Home Blog Page 20

Lysa TerKeurst Shares Astonishing Update to Her ‘Bible Man’ Story From Over 20 Years Ago

Lysa TerKeurst
Lysa TerKeurst speaks during the main session of her Trust Again Tour event in Denver on March 3, 2025. Photo credit: ChurchLeaders

For years, author and ministry leader Lysa TerKeurst has been sharing a story of how God led her to give her personal Bible to a man she met traveling on an airplane. Last week, she got an unexpected update to that story while she was in the San Antonio area on her Trust Again Tour.

“When I see God’s hand of faithfulness behind me in a previous experience, it can fuel me for where I’m at right now,” TerKeurst told attendees of a one-night Trust Again Tour event at Riverside Church in Denver March 3. “Because the same God that did it then is fully capable of doing it again. The same God that did it then is fully capable of doing it again. Let me tell you about one of those situations that has so fueled my heart.”

TerKeurst told the crowd that a few nights prior she was just about to kick off her event in San Antonio when a woman on her team came to her and said, “Lysa, you are never going to believe what just happened.”

“Do you remember that story, Lysa, from 20 years ago when you were on a plane, and you were reading your Bible and a man sat down beside you and started asking you questions?” the woman asked.

Lysa TerKeurst Recaps ‘Bible Man’ Story

Lysa TerKeurst is president and chief visionary officer of Proverbs 31 Ministries and the author of several New York Times bestsellers, including “Good Boundaries and Goodbyes,” “Forgiving What You Can’t Forget,” and “It’s Not Supposed to Be This Way.” 

Last year, TerKeurst published “I Want to Trust You, but I Don’t: Moving Forward When You’re Skeptical of Others, Afraid of What God Will Allow, and Doubtful of Your Own Discernment.” She appeared on “The Stetzer ChurchLeaders Podcast” in October, where she shared with Dr. Ed Stetzer and Daniel Yang what she has learned about trusting God and others after having had her trust deeply broken.

TerKeurst’s March 3 event included a Q&A for VIPs prior to the main session. The main session featured two messages from TerKeurst, as well as worship from Tasha Layton. Approximately 1,000 women were in attendance, not counting a number of men who were also in the audience. 

RELATED: Lysa TerKeurst Sees a ‘Huge Gap’ in the Church When It Comes to Helping Christian Women Facing Divorce

At the beginning of her main speaking session, TerKeurst recapped the story of meeting the man on the plane, which she has told elsewhere, including on her blog.

TerKeurst said she had gotten on the plane feeling tired from speaking, and she opened her Bible partly to avoid talking to anyone around her. But a man sitting next her was intrigued by the fact she was reading the Bible and asked her about it. “I really, really love God. And so that’s why I’m eager to read his Word,” TerKeurst told him.

‘Ninja,’ Twitch’s Top Streamer, Proclaims to Millions That ‘Jesus Is King’

tyler blevins
Streamer Tyler Blevins. Screengrabs from YouTube / @Bible_Alive

Tyler Blevins, known online as “Ninja,” took time during a recent video game stream to share his Christian faith—and to advise listeners about having such important conversations with others.

Blevins, 33, has the most-watched Twitch channel, with more than 19 million followers. Even more people—almost 24 million—subscribe to his YouTube channel. Now viewers who watch Ninja defeat on-screen enemies have also heard him boldly proclaim, “Jesus is King.”

RELATED: ‘Online Missionary’ Streams Video Games, Bible Studies To Reach Internet Audience

Blevins was candid about his faith but nonjudgmental of others. “Even if you don’t think [Jesus is King], don’t judge me for it, and I won’t judge you for it,” he said.

Streamer Tyler ‘Ninja’ Blevins: We Need To Talk About Faith

Faith-sharing should feel natural, Tyler Blevins said. “This is just about life, when you’re talking to somebody and you’re having a conversation. That’s an important conversation, right? There’s two sides to it, definitely.” He added, “When you’re talking to someone, don’t talk to that person to change their mind…You’re just talking to them, right? And if you end up changing their mind, that’s great.”

Blevins emphasized to viewers that he won’t ever “push anything on you guys.” He told viewers, “I love you all no matter what. And in the chat, we respect all religions, all people…Someone has no religion? We love everybody, dude.”

According to Blevins, “The most important thing I preach personally is that you’ve just gotta love everybody. And I mean everybody.” He added, “It’s all about respect and never belittling someone else’s faith, no matter what it is.”

Prayer Improves My Mindset, Says Tyler Blevins

For Blevins, self-improvement is a key part of his faith life. “We don’t need something like the threat of the end of times to start becoming better humans and developing a relationship with the Lord,” he said.

One way the streamer seeks to better himself is through prayer. “I can confidently say I feel like I’m all-around a better person and in a better mindset since I started praying every night,” he said.

Report: Most Americans Skip Lent

lent
Photo credit: Unsplash / Grant Whitty

Lent may be on the calendar, but it’s not on the radar of most Americans.

A traditional 40-day window of fasting before Easter, Lent is observed by around a quarter of U.S. adults, according to a Lifeway Research study. Three in 4 Americans (74%) say they do not typically observe Lent, while 26% participate.

Beginning on Ash Wednesday and ending during Holy Week, Lent serves as a time of preparation for the Easter celebration in many Christian traditions. The practice often involves the spiritual discipline of fasting.

RELATED: Chris Pratt Joins Jonathan Roumie, Mark Wahlberg for Hallow’s Lent Prayer Challenge

The 26% who currently say they observe Lent is statistically unchanged from the 24% who said the same in a 2016 Lifeway Research study.

Catholics (59%) and Hispanics (39%) are among the most likely to say they participate in Lent. Those who rarely or never attend a religious service are the most likely to ignore Lent (89%).

“Those who are not followers of Jesus Christ have little incentive to follow His example of fasting in the wilderness for 40 days,” said Scott McConnell, executive director of Lifeway Research. “However, nothing prevents non-Christians from participating in Lent as they do in other cultural trends that call for refraining from an activity such as Dry January or No Shave November.”

