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Christmas Gift Ideas: 5 Video Production Books

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Learning video production can be overwhelming, especially if you don’t have a mentor who can talk you through what you need to know and do to be successful. Rather than allowing yourself to become stressed out about what you need to learn and how you will get the information that you need to succeed, you can turn to a book. These are the top five video production books on the market today and they are all designed to make it easier than ever for you to learn about video production and creating gorgeous videos you’ll be proud of.

Christmas Gift Ideas: 5 Video Production Books

1. How to Shoot Video That Doesn’t Suck: Advice to Make Any Amateur Look Like a Pro

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If you’re ready to get started with video production and don’t want to spend a ton of time reading video production books and manuals, then it’s time to let Steve Stockman teach you what you need to know. While there are an impressive 74 chapters in this book, they are all short, exciting, easy to read, and packed with information so that you don’t feel like you’re wasting your time.

You’ll learn all of the rules about how to keep your audience entertained and ensure that they actually want to watch the video that you have made. Additionally, you’ll learn how to think in shots and move around to capture the best video that you can and then edit it into a flawless final product during post-production.

With information on lighting, framing, soundediting, and even why you should skip the special effects, this book is full of knowledge that is applicable to any shooting situation. Whether you are shooting a video for your child’s birthday party or making a video about your church, this book will ensure that the final product looks amazing.

Donate Toys for Christmas: 5 Places That Put Donations to Good Use

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Want to donate toys for Christmas? As the holiday season approaches, it’s time to give back and reach out. If your church or children’s ministry conducts an annual toy drive, you’ll need to know where to donate toys.

First, however, make sure families know what types of toys to purchase or collect. Do they need to be brand new? Are used-but-clean toys okay? Other considerations include price range, age ranges, and safety. (Some places, for example, don’t accept donations of toy guns or other weapons.) Also be clear about collection deadlines, because many programs distribute toys early in December.

For maximum impact, consider supporting local kid-friendly organizations. To get started, here are ideas about where to donate toys for Christmas:

5 Places to Donate Toys for Christmas

1. Local Food Banks and Shelters

Check with nearby food banks and pantries, as well as homeless shelters and domestic violence shelters. As December approaches, many of these places conduct toy drives and hold Santa Shops. The goal is to let parents in need select items to put under the tree for their children. At other times of the year, shelters may need toys or books for waiting rooms, to keep kids occupied during consultations.

2. Children’s Hospitals or Clinics

Being sick or hospitalized is never fun but can be especially tough near the holidays. Hospitals and clinics that treat young patients often request toys near Christmastime. So your church or children’s ministry can brighten spirits and shine Jesus’ light. Check to see if you can include encouraging notes, drawings, or even photos with the toy donations.

3. Elementary Schools

In both urban and rural areas, churches now often partner with local public school systems. Especially in low-income areas, elementary schools are eager to connect with congregations for tutoring assistance and contributions. Food baskets and toys make Christmas extra-special for families with young students.

7 Spirits of God in Revelation: Resources for a Youth Ministry Bible Study

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Need materials to teach teens about the 7 spirits of God in Revelation? Then read on for a variety of lessons and resources.

Young people are often curious about Revelation, which makes a fascinating Bible study topic. One aspect of that Bible book that’s worthy of exploration is the 7 spirits of God. These spirits receive multiple mentions in the book of Revelation, and they’re named in Isaiah.

The 7 spirits of God in Revelation are sometimes tied to spiritual prophecies. Other people connect them to numerology, symbolism, and colors. So use care when choosing resources related to this topic. When in doubt, seek advice from a senior pastor. Then pray that God’s Holy Spirit will guide your teaching of this subject.

What are the 7 Spirits of God in Revelation?

“The seven Spirits” appear in Revelation 1:4; 3:1; 4:5; and 5:6. Some people interpret them to be the sevenfold ministry of the Holy Spirit from Isaiah 11:2-3. “The Spirit of the LORD will rest on him—the Spirit of wisdom and of understanding, the Spirit of counsel and of might, the Spirit of the knowledge and fear of the LORD—and he will delight in the fear of the LORD.”

So the 7 Spirits of God in Revelation are:

  1. The Spirit of the Lord
  2. Wisdom
  3. Understanding
  4. Counsel
  5. Might
  6. Knowledge
  7. The Fear of the Lord

7 Spirits of God in Revelation: 7 Youth Ministry Resources

Numerous websites offer biblical insights about the 7 spirits of God. Start by checking out these seven options. Use material that best fits with your church’s teachings. Also adapt the information for your youth group members.

1. Who Are the 7 Spirits in Revelation?

First, this helpful article offers a thorough look at the 7 spirits of God. The author reminds readers that Revelation’s apocalyptic nature should impact how we study it.

2. The Sevenfold Spirit of God

David Schrock connects the Revelation and Isaiah Bible passages to Paul’s teachings about the Spirit of God in 1 Corinthians.

IHOPKC Spokesperson Eric Volz Informs Abuse Survivors He Can ‘Identify’ With Them, Assures a ‘Christ-Honoring Pursuit of the Truth’

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During Forerunner Church’s Sunday morning worship service yesterday (Dec. 10), David House Agency founder Eric Volz (44) was announced as the International House of Prayer of Kansas City (IHOPKC) spokesperson regarding the allegations of sexual and spiritual abuse against IHOPKC founder Mike Bickle.

In 2006, the American-born Volz was wrongly convicted and sentenced to 30 years in prison by a Nicaraguan judge for the rape and murder of his ex-girlfriend, Doris Ivania Jiménez, in San Juan del Sur. Volz’s conviction was overturned by an appellate court over a year later in 2007.

Following his return to the United States, Volz was approached by families who had experienced similar situations and who were seeking guidance from Volz in the hope they would see family members released from wrongful imprisonment. Due to the increasing volume of cases, Volz founded David House Agency in 2011.

