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Pastoral Ministry Is Never a Competition

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Prior to full-time pastoral ministry, I worked for several years in a Fortune 500 company. As in most companies, there were people who were highly respected experts. They were able to do their job well, advance and experience great professional success.

At the same time, many seemed to do it mostly alone. They really seemed like loners who had their way of doing things and they did it well. One thing I remember is that not only did people keep their own trade secrets close to the vest, they also frequently knocked the ladder out from others trying to climb up with them. I am not describing a unique professional environment here. Many companies and professionals thrive on this type of competition.

Pastoral Ministry Is Never a Competition

Interestingly, as I was coming up the ladder professionally, I was also considering whether or not full-time pastoral ministry was something that I should pursue. I would try to get time with church leaders to ask questions and get counsel. I found that my requests were largely ignored or worse—critically received. As I lived in the professional environment but was desirous of the ministry environment, I became frustrated (and embarrassed) that the church reflected an unhealthy and unbiblical business model.

Over the last decade or so, God has been very kind to lead me to multiple pastors who do not fit into this model. They don’t walk around with a saw in their satchel ready to cut out the rungs from your pastoral ministry development. Instead, they walk with you and help you get better.

4 Myths Christians Should Stop Believing About Depression

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There are so many myths about depression Christians should stop believing—for example, “True believers don’t suffer from depression.”

His false statement rang in my ear like a noisy gong—and then hung in the air like smoke, waiting to be cleared away. I wasn’t exactly sure how this conversation had started, but one thing led to another and I here I was with this visitor and a small group of men and women discussing the existence of depression among Christians.

It would have been a hard conversation for anyone to have, but for me—it was even harder still. Because little did this visitor know that I was only now emerging from the terrible pit of depression myself. Little did he know, that for me, this conversation was personal—because I’d felt like I’d just been to hell and back. Little did he know that my heart had wrestled and my body had collapsed under the pressure of depression, but that Jesus had held me the whole way through.

As a professional counselor, this was a conversation that I was glad to be a part of. For over a decade, I’ve worked with men, women, children and teens struggling with mild to severe depression. I’ve seen first-hand the pain and paralysis it can bring. But more so, I’ve experienced it in my own life. I know the sinking quicksand that can drain your body, burden your heart and eat away at your mind.

Christian Myths About Depression

It breaks my heart to hear the myths about depression Christians believe—and the shame that can be felt surrounding this topic. As I’ve interacted with more and more people on this topic, I’ve noticed that there are a few false ideas that continue to be perpetuated among believers.

1. Stop Believing Depression Is a Faith Issue.

Like the visitor had falsely said, “true believers don’t suffer from depression.” I think this is the worst of all the lies, because not only is it false, but it’s the antithesis of the entire message of Christ. As believers, we are never promised a pain-free, disease-free, struggle-free life. But we’re promised a Savior, a Comforter and a Friend. I look back at the hardest moments I have faced with depression and I see Jesus right by my side. I remember crying out one night and feeling all alone, and just then—God’s presence overwhelmed me in that moment. Just when I needed it the most. Depression has nothing to do with lack of faith, in fact, for me—it has been the catalyst for even deeper faith. Because some days, in the hardest moments, faith was the only thing I had.

2. Stop Believing Depression Can Be Prayed Away.

I prayed more during the days and months of my depression than I ever did in my entire life. But my depression didn’t magically disappear. I believe in prayer, and I believe in a God who can heal all things—in fact, I genuinely believe it was HIS hand that lifted my depression. But freedom from depression requires prayer AND treatment. Whether in the form of support, therapy or medication—as believers we have to have a “next steps” approach as we interact with people struggling with depression. God has given us wisdom, and loads of research, to help us understand the multifaceted disease of depression. It’s time for us to pray—but to also be prepared.

Kids Church Games: 17 Just-for-Fun Children’s Ministry Activities

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Kids church games are a blast to play! These 17 group games work well for children’s church or Sunday school. Or you can share these group games with parents for at-home fun.

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17 Fun Kids Church Games

Enjoy all these kids church games with your students. In the comments below, let us know which ones they like best!

1. Sticky Guy Game

First form two teams. Have each team choose a player to be their sticky guy. Then teams wraps a roll of duct tape around their sticky guy (sticky-side out). Teams have five minutes to blow up and stick as many balloons as they can to the tape on their sticky guy. After five minutes, the leader pops the balloons one at a time with a pin. Teams count to see which team has the most!

2. Ball/Chin Relay Game

Place balls on the floor. Then have a relay race to see which team can retrieve all the balls by picking them up with their chins and placing them in a bowl or bucket. First team done wins. This group game is really fun if you use wet sponges, too!

3. School of Fish Game

Each child gets a paper fish hanging by yarn that’s safety-pinned to the back of their shirt. Kids try to step on the other children’s fish. If a fish comes loose, the child sits down. When time is up, the team with the most fish still intact wins!

4. Balloon/Plunger Relay Game

Form two teams. Give each child a clean toilet plunger (or each team two plungers). The object is to pass water balloons down the line using only the plungers (upside down). The team that moves the most balloons in a given time wins.

5. Playdough or Sidewalk Chalk Pictionary Game

Create cards that each list a Bible character or story. Then kids use playdough or sidewalk chalk to create or draw it. Meanwhile, their teams guess which story they’re representing.

6. Two-Liter Guard Game

Make circles out of masking tape or chalk. Give each child a two-liter bottle of soda to place inside their circle. One child is It and tries to take each child’s soda. The children guarding the bottles must keep one foot inside their circle at all times. If they tag the bottle snatcher, they switch places.

7. Nowhere to Hide Game

Play this just like Hide & Seek. Except the person who’s It is armed with a spray bottle full of water. That person gets to spray each child he or she finds!

