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How to Inspire Generosity in Your Church

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How many non-givers attend your church? Too many. Am I right? But seriously, have you ever analyzed this metric? Evaluating your church membership or active database for non-givers can be very revealing.  In a typical church, about 37% of attendees don’t give at all. This is the overall average across all denominations (and non-denominations). If your church has a higher percentage of “church” people, the percentage might be slightly lower, but I doubt it. If we hope to grow disciples, we must inspire generosity journey. This begins with the non-givers in our midst.

When I was a lead pastor, our church was filled with formerly de-churched and unchurched people. The percentage of non-givers in our active database was much higher than 37%.

Whether it’s 20% or 60%, the number is too high.

Generosity fuels your church, but more importantly, it’s essential for a growing faith relationship with Jesus.

How to Inspire Generosity in Your Church

It’s not as easy as it was in the past. When Christianity and the church were cultural norms, Christ-like behaviors such as giving were more prominent and expected. To engage people along a generosity journey in today’s cultural climate, we must rethink our approach. Yes, we’ll retain some previous strategies, but we must adopt new methods.

Here are eight ways to inspire generosity, especially among non-givers:

1. Celebrate Life Change (and Connect the Dots)

The best way to inspire action is to celebrate the results. When it comes to giving, people are more inclined to participate when the impact feels tangible and achievable. Real stories of how giving changed the lives of both the receiver and the giver make a significant difference.

2. Simplify the Process

Gone are the days of mailing “tithing envelopes” to the congregation. Today, we must provide clear, step-by-step instructions on how to give, both online and in person. This should include as many digital giving options as possible (e.g., church website, mobile app, text-to-give).

3. Offer Financial Education

Provide financial stewardship workshops or classes to help congregants manage their finances and understand the role of giving within their financial planning. Most people would benefit from a financial mentor. Why not position our churches in this needed space?

These first three aren’t all that new. The rest of this list may offer some new ideas:

Discover more more ways to inspire generosity on page two . . .

Friendship Game for Kids: Get Tangled Up in Love

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In this friendship game preteens learn names and get to know friends better. They also discuss friendship while linking themselves together with yarn.

This low-energy friendship game lets tweens get to know each other. Plus, it requires no prep!

Friendship Game: Get to Know Each Other

You’ll need:

  • skein of yarn

Have preteens sit in a circle.

Say: When it comes to friendship, the first step is knowing people’s names. Let’s play a game that helps us see this. I want each person to say your name loudly. Then we’ll all say “hello” to this person using his or her name.

After everyone has greeted each other, explain that you want preteens to say their names again. But this time kids will also share their favorite hobby. For example, someone might say, “My name is Sara and I like horseback riding.” Then the group will respond, “Hello Sara. You like horseback riding.”

Show kids the skein of yarn. Have one person comfortably tie the yarn to his or her wrist.

Tangled in Friendship

Say: Our friendship is growing! We’re really getting to know friends better now! Everyone has heard each other’s name and favorite hobby. [Name] will begin by saying either a person’s name or hobby. When you hear your name or hobby, hold up your hand so the yarn can be tossed to you. When you catch the yarn, wrap it around your wrist a few times.

We’ll keep saying names or hobbies until everyone is holding the yarn. If someone calls your name, then say your hobby when you catch the yarn. If someone calls your hobby, then say your name.

Empathy

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Do you desire to be a leader who creates safety for others? Do you desire the ability to maintain connection, even when your congregation goes through difficult seasons? Of course! The big question we should be asking ourselves as pastors within this context is…How do we cultivate these environments without taking on the burden after we leave? Realistically, we are unable to shoulder the weight of it all. Caring can feel too much like burnout, exhaustion, and overwhelm. But, we’re called to be pastors, to shepherd. How do we navigate this in a healthy and sustainable way?

The answer? Empathy.

Empathy is having a genuine understanding of the other person’s emotional experience without allowing your own feelings to hinder your ability to be fully present to the other person. While some people would describe themselves as naturally empathic, empathy is a skill that ministry leaders can develop. Empathy is not pretending to “get it,” taking on the other person’s issues as your own, sympathizing, or agreeing with the other person’s opinions/perspective. Rather, empathy allows you to walk in the other person’s shoes without taking those shoes home to your closet.

Empathy deepens your relationship because it generates feelings of safety in others. Empathy is key for maintaining a connection with others during difficult discussions. Look at Jesus to see how he empathized with us in Philippians 2:6-11 and John 8:1-11, to cite just two examples. The following five principles will help you to grow in your ability to empathize with others:

  1.  Remember God’s deep empathy for you. Psalm 103 reminds us that God knows us (v. 14) and has compassion for us (v. 13). While compassion is not the same thing as empathy, the two are related. God empathizes with us and knows our limitations. God the Son “put on” our humanity without mistaking our sin for his. On the cross, Jesus “took on” our sinfulness for our sake. Meditate on God’s deep empathy for you. What can you learn about empathy by considering Jesus’ relationship with others?
  2. Empathy starts with good listening. In order to empathize, you must first listen without inserting your own opinions in your mind as the other person is speaking. When you find yourself rehearsing counterarguments or just waiting to say your piece, you are not listening! Good listening means you give your full mental and emotional attention to your conversation partner. How easy is it for you to give your undivided attention to someone else when they are speaking to you? 
  3. Practice Cognitive Empathy. The essence of cognitive empathy is often communicated by “I understand.” Cognitive empathy is the easiest form of empathy for many people. When you offer cognitive empathy, you can restate the other person’s perspective. Cognitive empathy says “I can see the world through your eyes.” Remember that cognitive empathy does not mean you agree with this other perspective. In Luke 10:41, Jesus cognitively empathizes with Martha: “You are worried and upset about many things.” When you have a difference of opinion with someone, how can cognitive empathy help you to “hear” better?
  4. Practice Affective Empathy. The heart of affective empathy is resonating with the other person’s feelings. You try on the other person’s experience and ask yourself how you would feel if this were happening to you. You try it on “as if” the other’s internal world was your internal world. Affective empathy requires you to broaden your emotional awareness and your feeling vocabulary. The “as if” quality of affective empathy is important. Remember that these feelings belong to the other person, not to you. How easy is it for you to sense the emotions of those around you? How robust is your feeling vocabulary? 
  5. Empathy says “I see you.” Cognitive and affective empathy build relationships. However, they also require you to be clear about yourself and your emotional boundaries. At times, your feelings will be exactly like those of another person, and you too will be deeply moved (John 11:33-38). At other times, you will “try on” the other’s emotional life and remain aware that these are not your emotions. To practice cognitive and affective empathy, try responding to others by saying: “Perhaps you feel ____because ____.”  If the other person corrects you, that’s okay! You have learned something about your conversation partner, and that builds your empathy muscles. Can you identify one person this week with whom you can have a conversation and practice your empathy skills?

This article originally appeared here.

‘I Forgive Him,’ Says Street Preacher of Assailant Who Shot Him in the Head

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Almost 10 months after being shot in the head while evangelizing on a street corner, Hans Schmidt is sharing his miraculous story. The 27-year-old street preacher and father of two young children told a reporter he’s “still here” because of God’s grace and love.

This week, Schmidt and his wife, Zulya, spoke to ABC15 about what happened Nov. 15, 2023, in Glendale, Arizona. As he often did, Schmidt was preaching outside, not far from Victory Chapel First Phoenix, where he serves as an outreach director.

Suddenly his words ceased. “I remember falling to my knee,” Schmidt said. “And then after that, I was like, ‘Oh, something’s not right.’ I grabbed all my gear, put it back in the car. I drove my car back to church.”

From ‘No Hope’ To Absolute Miracle

Zulya Schmidt recalled seeing blood on her husband, who was unable to speak. Hans, who didn’t realize he had been shot, began seizing on the way to the hospital. Once there, he was unresponsive, and a CT scan showed a bullet was lodged in his brain. Doctors placed Hans in a medically induced coma and on life support.

“Even the neurosurgeon was like, ‘Nothing we can do,’” said Zulya. “The detective was like, ‘We’ll know more after the autopsy.’ And…that’s kind of when it became real. There was no hope.”

Zulya admitted she was scared as she begged God to spare her husband’s life. After a month in the hospital, Hans surprised her by speaking again.

Before Christmas last year, Zulya thanked people for their prayers. In a Facebook post, she wrote that the family’s lives had changed “in the blink of an eye.” She called Hans “a living miracle,” saying she was “amazed” every day by his recovery.

A GoFundMe account for the Schmidt family has raised just over $90,000 of its $100,000 goal.

Street Preacher Hans Schmidt: Recovery Is ‘a Miracle’

Hans Schmidt, who went home from the hospital in January, said his story is “absolutely a miracle.” He told ABC15, “I should not be alive, realistically. I should be dead. And because of [God’s] grace and his love, I’m still here.”

The preacher and military veteran continues to do speech and occupational therapy every day. Doctors predict that Schmidt will be able to resume a rather “normal” life, he said, which is another answer to prayer. Trying to remove the rest of the bullet fragments would be too risky, according to surgeons, so those remain in the street preacher’s brain.

11 Christ-Honoring NFL Players To Watch This Football Season

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Every fall, the kickoff of another church-programming year coincides with the new NFL season. Likewise, many pro football players profess deep Christian faith while using their God-given athletic talents.

Yes, football games might occasionally prevent some worshipers from coming to church on Sundays. But sports can also serve as a segue to conversations about glorifying Jesus in our careers and conversations.

To help spark discussions about Christian living, ChurchLeaders often profiles athletes who honor God. For the 2024 NFL kickoff, here’s a fresh lineup of faith-filled football players:

11 NFL Players Who Give God Glory

1. Grant Stuard (Indianapolis Colts)

For years, Grant Stuard lied about his home life, trying to hide the instability he and his younger siblings faced. Their mother was a sex worker and a drug addict, and their father had a lengthy arrest and prison record.

By age 20, Stuard decided he’d had enough. With both his football and academic performance slipping, the University of Houston student drove to a cliff, intending to jump off. What made him reconsider? He heard the far-off sound of laughter from a father-son fishing duo below.

At a church service months later, Stuard heard a word of prophecy that touched his heart. “For me, that was God showing me he existed,” said the athlete, now 25. “[God] was telling me he cared about me, like genuinely cared about me, something that was missing my whole life.”

