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Dining With ‘Sinners’

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As an evangelist, I often remind believers that Jesus was a friend of sinners and that He dined with tax collectors and prostitutes. I’ve done this to challenge them to build relationships with the lost and seek to show them the love of Jesus.

It’s a good reminder.

But a powerful truth that I need to include with this reminder is that many, if not most (if not all), of those sinners left these dinner parties with Jesus permanently spiritually transformed.

Jesus was not agreeing with or ignoring their sins. By his mere presence he was confronting their sins. And he most likely shared with them his thoughts about their sins. A simple reading of Matthew 5 shows clearly that Jesus had no problem confronting the sins of sinners and even helping them/us see the depths of their/our depravity.

Confronting Sin With Grace

If we could hear those dinner table conversations between Jesus and the sinners around him, I’m sure it would be equal parts confronting of sin and extending of grace.

This is exactly what happened in Luke 19, when Jesus invited himself over to dine with a notorious tax-collecting sinner’s house for dinner. Jesus’s mere presence seems to have deeply convicted Zacchaeus of his sin and need for a Savior.

As a result, not only did the Z man believe, but he also took decisive action against his own sinfulness by making wrong things right.

Listen to the words of Dr. Luke:

All the people saw this and began to mutter, “He has gone to be the guest of a sinner.” But Zacchaeus stood up and said to the Lord, “Look, Lord! Here and now I give half of my possessions to the poor, and if I have cheated anybody out of anything, I will pay back four times the amount.” Jesus said to him, “Today salvation has come to this house, because this man, too, is a son of Abraham. For the Son of Man came to seek and to save the lost.” (Luke 19:7-10)

Friendships That Change Hearts

Zacchaeus put his faith in Jesus and then took action to change his ways as a result of his encounter with Jesus.

7 Reasons Why Prayers Are Not Answered

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There are reasons why prayers are not answered, even though I get a little impatient with super-spiritual saints who leave the impression that they have a deeper grasp of prayer than most. Such folks teach that if other believers just understood God’s Word better—or had more faith in prayer—God would answer all their requests. They would never suffer illness or poverty again. Such leaders seem to ignore the fact that Jesus was poor and the Apostle Paul struggled with a thorn in the flesh throughout his life. Paul prayed for God to remove the pain, but the Lord did not answer this petition.

God is not a cosmic genie who promises to answer every request if we just believe strongly enough in His power. There are qualifiers. Someone once said that God answers prayer in one of four ways: 1) “Yes,” 2) “No,” 3) “Wait,” or 4) “You’ve got to be kidding Me!”

7 Reasons Why Prayers Are Not Answered

Why Prayers Are Not Answered Reason #1: Unconfessed sin.

“Surely the arm of the Lord is not too short to save, nor his ear too dull to hear. But your iniquities have separated you from your God; your sins have hidden his face from you, so that he will not hear.” (Isaiah 59:1-2)

Why Prayers Are Not Answered Reason #2: An unforgiving spirit.

“And when you stand praying, if you hold anything against anyone, forgive him, so that your Father in heaven may forgive you your sins.” (Mark 11:25)

Why Prayers Are Not Answered Reason #3: An unbelieving heart.

“But when he asks, he must believe and not doubt, because he who doubts is like a wave of the sea, blown and tossed by the wind. That man should not think he will receive anything from the Lord; he is a double-minded man, unstable in all he does.” (James 1:6-8)

Why Prayers Are Not Answered Reason #4: Improper motives.

“When you ask, you do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives, that you may spend what you get on your pleasures.” (James 4:3)

Why Prayers Are Not Answered Reason #5: An alienated marriage relationship.

“Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers.” (1 Peter 3:7)

It ‘Lost the Heart’—Jinger Duggar Vuolo and Husband, Jeremy, Discuss the Problems With Purity Culture

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Jinger Duggar Vuolo and her husband, Jeremy Vuolo, offered some critiques of the purity movement in the fifth episode of their new podcast. The couple agreed that purity culture tended to be motivated by fear, was rules-based, downplayed physical attraction, and encouraged too much parental involvement at the beginning of a relationship.

“I think a lot of girls overreacted,” said Jinger when she and Jeremy were discussing a concern of the purity movement that people were giving pieces of their hearts away to romantic partners and had barely anything left to offer their future spouses.

