is not in the Bible.” God does in fact give us more than we can handle and then gives us the power to make it through those situations with support from other believers. Cobble continued, “Those kind of platitudes that make us feel really empowered a lot of times are not accurate. They’re not biblically true. And that leads to a lot of despair when you feel like, ‘Oh man, I didn’t have enough faith to pull that off.’”

While some people emphasize the mysteriousness of the Holy Spirit, Cobble said she’s been encouraged to know that “what the Spirit does for a lot of us is clarify things. He teaches and he guides, and there’s clarity in teaching.”

Focusing on the fruit of the Spirit, Bure shared how the quality of kindness, always a value of hers, became even more important after her experience co-hosting “The View” for two years. 

“In front of the camera it can look like a hostile environment because it’s five opinionated women giving their opinions on very hot topics that are mostly political, sometimes religious topics and social topics,” said Bure, who added that she represented a perspective that was not really represented by the other women.

Ryan Leak: How to Level Up as a Leader

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Have you ever wondered why sometimes we overcomplicate the process of growing and developing as a ministry leader? In this conversation on FrontStage BackStage, host Jason Daye is joined by Ryan Leak. Ryan is an executive coach who has worked with Fortune 500 companies, professional athletes, churches and ministry leaders across the country. Ryan is a USA Today best-selling author, and his latest book, entitled Leveling Up, has just released. Together, Ryan and Jason look at some of the challenges that pastors experience when it comes to self-leadership. And then we explore some simple, yet very meaningful, ways that we can grow and develop on both the front stage and backstage of our life and ministry. 

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Watch the entire episode here.

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Patrick Mahomes and Jalen Hurts Express Gratitude to God Ahead of Super Bowl LVII

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Super Bowl LVII will feature the first-ever matchup between two Black quarterbacks—both of whom are outspoken Christians. Patrick Mahomes is taking the Kansas City Chiefs to their third Super Bowl in four years, and Jalen Hurts of the Philadelphia Eagles is making his debut at the big game.

After yesterday’s AFC and NFL Championship matchups, both athletes expressed their gratitude to God.

Patrick Mahomes Thanks God Ahead of Super Bowl LVII

Mahomes, usually an agile runner, has a high ankle sprain that limited his mobility Sunday against the Bengals. The 27-year-old quarterback, seen limping during the AFC battle at Arrowhead Stadium, credits God with providing physical strength and healing.

“I want to thank God,” Mahomes told Tracy Wolfson of CBS during a post-game interview. “He healed my body this week. To battle through that, he gave me the strength to be out here.”

As Church Leaders has reported, Mahomes grew up going to church and was baptized in the seventh grade. He has described faith as “always…a big part of what I do,” saying it “really helps you know why you’re playing the game, and who you’re doing it for.”

Chiefs co-owner Clark Hunt, also an outspoken Christian, partners with local churches and the Fellowship of Christian Athletes to hold chapel services at Arrowhead before home games. After Sunday’s 23-20 victory against Cincinnati, he accepted the Lamar Hunt AFC Championship Trophy, named for his late father, saying, “The Lord has blessed our family in so many ways, including with the best fan base.”

Eagles QB Jalen Hurts References John 13:7

Hurts, 24, also speaks frequently about his faith in Jesus. After Sunday’s NFC Championship game at Philadelphia’s Lincoln Financial Field, he expressed gratitude for God and his teammates. “Only God knows the things that each individual on this team has been able to overcome to come together as a team and do something special,” he said.

The Eagles, who lost only three games during the regular season, defeated the injury-stricken San Francisco 49ers by a score of 31-7.

Speaking to reporters afterward, Hurts referenced his rocky road from second-round draft pick to Super Bowl contender. “It always handles itself,” he said of life’s twists and turns. “My favorite [Bible] verse, I went through a lot of stuff in college, and it kind of stuck with me, John 13:7: ‘You may not know now, but later you’ll understand.’ Hopefully people understand.”

Jacksonville Church Holds Open Forum Following Criticism Over Stance on Gender, Sexuality, Marriage

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First Baptist Church in Jacksonville, Florida, is responding to backlash surrounding a statement of belief on human gender and sexuality that the church recently instituted as a requirement for membership. Existing members must sign the statement to remain so, and all attendees applying for membership moving forward will be required to do the same. 