After that, Stuard got his life back on track—and helped his family do the same. He insisted that his mother stick with rehab and give him custody of his younger sister.

In the 2021 NFL Draft, Stuard was the final pick, known as Mr. Irrelevant. But that achievement was incredibly relevant and meaningful for Stuard, based on everything he’d already overcome.

The Indianapolis Colts special teams player, who’s heading into his fourth NFL season, is also a husband, new father, rapper, and philanthropist. His foundation raises money to fight poverty, hunger, and sex trafficking in his hometown of Houston.

Stuard is upfront about how God transformed his life. “I would like to thank Jesus Christ, the Lord of my life, for completely changing me and making me into the person I am today,” he posted in 2020. “I want to encourage anyone who does not have a relationship with Jesus to seek Him. You will not be disappointed.”

Last December on the Sports Spectrum podcast, Stuard shared, “I spent a good amount of time walking and living my life without Jesus and without a purpose. So [when] I finally made a connection with him and surrendered my life over to him, life became life.”

Patrick Mahomes’ Wife Cites Evangelist Shane Pruitt Amid Criticism for Liking Trump Social Media Post

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Brittany Mahomes, the wife of NFL superstar Patrick Mahomes, was heavily criticized after she liked an Aug. 13 Instagram post by former President Donald Trump.

The post Mahomes liked was an image that listed 20 things the Make America Great Again (MAGA) GOP platform plans to do if Trump is elected president in November.

Not long after Mahomes liked Trump’s post, she was criticized widely on social media.

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One person wrote, “Patrick Mahomes, imagine marrying someone who doesn’t care about your rights and your kid’s rights. Brittany Mahomes agreeing with Project 2025 but married to a black man with mixed kids is insane.”

Another wrote, “Just found out that Brittany Mahomes is apparently a Trump supporter, and I’m not like super surprised, but it is incredibly disappointing to see.”

The soon-to-be mother of three responded to her critics by saying, “To be a hater as an adult, you have to have some deep-rooted issues you refuse to heal from childhood. There’s no reason your brain is fully developed and you hate to see others doing well.”

Mahomes followed her statement up with a quote from evangelist Shane Pruitt that read, “Contrary to the tone of the world today…you can disagree with someone, and still love them. You can have differing views, and still be kind.”

Under Pruitt’s quote, Mahomes wrote, “Read that again!”

Shane Pruitt Responds to Brittany Mahomes Using His Quote

Pruitt, who serves as the Southern Baptist Convention’s (SBC) National Next Gen Director for the North American Mission Board (NAMB), told ChurchLeaders that he didn’t write his Instagram post in response to what Mahomes what going through.

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“Honestly, I didn’t know anything about her being criticized until she shared my post on her Instagram Stories,” he said. “Then, major media outlets across the world started sharing articles about it all. People started sharing those stories with me, and that is how I found out about everything.”

Pastor Ed Young Says Criticizing Megachurches Is ‘Hypocritical’

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Texas Pastor Ed Young took aim at critics of megachurches in a recent social media post, characterizing criticism of the church model as “hypocritical.”

Young is pastor of Fellowship Church, a multisite megachurch in the Dallas-Fort Worth area. He is also the son of Pastor Homer Edwin Young (but who also goes by Ed Young). The elder Young is pastor of Second Baptist Houston, another megachurch. The younger Young served on staff at Second Baptist before planting Fellowship Church. 

In the social media video, which the Fellowship Church pastor filmed selfie-style, Young brought up a common criticism of megachurches. 

“‘Your church is just too big.’ I’ve heard people tell me that a lot. ‘It’s too big. It’s a megachurch,’” Young said. “Well, that’s gotta be one of the most hypocritical statements someone can make.” 

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“Because the person making the statement goes to massive concerts. They would go to a game—a football game. They would go to a massive mall,” Young continued. “And they never really say that about those entities, but they always say, ‘The church is too big.’”

“Hey, if you think the church is too big, then you’re not going to like heaven, because heaven is going to be a big place,” he said. 

Young then concluded, “If a church is around a lot of people, it should be big in the context of being big.”

While several of the Young’s social media followers responded with supportive comments, others raised concerns they have with megachurches, including celebrity culture and lack of pastoral care. 

“If your pastor holds themselves more as a celebrity, doesn’t interact with the congregation other than going on stage and exiting the back, then, you lose value,” one person wrote. “The best church I ever went to was back in Michigan and all of the pastors had humility.”

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Another person said, “You’re not expecting your team’s coach, your favorite band or your favorite store manager to have a personal relationship with you like your pastor.”

The Art of Building Deep Friendships: Investing Time & Heart

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In our fast-paced, technology-driven world, the art of cultivating deep, meaningful friendships seems to be gradually fading into the background. Yet, the essence of human connection, the very fabric that holds our societal structure together, calls for a revival of this lost art. The journey toward building significant relationships is a marathon, not a sprint, marked by the investment of time, emotional energy, and genuine effort. The reward, however, is the creation of bonds that provide support, understanding, and joy throughout life’s myriad phases.