Lent Lifeway Research chart 2025

Lenten practices

Among the quarter of Americans who typically observe Lent, most participate in some form of fasting. Asked about seven possible means of participation, the average Lent practitioner involves at least two methods of observing the season.

Half of those who participate in Lent say they fast from a favorite food or beverage (50%) or attend church services during the season (49%). More than a third say they fast from a bad habit (37%), give to others (36%) or pray more (34%). Around a quarter say they fast from a favorite activity (25%) or read Lenten Bible verses or devotions (22%). For 2% of respondents, observing Lent doesn’t include any of the seven options.

More than 3 in 5 Americans who observe Lent (62%) say they typically include at least one of the three fasting options during the season before Easter.

“Fasting is on the Christian liturgical calendar not unlike the Jewish Yom Kippur and Muslim Ramadan,” said McConnell. “In Christianity, self-denial does not earn someone heavenly favor but redirects the believer’s thoughts and priorities toward the one they proclaim as their Lord, Jesus Christ.”

Catholics are more likely than Protestants to say fasting from a favorite food or beverage is part of their practice during Lent (55% v. 38%). Additionally, middle-aged adults, 35-49 (57%) and 50-64 (56%), are among the most likely to fast from those favorites.

For other types of Lenten fasting, those who attend church services more than once a week are more likely than those who attend about once a week to say they fast from favorite activities during the season (35% v. 20%).

Older Americans, 65 and older, are the least likely to say they fast from a bad habit during Lent (19%).

Those who already regularly attend church likely incorporate that into their observance. Lent observers who attend church services more than once a week (55%) and about once a week (61%) are more likely than those who rarely or never attend (31%) to say they typically attend church services as part of their participation in the season. Additionally, adults 65 and older (60%) and those in the South (55%) are among the most likely to include church attendance in their Lenten practice.

Why Are Southern Baptists Still Arguing About Women Preachers?

Southern Baptists
A general view of messengers during the Southern Baptist Convention annual meeting at the Indiana Convention Center in Indianapolis, Tuesday, June 11, 2024. (RNS Photo/AJ Mast)

The Southern Baptist Convention’s credentials committee had a problem.

It had been asked to determine whether or not to expel one of the denomination’s largest churches for violating the SBC’s ban on women serving as pastors. But the committee could not agree on what the word “pastor” meant in a rule that said only man can be pastors. Did it refer to the church’s senior pastor? Or did it mean any role with the title of pastor — such as a music pastor, youth pastor or children’s pastor?

The committee asked the messengers, or local delegates, at the denomination’s 2022 annual meeting for help. What the committee got was an earful instead.

“If we eventually have to form a study committee over every word in our confession of faith, then we’re doomed, and we’re no longer a confessional people,” Albert “Al” Mohler, president of the SBC’s largest seminary, told the meeting, adding that Southern Baptists know exactly what a pastor is.

RELATED: SBC Has Disfellowshipped 7 Churches in 2 Years for Failing To Comply With Sexual Abuse Reporting and Prevention Standards

Nearly three years — and a failed constitutional amendment — later, confusion remains about how the ban on women pastors should be applied. In mid-February, the SBC’s Executive Committee voted to expel a church in Alaska after its pastor signed a letter saying Jesus did not put limits on the roles women could play in ministry. But the credentials committee, which makes recommendations to the Executive Committee on such issues, deemed that a South Carolina megachurch, which has a woman teaching pastor who preaches regularly, remained in “friendly cooperation” with the SBC.

That did not please Clint Pressley, the SBC’s current president.

Pastor Mark Goodman. (Courtesy photo)

“My understanding is that our credentials committee deemed a church in friendly cooperation that has a female teaching pastor,” Pressley, a North Carolina pastor, wrote on X. “The committee needs to take another look at this one. Our statement of faith is clear about qualifications for a pastor.”

Mark Goodman, pastor of Rabbit Creek Church in Anchorage, Alaska, said he was saddened to no longer be part of the SBC, after spending his whole life in the denomination.

“I jokingly say I’ve been a Baptist longer than I’ve been a Christian, because my parents took me to a Baptist church while I was still in the womb,” Goodman said in a recent interview.

Goodman said the church had first heard from the credentials committee last year, after someone complained about Lori Pepiton, the congregation’s longtime children and families pastor. After exchanging emails, the committee closed its inquiry, having found no conflicts with the SBC’s beliefs.

“Again, thank you for your cooperation and for the information you provided,” the committee wrote in an email dated Oct. 24. “We value the partnership of Rabbit Creek Church with the Southern Baptist Convention and pray for your continued ministry.”

Things changed when Goodman and other leaders at the church signed a letter in March which argued for no limits on the roles women can hold. Signing that letter went too far, the credentials committee decided, as it gave public support to beliefs that contradicted SBC teaching.

Goodman said that in signing that letter, he was speaking for himself, not the congregation. Not everyone in the church holds the same beliefs, and the church has not taken an official stand on the issue. The SBC holds what are known as complementarian beliefs — the idea that women and men have different roles to play in marriages and in churches. Churches that allow women pastors are often referred to as egalitarian.

Among the members at Rabbit Creek is Randy Covington, the leader of Alaska Baptist Resource Network, the state convention for SBC churches in Alaska. He told Baptist Press, an official SBC publication, there was no conflict between Rabbit Creek’s beliefs and the SBC.

Rabbit Creek Church in Anchorage, Alaska. (Image courtesy Google Maps)

“They do not have egalitarian views,” Covington said. “Their positive impact on the community of Anchorage cannot be overlooked.”

The Rev. Meredith Stone, executive director of Waco, Texas-based Baptist Women in Ministry, said the removal of Rabbit Creek Church was disappointing. She found it odd that the church was essentially being punished because its pastor signed a letter.

“It feels like kind of a witch hunt,” she said.

