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Content and Application

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by Jeff Tunnell

Last evening I dialogued with a long-term educator and school principal. We conversed about learning methods and how evidence shows that lecture is theleast effective for the student to grasp content. He noted that the second best situation for learning was in small groups of 3-4, where conversational exchange was followed by seeking a direct application for any newly discovered information. This moves the learner from knowledge to relevance for living. Concluding, with a broad smile, this educator told me that the very best methodfor a student to take hold of learning for life occurs when they are able to teach the content and application to another person.

If we only transmit knowledge to another person, or group of people, in order for them to pass a test by having the right answers, we have not discipled them. Let’s aim higher in our training track, discipling equipping and leadership development processes. Bring each disciple of Jesus to the point of personal transformation and growth that gives them an ability to express and demonstrate to others the life of Jesus within them. Equip them to “Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have.” 1 Peter 3:15

An optimum environment for Joyous discipleship is within a small group of 3 that meets regularly, preferable found within a group of 12 that meets on a weekly basis, as each person pursues daily discipleship with Jesus. This intimate lifestyle will produce effective followers of Jesus who in turn will lead others in being authentic Christians, teaching both content and application.

Kara Powell: This Is What Young People Need from Adults Right Now

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Dr. Kara Powell is the Executive Director of the Fuller Youth Institute and a faculty member at Fuller Theological Seminary. She speaks regularly at parenting and leadership conferences and is the author and co-author of a number of books and resources. She has recently released Faith in an Anxious World, a four-week study for youth and their parents.

Key Questions About Our Youth for Dr. Kara Powell

-What are unhealthy coping mechanisms our youth are turning to while they are sheltering at home because of the coronavirus?

-Why is face-to-face communication important to teens, even though they are so digitally connected?

-What advice would you give to our youth leaders now as they try to check in with their youth?

-What are some coping mechanisms that are helpful for teens?

Key Quotes About Our Youth from Dr. Kara Powell

“This is an anxious season.” 

“Generally, in a more normal time, the estimate is that one out of three of us will develop an anxiety disorder at some point in our life times, and I can’t help but think that this sort of season just turns that a few clicks.”

“Pay attention to any abnormal swings in behavior.”

“If you start to have a hunch that something doesn’t feel quite right, pay attention to that. That’s when you need to press in, act, and ask some questions.”

“[Teens] will often turn to substances. They’ll turn to technology…Often when teenagers feel anxious, they’ll just dive into technology as a way to escape.”

“I think pornography is going to be something that young people are going to be more tempted by in this social isolation season because they’re just on their own so much and they’re just bored, and it’s only a few clicks away.”

“We’re created in God’s image, and God’s image is inherently communal.”

“Community often does that for us—it defines reality for us…and when we lack that sounding board, our anxiety and fear can increase.”

“I’ve been thinking a lot the past few weeks about the possibilities that this is opening for the church.”

“One of my prayers these days for the church is that we would hold tightly to what’s most important and hold more loosely to what’s not as important.”

Social Distancing: When St. Paul Faced Isolation to Love a Sick Friend

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St. Paul was a man accustomed to spending time “in chains,” incarcerated and waiting to defend his ministry. Sometimes he was able to have visitors. Sometimes he wasn’t. Sometimes he was imprisoned with fellow Christians. But my guess would be that in most cases he was on his own, spending time without much to say or do but pray and think.

On one particular occasion he was in prison without much help and with many personal needs. The Philippian Christian community scraped together whatever provisions they could—food, clothing, perhaps also medicines—and sent off one of their own, Epaphroditus, as a ministry delegate to deliver these goods and care for their beloved apostle (Philippians 4:10-20).

We know St. Paul received their gifts, with deep joy and appreciation. But what he expressed the most excitement about was Epaphroditus’ friendship. He calls him brother, co-worker, and comrade-in-arms for the gospel, “minister to my need” (Philippians 2:25). Put simply, life was better with this colleague and friend sharing his hardship. But that joyous season of companionship saw a premature end as Epaphroditus became ill; in fact, Epaphroditus almost died. No doubt, Paul prayed and prayed and prayed, and, lo, God had mercy on him and he came back from the worst of it (2:27). But Paul knew it was best to send Epaphroditus home, to fully recover with his Philippian community and to put their minds at ease for his ongoing welfare (Philippians 2:28-29).

St. Paul made a hard decision: he chose to send away his one friend and companion in his own moment of difficulty. He chose to be alone, and to cut himself off from a lifeline of material, social, and emotional support. But he did it to love this friend and his friend’s community that also needed him.

One might think that exercising “faith” for Paul should have been keeping Epaphroditus close and continuing to pray for his complete healing. But “faith” is not a magic wand to get what “I” want. Christian faith involves trusting in God, and using all the knowledge and resources God has given to make wise choices that will do the most good for the most people. In that moment, St. Paul believed that what was best for Epaphroditus and others was for him to go home, even if it meant being alone again for Paul.

There are many Christians, even pastors and spiritual leaders, out there who think that it is an especially faith-filled and brave choice to meet together as a church as an act of defiance against evil. They think that the righteous thing to do is literally to stand together for worship and communion, come hell or high water. I wonder if they might change their minds if immune-compromised believers in their own church died, brothers and sisters they knew by name, whose preferred seats went empty the following week (or whose social media accounts went quiet). Or vulnerable senior citizens. Or young children. What exactly is worth risking human lives? We live in an amazing technological age when we actually can livestream worship through Facebook, check on each other through Facetime, and send encouragement through Marco Polo. Such means of safe-distance ministry was unfathomable in St. Paul’s time. In the medieval era. Even in modern history until about fifteen years ago.

With death tolls rising around the world on account of Covid-19, we know this is a crucial moment to act. Time is short, yes. But history is long. In ten years, will we look back and remember that one great worship service when we decided to meet together in spite of warnings from civic and medical experts? Or will we be thankful that the “short” time of loneliness and uncomfortable accommodation and transition kept our friends, family, and strangers safe? The most apt biblical analogy for our present moment is not intrepid David walking up to Goliath face to face, but resolute Paul sending off beloved Epaphroditus, bidding him farewell, for now.

This article about St. Paul originally appeared here.

You Have Time to Read the Bible!

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You have time to read the Bible now! Last week I saw my friend Josh Straub post something rather convicting. He essentially said that if we don’t spend time with our kids during this season then “time” has never really been the problem. He is right. Parents (including me) often lament the reality that busy schedules are the reason we are not spending more time with our kids. But if our schedules are suddenly less busy and we find we are not spending more time with our kids, then the busy schedule was not the culprit. We have lost the desire or we have forgotten how to play. Something else is wrong. The same is true with reading the Bible.

The most common excuse we give to not read the Bible is time. “We don’t have enough time.”

I have given the excuse too! And I have given the excuse in the midst of knowing that reading my Bible is the biggest predictor of my spiritual growth. How do I know that? I was on teams that researched it and wrote books about it, yet I still struggle to practice it! Multiple research studies discovered that engaging with the Scripture impacts our spiritual growth more than any other factor. In fact, the discipline of reading the Bible positively impacts every other spiritual discipline. The Lord uses His Word to conform us more into His image. We are more fruitful and more filled with His peace when we read the Scripture. And we could all use peace during this chaos.