She said some women were “so concerned with not wanting to talk to guys because they were going to give pieces of their heart away to them…It’s really messed up and warped because that is not how it works.”

Jinger and Jeremy Vuolo: Where Purity Culture Was ‘Wrong’

Jinger Duggar Vuolo is the sixth child of Jim Bob and Michelle Duggar, whose family was featured in TLC’s reality show, “19 Kids and Counting,” and later, TLC’s “Counting On.” The former show was canceled in 2015 after allegations broke that Jim Bob and Michelle’s oldest child, Josh, had molested five girls, including four of his sisters. “Counting On” was canceled in June 2021 after Josh Duggar was arrested and charged with receiving and possessing child sexual abuse material (CSAM).

In December 2021, a jury found Josh Duggar guilty on one count of receiving child pornography and one count of possessing child pornography. In May 2022, Duggar was sentenced to 12 years and seven months in prison. 

In February 2023, Jinger spoke to ChurchLeaders about her new memoir, “Becoming Free Indeed: My Story of Disentangling Faith from Fear.” She explained how she came to learn about the grace of Jesus, which contrasted with how God had been presented through the teachings of Bill Gothard and his Institute in Basic Life Principles (IBLP). Gothard and the Duggar family were the subject of the 2023 Prime Video docuseries, “Shiny Happy People: Duggar Family Secrets,” which Jinger chose not to participate in.

Jeremy began the conversation on “The Jinger & Jeremy Podcast” by explaining what “purity culture” is. The term generally refers to an evangelical movement that took place in the 1990s and which, among other ideas, emphasized not having sex before marriage and promoted courtship over dating.

According to the late Dr. Timothy Keller, “The teaching went far beyond the Christian sex ethic to argue that you should not ‘date’ or even kiss someone unless you were sure you were going to marry them. Sexual thoughts, most physical contact, and sex outside marriage were elevated to ‘unforgivable sins.’”

Joshua Harris’s book, “I Kissed Dating Goodbye,” is one of the most well-known books from that time period. Harris has since discontinued publication of the book and is no longer a Christian. 

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Both Jeremy and Jinger experienced the impact of purity culture, although they said that Jinger’s experience was “more intense” than Jeremy’s.

SBC Pastor and Billy Graham’s Granddaughter Pledge Support for Kamala Harris During Evangelicals for Harris Call

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On Wednesday night, Evangelicals for Harris held a Zoom call that featured prominent evangelical voices pledging their support for Vice President Kamala Harris in the 2024 presidential election.

Evangelicals for Harris describes itself as a group of “faithful, compassionate evangelicals exercising our God-giving citizenship by voting for someone who better reflects Christian values.”

The Zoom call was hosted by Ekemini Uwan, who in 2019 labeled “whiteness” as “wicked.” “We have to understand something,” Uwan said at an evangelical Christian racial reconciliation conference, “whiteness is wicked. It is wicked. It’s rooted in violence. It’s rooted in theft. It’s rooted in plunder. It’s rooted in power. It’s rooted in privilege.”

RELATED: Evangelicals for Harris Support Candidate Who ‘Better Reflects Christian Values’

During the opening of the call, Uwan said that Harris “is a fellow Christian and was raised in the Black church.” Harris sang in her church’s choir as a child and is a member of the Third Baptist Church of San Francisco, a church pastored by Rev. Amos C. Brown.

The call featured Southern Baptist Convention (SBC) Pastor Dwight McKissic, Billy Graham’s granddaughter Jerushah Duford, former U.S. Congressman Adam Kinzinger, Presbyterian Pastor Lee Scott, Texas State Representative James Talarico, Pastor Matt Tebbe, Christian hip hop artist Derek Minor, Bishop Claude Alexander, Evangelicals for Harris founder and chair Dr. Rev. Jim Ball, author Shane Claiborne, and historian Jemar Tisby.

During the call, which according to MSNBC reached over 40,000 people, Ball said that in 2020, Evangelicals for Biden was the “biggest, independent, evangelical, grassroots campaign ever to support a Democratic presidential candidate.”

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“We provided strategic support by flipping Trump voters to Biden voters in Michigan and Georgia,” Ball said. Ball further claimed that the group’s support for Biden provided him with the victories he needed in swing states.

