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Ed Stetzer: 3 Tips for Reaching the Dechurched

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It is becoming increasingly important for the church to talk about reaching the dechurched in their communities. This sounds like a great idea in theory, but it presents a real challenge when churches perpetuate an “us-versus-them” mentality in our language and disposition.

By “dechurched” I mean people who were at some point either briefly or for a long time involved in a local church, but have not been active for several years.

To reach the dechurched, we have to understand them. And, as I see the dechurched, there are two main groups—the open and closed. How we seek to reach a dechurched person should be determined, in part, by which group they’re from.

Types of the Dechurched

Ministering to dechurched people who are open is relatively easy for believers as there is a level of comfort in discourse. These are people who have left the church, but they aren’t aggressively antagonistic to it. They could have stopped attending after a move when the “never quite found the right church.” Nothing against God or churches; they simply stopped attending.

The closed dechurched, however, are generally closed because of a negative or hurtful experience that has driven them away from the church. They tend to be antagonistic toward returning to church, and sometimes to the subject itself.

Those Hurt by the Church

There are many kinds of people that are hurt by the church.

Some of the hurt may be superficial and for others it may run deep. I saw this a few years ago in an airport where I noticed someone using sign language. Because I know sign language (less now than back then), I started a conversation with him which quickly turned to matters relating to the church.

He was a pastor’s kid who grew up in an evanglical church. It was there he was hurt. His dad was treated poorly and the son decided that, as a result, the church was not a place for him. This man wasn’t open to the church at all because of this experience.

As I learned his story I found a profound and deep sense of brokenness.

He was dechurched because he was hurt. And, he was now closed to the church.

Collateral Damage

Some of the hardest people to reach are people who have been reached and are now unreached for some reason. Because the church is not perfect and imperfect people can do stupid things, collateral damage can often impact later generations—or even outside observers—as they watch from the sidelines.

Some make instant decisions based on the hurt and mistreatment they see. Some of the hardest people to reach are those who have been in church and are now out of church (“dechurched”) for some reason they witnessed but were not directly a part of.

It’s not just that they’re inoculated; it’s that many have a bit of revulsion toward the things of the Christian faith, a revulsion shaped by their experiences or observations.

How do we respond adequately to this situation? What can we do to better reach the dechurched?

1. People are generally going to be reached by churches unlike the one that in their view burned them or that caused the hurt.

If you got burned in a Pentecostal church, you might hear the gospel in an Anglican church. If you got burned in an Anglican church, you might hear the gospel in a Baptist church.

Diversity and multiplicity of churches present a greater opportunity for gospel impact. This is one of the reasons we should never see other churches as our competitors, but as our teammates in reaching our community, particuarly when someone has left a church in a hurtful situation.

2. We should give them permission to feel and express their pain.

I saw a friend witness to someone who was sharing with him their experience of hurt in church and explaining why they were dechurched. My friend replied, “I couldn’t follow a God like that either.”

I think a disavowal of a person’s wrong action done in the name of God can open doors to further dialogue and lead to sharing about the God of the Bible, the God in whom Christians actually believe.

We should help people overcome the perception that true Christianity is what hurt them. Often it was a judgmental person or a harsh tone that caused the problem, not the gospel itself. They may be turned off to genuine Christian belief because they’ve never been exposed to it as “good news.”

We can and should take the time to communicate the gospel lovingly and graciously. Not only what we say, but how we say it is exceedingly important.

3. I would caution readers that this process takes time.

I think of a friend who was burned in a church and also has a different view than our church on an issue that’s biblically significant. This makes for a complex relationship and tough conversations as I find how deeply her hurt affects the way she sees church.

As a family, we have been intentional about loving her and being her friend. We watch her kids. We invite her over for dinner. And we invite her to Easter services and make an effort to connect with her in every way possible.

But we’re recognizing it takes a long time so everything done needs to be tempered with love and perseverance. This is an issue of patience and endurance with rewards over time.

Intentional Relationships

Intentional relationships can yield a positive outcome for the Kingdom.

Let us keep reminding ourselves as Christians and churchgoers that we need to reflect on the many ways that our structure, words and deeds can lead to hurt and pain in the lives of others. We should recognize the collateral damage church life sometimes brings.

We are called to a greater mission and we serve the greatest master. We need to ensure that we keep people in our sight and the gospel in our purview as we engage our world in meaningful and loving ways.

Seven Digital Disruptions in Churches

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I had no idea what was about to transpire.

The year was 1994. I was serving as pastor of a church in Birmingham. I did not have the foresight to see how churches were about to be disrupted by the digital world.

Now, over 20 years later, I can look back and see the massive digital changes. But I was not prescient. I have been greatly surprised.

So what are the digital disruptions churches have experienced? I don’t have an exhaustive list, but here are seven key disruptions.

1. From the house to Facebook. We once connected with members and guests with home visits. Today, we are more likely to connect on Facebook and other social media.

2. From the worship service to the website. A guest’s first point of contact used to be the worship service. Now they go the church’s website to garner first impressions.

3. From the offertory to online giving. This shift is growing. Churches of all sizes better have online giving as at least one option for giving.

4. From the newsletter to the blog. When I became a pastor in 1984, I wrote a column for our church’s print newsletter. It had the highly original title of “From Your Pastor.” Today, more pastors and staff communicate via their own blogs.

5. From the cassette to the podcast. I’m really showing my age now. My first sermons were distributed via a plastic cassette. If you happen to come across one of my sermon cassettes, please destroy it immediately for the sake of the kingdom. Another way podcasts have disrupted churches is providing weekly messages from other pastors, especially well-known pastors. It can be tough on pastors when a church member says, “Matt Chandler says …” or “Andy Stanley says …”

6. From the paper Bible to the digital Bible. In the past: “Please open your Bibles …” Today: “Please open or turn on your Bibles.”

7. From the announcements to the app. Some church apps automatically update with news and prayer requests. By the time you hear it on Sunday morning, the news is old news.

There has been so much change in such a short period, so many digital disruptions in the church. What can you add to this list? Let me hear from you.  

National Neighbors Helping Neighbors Movement Launches Amid Coronavirus Crisis

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Outreach Inc, a national Christian ministry and media organization, has launched a national Neighbors Helping Neighbors movement to encourage people to demonstrate safe yet compassionate care for their neighbors during the COVID-19 pandemic. Thoughtful ideas and practical tools are now available to assist in caring for neighbors from a distance, with the hopes that thousands of households will become good neighbors across the country.

“As this pandemic continues to unfold we all find ourselves in challenging times, often marked by fear and uncertainty. However, we know we are in this together,” shares Jason Daye, vice president at Outreach Inc. “It is our hope that people across the country will rise up in safe and helpful ways to assist those nearest to them. We live in a world where rocking chairs on our front porches have been replaced by privacy fences around our backyards. Many people do not even know their neighbors’ names, let alone their needs. With the current situation and many restricted by stay-at-home orders, it seems now is the time for us to be good neighbors. There are likely people on your block or in your apartment building who have real needs, and now is the opportunity for us to reach out cautiously and compassionately, to truly ‘love your neighbor,’ even if it is from a distance.”

Outreach Inc has responded to these neighboring needs in the coronavirus crisis by launching the website HelpingYourNeighbors.com. Here you will find neighboring resources such as a guide with 16 practical ways to help a neighbor and handy door hangers on which individuals can write their name and contact information and place on their neighbors’ doors. Neighbors can then contact them to share needs or just have someone with whom they can talk during this time of isolation. Other resources include yard signs, to help one’s neighbors know you are ready to help, and the Dozen Door Challenge which invites households to connect with their 12 closest neighbors.

All tools and resources are either free or heavily discounted. Outreach Inc has subsidized the costs to make Neighbors Helping Neighbors affordable to every home, every faith community and every organization in an effort to see as many people as possible being good neighbors during these trying times. An individual or family can get 12 door hangers mailed to them for only $2.50, with free shipping, which enables them to safely contact their neighbors and offer their service and support.