So now is the time when we discover if time has really been the issue. Or if something else is wrong, if we have grown lazy in our faith, or if our affections for Christ have waned. I want to read my Bible more during this time. I want my kids to see me read my Bible more. Here are three suggestions for reading the Bible more during this crazy time. And we know this is good for us. We know that in times of uncertainty we can stand on the certain and sure foundation of His Word.

Set a time and a trigger to read the Bible.

I have a place where I sit each morning to drink my coffee. When my Bible is there, I am more easily reminded to read it. Look at your disrupted schedule and choose a place in it that you can make reading your Bible a consistent practice.

Choose a new way to engage as you read the Bible.

When I have gotten tired of a particular exercise routine, I find a new way to exercise. I may buy a new biking shirt with the promise to myself that I will wear it as I bike. Or I may pull out an old pair or running shoes and put them by the front door. I find a way to do something new and I visibly mark it. Otherwise it only lasts a time or two. We can do this with reading the Bible too. We can find a new way to engage and mark our commitment to reading the Scripture.

In recent months, I have really enjoyed two new study Bibles that have helped me engage with the Lord. The Ancient Faith Study Bible helps me see what theologians from centuries ago have written about a passage. I absolutely love it. And the new Tony Evans Study Bible is beautiful and helps me see what Dr. Evans has thought or taught about a particular passage.

Ask someone to hold you accountable to read the Bible.

You don’t have to go broad on social media, but you can share with a friend our spouse that you want to read the Bible more during this season. Ask the friend or spouse to check-in on you once a week. Just knowing you will be asked can remind you to get into the Word.

Now is a great time to let the Word of Christ dwell richly among you!

This article about time to read the Bible originally appeared here.

10 Dietrich Bonhoeffer Quotes That Taught Us About ‘Life Together’

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April 9th marks 73 years since Dietrich Bonhoeffer was killed in a Nazi concentration camp. In honor of him, here are 10 Dietrich Bonhoeffer quotes. Through various biographies and writings, his legacy has lived on in church history. Prolific on many subjects relating to Jesus and the church, Bonhoeffer not only wrote about total submission to the will of God, he lived it.

As the church continues to reap from the bounty of his writings, like The Cost of Discipleship and Ethics, there is one particular book that gets lesser attention but is equally important to the church and church leaders.

Life Together is a slim volume, unimpressive in its length, yet deceptively packed full of truth about communal living in the church. In this book. Bonhoeffer not only explores what life together in the body looks like Scripturally, but practically. He shares how Christians can and should interact, the dangers of too much community and being too solitary. His writing on the subject is a must read for any Christian wanting to understand the beautiful tapestry God weaves together through His children, and how one matures in that community.

As we remember the life of Detrich Bonhoeffer and his contribution to the church, here are 10 things he taught us about community in Life Together.

Detrich Bonhoeffer Quotes

1. Accountability is an absolute necessity among brothers and sisters in the body.

“Nothing can be more cruel than the leniency which abandons others to their sin. Nothing can be more compassionate than the severe reprimand which calls another Christian in one’s community back from the path of sin.”

2. The kingdom of God is to live in the midst of its enemies and His children must be ready for what that means for their lives.

“Jesus Christ lived in the midst of his enemies. At the end all his disciples deserted him. On the Cross he was utterly alone, surrounded by evildoers and mockers. For this cause he had come, to bring peace to the enemies of God. So the Christian, too, belongs not in the seclusion of a cloistered life but in the thick of foes. There is his commission, his work. ‘The kingdom is to be in the midst of your enemies. And he who will not suffer this does not want to be of the Kingdom of Christ; he wants to be among friends, to sit among roses and lilies, not with the bad people but the devout people.”

3. The church is best served when we all recognize what we are and aren’t afraid to admit our sinfulness and humble ourselves.

“If my sinfulness appears to me to be in any way smaller or less detestable in comparison with the sins of others, I am still not recognizing my sinfulness at all. … How can I possibly serve another person in unfeigned humility if I seriously regard his sinfulness as worse than my own?”

4. Community is not something attained but created through the mutual love and respect of its members.

“The person who loves their dream of community will destroy community, but the person who loves those around them will create community.”

5. A community that doesn’t pray for one another won’t be transformed spiritually and will eventually collapse and die.

“A Christian fellowship lives and exists by the intercession of its members for one another, or it collapses. I can no longer condemn or hate a brother for whom I pray, no matter how much trouble he causes me. His face, that hitherto may have been strange and intolerable to me, is transformed in intercession into the countenance of a brother for whom Christ died, the face of a forgiven sinner.”

6. God will constantly test us through interruption and the needs of others. We must be ready to discern and answer those interruptions.

“We must be ready to allow ourselves to be interrupted by God. God will be constantly crossing our paths and canceling our plans by sending us people with claims and petitions.”

7. We often minister to others more through listening than through many words spoken.

“There is a kind of listening with half an ear that presumes already to know what the other person has to say. It is an impatient, inattentive listening, that despises the brother and is only waiting for a chance to speak and thus get rid of the other person. Christians have forgotten that the ministry of listening has been committed to them by Him who is Himself the great listener and whose work they should share. We should listen with the ears of God that we may speak the Word of God.”

8. We are called as the body of Jesus to mutually bear each others burdens faithfully, prayerfully, and practically as Jesus did for us.

“The Christian, however, must bear the burden of a brother. He must suffer and endure the brother. It is only when he is a burden that another person is really a brother and not merely an object to be manipulated. The burden of men was so heavy for God Himself that He had to endure the Cross. God verily bore the burden of men in the body of Jesus Christ.”

9. We must endeavor to be faithful in the small things of life, or else the great things in life will not be entrusted to our care.

“Who can really be faithful in great things if he has not learned to be faithful in the things of daily life?”

10. Thankfulness is the foundation and the strength of any community rooted and grounded in Jesus.

“If we do not give thanks daily for the Christian fellowship in which we have been placed, even where there is no great experience, no discoverable riches, but much weakness, small faith, and difficulty; if on the contrary, we only keep complaining to God that everything is so paltry and petty, so far from what we expected, then we hinder God from letting our fellowship grow according to the measure and riches which are there for us all in Jesus Christ.”

New Safety Rules for Church Nursery Cribs

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The U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission has unanimously approved new safety rules for cribs and their supporting hardware, and all cribs manufactured and sold must comply with these rules by June 28, 2011. As a result of these new rules, all cribs used in daycare centers and places of public accommodation (including churches) must comply with the new standards by December 28, 2012. In the meantime, church nurseries who use non-compliant cribs are strongly advised to inspect the cribs before each use and tighten or replace loose or broken parts. Churches are especially advised to replace drop-side cribs, which will not meet the new safety standards and have been blamed in the deaths of more than 30 infants and toddlers since 2000. The CSPC advises churches not to “resell, donate, or give away a crib that does not meet the new crib standards” and “recommends disassembling the crib before discarding it.”

For more information about the new safety standards for cribs, see http://www.cpsc.gov/info/cribs.  

5 EASY Ways to Serve Your Community

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Groups should be “missional.”

While there are many definitions of the term, one thing seems to be an expectation of any group that is being missional, meeting the needs of and caring for those who are not in the group and/or live near where the group meets.