7 Ways Christianity Has Shaped the World: Exploring Its Global Impact

christianity
Adobe Stock #1045720006

Christianity has been one of the most influential forces in shaping the world. Spanning over two millennia, its teachings have impacted law, education, human rights, art, and countless other aspects of global civilization. From the establishment of hospitals to the promotion of literacy, Christianity’s global impact is undeniable. Here are seven ways Christianity has shaped the world.

The Global Impact of Christianity

1. The Foundation of Modern Human Rights

Christianity has played a significant role in the development of human rights. The idea that every person is made in the image of God (Genesis 1:27) laid the groundwork for the belief in the intrinsic value of human life. This perspective influenced movements such as the abolition of slavery, civil rights campaigns, and humanitarian efforts worldwide. Many historical figures, including William Wilberforce and Martin Luther King Jr., used Christian principles to advocate for social justice and equality.

2. The Birth of Modern Education Systems

The Christian tradition has been instrumental in the development of education. Monastic schools in the early Middle Ages preserved knowledge and paved the way for the establishment of universities. Many of the world’s most prestigious institutions, such as Oxford, Cambridge, and Harvard, were founded with Christian principles. Missionaries also played a crucial role in spreading literacy and establishing schools across the world, ensuring education reached even the most remote communities.

RELATED: Teach Your Children Church History

3. The Advancement of Science and Medicine

Contrary to the misconception that Christianity and science are at odds, many of the greatest scientific minds were motivated by their faith. Figures like Isaac Newton, Gregor Mendel (the father of genetics), and Louis Pasteur made groundbreaking discoveries while maintaining strong Christian beliefs. Additionally, Christian institutions have been central in establishing hospitals, nursing programs, and medical missions that continue to serve communities in need.

A Journey Toward Easter – An Ash Wednesday Devotion

A Journey Toward Easter
Adobe Stock #262623990

An Ash Wednesday devotion: “It is not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick. I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners.”

These words from Mark 2:17 demonstrate for us again the genius of Jesus and serve as an introduction to Ash Wednesday, a somewhat mysterious date on the Christian calendar which marks the beginning of Lent. It evokes the past, encourages us to focus on the present, and points us toward an inspiring future.

In some parts of the country you could go about your business all day and never encounter a reminder that this is Ash Wednesday. Or you could look up from your work to find someone near you wearing ashes on her forehead in a mark that looks something like a cross.

Ash Wednesday is about preparation, and the beginning of preparation at that. All of the Lenten season is focused upon preparation for Easter. Ash Wednesday is about how we can begin those preparations. It is “to make a right beginning of repentance,” as the Book of Common Prayer puts it. We are reminded of “the need which all Christians continually have to renew their repentance and faith.”

RELATED: Why an Ash Wednesday Service?

Ash Wednesday is the day when the journey toward Easter begins. I would like to suggest that an Ash Wednesday devotion helps us begin our preparation for Easter in three ways: by teaching us to mourn the past, to examine the present, and to look forward toward an inspiring future.

Ash Wednesday Devotion

1. Mourning the Past

The ashes of Ash Wednesday come from the palm leaves that were burned after last year’s Palm Sunday. Throughout the Scripture, ashes speak of mourning and regret. To mark his sadness, Job covered himself in ashes.

Jesus reminds us that repentance (true regret) can include sackcloth and ashes. The ashes from last year’s palms remind us that although we may have received Christ enthusiastically at the beginning of our Christian walk, we have perhaps lost our first love.

What better call to return to our first love than to be marked with the ashes of our past enthusiasm? These ashes also remind us that the original celebration of Palm Sunday gave way to the crucifixion less than a week later. Psalm 51 is an excellent reading for Ash Wednesday. It is a Scriptural guide to repentance.

Why Fear God? Understanding the Biblical Meaning and Its Impact on Your Faith

fear God
Adobe Stock #820878412

The phrase “fear God” appears throughout the Bible, often sparking questions about its meaning and relevance in the life of a believer. Many interpret fear as terror, but in biblical terms, fearing God is about reverence, awe, and deep respect for His authority and holiness. What does it mean to fear God? Understanding what it means to fear God can transform your faith, guiding your actions, deepening your relationship with Him, and bringing wisdom into your life.

The Biblical Meaning of Fear God and Its Role in Faith

1. The Fear of God as Reverence and Awe

In the Bible, fearing God is not about being afraid of Him in a negative sense but about having a profound respect for His majesty. Proverbs 9:10 states, “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom, and knowledge of the Holy One is understanding.” This type of fear fosters humility, obedience, and a desire to follow God’s will.

2. Fear God as a Source of Wisdom

The Bible repeatedly connects fearing God with wisdom and understanding. When believers develop a deep respect for God’s power and sovereignty, they make choices that align with His teachings. This reverence leads to wise decision-making, moral integrity, and a life that reflects God’s righteousness.

RELATED: What Does It Mean to Fear God?

3. The Role of Fear in Strengthening Faith

Fearing God encourages trust and reliance on Him. Rather than being a source of anxiety, this fear assures believers that God is just, merciful, and in control. It fosters a sense of security, knowing that living in alignment with God’s principles brings blessings and guidance.

7 Influential Early Christian Philosophers Who Shaped Theology and Thought

Early Christian Philosophers
Adobe Stock #113752050

Early Christian philosophers played a crucial role in shaping theological doctrines and intellectual traditions that continue to influence Christianity today. Their writings and ideas helped define key Christian concepts, bridge the gap between faith and reason, and lay the foundation for centuries of theological development. Here are seven influential early Christian philosophers who left a lasting impact on theology and thought.

The Influence of Early Christian Philosophers on Theology and Thought

1. Justin Martyr

Justin Martyr was one of the earliest Christian philosophers, blending Greek philosophy with Christian doctrine. He sought to demonstrate that Christianity was the true philosophy, using Platonic and Stoic ideas to defend the faith. His works, such as First Apology and Dialogue with Trypho, remain foundational texts in Christian thought.

