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Scripture Memory: One Encouragement and One Warning

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In my twenties, I spent a lot of time sleeping in camp motel rooms, eating powdered eggs, and leading youth camp worship services. At one such event, I was on stage, getting ready to lead the post-sermon worship, when the camp speaker – Afshin Ziafat – asked the students a question about Scripture memory. Jesus saved Afshin out of a Muslim background, so this is how he phrased the question: “If I was still a Muslim, how many of you could walk on stage and share the Gospel with me, using only the Scripture that you have memorized?” I remember standing behind Afshin and thinking “Lord, please don’t let him call on me.”

Up to this point in my life, I had put a lot of time and effort into my craft. I led worship 3 times per week, I learned how to take care of my voice and project to an audience, I memorized every song on that first Jars of Clay record (even the ones in alternate tunings), but I had not given much time or effort to Scripture memory.

It was in this moment that I felt convicted by the Holy Spirit to devote myself to hiding God’s Word in my heart. From my perspective, this is when my real ministry work began.

One Encouragement: Make Scripture memory part of your daily routine.

My daily to-do list includes three non-negotiables: Bible reading, prayer, and Bible memory. There’s no “day off” to rest FROM these disciplines.

Trust me, I’ve tried that. If I spend my “day off” watching college football, drinking Dr. Pepper, and reading sports blogs, I will end up feeling irritable and restless by the end of the day. The Bible tells me (and experience has shown me) that true rest is found in Jesus (Matthew 11:28), and I encounter Jesus through Scripture memory, so even vacation days and lazy Saturdays should include time spent hiding God’s Word in my heart.

The Bible doesn’t prescribe a method for Scripture memory. It simply encourages us to do it (Psalm 119:11). For me, the “Bible Memory” app has been helpful.

I usually (not always) start my day by reading a passage from a Bible reading plan, and when a verse sticks out during my time of reading, I add it to my Bible Memory app. Then, I simply make sure that I’ve spent time working through the verses that are assigned to me on the app each day. The app makes sure that these verses are in good rotation throughout the year. If I add a verse on Monday, it’ll make sure that I review it a few times that week. If I get the verse correct each time, the app will put it into a weekly rotation (then monthly, then bi-monthly, etc).

Because the app is on my phone, I can use it while waiting on an oil change, during commercial breaks of a basketball game, in moments when I would otherwise be looking at Instagram, etc. I start my day with Bible reading, but this discipline of Bible memory happens throughout the day, whenever the opportunity presents itself.

One Warning: Never quote Scripture for the sake of quoting Scripture.

My first Sunday at the Austin Stone was January 6, 2013. I must have quoted 10 or 15 Scriptures from the stage that day.  Later that week, Aaron Ivey took me out to lunch to share some encouragements with me. He also gave me a critique. In the kindest way possible, Aaron told me that my Scripture quoting was distracting.

What? My Scripture quoting was distracting?

Through Aaron’s gracious feedback and through the conviction of the Holy Spirit, I realized that people walked away from the worship service thinking “wow, that worship leader really knows his Bible verses.” Aaron didn’t say it in those words, but I could sense that this was the case. As a worship pastor, I never want the congregation to walk away thinking about my abilities as a musician, public speaker, Scripture memorizer, etc. I want them to walk away thinking about Jesus, so I should only quote Scripture in such a way that people would leave the service impressed by Jesus.

In response to this conviction, I began to read directly from the Bible during my call to worship. Yes, I could quote the Scripture from memory most Sundays, but who am I trying to impress? I want people to see that I am reading this passage straight from the Word. There are plenty of other ways that Scripture memory can affect my ministry. It comes out in pastoral conversations and prayers. It affects how I think and act and speak to others. Put simply, Scripture memory should make me look more like Jesus. So, there’s no need for me to dramatically quote a large portion of Scripture from memory in front of a large group of people, unless I am convicted by the Holy Spirit to do so.

Even without a public platform to display my Scripture memorization, I can trust that my time spent hiding God’s Word in my heart will not return empty (Isaiah 55:11).

This article about Scripture memory originally appeared here.

Dayton Pastor: The Church Cannot Get Distracted Right Now

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At 1:30 am on Sunday, August 4, 2019, Pastor Charlie Carroll was startled awake by a phone call from one of the members of his church. A gunman had killed nine people in the Oregon district of Dayton, Ohio, just three blocks from City Church, where Carroll is the lead pastor. After praying all night and speaking to congregants and community members over the phone, Carroll faced his congregation the next morning and offered a message to help them process the tragedy they had just witnessed. Now, Carroll has a message for the broader church: We cannot get distracted from our purpose, which is to be the first responders in the battle against evil. 

When shootings such as these happen, Carroll says we quickly gravitate toward conversations that blame “absolutely everything but evil,” and this conversation is actually distracting the church. 

Evil Is to Blame for the Dayton Shooting

Speaking to churchleaders.com, Carroll says whenever shootings such as these happen, the church often gets caught up in the nuances of the tragedy, like arguing about who is to blame and what the government should do to fix it. But Carroll says we need to stop asking what happened and start asking why it happened. That should be an easy answer for the church, considering the Bible tells us over and over again that evil is afoot in our world and that our adversary has come to steal, kill, and destroy. 

The reason these tragedies happen repeatedly, Carroll believes, is because the church gets lured away from its true calling, which is to represent the heart of God to the communities of which they are a part. “Too often we’re allowing culture or political systems to be the tail that wags the dog in the church. The church forfeits an opportunity for influence because we’re not saying ‘here’s how the Lord thinks about this situation.’”

Carroll admits that with his congregation, which is an ethnically and economically diverse group of people who have walked with God for varying amounts of time, he thinks about the possibility of something like this shooting happening in his congregation on a weekly basis. This is the risk one takes when entering into ministry, though. Carroll reasons this reality is similar to what the early believers had to deal with as well. “It’s a liability we have to accept,” he reasons, as we simultaneously lean “into the fact that the Lord is in control.” 

We as the church cannot act as people who have never read Ephesians 6, the passage of Scripture that explains what exactly we’re fighting against. Once again, the conversation around mental health, radicalization, and access to firearms should boil down to the need to stand against the spiritual darkness in our midst. 

“The shooting has made our congregation and our staff very aware of the reality of evil…We hate it…it’s tragic and your heart breaks for all of the victims.” Despite the tragedy, Carroll says “There is so much good happening in our city right now that we understand why some of these things happen.”

Carroll wrote a moving post on Instagram that gives voice to the suffering his community is experiencing.

 

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My heart breaks for the victims and families impacted by today’s shooting in #dayton. This includes the perpetrator and his family. I was reading varying stories from across the country when I saw a picture from an international news source where the perpetrator was deceased, facedown with his hands tied behind his back. I had to hold back tears as I instantly felt grief for his family, specifically his mom and dad, in light of losing both a son and daughter. Oh, how much you’d want to still run to him, to hold him one last time, no matter how horrible an atrocity he had just committed. You see, he, too, was a victim of some sorts. I did not know him but do know enough about childhood trauma to know how internally tormented he must have been to do what he did. Pray. Pray for everyone. Pray that we as a society stop giving so much time and attention to “how” these things happen and instead start searching for a more holistically driven “why” these things happen. Solely my opinion, but we have to stop ignoring evil and start considering the consequences of entertaining ourselves with it, in light of the day and age in which we are living—a day where mental health services are almost impossible to obtain and obsolete to those who need them most, while $3,000,000.00 was just awarded to the winner of a first-person shooter video game. When everything but evil gets entertained as to why this happened, history is doomed to repeat itself. #prayfordayton

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The Local Church Is the Hope of the World

According to Carroll (and several other church leaders), as the local church goes, so goes the community. This applies even more so when we’re faced with a tragedy. 

Carroll thinks of the church as ambassadors that have been given the spirit of God with power and who have been armed with tools such as prayer. “Will the church step up and see itself at the forefront of this battle against evil?” Carroll asks. Instead of getting sucked into the minutia of politics, Carroll says church members should act more like first responders who do their jobs of not only helping the wounded in these battles but also proactively going out to find those, like the person responsible for the Ohio shooting, “in their torment and isolation” to help them heal. And we are uniquely equipped to take on this role, Carroll says, because we’ve been given the same Spirit Jesus was given, which is the Holy Spirit of God

Politics, medicine, and law are all things that are a “direct reflection of the local church,” Carroll says. We have the next engineers, politicians, doctors sitting in our pews, he reasons, and if we can teach them how to respond to these tragedies, we’ll have a better response in the community. 

Not only are we equipping leaders to do their day jobs, the church also has another point of influence in a community: That of modeling how a body functions in a healthy way. “One of the signs of health is that when one part of a body hurts, the other parts hurt with it and compensate for it,” Carroll explains. 