“As an organization who has a heart for God and for people, we wanted to do our part to encourage people everywhere to look to the needs of others,” says Scott Evans, founder and CEO of Outreach Inc. “Imagine neighborhoods across the country where people are reaching out to care for their 12 closest neighbors. What a difference this can make in these very difficult times.”

Individuals, faith communities and other organizations can learn more about the nationwide initiative, Neighbors Helping Neighbors,and find tools and resources at outreach.com/neighboring and HelpingYourNeighbors.com.

Founded in 1996 with a mission to share God’s love and empower the Church to share the message of Jesus Christ, Outreach Inc provides outreach tools to 25,000 churches a year in the US and equips

over 100 million church leaders and Christians in every country of the world each year through their web properties, media and digital channels.

Mom Creates ‘COVID-19 Time Capsule’ Worksheets for Families During Pandemic

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Have you ever wanted to work on a time capsule but haven’t had the time? Like most mothers around the world right now, Natalie Long is at home with her kids, practicing self-isolation, and social distancing as a way to slow the spread of the novel coronavirus.

Recognizing that this is likely a once in a lifetime event, Natalie wanted a way to document this time in her family’s life so they could look back on the COVID-19 pandemic in the future, and remember what it was like.

“We are all living through history and something I have said I wanted to do from the beginning is make a keepsake of this moment for us to look back on,” Natalie wrote on Facebook. “I have saved newspapers, art work done by my kids, taken photos of all our days and kept a diary.”

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The founder of Long Creations, Natalie assembled a simple ‘About Me’ page for her and her children to fill out together.

“Everyone is going to talk about it. You know, ‘what grade were you in when you couldn’t go to school?,’ that sort of thing. And their kids are going to ask them,” says Natalie.

Natalie shared the worksheet on her professional page to gather ideas for what else should be included in a time capsule. Within no time, she had an 11-page document, ready to record the COVID-19 pandemic.

The COVID-19 Time Capsule pages include:

A Page To Draw Family Picture
All About Me
How I’m Feeling
My Community
What I Am Doing At Home
Handprint Page
Special Occasion Page
Letter To Myself Sheet
Interview For The Parents
Letter From The Parent

She posted the finished time capsule documents on her Facebook page for families to download and work on together. As you can imagine, her COVID-19 time capsule went viral for ALL the right reasons, even crashing her Dropbox and Google Drive download links.

With the help of her friends at Let’s Embark, Natalie is now hosting her FREE COVID-19 Time Capsule worksheets here for anyone to download.

“This is something I designed for fellow families with children living through this difficult time,” Natalie says “It is meant as a GIFT not for profit!”

When asked if she would accept payment for the time capsule, Natalie encouraged people to donate to a local charity or family in need.

We are living in unprecedented times. There’s no better way to remember what these days and weeks are like, than documenting them together as a family!

Download your FREE COVID-19 Time Capsule here.

What COVID-19 Has Done for the Church

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Do you see what COVID-19 has done for the church? No, it’s not that it’s given it that push to get on social media. And it’s not about whether to meet, the importance of staying connected (although that’s important), or even the gumption to broadcast services live. What I’m talking about actually has nothing to do with whether a building has its doors opened or closed, or whether the government is skating too close to infringing on constitutional rights. It has nothing to do with religious organizations and everything to do with your relationship. Because, I’ll tell you a secret. You are the church. Allow me to explain.

Recently a coworker asked me how I had gotten to such a strong level of faith in my life. The person was pleasantly surprised when I said it wasn’t a switch that was flipped in my life, or even an overnight ordeal, but rather years of seeking and growth. I relayed the story of how my growing closer to Jesus began.

Somewhere around 2010 I came across a wonderful opportunity at work. It was a weekend position that allowed me to work only 24 hours a week, while still getting paid for 40 hours. Pretty sweet, right? I had a baby, and another on my wish list, so working part-time for full-time pay was a God-send! The only problem? I would agree to work every weekend. While Saturday wasn’t a problem for me, Sunday was a lot harder. For one, I loved my church. My father-in-law was our pastor, and I worried how they would feel about the position.

It turns out, my father-in-law didn’t mind. He knew something I was about to learn. He knew something COVID-19 is trying to teach us all. He understood that a personal relationship with Jesus wasn’t found on Sunday morning alone, and he felt pretty confident in the Lord’s ability to show me just that.

Growth in Christ Requires Learning to Seek the Lord

My biggest concern after I took that weekender job? I worried my relationship with the Lord would suffer missing Sunday mornings, so I determined that it would not! How did I do that? I made the choice to seek the Lord more closely each and every day. I couldn’t go to church on Sunday, and my small congregation didn’t meet any other time. So I went to church Monday morning on my couch. I went to church Tuesday morning while I sipped my coffee. I went to church Wednesday morning while I fed my baby. I think you’re getting the point.

Ten years ago my life began to turn around for the better because I made a decision. I decided that since I couldn’t go to church, I would bring church to me! I started to set aside time daily to read my Bible, seek the Lord, pray, and listen to His voice. And we as a country are being given this same chance now! We are being told to stay home, and we have the opportunity to use that time wisely. We’re not just in a time in our lives where we can’t go to church. We’re in a time of our lives where we can bring church home. We can bring it into our hearts!

Even after I switched jobs and could attend worship with others on Sunday mornings, it was too late! My life had already changed, thank the Lord. I had begun to manifest the fruits of the Spirit. It wasn’t just my schedule that had changed. My personality had changed. I found that a life where I saturated myself with Scripture, was a life where I could be more joyful and triumphant. I learned how to deal with the world’s problems according to the Bible’s answers. In those pages, I discovered how much my Savior loved me, and sadly and honestly, I had spent ten years in church on Sundays as a child/teenager, never learning that truth. Salvation, discipline, and true life change aren’t always found in a building. And a deep relationship that changes you from the inside out, rarely is. Life change is found in time with Him.

This pandemic has given us all the rare opportunity to seek Him more. It has forced upon us the need to be fed at home, and I’m not talking about sustenance you get from the grocery store. I’m talking about the kind of spiritual food that will leave you never hungry again. It’s the kind of bread that gives you life, abundant life at that, and it fills you so full that fear can’t fit there. It fills you so overflowing that the uncertain circumstances surrounding you don’t stand a chance. It’s the Manna that God sends down from Heaven, and when you taste and eat you understand that He always provides just enough.

Do you know what the church (meaning the physical building AND all of us as the bride of Christ) needs? We need to learn how to be mature. God doesn’t intend for us to stay babies, being fed our spiritual bottle on Sunday mornings, thinking that will keep us full all week! He calls us to eat meat. He wants us to be self-feeding, steak-chewing, garden-growing, fruit-baring farmers. Y’all, it’s like He wants us to be homesteading harvesters who water where we’re planted. Of course He wants believers gathering together and supporting one another! Don’t get me wrong; this isn’t a church-bashing post. No, what this is is a reminder that we are the church, and we are called to grow the church. The fact is, it’s hard to grow a crop when all you do is eat the fruit. If you’re wanting to harvest, like God calls us all to do, then you have to start planting seeds, and folks forget you begin by planting the seeds in you.

So, I would encourage you to take advantage of this time. See it for what it is. It’s an opportunity, much like the one I experienced ten years ago, to seek the Lord so you don’t lose Him. Y’all, He’s not hard to find. We’re just usually so distracted by all the noise that we miss Him, but perhaps now is a National Call to Quiet. Perhaps Christ is calling us all away from the noise and into His arms. We have been given the chance to bring church into our hearts, the place where God has wanted it built all along. Don’t miss the positive change we can bring from such a negative time in our history. Don’t miss out on the greatest opportunity of all. To build His Church in you.

5 Ideas That Can Strengthen Your Easter … The Most Uncommon One of Our Time

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Easter is just around the corner, and it will be like no other in our lifetime. And you’re most likely looking for ways to strengthen your Easter.

None of us could have anticipated or predicted COVID-19, but it did not catch God by surprise. That does not suggest that God set it in motion, but that He is still God, and He is with us.