2. Clement of Alexandria

Clement of Alexandria was instrumental in harmonizing Greek philosophy with Christian theology. He believed that philosophy was a preparatory tool given by God to lead people to Christ. His writings, particularly Stromata and Paedagogus, explored the integration of faith and reason, influencing later Christian thinkers.

RELATED: From the Beginning, the Church Has Clearly Presented the Gospel

3. Origen of Alexandria

Origen was a prolific theologian and philosopher whose work deeply influenced Christian doctrine. He developed allegorical interpretations of Scripture and emphasized the preexistence of souls. His major work, On First Principles, laid the groundwork for systematic theology and shaped early Christian thought.

7 Signs of a Fake Christian

signs of a fake Christian
Adobe Stock #234291047

Are you a fake Christian or the real deal? What are the signs of a fake Christian?

I don’t usually carry cash. But on this day, I used a crisp $100 bill to pay for some new shoes. As I handed the bill to the cashier, she grabbed a pen. I was somewhat intrigued. Then, she ran the pen across the bill. Now I was puzzled. So, I asked her the purpose of marking up my crisp bills. Come to find out, this is standard procedure for $100 bills. The marker is designed to spot counterfeit bills.

Why would the cashier be concerned about this? The answer is obvious, right? Counterfeit money has no value. Maybe it can pose as authentic for a period of time, but eventually someone is going to buy one of those markers and expose the lie.

And whether you intentionally use a counterfeit bill is irrelevant. If the marker reveals that you tried to pay with fake money, you will lose a $100, at best, and lose a day of freedom in jail, at worst.

During his ministry, Jesus encountered fakes often. And what the market does to money, Jesus does to counterfeit followers. He exposes them. Whether it was the Pharisees, who posed as righteous men of God or large crowds, who posed as committed followers, Jesus constantly exposed counterfeits.
So, what are the signs of a fake Christian? This question is important. Much like fake money, fake Christians have no value. They flaunt a self-righteous attitude or selfless behavior. But, if you exposed their heart, you would find something different. Most importantly, as Jesus says in Matthew 7:24, eventually counterfeit Christians will be exposed.

To be fair, I don’t believe most Christians intentionally pose as fakes. They have either been handed a counterfeit Jesus or drifted away from the radical life Jesus calls his followers to imitate. With that said, I think every Christian can use this post to work on their heart.

7 Signs of a Fake Christian

1. A counterfeit Christian feels more guilty for missing church than hurting his or her neighbor.

I grew up in a culture where church attendance was the ultimate mark of righteousness. Under no circumstances did you miss worship on Sunday or class on Wednesday. A Christian who had “gone astray” was someone who hadn’t been to the church building in a month.

RELATED: So-Called Christian Values

Intentionally or not, I was led to believe my presence at a building was more important than my actions toward other people. So most weeks I would walk into my church building, worship God, interact in class discussion, then go home. In the meantime, I disrespected teachers at school, gossiped about friends and classmates, and used women for my selfish desires.

It’s one of the signs of a fake Christian: If you value church attendance more than loving people, you don’t understand Jesus. The two greatest commands, love God and love your neighbor, are relational. Jesus even says the entire law is summed up by these two commands.

Here’s the deal. It’s entirely possible to be a perfect church attendee and a long ways from God. On the flip side, it’s also entirely possible to be a sporadic church attendee and have an intimate relationship with God.

It’s time to drop this false idea that God values attendance more than people.

2. A counterfeit Christian believes the Bible is more important than Jesus.

For much of my life, I placed more trust in the Bible than in Jesus for eternal life. It was more important that I knew the five steps to salvation than the source of salvation. I could sing the 66 books of the Bible. I knew the VBS stories. If you’re like me and know more about Scripture than living like Jesus, here’s a strong word for you courtesy of the son of God himself.

You search the Scriptures because you think they give you eternal life. But the Scriptures point to me! Yet you refuse to come to me to receive this life. John 5:39-40

The Bible is NOT more important than Jesus. Oh, you can recite the books of the Bible using an annoying song? You memorized the book of James? That’s great. It’s one of the signs of a fake Christian. The Pharisees memorized the first five books of the Old Testament and Jesus told them their knowledge was useless.

Why?

They memorized Scripture, thinking their knowledge made them righteous. Instead, their knowledge inflated their egos and blinded them from the Savior. The whole point of the Bible is Jesus. Go ahead, have your morning meditations. That’s great. Memorize Scripture. Good for you. But those things don’t give you brownie points with God.

Instead, answer these questions. Does the Bible increase your love of God and intimacy with Jesus?

Are you confident in your salvation because you know Scripture or because you know the one Scripture points to? Remember, the first-century Christians, especially Gentile Christians, had no Bible. They had no background about Jesus. They just heard a message of redemption, believed that message and lived in community with others who accepted it.

3. A counterfeit Christian wonders how close he or she can get to sin without actually sinning. 

Few questions upset and sadden me more than this one. “Frank, is _______ a sin?” Just fill in the blank. Spending the night with your boyfriend/girlfriend. Getting a buzz. Watching a movie glorifying sex and worldliness. As a church leader, I am asked these questions quite often.

I refuse to answer them.

Here’s why. I can’t, in good conscience, answer a question that feeds your desire to flirt with sin. Most likely it’s one of the signs of a fake Christian: if you’re asking this question, you need to check your heart. I know because I used to ask those questions.

5 BIG Things Missing from Modern Worship

Modern Worship
Lightstock #183413

I once paid a visit to one of the most mega of America’s megachurches. It’s a church whose pastor is well-known, a church known for its innovation, a church held up as a model for modern evangelicalism. I went into this modern worship situation with as open a mind as I could muster. I left perplexed. I was perplexed not by what was said or done in the service as much as what was left unsaid and undone.

Since that visit I’ve had the opportunity to attend many more churches and, as often as not, they have been similar, missing a lot of the elements that used to be hallmarks of Christian worship.