‘Do something about this craziness,’ Pastor Urges

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Among those coping with the aftermath of this weekend’s mass shootings is a Texas pastor and civic leader whose daughter was shot three times. The Rev. Michael Grady spoke to NPR and on Facebook Live about his 33-year-old daughter Michelle Grady, who underwent multiple surgeries after being shot three times “by a madman” while leaving an El Paso Walmart.

“We’re praying for divine intervention,” says Grady, pastor of Prince of Peace Christian Fellowship. “We’re mixing faith and medicine together so that hopefully she will be able to recover.” On social media, a relative posted Sunday evening: “Michelle has successfully made it through her second surgery & is resting up. Thank you for the prayers & healing vibes thus far. Keep it coming!”

“Our communities are devastated”

Twenty-two people were killed and 26 were injured Saturday morning in El Paso when a 21-year-old gunman opened fire on back-to-school shoppers. Officials have labeled the attack domestic terrorism, saying the gunman apparently targeted Hispanics in the border community. At least seven Mexican nationals were among the dead. The gunman, now in custody, faces capital murder charges and possibly the death penalty.

Thirteen hours later, another massacre occurred in Dayton, Ohio, leaving nine dead and 27 injured in a busy restaurant district. The 24-year-old gunman, whose victims included his sister, was killed by police.

Grady, former president of the El Paso chapter of the NAACP, spoke at the hospital Sunday to Domingo Garcia, national president of LULAC (the League of United Latin American Citizens). After giving an update on his daughter’s condition, Grady urged politicians to take action, change their rhetoric, and “do something about this craziness” of gun violence.

“People are terrified,” Grady says. “Our communities are devastated. People are afraid to go into any location where there’s a large group of people. You should be able to go to Walmart and you should be able to move throughout the city and know that you and your loved ones are safe.”

“It’s time for us to do something”

Grady, who’s been a pastor for more than 50 years and served as president of El Paso’s Interdenominational Ministerial Alliance, says Texas Gov. Greg Abbott should call a special legislative session to pass “common-sense gun legislation.”

Saying the El Paso shooting is “indicative of the climate in this nation,” Grady also challenges President Trump to step up. “You have created an environment that’s hostile,” the pastor says. “People are angry…and they believe you’ve given them permission to act out of their aggression and their anger. I hope that you will change your rhetoric and do something that’s going to change our nation and bring people together instead of divide.”

Grady says he’ll be contacting local religious leaders to participate in a march planned for next Saturday. “El Paso is not going to lay down and settle for this kind of carnage. We’re going to come together in unity, in friendship, and in fellowship, and we’re going to make a difference,” he says. “We need to stand together in unity and confront this hate.”

Ladies with Special Needs Have a ‘Magical’ Time at 7th Miss Beautiful Pageant

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Seventeen girls and women with special needs were celebrated last Saturday at the 7th annual Miss Beautiful Pageant in Chattanooga, Tennessee. The event is similar to Tim Tebow’s Night to Shine, and more than 80 volunteers helped to make the ladies feel loved. 

“All the participants will have their hair, nails, and makeup done so it’s a lot of fun. People dedicate their whole day to make it happen,” Caitlyn Gobble, the event’s founder, told Channel 3 WRCBtv

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The Miss Beautiful Pageant started in 2013, and this year’s event was held on the evening of August 3rd at East Brainerd Church of Christ. The minimum age for being a participant is five years old, but there is no maximum age limit, and Gobble said she thought the oldest participant this year was 48. It’s normal for there to be around 80 volunteers to help make the event, not just possible, but a “magical experience.”

Each girl or woman who participates in the Miss Beautiful Pageant is paired with a female  “buddy of the day” who stays with the participant throughout the event and helps with anything she needs. During the first part of the pageant, volunteers help the participants get ready by doing their hair, nails and make-up. “They love it, getting all dolled up is their favorite part,” Gobble told WRCB. 

This year, not only did the participants get the chance to be pampered, but their mothers did as well. “Pageant momma’s, you deserve to be pampered too!!” said the pageant’s Facebook page, noting this was possible because a local business had offered to donate its services.

After getting ready, the participants have dinner and then travel to the church by limo hired at Charter Bus Tampa FL. When they arrive, people are waiting outside, clapping and cheering for them. Said Gobble, “When they step out of that limo and have a huge audience of people who are cheering for them and yelling for them– I think it hits them that wow– all those people are here for me– they are cheering for me.”

The main part of the pageant consists of the “Beauty Walk,” where each participant walks with an escort down a pink carpet. Then if they want, participants can take part in a talent show, which can include sign language, dancing and singing. Gobble said, “Some are really shy at first but just seeing them branch out and open up is really beautiful.” At the end of the pageant, each participant is awarded a title. 

The Miss Beautiful website says, “Since the beginning, it has always been our goal to provide an atmosphere where differences are not only loved, but appreciated.” This seems to be exactly what is happening. Regarding the 2018 Miss Beautiful Pageant, one mom said, “I have never seen my girls loved on SO well before.”

Russell Moore Exclusive: How to Pastor After the Shootings

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Editor’s Note: This video and article were originally published in February 2018, just after the Parkland, Florida school shooting. After the cluster of shootings the United States has recently experienced, our editorial team thought it would be helpful to revisit Russell Moore’s thoughts on pastoring in an age of shootings.


As churches gather to worship God on Sunday, just days after 17 died in a school shooting in Parkland, Florida, pastors will be struggling with what to tell their congregations.

In an exclusive interview for ChurchLeaders, Russell Moore, president of the Ethics & Religious Liberty Commission, advises church leaders not to give in to the temptation of easily explaining away evil or where God was as a gunman killed innocent teenagers.

Speaking to Maina Mwaura, Moore recommends pastors take the same approach to evil as Scripture that talks about the mystery of iniquity. Moore said, “God doesn’t give us the reason why he permitted that to happen or why it seems that God is silent… There are so many times that God’s own prophets are saying, ‘God where are you, you seem to be silent.’” Instead, Moore suggests pastors let their congregants take time to grieve and lament.  

But in the midst of their sorrow, Moore says to remind them that God is sovereign and just and one day will deal with evil once and for all.

Moore also believes that in this tragedy there is an opportunity for the church. He thinks it’s very possible that unbelievers will attend churches this Sunday to see how people are processing the senseless violence.

He tells of a friend who pastored a church in a town with another shooting. He invited everyone, believer and unbeliever, to attend the Sunday after the violence. In the service, pastors laid hands on and prayed over everyone who came. It presented an opportunity for ongoing ministry with people the church had never interacted with before.

Still, the question “why?” will persist.

Moore answers, “We live in a fallen world where things are not as they are supposed to be. I turn directly to the cross to show that God is not distant from this evil. He took that upon himself. Jesus also said this is the kind of world you’re in now. The spirit causes us to groan at the world around us.” 

Moore says this is the type of tragic event that brings the reality of evil to light for almost everyone, believer and unbeliever alike. For Christians we can say, “This is not how it’s supposed to be,” and Moore says that truth is one that needs to be shared with the culture at large.

Russell Moore is not alone in his advice to pastors addressing the shooting in their congregations this weekend.

How Doubting God Made My Faith Strong

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Doubting God in the end made my faith strong. Here’s why.

Growing up, I loved God. And I loved my church. I could see God at work there, and I could see that I was part of that work, part of the community. And then I got to high school, where I learned about evolution for the first time. Up until this point, I believed evolution was just a fringe theory that a guy named Darwin came up with after spending a little too much time alone with his thoughts on a tropical island. But when I learned about it in biology and religion classes, I was surprised by how strong the evidence for evolution was. And after reading up on it a little more, I ended up deciding that, yeah, I believed in evolution.

Believe it or not, that decision was the easy part. Because once I accepted evolution, I had to figure out where it fit into my faith. And that led to doubting God.

Evolution Led to Me Doubting God

The evolutionary version of the creation story is slow and messy and complicated—a tangled web of species both brought to life and killed off by a series of genetic detours and diversions. I knew God was a scientist just as much as an artist. But this process seemed wasteful and even cruel. Why would God, who is supposed to be all about standing up for the least of these, use a creation process that is based on survival of the fittest, the strongest?

As I struggled to put the pieces together, a thought crept into my head that I had never dared entertain before: What if the reason that none of this seemed to fit together was that there was no God? What if the world as we know it really did just come out of a big bang and natural selection? A world without God terrified me. It was no accident that I had always refused to consider the possibility before. But once I allowed that thought in, I was too scared that it was true to forget about it.

Doubting God Gave Me Fear-Tinted Glasses

I started to see everything through fear-tinted glasses that magnified the things that said, you’re right to have doubts, and distorted the rest of the picture. I was so afraid of losing my faith that I gave doubt everything it needed to grow in my heart.

I prayed. I read my Bible. But once I put those fear-tinted glasses on, it was like they were permanently adhered to my face. Eventually, something in my prayer or in Scripture would spark a new doubt or a new question I couldn’t answer. And I’d be surrounded by a sea of doubt, clinging to a mustard seed to keep my head above water.