Navigating Church Politics As a Youth Leader: 5 Crucial Tips

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Navigating church politics as a youth leader can get complicated. As naive as you may have been as a newbie, you’re not anymore. You now know that if you want any budget increase to happen, you need Deacon Jameson’s support. And without Deacon Becker’s approval, you’ll get nowhere with that new curriculum. So you woo the right people. You grease the wheels, so to speak. Then you hope for the best.

In every church, routes exist to get things done. Key people must approve things. That’s church politics. But what’s the secret to navigating church politics as a youth leader?

Church politics refers to the decision-making process in the church, to the leaders involved and the roles they play. Despite its bad reputation, nothing is wrong about church politics in itself. Especially in bigger churches, you need church politics.

You need clear routes that lead to decisions, and you need to know who’s involved in this process. That’s where church politics come in. But like anything else, people can handle church politics correctly or incorrectly.

When done correctly, church politics can benefit the church and glorify God’s name. When done incorrectly, the exact opposite can happen. Unfortunately, many examples exist of church politics gone wrong, with horrible and sad results.

But that doesn’t mean you should disengage or stay away from church politics. If you want to accomplish your goals, you’ll need to get involved. You just have to learn to handle church politics the right way.

5 Tips for Navigating Church Politics As a Youth Leader

Here are my five golden rules for dealing with church politics:

1. Stay honest.

First, when dealing with church politics, always stick to the truth. (“If only because you don’t have to remember what you said,” according to Mark Twain.) Little white lies are just as much lies as the big fat ones. Even not saying anything can become a lie.

That doesn’t mean you should always share everything you know with everyone. But if you know that your information can make a difference and there’s no moral reason to be silent (like a promise of confidentiality), you have to speak up. So if someone asks for your opinion, give it, even if it’s negative. Speak with love, compassion and empathy, but speak the truth.

2. Stay fair.

After you’ve discovered people’s weak spots, it becomes easy to manipulate them. That doesn’t mean it’s right. Never lose your integrity in church politics, for not only will you hurt others, in the end, you’ll hurt yourself. And once lost, integrity is very tough to get back.

Remember: If you have to force or manipulate people to do things, something is probably very wrong with either you or your goals.

3. Stay open.

Next, be very careful of going behind people’s backs. If you have to do something in secret, it’s usually not right in some way. Everyone involved in the process should be heard.

A very easy check: With every conversation, ask yourself how you’d feel if Jesus were present. Would he feel comfortable with what you’re saying and with how you’re handling things? (A quick reminder: Jesus is present at all your conversations!)

It Is a ‘Sin’ If Christians Don’t Share the Gospel, Miles McPherson Tells Modern Church Leader Conference

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Pastor Miles McPherson of Rock Church in San Diego, California, challenged hundreds of Christians at the Modern Church Leader Conference on Monday (Oct. 21) to share the gospel with others, going as far as to say that it is sinful if they don’t.

“James tells us, if you know what to do good and you don’t do it, it’s a sin, and the best thing we can do is share the gospel of hope to people,” McPherson told ChurchLeaders during a follow-up interview.

He continued, “God has given us the ministry of reconciliation. [God] said, ‘If we follow him, he’ll make us fishers of men.’ So if we’re not doing what he called us to do, we’re not following his lead to seek and save the lost.”

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McPherson, who was a defensive back for the San Diego Chargers from 1982-1985 before founding Rock Church in 2000, said Satan wants followers of Christ to isolate themselves from the world so they don’t tell others about Jesus.

“A lot of times, as Christians, we create our own sense of righteousness, [saying], ‘Here’s our own path. I’m not an evangelist. I’m just going to go over here and learn the Bible,’” McPherson said.

“And that’s exactly what the devil wants us to do. [Stay] in the corner to keep to ourself,” he added. “But we’re a light. We should set it up on the hill.”

McPherson encouraged Christians not to let fear get in the way of sharing the gospel. “God hasn’t given us a spirit of fear,” he told ChurchLeaders. “The devil wants to intimidate us from sharing the gospel, from even saying you’re a Christian [or] carrying your Bible.”

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“We’re the head, not the tail. We’re a light in the darkness,” he explained. “Darkness never stays when the light is turned on. Ever! If we turn our light on, we’ll actually see how powerful the gospel is—the power of God unto salvation.”

Being fearful about sharing the gospel is really a “deception, and one of the ways to get over that is to learn the gospel,” said McPherson.

‘Literally a Matter of Life and Death’—Tony Dungy Urges Floridians To Vote Down ‘Right to Abortion Initiative’

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Tony Dungy is urging Floridians to vote “no” this November on Amendment 4, arguing it “would radically change the abortion landscape in Florida.” The vocal Christian and NFL Hall of Fame coach said the vote is “literally a matter of life and death.”

“I urge you to read this amendment very carefully before you vote. I’m convinced if you read it carefully, you will join me in voting no,” Dungy said in a video posted to X on Monday, Oct. 21. 

Dungy said the amendment “was strategically written to be vague and deceptive, giving voters little information about its sweeping impact.”

Tony Dungy: Vote ‘No’ on Florida Amendment 4

The amendment, which Dungy said is called the “Right to Abortion Initiative,” is sponsored by the political committee, Floridians Protecting Freedom. The amendment states

No law shall prohibit, penalize, delay, or restrict abortion before viability or when necessary to protect the patient’s health, as determined by the patient’s healthcare provider. This amendment does not change the Legislature’s constitutional authority to require notification to a parent or guardian before a minor has an abortion. 