Affiliated with the Southern Baptist Convention, the Florida church has a large attendance across two locations in Jacksonville. Their statement on gender and sexuality was approved via congregational vote by the church’s membership in October 2022, and current members have until March 19 to sign the statement to maintain their membership status. 

Those who do not sign the statement would be eligible to regain membership in the future if they chose to go through the membership process again, which includes a membership class, committing to the church’s statement of faith (including the statement on sexuality), and being voted in by the church. 

Those who forfeit membership would not be prohibited from attending the church. However, they would lose the privileges of being a member, which include voting on church decisions. 

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The statement on gender and sexuality reads as follows:

As a member of First Baptist Church, I believe that God creates people in his image as either male or female, and that this creation is a fixed matter of human biology, not individual choice. I believe marriage is instituted by God, not government, is between one man and one woman, and is the only context for sexual desire and expression.

This statement reaffirms the church’s previously held teaching on the matter and is in alignment with the Baptist Faith & Message 2000, which serves as the uniting statement of belief for all Southern Baptists and says, “Marriage is the uniting of one man and one woman in covenant commitment for a lifetime. It is God’s unique gift to reveal the union between Christ and His church and to provide for the man and the woman in marriage the framework for intimate companionship, the channel of sexual expression according to biblical standards, and the means for procreation of the human race.”

Nevertheless, the church has become the subject of considerable criticism for the statement, which some have accused of being part and parcel of a larger culture of homophobia and transphobia. 

In October, senior pastor Heath Lambert explained in a blog post that the church had already received backlash. That criticism came from the venue space the church had rented to record an explainer video regarding the statement. 

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In that video, Lambert referred to those who advocate for the sexual revolution as having an “extremist agenda” and said that “they will not rest until their confusion has permeated every area of society and silenced every voice of opposition.”

Women and Children Welcomed in California Church’s New ‘Village’

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The Meridian-Amikas Village at Meridian Baptist Church in El Cajon, Calif., welcomed its first residents in late December.

EL CAJON, Calif. (BP) – When the first residents moved into the newly built emergency shelters on the campus of Meridian Baptist Church, it was the fulfillment of a ministry idea years in the making.

Since late December, three previously homeless women and their children have been sheltered in the emergency facilities located on Meridian’s property.

Rolland Slade, senior pastor at Meridian Baptist Church in El Cajon, said the need is great, as San Diego County (of which El Cajon is a suburb) has one of the largest homeless populations in the country.

“It’s a way to tackle this issue of homelessness, and it’s a way for us to maximize our opportunity to be salt and light for the community,” Slade said.

One woman who had lived in her car for three years was moved to tears at the thought of sleeping in a bed.

Upon viewing the shelter for the first time, Slade said one of the first residents was overwhelmed with emotion.

Slade said he was concerned that everything in the shelter would be ready and presentable, while she was overcome with tears simply upon seeing a place with a bed where she could be comfortable.

She had been sleeping in her car for three years.

“These shelters specifically give women with children a place of rest so that they can engage the system and move to the next level whether it is other temporary housing or more permanent housing,” Slade said.

Slade explained the shelters are on Meridian’s property and were built by more than 100 volunteers from the church, but many more have lent a hand.

Classified as a pilot project, the endeavor involves Meridian Baptist, a local non-profit focused on homeless women and children called Amikas, the city of El Cajon (including the city council) and a social service agency called Home Start of San Diego County.

Plans for the village of shelters, named the Meridian-Amikas Village, began in 2019 when Slade became convicted about homelessness in his city. He called it the biggest issue local elected officials are dealing with.

Slade joined the board of Amikas, and plans were soon underway for the pilot project.

First Indictments in Dobbs-Related Attacks on Pregnancy Care Centers

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TAMPA, Florida (BP) – A Florida man and woman have been indicted in U.S. District Court on charges of attacking a pregnancy support center in the Sunshine State.

Caleb Hunter Freestone and Amber Marie Smith-Stewart face charges of violating the Freedom of Access to Clinic Entrances Act between May and July 2022 by attacking pregnancy support centers in Hollywood, Fla., and Hialeah, Fla.

“I am glad to see progress made towards justice for a few of these centers and hope that other centers that faced violence will also be granted that opportunity,” Hannah Daniel told Baptist Press in written comments.

Daniel serves as a policy manager based in Washington D.C. for the SBC Ethics & Religious Liberty Commission.