For some people, this would be the part of the story where you confide in someone. Where you face the fact that you’re in the middle of a faith crisis, and you really need help.

But not me. Raising me and my siblings to love and serve God was my mom and dad’s number one goal as parents. I could have told them that I was going to be a teen mom or that I wanted to drop out of high school, that I crashed their car, or that I planned to permanently tattoo tiger stripes on my face. And they probably would have been upset, but eventually, they would have said, Well at least she’s still got her faith. 

And it wasn’t just my parents. Everyone around me seemed so sure of God; they didn’t seem to be doubting God. I didn’t think they would understand my doubts. And more than that, I didn’t want to disappoint them.

Instead, I came up with my own doubt eradication plan. I thought that if I could just manage to put the evolutionary and biblical creation stories together—to answer those questions that started this journey into doubt—the doubt would go away. And then nobody would have to know.

So I started researching. I found science and religion professors from Calvin who wrote about creation from an evolutionary perspective. And I actually read their academic papers in my spare time. As a 17-year-old. Which should give you an idea of how desperate I was for answers.

And in a way, I found answers. I learned that there were theologically sound ways to bring science into the creation story, ways that enriched the story instead of diminishing God’s role in it. And using what I learned, I was able to start rebuilding my creation theology.

What I wasn’t able to do was get rid of my doubts.

Now that I had questioned one part of my faith and discovered there was more to the story, everything seemed to be a little less sturdy. So I started this cycle where I would build this delicate tower of faith up, and then I’d come up with a question I couldn’t account for, and the whole thing would collapse on me. I’d have to rebuild my faith all over again.

This cycle continued into college, and along the way, I covered all the Doubting Thomas greatest hits: Why does God allow suffering? Why does God only answer some prayers? How come Christians don’t seem to act much like Christians?

The Only Thing We Truly Have a Right to Boast About

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What do you boast in?

Some people boast in how talented or beautiful they are. Others boast in how much they know. Some in what they own or how much they’ve accomplished. Some in how morally good they are. Some in the strength of their families.

Paul experienced some of those things, but he told the Galatians that he would never again boast about anything besides the gospel—a message that declared that Paul was such a miserable wreck that the Son of God had to endure a bloody death just to keep him out of hell (Gal. 6:14).

Paul boasted in his shame.

Paul’s boast in the gospel is like sitting in a room of millionaires and boasting about your collection of food stamps.

My family loves the comedian Brian Regan. Almost every family night includes us watching one of his sketches. One of our favorites is about the “Me Monster.” You know, the guy at the party who manages to turn the focus of every conversation toward himself. No matter what you’ve done, he’s done something better.

Brian wishes he had the chance to walk on the moon because then, he says, he’d always have a retort for the me-monster. “Oh yeah, well I walked on the moon.” Because, you know, nothing beats walking on the moon.

Paul believes there is something even better than that, however. And it is exactly the opposite of the me-monster boast.

He says, “I’ve been given the riches of Christ, sonship in heaven, the gift of the Holy Spirit and the promise that goodness and mercy will now follow me all the days of my life. And I deserved none of it. God gave me these things just because he loved me.”

The gospel, for Paul, is the ultimate dinner story boast.

It’s the only true humble brag. And one anyone can participate in.

Paul knew that the power found in the gospel was his only hope. Paul knew he didn’t have the resources to live the Christian life, much less fulfill the mission God had given him to take the gospel to the Gentiles! Paul says that in Jesus we have all the wisdom and power we need to do whatever it is that God has called us to do. That’s why he was comfortable being weak, overlooked, and despised. He was even enthusiastic about his suffering and his weaknesses if they meant being able to lean more into Christ (1 Cor 1:20–31; Col 1:24).

Do your insecurities and inadequacies push you deeper into gospel hope?

Or do your sufferings and weaknesses drive you further away from the gospel?

Perhaps you know the gospel, you just don’t boast in it. It’s not where you turn to assure yourself the future will be okay. It’s not the possession you are most excited to carry into tomorrow.

Paul says it must be—if you want the joy and confidence that characterizes those who turn the world upside down!

Paul rejoices that in the gospel we have the ultimate possession (the fullness of God), have experienced the ultimate love (at the cross), received the ultimate victory (deliverance from sin and death) and possess the ultimate assurance (Jesus now sits at the right hand of God controlling all things for my good). What more is there to boast in? Where else would we turn?

Martin Luther understood this.

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The German Protestant reformer may not have seen Jesus with his eyes like Paul did, but he did catch the same life-altering vision of the gospel. In the gospel, Luther found the resources for assurance in his own relationship with God. He also found the resources to awaken an exhausted, floundering, and defeated medieval church. Luther described his discovery of the gospel like a man falling down the shaft of a bell-tower and reaching out in desperation for the only rope available. As he grabbed it, he said, it not only broke his fall, it rang the bell and woke up half of Germany.

Something similar happens to all those who find the gospel.

How Does Discipleship Work When Everyone’s So Busy?

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How does discipleship work when everyone is so busy? Busy. We’re all busy. You won’t find many people who deny this. With so much going on, in and around us, it’s a wonder we find time to even be with our families, let alone make time to make disciples!

We Americans are the busiest people I know. We get up early, work hard, come home and recreate even harder, until we literally fall into bed, exhausted, at the end of each night. As we drift off to sleep, we dream of waking up and doing it all over again.

If you’re one of the lucky ones, you get the weekend off to rest from all the races. If not, you probably live for vacation days, holidays or, maybe even sick days.

How does discipleship work when everyone is so busy?

We are not created for busyness.

What if I told you we weren’t created to rest from our work, but actually to work from our rest? That the best life is unhurried and unrushed. That discipleship isn’t one more thing we have to do, it is everything we get to do. That making time to fulfill the Great Commission is actually one of the most life-giving things we get to do.

I’m certain Jesus didn’t leave us with this great mission so we could feel guilty every time we think of discipleship. Jesus never speaks to us to condemn us; he speaks to set us free.

His challenge in Matthew 28:19-20 to “go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you,” is for our benefit as disciple-makers, not just the benefit of the disciple.

So what if discipleship weren’t so hard? What if we didn’t have to spend much time going and looking for the right people? What if we didn’t have to pour over a curriculum for hours on end so we know what to say?

Jesus made it simple, so we ought to keep things simple, too!

How does discipleship work when everyone is so busy?Here are 3 things to keep in mind to help you practice discipleship in our busy culture.

1. Jesus is everywhere and so are your opportunities for discipleship.

One of the best parts about the Christian life is how Jesus is integrated into everything. If He really is a part of everything we do, then discipleship is all the time and everywhere.

You know what I needed to know as a young 20-something believer? I needed to know how to go to college as a Christian. How to date as a Christian. How to make huge life choices about my future while hearing the voice of God.

I had barely begun my relationship with Jesus. It felt like there was no way I was going to be able to discern any of this stuff on my own.

Discipleship became the tool God used to grow and develop my ability to live life with him. Through relationship, with other believers ahead of me, I watched, I listened, I learned and I implemented what I saw working in their lives.

I benefitted from seeing the realness of their actual lives; the good, the bad and the ugly.

A disciple is not greater than his teacher, but everyone, when fully trained, will become like his teacher (Luke 6:40).

How does discipleship work? I’m so thankful they invited me in. So thankful they didn’t make it a program, but just gave me access to their life, their family, their arguments, their parenting, their dinners, their recreational activities and even their failures.

I am different today because of the simple investment they made.

Baptism Around the World: Pools, Prisons, and Ponds [Photo Gallery]

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This is a beautiful photo gallery of baptism around the world.

A number of years ago, a man named Philip had an encounter with an official from Africa. After Philip shared the gospel with him, the official believed and desired to be baptized. The two men came to the only body of water at their disposal—presumably a stream or pond—and the official was baptized in front of an audience of One.

In twenty-first-century America, baptisms often look quite different. Although the outward symbol of faith is the same, many of us are submerged in a baptistry situated at the front of our church, maybe even in heated water.

But in many places around the world, people are baptized under the same circumstances as the Ethiopian eunuch in Acts 8—in whatever water is available and in front of only a handful of people. Some do so in relative secrecy to avoid persecution by governments or their community.

Though our baptisms have great differences, the same God is glorified by the visible reminder that someone has gone from death to life and now lives in a restored relationship with him. Let’s take a look at baptisms around the world and praise God for what he has accomplished.

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Photo by Wanne Dina.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

A church in a tiny fishing village in Mozambique was started in 2010 by Jeremiah Johnson, a short-term IMB missionary who died in a motorcycle accident on the field in April of that year. At the time of Johnson’s death, the church had only a few Christians. Nine years later, the church has grown tremendously and baptizes new believers off the shores of the village.

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Photo by Su.* Baptism around the world in South Africa.