Screengrab of slide during Evangelicals for Harris Zoom call on August 14, 2024.

As Ball encouraged evangelicals to vote for Harris, he said, “The most important thing I actually have to say to everyone tonight is we are going to win.”

Ball went on to explain that Evangelicals for Harris plans to target evangelical voters through Google, social media, and email. Ball said that Evangelicals for Biden sent 40 million emails in 2020 to support Biden’s election.

Evangelicals for Harris will also be organizing more Zoom calls and will be running video ads on television and streaming platforms such as Hulu, Apple TV, and YouTube.

Gateway Church Named in New Lawsuit Alleging Sexual Assault at Youth Group

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Gateway Church is dealing with more sexual assault allegations, this time from someone who was allegedly victimized as a teen by a fellow youth group member. A lawsuit filed Aug. 14 by former “devout and active members of the church” names both the Dallas-area megachurch and Gabriel Reece Snyder, now 25, as defendants.

According to the lawsuit, starting in 2016, Snyder (then 17) groomed and assaulted the plaintiffs’ daughter (then 13) at Gateway youth group meetings. Snyder, who is currently in jail for an unrelated sexual assault of a child, hasn’t been criminally charged in this new case.

Parents of the alleged victim, who is now an adult, are requesting a jury trial. They are seeking monetary damages of more than $1 million.

In June, Gateway founder and senior pastor Robert Morris resigned amid a sexual abuse scandal. Two months earlier, the church settled a lawsuit involving the 2018 sexual abuse of a minor. (Morris was not involved with that case.)

New Lawsuit Alleges Abuse Within Gateway Youth Group

The new lawsuit alleges that Snyder groomed the plaintiffs’ daughter while both teens attended Gateway Church youth group, held at The King’s University in Southlake. About 200 participants from grades six through 12 attended the weekly Wednesday-night meetings on campus.

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Parents of the alleged victim accuse Gateway of providing “little or no supervision” by the church’s “youth counselors, pastors, leaders, chaperones, or volunteers.” Their lawsuit states that Snyder “cynically used the biblical beliefs and teachings of Defendant Gateway’s pastor and ministers to convince 13-year-old [victim] that it was the will of God, and the leaders of Defendant Gateway, that she submit to him because he was a male and she was a female.”

Snyder allegedly took the girl “into the darkness outside” on the campus to assault her. Although surveillance cameras were present near those areas, “nobody from Defendant Gateway ever came to [victim]’s aid,” the lawsuit alleges. The girl’s parents indicate that she was abused from December 2016 through February 2017, by which time Snyder had turned 18.

More Details From New Lawsuit Against Gateway

The plaintiffs also claim that Gateway formed a “special” or “confidential” relationship with them, as “devout and active members” of the church. They allege that Gateway breached that relationship, inflicting emotional damage through fraud.

Former Pastor Charged With 7 Felonies in Child Sex Abuse Case

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A former pastor in Lexington, Kentucky, has been indicted by a grand jury with seven felony charges related to his alleged sex crimes against a 15-year-old girl. Zachary King, formerly an executive pastor at LexCity Church, was first arrested in July. 

King, 47, reportedly resigned from the church shortly before his arrest, when he was confronted by members of the congregation. 

According to the arrest report, King admitted to having “sexual intercourse with the minor starting at age 15 in January 2023, continuing until April 2024.” 

King reportedly also specified that the abuse took place “in the minor’s home, at his residence, and at the church where he was a former pastor.”

RELATED: Man Arrested After Reportedly Confessing to Pastor That He Molested a 4-Year-Old

King also confessed to communicating with the child via WhatsApp and SnapChat, arranging meetups and receiving explicit photographs from the girl. He further said that he would pick the child up from her home and drive her up the road to have sex in his car. 

Following King’s arrest in July, King’s attorney requested that his bond be set at $50,000, but the judge set the former pastor’s bond at $250,000.

Attorney General Russell Coleman announced on Aug. 15 that investigations by the Attorney General’s Department of Criminal Investigations (DCI) and Special Prosecutions Unit resulted in a grand jury bringing seven charges against King. 

The charges include first degree rape, first degree sodomy, unlawful use of electronic means to induce a minor to engage in a sexual or prohibited activity, unlawful transaction with a minor with a victim under 18, third degree rape, third degree sodomy, and first degree sexual abuse.