Below you’ll find five gospel-centered acts almost any group can do together, things that will not only create a substantial bond between group members when carried out, but will also exhibit the love of Christ.

1. Find out if there is a single mom living near where the group meets. Pool the group’s resources and pay for her to get a makeover or a massage.

If she’s open to it, babysit for her while she’s gone. If she won’t allow your group to watch her children, pay for the babysitter of her choosing.

2. Surprise a widow or widower living in the neighborhood where the group meets by mowing, trimming and cleaning up his or her lawn.

3. When the local high school has a prom, pool your resources and anonymously pay for some girl whose parents can’t afford for her to have the makeover, clothes, etc. … that other girls will get.

Pay for her entire prom experience.

4. When someone in the neighborhood where the group meets, a nonbeliever whom someone knows, is sick, take dinner to the family at least two days.

5. When Easter rolls around, the group could host an Easter Egg Hunt for the entire neighborhood.  

Paycheck Protection for Pastors: What You Need to Know

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On April 4th, the White House clarified that the Paycheck Protection Program (PPP), which allows small businesses to apply for federally-backed and forgivable loans, also applies to churches and other religious organizations. The program allocates $350 billion of the $2 trillion set aside in the CARES Act to be used for small businesses experiencing financial loss due to the coronavirus pandemic yet still attempting to pay their employees. 

“Faith-based organizations are eligible to receive SBA loans regardless of whether they provide secular social services,” a statement clarifying the eligibility of churches applying for the loans from the Small Business Association reads.

Churches can start applying now (applications were available starting April 3rd) through June 30, 2020. Churches interested in applying will need to fill out the application and submit it to an SBA participating lender such as Wells Fargo, U.S. Bank, and Chase. However, the money available under these loans appears to be going quickly. For instance, on April 5, Wells Fargo CEO Charlie Scharf announced the bank would be limiting the loans it awards to nonprofits and small businesses with fewer than 50 employees due to the expected event that they will reach their lending capacity soon.

Politicians such as U.S. Treasury Secretary Steven Mnuchin, Senate Minority Leader Chuck Schumer,  and Senate Majority Leader Mitch McConnell are already working on a plan for additional funding to keep the PPP going. While Speaker of the House Nancy Pelosi agrees more funding is necessary, she is pushing for more data to be collected on who is being served and underserved by the loans before more funding is given.

The loans can be used for paying employee wages, benefits, and retirement funds. The loans can also be used to cover church utility payments, mortgages or leases. Additionally, these loans may qualify for forgiveness. However, as a guide put together by the Ethics and Religious Liberties Commission (ERLC) points out, there are certain stipulations in place to ensure that the money used for these loans goes to employee salaries and that the church maintains its staff. For a good explanation on the loan forgiveness eligibility, check out the ERLC guide.

Who Is Eligible for the Paycheck Protection Program?

First of all, the question on many ministers’ minds is whether or not all churches are eligible for the loans. Churches and para-church organizations are eligible as long as they meet the requirements of 501(c)(3) status. Churches don’t necessarily have to be registered with the IRS this way, but they do need to meet those requirements. In other words, if you have not yet applied to be classified as a 501(c)(3) organization or you are operating under another organization’s tax exempt status, you can still apply for a loan. 

Additionally, churches will need to ensure they have 500 or fewer employees, which is the benchmark that separates small businesses from larger ones. This could cause some problems for churches that are associated with a diocese as the number of employees in affiliated churches across a large city could potentially be greater than 500. More information on that stipulation and what qualifies as an affiliated organization can be found here

Other questions on the minds of church leaders concern issues of religious liberty. For instance, will churches have to comply with things like employment nondiscrimination legislation if they accept a federal loan? The federal government is assuring churches that they can still operate unencumbered (for instance, employing the people they choose to employ, making certain requirements for membership, etc.):

Receipt of a loan through any SBA program does not (1) limit the authority of religious organizations to define the standards, responsibilities, and duties of membership; (2) limit the freedom of religious organizations to select individuals to perform work connected to that organization’s religious exercise; nor (3) constitute waiver of any rights under federal law, including rights protecting religious autonomy and exercise under the Religious Freedom Restoration Act of 1993 (RFRA), 42 U.S.C. § 2000b et seq., Section 702 of the Civil Rights Act of 1964, 42 U.S.C. § 2000e-1(a), or the First Amendment.

Simply put, a faith-based organization that receives a loan will retain its independence, autonomy, right of expression, religious character, and authority over its governance, and no faith-based organization will be excluded from receiving funding because leadership with, membership in, or employment by that organization is limited to persons who share its religious faith and practice.

However, churches are required to adhere to certain “nondiscrimination obligations” during the duration of the loan. These obligations require that churches that receive loans “may not discriminate on the basis of race, color, religion, sex, handicap, age, or national origin with regard to goods, services, or accommodations offered.” In other words, if a church runs a soup kitchen, they cannot refuse to serve a person of a different faith. Again, though, the document reiterates that these nondiscrimination obligations do not apply to the church’s employment policies. Put another way, churches that believe in a traditional view of marriage, for instance, would not be obligated to hire a minister in a same-sex marriage. 

Churches are also not required to describe their religious beliefs when applying for the loan. For a full set of FAQs the SBA has answered, go here.

What About the Separation of Church and State?

Many pastors and church leaders have expressed concern over the federally-backed loans on the grounds of wanting to maintain separation of church and state. To this point, Russell Moore of the ERLC says that since the federal government is asking the public to put a hold on “normal” life (going to church, working for some people, etc.), the situation is similar to compensating churches for land involving an eminent domain case. “Almost no one would see such reimbursement as an endorsement of the views represented by that business or nonprofit, much less as a public-private partnership,” Moore writes

Moore also addressed the concern that especially if the loans are forgivable, perhaps the federal government will feel entitled to exercise more control over a church’s operations. “We have no indication that such would be the case, and, were any future governing authority to seek retroactively to restrict the First Amendment on such grounds, I believe such a move would be successfully repudiated in court,” Moore writes in response.

Pastors Share How They Are Leading During Crisis

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Christian Pastors throughout the U.S. are wrestling with how to serve their congregations during the coronavirus pandemic. What will really help people who are sheltering at home? How can church leaders make Easter special? And how can pastors practice good self-care as they navigate these challenges? Last week, Gravity Leadership organized a panel of Christian pastors who shared on Facebook what they are doing to help their church members during this unprecedented time.

“In this crazy season, there are huge challenges for us in how we pastor and how we care,” said Gravity Leadership co-founder Ben Hardman, “and we’re getting lots of questions all over the country from folks asking us…’Hey, how do we pastor through this time?’” 

Hardman, who pastors Grace Marietta Church in the Atlanta area, hosted the panel, which took place on April 2. He was joined by the following pastors:

-Gravity Leadership co-founder Ben Sternke, who is planting a church in the northeast suburbs of Indianapolis
-Gino Curcuruto, who pastors at The Table in Philadelphia
-Dan Sadlier, lead pastor at Mosaic Church in New York City
Nate Pyle, pastor of Christ’s Community Church in Fishers, Indiana
-Kristan Dooley, discipleship pastor at Anthem House Church in West Chester, Ohio

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The pastors said their communities were responding to the pandemic in different ways, depending on where they were in the country. Some were not severely affected by it yet, and people were not that worried. But Sadlier, who is in New York City, said his people were just then getting hit with the first wave of their loved ones being in critical condition and passing away. 