RELATED: IHOPKC Announces New Third-Party Firm Conducting Investigation, New Commission, and Eric Volz as Spokesperson

According to The New York Times, Volz “is a highly sought crisis manager for Americans entangled in criminal prosecutions overseas. His hand is visible in some of the highest-profile cases of recent years.”

Volz told Forerunner Church that while he was in prison, he dedicated his life to Christ. He said that his agency wasn’t brought on to “clean” things up but rather to “help IHOP get to heart of this matter…I’ve made it crystal clear that I’m not going to participate in anything except an honest and thorough and Christ-honoring pursuit of the truth.”

ChurchLeaders reached out to Volz and asked him to clarify what he meant when he told Forerunner Church that he’s “not a stranger to the pain of trauma” and that he can “identify with alleged victims in this case.”

RELATED: IHOPKC Founder Mike Bickle Steps Away From Ministry Because of ‘Credible and Long-Standing’ Sexual Abuse Allegations

“I am a survivor of a political imprisonment by an anti-American communist government,” Volz said. “I know what it is like to experience abuse at the hands of a perpetrator. I experienced violence. I experienced torture. Food was withheld. I was slandered. At one point, I was kept in a concrete box for five days.”

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“I know what it is like to swim in trauma, and I know what it’s like to rebuild and to heal,” he added. “Fortunately, I had proof of my innocence and friends and family that fought tirelessly for justice. That is not the case for many, and that is why today I fight for those who don’t have that kind of support.”

Volz addressed those who have questioned IHOPKC’s decision to bring on David House Agency as an outside advisor by saying that “it is completely normal for an organization this size navigating a crisis of this magnitude and complexity.” Volz told ChurchLeaders that the announcement made during Sunday’s worship service “should be celebrated by the Advocate Group and those championing for accountability and truth.”

Satanic Holiday Display in Iowa Capitol Sparks Religious Liberty Debate

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In what’s become a regular occurrence, The Satanic Temple has placed a holiday display in a high-profile public location. This time, the group is showcasing a mirror-covered ram’s head on a mannequin dressed in red. It’s on display for two weeks inside the Iowa State Capitol building in Des Moines.

RELATED: The Satanic Temple Puts Up Holiday Display Next to Nativity, Menorah in Illinois Capitol

Lucien Greaves, co-founder of The Satanic Temple, said the display stands for the group’s right to freedom of religion. “We’re going to really relish the opportunity to be represented in a public forum,” he said. “We don’t have a church on every street corner.”

Iowa Resident: ‘Spiritual Warfare Is Real’

According to its website, The Satanic Temple is a “nontheistic” group that doesn’t believe in a literal Satan, worship Satan, or proselytize. The group sponsors After School Satan Clubs to “focus on free inquiry and rationalism.”

When Iowa resident Shellie Flockhart heard about the display, she organized a prayer group by the Christmas tree inside the capitol. She described the ram display as “a very dark, evil force” and a reminder that “spiritual warfare is real.” Flockhart added, “There are evil, satanic forces that are trying to infiltrate our state.”

For people who oppose his group’s symbols, Greaves offered this suggestion: “If people don’t like our display in public forums, they don’t have to engage with them. They don’t have to view them.”

Iowa State Rep: ‘We Have Nothing To Fear’

Last week, Iowa State Rep. Jon Dunwell made several social media posts about the satanic display, citing constituents’ concerns. The Republican, who before moving to Iowa pastored Christian & Missionary Alliance churches in Florida and Minnesota, wrote from several perspectives.

First, as a state representative, he explained the display process and guidelines, which the Iowa Legislature sets. The Satanic Temple applied for its holiday display back in August and received approval “with some modification,” according to Dunwell. “They wanted to use an actual goat head (I’m assuming a skull).” As a politician, Dunwell said, “I don’t want the state evaluating and making determinations about religions. I am guided by the First Amendment.”

As a follower of Christ, he added, “I certainly find a display from the Satanic Temple objectionable.” While noting he finds it evil and dangerous, he added, “In fairness, many other religions or nonreligious people have the same perspective about Christianity.”

Dunwell reminded citizens, “The display is an inanimate object that has no real power in and of itself. We have nothing to fear.” As a Christian, he said, he’s opposed to the display’s message and plans to respond primarily through prayer. “The display itself is an invitation of the work we have yet to do,” he wrote. “Iowa needs Jesus.”

Dunwell also pledged to keep talking with constituents and other state officials. He indicated he wouldn’t “mix the kingdoms,” because “government is a poor arbitrator of religion.”

‘Truly Unimaginable’—South Carolina Church Sees an ‘Overwhelming’ 141 Baptisms

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On Sunday, Dec. 3, First Baptist Church (more commonly known as Upstate Church) of Simpsonville, South Carolina, experienced an “overwhelming” response and baptized 141 people across six church campuses.

“We have never seen anything like this in our church,” Senior Pastor Wayne Bray told Baptist Press. “To think that 141 people followed the Lord in baptism is truly unimaginable for me. I feel so blessed to be the pastor of Upstate Church.”

Upstate Church Made Plans for an Emphasis on Baptisms; God Had Even Bigger Plans

Church leadership planned an evangelistic series on church ordinances leading up to this event. The series included key truths surrounding the practices of baptism and the Lord’s Supper. To place special emphasis on baptism during the services on Dec. 3, the church decided to postpone the monthly baptisms scheduled in November.

“Our hope was to have someone scheduled for baptism in every service on every campus,” said Bray. “By Friday, Dec. 1, we already had 86 baptisms scheduled across all our campuses. This was overwhelming, but it gave us even more confidence to preach the Gospel on Sunday, expecting the Holy Spirit to move.”