RELATED: Texas Church Discloses ‘Inappropriate and Hurtful’ Actions That Led to Pastor’s Resignation; Elders Revise Plan for Interim Leadership

Shortly after news of King’s arrest broke, LexCity church announced that it would be closing permanently amid ongoing financial challenges, which had been compounded by the scandal surrounding King.

Donald Trump Suggests God Spared His Life ‘To Save the World’

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Former President Donald Trump held a news conference at his golf club in Bedminster, New Jersey, on Thursday (Aug. 15) where he answered questions from reporters. One reporter asked why Trump believes God saved his life from an assassination attempt.

On July 13, Trump was holding a rally in Butler, Pennsylvania, when a shooter armed with an AR-style rifle climbed onto the rooftop of a nearby building, approximately 150 yards from Trump, and shot at the former president several times.

One of the shots intended for Trump’s head hit him in the ear, as Trump turned his head right as the shooter fired.

Another bullet fatally struck a rally-goer, Corey Comperatore, who was a firefighter and beloved husband and father. Two other bullets critically injured 57-year-old David Dutch and 74-year-old James Copenhaver before the shooter was fatally neutralized by a Secret Service sniper.

RELATED: ‘It Was God Alone Who Prevented the Unthinkable From Happening,’ Donald Trump Says Following Assassination Attempt

Following the assassination attempt, Trump has praised God for saving his life, repeatedly saying that it was “God alone who prevented the unthinkable from happening.

One reporter asked Trump on Thursday if he has “put much thought into why God saved your life? As in, for what purpose has he been shielding and protecting you?”

Trump replied, “Something happened, because that was a miracle. I never looked that way. The audience was massive, and it was in front of me.”

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The former president explained that he was looking at a graph, something he rarely uses.

“It was one that I use less than 20% of the time. It’s always at the end of the speech, not at the beginning of the speech, and it’s always on the left side, not the right side,” he said.

Why Catholic Bishops Rocked out to Megachurch Worship Hits

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National Eucharistic Congress attendees raise their arms during a song at Lucas Oil Stadium in Indianapolis, July 20, 2024. (Photo by Josh Applegate, in partnership with the National Eucharistic Congress)

(RNS) — In mid-July, Lucas Oil Stadium, home of the Indianapolis Colts, was transformed into a place of worship as more than 50,000 Catholics gathered for the National Eucharistic Congress.

The stadium full of young people, nuns in an array of habits and priests in black and brown faced an altar adorned with four candlesticks and a golden monstrance displaying a consecrated host for Eucharistic adoration.

Then there were the Catholic bishops and other worshippers in the stands, hands raised in worship like Pentecostals, singing “How Great Is Our God,” a megachurch-style worship anthem, as a church rock band played on stage. That song was one of several Protestant-style worship songs sung at the Eucharistic Congress. Others included “Way Maker,” Build My Life,” “Come to the Altar” and “Praise,” the latest hit from Elevation, one of the so-called Big Four megachurches that dominate the worship music charts.

The presence of these songs is one more sign of the triumph of the Big Four churches, whose charismatic-tinged anthems can be found in Christian gatherings of all kinds — from megachurch stages and the annual meeting of the Southern Baptist Convention to youth camps and Eucharistic worship services on Catholic college campuses. But the songs also reveal a new kind of ecumenical liturgical movement — built on friendship, songs and shared experience rather than formal denominational cooperation.

One of the clearest examples of this ecumenical liturgical movement came during the COVID-19 pandemic, when hundreds of virtual choirs from different Christian traditions around the world all recorded versions of “The Blessing,” a hit worship song from Elevation, said worship scholars Sarah Kathleen Johnson and Anneli Loepp Thiessen.

In a 2023 article for the academic journal Worship, Johnson and Thiessen pointed out that the song had been recorded more than 100 times — by Catholics in SingaporeLutherans in Washington state, an ecumenical virtual choir in Pittsburgh — who all found common meaning in the song.

Johnson, an assistant professor of liturgy and pastoral theology at St. Paul University in Ottawa, Ontario, said she’s been encountering songs like “The Blessing” in unexpected places for a decade — which changed the way she thought about these songs.