Dungy’s first objection to the amendment is that it does not define “viability,” leaving interpretation open, he said, to 12 weeks, 24 weeks, or even 36 weeks. Central Florida Public Media (CFPM) reports that Florida has a state statute that defines “viability” as “the stage of fetal development when the life of a fetus is sustainable outside the womb through standard medical measures.”

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Second, Dungy took issue with the phrase, “healthcare provider,” because that term “could include employees of abortion clinics who are not doctors.”

CFPM also reports that state law defines what a healthcare provider is but acknowledged that included in that list are “a physician assistant, a registered nurse, a nurse midwife, a licensed practical nurse or advanced practice registered nurse licensed.”

Also included in the state statute’s list of healthcare providers are “a health care professional association and its employees or a corporate medical group and its employees.” Currently, a physician is required to be present during an abortion.

Forgetting This Important Truth About God Makes AI ‘Scary,’ Technology Expert Warns at Modern Church Leader Conference

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Tithe.ly and Breeze ChMS’ inaugural Modern Church Leader Conference kicked off in Dallas on Monday (Oct. 21), bringing together hundreds of leaders to explore the future of technology and innovation in the church.

In addition to offering over 40 practical training workshops led by industry experts like Phil Cooke and Dustin Stout, the conference featured Pastor Miles McPherson (Rock Church), Pastor Erwin McManus (Mosaic Church), Nona Jones (chief content & partnerships officer for YouVersion), Julie McCoy (president of BrandWell), Pastor Levi Lusko (Fresh Life Church), Pastor John Amanchukwu (Upper Room Church of God in Christ), and comedian Andrew Stanley, among others.

During the opening session, a panel of church technology experts discussed how technology has evolve ofter the last 10 years, encouraged church leaders not to fear but rather to leverage technology to impact Christ’s kingdom, and answered questions regarding artificial intelligence (AI).

The panel included Blue Van Dyke (StudioC), Rafi Ghazarian (Saddleback Church), Ben Boykin (Rock Church), Michael Whittle (Pulpit Al) and Tithe.ly founders Dean Sweetman (CEO) and Frank Barry (COO).

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Van Dyke reminded the church leaders that “technology is submissive to ministry. It is not the lead role.” He said that we who develop and implement technology in churches are the “supporting actors.”

Sharing how he approaches church technology, Van Dyke said that he always asks the question: “How is it that we can use technology to be more effective and more efficient at what we do, which is ministry…What does it do for ministry? How is it benefiting us?”

“It’s not about the technology,” he added. “It’s about the technology doing what we’re trying to do anyways, ministry, but just at scale and more efficiently.”

Echoing what Van Dyke said, Ghazarian, who serves as Saddleback Church’s CTO, made the comment, “Technology is a tool, but it’s also a great amplifier.” He continued, “And if we have the greatest mission as a church to fulfill the Great Commission and we’re not using the tech as one of the greatest amplifiers that God has given us, then it’s just such a waste.”

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Barry asked if anyone in the audience was “afraid of AI?” As many raised their hands, Barry, a former youth pastor, shared that he has “talked to all kinds of pastors who are afraid of AI.”

Directing the topic of AI to the panel, Ghazarian said that as a “geek, I love the times we’re living in with technology. Just you look at the last 20 years, whether it’s the mobile phone or the internet.”

Georgia ‘Pastor’ Pleads Guilty to Operating Unlicensed Care Home in Basement

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Almost three years after his arrest for false imprisonment, a Georgia man who claims to be a pastor pleaded guilty to just one charge. Curtis Bankston of Griffin, Georgia, pleaded guilty to the only count that state prosecutors ended up pursuing: the felony of running an unlicensed personal care home.

As ChurchLeaders reported, Bankston was arrested in January 2022 after authorities discovered eight people, all of whom had mental or physical disabilities, locked in his basement. Paramedics who were called to the house for a medical emergency had to break a basement window to enter.

Bankston and his wife, Sophia Simm-Bankston, were both arrested and charged with crimes including holding people against their will and stealing from vulnerable individuals.

While pleading guilty to the one felony count, Curtis Bankston told a judge he “did not purposely detain anyone.” He also requested that charges be dismissed against his wife, saying she wasn’t responsible for the care-home operation. Bankston received five years of probation, and charges against his wife were dropped, an attorney said.

Accused ‘Pastor’ Said He Was Trying To Help People

Bankston describes himself as senior pastor of One Step of Faith Ministries Inc., although his online bio lists only a business degree. The “group home” he operated in his basement for 14 months was part of the ministry’s Second Chance program.

Investigators alleged that Bankston controlled residents’ money, government benefits, and medications—sometimes withholding necessary care. During his plea hearing, Bankston told the court he didn’t realize he needed a license to operate the group home. “At no point did I intend to put anyone at harm,” he said.

Dexter Wimbish, Bankston’s attorney, said, “This is a zoning issue that has become criminalized.” He said Bankston ran a Christian ministry that provided room and board to unhoused people and wards of the state. Residents could come and go from the basement freely until 8 p.m., when the door was then locked, Wimbish added.

After arresting Bankston, police said, “It is both frightening and disgusting to see the degree to which these individuals have been taken advantage of by people who were in a position of trust. The home was in disarray and not conducive to clean and sanitary living conditions.”

Curtis Bankston Is Suing the City

Curtis Bankston and his wife have filed a $10 million lawsuit against the city of Griffin, saying it mischaracterized their case, which went viral worldwide. Wimbish said the charges against his client were “just garbage,” adding, “It’s been proven that what [police] claim [the Bankstons] did, they didn’t do.”

Church Secretary Convicted of Embezzling at Least $670,000, Faces up to 280 Years in Prison

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A 64-year-old former church secretary faces up to 280 years in prison for embezzling at least $670,000 over at least seven years. The Louisa County Sheriff’s Office in Virginia announced in a statement on Monday (Oct. 21) that Brenda W. Ragland has been convicted of 14 counts of embezzlement. 