The foundation of any substantial relationship is time—quality time that is consciously chosen and spent. This is a universal truth, transcending cultural and generational divides. It’s about creating moments that allow for vulnerability, sharing, and deep connection. The digital age, with its instant messaging and social media platforms, offers the illusion of connectedness. Yet, these interactions, more often than not, skim the surface of what it truly means to connect. They cannot replicate the warmth of a hug, the comfort of a shared silence, or the healing power of a conversation that stretches into the wee hours of the night.

Face-to-face interactions are irreplaceable because they engage all our senses in the communication process, fostering a deeper understanding and empathy towards each other. These interactions are the building blocks of trust and intimacy, elements that are crucial for the development of any significant relationship. In the presence of another, we are offered a mirror to our own souls, allowing us to grow and learn about ourselves in the process.

Accepting the reality that significant relationships require time and effort can be challenging, especially in an era that emphasizes quick fixes and instant gratification. Yet, this acceptance opens the door to genuinely fulfilling connections. It requires a shift in perspective, seeing the investment of time not as a burden but as a joyful journey towards discovering the depths of another human being. It’s about prioritizing these relationships, understanding that while career and personal achievements are important, the warmth of human connection is what truly enriches our lives.

This journey teaches patience, for deep connections cannot be forced or rushed. They bloom in their own time, nurtured by shared experiences, mutual respect, and the willingness to see and accept each other in totality—flaws and all. This process is inherently spiritual, touching the very core of our being, and reminding us of the interconnectedness of the body of Christ.

The path to building deep, meaningful friendships and relationships is marked by the conscious investment of lots of time, effort, and emotional energy. It’s a testament to the value of human connection, a reminder of the beauty that lies in truly knowing and being known by another. As we navigate the complexities of modern life, may we remember the importance of slowing down, of cherishing the moments that allow us to connect deeply with those around us. For in the end, these connections are the true essence of a life well-lived.

REFERENCES

  1. Friendship Skills: Master the Art of Amazing Friendships [Ultimate Guide]

This article originally appeared here.

Want To Write a Hit Worship Song? Invite a Few Friends to Church.

Want To Write a Hit Worship Song? Invite a Few Friends to Church.
Chris Brown, right, performs "Praise" with other musicians at Elevation Church in Charlotte, North Carolina, in May 2023. (Video screen grab)

(RNS) — In January 2023, Chris Brown and a group of fellow songwriters working on a live worship album for Elevation Church, a nondenominational megachurch in Charlotte, North Carolina, sat down for a writing session.

In the room with Brown were Pat Barrett, Chandler Moore, Brandon Lake and Cody Carnes, authors of such worship staples as “Good, Good Father,”  “Build My Life” and “The Blessing,” which can be heard in churches of every size and stripe across the United States.

During the session, Brown pulled out a song that he, Lake and Elevation’s pastor, Steven Furtick, had been batting around for a year with little success. Tinkering with it that day in January, they decided the result, which combines soaring vocals over a galloping beat, was good enough for the album but, said Brown, “We really didn’t see it doing much.”

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On stage at Elevation, moments before they debuted it, at a live recording session for the new album, they were still piecing together the song’s opening. But backed by a choir and gaining energy from the live audience, the song took off.

“We left that night going, ‘That was crazy, but we’re still going to put it at the end of the album,’” said Brown.

The song, “Praise,” has since become just the latest example of the power of a tight coterie of songwriters in Christian music, who have increasingly worked together to produce hits. A live video of “Praise,” recorded that night and posted on YouTube in May 2023, has been viewed 103 million times, and the song, having topped the Billboard Hot Christian Music chart for 25 weeks, has been nominated for a song of the year Dove Award by the Gospel Music Association.

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in recent years, songs from the so-called Big Four megachurches — Elevation; Bethel Community Church in Redding, California; Hillsong, a megachurch headquartered in Australia; and Passion City Church in Atlanta — have dominated the Top 25 lists for Christian Copyright Licensing International and PraiseCharts, which track what songs are played in churches.

An academic song tracking effort, Worship Leader Research, wrote in a new report that 82% of the songs on the CCLI Top 100 in 2024 had at least two writers. When the CCLI Top 100 chart debuted in 1988, only 19% had more than one writer — and most of those were written by the legendary gospel music team of Bill and Gloria Gaither.

"CCLI Top 100: Number of Contributing Songwriters" (Graphic courtesy Worship Leader Research)

“CCLI Top 100: Number of Contributing Songwriters” (Graphic courtesy of Worship Leader Research)

The “Praise” co-writers Brown, Barrett, Furtick, Carnes, Moore and Lake, like most of the collaborators on recent Top 25 hits, have ties to the Big Four.

“What started as a large pool of individuals contributing their voices to the contemporary worship soundscape eventually became a collection of interconnected enclaves,” according to the Worship Leader Research report.

Many of the most successful worship songs have become more associated with the churches that produced them than the songwriters who wrote them. Jason Ingram, lead singer of the Christian band One Sonic Society, has co-written the hits “Goodness of God” and “Great Are You Lord” to go with more than a dozen of the songs highlighted in the Worship Leader Research study, but he remains relatively unknown in the public eye.

Other successful Christian songwriters such as Ed Cash, co-writer of “Goodness of God” and “How Great Is Our God,” or Jonas Myrin, who co-wrote “Cornerstone” and “10,000 Reasons” and later went on to write for Barbra Streisand, also have relatively low profiles.