Dozens of support pregnancy support centers reported attacks and vandalism in the days and weeks of the May 2022 leak by a U.S. Supreme Court case that would Roe vs. Wade would be overturned.

The SCOTUS decision on Dobbs vs. Jackson Women’s Health Organization was announced on June 24, 2022.

Freestone and Smith-Stewart are the first two to be indicted on related federal charges.

Last week, the FBI announced a reward of up to $25,000 for information that led to arrests in cases across the country.

The pair are accused of painting messages such as “YOUR TIME IS UP!!”, “WE’RE COMING FOR U” and “We are everywhere.” and “If abortions aren’t SAFE then niether (sic) are you.”

“While some abortion activists chose violence and vandalism to express their outrage following the Dobbs decisions, pregnancy resource centers across the country rolled up their sleeves and pressed on doing the important work of serving mothers and their children that they’ve been doing for decades,” Daniel wrote.

A June 25, 2022 post on the Roe’s Revenge website said, “Everyone with the urge to paint, to burn, to cut, to jam: now is the time. Go forth and manifest the things you wish to see. Stay safe, and practice your cursive.”

This article originally appeared on BaptistPress.com.

Single Mother Knew ‘Life Was the Choice’

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Whitney McCluskey, center holding photograph, chose an open adoption for her baby Josiah. With her are, from right, adoptive parents Mike and Tabitha, Whitney's grandmother Barbara Dyer, Whitney's stepfather Keith, Whitney's older son Ashton, Whitney's mother Denise, and Whitney's "spiritual mother" Dawn Adkins.

GEORGETOWN, Texas (BP) – Abortion was never an option for Whitney McCluskey.

After earning a master’s degree in biblical counseling during her fourth stay in a residential Christian drug treatment facility, she was sober.

She was telling others of the Lord’s goodness and teaching her then 13-year-old son Ashton abstinence before marriage while attending Eden Westside Baptist Church in Pell City, Ala.

Ashton Teague holds his younger brother Josiah.

“I was doing exactly what I wanted to do. Doing what I had prayed for. I was helping women get their children back who had lost them from a drug addiction. And so I was doing everything I wanted,” 35-year-old McCluskey told Baptist Press. “Then one night, out of the blue, I called an ex and well, ended up pregnant.

“I was so depressed when I found out, because I felt I had let so many people down. Here I am. I’m sober. I’m sharing my testimony. I’m living for God. And then I make one mistake,” McClusky said. “I wouldn’t say it’s a mistake now, because obviously we got Josiah out of it and I wouldn’t change anything for the world. But the way I was thinking in that moment was I messed up.”

McCluskey’s dilemma was whether to become the single mother of two sons, or whether to choose adoption for her unborn son. She wavered nearly until Josiah was born on Jan. 12, 2022.

“Honestly, I did not make the final decision until I was nine months pregnant and I was going into the hospital the very next week to give birth. It was up ‘til the very end. I was back and forth my entire pregnancy.”

Everyone close to McCluskey seemed to have an opinion of what was best.

“You want to keep your child; you’re gonna regret this; you’re gonna do this…”

McCluskey reached out to a friend she considers her spiritual mother, a counselor who had helped her through drug addiction treatment at Radical Restoration Ministries Texas in Georgetown.

She moved to Texas for clarity and to escape what she felt was incessant judgment and input from those around her.

“Everybody thought I was crazy. I quit my job at seven months pregnant and moved to Texas. No idea what I’m going to do. And so really, the whole experience was stressful. It was very stressful.”

McCluskey chose to place her newborn in adoption through Lifeline Children’s Services, a Christian adoption and foster care agency with a legacy of protecting life in the U.S. and internationally.

McCluskey sees God’s hand in her choice of the adoptive parents, Mike and Tabitha. Usually, Lifeline chooses the adoptive family.

“It was funny because when I first started looking at Lifeline and looking at families, I saw this one family and I said, ‘If I choose to adopt, this is who I’m going to go with,’” McCluskey said. “Nine months later, not knowing they were still going to be available, they were. The way God just worked it all out, it was all in His hands. The whole thing was just God.”

McCluskey met God early in life, despite a tumultuous youth.

She began using drugs at age 14, she said, and would attend church while high on drugs.

“My drug of choice was everything. The older I got, the worse the drug got,” she said. “Towards the end of my addiction was meth and heroine, and I was on the needle. That was towards the end. It got to that point.”