5 BIG Things Missing from Modern Worship

1. Prayer

That church I visited all those years ago was the first I had ever attended that was almost completely devoid of prayer. The only prayer in the entire service was a prayer of response following the sermon. “With every head bowed and every eye closed, pray these words with me…” There were no prayers of confession, of intercession, of thanksgiving. There was no pastoral prayer to bring the cares of the congregation before the Lord. This is a pattern I have seen again and again in modern worship services, with prayer becoming rare and minimal instead of common and prominent. Conspicuous by their absence are any prayers longer than 30 seconds or a minute in length.

RELATED: Guidelines for Worship Leaders

2. Scripture Reading

Another element that has gone missing in modern worship is the scripture reading. There was a time when most services included a couple of lengthy readings, often one from the Old Testament and one from the New. But then it was trimmed to one and then the reading disappeared altogether in favor of mentioning individual verses as they came up in the sermon. But what of Paul’s command to Timothy that he devote himself to the public reading of Scripture (1 Timothy 4:13)? In too many churches this element has gone missing. In too many churches the Word of God is almost an afterthought. If a worship service includes no prayer and no Bible reading, can we even recognize it as Christian worship? Already we do well to pause and ask the question: If a worship service includes no prayer and no Bible reading, can we even recognize it as Christian worship?

How To Handle Youth Group Drama at Your Church

how to handle youth group drama
Adobe Stock #301061230

Wondering how to handle youth group drama at church? Then keep reading for helpful, Bible-based insights from veteran youth leader Greg Stier.

I hear it more and more as I talk to youth leaders across America. Many struggle with dreaded youth group drama. A hyper-sensitive clique of girls is mad at an insensitive clique of sarcastic boys. (Or vice versa or mix-n-match.) Kids take sides. They hurl hurtful words. They hurt feelings.

I saw this happen at my own kids’ Christian school. Rifts tear apart groups of friends. At times, you can feel conflict in the air. It shuts down your ability to minister effectively to teenagers. Bitterness and lack of forgiveness can hamper the impact of the Spirit of God. And youth group drama can hamper your effectiveness, too.

First you must deal with conflicts in practical, biblical ways. As the youth leader, be a shepherd or moderator. Sit the factions down to work things out. That requires kids asking for and granting forgiveness.

This isn’t always easy or pleasant. Perpetually unforgiving or offending teenagers may need to leave the group until they can resolve the tension in their souls.

An Example of How To Handle Youth Group Drama

I’ll never forget speaking at a youth camp. The original camp speaker double-booked, so I arrived a day or two late. There were five or so youth groups and tremendous “sin in the camp” (quite literally!). Youth leaders were arguing with students. Students were committing mutiny against their youth leaders. Youth groups were fighting with other youth groups.

After assessing the situation, I took action. That night, instead of a typical camp talk, I simply quoted Ephesians 4:32. “Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.

Then after some explanation, I said we’d have no sermon that night. Instead, we’d have an open mic for teenagers to seek and grant forgiveness. I told the group that no amount of preaching would solve bitterness unless people were willing to confess and forsake it. Then I said, “I’m going to sit down and leave this microphone here on the stand for whoever feels compelled to ask for forgiveness first.

With that, I sat down in a room full of tense, awkward silence. It seemed like an hour passed as the uncomfortable tension grew. (It was probably less than five minutes total.)

Finally, one teen, who I later found out was the ringleader of his group’s insurrection against their new leader, walked up to the mic. He began to weep and begged his youth leader for forgiveness. After some tears and hugs, the line for the microphone began forming.

By the time we finished, over an hour later, we were unified and ready for camp.

Easter Plays for Church: 10 Free Creative Skits for Children

Easter plays for church
Lightstock #712925

Do you need Easter plays for church and children’s ministry? Hoping to find some free resources for your programs? Then keep reading…

For kid-friendly, Bible-themed drama ideas, check out the 10 resources below.

Free Easter Plays for Church

From Children’s Ministry Deals: “These Easter skits are perfect for any Easter Children’s Ministry programming!” By using these dramas, everyone present will hear the Easter story. They will learn that Jesus Christ rose from the dead. He is alive and with us today!

This package of children’s Easter plays for church includes:

  • Dead Princess – A funny skit about the importance of the Resurrection.
  • Empty – A fun monologue about the empty tomb.
  • Jesus vs. Bunny – A funny skit about the true reason we celebrate Easter.
  • No Burgers on Friday – A funny skit about things we can give up for Lent.
  • The Bunny Tells the Meaning of Easter – A funny skit about the meaning of Easter.
  • The Garment – A monologue about the soldier who won Jesus’ garment.
  • The Messenger – A funny skit about the angel who announced the Resurrection.
  • The Way I Remember It – A skit with 3 different perspectives on the Easter story.
  • What’s So Good About Friday – A monologue on what makes Good Friday good.
  • Who Needs Chocolate – A funny skit on what Easter is really about.

Get Download Now

Resource provided by Children’s Ministry Deals

Add some drama to your worship services with these Easter plays for church. Or use them at a community Easter event, or in conjunction with an egg hunt.

These free Easter plays for church are simple but powerful. In fact, the skits generally require only one rehearsal! Ask a few parent volunteers to assist with simple costumes and props.

Lysa TerKeurst Sees a ‘Huge Gap’ in the Church When It Comes to Helping Christian Women Facing Divorce

Lysa TerKeurst
Ali Parsons (L) and Lysa TerKeurst (R) hold a Q&A for attendees of the Denver stop on TerKeurst's Trust Again tour. Photo credit: ChurchLeaders

“You can survive this season,” said author and ministry leader Lysa TerKeurst to women facing divorce who were attending a Q&A session the night of Monday, March 3. 

After answering questions about staying committed to writing, balancing ministry and family life, and being called as a woman leader, TerKeurst responded to the question, “What was your biggest fear in walking away from your marriage, and how did you overcome it?”