The Meeting House, Once One of Canada’s Largest Churches, Shuts Down After Scandal

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The Meeting House location in Oakville, Ontario. (Image courtesy of Google Maps)

(RNS) — Leaders of The Meeting House, a Toronto area megachurch with multiple locations and once one of the largest congregations in Canada, has shut down its public ministry, becoming a consortium of smaller congregations.

“It is with sadness that we are required to bring the public-facing ministry of The Meeting House to an end as of August 29,” according to a statement posted on the church’s website. “Going forward, there will no longer be churches operating programs or doing ministry under the banner of The Meeting House.”

The church’s remote sites will be rebranded as the “BIC Church Collective,” a group of nine congregations that share preaching as well as back-office support. Details of the new collective, which is part of the Be In Christ denomination, were scant.

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“If you have questions about what is happening at your local church in September or the longer-term vision for your location, please talk to your local pastor,” the statement on the website of The Meeting House advised. “They would love to have that conversation with you and work with you to build the future of your local church together.”

The launch of the new collective comes as The Meeting House congregants continue to reckon with the fallout from abuse allegations against its former longtime pastor, Bruxy Cavey. In late 2021, Cavey was accused of sexual misconduct and resigned a few months later. A church investigation later alleged that his conduct had been abusive. The Meeting House also disclosed that an investigation found 38 cases of reported misconduct involving four pastors at the church.

Though one of the criminal charges against Cavey was stayed in July of this year after a court determined his right to a speedy trial had been violated, The Meeting House’s liability insurer canceled its coverage.

Pastor Bruxy Cavey in a 2021 video. (Video screen grab)

Pastor Bruxy Cavey in a 2021 video. (Video screen grab)

After shutting down its in-person meetings in June, The Meeting House began livestreaming new sermons in August, according to The Walrus, a Canadian magazine that has tracked The Meeting House scandal. Then, on Sept. 1, the church’s livestreaming operation was rebranded as the BIC Church Collective.

“This is Day One of our new identity, this placeholder identity, as we walk in step with the Spirit into this new and somewhat unknown future,” Jimmy Rushton, who had been a teaching pastor at The Meeting House, said in introducing the streamed service.

Jen McWilliams, now pastor of the East Toronto BIC, and several other pastors listed on the BIC Church Collective website did not respond to email requests for comment.

5 Early Warning Signs of a Potentially Unhealthy Staff Member

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The majority of my ministry years have included developing church staff as spiritual leaders. It has been and continues to be one of my greatest joys.

We all hire the best and brightest person possible. No one intentionally picks someone who lacks competence or selects a non-contributor with a poor attitude. But it doesn’t always work like we hoped and dreamed.

So what happens? What changes?

There is a long list of possibilities for a good hire to go sideways. Here are a few examples:

  • There was no leadership development or coaching for the staff person.
  • The chemistry and culture was not a fit.
  • The staff member did not connect with or embrace the vision.
  • The staff member was struggling with unknown personal issues.
  • Communication from the leaders was unclear.
  • The staff member did not have the necessary competence or capacity.
  • Expectations were not made clear.
  • The staff member’s attitude went sour.

So what can we do about this?

How can we get out in front and recognize the early warning signs of a good staff member starting to head in the wrong direction?

First, embrace the big picture.

Assume the best of each person. Always give the benefit of the doubt and assume the best when it comes to a staff member who is struggling.

Own what we as the leaders did or didn’t do. Leaders are typically on the go and moving quickly from one thing to the next. After a hire, pressure goes down and we move on to solve the next problem or lean into a new opportunity. Perhaps we didn’t give the staff member all they needed. We need to slow down enough to know and own our part in the situation.

Go all in with an investment toward helping the staff member turn around.
Its never helpful to abandon a staff member, especially one that who is struggling. Believe in them, coach them, and invest in their turnaround.

Our responsibility is to provide all the help, training, clarity, and encouragement possible all within a healthy culture. With that, the staff person’s responsibility is to continue growing, fulfill their responsibilities and make an overall positive contribution to the team.

With That in Mind, Here Are 5 Early Warning Signs:

1. They Find Problems Faster Than They Find Solutions.

Good leaders solve problems. It’s core to what we do. We make progress, solve problems and help people.

How They Work: “Deepfakes” Are AI-Produced Digitally Manipulated Media

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With the inception of “deepfakes” only initially occurring in 2017, the precise accuracy of today’s deepfakes proves developmentally shocking. Deepfakes are AI-generated media that have been digitally manipulated to replace one person’s likeness convincingly with that of another. Over the years, deepfakes have often been created and spread across social media impersonating celebrities and political figures with the dubious intention of spreading misinformation and damaging reputations. Examples of digitally manipulated viral deepfakes include high-profile celebrities like: Keanu Reeves, Tom Cruise, Jerry Seinfeld, and Donald Trump.

Digitally Manipulated Media

The Thirtyseven4 EDR Security ThreatLab has seen a noticeable increase in usage of deepfakes in the cybersecurity arena, which reveals one of the most current trends (threats) in online security. Cybercriminals are exploiting advancements in cyber–Artificial Intelligence and Machine Learning technologies for evil. Deepfakes are now being created with increasingly convincing accurate-but-counterfeit audio and visual content to impersonate superintendents, pastors, CEO’s, and other business executives. Like phishing and spearfishing scams of old, the recipients of these deepfakes are duped into sharing confidential or financial information because they believe the video and/or audio is of their superior/manager/boss. 