However, despite the differences present in each of their congregations, the Christian pastors were fairly unified regarding what routines and decisions were benefiting their members.

How Are You Caring for People in Your Church? 

Sadlier mentioned that about a month before the crisis hit, church leaders had split their church into smaller groups. This, he said, has been “hugely helpful” for checking in with people since the pandemic hit. 

Like many churches, they have been livestreaming their Sunday services. From 8-8:30 every morning, they have a prayer gathering on Zoom and also have different groups that connect on Zoom throughout the week. Sadlier said their online kids ministry has about tripled in the past few weeks and that parents have appreciated anything the church can provide that will help keep their children occupied. “It’s been hard,” he said, “but sweet.”

Pyle echoed the helpfulness of splitting the congregation into smaller groups, saying his church has assigned one elder to every 15 to 20 people in the congregation. For the last few weeks, the elders have called all of the people on their care list to see how they’re doing. “I personally have taken up the lost art of letter writing,” said Pyle. He has been writing notes to all the families in his church and praying over them as he does so. “It’s been really great,” he said. His church has also paired each elder with a deacon in order to have a better awareness about specific financial needs within the congregation.

Dooley said she has been driven by a desire to do life with the people in her church. “My personal conviction was, let’s be in people’s reality,” she said. “I know I can drive to the church, and I know that we can film and use all of our technology and everything that we have, but what if I am stuck at home with my people, and what if we figure out how to bring the gospel in their reality by being in their reality?” 

The result was she and her co-pastor have been pre-recording all their talks and sermons at the beginning of the week so they can be home with their families the rest of the week, just like the people in their church are. While she was concerned about the messages remaining timely with how quickly current events are developing, Dooley said this practice has been an opportunity to trust in God and remember how timeless his Word is. 

What Guys Think About Modesty

C.J. Mahaney shares a series of powerful letters about modesty in the church today.

I wanted you not only to hear my heart and this exhortation, but most importantly, to hear from Holy Scripture. I also wanted you to hear from some men in the church. Different guys, who were students, took a section to describe what it was like to be on campus every day prior to transitioning to what it was like to be in church. One writes:

“Each and every day on campus is a battle. Listen carefully, ladies—this is not an aberration; this is not an unusual testimony; this is the norm. Every day on campus is a battle—a battle against my sin, against temptation, and against my depraved mind. Every morning, I have to cry out for mercy, strength, and a renewed conviction to flee youthful lusts. The Spirit is faithful to bring me the renewal I need to prepare me to do war against my sin, yet the temptation still exists. I’m thankful God has created me to be attracted to women; however, campus is a loaded minefield. There are girls everywhere, and it’s guaranteed that I will pass some attractive girls as I walk between classes. I either have to be actively engaging my mind in my spirit—praying, quoting Scripture, listening to worship music, or simply looking at the sidewalk—to make it through unscathed. Many days, it takes all four to be safe.

“The thing that women do not seem to fully grasp is that the temptation towards lust does not stop for us as men. It is continual; it is aggressive; it does all it can to lead men down to death, and they have a choice to help or deter its goal. Consider this message my appeal on behalf of the men for you to help us deter the goal of lust in our lives. Sometimes, when I see a girl provocatively dressed, I’ll say to myself, ‘She probably doesn’t even know that 101 guys are going to devour her in their minds today.’ But then again, maybe she does. To be honest, I don’t know the truth—the truth of why she chooses to dress the way she does, the way she chooses to walk, the way she chooses to act. I don’t know because I’ve never sat down with a girl and asked her why. All I need to know is that the way she presents herself to the world is bait for my sinful mind to latch onto, and I need to avoid it at all costs.”

He continues:

“For the most part, the church serves as a sanctuary from the continual barrage of temptation towards sin. However, the church’s members are not free from sin, and there are girls—both ignorant and knowledgeable of men’s sinful tendencies. I must confess that even church can have several mines scattered about. To the girls who are ignorant: please serve your brother and have your dad screen your wardrobe. Ask him how you can better choose holiness over worldliness—he’s a guy, and he knows more than you do on the issue. And to the girls who don’t follow the pattern of the world: thank you a million times over. You are following Scripture’s commands and helping your brothers in the process.”

Another gentleman writes:

“Having said all that, if I could say anything to the women in the church, it would be this: First, there’s not a man I know that doesn’t struggle in some way with lust. If they had any idea what went through guys’ minds, it would probably vastly change the way they dress. Secondly, and I think most importantly, God has created His church to be a resting place for Christians—to be a place where people encounter God without all the distractions. It is disappointing when I walk into the church or an event with the church and have to deal with the same temptations that I face in the world. But I rejoice whenever I see a girl or woman who is attempting to serve the Lord and guys by dressing modestly. You have no idea how sweet and challenging it is when I see a woman who has decided not to flaunt her body like the culture shouts for her to do, but rather she has decided that serving the Lord and her brothers is more important. Glory to God for women like that, and let us be a church with men who are committed to purity and women who are committed to modesty.”

One more voice I want you to hear:

“At church—the one place where I might think not to have to face temptation—this is not always the case. When ladies that I’m friends with dress immodestly, it definitely has a negative effect on our friendship. When she dresses immodestly, it doesn’t make it easy to see her as a sister in Christ. There is a constant battle going on as I’m talking with her. Communication becomes more difficult because as I’m trying to listen to her, I am also trying to fight temptation. I also think some ladies just aren’t aware that even little things can distract guys a lot—showing even a little part of their stomach.

“I am so grateful for the friendships that God has given me over the past year and a half and for the godly ladies in my care group. I am so appreciative of the sacrifice that these ladies make to glorify God and to serve and care for the guys. I heard a story of one of the ladies in our ministry who went shopping and really liked a shirt she was trying on, but then she thought, ‘No, I can’t do this to the guys.’ That was the first time I had ever heard of anything like that, and it made me so grateful. It is such a blessing to have friends who care for me enough to be selfless and sacrifice what might look attractive in order to help me and other guys with sexual lust. I think modesty is so attractive and helpful in friendship because it makes it easier for a friendship to be centered around God and for fellowship to be unhindered.”

Ladies, you are to be distinctly different, and non-Christians are to come here and not be distracted by observing skin that should not be on display. Instead, they are to realize that this place is populated by people who are different—distinct. Not self-righteously distinct, but humbly distinct. And in these ways, we are to be distinct for our brothers who are saved, for the lost yet to be saved, and ultimately for the Savior who saved us. It’s about the gospel.

Now, here’s the good news as well—the gospel provides for forgiveness. So, for all who have been convicted through this message, I just want to at this moment lead you to the foot of the cross so that you might survey the wondrous cross on which the Prince of Glory died for the very sins that He has been bringing to your attention during this message, so that you might receive forgiveness, so that you might change by grace and for His glory.

Let’s not wait a moment longer—would you bow your head in prayer?