There have been countless forecasts about how severe or how long it will go. Those who focus on health seem to talk about severity, and those who focus on the economy seem to talk about duration. Both elements are essential.

It’s impossible for projections to be fully accurate, but I’m grateful for expert forecasts because we need them. It helps us all know how to prepare, prioritize, and respond.

Every day we learn more, and that is good.

Ultimately, however, we don’t have the answers, and we don’t know the outcomes. That is, in large part, what is behind the growing sense of unease, concerns, worry, anxiety, and in many cases, fear.

Though we would never have desired it this way, there could not be a better time to present the hope of Christ.

Before we look at 5 ideas that can strengthen your Easter, we know there is an untold number of personal and individual fears right now, but three have risen to the top.

The top three “macro” fears are:

1) Health

Let’s be honest; everyone has wondered for at least a moment, “Will I get it?” That’s not fear, that’s being aware and human.

Many are considering big questions like the length of life and eternity. Dwelling on that can produce worry or fear if they are unsure of their destiny.

Even if your concern is not for yourself but someone in your family or a friend, the thought is present in us all.

2) Finance

Our physical security on this planet is connected to money. We can be honest about that.

Money is not the source of inner peace, happiness, or the most important things, but remove it, and life becomes difficult.

Many have already been impacted and are worried or fearful about how they will pay their bills.

But where does our real security come from?

3) Future

What does the future hold? What does it look like?

Even though we were never in control of the future, there was a certain level of comfort in thinking we were. That’s normal and natural. But we have been reminded that even if we are in charge, we are not in control.

Leaders, in particular, are thinking about the future. What will the church look like “after…”

The Gospel encompasses all three concerns.

I’m not suggesting that you should focus entirely on these concerns, not at all.

But to omit or overlook them is to miss current reality.

And remember, the Gospel is good news!

What We Need Most From Marriage

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What if one of the things we need most from marriage is something we don’t want?

One of the things I love about marriage is that it can lead us to places where we will be all but forced to rely on God like we never have before.

My friend Rett gulped deeply when the doctor told him that his wife Kristy had to have a particular operation that could keep her in bed for several days and require special care for a few weeks after that.

Rett is a cognitive man, a brilliant lawyer, but he tends to live in his head with concepts and arguments and a quick wit. He makes a good living and can hire people to do what he doesn’t want to do. He’s not used to playing the role of a nurse, which is what he knew he would have to be doing for his wife.

On the way home from the doctor’s office, Rett blurted out, “I don’t know if I can do this!”

“What do you mean?” Kristy asked. “I’m the one getting the operation!”

“I mean, I don’t know if I can be that low maintenance. I’m high maintenance. Tank (their dog) is high maintenance. The only reason our marriage works is because you’re low maintenance and you hold everything together.”

It’s Surprising What We Need Most From Marriage

Marriage is a long journey—long enough so that eventually even the lower maintenance spouse is going to be at least temporarily high maintenance. While many might see this as a curse to bear, this actually can be seen as a gift if the normally higher maintenance spouse views such seasons as opportunities to step up and switch seats, becoming the primary caregiver, perhaps even becoming a different kind of person.

Ruts are comfortable, but limiting. They stifle personal and spiritual growth. Marriage sometimes forces us out of those ruts so that we are invited to grow in areas in which we may not want to grow, but in which God is eager for us to grow.

In case you’re wondering, Kristy gave Rett a glowing report about stepping up, though she admitted he was rather relieved when one of her relatives finally flew into town and took over.

Here’s the key: Marriage presented Rett with a situation he would never have chosen on his own. Rett didn’t choose marriage to learn how to become a nurse—part of his attraction to Kristy was the fact that she was so low maintenance—but that’s what he had to do now that he was a husband. Marriage called him to step up outside of himself, depend on Christ, and in the process become more like Christ.

Rett followed and appreciated Christ the teacher, but Jesus wasn’t just a teacher. Christ touched the lepers, healed a woman who had been bleeding for years, and regularly made time out of His schedule to attend to the physical needs of those He loved. To put it in language Rett can now understand: Christ on earth wasn’t just cognitive; He was also caring. For Rett to become more like Christ, he had to grow in the same area. He’s got the cognitive down—you’re not going to trick him with false doctrine—but can he learn to care?

Ask yourself, what if marriage is supposed to be difficult on occasion so that we are forced to learn to rely on God’s Holy Spirit and become a different kind of person?

What if God is more concerned about our “practical atheism”—saying we believe in Him but rarely relying on Him—than He is about how easy our marriage might be at any given moment? That may be what we need most from marriage.

What if half of our frustration in marriage results from the fact that we want it to be easier but God wants us to become more mature?

Consider what your marriage may be calling you to today that you don’t feel capable of doing on your own. Instead of saying, “This is just too hard,” or “This just isn’t my gifting or calling,” or “That’s not why I got married,” invite God to transform you into a different kind of person.

Be bold; hold God to His word: “Lord, You promise to give the weary strength. I am bone weary. You promise to give power to one who lacks it. I feel powerless. You promise to give the ignorant wisdom. I am clueless about what to do.”

Instead of running from the difficulties of marriage, let’s allow them to teach us the glory of spiritual dependence on God. Let’s accept the invitation to become a different kind of person. It may not be what we want of our marriage, but it may, in given seasons, be what we most need from our marriage.

This article about what we need most from marriage originally appeared here.

A Challenging Word for Churches From USA Today

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Yesterday, the front-page article in USA Today was entitled, “Crisis, then Complacency Define Past Outbreaks.”[1] Two quotes caught my attention:

  • “Every time we have an infectious disease emergency, you see a lot of interest in funding and robust response, and then that disappears when those events recede from the headlines. We have this cycle of panic and neglect, panic and neglect.”
  • “. . . all too often, when the crisis fades and the fear subsides, urgency morphs into complacency.”[2]

These quotes, although they’re not addressed to churches, caught my attention because I fear the same thing will happen to the church. We’re responding now in new ways, but I still wonder what that will look like on the other side of the crisis. Here are some possible ways to maintain our Great Commission urgency post-COVID-19:

  1. View this crisis not as something to endure, but as an opportunity to improve. We’re being forced to think about how we do digital church, but we’re also seeing that we often reach more people this way than we do in person. Bringing technology into how we do church isn’t an automatic weakening of the gathered body. We can do both well.
  2. As a leader, evaluate what you’re learning about your own idols—and genuinely repent today in preparation for leading tomorrow. Some of us are learning about our addiction to work or recognition. Some are realizing we idolize the act of standing in front an audience paying attention to us. Others are learning about the unhealthy power of worry in their lives. Whatever the Lord is teaching us, we who lead God’s church must learn the lesson well and adjust our lives accordingly.
  3. Don’t look forward only to your congregation gathering again, but look forward to sending them out to a world more connected than we’ve ever considered. This crisis has shown us that every one of us is connected to others. We cannot miss this opportunity to foster a spirit of local, national, and international missions among our congregations.
  4. Capitalize on what’s working today, and let it become part of your ministry. In many cases (like, e.g., reaching out to all church members regularly, holding regular staff meetings, offering online giving options, livestreaming our services), these are things we should have been doing anyway. I encourage us not to view them simply as stopgap measures in this strange time.
  5. Remember that fallen human beings tend to return to our idols after the crisis is past – and we leaders must help avoid that pattern. It’s the pattern of the book of Judges, and it’s too often our pattern, too. Unless we guard against it, we’ll quickly go back to status quo—and perhaps even be more reticent to reach out to people we don’t know.
  6. Don’t go through this crisis by acting first and praying second—and, reverse that pattern in your long-term ministry DNA. I trust that COVID-19 has led us to pray more (though I’m not convinced we’ve necessarily changed our pattern of when we pray). If God is taking us to our faces so He might display His glory through us, we need to stay prone before Him even after this crisis is past.
  7. If you’re a pastor, build genuine friendships and support systems with other pastors. We need each other these days for encouragement and prayer—and many are turning to other pastors in fresh ways. The fact is, though, that we’ve needed each other long before this crisis hit. And, we will always need each other in the future.