“We had 55 additional decisions (Sunday) across all locations,” reported Bray, for a total of 141 baptisms.

Church leadership planned to alter the usual order of service to allow flexibility for responses on Sunday. The pastors at each church location “presented a clear Gospel message” before praise and worship “and called for a response at two different points in the sermon,” Bray explained. Then, there was time for the pastors to meet personally with each candidate and assess his or her readiness for baptism.

The two-part invitation intentionally included both those who had never made a profession of faith and those who had been attending but had never been baptized.

“This allowed time for all spontaneous decisions to be confirmed by counselors prior to being baptized,” Bray said. “We were very careful to make sure every decision was confirmed, turning away multiple people who needed more time to talk through their decision.”

“We don’t believe that God’s recent activity in our church is an accident of an exception in his eternal plan,” Bray told Fox News Digital. “In many ways, we credit his recent work to a radical balance of truth and grace, exemplified by Jesus in John 1:14.”

Upstate Church posted photos of the baptisms from various locations. Those baptized were shown praying, smiling, and rejoicing as they wore shirts saying “Raised to Life.”

Dozens of friends and family at the church have interacted with the post with encouragement and praise to God. One said, “We need a whole lot more of this. Glory be to God.”

IHOPKC Announces New Third-Party Firm Conducting Investigation, New Commission, and Eric Volz as Spokesperson

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On Sunday, Dec. 10, the executive committee of the board of directors of International House of Prayer Kansas City (IHOPKC) released an update regarding the sexual and spiritual abuse allegations against Mike Bickle, the ministry’s founder.

In the update, it was announced that the Executive Leadership Team (ELT) would no longer be handling the “management of the crisis”—most of which was managed by Executive Director Stuart Greaves. Instead, the investigation will now be overseen by the executive committee. This decision was made “as a matter of wisdom, governance, and the growing size of the complexity of this crisis.”

IHOPKC leadership believes that allowing Greaves to pass this responsibility off to the executive committee will allow him to “focus on our community, the body, our base, and the healing of hearts.”

RELATED: IHOPKC Founder Mike Bickle Steps Away From Ministry Because of ‘Credible and Long-Standing’ Sexual Abuse Allegations

Additionally, Eric Volz, the managing director of the David House Agency, an international crisis firm that specializes in solving political and legal problems overseas, was named as IHOPKC’s official outside spokesperson.

Volz was wrongly convicted of raping and murdering his ex-girlfriend in Nicaragua in 2006 and has been recognized by The New York Times “as a highly sought crisis manager.”

IHOPKC also revealed that it has engaged a “new third-party” firm that “has extensive experience conducting independent investigations into high-profile cases across the Kansas City metro area” (including clergy abuse allegations) to conduct an independent investigation into the claim of sexual abuse against Bickle.

The firm, which will remain unnamed in an attempt to avoid any outside interference during the investigation, is trauma-informed.

IHOPKC said it is not controlling the investigation and has no “ability to dictate the process or outcome.” Leadership informed the public that the third-party investigative firm has no ties to IHOPKC and has been in contact with all of Bickle’s alleged victims.

RELATED: Mike Bickle Agrees to Indefinite Ministry Leave As IHOPKC Releases New Statement

The duration of the investigation is unknown and “will depend on several factors, the main one being whether or not the alleged victims and parties involved are willing to participate,” the executive committee said. “We hope that they will participate, so that truth can be brought to light quickly.”

Alabama Megachurch Pastor’s Son Wins Over $52K on ‘Wheel of Fortune’

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Michael Hodges, son of Church of the Highlands pastor Chris Hodges, won $52,650 on “Wheel of Fortune” during an episode that aired Thursday, Dec. 7. Michael’s wife, Katie, posted about the win on Instagram, revealing that the show was filmed in October.

“Still can’t believe it!! What a FUN adventure!” she said on Friday, Dec. 8. “We went to LA back in October but couldn’t say why we were there but we were actually there to film Wheel of Fortune!”

RELATED: Kentucky Pastor Wins Over $61,000 on ‘Wheel of Fortune’ While Bringing Awareness to Foster and Adoption Care

 

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Michael Hodges Wins Big on ‘Wheel’

Michael Hodges is vice president of spiritual development at Highlands College in Birmingham, Alabama. His father, Chris Hodges, is founder and chancellor of the college (established in 2011) and the founding and senior pastor of Church of the Highlands (a megachurch established in 2001).

Chris is also the founder of GrowLeader, which trains and equips church leaders, and a cofounder of Association of Related Churches (ARC).

“My son Michael was the big winner on Wheel of Fortune tonight!” Chris Hodges posted on Dec. 7. “Just in time for the Legacy Offering 😜.” 

😂😂 Just trying to make an #eternalimpact,” Katie replied.

The video in Katie Hodges’ post shows an excited Michael arriving at the “Wheel of Fortune” studio early in the morning. “I’m losing my freaking mind,” he said. “But it’s gonna be a good day.” 

“It was the longest day. Michael left at 6am that Thursday and there was still a chance he may not be selected to be on the show,” Katie said. “He couldn’t have his phone all day so even after @kristinmartele [Kristin Mitchell] and I arrived 11am, we still didn’t know if he even made it on the show!”

In the video, Katie Hodges and Kristin Mitchell scope out the “Wheel of Fortune” studio and take a photo in front of a picture of Pat Sajak and Vanna White. 

“After sitting in the studio audience through filming for 5 hours, he finally came on!” Katie wrote. “It was so much to take in and I remember thinking HOW IN THE WORLD DID HE SOLVE THOSE PUZZLES SO FAST! He does them pretty quick at home but it’s a whole other ballgame doing it in person! I was blown away!”