As she answered, TerKeurst told the crowd, “I look back on this season now, and I do see that God rescued me out of a situation that I would have never been able to leave on my own. And I’m grateful, so grateful to be where I’m at today. And with everything in me, I just sort of wanted to leave all the divorce stuff behind and just move on.”

RELATED: Lysa TerKeurst and Her New Husband, Chaz Adams, Have a ‘Behind the Scenes Conversation’ About Their Relationship

“But because I meet so many women who are in the throes of this and there’s still a huge gap—where does a Christian woman go for help when she finds herself in this terrifying and devastating situation?” TerKeurst said. “The transferable wisdom…I just can’t leave it behind.”

“I have to help the women in the church,” said TerKeurst, clarifying that there is a difference between a “difficult” marriage and a “destructive” one. “And also I want to help equip the church to be able to know how to give wise advice to women who are in very difficult situations.”

Lysa TerKeurst: ‘You Can Survive’

Lysa TerKeurst is president and chief visionary officer of Proverbs 31 Ministries and the author of several New York Times bestsellers, including “Good Boundaries and Goodbyes,” “Forgiving What You Can’t Forget,” and “It’s Not Supposed to Be This Way.” 

Last year, TerKeurst published “I Want to Trust You, but I Don’t: Moving Forward When You’re Skeptical of Others, Afraid of What God Will Allow, and Doubtful of Your Own Discernment.” She appeared on “The Stetzer ChurchLeaders Podcast” in October, where she shared with Dr. Ed Stetzer and Daniel Yang what she has learned about trusting God and others after having had her trust deeply broken.

TerKeurst held a one-night event at Riverside Church in Denver on Monday, March 3, as part of her Trust Again Tour. Those who had purchased VIP tickets had the opportunity to attend a Q&A session prior to the main event at 7 p.m. The main session featured two messages from TerKeurst, as well as worship from Tasha Layton. Approximately 1,000 women attended the event, not counting a number of men who were also in the audience. 

RELATED: Former Katy Perry Backup Singer Tasha Layton Turned Down Secular Music Career To Pursue Christian Music 

Ali Parsons, who hosts the “Neighbors” podcast, helped emcee the event and facilitated the Q&A with TerKeurst. Regarding the question about overcoming her biggest fear and walking away from her nearly 30-year marriage to her ex-husband, TerKeurst commented, “That’s a big question. Well, my journey was very, very long.”

‘The Last 6 Weeks Have Been Quite a Journey’—Newsboys Shares an Update on the Band’s Future, New Music

Newsboys
Newsboys 2025. Screengrab via Instagram / newsboys

On Thursday, Jan. 16, Newsboys lead singer Michael Tait abruptly announced that he was leaving the band after 15 years. Yesterday, the band took to social media to provide an update, describing the past six weeks as “quite a journey.”

Tait informed his bandmates about his sudden departure just days before the band was scheduled to play the first show of the Worldwide Revival Nights Tour.

With Tait’s departure, the newest Newsboys’ member, Adam Agee, has stepped up to the microphone and assumed the role of frontman—a position he previously held for Stellar Kart and the revitalization of Audio Adrenaline in 2015.

On Monday (March 3), Newsboys shared with fans how God continues to show his faithfulness in the midst of the band’s journey.

RELATED: Michael Tait Announces He Is Leaving Newsboys, a Decision That Didn’t ‘Come Lightly’

“The last six weeks have been quite a journey, but through it all, God has continually shown His faithfulness to us,” Newsboys posted. “We are excited about our future, just the four of us. We also have been working on new music this month, and we can’t wait to start sharing it with you!”

The band shared that its first release without Tait on lead vocals will be a “new version of ‘How Many Times’, which was the first song Adam wrote when he joined the band.” Newsboys said that the band is even changing the name of the song, sharing that it will be titled “How Many Times (oh how You love me).”

“This version feels like the right song to share first as we enter this new season,” Newsboys said. “It releases everywhere you listen to music on March 14th. Thank you for the love and support, it has meant the world to us!”

The band’s post was liked by Tait.

RELATED: Newsboys Guitarist Adam Agee Steps Up to the Microphone Following Michael Tait’s Departure

 

View this post on Instagram

 

A post shared by NEWSBOYS (@newsboys)

How to Choose the Right Bible Translation

bible translation
Lightstock #260583

Finding the right Bible translation can feel overwhelming, especially with so many options available. Whether you’re a new believer or a seasoned scholar, selecting the best version for your needs is crucial for understanding and applying God’s Word effectively.

Why Bible Translation Matters

Bible translation plays a vital role in how we comprehend Scripture. Each translation balances accuracy, readability, and theological nuance. The right choice ensures a clear and faithful representation of God’s message. A well-chosen translation can deepen your faith, improve your biblical knowledge, and make Scripture more accessible.

Additionally, translations help bridge cultural and linguistic gaps, allowing people worldwide to understand the Bible in their own languages. Over time, language evolves, making updated translations necessary to maintain clarity and relevance for modern readers.

Types of Bible Translations

Bible translations generally fall into three categories:

  1. Word-for-Word Translations (Formal Equivalence)
    • These translations strive to stay as close as possible to the original Hebrew, Aramaic, and Greek texts.
    • Examples: King James Version (KJV), New American Standard Bible (NASB), English Standard Version (ESV)
    • Best for: In-depth study, theological research, and those who prefer traditional wording.
  2. Thought-for-Thought Translations (Dynamic Equivalence)
    • These prioritize conveying the meaning of the original text rather than maintaining exact word order.
    • Examples: New International Version (NIV), New Living Translation (NLT), Christian Standard Bible (CSB)
    • Best for: General reading, devotional use, and those who prefer contemporary language.
  3. Paraphrase Translations
    • These focus on readability and capturing the essence of the passage in modern, everyday language.
    • Examples: The Message (MSG), The Living Bible (TLB)
    • Best for: New believers, casual reading, and personal reflection.