Authorities have not disclosed the name of the church. 

Louisa Commonwealth’s Attorney Rusty McGuire said that church leaders were first alerted to Ragland’s crimes when they attempted to make a donation to another church’s building fund but were told by the bank that the account they were seeking to use had insufficient funds. 

Normally, Ragland would have overseen any transfer of money, but she was out of town and church leaders were not able to reach her. It was only after directly communicating with the bank that they realized something was wrong. 

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After church leaders requested records from the bank, they turned those records over to Louisa County Sheriff’s Office for an investigation.

Investigators found that Louisa had for years siphoned off funds from the church’s accounts, depositing money to her personal account via CashApp.

Although Ragland had worked for the church for more than 20 years, the church’s financial records only go back seven years, making it impossible to know for sure how much Ragland stole from the church. 

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“It is a sad day for the church,” said McGuire. “They put their faith in Mrs. Ragland to manage the church resources and she violated that faith by turning church resources into her personal piggy bank.”

‘Not an Act of God.’ How the Rev. Richard Joyner Became a Farmer, Then a Climate Activist

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CONETOE, N.C. (RNS) — Congregants at Conetoe Chapel Missionary Baptist Church thought their pastor was crazy when he suggested his rural community take up farming as a way to improve their health and become more self-sufficient.

The small, predominantly Black community, about 80 miles east of Raleigh, is surrounded by vast, fertile farmland but has no grocery store for miles around. According to figures from the Census Bureau, 67% of the residents of Conetoe (pronounced Kuh-NEE-tuh) live below the poverty line.

It turned out, the Rev. Richard Joyner was prophetic. The venture, which in 2007 was spun off into its own nonprofit, the Conetoe Family Life Center, now produces 1,500 boxes of vegetables a week on land it either bought or leases. It partners with multiple outfits including public schools, hospitals, the North Carolina Food Bank and local churches to plant, grow, harvest and package the produce, some of which is sold, but most of which is donated.

Funerals, which Joyner used to conduct too many of, are less common, and the health and wellbeing of his congregants who partake of the vegetables, grown without any synthetic chemicals, has improved, he said.

But now Joyner has another problem. Last month, Hurricane Helene flooded some of his fields, wiping out the late August plantings of salad greens, radishes and beets. The soil was already wet from weeks of rain when the hurricane blew in, dumping 17 inches of rain over a two week period. Back in 2016, Hurricane Matthew also flooded the nonprofit’s fields.

Members of Joyner’s congregation, about 100 people, have suggested maybe God is trying to tell him something.

“We’re in the Bible Belt,” Joyner said. “When my farm floods, people go, ‘Well, God don’t want you to do that. That’s why he keeps flooding it and you need to stop being hard-headed.’”

Joyner’s new rejoinder: “God is not flooding the land. Our behavior is destroying the environment. That’s what flooded the land.”

Over the last few years, the 71-year-old pastor has become not only a farmer but a climate change activist. Last month, he lent his name to a new group, Extreme Weather Survivors, which provides trauma-informed support for people harmed by natural disasters. Some of the group’s members, including Joyner, participated in a Climate Week forum in New York City earlier this month intended to convey the message that extreme weather should not be labeled an “act of God” but an “act of Man.”

Speakers such as Delta Merner, a scientist at the Union of Concerned Scientists, testified that in North Carolina studies have shown that climate change has significantly increased heavy rainfall. In other spots, such as Arizona, she said, science can now show a connection between climate change and record-breaking heat waves, which have become more frequent and intense.

Merner, who studies “attribution science,” a field that aims to determine how much human-caused climate change has directly influenced extreme weather events, said researchers are now able to trace climate change back to major fossil fuel producers and cement manufacturers.

Explaining this to church members has not always been easy, but Joyner now sees it as his calling.

Rick Warren: What Does Biblical Community Look Like ?

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What the public generally knows about Saddleback Church is that we have a large weekend attendance, but what the outside world doesn’t realize is that the strength of Saddleback is really in our small groups. The press reports what happens on Sunday, but they can’t see what happens all week long. The fact is, more people are involved in small groups at Saddleback than attend the weekend services. What are the key building blocks of biblical community?

Small groups are extremely important at Saddleback because we believe so strongly in the power of biblical community. What does biblical community look like? Biblical community is a bit of a buzz word in today’s church culture, and I think that’s a good thing. We need to understand it. It’s really a modern term for an ancient word—fellowship. The Greek word for fellowship in the Bible is the word koinonia. And koinonia means being as committed to each other as we are to Jesus Christ.

At Saddleback, we talk a lot about the building blocks of biblical community, and there are at least 10 of them.

What Does Biblical Community Look Like? 10 Building Blocks:

1. Frequency

In fellowship we meet together often. It’s not an every once in a while. It’s quite frequent. The Bible tells us in Hebrews 10:25“Let us not give up the habit of meeting together. Instead, let us encourage one another.” A habit is something you do with frequency. You don’t do a habit occasionally. You do a habit frequently. You do it over and over and over.

2. Authenticity

In Fellowship you share your true feelings. There are three fears that cause us to be inauthentic: the fear of exposure, the fear of rejection and the fear of being hurt again. In the light of God’s truth we don’t try to hide our faults. So as James 5:15 says, “Admit your faults one to another and pray for each other so that you may be healed…” In recovery we have a saying that you’re only as sick as your secrets. I often say revealing your feeling is the beginning of healing. That’s what authenticity is all about. You say, “This is where I’m at,” and you admit it.