The Kirkwood Prison in Port Elizabeth, South Africa, doesn’t have a tank suitable for baptizing inmates who come to faith. That doesn’t stop IMB missionary Helmer Jenson and his South African national partner, who are involved in a prison ministry through a local church, from helping inmates follow Christ’s example of baptism. They bring a deflated pool to the prison a week prior and leave it with the prison chaplain. On the morning of the baptism, inmate leaders are given permission to inflate the pool and fill it with water in the prison yard. The yard is lined with cell windows, so the baptisms are a very public testimony of the man’s choice to follow Jesus.

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Photo by Wanne Dina. Baptism around the world in Mozambique.

On the outskirts of a seaport neighborhood in Quelimane, Mozambique, a church leader helps people gathered to be baptized make their way down the muddy shore to a local pastor and IMB missionary Matthew Stauffer in the water. The church has grown quickly in recent years and desires to see the entire neighborhood soon baptized in these waters.

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Photo by Tim Shaw. Baptism around the world in Botswana.

When IMB missionaries Tim and Lee Shaw hosted volunteers from their home church in Georgia, they all decided to go to the village of Etsha in northern Botswana to evangelize among an unreached people. Three people came to faith and two were baptized. The only available body of water was swarming with crocodiles, so the Shaws had to come up with another plan. They found some cinderblocks and a tarp, built a makeshift tank, and baptized the two new Christians.

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Photo by Hugh Johnson. Baptism around the world in South Asia.

A local pastor and church elders in South Asia baptize new believers in a well outside a small rural church. New Christians in this country often ask to be baptized early in the morning and in less populated locations. Although it’s not illegal to be a Christian here, the country’s anti-conversion laws lead to intense scrutiny of existing Christians and new believers if a baptism has occurred.

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Photo by John Dina. Baptism around the world in Mozambique.

An IMB team in Mozambique incorporates the installation of fresh-water wells in their church planting efforts. One day, when they were working to install a well, they shared the gospel with a man who came to observe them. The man believed, so they brought him to the static waters of a nearby pond where he was baptized by a Mozambican pastor.

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Photo by Katlyn Pedroza. Baptism around the world in Germany.

In Germany, not every church has a baptistry, and some churches do not meet in traditional church buildings. Believers’ baptisms can take place in various locations—in the church, at a lake or at the ocean, in swimming pools and even in bathtubs. The baptism service is not simply an add-on event to the Sunday morning church service. The entire service revolves around the individual or individuals getting baptized.

After sharing his testimony of how he came to faith with this family and with the members of his house church, an older man on a hot summer’s day in Germany took a step of obedience by participating in baptism in a backyard pool. He had heard the gospel a number of times during weekly house church meetings before he finally put his trust in Jesus.

What’s Your Backup Plan?

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Many believe the highest priority of I.T. (Information Technology) is disaster recovery preparedness; the ability to recover after a major data loss. Or after ransomware. We often call that a backup plan, because it all starts with good backups. So, what’s your backup plan?

Is Data Really at Risk? Simply said, YES! Churches and ministries are not immune from data loss, and organizations deal with recovering from data loss at some level all the time. Consider these threats:

  • Data is stored on hard drives or flash storage somewhere, and like any man-made device, those can– and do– fail.
  • People accidently delete data.
  • Data is vulnerable to ransomware (virus-like malware that encrypts and locks data so it cannot be used again until a ransom is paid).
  • The buildings where your data is stored is vulnerable to man-made and natural disasters.

Apply to those an appropriate vulnerability-multiplier because we have an enemy that is interested in doing whatever it can to inhibit our progress in fulfilling the mission to which the Lord has called us.

Here’s What We Recommend, and Why. A good backup plan has the following components:

  • A good backup plan is comprehensive, and happens automatically. Backups should encompass everything needed to recover from a disaster quickly. And they should not need to be manually triggered, but should happen automatically. Like, every workday night.
  • Backups are tested on a schedule. When backups are made, they should immediately be tested by the backup software to ensure they are accurate backups. But that’s not enough! The backups should also be tested– perhaps monthly– to be certain what we think we can rely on really can be relied on. I recommend choosing a data folder at random each month and restoring it, then checking to see if the files that were restored can be opened. We have seen problems that keep the restored files from being usable; the only way to be certain is to test your backups before you need them.
  • A good back up plan has an off-site component. It is possible to lose an entire building to a disaster. For that reason, it is wise to have a recent backup stored with enough geographical separation to protect your organization from a larger disaster.

Here’s what we recommend:

  • Our favorite backup software to run at a server level is Veeam. For those using virtual server technology, Veeam can restore entire servers very quickly. Veeam can also do file-level restores and email-level restores for email servers.
  • We prefer backing up to tape rather than to other types of devices. Using LTO5 or LTO6 technology, it’s possible to backup very large servers quickly and efficiently. Some recommend online backup solutions and external hard drives, but they have challenges that cause us to think they’re not the best choice:
    • Online backup solutions are good for consumers, but not for full server backups. We know of three megachurches who tested their online backup solution provider’s offer to send the entire backup on a drive, and each of the three was not pleased with the results.
    • External hard drives have a lot of moving parts, and thus fail easily.
    • Tape is still the preferred choice of corporate America because it’s simple and reliable.
  • If a church or ministry is large enough to have a SAN (Storage Area Network), we encourage it to seek another church or ministry of similar size that is willing to exchange SAN replication.
  • Backup the entire data server each work night, and take one tape off-site weekly.

Going a Step Further: I like to take that strategy a step further when possible. If you have a Mac on your network with enough storage capacity, have your network synchronize its data to a folder on the Mac; we like Owncloud to accomplish this, but there are other tools available too. Then, using the Mac’s Time Machine app that is part of the operating system, backup the Mac to a large external hard drive. This will allow you to store versions of files going back as far as your external drive has the capacity to maintain.

My wife is a CA, and she shares office space with us. Most of her client projects are annual. Using this strategy, if she tries to open a spreadsheet that has become corrupt, we can restore a version going back more than a year from the last time she did work on behalf of that client!

Some call natural and man-made disasters resume-generating events for I.T. professionals who were not doing their due diligence in the backup/disaster recovery department. As personally tragic as that could be, imagine how tragic it would be for a church or ministry called to share the gospel and disciple believers– the most important calling on Earth!– if their data loss meant having to start from scratch! Disaster recovery is worth the effort and expense. So: what’s your backup plan? And do you test it?

 

This article originally appeared here, and is used by permission.

What I Wish I Had Known Before Marriage

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When we met with Debbie in her office for premarital counseling, Kristen and I nodded our heads up and down. We agreed with her assessment of our relationship and affirmed her concerns about our future. But we didn’t really understand what we needed to know before marriage.

  • “Sure, we’ll probably have some challenges with communication and unmet expectations.”
  • “Yes, I’ll struggle with people-pleasing and busyness.”
  • “Of course we know Kristen will seek to avoid conflict and hard conversations.”

But as soon as we got in the car and left her office, we laughed. There was no way we were going to struggle in our marriage. We were going to be different than all other married couples. I don’t care what our premarried assessment said, married life would be a piece of (wedding) cake for Kristen and me.

Now over 17 years into marriage, I wish we had paid more attention in those premarital counseling sessions! Some things you can learn before marriage, but others you learn the hard way—through experience. While we love being married to each other, over the course of the last 17 years, I’ve come to realize there’s a whole lot I wished I’d known before I got married. This post could be a full book, but to keep it brief, here some of the most important things I’ve learned along the way.

7 Things I Wish I Had Known Before Marriage

1. If you want a great marriage, then grow in your relationship with Jesus.

I knew before marriage that my relationship with Christ was significant. I just had no idea how much it would affect my marriage.

The number one way to grow a great marriage is to grow in intimacy with Christ. The more you become like Christ, the better the spouse you’ll become. Even though Jesus was not married, He still epitomized the characteristics of a godly spouse: holiness, purity, kindness, patience, love, and so much more.

When you grow in your relationship with Christ, you learn how to show grace, mercy, and forgiveness to one another (Ephesians 2:4-9). An in-depth explanation of how to grow in your relationship with Christ is beyond the scope of this article, but many of the classic spiritual disciplines can help us grow in our knowledge of and love for the Lord (i.e., bible study, prayer, service, scripture memory).

Every day you can take steps to become more like Christ, and this will in turn help grow your marriage. I knew I needed to build my life on the rock foundation of Jesus Christ (Matthew 7:24-27), but I had no idea how much intimacy with Jesus would help me to become a better husband.

I talk about building your marriage on a solid foundation in my new marriage book, Ready or Knot? 12 Conversations Every Couple Needs to Have before Marriage. Click here to find out more about Ready or Knot?.

2. Great marriages are forged in the daily decisions of life.

Most days as a married couple are, frankly, mundane. You wake up and head out in different directions. You pay bills, change diapers, and fold laundry. Most days are filled with the mundane, daily tasks.