Factors to Consider When Choosing a Bible Translation

With so many Bible translations available, consider these key factors to find the one that fits your needs:

1. Your Purpose

  • Are you looking for deep study, daily devotion, or casual reading?
  • Word-for-word translations suit study, while thought-for-thought versions enhance readability.

2. Readability Level

  • Some translations use formal, older English (e.g., KJV), while others offer modern, conversational phrasing (e.g., NLT).
  • Choose a translation that matches your reading comfort level.

3. Accuracy and Faithfulness

  • Consider whether you want a highly literal translation (e.g., NASB) or one that prioritizes meaning (e.g., NIV).
  • Look into the translation philosophy and the scholars involved in its development.

4. Denominational Background

  • Some translations align more closely with certain theological traditions.
  • Ensure the translation reflects a theological perspective you’re comfortable with.

5. Study Tools and Features

  • Some editions include study notes, cross-references, and maps to aid understanding.
  • Study Bibles like the ESV Study Bible or NIV Study Bible can enhance learning.

Popular Bible Translations Compared

Some widely used Bible translations and their characteristics:

  • King James Version (KJV) – Word-for-word, traditional language, best for memorization.
  • New American Standard Bible (NASB) – Word-for-word, highly literal, great for deep study.
  • English Standard Version (ESV) – Word-for-word, modern readability, ideal for general study.
  • New International Version (NIV) – Thought-for-thought, easy to read, great for everyday reading.
  • New Living Translation (NLT) – Thought-for-thought, very easy to read, best for devotionals.
  • The Message (MSG) – Paraphrase, highly contemporary, good for personal reflection.

RELATED: Not All Bible Translations Are Created Equal

Why Multiple Translations Can Be Helpful

Many Bible readers find it beneficial to use more than one translation. Doing so allows for:

  • A fuller understanding of Scripture – Comparing word-for-word with thought-for-thought translations can provide deeper insight.
  • More precise study – Literal translations like the NASB help with detailed theological study.
  • Greater readability – A combination of a formal translation (ESV) and an easier-to-read one (NLT) makes Bible study more accessible.
  • Contextual clarity – Sometimes, a passage is difficult to grasp in one translation but becomes clearer in another.

Using Bible study tools, parallel Bibles, or apps that display multiple translations side by side can enhance your understanding of God’s Word.

Lakers Center Trey Jemison III Uses Instagram To Share God’s Word

Trey Jemison
Los Angeles Lakers center Trey Jemison III. Screengrabs from Instagram / @tallt_23

Los Angeles Lakers center Trey Jemison III knows that “basketball is temporary.” That’s why he boldly shares with fans the lasting truth of God and the Bible.

Jemison uses Instagram to share Scripture verses and faith-based messages to his 34,000+ followers. In the brief videos, he opens up about struggles, tells stories, and encourages listeners to honor God in every aspect of their lives.

The 25-year-old athlete, who went undrafted after playing at Clemson and the University of Alabama at Birmingham, is now with his fourth NBA team. And his two-way contract with the Lakers means he spends some time with the NBA’s G League, for development. But Jemison knows he’s exactly where God wants him to be.

RELATED: 9 NBA Players Who Boldly Share Their Christian Faith

 

View this post on Instagram

 

A post shared by Trey Jemison (@tallt_23)

“God is always on time,” he posted on Feb. 3, a few weeks after joining the Lakers. “I just had my clock on [Central Time] when God had me planned for [Pacific Standard Time].”

Trey Jemison III: I’m a ‘Living Testimony’ of God’s Power

Although Trey Jemison grew up in the church, his Christian faith blossomed in college. His basketball career almost ended there, though. During his freshman and sophomore collegiate seasons, Jemison averaged just 0.4 and 1.7 points per game, respectively. Speaking to Certified G’s, Jemison explained he was heading toward a stable career in construction management, “but God had other plans.”

The athlete, who averaged nine points per game as a college senior, scored 24 points for the Memphis Grizzlies in March 2024. “There’s no way I should be in the NBA,” Jemison said. “When God opens doors for me, I have to remember who brought me here. So my platform is used to impact people’s lives.”

In his Feb. 16 Instagram devotional, Jemison shared Romans 10:17. He reminded viewers to stay in God’s Word consistently and to “hit God up all day, every day,” not just when you need something. “I’m telling you as a living testimony,” he said. “I’m in a place I shouldn’t have been because of God.”

Lakers Center Trey Jemison III: God Is the ‘Master Writer’

Trey Jemison posts Bible studies on Instagram because not everyone can attend church, he told Certified G’s, but they can watch short videos on their phones. In his relatable messages, Jemison often begins with stories and then connects them to God’s Word.

Dolly Parton Mourns the Loss of Carl Dean, Her Husband of Nearly 60 Years

Carl Dean Dolly Parton
Screengrab via YouTube / @Entertainment Tonight

Carl Dean, the husband of Dolly Parton and the inspiration for her hit song “Jolene,” passed away on Monday (March 2) at the age of 82. Dean and Parton had been married for nearly six decades. 

Representatives for Parton announced Dean’s passing in a statement on Instagram

“Carl Dean, husband of Dolly Parton, passed away March 3rd in Nashville at the age of 82. He will be laid to rest in a private ceremony with immediate family attending,” the statement said. “He was survived by his siblings Sandra and Donnie.”

Quoting Parton, the post read, “Carl and I spent many wonderful years together. Words can’t do justice to the love we shared for over 60 years. Thank you for your prayers and sympathy.”

RELATED: Dolly Parton Defends Collaboration With Kid Rock, Says She Loves Him in ‘That God Way’

“The family has asked for privacy during this difficult time,” the post concluded.

Parton has not publicly disclosed Dean’s cause of death.

Parton and Dean were married in 1966. And while Dean did not often appear publicly alongside Parton at performances and events, Parton often spoke about the friendship she and Dean shared in their marriage.

“I really believe that that was one of God’s greatest gifts to give me: Carl Dean,” Parton previously said in an interview with Entertainment Tonight. “We’re best buds.” 