I pray today’s urgency and creativity in crisis will lead to even more urgency and creativity in the days to come. If that happens, it won’t be because we naturally lean in that direction; it will be because God is up to something.

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[1] Bart Jansen, “Crisis, then Complacency Define Past Outbreaks,” USA Today (April 1, 2020), 1A.

[2] Ibid., 5A.

This article originally appeared here.

4 Questions About Meditation (And the Steps to Help You Start)

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The Scriptures talk a great deal about meditation, especially in the books of wisdom like Psalms, Proverbs, Ecclesiastes, and Job. But what does meditation mean, what happens when I do it, what are the benefits, and how do I do it? Here is one definition:

“Meditation in the Bible means reflective thinking on biblical, truth so that God can speak to us through Scripture and through the thoughts that come to mind as we are reflecting on the Word, but that must also be filtered by the Word.” — Bible.org

Four questions about meditation and the steps to help you start.

What Is Meditation?

In other words, meditation is the practice of taking a verse or many verses and then contemplating, deliberating, and mulling over those verses and their implications for our lives in the course of a few minutes, a day, or longer. As we consider the biblical truth, God’s voice has the opportunity to enlighten us on how that truth applies to our lives.

What Happens When We Meditate?

Meditation has the potential to bring ongoing transformation to our lives over time. Paul exhorts us in Romans 12:2, “Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—His good, pleasing and perfect will.” As we meditate on specific passages in God’s Word, the truths of that passage become resident in our minds and once in residence, they influence our thinking and our actions.

Consider, for instance, Micah 6:8. “He has told you, O man, what is good; and what does the Lord require of you but to do justice, and to love kindness, and to walk humbly with your God?” Think of all the biblical truths packed into that one verse and the many implications it has for our lives. I would encourage you to meditate on that one verse this coming week as a test drive for how God’s Word can become resident in your life. Meditate on it, pray on it, and act on it as situations present themselves.

What Are the Benefits of Meditation?

Scripture mentions many ways that meditation helps us live out our Christian lives in ways that please God:

  • It focuses our minds (Ps 119:15).
  • It helps us better understand (Ps 119:27).
  • It helps us remember God’s faithfulness to us (Ps 143:5).

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  • It facilitates worship (Ps 1:2).
  • It helps us apply God’s Word (Titus 3:3-4). 
All of these allow the Word of God to take up residence in our hearts and lives, adjust our mindset to God’s thinking, and help us live out the truths on a daily basis.

How Do I Start?

A simple way to facilitate meditation is to take the verse, or verses, from the Men’s Daily Devotional for the day and print them out for the car, your desk at work, and wherever you spend your time. Ask Jesus to transform your mind, thinking and life as you meditate on his eternal word.

Steps Toward Reflection & Mentorship:

Begin:

Meditation is a purposeful reflection on Biblical truths so that God can convict and change us.

Unpack:

  • The word “meditation” has a mystic feeling and meaning to people today. Why do we hold this view of meditation?
  • Practically, we are always meditating on something. What 
do most men spend most of their time meditating on?

Inform

  • Romans 12:1-2 reads, “Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—His good, pleasing and perfect will.” What does this say about the danger of meditating on the wrong thing?
  • But what is the impact of meditation and binaural beats program?

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  • What obvious issues do you face in taking time to meditate?
  • What steps do you need to take to overcome these issues?
  • How could you build meditation into your everyday life?

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  • What is one thing you want to stop meditating on this week?
  • What one thing do you want to start meditating on from God’s truth?

 

This article is an excerpt from Vince Miller’s book, 20 Lesson’s That Build A Man’s Faith: A Controversial Mentoring Guide

Are These 3 Phrases Spiritual or SELFISH?

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“I like your Christ, I don’t like your Christians. Your Christians are so unlike your Christ.”

— Mahatmas Gandhi

I’ve discovered some things over the last few weeks.

I’ve found that most Christians have a sincere desire to live their lives for Jesus. They want to obey Him, honor Him and serve Him the best they know how.

However, I’ve also found that many Christians today don’t understand how to love people the way Jesus does. We say mean things. We gossip. We’re selfish.

Now, don’t get me wrong. We are sinful humans and these traits are to be expected to an extent, but I wonder if we use our human nature as an excuse to our advantage?

The city that I pastor in is very religious. There are churches on almost every corner. Christian billboards are the norm up and down our interstate.  We have two Christian colleges in our community.

But despite the plethora of religion, here’s the shocking news: 70 percent of our city doesn’t attend church … anywhere. Line 10 people on our street, and seven of them don’t go to church. There seems to be a serious disconnect between who Jesus is and who the church is. And I hate to admit it, but I think we’re to blame.

The majority of Christians really mean well, I get it. I’m honestly not trying to bash the church. We start off excited about the Gospel, and about who Jesus is. We want to serve Him. But over time, we get caught up in ourselves and our “way” of Christianity. We get opinionated about how to live as Christians.

We can be guilty of accidentally saying and doing things without realizing it. We may sound spiritual, but the meaning behind our spiritual phrases are much more selfish than we’d like to admit.

Here are three things I’ve found that Christians accidentally say while trying to be spiritual:

1. What they say: “I’m standing up for what I believe in.”

What they actually mean: “I’m too stubborn/arrogant/insecure to accept anything that differs from my opinion.”

Sometimes Christian’s confuse stubbornness with conviction.

The “my way or the highway” mentality never has worked well in the church. It could be arrogance that doesn’t allow them to see any other way than their own. Proud people have a tough time seeing others views. Or they could just possibly be insecure in what they believe.

Whatever the reason, they “stand up for their belief” and shun anyone who feels differently. I’m thankful Jesus didn’t do that 2,000 years ago.

Luis Palau to Pastors: This Easter Is a Unique Opportunity

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Even in the time of a global pandemic and his own health concerns, Luis Palau continues to preach the good news of Christ with a steady confidence that his 85 years on earth have fashioned in him. The evangelist, who has preached to thousands of people all over the world, believes that not only is this an opportune time for ministers to share the good news of Christ, but it is also ideal for the older generation of Christians to set an example of trust and wisdom for younger Christians.

“Talking about death is not an American thing, you know,” says Palau, who is from Argentina originally but now lives in the Portland, Oregon area. 

In an exclusive interview with churchleaders.com, Palau said he has been paying attention to the news more than he usually does. He sees a unique opportunity for the church to reach people now that so much of our collective consciousness is focused on a topic we normally avoid addressing–that is, death.

Palau has had to come to terms with his own mortality in a more tangible way these last couple of years. The evangelist was diagnosed with stage four lung cancer in 2018 and told by doctors he likely only had about nine months to live. But, as he shared in a special Easter message that his ministry, Luis Palau Association, is releasing on Sunday, “the Lord has kept me a year and half longer than the doctors thought.” Palau says his condition has stabilized and the last scans he underwent to monitor the tumors in his lungs revealed that they haven’t grown even a centimeter since the last time he was scanned. 

For Palau, who witnessed his own father die at an early age and go to be with the Lord, death is not something he fears or spends a lot of time agonizing over. Palau, who has four sons with his wife, Patricia, says “The only sad thing about it is leaving her.” 

And while the evangelist doesn’t believe the coronavirus and the fact that so many people are dying from it is something to make light of, he does say that along with displaying wisdom by taking necessary precautions, older Christians have an opportunity to show younger generations how to trust God in these uncertain times. 

Older Christians Have a Lot to Teach Younger Christians

“I really think we have a unique moment to show, first of all, trust in the Lord,” Palau says. Since his father died when he was just 10 years old, Palau says his ability to trust has come from God taking care of him faithfully since his father’s passing. “The Lord has taken care of me every year.” Additionally, that trust in God manifests itself in confidence in the face of death. “We need to show confidence in the living Christ and that we do believe that if I should get this virus and it’s my time to go, hey, I’m going to be with the Lord and I’m at peace.” 