In a way I didn’t grasp before marriage, I never knew how significant the little tasks are in building a great marriage. In reality, great marriages rise out of the small steps of faithfulness married couples must take every day.

Daily, Christian couples must learn to ask for and offer forgiveness. They must make time to communicate and resolve conflict. Great marriages are built with servant-hearted husbands and wives. If Jesus didn’t come to be served but to serve (Mark 10:45), then we must do the same.

Before marriage, I never realized how much faithfulness in the little things every day would matter.

3. I’m not as great as I think I am.

I know I have quirks and annoying habits, but marriage helps reveal these traits like no other relationship. It’s been said that marriage is like a full-length mirror that lets you see exactly what you look like. For example, I quickly realized how lazy and selfish I can be at times. In his book The Meaning of Marriage, Tim Keller discusses how marriage doesn’t create problems but rather helps reveal them in our lives.

While this indeed can be painful, I’m grateful for the ways marriage helps me become more aware of my faults and sin patterns.

37,000 People at NAYC Help with Disaster Relief

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Today is the last day of the North American Youth Conference (NAYC) in St. Louis, Missouri. Around 37,000 youth and chaperones are wrapping up the three-day event by participating in “Serve Day,” where they are providing people in the area with disaster recovery resources.

“Heading in to Day 3 of a call-confirming, life-changing #nayc19 over 1,000 have received the Holy Ghost. Numerous miracles,” one church posted on Instagram. “We are so thankful for the laughs and love this trip continues to bring!!”

NAYC Serve Day

NAYC 2019 took place in St. Louis from July 31st to August 2nd. Friday afternoon, the conference attendees filled 2000 buckets to assist the area with disaster relief. Reach Out America helped organize Serve Day, and Feed the Children donated supplies to the effort. Serve Day also received support from the UPS Foundation and the National Voluntary Organizations Active in Disaster.  Each bucket is worth $75 and contains cleaning supplies, personal care items, and back-to-school supplies for kids.

David Bernard, the general superintendent of the United Pentecostal Church told Fox2now St. Louis, “We often work through local churches so we have instant access to the community, and wherever there’s a need, like [the] tornadoes in Oklahoma or in southern Missouri a couple of years ago.” Bryan Parkey of Missouri Division United Pentecostal Church said having everyone is a “blessing to us as a city and as a state.” 

While the NAYC has been held biennially since 1979, this is the seventh Serve Day. The event used to be called “Project 22:39” because it is inspired by Matthew 22:39, which contains Jesus’ command to, “‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’” 

The Conference Experience

The NAYC is held every other year in different cities throughout the United States, although it seems to take place mainly in the southern and midwestern regions of the country. While there are no age restrictions, the conference is aimed at people between the ages of 12 and 25. 

It has also been growing. The 2015 NAYC conference sold out at 19,000 people, and the conference in 2017 hosted over 33,000. One attendee posted this on Instagram after the 2017 conference: “My reaction waking up this morning realizing we have 2 years before another NAYC. I will forever remember of His healing power and love.” #nayc2017

Now the number of people who are attending NAYC is so high that the conference has to be held at football stadiums. NAYC 2019 was held in “The Dome” in St. Louis. 

One attendee of this year’s conference posted this picture with the caption, “One of the best things about NAYC is when you don’t recognize that many people. What a great thing God is doing in the Earth! We love to bring our youth and see old friends, but this sea of beautiful faces is a picture of Heaven.”

Mothers Against Senseless Killings Undeterred After Two of Their Own Murdered

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On July 26, 2019, two mothers, Chantel Grant, 25, and Andrea Stoudemire, 35, were shot to death in their south side Chicago neighborhood. The two ladies were walking to a grocery store around 10 pm, just around the corner from where they usually stand watch with Mothers Against Senseless Killings (MASK). Despite two of their own being killed by the very thing they are mobilized to prevent, the group of mothers is undeterred and refusing to give in to fear.

“Spraying bullets on indefensible women is total cowardice,” MASK member Maria Pike told the Chicago Tribune. “They are a bunch of cowards. They have to be caught as soon as possible,” she emphasized.

What Is Mothers Against Senseless Killings?

MASK was founded in 2015 after a mother was shot and killed in the Englewood neighborhood of Chicago. MASK founder Tamar Manasseh mobilized a group of women to camp out on the busy corner of Stewart Avenue and 75th Street as a way to stand watch over the neighborhood, which is notorious for shootings and crime. In addition to preventing violence, the group hoped to address a root cause of the violence by creating a safe space for their children to eat, play and grow up together, thereby reducing the risk of them joining rival gangs in the future. 

Every summer day since 2015, the group has come together to cook food and let their children play. The moms are often seen wearing pink t-shirts which say “Moms on Patrol.” Grant and Stoudemire were a part of this tight-knit group. At a press conference, Manasseh said she was used to seeing Grant and her four children regularly. “Every day Chantell brought her kids here. Every day.” Stoudemire is also survived by four children. Manasseh described her as a protective person who “mothered other mothers.”

Manasseh says she has gotten little sleep since the shooting occurred last week. “For mothers to be killed in a place where mothers go to seek safety and sisterhood, I take that as a personal threat,” she said on Sunday at a news conference. “Because when you come for one of us, you better believe they came for all of us.” 

Despite Manasseh’s belief that the mothers were targeted, police assigned to the case have found no motive or arrested anyone. Police spokesman Anthony Guglielmi said the intended target of the shooting was a man who is affiliated with a gang and recently got out of prison. The man, 58, was shot in the arm and is not cooperating with police. Grant and Stoudemire were both shot multiple times in the chest. They both died at the hospital. 

MASK Isn’t Going Anywhere

MASK has set up a GoFundMe page to raise money for a $5,000 reward for information to help in the case. “No ones [sic] gonna save us. We must do it ourselves to make a difference,” the page explains. So far, the page has raised almost $30,000 in the three days it’s been active. 

The description of the fundraiser makes it clear the group has no intention of retreating from Englewood. “At this point, I don’t know if I’m more afraid for my life or what we are giving the children, our block and the entire community over to if our fear convinces us to leave our corner, abandon our mission, our school, and our people. Therefore, WE AREN’T GOING ANYWHERE,” the page declares. 

In addition to creating a safe space in Englewood, Manasseh has taken up another endeavor. She recently opened up a pizza restaurant to raise funds for the social work she’s trying to accomplish in Englewood. Peace of Pizza is located in the neighboring Beverly area. Profits from the restaurant will go to fund a school MASK is working to open in Englewood later this year. 

Just a few short days after her friends were murdered, Manasseh showed up to the grand opening of Peace of Pizza. Speaking to Block Club Chicago, Manasseh said, “This tragedy really tested our mettle and made us show what we really were made of, and today we get to put something into the community.” 

A Quick Guide to Leading Yourself Spiritually

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Here’s a quick guide to leading yourself spiritually.

As of this coming August, I will have been in full-time ministry for ten years. In many ways, I feel like I am just starting my journey and figuring out which direction to march. That being said, I also feel as if this time has been filled with many wins and learning opportunities for growth. One of my greatest obstacles has been learning how to best lead myself and to do so with greater spiritual intensity. This past January I was involved in a spiritual retreat with Southeastern University in Lakeland, Florida and it helped reshape the months that followed.

Here are three quick takeaways that could challenge you for leading yourself spiritually.

Leading Yourself Spiritually by Remembering the Sabbath

In my time of ministry, it has been easy to lose “off-days” or excuse away family time for work for God’s kingdom. Clearly, God states the importance of taking time to refresh and to do so intentionally. Over the last six months, I believe I have observed a Sabbath each week and I know it has strengthened my relationship with God, my family, and increased my leadership capacity. Jesus took breaks and time to reflect and so should I.

FOR THE SOUL TO BE WELL, IT NEEDS TO BE WITH GOD.

John Ortberg, Soul Keeping: Caring for the Most Important Part of You

Leading Yourself Spiritually by Listening: Shhhh… He’s Speaking

I recently followed through a book/ devotion guide that asked for several minutes of silence to begin and end the devotion. This was new, awkward, and somewhat difficult to embrace at the beginning stages, but I quickly learned the true value of purposefully sitting in silence. I found my mind and spirit far more open to scripture, prayer, and receptive to anything the Lord was impressing upon my life. As a result, our church staff is preparing to start the same devotional as we spiritually prepare for the coming season.

SIMPLY PUT, GOD OFTEN SPEAKS THE LOUDEST WHEN WE ARE THE QUIETEST.

Mark Batterson, Whisper: How to Hear the Voice of God

Leading Yourself Spiritually by Consistently and Honestly Self-Assessing

The first step in the path to better self-leadership is to consistently take moments of self-assessment. At the beginning of each month, I will take a morning to evaluate the previous weeks and determine what is working and what is not. This practice will shine a light on how my walk with the Lord is truly going and help better navigate where improvements can be made. I would challenge any believer to do the same, especially a one that is actively leading others into new realms of Christian growth.