These songs, she thought, might be a sign that Christians who are often divided have more in common than they realize. They are singing with more people than they know, she said.

“That led me to wonder, how can this shared music help Christians who struggle to recognize each other, enter into a new kind of relationship through these shared worship practices,” she said.

Thiessen, a doctoral candidate at the University of Ottawa who worked with Johnson on a new Mennonite hymnal committee, said Christians have always borrowed songs from one another. And they may not be aware of where those songs come from, she said.

Both Johnson and Thiessen said that in a time when people are divided, even in churches, the ecumenical power of worship songs gives them hope.

Black Baptist Organization Gets $1 Million Megachurch Donation To Aid African Girls

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The Lott Carey Baptist Foreign Mission Society accepts a $1 million donation, Tuesday, Aug. 13, 2024, in Memphis, Tenn., from Alfred Street Baptist Church in Alexandria, Virginia. Lott Carey president the Rev. Gina Stewart, center left, and the Rev. Howard-John Wesley, center right, of Alfred Street Baptist Church, hold the check. (Photo courtesy Lott Carey)

(RNS) — A Baptist missions organization has received a $1 million donation from a Virginia megachurch, boosting its efforts to help girls in Africa.

Lott Carey, a predominantly Black organization long known as the Lott Carey Baptist Foreign Mission Society, has traditionally had fundraisers as part of its annual gathering, which this year occurred from Monday through Thursday (Aug. 12-15) in Memphis, Tennessee.

The Rev. Gina Stewart, Lott Carey president, had announced beforehand she hoped to raise $1 million on the last night of the convention. But Alfred Street Baptist Church, a historic Black church in Alexandria, Virginia, decided to raise money ahead of that occasion.

Its pastor, the Rev. Howard-John Wesley, told Religion News Service he learned during a church trip to Ghana arranged by the Rev. Emmett Dunn, Lott Carey’s executive secretary-treasurer, about the plight of girls caught up in the Trokosi tradition in that country: Girls are turned over to priests at religious shrines for forced labor and ritual, sexual servitude as payment for the sins of their relatives. Although Ghana criminalized forced labor in 1998, Trokosi priests have continued to practice their servitude system “unchallenged” by law enforcement, according to child rights experts.

“It was our trip to Ghana that exposed us to the slave trade industry that you wouldn’t believe still existed in 2024,” Wesley said. “We really felt like God gave us an opportunity to make a difference in freeing some of these young ladies.”

The money will be used to support the ministry of the Ghana Baptist Convention, one of the largest denominations in Ghana, to rescue young girls whose families have sold them into the long-established system opposed by the United Nations Committee on the Rights of the Child. The ministry works to rehabilitate the girls, teaching them at a vocational training center that aims to give them skills to allow them to reintegrate into society.

Stewart, the senior pastor of Christ Missionary Baptist Church in Memphis, said she too learned about Trokosi’s mistreatment of the girls during a trip to Africa.

“My journey to Liberia and Ghana with Lott Carey in 2022 was life-changing,” Stewart said in a statement. “Shortly thereafter, Rev. Dunn led a trip to Ghana with 100 Alfred Street members, and they too were blessed by the beauty of Ghana and shaken by the horrors of the dehumanizing indentured servitude known as the Trokosi tradition and vowed to make a difference.”

The $1 million donation is rare for Lott Carey, which has an operational budget of $2.5 million. It received an equal sum from Fountain Baptist Church in Summit, New Jersey, for relief efforts related to Hurricane Katrina.

The donation sum is also not the first for Alfred Street, which gave $1 million to the National Museum of African American History and Culture in 2015 and donated the same amount to Jackson State University, a historically Black institution in Mississippi, to help students and officials as they dealt with a crisis in 2022 after high levels of lead were found in its water.

About 950 people attended the Lott Carey meeting, including about 20 people from the Virginia church whose trips to the Memphis gathering were subsidized by the church. Alfred Street has about 2,000 people in attendance in person on Sundays and some 20,000 who watch online each week.

Wesley said his church raised the money through a 40-day fast in 2023 when members and supporters were asked to set aside daily devotional time and give up favorite foods, drinks and habits and use the money they would have spent on them for a donation.