Show What Is Real: In Support of Your Unpolished Streaming Church

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Our people need us to show what is real, not what’s perfect. The first temptation of many church leaders during this pandemic, when we have been barred from gathering as a community, is to grab the best cameras, microphones, and video equipment that we can, and put together a well-polished and fully edited feature-film like video to inspire our people. We feel the need to hide any negativity and sometimes to even hide any inkling of the crisis at hand, save for a mention of “what we need in this trying time” in our sermons.

I know this because I’m a pastor, and in the opening moments of our first online quarantine gathering I made a reference to “trying to keep some semblance of normalcy.” But over the last few weeks, I’ve come to see that perhaps this is misguided, and that perhaps what we need is not normalcy, but honesty and solidarity. Originally we as church leaders had talked about gathering three or four of us in our empty worship space away from our homes, and film ourselves singing and preaching from the familiar places as we always have. I’ve now come to the conclusion that this can have the exact opposite effect: that rather than bringing us together in virtual celebration, it can breed even more disconnection and isolation.

For the family who hasn’t left their house in two weeks (and likely will not leave that house for another four), I’m beginning to feel that the best thing that we as church leaders can do for them is to join them in their monotony, in their messiness, and in the simple boring mundane-ness of isolation. Perhaps the meditative video clips of drone shots soaring above the blue-ridge mountains while song lyrics flash across the serendipities landscape will only add to the sense of loneliness that they already have. Perhaps seeing their pastor preaching to the empty sanctuary and watching their worship band smile together (while painting six-feet of distance) only serves to elevate the feeling of isolation that they are already feeling. And perhaps what they need to see more than anything else from their church leaders is their mess. A man lifting up a song with an acoustic guitar in the awkwardness of his living room, beside a table lamp poorly lighting his beige walls, best displays the true reality: that we are truly all in this together. Perhaps a woman, a church leader, singing out in the stale air of her messy bedroom where she spent the last two weeks working in front of her computer is the picture that the church needs to broadcast at this moment.

Show what is real; no more acting.

When we speak of the incarnation of Christ, we speak of one who could have continued to soar above, untouched by the pains of the rest of us, but who chooses to join us in the struggle. What does it say about us (and our Lord) when we feel the overwhelming urge to continue to soar above what everyone else cannot escape? Unless we as church leaders can finally humble ourselves, unless we can put aside the image of perfection and polished living, we will never walk away from this unique situation, this moment in church history, with the wisdom that we should have gained.

At this moment, the people don’t need to be impressed; they need solidarity. They don’t need an escape; they need encouragement. They don’t need entertainment; they need incarnation.

Turn on your camera and show us your true self. Show us the confines of your temporary prison in all of its clutter and mess. Look us in the eye, and speak truthfully. Put down the green screen. For now, the show is over. Let the worship begin.

This article about show what is real originally appeared here.

The Church After the Coronavirus

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What will the church after the coronavirus look like? The past three weeks have proved to be an unprecedented time of uncertainty for people throughout the world. Concern over the impact of the coronavirus has seized medical professionals, the elderly, those with weak immune systems, business owners, financial institutions, non-profit organizations, and—most significantly—local churches.

This past Sunday, pastors and staff members of churches worldwide live streamed sermons and services so that the members could join in to worship in their homes. In light of our current circumstances, a number of important questions about the nature of the church have surfaced. For instance, what authority can the state exercise over the church? Is it appropriate for churches to voluntarily cancel in-person worship? What are the best ways for pastors to stay connected with and care for their members while they are sequestered in their homes? These, and other related subjects, are important for the simple reason that the church belongs to the Lord Jesus Christ and should always be seeking to do what is pleasing to Him.

However, there is another significant issue we must begin addressing—namely, how can the church best prepare for church after the coronavirus?

The Church Will Continue

Before I provide some specific ways that the church can grow back into its worship and work, we need to know why the church will absolutely continue in the world. Jesus promised that the gates of hell will not prevail against His church (Matthew 16:18). As long as there is summer and winter, day and night, seedtime and harvest, there will be a church in the world. No pestilence will destroy the fruit of the substitutionary, sin-atoning labor of the righteous soul of Jesus. Jesus died to purchase a people for Himself out of every nation, from all tribes and peoples and languages (Revelation 7:9). Jesus shed His blood to redeem a bride for Himself. Until He comes again, there will be a church on earth. As the Westminster Confession of Faith states, “there shall be always a Church on earth, to worship God according to His will” (WCF 25.5).

As the Chief Shepherd of His church (cf. John 10:11, 14; 1 Peter 5:4), Jesus has entrusted the care of His sheep to under-shepherds He has appointed. When the Apostle Paul charged the Ephesian elders before departing from them, he said, “Pay careful attention to yourselves and to all the flock, in which the Holy Spirit has made you overseers, to care for the church of God, which he obtained with his own blood” (Acts 20:28). This means that pastors must take care of the flock in this time of uncertainly with the utmost diligence and wisdom. There will be wolves seeking to attack the members of local church online and through various other channels during this time of separation. Good under-shepherds must guide their congregations with clear and loving communication so that members of local churches do not fall by the way on account of this trial. Here are a few things keep in mind:

1. Caring for the elderly. Both elders and deacons should be thinking about the elderly and sick in the congregation with the church after the coronavirus. The elderly are so often neglected in our society, and they ought to be of the utmost concern to both church leaders and congregants. Caring for them during and after the coronavirus threat is past is essential to recovering from this situation. Pastors can encourage their congregants to be checking in on elderly members in order to see if they have present needs. Congregants should also consider the needs of elderly saints in the days ahead. This is an opportunity for the church to think seriously about how to best care for the elderly as those in need of our ongoing mercy and assistance.

2. Encouraging family worship. Pastors should be counseling their members how to be praying and worshipping with their families in their homes. This time in which members are sequestered at home can be a rich opportunity for growth in the area of family worship. While pastors should discourage the future neglecting of the gathered assembly in favor of streaming a worship service (Hebrews 10:23–24), this is a wonderful opportunity to teach our people about the importance of consistently carrying out family worship in our homes. Pastors have an opportunity to provide resources for their members to help equip them to carry out this task. It is possible that the local church emerges stronger on account of the present situation, if pastors take advantage of the opportunities to instruct their congregations to this end.[1]

3. Pursuing wandering congregants. For the church after the coronavirus, elders should be staying in touch with members on the fringe of their congregation. There will always be sheep who stray from the assembly when the opportunity presents itself. Jesus taught a parable about the good shepherd leaving the ninety-nine to go after a wandering lamb (Matthew 18:10–14). As weeks may pass in which congregants cannot gather, there is a very real danger that certain sheep will wander from the fold. Right now, elders must give serious consideration to those members who are already less frequent in attendance. This is an opportunity for elders to keep members close to the fold. Ongoing communication with such members can make a world of difference for the time when things return to normal. The intentional care for such members at present may actually bring about a greater commitment from them in the near future.

4. Anticipating future outreach. A separate but related concern regards the outreach of the local church after the coronavirus. Depending on how long we are physically separated from one another, many will be tempted to inwardness and neglect of the mission of the church. As we plan on coming together as a church again, we will have opportunities to carry out the Great Commission in our communities. Elders should be seeking to encourage their members to consider outreach opportunities. If elders plan accordingly, some local churches may find themselves entering in on the work of local missions with a greater zeal than they had before. It would be a glorious thing to see local churches regaining a zeal to reach the lost, when we are able to again gather together as a local church.