The quickest way to build authenticity in your life and in your group is this—study and apply the word of God. “The word of God is full of living power. It is sharper than the sharpest knife, cutting deep into our inner most thoughts and desires. It exposes us for what we really are.” It’s not pop psychology that makes you authentic. It’s not therapy that makes you authentic. It’s not ooey-gooey sentimentality that makes you authentic. It’s coming into contact with the word of God. When I look at the word of God and let it touch my soul and I see where I don’t measure up and where I need to grow then it forces me to be authentic.

3. Mutuality

Fellowship is built on mutuality. In fellowship that means we help each other grow. Together we’re stronger. You cannot be what God wants you to be without other people. Romans 1:12 says, “I want us to help each other with the faith we have. Your faith will help me and my faith will help you.” That’s like that great theologian Bill Withers once said, “We all need somebody to lean on.” We need each other to do that.

There are three parts to mutuality when it comes to building blocks of biblical community.

  1. Mutual accountability. In other words, you get a prayer partner in your group. You have somebody who you’re personally encouraging in their quiet time in your faith and in your spiritual growth. Someone you get alone with and you commit to checking up on each other.
  2. Mutual encouragement. “(Speak) only what is helpful for building others up, according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.” The Bible says, “Encourage anyone who feels left out. Help all who are weak, and be patient with everyone.”
  3. Mutual honoring. Romans 12:10 “Take delight in honoring each other.”

4. Courtesy

Fellowship is built on courtesy. That means in fellowship we show respect for our differences. In fellowship we show respect even when we disagree with each other. You can disagree without being disagreeable. The Bible says, “Believers shouldn’t curse anyone or be quarrelsome, but they should be gentle and show courtesy to everyone.” Show courtesy to everyone.

The Best Security Radios for Churches– 3 Great Options

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Church security is becoming more and more of an issue, and because of that, churches all over the country are opting to improve their security through the use of security systems and by having the best security radios on hand.

These best security radios listed below make it easy for church members and employees to communicate with each other when they are in an emergency situation. This makes it possible to respond quickly to a major problem and to ensure that all employees and congregants are safe.

Because a lot of factors, including communication ability and response time, depend on the type of radio chosen for church security, it’s important for the security team and the pastor to make sure to choose the best security radios for their church. Having a few different radios to choose from will ensure that each church is able to select the best radios for their use, depending not only on their budget but also on the various features that the different radios offer.

The Best Security Radios for Churches– 3 Great Options

Motorola SL300 – Best Overall

What Are the Important Considerations When Buying This Radio For Church Security?

  • Finding the best security radios for churches to use for security may seem daunting, but there are a few things to consider that will make the hunt for the best radios a lot easier.
  • Budget – how much a church is able to spend on their new radios plays a huge role in what features they can get when shopping. Setting a firm budget before even looking for new radios will help a church stay under budget and reduce the stress of over-spending.
  • Headsets – communicating with other staff members should be private, which is why it’s a good idea to look for radios that have headsets. In an emergency situation, this can really help to keep people calm, as they won’t be able to hear what is being said and can’t listen in on private information.
  • Audible Prompts – being able to communicate without actually touching the radio can allow church employees to talk to each other in emergency situations. Some radios offer voice announcement audible prompts to allow them to use their radio without actually having to touch it, and this allows employees to communicate even when they are busy.

Why We Chose The SL300 Over Others

Overall, the Motorola SL300 is one of the most portable radio options that churches can opt for, as it only weighs 6 ounces and is light and easy to carry. It features incredible audio quality and the volume can be easily controlled, allowing users to communicate without any problems. The 500 mW audio output combined with the great low-frequency response means that this radio is not only easy to use but also pleasing to communicate on and to listen to.

Users enjoy easy programming and efficient charging thanks to the MicroUSB connectivity of the Motorola SL300. This makes keeping the batteries on this radio fully charged at all times easy so that it is always ready for use. Additionally, the radio boasts dual analog and digital capability. This means that users can easily enjoy all of the benefits that digital radios offer while still enjoying compatibility with other radios that they already have in use at the church. This makes it easy to slowly transition over to using the Motorola SL300 without having to buy all new radios at once, which can be really expensive.

What We Like and Dislike About The Motorola SL300

The Motorola SL300 was designed specifically for use by security teams and offers a ton of benefits for use in a church. One benefit is that this radio is incredibly compact. At under an inch thick, with a stubbed antenna and durable frame, it’s difficult to break this radio.

The Motorola SL300 also features incredibly simple operation with a clear push-to-talk button, ensuring that all users can easily handle this radio.

Additionally, it’s both dust and splash proof. This means that the Motorola SL300 won’t easily be damaged when used in any situation.

The security team leader or pastor can easily interrupt any radio conversation to provide critical information at any time. This ability reduces the stress of not being able to communicate with the team.

There are some cons to using this radio, and one is that it is so expensive. The high price tag can be a turnoff for some churches, although the radio itself is high-quality, and many churches feel like it is worth the cost.

The Motorola SL300 also has a limited display. The character limitation on this radio reduces a user’s ability to quickly check channel information.

See page two for the next of the best security radios.

How To Tell Your Youth Leader You’re Pregnant: Advice for Teens

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How to tell your youth leader you’re pregnant is a search term that appeared in my blog statistics recently. That makes me sad, because you can sense a story here. Somewhere, a pregnant teen is scared to death because she has to tell her youth pastor she’s pregnant. In most churches, that probably doesn’t go over well.

I’ve written about handling a teenage pregnancy in your youth group. So that’s probably why that search term pointed to my blog. Here’s some advice for a pregnant teen who’s scared to reveal her pregnancy.

How To Tell Your Youth Leader You’re Pregnant

Dear pregnant girl, I can imagine you’re scared about how your youth leader will react. I wish I could assure you he or she will be compassionate and understanding. But I can’t.