‘His Choices Caused Harm’—Wife Speaks Out After Pastor Husband Dies by Suicide Amid Child Sex Abuse Allegations

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Jarrett Booker, a 37-year-old former youth and worship pastor in Nashua, New Hampshire, was found dead two days after he was terminated from his church amid credible allegations of child sex abuse. The cause of death was suicide. 

Nashua Baptist Church, where Booker had served as a pastor, said in a statement on Nov. 29 that Booker died by suicide on the evening of Nov. 27, one day after church leadership communicated to the congregation that Booker had been terminated and was the subject of a criminal investigation. 

“On November 22, we became aware of a criminal investigation concerning credible allegations of sexual abuse against minors, implicating Jarrett Booker,” the church said. “Jarrett had been an integral part of our church, serving as Pastor of Worship and Youth Ministry for nearly a decade.”

“These allegations prompted an internal review which revealed further evidence of misconduct,” the statement continued. “Regardless of the outcome of any criminal investigation, this behavior undeniably violated the moral and ethical standards we expect of our leaders and did not uphold the standards of our faith.”

RELATED: SBC Pastor Found Dead After Apparent Suicide Days After Secret Life Exposed

“Consequently, we made the decision to immediately terminate Jarrett’s employment, effective November 25,” the church said. Nashua Baptist Church elders communicated the decision with the church the next day.

“This event has added immeasurably to the complexity and pain of the situation,” the statement went on to say. “Nashua Baptist Church unequivocally condemns all forms of abuse. It is evil and our God hates it. We are committed to transparency and to supporting the healing process for victims.”

The church further urged anyone with information about Booker’s “inexcusable actions” to contact the police. 

Sgt. John Cinelli, the public information officer and communications division supervisor for the Nashua Police Department, confirmed with Patch that Booker was under criminal investigation.

“We learned of the alleged crimes through an investigation by another police department,” he said. “The investigation is still ongoing even though the suspect is deceased.”

RELATED: The Episcopal Church Reckons With Tangled Protocol on Clergy Abuse and Accountability

Booker is survived by his wife, Rachel, and his son, Edward, as well as his parents, brother, in-laws, and nieces.

Preaching to Polarized Congregations: A Responsibility and a Challenge, Clergy Say

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Attendees participate in small group discussions during the second annual One America Movement Summit in May 2023 in Atlanta. (Courtesy photo)

(RNS) — The Rev. Susan Sparks, a minister and a professional comedian, uses humor in her sermons to help her American Baptist congregation in New York City consider ways to approach those with whom they disagree.

Pastor Joel Rainey, who leads a West Virginia evangelical church, hosts a “special edition” of his preaching podcast to answer questions he’s received from his politically diverse congregation about hot-button issues.

Rabbi Rachel Schmelkin recently preached about anger, realizing it was an emotion felt by congregants of her Reform synagogue in Washington, no matter their stance on the Israel-Hamas war.

Fueled by their work in comedy, psychology and theology, some clergy say reducing polarization is both a spiritual necessity for them and an ever-increasing part of their job description.

Sparks, who has been on the Laugh in Peace comedy tour with a rabbi and a Muslim comic, said she can see shoulders relax and smiles appear on faces when she starts a sermon in a joking matter — such as the battle over what topping is appropriate on a sweet potato casserole. But then she can move into tougher subjects as she addresses her multiethnic congregation.

“I did a piece on how cancer does not discriminate between Republicans and Democrats,” said Sparks, a cancer survivor, referencing another sermon. “There’s things that we all experience, and we can start there and find that place, enjoy a little moment where we can share something and take tiny baby steps off that to move into harder territory.”

Preaching is one means, she and others say, that clergy can attempt to help congregants get along better with each other and, by extension, their families and friends.

“We used to have congregations where people would be shaped by Scripture and by their faith leader and then they would listen to the news and say, well, that does or doesn’t fit in with my faith,” said Andrew Hanauer, president and CEO of One America Movement, a Maryland-based organization founded in 2017 that supports leaders of congregations, from Southern Baptists to mainline Protestants to Muslims.

Now, as people often align first with a viewpoint they’ve heard on cable news or read in social media, he said clergy have to answer new questions: “How do you preach in a way that moves people out of complacency about the world in general but also let’s them know this is not a Democratic church or a Republican church, it’s a church for all God’s people?”

In recent years — especially since 2020 — as clashes over race, politics and health have escalated into what Hanauer calls “toxic polarization,” clergy can feel like they are walking a knife’s edge in their sermons, as they preach to divided — and sometimes hostile — congregations.

One America Movement, along with the Colossian Forum and other clergy resource groups, has found that pastors are seeking ideas for how to preach in ways that heal, rather than further widen, the social and political divides within their congregations.

In the last year and a half, Hanauer’s organization has worked with more than 100 clergy as they consider sermons or other messaging related to polarization.

10 Characteristics of the Best Preachers I’ve Known

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First, a caveat: determining what constitutes an effective preacher is subjective, so you and I might differ here a bit—but, I also suspect that we can agree that we know good preaching when we hear it. Based on my interactions with pastors for almost 30 years, here are characteristics of the best preachers I’ve known:

  1. They love the Word. It’s on their lips not only from the pulpit, but throughout the day. Their preaching really is an overflow of their walk with God.
  2. They teach the Word. Their goal is to leave their hearers with a word from the Lord via His Word and His Spirit. People come back to hear them because they know the preacher won’t waste their time.
  3. Their lives bring credibility to their message. That is, nobody questions their integrity as preachers of the Word because they live out their message. You want to hear from them because you trust they’ve been with God.
  4. They prioritize sermon preparation. Because they set aside time each week to study, seldom do they come to the pulpit unprepared. Anecdotally, strong preachers generally talk to me about 10-12 hours of sermon preparation each week.
  5. They’re prayerful. The best preachers I know are also some of the most prayerful people I know. Their prayer essentially says, “God, I can’t do this work alone, so please help me.”
  6. They preach with conviction and compassion. They really believe what they say they believe, but they speak it in a way that invites others to listen. That is, they’re engaging with the force of conviction. Their style makes you feel like you’re having a conversation with the pastor—but you know you’re talking with a man of God.
  7. They work hard on the sermon’s introduction and conclusion. The former draws the listeners in, and the latter sends them out to serve and minister. Introductions and conclusions are concise and clear.
  8. They include clear application in their sermons. Preaching without application becomes information more than transformation. From these effective preachers, listeners know possible steps to take on the basis of the Word they had just heard; they don’t have to guess how to live out the Word’s teachings.
  9. They welcome critique from people they trust. These preachers work intentionally to strengthen their preaching, and they invite others (e.g., accountability partner, staff members, lay leaders) to give their assessment of the preaching.
  10. They lead from the pulpit. They recognize the significance of the preaching moment when the pastor who shepherds a particular people speaks a particular word to them at a particular time. They lead through preaching.

What would you add to this list?

This article originally appeared here and is used by permission.

What’s the Choice When the Options Are Church or Family?

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It’s almost time for the rousing cry of May signaling the official start to summer is here. Summer vacation means sleeping in, sunny days, water sports, sandy beaches, campfires, parades, and plenty of time with family and friends.

It also means that church attendance in the United States plummets.

Like seriously takes a nosedive. Attendance becomes sporadic and spotty. When school lets out for the summer, it seems like church does too. The response of the church has been to cut programming (no Wednesday nights for the summer anyone?) and plan “fun events” like picnics and Vacation Bible School. And the post-Covid environment just seems to amplify the concerns.

As a parent, I get it. All year long our calendar is held captive by the school calendar that informs when we can go away and for how long. Seeing extended family is difficult when you have two days to travel. And spending quality time together can suffer. So planning vacations and day trips during the summer months makes sense.

As a minister, I used to dread it. It’s hard. You develop relationships with kids and you have really cool things going like small groups and prayer teams and discipleship, and then, you don’t see them but off and on for weeks. And then there is Vacation Bible School; don’t even get me started on that. The sheer amount of time and effort that is put into pulling off a “successful” VBS event takes all the energy you have, so the regular programming starts to suffer.

I’ve seen some posts recently from children’s pastors around the country utterly discouraged by this attendance reality and frustrated and what seems like a lack of commitment and concern. On the other hand, I’ve seen equally as many posts from parents excited about the cool things they have planned this summer to do as a family and the memories they are looking forward to making.

So who’s right? What’s more important? Church or family?

And therein, I believe, lies the problem. Because of the “way” we do church (Sunday morning, Wednesday night and/or separate ministries for the family members), if someone misses one of these times, it leaves a gap; a sizable gap. But families who want to spend these summer months together don’t want to come to a place where once again they are separated and unable to be with each other. So it becomes a choice – do I go with my family OR do I go to church?

Ugh. Those choices kinda stink.

What ends up happening then is that when the opportunity arises by default of the summer school schedule to spend that quantity of quality time together, the choice becomes clear –family. And when the default schedule makes finding that quantity of quality time together more difficult – church.

But I don’t think either of those reflect God’s heart for family or for church. In fact, I think that it creates a tension where the two are opposed to each other rather than being in partnership with one another. Where there should be mutual edification, there is instead unhealthy competition. And let me be clear, this also takes place with sports, especially travel ball, and academics, especially academic teams, and friends, especially non-churchgoing friends.

And I don’t have all the answers, but I do know this.

Church isn’t supposed to be a building or a program or a set time in the week. And family isn’t supposed to be vacations and softball games and straight As on report cards. 

Those things might be a part of what church and family are, but they are not supposed to define them.

How to Connect With Young Families at Church

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Many churches in America have aging congregations, and a constant prayer in all of them is that they might connect with young families at church. A primary response to this need is for churches to upgrade their children’s programs and make certain their nurseries are spotless, attractive, and well-staffed. Though facilities responses are essential, communication responses are also important if your church wants to have a family come back more than once.

Connect With Young Families at Church

You’ve got to speak the same language as younger people. Imagine if you were invited to a party by a close friend. The friend tells you that the people are great and you’ll have a fantastic time. You approach the party with excitement — but when you open the door, you discover that the party guests are all speaking the language of their native country and English isn’t allowed. They are all English speakers, but they prefer to not speak it at their parties. They smile and are very nice. They offer you food; they have a game room for your kids; but when you try to talk to them, they shake their head and say your language isn’t allowed. You will probably leave as quickly as you can and decide you never want to associate with that group again.

The language of many young people today is technology and if you don’t speak that language, they will feel about as welcome as the guest in the story above. Attitude is one of the most important things in learning to speak the language of technology. You may not know how to do the things that are suggested below, but admitting that your church is working on these areas and perhaps even asking for help to implement them, will go a long way to connect with young families at church.

None of the comments that follow should be taken as a recommendation that you do away with any of your current means of church communications. You still need printed Bibles, email, phone calls, postcards, and whatever else the people in your church use for communications. The challenge today is that we can’t do away with past means of communication, but we continuously need to add new ones if you want to connect with young families at church.

1. Use of cell phones and tablets in church and adult education classes.

This seems so basic, but I still see church bulletins that tell people not to use their phone even to read their Bibles in church! One church went so far as to give a mini-lecture in print on how irreverent it was to read the Bible on your phone and how distracting it was to those around you. I don’t imagine many who were used to reading the Bible on their phones came back a second time to that church.

In contrast, at another church when it’s morning time to read the Scripture for the morning, the Pastor invites people to follow along, “either on the screen in front, your printed Bible, or whatever electronic device you enjoy using.”