Now sober, she has her own apartment, attends church while seeking a church to join, tithes and pays her household bills. Successful sobriety came during her fourth enrollment in drug treatment. She tells of an encounter at the altar before God.

“I remember telling God I’m tired of looking left and right. I’m tired of seeking validation from drugs, and from men, and from everything but You,” McCluskey recalled. “I knew that people could be set free because I’d seen it around me. I knew people could do it but it hadn’t happened for me. And so I was mad. I was angry. Why hadn’t this happened for me?

North Carolina Pastor Reconciles With Parents Who Abandoned Him as a Child

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Steven Cox, pastor of Peace Baptist Church in Whiteville, N.C., baptizes his father in 2021.

WHITEVILLE, N.C. (BP) – For years, pastor Steven Cox of Peace Baptist Church held a deep anger toward his parents, who abandoned him when he was a child. Now, with God’s help, Cox has a good relationship with them both and is in the process of discipling his father.

Cox told Baptist Press some examples of spiritual fruit he has seen in his parents include are his mother’s peaceful and encouraging relationship with him and his dad’s decision to follow Christ. Cox baptized his dad at Peace Baptist in 2021.

Pastor Steven Cox prays with his mother at the altar of Peace Baptist Church.

“I can now confidently say that both my parents love and care for me dearly and I do have a growing and thriving relationship with them,” Cox said. “All three of us are continuing to learn even more about each other.”

“I’m learning my Dad is actually a loving and caring person. He’s inviting me into his world, and I’m inviting him into my world. When I hang out with him, I see it as a discipleship process. My Mom texts and talks to me almost every week to just check up on me. We haven’t even had an argument in like two years. This wasn’t the case growing up.”

Cox said the restoration process was slow, and it took several years after becoming a Christian to begin the process of forgiveness.

The couple had Cox when they were in their early 20s, but separated when he was a baby. By the time he was 2, it was decided that Cox would go to live with his father while his sister would go to live with their mother.

Cox would soon come to stay with his step-aunt, where he would spend most of his childhood. He would see his parents off and on, but sometimes would go months or years without seeing either or both of them.

Drugs, violence and all types of immorality were the norm at his aunt’s house. Cox would sometimes participate by stealing things and selling drugs for his aunt.

Describing himself as an angry child who always wanted to fight, Cox said the root of bitterness began to grow in his heart.

“I was seeing all this and just wondering why is my life like this?” Cox said.

Steven Cox was arrested for drug possession as a teenager. He now pastors a church not far from the neighborhood where he was arrested.

“I had friends with both parents in their life, so around age 6 to 13 I started forming a deep hatred and bitterness toward both my parents. This hatred kept growing. I didn’t want to be around them.

“I thought there was something wrong with me or weird with me. I would literally shake my fist to the sky and just say, ‘God why do you hate me so much? Why did my life end up like this?’”

During his teenage years, Cox began living with his grandparents who were strong Christians.

His grandmother would often talk to him about Jesus and invite him to church, but he was uninterested and can count on his hands the number of times he went.

That all changed when he graduated high school. The challenges of the real world mixed with an increase in drug use caused Cox to fall into an extremely dark place.

“Something dark was just happening in my life, and I just felt weird and knew something was wrong in my life.,” Cox said.

“I just knew there was always something different about my grandparents. I remember calling my grandmother one Friday and asking, ‘Will you go with me to church on Sunday? I need to be saved.’

“I couldn’t tell you what the preacher said, but I knew when I walked into that church I needed to get saved. After the service, I went down to the altar of that small North Carolina church, and a friend of mine led me to the Lord.”

Tyre Nichols Police Beating Video Prompts Faith Leaders To React With Grief, Goals

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An image of Tyre Nichols and the words "JUSTICE FOR TYRE NICHOLS" are projected onto a building as demonstrators protest Friday, Jan. 27, 2023, in Washington, over the death of Tyre Nichols, who died after being beaten by Memphis police officers on Jan. 7. (AP Photo/Carolyn Kaster)

(RNS) — Religious leaders reacted swiftly — with legislative appeals and collective grief — to the release of video footage of police officers beating Tyre Nichols, a Black man who died days after a traffic stop in Memphis, Tennessee.