Secondly, Palau believes older Christians are perfectly positioned to display the joy of the Lord. “Not that this is a joke and we’re not making light of it, but on the other hand our joy is not dependent on outward circumstances.” Children especially need to see their elders resting in the Lord, trusting him, and seeking him. Palau gave the example of Patricia taking a moment today to play some songs on the piano as an expression of joy. Palau, who says he often draws confidence from 2 Samuel 22:31, says now is the time to express our confidence that God’s way is perfect and his word is flawless. In short, he doesn’t make mistakes.

The third thing older Christians can teach younger ones by example at this time is making decisions and taking action with wisdom. He shared how he and his own family are being careful and “using prudence” during this time. For instance, his family is opting for a virtual Easter get-together with the assistance of Zoom instead of meeting together in person like they normally do. Wisdom, Palau believes, is perhaps the most neglected of virtues. And sometimes Christians neglect it as well. “We say foolish things to the media. We do foolish things that appear to be faith, but sometimes it’s not faith–it’s just foolishness.”

Pastors Need to Keep It Simple This Easter

Another demographic Palau feels has a unique opportunity in this moment is pastors who will be preaching on Easter. “This is the best opportunity ever to proclaim hope,” Palau says. The Christian hope, unlike any other, is a “living expectation” that preachers can share with other people. 

Palau encourages pastors not to be hesitant to address everyone’s fears concerning death this Easter. “People are longing to hear the reconfirmation that eternal life begins on earth, yes, and we become children of God from then on. But then when your body shuts down and your soul and spirit leave your body, you’re going straight to be with the Lord,” he says, referencing Paul’s words that to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord. 

As people are concerned about themselves or their loved ones, “It’s a great time to proclaim the resurrection.” His cancer diagnosis two years ago led Palau to revisit the Scriptures concerning heaven. “As soon as you close your eyes, you’ll be with Jesus and see him face-to-face,” Palau explains. “When Jesus comes back, your body, soul, and spirit will all be rejoined together again. In the meantime, you’ll come back with the Lord when he comes on clouds.”

Even If They Can, Most KS Churches Won’t Meet for Easter

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In what Laura Kelly, the Governor of Kansas, calls a “shockingly irresponsible decision” that will endanger lives, a Republican-led panel overturned her executive order limiting the size of church gatherings during the pandemic.

Kelly, a Democrat, removed exemptions Tuesday for churches and funerals, subjecting them to 10-person limits. The next day, Kansas Attorney General Derek Schmidt strongly discouraged law enforcement from policing Kelly’s order, and the state’s Legislative Coordinating Council voted 5-2 (along party lines) to overturn the portion of the order affecting churches.

Are Religious Rights at Stake? 

Senate President Susan Wagle, a Republican, opposed Gov. Kelly’s action, saying it’s wrong to “use this crisis, or any other crisis, as a basis to restrict our constitutional rights.” Churches, Wagle adds, should follow health advice “with free will, not a mandate by big brother” because “this is still America.”

Other Republicans chided the order for singling out churches while permitting gatherings at malls, libraries, and airports. “Our families still want to experience the joy of celebrating Easter and still carry the heartache of burying our loved ones,” says Speaker Pro Tem Blaine Finch. “I trust our faith leaders to exercise good judgment, do what’s right, and keep people safe.” Before voting to overturn the order, Finch said, “I think we have a duty to look out for one another and not spread this virus.”

Randy Quinn, senior pastor at Wichita’s West Heights United Methodist Church, doesn’t think the government is trying to impinge on rights and says people who feel that way “are pushing the wrong issue at the wrong time.” During this pandemic, Quinn adds, safety comes first, and worship can be done with one’s family. “I don’t need a gathering of 1,000 people, or 100 people, or 25 people to be in a spirit of worship and connection with God,” he says.

Three COVID-19 outbreaks in Kansas have been traced to religious gatherings.

Staying at Home Is Prudent, Most Church Leaders Agree

As in other parts of America, most Kansas pastors are sticking with virtual worship as the pandemic peak approaches. Dan Entwistle, senior executive director at Leawood’s Church of the Resurrection, says congregants have indicated they’re more connected than ever, thanks to technology. Attendance—or viewership—has doubled lately, he says, and leaders are making decisions based on both faith and science. “If we are expecting God to protect us despite the risks that we put in front of ourselves, then instead of us becoming agents of healing in the community,” Entwistle says, “we can actually become agents of harm by infecting others.”

New findings from Lifeway Research indicate that most U.S. Protestant pastors have hit pause on in-person worship to safeguard physical health. By March 15, 64 percent of pastors held in-person services, but by March 29, only seven percent did. Only three percent of pastors surveyed say they’ll have in-person gatherings no matter what.

Pastors also report adopting technology rapidly to try to keep people connected, which is a top concern. “The lack of [physical] presence pains many pastors and their congregations,” says Scott McConnell, Lifeway’s executive director, “but they are utilizing technology like never before to stay connected until they can meet again.” He adds, “Gathering for worship as a local church is a fundamental expression of the body of Christ, but so are valuing life and loving others.”

Pandemic Linked to Surge in Domestic Violence, Suicide

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Requiring people to shelter at home might be a necessary measure in order to combat the spread of Covid-19, but a side effect for many is that it increases the danger they are in. Across the world and in the U.S., the coronavirus and the ensuing social isolation is making it more likely that people will experience a greater strain on their mental health, leading to in some unfortunate cases to suicide and in others to domestic violence.

“We are seeing an increase in the number of survivors reaching out who are concerned with Covid-19,” says Katie Ray-Jones, the CEO of the National Domestic Violence Hotline. She told CNN that those reaching out are describing how “their abusive partner is leveraging Covid-19 to further isolate, coerce, or increase fear in the relationship.”

In addition to the potential for domestic violence, parents and church leaders should also be aware of how social isolation can increase anxiety and depression, especially among youth.  In a recent interview on the ChurchLeaders podcast, Dr. Kara Powell of the Fuller Youth Institute (FYI) warned that our present circumstances make us ripe for a spike in teen suicide. “Yesterday I heard more about the suicide of young people and had more questions about it than literally any other day of my life,” she said.

Social Isolation, Domestic Violence, and Suicide

“This is an anxious season,” said Powell, noting that “during a more normal time” an estimated one out of three people will develop an anxiety disorder. But now many people are dealing with some significant stressors, including fears about their own health and the health of their loved ones, losing their jobs, being unable to pay their bills, and being cut off from their communities. As a result, some will experience an increase in depression and suicidal ideation. Another result is that those who have power will take out their stress by abusing the people who live with them. And the data is in fact showing a connection between the pandemic and a surge in domestic violence. 

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The New York Times reports that domestic violence is rising around the world, with increases reported in China, Italy, and France. VOA News reports that during the first week of its lockdown, South Africa recorded 90,000 incidents of domestic violence against women. Turkey has seen an increase in the number of women killed in the country following its lockdown on March 11, and Australia reports that online searches for help because of domestic violence have risen by 75 percent. Numerous states in the U.S. are reporting a rise in domestic violence, including Oklahoma, Hawaii, Tennessee, and Texas. The Virginia Sexual and Domestic Violence Action Alliance says that calls to hotlines increased by 76 percent throughout the state during the month of March.

If someone is a victim of domestic abuse, going to work or school provides time away from the abuser. Another benefit, says ERLC’s Chelsea Patterson Sobolik, is that teachers provide an extra set of eyes and therefore potential help for children experiencing abuse. But with people being required to shelter at home in social isolation, those outlets have disappeared.

The tendency toward suicidal ideation seems to be increasing as well. Los Angeles has reported 75 times the number of suicide-related calls in March compared to February. A man in Manhattan hung himself after he found out he tested positive for the virus, and a 19-year-old girl in the U.K. committed suicide because she could not deal with “her world closing in, plans being cancelled and being stuck inside.” There was a significant increase in calls to a suicide helpline in Boston recently, and other states reporting similar spikes include Idaho, Oregon and North Dakota. 

Clinical health psychologist Dr. Lindsay Bira says, “We have a lot of social isolation and a huge disruption of our norm. People are having mental health symptoms, a lot. If you are human and alive you will have symptoms. It just depends on the range and what kind.” Regarding the strain on teenagers specifically, Sacramento City Councilwoman Angelique Ashby observed, “Being a teenager is hard in an ideal situation. Our kids have been out of school for a month now and for a teenager, a month is a long time.”