It isn’t surprising that this church is able to attract young families to church, has recently been running announcements in the bulletin asking for volunteers in the ever-growing children’s programs.

2. Be sure your website is responsive and constantly updated

A responsive website is one that can be easily accessed on a smartphone.  A responsive website resizes so that text can easily be read on the smaller screen. A website that isn’t responsive can be accessed with a smartphone, but it’s hard to read and extremely difficult to find anything on it. For people who use their smartphones to look up every part of their lives, if your church makes that impossible, they won’t bother to go to a desktop computer or call the church office. If you really want to attract young families to church making a church website responsive can be as simple as changing the underlying template for the site if your site is built using WordPress.

R.C. Sproul: The Glory of Christmas

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The glory of Christmas – On the night Jesus was born something spectacular took place. The plains of Bethlehem became the theater for one of the most spectacular sound-and-light shows in human history. All heaven broke loose.

Luke tells us what happened:

And there were shepherds living out in the fields nearby, keeping watch over their flocks at night. An angel of the Lord appeared to them, and the glory of the Lord shone around them, and they were terrified. But the angel said to them, “Do not be afraid. I bring you good news of great joy that will be for all people. Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; he is Christ the Lord. This will be a sign to you: You will find a baby wrapped in cloths and lying in a manger.”

Suddenly a great company of the heavenly host appeared with the angel, praising God and saying, “Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace to men on whom his favor rests.” (Luke 2:8-14)

The angelic visitor was surrounded by the glory of God. The glory was shining. This glory did not belong to the angel himself. It was God’s glory, signifying His divine mode of being. It was the divine splendor that shrouded the heavenly messenger, a visible divine radiance.

The Glory of Christmas

When the shepherds of Bethlehem quaked in fear, they were admonished by the angel: “Do not be afraid, for behold I bring you good tidings of great joy which will be to all people. For there is born to you this day in the city of David a Savior, who is Christ the Lord” (Luke 2:10-11, NKJV).

Every human being longs for a savior of some type. We look for someone or something that will solve our problems, ease our pain, or grant the most elusive goal of all, happiness. From the pursuit of success in business to the discovery of a perfect mate or friend, we make our search.

Even in the preoccupation with sports we show a hope for a savior. As a sports season ends with far more losers than winners, we hear the cry from cities across the land—“Wait till next year!” Then comes the draft or a new crop of rookies, and the fans pin their hopes and dreams on the new kid who will bring glory to the team. The rookie, the new client, the new machine, the news that will arrive in tomorrow’s mail—all are invested with more hope than any creature can possibly deliver.

The burst of light that flooded the fields of Bethlehem announced the advent of a Savior who was able to do the task.

We note that the newborn Savior is also called “Christ the Lord.” To the astonished shepherds these titles were pregnant with meaning. This Savior is the Christ, the long-awaited Messiah of Israel. Every Jew remembered the promise of God that someday the Messiah, the Lord’s anointed, would come to deliver Israel. This Messiah-Savior is also Lord. He not only will save His people but He will be their King, their Sovereign.

The angel declares that this Savior-Messiah-Lord is born “unto you.” The divine announcement is not an oracle of judgment but the declaration of a gift. The newborn King is born for us. That’s the glory of Christmas.

 

This article on the glory of Christmas originally appeared here, and is used by permission. 

What Is God’s Common Grace?

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Common grace is one of my very favorite doctrines. I so love it and wish it were better understood and more often celebrated.

“Common grace” points out that God loves the whole world, and exercises patience and kindness even to those who ultimately reject Him. In his excellent book Bible Doctrine, Wayne Grudem says, “Common grace is the grace of God by which he gives people innumerable blessings that are not part of salvation. The word common here means something that is common to all people and is not restricted to believers or to the elect only.”

This magnificent and beautiful doctrine flows right off the pages of Scripture and is repeatedly confirmed by daily observation. It is demonstrated in Christ’s words, “Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, so that you may be sons of your Father who is in heaven; for he makes his sun rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the just and on the unjust” (Matthew 5:44-45).

We Ask the Wrong Question

Common grace emphasizes the goodness of God. It exactly reverses the standard logic most people use. For example, Rabbi Kushner asked, “Why Do Bad Things Happen to Good People?” and concluded in his bestselling book that God is either not all-good or not all-powerful. He bailed God out (so he thought), rescuing Him from not being good by concluding God is not all-powerful.

Understanding neither God’s holiness nor the reality and extent of our sin, we fail to realize that the question of why bad things happen to good people is exactly backwards. It’s the wrong question. The real question (which angels likely ask, having seen their angelic brethren permanently evicted from Heaven for their rebellion) is “Why Do Good Things Happen to Bad People?” If we understood who God is and how we are, that is exactly the question we would ask.

This is the wonder and awesomeness of the doctrine of common grace. God graciously and kindly brings good to people who deserve the fires of Hell not simply eventually, but right now. It is characteristic of bad people to not think of themselves as being bad. We imagine we are good (not perfect, but good enough), so we fail to marvel at God’s common grace. When a tsunami happens, we ask, “Where is a good God?” But when a tsunami doesn’t happen, we usually fail to thank Him for restraining from us the devastations of a world in rebellion against God. And certainly we never say, “Where is a just God? Why hasn’t He struck me down for my sin today?” Instead, we moan that we can’t find a close parking space on a rainy day.

Jesus appeals to God’s common grace as a basis for our extending grace to others, even those who hate us (Luke 6:35-36). If not for God’s common grace—if God brought immediate terrible judgment on unbelievers—the world as we know it wouldn’t exist. Among other things, no one would have an opportunity to come to Christ, since we would be immediately cast into Hell.