Church of God in Christ Presiding Bishop J. Drew Sheard, whose historically Black denomination has its headquarters in Memphis, issued a statement Friday (Jan. 27) addressing the “shocking death” of Nichols, a 29-year-old FedEx worker who died on Jan. 10 in a local hospital.

“We understand the frustration and outrage of citizens at the brutal nature of the death of yet another Black man by those committed to serve and protect,” Sheard said in comments released in writing and via video. “Our heartfelt condolences and prayers go out to his family and friends during this difficult time.”

He said his denomination commends the police department’s quick termination of officers involved in the beating and the “appropriate charges” filed against them.

“We unequivocally applaud the daily commitment of most police officers and appreciate their willingness to put their lives on the line,” Sheard added. “However, we cannot ignore that many individuals have experienced unjust targeting, humiliation, loss of physical freedom, physical harm, and even death at the hands of relatively few officers.”

Protesters march Friday, Jan. 27, 2023, in Memphis, Tenn., as authorities release police video depicting five Memphis officers beating Tyre Nichols, whose death resulted in murder charges and provoked outrage at the country's latest instance of police brutality. (AP Photo/Gerald Herbert)

Protesters march Friday, Jan. 27, 2023, in Memphis, Tenn., as authorities release police video depicting five Memphis officers beating Tyre Nichols, whose death resulted in murder charges and provoked outrage at the country’s latest instance of police brutality. (AP Photo/Gerald Herbert)

Texas Baptist College Student Arrested on Sexual Abuse Charges, Dismissed From School

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Editor’s Note: In support of the sixth strategic action of Vision 2025 adopted by messengers to the 2021 SBC Annual Meeting, Baptist Press will continue to report every instance of sexual abuse related to Southern Baptist churches, entities, institutions or leaders of which we are made aware.

FORT WORTH (BP) – A statement released by the Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary announced their cooperation with local authorities and immediate action in regard to a now-former student who was arrested on abuse charges:

“At roughly 1:00 p.m. this afternoon, Southwestern Seminary became aware of an outstanding warrant for Christian Flores, a Texas Baptist College student, for one count of felony sexual assault. Immediately upon becoming aware of the warrant, Southwestern Seminary Campus Police began working with the Fort Worth Police Department and the Burleson Police Department to locate and arrest the student. The student turned himself in at approximately 4:00 p.m. and was arrested by the Burleson Police Department. He has been immediately suspended as a student, pending the outcome of the investigation.

Southwestern Seminary takes seriously allegations of sexual assault. If you or someone you know is a victim of sexual assault, please report it to the appropriate persons on campus or local law enforcement.”

Repeated requests by Baptist Press to the Burleson Police Department for a police report and a photo of Flores were denied.

This article originally appeared here.

Why Christians Must Watch Their Tone on Social Media

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We’ve all had our momentswhen someone attacks us with a comment of such sheer stupidity that you just can’t let it slide. So rather than be outright mean, we just answer in a condescending, snarky way that nails them—and at the same time puts them in their place. (And firmly establishes our intellectual superiority.)

I could name a few very intelligent Christians who do it regularly. It could be those who are so sure of their theology, they just can’t let any of those heretics get by. It’s also a regular tool for Christians who are trying WAY too hard to appear liberal and broadminded – and are happy to put those of of us who are just too narrow in our place. And it certainly happens on a wide range of topics from politics, to culture, to theology, to movie reviews.

They can often be very funny, but is that really the way Christians should respond?

Like I said, I’m as guilty as anybody, but in almost every case, I immediately feel badly about it. I may feel great for a moment, but the minute I hit “Send,” conviction starts creeping in.

And I hate seeing people I know end up on the losing end of the stick when they simply brought up an honest question to someone they admired—only to get slammed for it.

Looking over a number of those posts recently, I just wonder what the rest of the world thinks. When our answers to each other (and to non-believers) are so condescending—even hostile—I can’t help but wonder if outsiders look at us and see no difference between us and the world.

I’m not making a point here, I’m just thinking out loud. And in that process, thinking that I could do a much better job of responding to questions and even criticism with a little more grace.

After all, there’s a difference between answers that make people think, and answers that humiliate.

And I’ve never met anyone who accepted Christ because he or she was embarrassed into the decision.

This article originally appeared here and is used by permission. 

How Do We Best Help the Poor and Needy in Our Communities?