I know how tough it was for me when one of “my girls” told me she was pregnant. It wasn’t that I was angry or disappointed. I just felt sad because I knew what it would mean for her life and I had wished her so much better. In hindsight, I could have responded better, and I promise I will if there’s a next time.

I advise you to make an appointment to talk about this with your youth leader. Don’t just ambush him or her after youth group or church. It’s always better to talk about this in a quiet environment, where there’s time to respond well.

Also, pray before telling your youth leader about your pregnancy. Ask God to give you the right words and the courage to be completely honest. It’s also OK to pray that your youth leader will respond with love and compassion. God can change people, so even if you suspect your youth leader won’t react that way, ask God to change his or her heart.

And if they do respond negatively? If they do show condemnation and judgment? Try to forgive them. That’s not easy, especially with everything going on in your life already. But holding on to anger and bitterness won’t do you or your baby any good.

Also, don’t believe them. They’re right when they say you’ve sinned. But that doesn’t mean they’re any better or that you deserve some kind of punishment.

Know That God Loves You

I hope you know God loves you no matter what you’ve done. Christ died for all our sins, including premarital sex. People may sometimes make you feel like sexual sins are pretty much unforgivable, but that’s nonsense. If you confess your sins to God and trust in Jesus’ sacrifice for your sins, then God will forgive you. That’s a guaranteed promise.

And dear, dear pregnant girl: I realize this pregnancy might not be your fault at all. You may have suffered abuse or rape. Maybe someone forced you into doing something you never wanted. If that’s the case, then my heart goes out to you even more.

No matter how difficult it may be, you need to tell someone. If your youth leader doesn’t respond well, keep trying. Go to a school counselor, another trusted adult, or even the police. Find the courage to stand up for yourself. God is with you, right beside you, every step of the way.

Children’s Church Ideas for Smaller Churches: Think Big With S.M.A.L.L.

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Do you need children’s church ideas for smaller churches? Is your congregation facing big challenges due to its smaller size? For example, what if only two kids show up on Sunday, and they’re ages 4 & 12? Start by thinking S.M.A.L.L.

Janice hurried through the building checking the three classrooms. She’d invested several hours already that week, ensuring everything would be ready. Janice loved the kids of First Church. She’d overseen the children’s ministry for almost two years and thoroughly enjoyed her part-time position.

But she felt frustrated, not knowing how many kids might show up or if they’d be preschoolers or preteens. She was often preoccupied by questions about her small children’s ministry:

  • How do I prepare for the unknown?
  • How do I make ministry relevant for just a few kids with such varied ages?
  • What are the best children’s church ideas for smaller churches?
  • Most importantly: Is our ministry really effective with this unique group of kids?

Thousands of kidmin leaders face these questions every week. They work incredibly hard to minister effectively. They face the challenging prospect of not knowing how many kids might show up (two or 25?). Plus, there’s the even bigger challenge of meeting the needs of kids of wide age ranges.

So how do you keep a small church ministry effective and relevant? What are some solid children’s church ideas for smaller churches? You think S.M.A.L.L!

Children’s Church Ideas for Smaller Churches

S: Start with a Plan

To create impact—in any size children’s ministry—you must begin with a plan. Plan how you’ll effectively reach kids in your children’s ministry. Recruit for the classes you’ll offer—even if they’re occasionally empty—based on  average weekly attendance. (Track attendance for three months to get a close average.)

Do the necessary volunteer screening and training to prepare volunteers. Gather teaching materials, including curriculum and supplies. Prepare your space and be ready.

Note: Being ready doesn’t mean having a healthy stack of word puzzles and coloring pages for kids. It means being prepared with a full lesson plan to maximize every moment.

It’s easier to lower your preparedness standards when you think only a few kids might show up. It’s easy to slip into the mindset of “winging it.” But remember: Reality is just the opposite. With only a handful of kids, you have greater opportunities to make a deep and lasting impact. Prepare for it! Regardless of who or how many might show up, start with a plan.

M: Move to Plan B

Your Plan A is in place: You’re prepared for your average attendance and ready to go. But if drastically fewer kids show up, or if kids’ age ranges are awkward, then move to Plan B.

Plan B is your plan for what you’ll do if your number or ages vary dramatically from what you’d normally expect. Determine beforehand how you’ll handle such variances. Who’ll lead? How will you organize your volunteers? Will you dismiss some volunteers, or use them in other ways? How will you mix age groups so older kids interact with and mentor younger kids? Is your curriculum geared to engage all ages? Where will kids go?

Think through all the troublesome scenarios you’ve experienced lately: Too many kids, not enough kids, major age gaps, group imbalances (10 preschoolers and one teen, for example). If it’s a possibility, plan for it. That doesn’t mean you need to create a new plan every week. But have a plan prepared for most scenarios. Typically, you can simply adjust Plan A, but you need Plan B for the big obstacles.

Note: Plan B isn’t winging it. Making up Plan B as you go isn’t acceptable. Have it ready and your volunteers trained to adapt in advance.

‘Jesus Is Lord’—Pro-Life College Students Say Kamala Harris Mocked Them As They Were Kicked Out of Rally

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Vice President Kamala Harris in La Crosse, Wisconsin, Oct. 17. Screengrab from YouTube / @jsonline

Vice President Kamala Harris made headlines over the weekend for how she appeared to respond after two college students called out, “Jesus is Lord,” during one of her rallies. The students are claiming they were kicked out of Harris’ rally in La Crosse, Wisconsin, and that Harris mocked them after they heckled her.

“We did God’s work, and we were there for the right reasons, and God was watching us,” said Grant Beth, one of two pro-life students who called out, “Jesus is Lord,” while Harris was discussing her views on abortion. “I’m all about being a cordial person regardless of your beliefs,” he said in an interview with Fox News, “but I do believe that we were sent there by God.”