Practical Steps for Helping People Who Are in Social Isolation

Says Sobolik, “Domestically and abroad, vulnerable children are suffering the impacts of the coronavirus, and Christians must be ready to stand in the gap for them.” Christians, in fact, should be ready to defend not only children but any person vulnerable to violence or a mental health crisis due to social isolation.

To help with basic care during the pandemic, some pastors have divided their congregations into small groups and assigned each group to an elder, who then checks in with the families on his list. This is all the more important if leaders have any suspicion that their families could be dealing with domestic violence or mental health challenges. 

Laypeople can help by paying attention to what is happening in their neighbors’ homes. Sandra Nevarez García, executive director at the Center Against Sexual and Family Violence, says, “It’s about making sure that we’re keeping our eyes and ears open for sounds that you might be hearing coming from your neighbor’s house or checking in on that family member that you know is not in a healthy relationship and making sure that they’re okay.”

This article from the National Domestic Violence hotline has specific advice regarding steps victims of abuse can take to stay safe during the pandemic. This resource is available to help people find local domestic violence shelters. There is also the option of calling 911 or the National Domestic Violence hotline: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233).

The Creator Is Still Creating

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Having said these things, he spit on the ground and made mud with the saliva. Then he anointed the man’s eyes with the mud and said to him, “Go, wash in the pool of Siloam” (which means Sent). So he went and washed and came back seeing.  (JN 9:6-7)

What’s with the mud?

Some commentators say it shows that our sovereign God can work in any way he chooses, and sometimes he works in unexpected ways.  Others think it may reflect Genesis 2:7 “then the Lord God formed the man of dust from the ground and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life, and the man became a living creature.”

In other words the Creator is still creating!

The one who formed the first man out of the earth and breathed life into him was still creating.  He plastered mud on a blind man’s eyes and created new eyes for him.

When Jesus saves us, he doesn’t simply give us a fresh start, he makes us into something we’ve never been before.

Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come.  (2 Corinthians 5:17)

Believers are new creations.  Part of God’s new creation to come.  Destined to breathe the air of the new heaven and new earth.  Predestined to be conformed to Christ and shine with the glory of Christ for all eternity.  Destined to conquer sin and walk in all kinds of good works and use our gifts to bless many others.  The Creator is still creating!

This should give us so much hope. We aren’t doomed to live a life of constant failure and falling into sin.

The great Creator is still creating  – making his redeemed more and more into his own likeness every day.  And he often works in our lives in unexpected ways.  The same One who told Peter to go throw his line into the sea and he’d pull out a fish with a gold coin in its mouth has completely unexpected ways of providing for us and blessing us.  Ways we can’t even conceive.  If you had asked Peter, “Where are you going to get the money for the temple tax?” he wouldn’t have said, “I think I’ll go fishing and see if I can pull up any fish with gold in their mouths.”

So be filled with hope today.  If Jesus has saved you, you’re a new creation and he’ll continue to pour out his creative power and energy into your life.  Believe that Jesus will work in unexpected and wonderful ways in your life.

5 Awesome Family Game Ideas

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One of the things our family loves to do is play games together. In fact, we have one night each week designated as “Family Game Night.” Here are our best family game ideas.

Sometimes we’ll play card games or board games, but some of the ones we enjoy the most are the random games we’ve made up ourselves or that require little to no prep time or supplies.

In an effort to help your family with fun ideas during this season of quarantine, here’s a list of five family game ideas that we enjoy:

1. FLASHLIGHT TAG

This is probably our kids’ favorite of all. They absolutely eat it up when we play this game.

It’s very simple… Everyone needs a flashlight or device equipped with a flashlight. Turn out all the lights in the house. One person is “It,” and on “Go,” everyone goes to hide somewhere while whoever is ‘It’ counts to 30.

When the first person is found and tagged, they join the team of the person who is ‘It’ to find the rest of the players. The last player to be found is the winner. The person who was found first is ‘It’ for the next round.

This game adds a new level of fun and excitement to hide and seek. You just have to try it out for yourself to find out. Mom and Dad might even find themselves having more fun than should be allowed. 🙂

2. THE HAND-STAND GAME

This is another favorite that’s lots of fun, yet very, very simple.

Two people in the family go against each other at a time. They stand facing each other toe to toe about 1-2 feet apart with their hands in front of their chest. On “Go,” they try to hit each others’ hands to knock the other person off balance. Once one person has moved their feet or fallen, they’re out.

You can only touch the other player’s hands and nothing else. If they move their hands out of the way and you touch any other part of their body or fall into them, you are out.

This game is both a lot of fun to play and to watch. We enjoy having “Hand-Stand” tournaments as a family. Here’s a short video clip of my wife and son playing it so you can better understand how it works…

3. MURDER

In this game, you sit in a circle around your kitchen table or on the floor.  You will need a piece of paper for every person playing.  Put a small dot on just one of the pieces and wad them up into little balls and put them into a bowl.

Allow everyone to take one of the papers and secretly open up the paper wad to see if they are the murderer for that round (if they get the one with the dot). Then wad it back up and put it in the bowl (no one should know who the murderer is).

Once everyone has put their paper wad back into the bowl, the murderer is to wink at other players when making eye contact, but do so without being caught or seen by anyone else. Once a person knows they have been winked at by the murderer, they are to casually state, “I’m dead” and they are out of the game.

The goal of the murderer is to ‘kill’ everyone in the circle before anyone who’s still in guesses correctly who the murderer is. If someone wants to guess who the murderer is, they may do so at any time. If they are right, they are the winner, if they are wrong, they are out of the game. So either the person who is the murderer wins by killing off all but them and one other player, or one of the players wins by guessing correctly who the murder is first.

4. WRESTLING

This one is nothing new, but it should certainly be on every family’s game list, and especially if you have boys! There are so many variations to wrestling that can keep you and your kids occupied for hours (that is, if your body can keep up that long).

Especially when they were young, my kids loved to wrestle on a regular basis, and dad tried to accommodate their desire. Here are a few fun forms of wrestling we’ve enjoyed:

  • Basic wrestling – one-on-one or all-in
  • Dad against all – our four kids against me all at the same time
    • Note – Make sure to eat your Wheaties and be prepared to exert a lot of energy on this one. 🙂
  • Hold-down wrestling matches – this is where you try to hold all of them down from being able to get up for 30 seconds. My wife keeps time. This one gets harder as your children age, but nonetheless, always fun.

Multiple studies have shown that safely rough-housing with your kids provides a multitude of positive benefits. Oh, yeah!

5. SPOONS

This is a great game to play at the kitchen table. You’ll need one less spoon on the table than you have players (if you have 5 players, you will need 4 spoons). You will also need a deck of playing cards.

Lay the spoons out in the middle of the table, centered between all players. Have one person who starts with the pile of cards and passes them around the table one card at a time. Each player can choose to keep the card or continue passing it on.  Each player can only have 3 cards in their possession at one time, and at any time that one player gets 3 cards of the same number, they reach for a spoon.

As soon as someone reaches for a spoon, all the other players must try to grab one of the spoons before they’re all taken. Of course, since there is one less spoon than players, the person who doesn’t get a spoon is out of the game.

Remove one spoon from the table, and continue playing rounds until you get to the final round with just one spoon and two players. Lots of quick action, suspense, and fun!

Family games are a huge way to cultivate laughter and create memories in your home.  The fun is only limited to your imagination.

God created families to have fun together, so it may just be about time for you to “get your game on!”

What are some of your families’ favorite game ideas? And what are some of the other fun things you’re doing with your family during quarantine?

  • One more thing… Here’s an amazing resource for your family to check out during quarantine… The newly released movie, The Pilgrim’s Progress, has been temporarily made available for free here! This is a powerful story that will both challenge and encourage your family’s faith.  

This article about family game ideas originally appeared here.