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I think the most important principle is you can’t effectively help needy people you don’t know. Now, there are exceptions. You might say, “I know the people who work with them, and I financially support their ministry.” But the principle still stands that someone has to actually know the people being ministered to.

We’ll never have a heart for people we don’t see and spend time with. If we don’t know anyone who’s poor—if we don’t go out in our communities to meet people, strike up conversations, and get to know them—we can’t see what we can do for them. We need to take the initiative of volunteering at a soup kitchen, doing downtown ministry, or participating in some other outreach to those in need.

We can also encourage our churches to support these ministries, and then start volunteering ourselves. Churches often get involved in a ministry when some members are invested in giving of their time and developing relationships.

Nanci and I have experience that in our home church, Good Shepherd Community Church. One of our members walked away from his very profitable medical practice and set up what’s called The Good News Clinic in one of the poorest areas of our community. Churches support them. People volunteer, including physicians and nurses, as well as trained therapists and people with counseling skills because the clinic’s patients need more than physical care—they need emotional and mental care too, and most importantly they need to hear the Good News of Christ.

But you’ve got to get out there and actually connect. Certainly, missions trips to poor parts of the world are important, though they don’t involve the poor in our own community. But there are truly poor people around us. We need to meet these people and see what’s being done for them, instead of writing them all off as drug addicts and people who are just trying to bleed the system. Many of these people have very complex stories that involve abuse, hurt, and pain, and some of them are veterans. You just don’t know until you get close enough to meet them and minister to them, as God’s Word calls us to do.

For some of us it’s a question of walking down the block and getting to know the poor. For others it’s driving twenty miles to find a homeless person. Perhaps I must take regular trips away from the cozy suburbs to the inner city. Whole churches have become involved in projects of helping the poor. Some youth groups take regular trips to Mexico. Others put on camps and evangelistic Bible clubs for inner-city children. Churches can go to the ghettos, the jails, the hospitals, and rest homes—wherever there is need.

God links our efforts for the poor directly to our relationship with Him. May he one day say of us what he said of King Josiah: “He defended the cause of the poor and needy, and so all went well. Is that not what it means to know me?” (Jeremiah 22:16).

This article about helping the poor and needy in our communities originally appeared here, and is used by permission.

Why We All Need to Do a Motive Check on Church Growth

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So you want your church to grow. Wonderful. Check on church growth when it comes to your motives.

Here’s a challenging question: Why?

Your motivation for wanting your church to grow is pivotal for a number of significant reasons.

First, if you’re a church leader, it’s not your church, it’s God’s. And one day you’ll give an account to God for what you did with what he entrusted to you and why you did it.

Second, ultimately, I think people can tell what your motivation really is. Eventually, people can sense whether you care about the mission, whether you care about them or whether you’re just using them.

Third, your motivation is an integrity issue. And integrity ultimately determines whether what you build stands, in the same way that a house with structural integrity will stand for a century when a poorly built home won’t.

Wanting your church to grow isn’t a bad thing at all. A passion for the mission inevitably means a passion for reaching more people, which in turn implies growth. The purest motive in leadership will be simply that you want people to come to know the love, forgiveness and fullness of life in Jesus Christ.

Yet not everyone wants their church to grow for the right reasons.

And the question becomes: Whether you’re intrigued with church growth or not, how do you know where you stand?

To some extent, I believe we ALL need to do a motive check on church growth, whether you love seeing growth or whether you criticize church leaders who do.

In the name of making this an all-skate, I’ll share five motivations all of us who think about church growth, are working toward it or are experiencing it, need to check.

Then I’ll share three motive checks that might be helpful for the critics of growing churches and those who even dislike the idea of church growth.

What Is Moral Failure – and Should We Take Action?

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Saddleback worship pastor Rick Munchow passed away a few years ago, but his teaching continues to bless the church. He was once asked to define–precisely–what is moral failure and what we mean when we use the phrase? The question: “You stated in a past article that you have removed individuals due to moral failure. I had to remove a band member for moral failure, but have been accused of being judgmental. Some are saying ‘we all sin and have fallen short of the glory of God.’ Could you clarify what moral failure would warrant removal and what steps do you take to restore the individual after the fact?”

What Is Moral Failure – and Should We Take Action?

“No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it.” Hebrews 12:11

What is moral failure? Moral failure is a church membership issue. My pastor, Rick Warren, had to address this issue in the church’s 21st year, so please read the transcript from that address. Since moral failure is not a worship team-specific issue, I don’t have my own separate process for the worship team.