Kamala Harris Rally Controversy

As Election Day draws near, candidates from the Trump-Vance campaign and the Harris-Walz campaign are continuing to attempt to secure votes from people of faith. Harris, however, is drawing negative attention from some Christians for the interaction that took place in La Crosse Friday, although the exact dynamics of that interaction are not entirely clear.

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At a rally at the University of Wisconsin in La Crosse Friday, Oct. 17, Harris appeared to react to Grant Beth and his friend, Luke Polaske, who called out the name of Jesus, by telling them they were at the “wrong rally.” During her speech, the vice president mentioned abortion and criticized former President Donald Trump for choosing U.S. Supreme Court justices who would overturn Roe v. Wade, adding “and they did as he intended.”

Video footage from the Milwaukee Journal Sentinel shows that Harris paused after that comment and then said, “Oh, you guys are at the wrong rally,” after which the crowd cheered. It is difficult to hear anything in that video during Harris’ pause besides people’s voices in the background. 

Harris then waved and smiled, adding, “No, I think you meant to go to the smaller [rally] down the street.” The crowd cheered as the vice president gestured and said, “Come on.” 

At least two videos that captured the moment from within the audience recorded the voice of someone in the crowd yelling, “Jesus is Lord!” Right after that comment, Harris can be heard saying, “Oh, you guys are at the wrong rally.” It is not certain from the footage whether Harris was responding to the words about Jesus or to something else. 

University of Wisconsin students Luke Polaske and Grant Beth told Fox that they were the people in the audience protesting during Harris’ speech and that the vice president was speaking to them after they called out, “Christ is King!” and “Jesus is Lord!”

Polaske and Beth are pro-life students who said event volunteers escorted them out of the event and told the students they were not welcome. Beth said an elderly woman pushed him, and “we were heckled at, we were cursed at, we were mocked.” 

Dietrich Bonhoeffer Family and Scholars Accuse Eric Metaxas, Angel Studios of Legacy ‘Abuse’

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Ahead of next month’s release of the movie “Bonhoeffer: Pastor, Spy, Assassin,” 86 of Dietrich Bonhoeffer’s descendants are urging people not to “distort and misuse” the theologian’s life or work. In an Oct. 18 statement, dozens of Bonhoeffer’s relatives wrote, “We are horrified to see how the legacy of Dietrich Bonhoeffer is increasingly being distorted and misused by right-wing extremists, xenophobes, and religious agitators.”

They described the German theologian as “a peace-loving, freedom-loving humanitarian” who “never would…have seen himself associated with far-right, violent movements such as Christian Nationalists and others who are trying to appropriate him today.”

Bonhoeffer, who opposed the Nazis during World War II, was hanged in April 1945 at age 39. His influential books include “The Cost of Discipleship” and “Life Together.”

Relatives of Dietrich Bonhoeffer Call Out Eric Metaxas, Angel Studios

In their statement, Bonhoeffer descendants pinpoint conservative author Eric Metaxas as “a key figure in this abuse.” Metaxas, who wrote an award-winning biography of Bonhoeffer, is a vocal supporter of conservative politics and Republican presidential candidate Donald Trump.

According to the relatives, Metaxas “ignored the historical context and misrepresented Bonhoeffer as a fundamentalist Evangelical” in the biography. They also decry his previous comparison of President Joe Biden to Adolf Hitler, plus social media posts that reference Bonhoeffer while showing a gun on a Bible.

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Next, the extended family took aim at the upcoming “history-distorting biopic” of Bonhoeffer. They say the theologian wasn’t a “lone fighter” but worked with other relatives for truth and freedom and against “religious zealotry, nationalism, militarism, and blind obedience.” The family continued, “Those who invoke Dietrich Bonhoeffer to justify anti-democratic, xenophobic aspirations are either misinformed or malicious.”

Bonhoeffer’s relatives also claim his quotes are taken out of context, “used by many whose intentions are diametrically opposed to Bonhoeffer’s thoughts and actions.” They cite the Heritage Foundation’s Project 2025 for a second Trump presidency as an example, urging voters, “Do not be deceived. Look carefully at history.”

Scholars Warn Against ‘Weaponization’ of Dietrich Bonhoeffer

Bonhoeffer’s descendants also thank theologians and historians who are speaking out “against this appropriation.” On Oct. 10, scholars began a Change.org petition asking people to “Stop Misusing Dietrich Bonhoeffer to Support Political Violence and Christian Nationalism.”

As of Oct. 21, the petition has more than 1,400 signatures. It begins:

From Project 2025 to violent political rhetoric, the legacy of German pastor Dietrich Bonhoeffer is being invoked this election season on behalf of Christian Nationalism. It is a dangerous and grievous misuse of his theology and life. As an international group of Bonhoeffer scholars, we warn against it.

‘We Will Know Christ…Through our Brokenness’—Russell Brand Reflects on Being Someone Who Is ‘Known To Have Sinned’

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Earlier this year, Russell Brand publicly shared that he began a relationship with Jesus. Since then, Brand has interviewed fellow actor and Christian Jonathan Roumie and has continued reading Christian classics for greater insight.

“Christianity is the spiritual path for me,” said Brand.

Russell Brand Publicly Affirms Christianity as the ‘Spiritual Path’ for Him

The actor continues to post videos of his journey as a Christian, including getting baptized and learning from fellow Christians.

“I felt changed, transitioned,” Brand said about being baptized. The ceremony had very “intimate and personal aspects,” he noted, and several “bizarre incidents” occurred that felt “serendipitous and laden.”