Credo: Early Christian Creeds as Apologetics

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Christians have always summarized their beliefs in forms that are memorable and easy to pass on to new believers. The Christian faith is a confessional faith. This does not mean that the creeds are themselves the basis for our convictions: the Bible alone holds that authoritative position.

The creeds, however, provide an interpretative and summative function in communicating, defending, and disseminating our beliefs. In this way, the creeds also offer a helpful example of faithful apologetics. The earliest Christian creed is found in Paul’s writings. In 1 Corinthians 15 Paul signals that he is disseminating the creed that he received after his conversion with the terms received and delivered:

For I delivered to you as of first importance what I also received: that Christ died for our sins in accordance with the Scriptures, that he was buried, that he was raised on the third day in accordance with the Scriptures, and that he appeared to Cephas, then to the twelve. Then he appeared to more than five hundred brothers at one time, most of whom are still alive, though some have fallen asleep. Then he appeared to James, then to all the apostles (1 Corinthians 15:3-7)

Even skeptic scholars, such as Robert Funk, founder of the Jesus Seminar, and Gerd Lüdemann, an atheist scholar, concede the early development of this creed, no later than two to three years after the resurrection[1]. This creed represents what was on the lips of the early disciples after the first Easter. In other words, this creed is nearly as old as Christianity itself.

This creed in the biblical text includes the reference to eyewitnesses. Such a reference does not establish the event itself, but rather illustrates that it was indeed a real event that happened in real time and space. The statement that most of the eyewitnesses were still alive seems to be an invitation for the inquiring first-century skeptics to investigate for themselves.

In a similar way, we see later creeds including details that situate the crucifixion in a historical context. Such details can provide an apologetic resource in contemporary evangelism, particularly with those dismissive of the historical validity of the Christian faith. Consider a second creed, the Apostle’s Creed which states, “I believe in Jesus Christ . . . He suffered under Pontius Pilate . . . On the third day he rose again.”

The inclusion of a reference to a historical figure like Pilate, whose presence or absence in the creed does not add or detract from orthodox belief, could be seen as apologetic in nature. This clause situates the crucifixion event in history. Interestingly, the popular critic of the Bible and outspoken atheist, Bart Ehrman, concedes the point that scholars universally agree that Jesus was crucified under Pontus Pilate. And while many creeds or catechisms from the sixteenth and seventeenth centuries do not include this particular detail regarding Pilate, they still borrow from or point back to the Apostle’s Creed as a universally accepted confession of faith[2].

The oldest documentation of this being called the Apostle’s Creed or Symbol is found in a letter from Abmrose at the end of the fourth century, making clear the creed precedes this date though its exact origin is unknown[3] . We see a strong similarity between the Apostle’s Creed and Irenaus’s “Rule of Faith” from the late second century. The Concise Oxford Dictionary of the Christian Church describes the Apostle’s Creed as a longer and later development of the “Old Roman Symbol,” which is based on “Rules of Faith” used for the interrogation of baptism candidates from at least the third century[4]. Though scholars disagree on the origin and dating of the Apostle’s Creed, we need not settle this issue to recognize the similarity between it and earlier sources[5].

The Creed of Hippolytus from 214 AD and the Nicene Creed of 325 AD both include the detail that Jesus suffered under Pontus Pilate. This form of summarizing Christian faith including the historical reference to Pilate is an early development in the Christian tradition. While an orthodox summary of the second person of the Trinity need not include a reference to Pilate, it could be included for apologetic reasons. This would certainly be a plausible explanation[6].

The reference to historical details like Pontius Pilate is not unique in comparison to other events in the gospels. The Incarnation, the baptism, the crucifixion, the resurrection, and the ascension are all presented in the biblical text as historical events. The apologist should welcome and gladly use, but never depend upon, any extra-biblical historical evidence that corroborates these events [7].

Christian evangelism should not detach the gospel from its historical context and speak of it exclusively in spiritual terms. The creeds certainly did not. And these historical details are often of apologetic value in defending the claims of the gospel against allegations of its lack of historicity by modern skeptics[8].

From the biblical writers through the early church to modern day, believers have always been involved in apologetics. As Alvin J. Schmidt says, church history “indicates that defending Christianity’s biblical teaching has spanned the entire existence of the Christian church” though “many of the apologetes took different tracks”[9].

We will now turn our attention in the following posts in the series “The Reason for Hope” to consider how the contemporary apologist should navigate these “different tracks,” or apologetics methodologies.

[1]    See Gary Habermas’ works in general, as this has been his life work. A summary of this argument, and Habermas’ interaction with others using his approach, can be found in his article “The Minimal Facts Approach to the Resurrection of Jesus: The Role of Methodology as a Crucial Component in Establishing Historicity” in the Southern Theological Review 3/1 (Summer 2012) 15-26.

[2]    To provide just a few examples, see the Heidelberg Catechism Questions 26, Martin Luther’s Small Catechism where he simply calls the Apostle’s Creed “the creed,” or the 1662 Book of Common Prayer.

[3]    See “Letter 42:5” of Ambrose of Milan available online at Tertullian.org. Also, I am not here arguing for the Apostles as the initial drafters of this creed, as taught by some in the early church. We simply do not know who wrote the Apostle’s Creed.

[4]    See “Old Roman Symbol” in The Concise Oxford Dictionary of the Christian Church (2 rev. ed) Edited by E.A. Livingstone. Oxford University Press, 2006.

[5]    For one example of such scholarship see “The Earliest Text of the Old Roman Symbol: A Debate with Hans Lietzmann and J.N. D. Kelly” in Church History Vol. 34, No. 3 (Sep., 1965).

[6]    See the earlier Bart Ehrman comment. Ehrman’s latest book Did Jesus Exist? is a response to critics who deny the historicity of the person of Jesus Christ. Ehrman uses this detail, among other historical evidences, to demonstrate the historical validity of Jesus. Erhamn is also a helpful example that historical evidences, in and of themselves, cannot convert. Such evidences have a limited, though useful, function in evangelism. Only the Spirit can enable someone to understand the significance of the historical details of the resurrection.

[7]    I must make it plain here that I do not think it is possible for someone to have an unbiased appraisal of such historical details. We should have a sober assessment that one’s bias will inevitably limit their ability to properly interpret such historical facts, as facts are not self-interpreting. Gary Habermas, even while promoting his minimal facts approach, has consistently predicted, documented, and responded to developments in scholarship that favor naturalistic interpretations of the historical evidence.

[8]    See Gary Habermas “The Late Twentieth-Century Resurgence of Naturalistic Responses to Jesus’ Resurrection” in the Trinity Journal / 2001 (TRINJ) 22NS (2001) 179-196). Another approach would be to challenge the historicity of the minimal facts themself, as Habermas responds to in his article “A Recent Attempt to Disprove the Resurrection of Jesus and Supernatural Beliefs” in The Journal of Theological Studies, Volume 29, Issue 1, 1 April 2018, Pages 191-197.

[9]      See Alvin J. Schmidt’s chapter “Christianity Needs More Lutheran Apologetes” in Tough Minded Christianity. Nashville, TN: B&H Publishing, 498.

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Should the Church Be Culturally Relevant?

Should The Church Be Culturally Relevant? This is a question that I hear often, as a matter of fact I received an e-mail from a friend, pastor and speaker who was recently defending this question with her peers.  She asked me my thoughts and my brief email response to the question is below:

It’s about being relevant and engaging culture.  The church must be relevant and understand that we live in an ever-changing and ever evolving culture, if we want to reach people for Christ.  The methods must change, but the message “the word” never changes.  Some of fastest growing and thriving churches have cultures that understand the concept and terminology culturally relevant.

One example of the importance of cultural relevance is the YouVersion Bible app. This app was created within the local church “LifeChurch.tv” with one purpose, leveraging technology to engage people in God’s word.  The app now has over 110 versions and is translated in over 40 languages.  Over 19 million people have downloaded the Bible App (3.5 million in the last 2 months).  Over 5 billions minutes have been read on a Bible that is not bound with paper.  This is a form of being culturally relevant and engaging people “where they are” which is on their mobile device.