5. Encouraging the grace of giving. Finally, elders and deacons should encourage their congregants regarding the grace of giving. Without doubt, financial concerns are foremost on the minds of many at present. There will inevitably be economic challenges ahead and congregants will almost certainly lose jobs. The church will need to come alongside such members in their time of need (Acts 2:45). The fear of job loss precipitates a fear of being able to give. Local churches need the generous and faithful giving of the saints. When members choose to stop giving out of fear, they may inadvertently affect the livelihood of ministers and other pertinent church staff members Additionally, we must remember to continue supporting our foreign missionaries. God has promised to provide abundantly for His people when they give joyfully and freely to the work of His kingdom (2 Corinthians 8:7; 9:6­-9). This is a time in which elders and deacons should encourage their people to trust the Lord in their giving for the future ministry of the local church to which they belong.

While there will certainly be adverse consequences from this current crisis, elders have opportunities to shepherd the flock of God through them and out to greener pastures. If the elders are prayerful, wise, and diligent in caring for the flock and the needs of the whole congregation, the local church after the coronavirus may actually come out on the other side stronger and more committed than before. May God give the under-shepherds of His church the wisdom needed to prepare and labor for the good of the congregants from whom they are physically separated for a time.

[1] A number of years ago, I taught a short series on family worship in order to help equip congregants to carry out family worship in their homes.

This article about the church after the coronavirus originally appeared here.

Why Is There So Much Sexual Immorality and Polygamy in the Old Testament?

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It’s the question of the day at Gentle Reformation. Though we hadn’t planned it, 3GT and my post now are a two-part series on the question of polygamy.

Why would a two-part discussion be needed? Because burdens are many on this issue.

A daily Bible reader gets confused as they march through the Old Testament. Why is there so much polygamy and pursuit of concubines that seems to go unrebuked by God?

A woman hurts over the pain others’ sexual sin has caused in her life. Suddenly, reading the Old Testament is painful. Supposed heroes like Abraham (Genesis 25:6), Jacob (Genesis 29-30), and Gideon (Judges 8:30-31), just to name a few, pursue multiple wives or concubines. Are women just property in Old Testament ideals?

A man stumbles into sexual sin, reads his Bible, and thinks he finds a justification for it in the Old Testament. If David had many wives, what’s the problem with a struggle with occasional pornography?

The culture expands its views of sexual immorality and starts to articulate a doctrine of polygamy … from the Bible? I’d encourage you to listen to 3GT as they take on this issue in particular.

“My brothers, these things ought not to be so” (James 3:10).

Sadly, though, they are so. The prevalence of polygamy and sexual immorality in the Old Testament is a frequent cause of heartburn for the student of Scripture. Often, the confusion here comes not with incidents like David’s sin with Bathsheba (2 Samuel 11) or Abraham’s sin with Hagar (Genesis 16). After all, they seem to get their just rebuke for those sins. Instead, the confusion comes with the prevalence of seemingly unrebuked polygamy and pursuit of concubines in the likes of Abraham, Jacob, Gideon, David, and others.

Why does the Old Testament read in this way, and how does this impact our approach to reading the Old Testament?

For me, the most helpful anchor to address these questions is found in Deuteronomy 17:14-20. There, directives are given to Israel’s future kings. Four major requirements for Israel’s kings can be found there:

  1. V15: They must be from among the people of Israel.
  2. V16: They must not acquire many horses for themselves or go back to Egypt. In other words, they must not depend on the world and so forsake the God who redeemed them.
  3. V17: They must not acquire other wives.
  4. V18-20: They must study, know, and obey God’s law.

Now, for the sake of this article, the obvious item to highlight is v17, on not acquiring other wives. Kings are forbidden from polygamy! This hearkens back to the initial marriage formation in Genesis 2.

But to understand this law and its import for our question, we must understand how kings relate to their nation in Israel. In the Old Testament, the pervasive theme is this: “As goes the king, so goes the nation.” Kings are not given a different law than the nation, but they are given the law, which they are to lead the nation in following.

This theme is prominent in 1 Kings. In that book, there is a repeated record of evil kings. And the emphasized point is that their sin was then replicated in the nation. One example is Nadab in 1 Kings 15:26: “He did what was evil in the sight of the Lord and walked in the way of his father, and in his sin which he made Israel to sin” (see also 1 Kings 14:16, 15:34, 16:2, 16:13, 16:26, 21:22, 22:52).

So, using Deuteronomy 17:14-20 as our grid, we discover that kings are to model and guide the whole nation in being truly identified as God’s people (Deuteronomy 17:15), relying only on the Lord (Deuteronomy 17:16), living in sexual purity and monogamy (Deuteronomy 17:17), and loving God’s law (Deuteronomy 17:18-20).

Now, what happens, particularly in the area of monogamy and sexual immorality? Kings repeatedly fail. And Scripture, though, does not need in every place to utter the rebuke of the king for failing. Why? Because the rebuke is already written into the law for the kings in Deuteronomy 17.

Let me give an example of how this works in another one of the “Deuteronomy 17 Commands”. In 1 Kings 10:28, Solomon acquires horses from Egypt. This is a blatant violation of Deuteronomy 17:16. No rebuke is given, because it is not needed. The student of Scripture immediately reads 1 Kings 10:28 and laments: “Israel’s king has broken the standard of Deuteronomy 17. He will surely suffer for this.” And from that point forward, Solomon’s reign and kingdom begin to go downhill.

Free Kids’ Lesson Package: “Messy”

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How to Create Buy-in for a Church Building Project

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If your church has ever been through a building project, then you know that you need buy-in before any project can get off the ground. You need support from key stakeholders within your congregation who can help you gain support from the outliers and the neutrals throughout the process. And you know that these can be hot topics, capable of polarizing groups.

Over the years of working with myriad congregations from multiple denominations, we’ve seen plans for a building project presented well—rallying the church body around the excitement of a new potential. But we’ve also seen them delivered poorly—arousing doubts and emotions that threaten to divide a congregation.

Two Hazards in Church Building Project Presentations

When we’ve seen projects disintegrate, it typically stems from two pitfalls:

1. The Proclamation Pitfall: People tend to hear information through their own selective listening filter. For example, when you stand before your congregation and proclaim, “We’re discussing the need for expanding our kids’ space,” you may mean that your leadership just began an internal review of the need. Your church body, however, may hear an entirely different message:

“We’re expanding the kids’ space. It will be 4,500 square feet with one large group room, three classrooms and two bathrooms. We’ll paint everything blue, red and yellow because kids love primary colors, and we’ll be breaking ground tomorrow. Isn’t that awesome?”

Yes, it sounds a bit preposterous, but it happens. After all, you represent church leadership, and so the congregation naturally assumes that much thought and research has already gone into every presented idea. Without a clear proclamation, you can say one thing and the church body can hear another thing. For this reason, be sure you specify exactly what “discussing the need for expanding our kids’ space” means. With whom are you discussing this—an architect or builder, kids’ ministry leaders at your church? Clearly define where you are in the process, what the next step will be for your church, how and when you plan to follow-up with more information with the congregation, and where people can go to ask questions or voice concerns or ideas. Sharing as much information as you can will build trust and give people a sense that you value their input. And this helps increase the buy-in factor with a building project.