What is moral failure? It is true that all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God. It is also true that we must be careful to guard well our integrity and reputation as we represent Christ and our church. As they say, it takes a lifetime to build a good reputation and just one poor decision to ruin it.

2 Biblical Reasons to Remove Someone From Ministry Due to Moral Failure:

1. The loss of the right to lead due to the failure.

2. The need to regroup and put a life back together again.

An individual in this situation needs time to reflect and just work on themselves. In my experience, many times moral failure happens because we’ve been so busy doing the work of the ministry that we are closer to the work than we are to the Lord.

Some examples of moral failure include:

  • gossip
  • pride
  • inappropriate emotional relationships
  • dishonesty
  • malicious dissention or stirring up trouble
  • adultery
  • and major family issues that need to be addressed.

6 Things to Do When You Worry About What People Think

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For as far back as I can remember, I’ve worried too much about what people think of me. Sometimes when I walk into a room, I think all eyes look at me, and all people think about me. I believe they judge what I wear, what I look like and what kind of mood I’m in. This all comes before I even open my mouth. I worry too much about what people think of me.

Once my mouth opens, I shift gears to worrying about what I say. Will I say the right or the wrong thing? And not only did I say the right things, but did I say them in the right way? Will I talk too much or too little? Then the comparison starts as I think everyone else says something better than me. I worry so much about what people think about me.

Call me neurotic, but many of you know exactly what I’m talking about. No, I don’t always live this way, and you don’t always operate like this either. But, way too often, you and I care too much about what people think.

A few years ago, my friend Rob captured this struggle well in describing his sin patterns. He confessed he struggled with the sin of worshiping his reputation.

Earlier this week, I received an appropriate, but critical, comment on a blog post I wrote. Later that day, I was (lovingly) challenged a few times in a meeting (for good reason). I left work that day with my head low, sulking, strongly disliking myself and hating my reputation. And, I cared too much about what others thought of me.

I no longer want to worship my reputation.

When I think rightly, I realize all that matters is what God says about me. As much as the applause of man (and woman) seems to matter, I find comfort when I remember verses like the following:

  • Psalm 139:13-14 – “For it was you who created my inward parts; you knit me together in my mother’s womb. I will praise you because I have been remarkably and wondrously made. Your works are wondrous, and I know this very well.”
  • Romans 5:8 – “But God proves his own love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.”
  • 1 Corinthians 6:19-20 – “Don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought at a price. So glorify God with your body.”
  • Galatians 1:10 – “For am I now trying to persuade people, or God? Or am I striving to please people? If I were still trying to please people, I would not be a servant of Christ.”

These verses remind me that I am made by God—He created me. He purchased me at a high price—the price of His Son—even while in the midst of my rebellion and sin. And, my aim in life is to worship God—not my reputation. He is pleased with me because of Jesus.

When I left work, I got in my car and prayed. I recited scripture to myself and reminded myself of what’s true and right.

I write this for a few reasons:

  • First, I just want to confess that sometimes I worry way too much what you think of me. I don’t want to live in fear of you!
  • Second, if you, like me, worship your reputation, I want you to know a few ways to deal with this sin struggle.

6 Things to Do When You Worry About What People Think

1. Pray.

Ask God for help. James 1:5 says, “Now if any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God—who gives to all generously and ungrudgingly—and it will be given to him.” God wants to help you in your struggle! Don’t box Him out. Ask for help.

10 Times When You Can Make an Impact in the Lives of Parents

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Parents: we know they are the biggest influence in their children’s lives. They have the most time with their child. They are called to be the primary spiritual leader of their child. They have the strongest relationship with their child.

If you want to influence children for Christ, then you must start by influencing their parents. Your goal should be to influence the greatest influencers in a child’s life…their parents.

Let’s look at 10 key times when you can impact the lives of parents who will in return influence their children.

Key Time #1 – A Child Enters the World

In the race to a child’s heart, the first one there wins. (George Barna)

Be there for young couples during the nine months they are preparing to be parents. Get them connected to a small group for new parents. Encourage them. Pray for them. Offer preparation for parenting resources that will help equip them for this most important task.

Key #2 – Dedication of Parents and Children

Notice that it is called PARENT and child dedication. I would encourage you to include parents in the preparation for their child being dedicated. Parents should play a major role in this event.