How to Find the Best Leadership Team for Small Groups

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I often hear group leaders and counselors say, “Where are all that have graduated from the Leadership School or Training Route? Why aren’t they serving? What are all the supposed trained leaders doing that they do not get involved in the vision? As pastors we tend to have some frustration because we would like to see many, if not all, the people involved in the small group ministry and to build the best leadership team. But in many cases, this does not happen. What can we do?

I asked myself this question many times, and in some occasions, I encouraged the discouraged, and in the worst case, I scolded the idlers. The problem is that those who do not collaborate do not reach the meetings and the ones who are working end up receiving the exhortation. However, I discovered something that helped me a lot. I found that Nehemiah was a man of prayer and goals, and he organized, motivated, planned and provided a climate of trust and teamwork. Achieving goals, winning people for Christ and involving people in a vision always require certain skills.

How to Find the Best Leadership Team

In chapter three of the book of Nehemiah, we read about essential principles for leadership. Nehemiah tried to involve all the inhabitants of the city in the reconstruction of the wall. The religious leaders set the example. Among those who got involved were men and women, artisans, intellectuals, perfumers, goldsmiths, government leaders and business people. Everyone was mixing mud and carrying bricks. Well, not all, because, “The people of Tekoa reconstructed the next section of the wall, although the nobles did not want to collaborate with the leaders” (Nehemiah 3: 5). It seems that the “nobles” thought that they were too good to do this kind of work. Getting to move bricks was inferior to their position.

Outreach Ideas for Youth: 8 Sources for Helping Kids Grow

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Outreach ideas for youth, teens, and young adults offer powerful avenues for growth. Local and national programs provide kid-friendly service opportunities. Plus, they challenge teenagers’ faith and are loads of fun!

Depending on the needs of your church youth group, you could focus on serving ministries within the congregation. Or maybe you hope to branch out and serve the local community—or beyond. Another focus of outreach programs for youth is personal and faith development. Teens are equipped to grow their faith and confidently share it with other people.

Life skills and talent development are other worthy goals for youth outreach programs. Help kids get off the couch (and their screens!) so they can explore their interests and find new ones. Provide meaningful activities that encourage teens to meet other people, develop friendships, and possibly even discover a mentor.

Outreach ideas for youth are a great starting point for empowering kids to use their talents to God’s glory. Plus, they can attract visitors to your church!

Read on to discover fun, powerful ways to reach out to teens—and to help them reach out.

8 Great Outreach Ideas for Youth

1. Advance the Gospel

Through high-impact programs (and an app!), Dare2Share builds up young believers who then go out to make disciples for Jesus.

2. Digital Discipleship

Next, the Gospel Project for Students offers digital curriculum for teen outreach.

3. A Global Movement

Youth for Christ International sends kids around the globe to serve and share the Gospel.

4. Finding Purpose

Cru helps older teens, college students, and young adults find their calling and tell others about Jesus.

Children’s Bible Questions and Answers: Tips for Discussing God’s Word

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For children’s Bible questions and answers, I should be a certified expert. As the parent of two teens, I mistakenly thought my days of answering endless inquiries of “Why?” were over. But I think my oldest son asks me as many questions now as when he was a preschooler!

I also teach preschoolers and school-age children at church. These kids ask questions that would stump seasoned professors. As adults, we often view children’s questions as distractions from the point we’re teaching.

So, how should we approach questions children ask about the Bible? What can we do to encourage a shy or reflective child to openly query us? What are some typical childhood questions about God and the Bible?

We can prepare for children’s Bible questions and answers. Next, let’s explore four basic principles.

4 Tips for Children’s Bible Questions and Answers

1. Listen with your ears, eyes and mind.

First, pay complete attention. When a child probes you for information, wait to answer until you’re sure the child is finished talking. While listening with your ears, look at the child to discover facial clues. Is she afraid and worried or just curious? When a child is asking a question, stay focused. Don’t let your mind wander or begin formulating an answer prematurely.

2. Give kids only as much information as they’re ready to hear.

Next, answer according to the child’s level of understanding. Follow up the questions with your own questions to discover clues to his thinking and to determine what he’s really asking. Ask, “Why are you asking that?” or “What do you think?” Giving kids too much information before they’re ready to process it can lead to greater confusion. So remain age-appropriate.

3. Be honest.

Some questions are very tough and will catch you off guard. So resist the temptation to look surprised, regardless of the question. Some children try to shock adults with their questions; others innocently ask difficult questions. If time is short, promise to talk about the issue at a specified future time. (Then keep your promise.)

If you don’t know the answer, acknowledge that. Then promise to seek an answer. If the question is unanswerable, gently tell the child that no one knows the answer. But make sure she doesn’t think you’re avoiding a reply.

Lauren Daigle Sings ‘Thank God I Do’ for Millions on ‘America’s Got Talent’

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After being named Billboard’s Top Christian Music Artist of the Year in 2023, Lauren Daigle jumped into this year with continued success. She recently joined Loren Allred to perform on “America’s Got Talent.”