He Is Good to All

Paul said to unbelievers, “In past generations he allowed all the nations to walk in their own ways; yet he did not leave himself without witness, for he did good and gave you from heaven rains and fruitful seasons, satisfying your hearts with food and gladness” (Acts 14:16-17). I find this a very touching statement of God’s grace toward all, and an appeal for all people to realize His love, even in a world under the curse. Satan is taking his toll on this world in bondage to sin, but even though none of us deserve His grace, God extends it to us. This world gives foretastes of both Heaven and Hell. Tragically, it is the closest to Heaven the unbeliever will ever know, and wonderfully, it is the closest to Hell the child of God will ever know.

David says, “The LORD is good to all, and his compassion is over all that he has made. . . . The eyes of all look to you, and you give them their food in due season. You open your hand, you satisfy the desire of every living thing” (Psalm 145:9, 15-16). God cares for His creation and extends His grace to all—not only people but animals, though they suffer under the Curse and will until Christ’s return.

Another thing I appreciate about common grace is its irony. God gives atheists not only food to eat and air to breathe, but also the very minds and wills and logic that they use to argue against Him. The man who says God cannot be good since He allows suffering doesn’t grasp that God is withholding from him the full extent of suffering he deserves for his evil, and that is the very thing that gives the man the luxury of formulating and leveling his accusations against God.

What Is the Worst Sin in the World?

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What is the worst sin in the world? Is it murder, rape, child molestation…?

Here are some hints:

  1. It is the original sin.
  2. It is the foundation of all other sins.
  3. When you commit this sin, you usually don’t even know it.
  4. Although it is the worst sin, you will virtually never hear a sermon or read a blog about it.
  5. People who dislike it in others are usually the ones who commit it the most.
  6. This worst sin carries a biblical promise that no one wants fulfilled.
  7. The more successful you become, the more likely you are to fall to this sin.
  8. The better you do at overcoming other sins, the more likely you are to have temptations with this one.
  9. It is a sin everyone deals with their whole life and when they think they have it licked, that’s a sure sign they don’t!

Well, have you guessed it by now?

Yes, the worst sin in the world is pride.

Why do I say this? Because of the facts listed above.

9 Reasons Pride Is Worst Sin in the World

1. It is the original sin.

This is true in two ways:

  1. Pride caused Lucifer to be cast out of heaven. The biblical account of the fall of Lucifer is that the devil).
  2. Pride caused mankind to be cast out of the original paradise (the Garden of Eden). When Adam and Eve were created, the temptation from the devil was to disobey, eat of the forbidden fruit and become “like God.” Imagine the arrogance! Incredible (Genesis 3:5).

2. It is the foundation of all other sins.

The original sin happened as a result of pride.

But that was just the beginning. Any time we sin, we are saying:

  • What I want is more important than what you want.
  • I am greater than the law.
  • I can trample on you, in order to do or get what I want.
  • I’m most important, far more important than God or others.

Soren Kierkegaard said that if he asked a servant for a glass of water and the servant brought him the most expensive wine in the world, “I would dismiss him until he learned that the enjoyment consists not in what I enjoy but in getting my own way.”

This desire to get our own way leads to all other sins. That’s why this is the worst sin—it is the start of all other sin.

3. When you commit this sin, you usually don’t even know it.

Unlike other sins that are so evident, pride is disguised.

In Star Trek science fiction, Romulan and Klingon ships have cloaking technology that makes them invisible to the USS Enterprise. More than once Captain Kirk and crew have been surprised by a cloaked ship.

Pride has a built in cloak of invisibility. If you have it, you very likely won’t see it.

But others will!

4. Although it is the worst sin, you will virtually never hear a sermon or read a blog about it.

Playing Hurt: Pastoring Through Pain

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Shake it off. Take one for the team. Those are adages we often hear from sports coaches and fans. Publicly acknowledging injuries can sideline players and even threaten their future with the team. So, those players play through their pain knowing that it’s often easier for a team to replace rather than rehabilitate them. This same pattern of expendability is also evident in church cultures. Pastors often sense a profound pressure to perform even when they might not feel like it. To secure their positions, they often play hurt and try pastoring through pain.

Pastoring Through Pain Eventually Takes Its Toll

Serving as a pastor doesn’t mean you are immune from the personal struggles of life, such as depression, anxiety, physical health issues, marital conflict, or financial strain. Most congregations don’t fully realize the physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual demands required to serve as a pastor. Individuals are often aware of the investments their pastors have made in their own life and the lives of their family members. What they don’t often calculate, however, is the cumulative time and energy those investments require when multiplied by the entire membership population of a congregation.

Pastors are often seen as personal counselors, mentors, leaders, friends, and spiritual advisors. When families are in crisis, their pastors are expected to referee, repair, and reclaim. At the same time, they are required to challenge their congregation with stellar sermons and songs every Sunday. If all congregants have the same expectation of pastoring through pain, then how can we not expect the stress of that responsibility to eventually take its toll?

The term belaying refers to a variety of techniques used in climbing to exert friction on a climbing rope so that a falling climber does not fall very far. A belayer is a climbing partner who secures the lead climber at the end of a rope and belays out rope as needed. When a lead climber loses his or her footing, the belayer secures the rope, allowing the climber to regain a secure foothold to continue the climb.

The reality is many pastors are so talented that they can fake it in spite of their pain and succeed without others holding their rope for a time. But, the reality is also that their talent will only take them so far, and the time will come when the inherent risks of trying to lead while pastoring through pain their own will cause them to fall alone. If their congregation is not willing to put safeguards or belayers in place to secure and invest in their physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual health as pastors, then maybe it is time for them to consider another congregation that will. The author of the book of Ecclesiastes said it a little more tactfully: “Two are better than one because they have a good return for their hard work. If either should fall, one can pick up the other. But how miserable are those who fall and don’t have a companion to help them up! Also, if two lie down together, they can stay warm. But how can anyone stay warm alone? Also, one can be overpowered, but two together can put up resistance. A three-ply cord doesn’t easily snap” (Eccl 4:9-12).