Joking about Dean’s absence from the public eye, Parton once joked, “He’s too pretty; I’m afraid to let him out!” 

RELATED: ‘I Had a Dream About God’—Dolly Parton Releases New Song on Her Birthday

Parton’s 1973 song “Jolene” was inspired by a woman of the same name who was a “beautiful redheaded, long-legged” bank teller who, according to Parton, had a crush on Dean. 

What Is Modern Christianity?

modern Christianity
Adobe Stock #1102832094

Modern Christianity is a dynamic and evolving expression of faith that continues to shape and be shaped by contemporary society. While the core beliefs of Christianity remain unchanged, the way people practice and experience their faith has adapted to the challenges and opportunities of the modern world. From shifting cultural perspectives to advances in technology, modern Christianity reflects a diverse and ever-changing spiritual landscape.

Understanding Modern Christianity and Its Place in Society

1. The Core Beliefs Remain Constant

Despite societal changes, the foundational beliefs of Christianity remain the same. Faith in Jesus Christ, the authority of the Bible, and the teachings on love, grace, and salvation continue to be central to Christian doctrine. However, the way these beliefs are communicated and practiced has evolved to meet the needs of today’s believers.

2. The Role of Technology in Faith

Technology has significantly influenced modern Christianity, providing new platforms for worship, evangelism, and community building. Churches livestream services, believers engage in online Bible studies, and social media is used to spread Christian teachings. Digital tools have allowed faith communities to stay connected despite geographical barriers.

RELATED: Tech and the Modern Church

3. Diversity in Worship Styles

Modern Christianity embraces a wide range of worship styles, from traditional liturgical services to contemporary, music-driven gatherings. While some denominations continue with formal rituals, others prioritize a more relaxed and engaging approach. This diversity reflects the varied ways believers connect with their faith and express their spirituality.

Are We All Hypocrites? Understanding Daily Sin and Christian Integrity

daily sin
Adobe Stock #1024517380

Every believer grapples with the reality of daily sin. Despite our best efforts, we often fall short of the moral and spiritual standards we strive to uphold. This struggle raises an important question: Are we all hypocrites? Understanding the nature of daily sin and how Christian integrity fits into this reality is essential for spiritual growth.

The Struggle with Daily Sin and the Pursuit of Integrity

1. The Reality of Daily Sin

The Bible makes it clear that all people sin. Romans 3:23 states, “For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.” Sin is not just about major moral failures but includes everyday thoughts, words, and actions that stray from God’s will. Whether through impatience, pride, or unkindness, daily sin affects everyone.

RELATED: No Forgiveness Without Repentance

2. Hypocrisy vs. Human Weakness

There is a difference between hypocrisy and struggling with sin. A hypocrite intentionally deceives, pretending to be righteous while acting otherwise. On the other hand, Christians who acknowledge their sins and strive to overcome them demonstrate humility rather than hypocrisy. Recognizing this distinction helps believers approach their faith journey with honesty and grace.

3. The Role of Grace and Forgiveness

Christian integrity does not mean being sinless but rather being aware of our failings and seeking God’s grace. 1 John 1:9 reassures believers: “If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.” Through repentance and God’s mercy, we can navigate daily sin while maintaining spiritual integrity.

Effects of Pornography on Generation Z Kids: What You Need To Know

effects of pornography on Generation Z
Adobe Stock #275632648

The effects of pornography on Generation Z kids are profound. This is the first cohort with 24/7 access to sexually graphic content.

In all my research, one question looms large. What does the availability of online porn do to children and teens? The standard reply? “We don’t know.” Until now, that was an honest answer.

Members of Gen Z grew up surrounded by porn. About 70% of 18- to 34-year-olds are regular viewers. The average age to begin viewing is just 11. And that continually skews downward.

Porn has been called the wallpaper of young people’s lives. Explicit sites receive billions of visits per year. And few safeguards are in place to protect impressionable minds. Movies and music also have become more sexually graphic.

So what do we know about the effects of pornography on Generation Z? Keep reading for some helpful insights.

Effects of Pornography on Generation Z

First, porn and graphic media are causing a rise in promiscuity. Research shows that teens who watch movies or listen to music that glamorizes drinking, drug use, or violence tend to engage in those behaviors themselves.

Movies also influence teens’ sexual attitudes and behaviors. A study published in Psychological Science found that the more teens are exposed to sexual content in movies, the earlier they start having sex. Plus, the more likely they are to have casual, unprotected sex.

Boys who are exposed to sexually explicit media are three times more likely to engage in oral sex and intercourse two years after exposure than non-exposed boys. Young girls exposed to sexual content are twice as likely to engage in oral sex and 1.5 times more likely to have intercourse.

Research also shows that teens who listen to music with degrading sexual references are more likely to have sex than those who have less exposure.

Beyond sexual activity, research indicates that early viewing of porn among children leads to higher-risk sexual activity, sex addictions, and sexual violence.

The Need To Protect Young Minds and Hearts

This is why we’ve been holding our breath. We’ve wondered whether exposure to online porn, at such early ages, leads to promiscuity, objectification of women, and increased sexual violence.

Chloe Combi, a former teacher and consultant, interviewed hundreds of Gen Z members. Her blunt conclusion? “They’re almost certainly imitating what they see in pornography.”

And now we have evidence. A U.K. study found that the number of child sex offenses committed by other children almost doubled in just four years.

So what is porn doing to kids? We’re beginning to find out. And the results show that we need to take action.

Don’t shy away from warning young people about the dangers of porn. Also equip parents to talk to and protect their teens. Read more about those topics here.

This article about the effects of pornography on Generation Z kids originally appeared here.

855,266FansLike

New Articles

New Podcasts

Joby Martin

Joby Martin: What Happens When Pastors Finally Understand Grace

Joby Martin joins “The Stetzer ChurchLeaders Podcast” to discuss what happens when a church leader has truly been run over by the “grace train" and understands the profound love and grace of God.