SPIRITUAL LEADERSHIP EMERGES FROM OUR WILLINGNESS TO STAY INVOLVED WITH OUR OWN SOUL – THAT PLACE WHERE GOD’S SPIRIT IS AT WORK STIRRING UP OUR DEEPEST QUESTIONS AND LONGINGS TO DRAW US DEEPER INTO A RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM.

Ruth Haley Barton, Strengthening the Soul of Your Leadership

No matter the length of your service or capacity in which you serve, growing in your walk with the Lord should always be the top priority. Take this blog as a challenge to find your own areas of growth. Maybe your takeaway is that you are doing great or maybe you need to find a new approach to hearing God’s direction for your life. No matter your personal situation, know that believers around the world are praying with you and for you and God’s kingdom is better because of your service to Him.

This article about leading yourself spiritually originally appeared here

7 Life Changing Prayers for the Church

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It’s an incredibly powerful movement when an entire congregation reads the same devotional and then prays the same prayers for the church, together in agreement, asking for God’s favor and a breakthrough for life change. (The link to the online prayers is available in the book.)

Prayer connects us to the heart, mind, and power of God.

Prayer allows us a deeper understanding of the grace, truth, and purpose of God.

The longer I lead, the more I realize I’m just beginning to understand the depth, privilege, and significance of prayer. It is personal, powerful, and utterly life-changing. Yes, we can know all that intellectually, but to continue to learn that at a personal and experiential level helps us engage on the front lines of God’s purpose and plan.

This 21-day prayer experience got me thinking about more and specific prayers that would invite an incredible spiritual impact if the church leaders prayed them together. This could be done by the church board, staff, or maybe small group leaders.

All prayers are meaningful. All prayers count. All prayers matter to God. But it seems like there may be certain prayers that if prayed together, would move the heart of God.

Here’s a set of prayers for the church I’ve written, and I hope they will be encouraging to you and the leaders of your church. Be sure to pass this post on to them!

First, a quick shout out – I just read a great post by Brandon A. Cox, with his set of “Breakthrough Prayers.” The more prayers for the church, the better!

7 Life Changing Prayers for the Church

1) A prayer for reconciliation

Heavenly Father, thank you for your grace, kindness, and mercy. We know that the foundation of reconciliation begins between you and each of us individually. But you have also called us to pursue reconciliation whenever we experience conflict or division with each other.

Forgive us Father for the division we create in our churches.

Help us to work through unresolved conflict and extend grace and kindness to one another.

We ask that the unity of the Spirit would prevail so that we could live in such a way that brings glory to your name and bears fruit in the body of Christ.

2) A prayer for compassion

Jesus, we thank you for the compassion that you so lavishly and continually pour out upon us. Your Word makes it clear that you care deeply for those who are like sheep without a shepherd.

Your love is great for those in physical and financial need, for those who suffer, for the fatherless, for those who need healing, and so many more.

We pray Jesus that your spirit would prompt us to live out that same kind of compassion. May we do for one what we’d like to do for many. We pray that we would continue to grow as a compassionate, caring and loving church, starting with each of us as leaders.

3) A prayer for wisdom

God, thank you for the promise of your wisdom. Our thoughts, ideas, and creativity have little to no eternal value without you.

We pray for the courage to act upon that wisdom. May it help us as leaders in making good decisions.

Grant us the wisdom to more fully understand your will and purpose for the church, in the specific circumstances in which we serve. We seek your wisdom and guidance to lead the church in a way that brings glory and honor to you.

4) A prayer for redemption

Jesus, thank you for the price you paid on the cross that makes a way for the forgiveness of our sin. Your love and grace are overwhelming and extravagant.

We pray that our passion for those who are far from you would be contagious.  We ask that our hearts would be broken for the lost like yours.

We desire to see a flood of decisions to follow you, and baptism stories that move the hearts of many.

5) A prayer for maturity

Heavenly Father, in the same breath that we ask for your favor in redemption, we know that it’s your desire for every believer to mature in their faith. Thank you that you provide your Word, the Holy Spirit and the Church to help that take place.

The pull of the world is strong, temptation is ever present, and the spiritual battle is real. Yet we know that you are with us and provide a way for us to grow, mature and live a life that is pleasing to you.

We especially pray that we may serve our children and students in such a way that our growing faith inspires them to follow in the same footsteps.

6) A prayer for generosity

God, we could never out give you, but we want to give like you — generously. Thank you for all the good and perfect gifts you provide for us, and for the opportunities to advance the gospel.

We pray that our church would be generous with their time, finances, talents and abilities. We pray that we would be generous with kindness, patience, and encouragement.

We desire to be a church who serves others well. We desire to serve because it’s a privilege to be part of your Kingdom work and because we care about others. We pray that a spirit of generosity would prevail both inside the church, and outside into the community.

7) A prayer for transformation

Jesus, this is our big-picture prayer, and we are convinced that it aligns with your heart. We pray for true transformation in the lives of the people we serve. May there be tremendous life change!

We are asking for marriages to be restored, people to be freed from addictions, and healing to take place in broken hearts. We pray for teens to rise into leadership in their schools, for our business leaders to speak boldly for you, and that each of us would see ourselves as an ambassador of your transforming power.

May we carry your name well Jesus and see many lives changed for the good.

This article about prayers for the church originally appeared here.

5 Statements That Help Leaders Define Reality

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I began serving as a lead pastor in Canada almost five years ago. When I arrived I had to adjust not only to a new church and a new staff but to a new culture as well. Fortunately I prepared myself for the transition by reading several books about on-boarding, the process of adjusting to a new job. One book, You’re in Charge, Now What suggested a process to help new leaders define reality with his or her new staff. Whether you are new to a ministry or business leadership role or not, consider using this process with your staff to learn fresh insight about your work setting.

Within the first month I asked one of the longest tenured staff members lead a discussion with the entire staff during a staff meeting. I gave the team instructions and then stepped out for about 45 minutes. He lead them to complete these statements in a candid sharing time.

Here are the statements to help you define reality.

  1. We expect this from you…
  2. You need you to know this about us… (including what we believe we do well and where we need to improve as a staff)
  3. We want to know this about you and here are our concerns…
  4. Here are the burning issues now facing the church…
  5. Here are the major obstacles now facing the church...

After I left he recorded everyone’s responses on our conference room’s white board. When I returned, I read through each one and asked questions for further clarification. Here’s what I learned.

  • They wanted me to show that I cared for them through prayer, feedback, and truth telling.
  • They expected consistency and integrity.
  • They wanted to be taught, trained, and challenged.
  • They wanted to know what they could do better.
  • They wanted clear communication and clarity about their respective roles.
  • They wanted me to know that they worked hard and supported each other.
  • They wanted to know what was important to me, my boundaries, my personal struggles, and whether I wanted them to reply to every email I sent. 🙂
  • They wanted me to know that the church at the time faced financial challenges and trust issues.
  • They wanted me to know that I might face resistance to bringing change in the church.

This simple process provided an invaluable, honest, and simple way to help me define reality through the eyes of our staff. This experience helped me craft appropriate action plans to bring essential change for staff development and to the church at large.

My first eight months have been a joy and we’ve made great progress. This unique listening session helped set me up for success.

What tools have helped you define reality in your setting?

This article about helping leaders define reality originally appeared here

Campus Pastor: 6 Ways to Lead a Church When You Don’t Get to Preach

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How do you publicly lead a church when you’re a campus pastor, not the senior pastor?

That’s an ever increasing question. With the rise of multisite churches, more campus pastors are added to leadership circles every day. But leading as a campus pastor presents unique challenges. I want to address one of these challenges in this post:

How does a campus pastor cast vision for your church when you do not preach weekly?

As a senior pastor or primary teaching pastor, there is a 30-minute segment (or more) each and every week to cast vision, set direction and encourage missional engagement. But without the sermon spot, it becomes much more difficult to be an out-front leader. A good senior pastor will fill in some of these gaps with his leadership, but each campus location presents unique challenges that require unique leadership solutions. A senior pastor can cast a compelling organization-wide vision, but it is often up to the campus pastor to localize and conceptualize the mission and vision.

So how can a campus pastor publicly lead outside of the weekly sermon? Here are a few ways I try to lead at Watermarke Church:

1. Leverage the weekly communication opportunities.

Every week in our services, we have two opportunities to lead during the service outside of the sermon. The first is the welcome segment. I posted how we structure the welcome here, including an example. The welcome is more of a navigational spot than a vision casting spot, but it still presents a great opportunity to be the point leader over the location.

Second, we have a weekly offering segment, which is a perfect moment to engage our audience with vision. Whether we follow the worship set or a baptism, this spot allows me the opportunity to connect the dots between our engagement and our mission.