“You’re my safe place, my hideaway; you’re my anchor, my saving grace,” sang Daigle.

Lauren Daigle and Loren Allred Share the Stage on ‘America’s Got Talent’

Lauren Daigle and Loren Allred share some remarkable similarities. Both are successful artists. The two hold fast to a relationship with Jesus. And both were contestants on talent shows early in their careers.

Daigle auditioned for “American Idol” back in 2010 and 2012. Her newest album, “Sessions,” provides powerful melodies alongside raw lyrics. Allred, who competed in 2012 on “The Voice” with Adam Levine as her coach, just released “Come Alive” with Scott Hoying.

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Daigle and Allred recently shared a stage on “America’s Got Talent” (AGT). The show described the duo as an “epic duet that we will never forget!”

Fans may remember CeCe Winans singing “Goodness of God” on “American Idol.” This time, 10 million loyal viewers watched a Christ-centered performance on AGT. Accompanied by a single piano and some melodic strings, Daigle began by singing a portion of “Thank God I Do.” She sang,

I don’t know who I’d be if I didn’t know You
I’d probably fall off the edge
I don’t know where I’d go if You ever let go
So keep me held in Your hands

Daigle was then welcomed Allred to the stage for a duet. The two sang a snippet of Daigle’s hit, “You Say,” singing,

You say I am loved when I can’t feel a thing
You say I am strong when I think I am weak
And you say I am held when I am falling short
And when I don’t belong, oh You say I am Yours
And I believe (I)
Oh, I believe (I)
What You say of me (I)
I believe

AGT host Terry Crews addressed Daigle directly, saying, “Lauren Daigle, you’re at the top of your game! For our contestants, what does it take to get there?”

“It takes persistence,” Daigle replied. “It takes dedication, takes working on your craft and knowing how to serve it well. And the most important thing is every person, every contestant, was made for a unique purpose.”

Tony Morgan, Founder of The Unstuck Group, Dies After Suffering Heart Attack

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Tony Morgan, founder and lead strategist of The Unstuck Group, unexpectedly passed away Wednesday morning (Sept. 4) after suffering a heart attack.

According to its website, The Unstuck Group has “served 500 churches throughout the United States and several countries around the world” and helps “pastors grow healthy churches by guiding them through experiences to align vision, strategy, team and action.” The group’s priority is to “help churches help people meet and follow Jesus.”

In a message that was sent out to friends and advisors of The Unstuck Group, the organization’s director of consulting, Amy Anderson, said, “It is with great sadness to let you know that Tony Morgan passed away this morning.”

“He suffered a heart attack on Monday morning and was battling until this morning,” Anderson continued. “His family was with him, and pastor Andy is with the family now. We don’t have many details, and are mostly in shock ourselves right now, reeling along with his family.”

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“We do not grieve as those who have no hope; we know he’s with Jesus today,” she added. “But, we all lost an amazing friend and a man who fiercely loved Jesus and His Church, before we were ready.”

Asking for prayer for the Morgan family and The Unstuck Group team, Anderson expressed that “it’s been a hard day and we will share more when we know more about what’s next to celebrate his life.”

In addition to his work at The Unstuck Group, Morgan had previously served on senior leadership teams of rapidly growing churches, including Perry Noble’s NewSpring Church in South Carolina.

Morgan served in ministry for over 25 years. Morgan and his wife were married for 33 years and have four children.

‘Fast and Furious’ Actor Tyrese Gibson: ‘I Would Not Be Here’ Except for Jesus

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While doing publicity for his new movie and album, Tyrese Gibson talked about dealing with grief and said Jesus is “the only name that matters.” The actor and singer, known for his role in the “Fast and Furious” films, recently appeared on the radio show, “The Breakfast Club.” During an expletive-filled interview, he promoted the Aug. 30 release of “1992,” a film about the violent aftermath of the Rodney King verdict, and “Beautiful Pain,” his seventh studio album.

Gibson, who’s been divorced twice, often talks and writes emotionally about the pain of broken relationships. He’s also spoken about his struggles with anxiety and grief, especially following the 2022 death of his mother from COVID-related complications. Gibson credits his mother with bringing him to faith in Jesus.

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Tyrese Gibson: Men Struggle With Grief Too

On the Aug. 20 episode of “The Breakfast Club” [Editor’s note: This video contains language some might find offensive], Tyrese Gibson said he’s “doing the best I can” despite all that life has thrown at him lately. “Black men cry,” he said, defending his tears. The actor said no jewelry, cars, or co-star “could ever replace my mama…or fill the void of what it’s like to…get married and want to be in something for the rest of your life and it goes away.”

Gibson encouraged people to check on men, not just women, when divorce, miscarriage, and economic struggles occur. “Women aren’t the only ones that are devastated” in those circumstances, he said.

Gibson was glad his face was covered during a 2021 appearance on “The Masked Singer,” he said, because of how much he was struggling at that time. Because he has “lost so much,” Gibson said, he’s not trying to win popularity contests or amass wealth. None of that is real, he said. “It’s all fake. It’s all superficial.”