This app can be viewed as important and historic as Gutenberg’s invention of the printing press, as it relates to people engaging in the Bible.  I would say a Bible Reading Revolution is one form of cultural relevance that outlines the importance of engaging people where they are.  The youversion Bible App was an easy one, but this applies to many other aspects of evangelism, style, worship, the church, sharing the Gospel and reaching people with the Good News of Jesus.

Dean William Inge says it this way, “A church that marries the spirit of an age, becomes the widow of the next generation.”

Those that argue that cultural relevance should not exist within the church; ministry and the body of Christ… are probably not culturally relevant.

To the weak I became weak, to win the weak. I have become all things to all men so that by all possible means I might save some. 1 Corinthians 9:22

Should The Church Be Culturally Relevant?

CCP to Christians: No Streaming—And Watch Out What You Say Online

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Christians in the U.S. might find it challenging to rely on livestreaming or Zoom meetings instead of gathering in person, but the Chinese government is preventing believers there from connecting even by those methods. Pastors who attempt to stream their services are finding themselves censored, their connections disrupted, and authorities are closely monitoring how individual Christians interact with one another online. 

“We can’t get together because of the pandemic,” a house church preacher from Jiangxi province told watchdog site Bitter Winter. “Our first and only online gathering was blocked by the government soon after it started.” 

The preacher attempted to hold the online service on February 9, when the government shut the service down. This was not the first time the church’s members had been persecuted by authorities. Before the coronavirus pandemic stopped them from meeting in groups, officials had compelled the congregation to change locations five times.

Chinese Christians Blocked, Censored During Pandemic

Bitter Winter reports that only state-approved organizations are allowed to stream any content that is religious in nature. However, even churches that the state approvesThe Three-Self Patriotic Movement or the Chinese Patriotic Catholic Association—face significant constraints, and many Chinese believers worship in underground house churches. As ChurchLeaders has reported throughout the past year, religious persecution in China has been steadily increasing. According to Open Doors’ president and CEO David Curry, China is currently the world’s greatest threat to religious freedom.

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China locked down the city of Wuhan in Hubei province (where the coronavirus originated) on January 23 and officially lifted the lockdown Wednesday. However, the BBC reports, “Stringent lockdowns remain in place across other areas of China.” 

On February 9, the same day the pastor in Jiangxi attempted to have an online worship service, a house church pastor in Shandong province also tried to hold an online service. The service, however, was cut off before it had gone 20 minutes. The pastor made another attempt a few days later, which also proved to be unsuccessful. On February 23, the Two Chinese Christian Councils of Shandong Province gave an order instructing all churches in Shandong to stop livestreaming. 

Another restrictive order came down a few days later from the United Front Work Department (UFWD), which monitors groups that oppose the Chinese Communist Party (CCP). On February 28, the UFWD with the Nanhu district in the city of Jiaxing in Zhejiang province issued a directive “demanding to investigate online preaching activities in all state-run religious venues.” 

The pandemic has also not prevented the government from continuing to destroy church buildings.

Individuals as well as churches are being censored by the CCP. The day after the Wuhan lockdown began, the pastor of a Three-Self Church in Henan province told several members of his church that they needed to get rid of their groups on WeChat, a Chinese social media app. Another Three-Self Church in Shandong insisted its members tell officials their names so authorities could track their comments in WeChat.

Bitter Winter also reports that three days after the start of the Wuhan lockdown, some Three-Self pastors in Shandong instructed church members that they should not criticize the government and that the CCP needs to approve any comments about the pandemic. The CCP in fact has tightly controlled and censored any online information about the coronavirus, as the New York Times reports here

There is a silver lining, however, to the complex and challenging events Chinese Christians are experiencing. Fox News reports that believers in some areas of China have more freedom to evangelize since wearing masks makes it more difficult for the CCP to identify them via facial recognition technology.

As people in the U.S. continue to navigate the challenges posed by the pandemic and the ensuing economic crisis, let us not forget our brothers and sisters who are facing persecution in other countries. “The more the government persecutes us, the more actively we’ll share the Gospel,” said a Christian in China whose church was shut down last fall. “As long as we worship God, His temple stays in our hearts.”

Joel Osteen Leans on Celebrity to Step Easter 2020 ‘up a notch’

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To share a message of hope during the pandemic, Pastor Joel Osteen will welcome several celebrities to the virtual Easter 2020 service at Lakewood Church in Houston, Texas. Mariah Carey, Kanye West, and Tyler Perry plan to join Osteen remotely on Friday to record Sunday’s worship service.

On Easter morning, the service will be available online and also broadcast on Houston TV station ABC13. Last weekend, an estimated 5 million viewers tuned in to Lakewood’s livestreamed Palm Sunday service.

Joel Osteen: ‘People are wanting to share hope’

Lakewood is adding several “unique segments” to its Easter 2020 service, Osteen says, because “people are wanting to share hope, and they’re looking for avenues and platforms.” Pop singer Mariah Carey wanted to honor first responders, the pastor says, so she’ll sing her hit “Hero” while footage of local workers is shown.

The service also will feature pre-recorded prayers from Houston’s police and fire chiefs.

Rapper Kanye West, whom Osteen calls “one of a kind,” will sing with his choir from California. “I don’t know what it’s gonna look like,” the pastor admits. West attended Lakewood last November and has been performing at recent high-profile worship events.

Hollywood heavyweight Tyler Perry will offer words of encouragement as well, Osteen confirms. The actor, director, and producer has spoken at Lakewood Church before, and is “very inspirational,” according to Osteen.

Lakewood’s Easter plans are receiving lots of publicity, with TMZ predicting “it will be one of the most star-studded church events ever.” 

Osteen Wanted to ‘step it up a notch’ for Easter 2020

Before the pandemic shuttered large in-person gatherings, Osteen’s nondenominational megachurch had a weekly attendance of more than 50,000. Like most U.S. churches, Lakewood has temporarily moved to online services to help prevent further spread of the coronavirus.

With the pandemic predicted to peak soon in many areas, Osteen says, “There’s so much uncertainty and fear, and people are worried.” Speaking about his church’s Easter plans, Osteen says he asked himself, “How can we step it up a notch and just let people know that, ‘Hey, we’re gonna get through this’?” The pastor adds, “I don’t have all the answers, but God’s gonna help us and give us the strength to move forward.”

Preaching online to an empty church—especially on Christianity’s holiest day—will be “really odd,” Osteen admits. “I’ve never done it in 20 years, so…you just have to imagine people are there.”

The pastor previewed his Easter 2020 sermon by saying, “Part of the message is going to be in these difficult times to know that God is still directing our steps, he has us in the palm of his hand, it’s not a surprise to him. We will talk about the resurrection of the Savior as well, but I think part of it will always tie into choosing faith over fear.”

Lakewood’s website notes: “It has always been a priority for us to offer our members and our guests a safe and healthy environment to worship and take their next steps towards Jesus.”

Content and Application

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by Jeff Tunnell

Last evening I dialogued with a long-term educator and school principal. We conversed about learning methods and how evidence shows that lecture is theleast effective for the student to grasp content. He noted that the second best situation for learning was in small groups of 3-4, where conversational exchange was followed by seeking a direct application for any newly discovered information. This moves the learner from knowledge to relevance for living. Concluding, with a broad smile, this educator told me that the very best methodfor a student to take hold of learning for life occurs when they are able to teach the content and application to another person.

If we only transmit knowledge to another person, or group of people, in order for them to pass a test by having the right answers, we have not discipled them. Let’s aim higher in our training track, discipling equipping and leadership development processes. Bring each disciple of Jesus to the point of personal transformation and growth that gives them an ability to express and demonstrate to others the life of Jesus within them. Equip them to “Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have.” 1 Peter 3:15

An optimum environment for Joyous discipleship is within a small group of 3 that meets regularly, preferable found within a group of 12 that meets on a weekly basis, as each person pursues daily discipleship with Jesus. This intimate lifestyle will produce effective followers of Jesus who in turn will lead others in being authentic Christians, teaching both content and application.

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