Include a parent and child dedication class that couples must attend before they can dedicate their child. In this class, emphasize what the dedication means, why children should be dedicated and the crucial role that parents play in raising kids that follow Jesus for a lifetime. Here are a couple of resources you can use for this.

Give each parent a copy of the book “Fertile Soil…See Kids’ Faith Grow and Flourish for a Lifetime.”

Have each parent go through the Parent and Child Dedication Class. At this link, there are great resources for the class and dedication.

Key #3 – Bible Presentation

When a child is entering their kindergarten and lower elementary years, you can influence parents to make the Bible a key part of their life and their child’s life.

Host a class / workshop about the Bible. They will learn how we got the Bible and how to make it an important part of their life. They will also be able to see and understand God’s Big Story found in the Bible and how they are part of it.

This class / workshop will make a big impact in the lives of children and their parents. I have a curriculum for this class at this link. It can be a life-changing class. You can get the Bible presentation at this link.

Key #4 – Salvation Class

When their child begins to ask questions about following Jesus, parents will normally come looking for help. You can impact parents during this time as they prepare to lead their child to Jesus. If you really want to impact parents during this time, you will offer a salvation class. In this class, you can clearly share what it means to follow Jesus.

Often you will impact parents during this time and see them make a decision to follow Jesus as well. You can get more information about this class at this link. It is one of the most important times you can impact parents.

Key #5 – Baptism

Parents will also come to you when their child starts talking about being baptized. This is another time when you can impact their life and the life of their child. Once again, you can provide a class for parents and their children about what baptism means, who should be baptized, when you should be baptized, etc. The class is available at this link.

If you really want to impact parents during this time, offer parents the opportunity to help with their child’s baptism. When you do this, you will also have the opportunity to see parents come to Christ and get baptized with their child. I have seen this happen time and time again.

What Is Prayer? All the Ways We Misunderstand Prayer

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What is prayer? It’s been said that “definitions must always be the starting point for…two people entering into meaningful discussion.”[1] We know that prayer is necessary; we know it doesn’t come naturally to us. Like the disciples, we need to be taught how to pray. But it does us no good to talk about prayer and how it shapes the church if we can’t first agree on what prayer is.

You may be saying, “This seems like a waste of time. Everybody knows what prayer is. You don’t even have to be Christian to know what prayer is.” Not so fast. Sometimes the most common words are the hardest to define.

How often have you used the word so? No one ever stops you midsentence to ask you to clarify your use of so. It seems like a word that doesn’t need to be defined. But go ahead, define it (without a dictionary or Google).

You see what I mean? It’s a word that’s easier to use than to define. Sometimes, the most common words cause the most confusion, and prayer isn’t exempt.

LAYING A FOUNDATION: WHAT IS PRAYER?

Definitions for prayer abound. Here are a few:

What is prayer? Prayer is talking to God. Just talk to God like you would talk to your best friend. You don’t need to learn to talk to God. Just do it.

What is prayer? Prayer is demanding something from God. Prayer is our decreeing and demanding that God would do what we want him to do. It’s wrestling with him until he gives us what we want. God plays hard to get in order to see just how much we want what we pray for. We have to demand what we want from him. We need to name it and claim it.

What is prayer? Prayer is aligning our will with God’s. Prayer isn’t about getting anything from God or causing him to act. He knows what you need and has already determined if he’s going to give it to you. Prayer is really all about aligning your will to his. Prayer is more for you than it is for God.

What is prayer? Prayer is wishful thinking aimed in God’s direction. Prayer is nothing more than well wishes when you hear about a tragedy, or wishful thinking when you hear someone is hopeful about an outcome.

Prayer is some combination of all of these things.

Who’s right? We can’t just settle for any definition. We need the right one. Why? Because misinterpretation leads to misapplication.

Did you ever hear the story about the guy who got his mom an expensive parrot for Mother’s Day? He paid $10,000 for a parrot that could speak 40 languages and sing a few hymns. He sent the bird to his mom and didn’t hear back for a few days. Nervous that she didn’t like the bird, he called his mom and asked her, “How’d you like the bird?” to which she replied, “It was great!” Filled with pride, the son asked, “What was your favorite part?” She answered, “The thighs. They were delicious.” Wrong interpretation, wrong application.

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