Side Note: As a campus pastor, I typically leverage both of these segments every week. It is very rare that I am in the building and not communicating these segments. And at times, I’ll even dismiss the service to add a final leadership moment.

2. Join volunteer orientations and regular meetings.

As often as I can, I drop into our new volunteer orientations and ongoing, regular volunteer meetings just to share a win or thank the volunteers. It’s a great way to stay connected to the people on the front lines of our ministry environments and presents a perfect opportunity to keep the vision out front.

3. Walk slowly down the aisles.

I have the pleasure (and complications) of leading a pretty large church, so it isn’t often I get to meet with our average attendees. That provides an important opportunity for me on Sunday mornings when our auditorium is full. Since I am not preaching most weeks, I can spend time in the auditorium rather than secluded in preparation. I try to walk slowly down the aisle. I look for people holding a first-time-guest gift. Engaging in conversations before and after the service is a great way to lead out front in a campus location.

4. Walk around DURING the service.

We have hundreds of volunteers serving during each service, and since I’m not preaching most weeks, I leverage this time to walk around and connect. Again, when you do not have the luxury of casting vision or setting direction during a sermon, leveraging the sermon time to connect with those not in the auditorium is a simple solution.

Guard Against Ransomware – Your Guide to Safety

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EDITOR’S NOTE: Ransomware isn’t new, but it’s making a comeback. (Indeed: it never left!) Our security columnist Steven Sundermeier produced the definitive ransomware primer for Ministry Tech Magazine more than three years ago. It turns out Steven may have been prophetic, because in recent months ransomeware has popped up on government, business, and church systems. From Steve’s article, here’s how to guard against ransomware.

Over the last few months, there is one topic raising eyebrows and raising security-awareness in the cybersecurity world: the rampant rise of ransomware. But you and your ministry can guard against ransomware.

Ransomware is a form of malware developed to encrypt (prohibit access to) files on a computer with the sole intent of extorting money from its victims (paying a ransom to recover encrypted files). Generally speaking, there are two main classifications for ransomware—Encryptor (encrypts all important files and demands a ransom to decrypt files) and Screen Locker (locks an infected system, preventing proper access until a ransom is paid). Most of the latest strains that our Thirtyseven4 Labs are observing fall under the Encryptor classification. In a report released by the FBI late last year, the FBI stated that they have received over 2,400 complaints about [Encryptor-style] ransomware for the year costing victims upwards of $24 million dollars.

While the ransoms demanded can vary, the individual dollar amount is typically around $200-$400 to restore files. According to internal research on our end, after carefully reverse engineering thousands of samples, we have seen this ransom set as high as $10,000. In fact, officials at Hollywood Presbyterian Hospital in Los Angeles said they paid the equivalent of $17,000.00 to the ransomware creators! Can you imagine having your critical (and potentially lifesaving) patient files encrypted and at the mercy of cyber thugs? And this wasn’t just a single hospital incident, there are numerous reports of other hospitals recently falling victim to ransomware within the last month. (i.e. Baltimore’s Union Memorial Hospital, Chino Valley Medical Center, Desert Valley Hospital and the list goes on).

So you may be asking how all these individuals and organizations are becoming infected with ransomware. In the case of the hospitals above, security professionals believe they have traced the infections to “phishing” emails. Phishing emails may contain links to websites that are infected with malware. Most ransomware infections are a result of opening an infected email attachment. Ransomware attachments have been maliciously and cleverly disguised as Invoices, Resumes, Mail Package Delivery Confirmations, etc. to trick users into opening them. A user or company could also get infected by using an infected USB drive, through unpatched security vulnerabilities or visiting an infected website through drive-by-downloading). In one of the most recent cases, Cisco’s Talos group discovered that ransomware authors were taking advantages of an older version of Follett library management software, in association with JBoss web servers. The cyber criminals would use a known vulnerability in this software to install thousands of backdoors putting over 3 million computers at risk.

To paint a picture of the severity of the ransomware threat, in 2014 the ransomware “CryptoWall” infected 600,000 computers and took 5 billion files hostage! Here at Thirtyseven4, we have seen ransomware detections shoot up by 300% in the 1st Quarter of 2016 (from the 4th Quarter 2015), and our Thirtyseven4 Viruslab has already discovered 28 new families of ransomware. Here is one more additional statistic that is both startling and sad: about 50% of users and businesses hit with ransomware pay the criminals the demanded ransom to get (or maybe not get) their data back.

According to the issued DHS Alert, the US-CERT (United Stated Computer Emergency Readiness Team) to guard against ransomware they recommend that users and administrators take the following preventive measures to protect their computer networks from ransomware infection:

Go back to a paper file system. Just kidding—wanted to see if you were paying attention! The following are the real recommendations . . .

  1. Employ a data backup and recovery plan for all critical information. Perform and test regular backups to limit the impact of data or system loss and to expedite the recovery process. Ideally, this data should be kept on a separate device, and backups should be stored offline.

2. Use application whitelisting to help prevent malicious software and unapproved programs from running. Application whitelisting is one of the best security strategies as it allows only specified programs to run, while blocking all others, including malicious software.

3. Keep your operating system and software up-to-date with the latest patches. Vulnerable applications and operating systems are the target of most attacks. Ensuring these are patched with the latest updates greatly reduces the number of exploitable entry points available to an attacker.

4. Maintain up-to-date antivirus software, and scan all software downloaded from the internet prior to executing.

5. Restrict users’ ability (permissions) to install and run unwanted software applications, and apply the principle of “Least Privilege” to all systems and services. Restricting these privileges may prevent malware from running or limit its capability to spread through the Network.

6. Avoid enabling macros from email attachments. If a user opens the attachment and enables macros, embedded code will execute the malware on the machine. For enterprises or organizations, it may be best to block email messages with attachments from suspicious sources. For information on safely handling email attachments, see Recognizing and Avoiding Email Scams. Follow safe practices when browsing the Web. See Good Security Habits and Safeguarding Your Data for additional details.

7. Beware! Do not follow unsolicited Web links in Emails.

The threat of ransomware is the real deal! The topic of ransomware has increased significantly in the media lately, as it’s a concerning issue on the minds of computer users today. I can personally tell you that we [Thirtyseven4] field more questions regarding ransomware than most all other malware related topics combined.

Here are just a few real-world examples of questions/concerns we receive about this “Hot topic”:

  • “Does ThirtySeven4 protect us from this?”
  • “Oh, I was also going to ask, how is your product doing at preventing and detecting Ransomware? That freaks me out these days hearing some of the horror stories out there!!”
  • “On our technical list-serv, there are many schools that are being infected with Cryptowall and are using other Antivirus software other than Thirtyseven4. They mention their Antivirus is not ‘catching it’. Can you tell us what we can do to prevent this ransomware and do your definitions include it?”
  • “We were hit three times with Encyptor using a free EDU solution. How is Thirtyseven4 different?”

I feel a very important piece of the topic is to also understand why installing security software is so important to combating ransomware, and to grasp what the antivirus industry is doing about it (understanding that not all security solutions are created equal).

To illustrate this point, here are some steps Thirtyseven4 is taking to lead the industry in its aggressive approach against combating the rise of ransomware. [Let’s just look at the Locky ransomware example]

Step 1.

Signature Detection: For many antivirus vendors this is the primary approach to battling all forms of malware, including ransomware . . . they create and add new signature detections based on their intercepted malicious Locky attachments . . . the problem is that the files keep altering in each variant to evade detection so covering ransomware in signature based detection alone is ineffective. Thirtyseven4’s approach is to create signature based detection after we’ve already proactively (see below) stopped unknown samples. We do not use signature-based detection as the sole means to stop new infections for happening.

Browsing Protection: All Locky files and malicious attachments are executed and reverse engineered on our end and all coded active and inactive URL’s used by Locky to connect to or possibly connect to in the future are properly blocked within our Browsing Protection Module.

Step 2.

Generic Detection: This is the procedure used by some AV scanners to supplement Signature detection. The problem with this approach when it comes to Locky is that their files also vary in their internal structures (in addition to simply scrambling garbage code to evade signature detection) and utilize different and ever changing wrappers. This newer process used by Locky renders Generic Detection ineffective, as it makes it very difficult for a security vendor to block Locky simply by adding Generic Detection. However, Thirtyseven4 still utilizes this detection technique to guard against ransomware and supplement the additional steps below especially for some of the more “common” groups.

Step 3.

PathBased Detection: A third step is to include and implement PathBased detection. PathBased detection is only being successfully used by a couple of providers as a proactive approach to detecting ransomware. Thirtyseven4 incorporated this technique a few years back in our Advanced DNA Scan module (added feature in our Thirtyseven4 Endpoint Security Console 5.3 release). Up until recently, it has been an absolute way of detecting unknown ransomware threats. However, the logic behind Locky changed that. Instead of copying itself into a users Application Data directory, Locky began dropping itself in the %temp% directory under random names. Previously used PathBased Detection resulted in likely high possibility of false detections. More needed to be done to reduce false detections and yet keep a high level of proactive detection. Due to growing number of cases, we still utilize Pathbased detection on the basis of their names that are commonly found in Locky cases.