Brand continues to keep his followers updated on his Christian walk. On Sunday (Oct. 20), Brand posted a video with a brief affirmation that Christianity is the right choice for him.

“I felt like there was something wrong with me,” shared Brand. “And, I think a lot of addicts would identify with that.”

He spoke endearingly about his faith. “As I have become a Christian, I recognize that this is the spiritual path for me,” he said.

Brand read words from 1 Timothy 1:15-16, as the verses have become meaningful and transformative for him. “Christ Jesus came into the world to save sinners, of whom I am the worst,” Brand read. “But, for that very reason, I was shown mercy so that in me, the worst of sinners, Christ Jesus might display his immense patience as an example for those who would believe in him and receive eternal life.”

Brand went on to explain that people in the world are “pretending to be  better than they are.” In particular, those he knows in Hollywood are “terrified of being exposed.”

In contrast, Brand explained how “those of us who publicly are known to have sinned” have a different perspective. He, along with others he knows, “lived a life looking for the stimulants that the world offers you, lures you with, the temptations of this world.”

“Those of us who live in open transparency can authentically accept that we are flawed and fallen and that is the way we will know Christ—through our brokenness,” said Brand.

John MacArthur Shares His ‘Heart and Soul Aches’ for Friend Steven Lawson—’I Pray Constantly’ for Him

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On Sunday (Oct. 20), Pastor John MacArthur appeared during an evening service at Grace Community Church (GCC). This was MacArthur’s first appearance since his latest medical procedure, which has kept him out of the pulpit for a considerable length of time.

MacArthur received a standing ovation before starting his Q&A, which was moderated by Nathan Busenitz, who is executive vice president of The Master’s Seminary and an elder at GCC.

“I had to appear so people knew I wasn’t dead. I mean, I’ve been reading about my death, and it’s highly exaggerated,” MacArthur joked.

RELATED: Phil Johnson Claims Dr. Steven Lawson Was Caught by ‘Girl’s Father’ and Forced To Confess ‘Inappropriate Relationship’

During the service, MacArthur provided an update about his health and answered questions about Steven Lawson, the upcoming presidential election, and when MacArthur might start preaching again.

John MacArthur Gives an Update Regarding His Health

In 2023, MacArthur underwent a procedure to have four stents put in the arteries around his heart, something he said “was very successful.” MacArthur said that following the surgery, his “heart was doing very well.”

However, a few months after the procedure, doctors noticed an “aberrant rhythm in my heart, so they did another procedure…and it was successful,” MacArthur said. About a year after that, the pastor’s cardiologist told him that he needed to have his aorta replaced. “And they did that,” MacArthur continued, “and it was successful.”

“But through all of that, I’m always trying to recover,” he added. “So it’s been a long siege, and the issue that seems to have been the most difficult for me—you can probably tell by the way I’m talking—is breathing.”

RELATED: Permanently Disqualified’—Dr. Steven Lawson Removed From The Master’s Seminary and Grace Community Church Websites

An X-ray showed that MacArthur’s breathing issues were a result of fluid in his lungs, which required surgery less than two months ago.

“The recovery from that is requiring a lot of patience,” MacArthur shared. “I’ve never really been good at rest.”

Alabama Pastor Who Lost Home in Fire Preaches Joy

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An Alabama pastor is emphasizing joy and community after his house went up in flames roughly a week ago. Eric Foxx of Home Church in Mobile says that he has felt the peace of God despite the fact that his home has been deemed a total loss. 

On Saturday, Oct. 12, Foxx received a call that his house was on fire. 

“I turned the corner and it was just like, there it is. All the hard work, all the time, all the blood and sweat and tears you’ve put into it, it is absolutely the saying: down in flames and up in smoke,” Foxx told WALA. “If the fire don’t get it, the smoke gets it. If the smoke don’t get it, the water does. So just absolutely everything is just toast.”

Following the fire, Foxx’s church has rallied to support him—something church members know that he would do for them. 

RELATED: Pastor Dies Following Fire Pit Explosion

In fact, according to Brandon Badon, who attends Home Church, Foxx has “been incredibly supportive and even supportive even through this tragedy.”

“He’s been to every event, every funeral, everything that’s been going on with other people. He’s still made it in spite of something as tragic as this,” said Badon.

In an email to ChurchLeaders, Foxx said that he planted the church to be a place in the community that people “to call home.”

“Home represents family, and we are called to be family to one another as a part of the body of Christ,” he said. “We are brothers and sisters meant to love, serve, encourage, and be there for one another in both good, and bad times.”

“I’ve had a peace in all of this,” Foxx told WALA. “And God was like, ‘People need to see what happens when the faith family—when things happen, when things are not perfect, when things go wrong in our lives—how people of faith respond.”

RELATED: ‘We Didn’t Hate Him’—SC Pastor Leads Man Suspected of Setting Church Vans on Fire to Christ

“I have joy, because happiness is something that is happenstance. It’s something that happened and now it makes me happy,” Foxx added. “But joy is constant.”

Caleb Campbell: An Honest Conversation on Christian Nationalism

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What is our responsibility as pastors and ministry leaders in understanding and addressing Christian nationalism? In this week’s conversation on FrontStage BackStage, host Jason Daye is joined by Caleb Campbell. Caleb is the lead pastor at Desert Springs Bible Church in Phoenix, Arizona. He is a doctoral student at Fuller Theological Seminary and a regional director for the Surge Network. His most recent book is titled, “Disarming Leviathan.” Together, Caleb and Jason look at what Christian nationalism is and what it is not. Caleb also shares some practical ways that your local church can engage in mission, honoring God, loving others, and addressing Christian nationalism.

FrontStage BackStage Podcast With Caleb Campbell

View the entire podcast here.

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