2. The Product Pitfall: Churches sometimes make the mistake of presenting a church building project as if the new space is a product the church is purchasing. In reality, your church space is a tool for ministry—not a product. The building should always be about the ministry it can help produce. Otherwise, your leadership and congregation will lose sight of the big picture and get lost in the minutiae of carpet selections, floor plans or wall colors. And at that point, discord and divisions will take place. The focus must always remain on the ministry the space will help facilitate.

The ABCs of Avoiding These Hazards

Here are three steps your church leadership can take to avoid falling into these two pitfalls:

Adopt a New Direction Additions, renovations, expansions and the like—these are all solutions. Before you share any building plans with your congregation, first identify the existing problems your ministry space poses and how it’s becoming a barrier to growth. For example, you could state, “We’re experiencing incredible growth right now, and because of that, things are getting tight in the kids’ spaces. Praise God! What a great problem to have, as it means we’re impacting local families for Christ. We can’t wait to explore solutions with you all in the near future.”

In that scenario, you’re offering no solutions at this point. Instead, you’re simply encouraging the church body to celebrate the problems together. You’re also creating intrigue and bringing the entire congregation into the big picture (i.e., the solution).

Bill Hybels, senior pastor of Willow Creek Community Church in South Barrington, Ill., says that a leader’s job is to move people from here to there. But before you can move them to there, you have to make a case for why staying here is no longer acceptable. A pending building project is a perfect opportunity to get your congregation behind the idea of moving from here to there.

Build the Project’s Momentum After fully educating your congregation on the problem, it’s then time to offer building solutions by presenting floor plans and visuals that your building committees and/or staff have been poring over for months. Be careful, though, not to get fascinated by fancy renderings and architectural concepts. Be sure to keep the focus on the unspoken ministry potential these graphics portray.

For instance, while showing a classroom image, you could point out a chair and share a live or pre-recorded testimony of a life transformed by sitting in your current chairs. Remind people that your building is a tool for ministry.

Channel the Congregation’s Enthusiasm Once you energize your congregation about the problems and solutions, you need to preserve strong buy-in by maintaining energy around your building project. Continue to celebrate the problem with your people—growing beyond the capacity of the space to contain everyone, for example. Leverage multiple mediums and platforms to deliver that message, such as updates from the pulpit, announcements in the bulletin or on your church website, video clips to highlight the ministry impact your new space will have. And whenever you discuss or showcase the solution, be sure to tie it back to your ministries and your people. A successful building project always revolves around these two elements—not the building.  

This Is What Palm Sunday 2020 Looked Like

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Despite lockdowns and quarantines, Christians throughout the world found innovative ways to observe Palm Sunday and the beginning of Holy Week. Some people taped construction-paper branches to their doors or windows, while others waved branches during online worship services.

Palm Sunday 2020: Hosannas Amid Social Distancing

In a modern-day nod to Jesus’ Palm Sunday entry into Jerusalem, some churches held “car parades,” with worshipers waving fronds out windows. First Christian Church in Bowling Green, Kentucky, took that approach, disinfecting palm branches before distributing them drive-thru style. Cars of palm-wavers paraded through downtown, and then church members returned to their homes to worship via livestream.

Other congregations marked the holy day by distributing free meals and supplies. In Winterville, North Carolina, members of The Rebuild Christian Center Church wore gloves and face masks while handing out food and supplies to passing cars. Musicians from the church played and sang from a nearby tent, as vehicles waited in line.

All donations came from church members, according to Pastor Darron Carmon. “We wanted to do that because we care,” he says, adding that Rebuild is planning similar events for the community. “As long as COVID-19 is aggressive, we’re going to be even more aggressive. We’re up for the task.”

Empty Pews, Full Hearts

In a historic first at St. Peter’s in Rome, Pope Francis livestreamed Palm Sunday Mass from an almost-empty basilica. The few invitees and musicians who were present practiced social distancing. Traditionally, worshipers fill St. Peter’s Square for Palm Sunday. This year, with the coronavirus upending all aspects of daily life, the pope urged Christians to dedicate themselves to service.

“The tragedy we are experiencing summons us to take seriously the things that are serious and not to be caught up in those that matter less—to rediscover that life is of no use if not used to serve others,” Pope Francis said. “May we reach out to those who are suffering and those most in need. May we not be concerned about what we lack but what good we can do for others.”

Throughout Italy, where the pandemic has hit especially hard, Catholic priests celebrated Palm Sunday Mass on rooftops so homebound residents could participate.

Olive branches were visible throughout Jerusalem on Sunday, with one priest calling them “the sign of new hope.” Although the traditional procession of palms through Jerusalem’s Christian Quarter was cancelled, a small group of Franciscan monks and worshipers marched from the top of the Mount of Olives into the Old City.

In Lebanon, priests conducted open-air Mass, with some driving in pickup trucks decorated with palm and olive branches. Panama’s archbishop went even further, using a helicopter to deliver Palm Sunday blessings from the sky. After celebrating Mass at Howard Air Force Base, Archbishop Jose Domingo Ulloa flew over Panama City’s empty streets with two other priests. Speaking through a face mask, he said, “We are living through an unprecedented event in the history of Christianity, celebrating Holy Week without a congregation in our churches.”

As part of Panama’s lockdown, no one is allowed to leave home on Sundays. Archbishop Ulloa dedicated this year’s Holy Week observances to medical personnel “and so many people who are determined to advance our country at the cost of risking their own lives.”

President Trump Attends Online Church, Urges Prayer

On Saturday, President Trump tweeted that he’d be “tuning into” Palm Sunday worship with Pastor Greg Laurie at Harvest Christian Fellowship in Riverside, California. “Palm Sunday is the beginning of a Holy week for many people of Faith and a great day to lift our voices in Prayer,” wrote the president.

Pastors Pray for Pastors As Holy Week Begins

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This morning, Rick and Kay Warren hosted an online global prayer gathering to encourage church leaders as they enter Holy Week. Global church leaders representing all seven continents prayed for pastors and believers across the world, who are facing an Easter unlike any other in history.

“This is the first time in 2,000 years of Christianity that churches all around the world will be unable to gather in large groups to celebrate Easter,” said Rick Warren. But even so, “one out of every three people on this planet will be honoring Jesus Christ this weekend.”

This year is the 40th anniversary of Saddleback Church and the 30th year Rick Warren has planned a prayer breakfast for pastors. “But then the pandemic hit,” he said. “And I began to get texts and emails and calls from discouraged pastors all around the world where public Easter services were being canceled due to the Covid-19 virus.” 

Warren went on to say, “I knew that this year we needed to go global and we needed to invite pastors from all around the world to come together for encouragement at the beginning of Easter week and to pray with each other and for each other.”

Church Guide to Coronavirus 1

So the Warrens decided to host the Easter Pastor Prayer Gathering online, where they were joined by church leaders representing each of the seven continents. Each leader who participated in the gathering spoke some words of exhortation and encouragement to pastors and prayed for a specific area of need the church is facing right now. You can watch the Easter Pastor Prayer Gathering here.