TEAM DISCUSSION QUESTIONS

  • Why have churches created a culture of pastoring through pain that requires its pastors to fake it when they are wrestling with some of the normal struggles of life?
  • What processes should we put in place to rehabilitate leaders instead of replacing them?
  • How will we know if someone is ready to serve again?
  • How might our congregations be healthier if pastors could openly model leading through pain?
  • If we haven’t put safeguards in place to offer physical, emotional, and spiritual healing and hope for our pastors, then who will?

 

This article on pastoring through pain originally appeared here, and is used by permission.

Jimmy Dodd: Planning a Ministry Sabbatical? Helpful Tips and Mistakes To Avoid

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What can we learn from the sabbatical experiences of other ministry leaders that can help our own sabbatical be even more refreshing and meaningful? In this week’s conversation on FrontStage BackStage, host Jason Daye is joined by Jimmy Dodd, founder and CEO of PastorServe. For over 24 years, PastorServe has been coming alongside of pastors, ensuring that no pastor walks alone. Jimmy has served as a church planter, a lead pastor, and a teaching pastor. He’s written a number of books, including the best-selling “Survive or Thrive: 6 Relationships Every Pastor Needs.” Together, Jimmy and Jason take a close look at the sabbatical that Jimmy recently completed. Jimmy shares from his own experiences about how he prepared for sabbatical, what he encountered during his sabbatical, and even some mistakes that he wants to encourage others to avoid.

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8 Things You Must Do To Be Picked Over Others for a Leadership Position

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Few things are as satisfying as when you select someone for a leadership position and then they not only succeed, but thrive in the role. When this happens, not only does it relieve stress but your organization has sustainability in that area of responsibility and is something you can build around.

4 People Competing For One Leadership Position

Houston Texans rookie quarterback CJ Stroud is tearing up the NFL right now so I think it is a good time to revisit how he earned his starting position while at Ohio State.

The competition for the starting quarterback job during the summer of 2021 was stiff.  The Ohio State quarterback room featured highly recruited Jack Miller, five-star recruit Kyle McCord, and five-star recruit Stroud. If competition was not strong enough already, Quinn Ewers, the #1 ranked player in the 2022 recruiting class reclassified and was now on campus as well.

But Stroud beat them all out.

So how did he do it and what can we learn which will make us a more attractive candidate for future leadership roles?

In this article from The Athletic, we learn eight things you must do to be picked for leadership positions over others from CJ Stroud:

1. Recognize the Opportunity

When making the announcement of the starting quarterback to the media, head coach Ryan Day pointed out, “It’s not an accomplishment. It’s an opportunity.” In other words, Stroud being named quarterback was not a coronation. There was work to do and if he was unsuccessful, quality options were still available.

When you are selected for a leadership position, be proud. It is quite an accomplishment but it comes with quite a responsibility as well. The selection is only an opportunity for you to serve others with excellence by doing the following:

2. Make Good Decisions

Your ability to have sound judgement, particularly in stressful situations will set you apart as someone worthy to be chosen for a leadership position. Coach Day continued, “He separated himself with his decision-making, his leadership skills, his accuracy.”

Accuracy for a quarterback is an important trait. It allows you to eliminate unnecessary mistakes. As a potential leader, you want to avoid unnecessary mistakes as well.

3. Correct Mistakes

No one expects a leader to be perfect but people do expect their leader to correct and learn from those mistakes. Stroud was not perfect that summer but quickly bounced back from mistakes. This was probably due to the next point.

4. Be Prepared

Leaders either prepare or repair. When Stroud was in high school, he would often show up to Monday game planning meetings more prepared than the staff. This habit of watching more film than his coaches carried over to college.

8 Reasons the Church Is a Light in a Troubled World

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Cultivating hope, expressing encouragement, and maintaining an authentically positive spirit are vital to your leadership. People need to sense your optimism as a leader.

But that’s not always easy, is it?

  • Discouragement may run close to the surface for you right now.
  • You may be carrying the weight of a difficult decision.
  • Attempting to anticipate what’s around the corner might be causing anxiety.

Sometimes, the difficult circumstances near us can blind us to the good surrounding us.

And because we devote a significant amount of time to solving problems (a normal part of leadership), it’s easy to forget the blessings.

It’s not unlike a farmer who works so diligently to tend the soil, fend off pests, get rid of weeds, and make sure the crops are watered. Yet, they can lose sight that all that hard work produces life-giving food that nourishes so many people!

What you do really matters!

In this post, I want to encourage you with eight reasons that let you know:

Your spiritual leadership is life-giving, and you are part of a divine mission that brings light to a troubled world. 

Action step:

As you read through this post, ask yourself which of the eight reasons are you fully living out and which ones could your church lean into more?

8 Reasons the Church Is a Light in a Troubled World

1. Truth That Stands the Test of Time Over All Controversy, Conflict and Confusion.

In an age when it seems like the truth is up for grabs and changes as fast as social media can produce it, it can be challenging to lead those who search for guidance and direction.

However…

Scripture has been challenged by skeptics, examined by scholars, questioned by the religious, and scoffed by atheists, but there is no test it can fail, and it cannot be silenced because you can’t silence the truth of God.

There is no guesswork about the veracity of Scripture. But, as a Christian leader, you can count on it as absolute truth to guide your decisions and your life.

2. Grace That Is Undeserved yet Freely Given.

As I examine my life, it seems like I fall short in some way almost daily, from impatience to a self-focused outlook, and I’m so grateful for God’s grace.

Grace is a gift but not an excuse, and as we have received grace, we must extend it to others.

Grace is at the core of the beauty and the power of the church. Grace replaces judgment and sets people free to live a life on purpose for God.

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