In the past few days, Gibson has gone on social-media rants about past breakups and how he’s been treated for expressing his emotions. “REAL MEN these days are constantly being emasculated,” he wrote on Instagram Sept. 2. In that same post, he said he’s “officially retired from social media”—though he posted again the next day.

Tyrese Gibson on ‘The Power and the Presence’ of Jesus

Gibson closed out the show by praising Jesus, “the one and only name that matters.” He told listeners, “If you don’t know Jesus, the Lord Jesus Christ is my Lord and Savior…I would not be here if it wasn’t for the power and the presence of the Lord Jesus Christ, who has been by my side when I thought it was a wrap, when I thought it was over.”

Pete Scazzero: Church Staff Meetings Are Just as Important as Your Sunday Sermons

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When Pete Scazzero, the cofounder of Emotionally Healthy Discipleship, was starting out in ministry, he was “sloppy” in how he led church staff meetings. He described his approach as “unhealthy” and “immature,” as well as characterized by “bad stewardship.” Part of the problem was that Scazzero had a “sacred-secular divide” in how he saw aspects of his job as a pastor.

“In my early days, I really had a very compartmentalized spirituality. Preaching and teaching, that was holy and on God’s heart,” Scazzero said, “but leading a staff meeting—all that kind of thinking that needed to go into an agenda and all the stuff around it—to me it was secondary. It wasn’t quite as holy.”

Pete Scazzero: ‘We’re Modeling Community Life’

Pete Scazzero and his wife, Geri, are the founding pastors of New Life Fellowship church in Queens, New York City, and the cofounders of Emotionally Healthy Discipleship, a ministry that helps people to learn that spiritual maturity cannot exist without emotional health. Scazzero is also a bestselling author whose books include “The Emotionally Healthy Leader,” “Emotionally Healthy Spirituality,” and “Emotionally Healthy Discipleship.”

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In the most recent episode of his “Emotionally Healthy Leader Podcast,” titled “5 Distinctives of an Emotionally Healthy Staff Meeting,” Scazzero said that while he used to see church staff meetings as less important Sunday sermons, he has since come to see these meetings as just as “important as a sermon or a teaching of Scripture or as a prayer meeting.” 

“Why?” Scazzero asked. “Because we’re creating a culture where we’re modeling community life. We’re living out certain values that are going to be transmitted throughout the whole ministry. We’re stewarding resources, spiritual formation with the people in the room.” 

Moreover, he said, “We’re learning as we’re leading the meeting. We’re listening for God, where we’re discerning together. We’re modeling how we treat people.” 

While various churches will structure their staff meetings differently, Scazzero said that most congregations have staff meetings that take place weekly and last for an hour to an hour-and-a-half. These meetings are comprised of “the paid and unpaid core people of either a pastoral team or leadership team.” 

The first characteristic of an emotionally healthy church staff meeting is that the leader takes time to “prayerfully prepare.” Scazzero said that most church staff meetings begin and end with prayer, but the prayer is rushed. The preparation he is referring to involves intentional work that leaders do prior to the meeting.

“This is holy work,” he said. “It needs thought, it needs time, it needs spaciousness” because the inner state in which leaders enter a meeting will impact the entire meeting.

“We don’t take for granted that we are ourselves in a relaxed state of loving union with Jesus,” said Scazzero. “Whereas if I come into a meeting—and I have—with anxiety, with fears, with my own inner life in turmoil—well, no matter what I say, that’s what I’m transmitting in the room because our being is what we transmit in the room.”

‘A Miracle’—Pastor Survives Heart Attack After Off-Duty Firefighter Performs CPR

Pictured: Pastor Chuck McElroy of Socastee Family Worship Center in Myrtle Beach, South Carolina, presents Chad Hughes with a certificate of appreciation (screengrab via WMBF)

Members of a South Carolina church are hailing an off-duty firefighter as a hero after he performed CPR on their pastor. On Sunday (Sept. 1), Socastee Family Worship Center in Myrtle Beach honored Chad Hughes for his part in saving the life of Pastor Chuck McElroy.

The incident took place on June 15. Hughes and his family were beginning their vacation from North Carolina and were at the same Walmart in Surfside Beach, South Carolina, where McElroy was shopping. Suddenly, McElroy collapsed as the result of a severe heart attack.

“It was not an ordinary visit to Walmart,” Hughes told WMBF. “I was on vacation. But, boy, it was an interesting start to a vacation.” 

Hughes was alerted to the medical emergency when he heard screams. After rushing over to find McElroy’s lifeless body on the floor, McElroy immediately began performing CPR. 

“God used him to revive me,” McElroy told WMBF.

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Of the incident, Hughes said, “This is the first time I’ve ever gotten to do this and see the result of what God did. And I really thank him for it.”

McElroy said that he was told by doctors that he was a part of “the 2% club,” as a vast majority of patients who experience the type of heart attack McElroy endured do not survive. McElroy added that even of those who survive, most suffer brain damage, but he did not. 

“I’m here today as a living, walking, talking miracle,” McElroy said. 

On Sunday, Socastee Family Worship Center honored Hughes and his family, presenting Hughes with a “certificate of heroism.”

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“Well, praise the Lord,” McElroy said as he appeared onstage during the service. “God is so good.” McElroy went on to express gratitude for the love and support the congregation has shown him and his family in the wake of his heart attack. 

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