A Prayer Gathering Across the World

T.D. Jakes of The Potter’s House Church in the U.S. was the first leader to speak. He started off the prayer gathering by saying, “Pastors, I want to take this opportunity to say that if you ever thought that you knew what you were doing, times like these are quite humbling.” Jakes focused on praying that God would alleviate the anxiety the coronavirus pandemic is causing many people, and he quoted 2 Tim. 1:7, which says, “For the Spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love and self-discipline.” He also referenced Phil. 4:6-7:

Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

“And so we come to you Lord,” said Jakes, “admitting our own frailty and our own weakness, and we ask you Lord to strengthen those that are fearful, to comfort those that mourn, to speak to those that have anxiety right now.” The pastor also prayed that people who think the pandemic has control will realize that God is the one who is truly in control and that “nothing that is current in our news is shocking in heaven.”

Next were Carlito and Leila Paes, who are the lead pastors of the City Church in São José dos Campos in Brazil. Carlito reminded those watching that Jesus is our “living hope” and “the greatest truth of Christian faith is that Jesus lives, reigns, and rules!” He quoted 1 Corinthians 15:55-57, which says, “‘Where, O death, is your victory? Where, O death, is your sting?’ The sting of death is sin, and the power of sin is the law. But thanks be to God! He gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ.”

The couple spent time praying for medical workers on the front lines fighting the virus, saying, “Thank you, Lord, for each nursing assistant, each nurse, each doctor, each and every one that is there, looking out for those most in need,” They prayed for the physical, emotional and spiritual health of the medical workers, as well as for their loved ones who are supporting them. 

Tony and Mei Yeo with Covenant Evangelical Free Church in Singapore prayed for those who are hurting financially because of the pandemic. Said Tony, “In such a time as this, we need to remember to hold fast to the truth of God’s word in the midst of this chaotic situation.” The couple referenced many passages of Scripture, including Zephaniah 3:17 and Psalm 31:19, which says, “How abundant are the good things that you have stored up for those who fear you, that you bestow in the sight of all, on those who take refuge in you.” Tony prayed, “Whether in plenty or in need, give us the grace to choose you still.” In addition to those who are suffering financially, the pastor also asked God that those who are able would be willing to share with those who are in need.

Pew Research: Muslim Births Projected to Surpass Christian Births by 2035

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By 2035, Muslims will give birth to more babies than any other religion, according to new research from Pew Research Center. While Christianity is expanding at modest rates through birth, research finds Muslims globally are younger, having more children and growing rapidly.

“Globally, the relatively young population and high fertility rates of Muslims lead to a projection that between 2030 and 2035, there will be slightly more babies born to Muslims (225 million) than to Christians (224 million), even though the total Christian population will still be larger,” the research noted.

Birthrate

As of 2015, Christians—which make up 31 percent of the world population—were giving birth to 33 percent of the world’s babies; however, the Muslim population—which makes up 24 percent of the world population—was giving birth to 31 percent of the world’s babies, accounting for the explosive growth of Islam globally. Because of this, it’s estimated that Islam will be the world’s largest religion by 2075.

Complicating projections about the growth of religions is the difficulty in predicting a “deconversion” rate where individuals may switch between religious (or irreligious) beliefs; however, according to Pew, “at present, the best available data indicate that the worldwide impact of religious switching alone, absent any other factors, would be a relatively small increase in the number of Muslims, a substantial increase in the number of unaffiliated people, and a substantial decrease in the number of Christians in coming decades. Globally, however, the effects of religious switching are overshadowed by the impact of differences in fertility and mortality.”

According to Pew’s study “one of the main determinants of future growth is where each group is geographically concentrated today. For example, the religiously unaffiliated population is heavily concentrated in places with aging populations and low fertility, such as China, Japan, Europe and North America. By contrast, religions with many adherents in developing countries—where birth rates are high and infant mortality rates generally have been falling—are likely to grow quickly. Much of the worldwide growth of Islam and Christianity, for example, is expected to take place in sub-Saharan Africa.”

What this implies is that these projections are still subject to fluctuation as religious presences evolve. In China, for instance, Christianity has unexpectedly exploded in just a few decades. According to Fenggyang Yang, director of the Center of Religion and Chinese Society at Purdue University, there were 3 million Christians in China in 1980, compared to 58 million in 2010. By 2025, that number could swell to 250 to 300 million.

Birthrate

“Assuming that the number of Christians in the U.S. stays the same over the next several decades, it is possible that China could become the largest Protestant country by 2021 and the largest Christian country by 2025,” Yang said.

Throughout the history of Christianity God has moved powerfully, in unexpected ways, and transformed entire civilizations. So while it might be easy to be discouraged by the current Pew research, perhaps the best response is simply to pray that God would do what he always does—advance his kingdom throughout the world—and ask how he might use our churches to help.

How to Stay Connected When Nothing Is Normal

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We face a dilemma right now. The world has met in gatherings for centuries and is being asked (and told) by its individual governments to stay home and away from other people. Social distancing is the term. I have friends in remote pockets of the world where I never dreamed that I would have friends, who are also being shut down. I’m talking about people in the desert of Kenya, to people in the jungles of Colombia, and everywhere in between. Everyone, everywhere, it seems, is asking how to stay connected during this time.

That leads me to a simple question:

How do we stay connected?

The simple answer that I think most people would give, and it proved true on a quick survey that I posted on Facebook is through platforms like Zoom, FaceTime, Facebook chat, Google Hangouts, Skype, etc. Constant phone calls, texts, and emails. But that just isn’t the same is it?

We’re used to going out to eat with our families, meeting new friends at church on a Sunday morning, bumping into people at Walmart, connecting in small groups during the week, going to Topgolf with a group of friends, etc.

The question becomes less about what I can do to stay connected with people, and more about how I can feel a sense of normalcy?

I think that’s ultimately what we long for. With no end in sight, we just want to know when we can live our normal lives again. When can we visit grandma in the nursing home again? When can we go see a movie? When can we go shopping again?

Temporarily, we must live in this new normal. Instead of looking towards the day where everything will be exactly how it was two months ago, we need to recognize that this is the new normal for this season. It might last through the end of April, and it might last through the end of 2020. With that mental shift set in place, here is how the question shifts:

What tools can I use to stay connected?

Thankfully, we live in a technological world. If you’re anything like me, you can’t stand the way technology has shaped much of our culture. There is, however, a huge positive with technology during this time of quarantine, and it’s the simple fact that we can have face-to-face conversations without being in physical danger. So what are some of the platforms out there that are available for us to use?

  1. Facetime
  2. Google Hangouts
  3. Zoom
  4. Facebook Video Messenger
  5. Skype

For the quicker and non face-to-face options, there are things like:

  1. Texting
  2. Emailing
  3. Phone Calls

Then there are the creative and fun methods like these:

  1. Soup cans with a string
  2. Walking outside and yelling down the holler
  3. Messenger Pigeons
  4. Light signals

That leads to another question that may not be as complicated, but if strategized correctly, could have astounding results.

Who should we stay connected with?

This is hopefully pretty obvious for you, but there are a couple people groups who you may not have thought about staying in contact with that just might help you stay sane during this season.

1. Family

2. Close Friends

3. Distant Friends

This can be people you’re not as close to or people who live in other states. Use this time to play catch up on life!

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