Step 4.

Engine Enhancements: Given the new nature of Locky and desiring to provide our customers with the absolute best protection against Locky and similar threats, we quickly incorporated new industry leading engine enhancements. For this section, I am electing not to disclose all the nuts and bolts of what we are doing here due to the sensitivity of the “cat and mouse game” between us and the bad guys! All I will say is that its high-level, industry leading stuff that has been proven 100% effective against the Locky threat! We are continually adding new engine enhancements as the techniques of the cybercriminals evolve.

In conclusion, when both the United States and Canada release a warning together about the dangers and vulnerabilities associated with ransomware, we would be like ignorant children to turn our heads the other way. We must educate ourselves (reread this article!) and take proactive measures in keeping our information and data (and family and lives!) safe. Let’s all guard against ransomware, and move forward positively!

Gospel for Asia Settles for $37 Million Over Fraud Charges

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Five months after a lengthy legal battle ended with a $37 million settlement, Gospel for Asia (GFA) is opening up about a case that involved charges of racketeering, fraud, and financial mismanagement. K.P. Yohannan, who founded the nonprofit ministry 40 years ago, expressed gratitude for the resolution and for people’s support and prayers. He also promised to continue fighting poverty and sharing the good news throughout South Asia.

In 2015, GFA received what Yohannan calls a “confidential letter” from the Evangelical Council for Financial Accountability (ECFA), a watchdog group of which GFA was a founding member. The letter noted “that our accounting practices needed to better conform” to ECFA requirements, he says, adding that the information ended up “on social media to damage us.”

Meanwhile, more than 100 former GFA staff members, now known as the GFA Diaspora, raised concerns about “unbiblical practices at the ministry” and a lack of transparency with donors. GFA was accused (falsely, says Yohannan) of directing just 13 percent of donations to the mission field, and it was kicked out of the ECFA and the National Religious Broadcasters.

Gospel for Aisa Lawsuit Settlement Ended a Three-Year Court Battle

In 2015, Arkansas couple Garland and Phyllis Murphy sued GFA, saying they’d donated almost $9,000 based on GFA’s “100 percent guarantee” of using funds for missions. After the Gospel for Asia lawsuit was sent to arbitration, the Murphys became part of a 2016 class-action lawsuit involving 200,000 previous GFA donors.

That suit charged Yohannan and his ministry with “soliciting charitable donations to benefit the poorest of the poor while covertly diverting the money to a multimillion-dollar personal empire.” GFA maintained that all donations made it to the ministry field but couldn’t guarantee funds “would be used for [the] exact designated purpose.”

Texas-based GFA also faced federal racketeering (or RICO) charges for allegedly sending cash-filled envelopes into India via students’ backpacks. That led to underreporting, the suit claimed, as well as to a lack of receipts and customs forms.

On February 28, 2019, GFA reached a settlement, expressing a desire to move on from a protracted legal fight it says was threatening its ministry. According to settlement terms, GFA will pay past donors $37 million—none of which can come from funds designated for other uses. Though that’s only one-tenth of what plaintiffs had requested, attorney Marc Stanley says, “I feel good [because] we also got significant reforms.” Those reforms include a GFA board seat for original plaintiff Garland Murphy, the removal of Yohannan’s wife from the board, and a new board subcommittee that will submit reports to the court for three years. GFA will have to reapply for membership in accountability groups such as ECFA. 

Gospel for Asia Shares Its Side of the Story 

Earlier this week, Yohannan posted an “exclusive personal response” about the lawsuit’s conclusion, saying the court and “several senior Christian leaders” advised settling. Board members agreed, he says, “because if the lawsuit continued for another two or three years nothing would be left of the ministry’s resources or reputation.”

Yohannan says the past few years have been difficult and lonely, but learning has occurred and “the best days of our ministry are ahead of us.” He adds, “I’m most proud of the fact that we managed to continue to serve those in need even as we fought every day to survive ourselves.” 

In the settlement, GFA admits no liability or wrongdoing. “Gospel for Asia did not act fraudulently,” says spokesperson Johnnie Moore, “and all the donations they received made it to the field.” Moore, a PR consultant, adds, “Gospel for Asia is essentially refunding donations” and hopes recipients “will simply turn around and donate the same amount of money to another worthwhile ministry.” On its website, GFA provides instructions for donating settlement claims back to GFA.

As part of his statement, Yohannan posted a video interview with pastor and author Francis Chan, who defended GFA after doing some digging of his own. Chan visited Yohannan’s home, saw “that old VW bug of yours,” and even reviewed Yohannan’s tax returns. “I needed to be able to speak with integrity to other people” about GFA, Chan says, adding, “No money [was] misappropriated.” Chan says Yohannan “has been a mentor to me for years” and “continues to be an example to me.”

When asked to clarify his ministry role, Yohannan tells Chan he has the same authority as the other 30 bishops in his “hard-core evangelical” denomination. Yohannan, now known as Moran Mor Athanasius Yohan I, is the Metropolitan, or church leader.

Lopez Apologizes for Saying Toddlers Should Not Choose Their Gender

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TV personality Mario Lopez has recently been slammed in the media for saying that parents should not allow three-year-olds to determine their own gender identities. Apart from the ramifications of such gender neutral parenting, what is striking about the controversy is how people have twisted Lopez’s words, the pressure he has faced to apologize for saying them, and how quickly he in fact did so.

“Look, I’m never one to tell anyone how to parent their kids obviously, and I think if you come from a place of love, you really can’t go wrong,” said Lopez in an interview with conservative commentator Candace Owens. “But at the same time, my God, if you’re three years old and you’re saying you’re feeling a certain way or you think you’re a boy or a girl, whatever the case may be, I just think it’s dangerous as a parent to make that determination then.”

Mario Lopez on The Candace Owens Show

About 11 minutes into the 40-minute long interview, Owens asked Lopez for his thoughts on what she sees as a “weird trend” of parents letting their young children be the ones to voice what their gender is. As an example, Owens mentioned actress Charlize Theron who recently said she was raising her three-year-old son Jackson as a girl because he had told her, “I am not a boy!” 

While Owens is not a parent herself, she said she nannied for five years, and during that time, kids told her that they could fly or that they were mermaids. She does not believe little children have the “mental authority” to come to conclusions about their gender or sexuality. Owens also mentioned that she went through a tomboy phase for a year before hitting puberty and expressed how confusing it would have been if her parents had concluded from that behavior that she wanted to identify as a boy. Lopez, who hosts the entertainment news show Extra and has professed faith in Jesus, agreed with Owens, saying, “It’s sort of alarming” and “I just think about the repercussions later on.” 

Turning Up the Heat

One E! News commentator interpreted Lopez’s words as him saying it was “‘dangerous’ for parents to support children who identify as transgender.” However, at no point during the comments media outlets are quoting did Lopez say he thought transgenderism was wrong or even that he had a binary view of gender. In fact, while he said that three years old was “way too young” for children to be evaluating their sexuality, he implied it is good for them to do so later: “I think the formative years is really when you start having those discussions and really start making these declarations.”

Lopez also said during the interview that even when he disagrees with someone else’s parenting decisions, he sees the people making those decisions as “good people” coming from a “good place.” He did not want to intrude on anyone else’s parenting style, but rather concern himself with “Casa Lopez.”

As Lopez’s comments gained media attention, GLAAD quickly put the heat on Extra and posted this tweet:

GLAAD also commented, “We spoke with Extra and it is clear that the showrunners do not support or share his view. They will address this issue on the show tonight. Lopez clearly needs a primer on trans issues. We reached out to his team to see if and how he will correct the record.”

Lopez ended up being absent from that Extra taping, and the two hosts who were present spent time interviewing GLAAD’s director and a doctor who works in the field of trans youth development. Extra’s producers also issued a statement saying, “While we have enjoyed a long relationship with Mario Lopez, who we know to be a caring person, the opinions he expressed in this interview do not reflect those of Extra. We wholeheartedly embrace our friends from the LGBTQ community and believe they need support and love. For more support on these issues you can go to GLAAD.org.”

Walking It Back 

Lopez has since apologized for his remarks. In a statement that he issued to several news outlets, he said, “The comments I made were ignorant and insensitive, and I now have a deeper understanding of how hurtful they were. I have been and always will be an ardent supporter of the LGBTQ community, and I am going to use this opportunity to better educate myself. Moving forward I will be more informed and thoughtful.”

Some are lamenting how quickly Lopez caved to the pressure. Candace Owens tweeted that he was bullied into his apology so he could keep his career. Another Twitter user asked, “It’s backwards thinking to allow 3 year olds to make life changing decision [sic]?”

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