The Most Important Part of Athletic Excellence? The Fruit of the Spirit

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Olympic athletes are the cream of the crop. God gave them athletic ability far beyond what most of us will ever know. They train hard, for years. And over the past couple of weeks, we all witnessed them perform under unthinkable pressure, reaping the benefits of dedicating most of their lives to excellence in competitive sport.

But just because we aren’t Olympic athletes doesn’t mean we can’t also chase excellence. God has given every single athlete, every single person, unique gifts. It’s up to us to protect, nurture and grow them. It’s the only appropriate response to God’s greatest gift to us: salvation. 

In Romans 12, Paul writes,

Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship. Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.

What makes being a Christian athlete uniquely challenging, though, is that excellence isn’t solely about the results of our athletic competitions. As Christians, we’re called to take a larger view of excellence. End results still matter, but that is only part of the equation. That’s why I like the phrase “chasing excellence.” It reminds us that how we go about achieving great things is just as important as if we achieve great things. Our “how” must include Christ-centered relationships with teammates and coaches, integrity in the way we play, and a deep respect for our competitors. This is true excellence.

I’ve been involved in organized sports my whole life. I’ve worked about every job in or around athletics that you can work. Now, I have the honor of overseeing athletics for Calvin University. Over my life, I’ve seen God use sports for all kinds of ends. 

I’ve seen him use sports, coaches, games and teams to bring students to Christ. I’ve seen him use athletics to build my own daughters into loving, mature, accomplished young women. I’ve seen our coaches hand-craft weekly devotionals for their teams, and watched them become steady, loving presences for students suffering grief or hardship.

That’s part of why success and excellence aren’t the same thing. In fact, in many ways, success can destroy you. But placing your faith at the heart of your pursuit of excellence protects you from this sort of destruction. It keeps your talent in perspective. 

Chasing true excellence in athletics is undoubtedly a path to deep, long-term flourishing. Sports build relationships. They build stronger, more adaptable individuals. They give athletes the chance to make hard decisions and confront difficult situations—like loss, victory, injury or personal disappointment—in a safe way. They give athletes a chance to make the wrong decision and learn to do better next time.

Of course, this doesn’t mean that championships don’t matter. They do. But having a God-sized view of excellence allows us to cultivate the fruit of the spirit in our lives as we work to win.

6 Ways To Embrace Culturally Diverse Worship

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Some of us can imagine our church filled with people of multiple colors, nationalities, economic levels and political beliefs all worshiping God together. The problem with that scenario is that most of us imagine how great that vision would be as long as those various cultures, tribes and tongues are willing to make adjustments to worship like we do. “Not in my style” may really and truly mean “not my kind of people,” except when it comes time for the yearly youth group trip to Mexico. We are willing to go outside the church for culturally diverse worship but fail miserably to do so within. So why are we so ready to defer when we travel around the world but not across the aisle?

6 Ways to Embrace Culturally Diverse Worship

In chapter 7 of Revelation, the multitude of God’s people are standing before the throne of God sheltered by His presence. John’s vision of every tribe and tongue worshiping together as one is a heavenly prophecy of diverse worship.

So, if we aren’t meant to segregate as we worship in Heaven, then why are we so divided as we worship here on earth? Martin Luther King Jr. famously said, “11:00 a.m. on Sunday morning is the most segregated hour in this nation.” Not much has changed since his original statement 50 years ago, so in order to achieve truly diverse worship maybe it’s time to try something beyond just adding a few ethnically diverse songs.

1.  We must stop trying to fix it with music.

We believe music is a universal language just as long as everyone else lives in our universe. It’s impossible for intercultural worship to begin with a common musical style, so it must instead begin with a common biblical content. And when it does, music won’t get the blame for what only theology can fix.

2.  We must become ethnodoxologists.

Ethnodoxologists encourage unity in the heart languages of those who are here and those who are not here…yet. Ethnodoxology looks beyond Americanism as having a corner on worship understanding and considers the vast work God is doing around the globe and across the tracks.

How the Presence of God Fuels Our Mission

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When we understand that the presence of God is at work in the world, and the church—as a people—is called to be faithful to his presence through Jesus Christ, our understanding of mission is revitalized.

A couple years ago, I was on a weekend church retreat at a Michigan City, Indiana, beach house, when an unusual conversation broke out. About 20 people were gathered on the back porch to discuss the direction of their church, and I was acting as their consultant. They had moved to a specific suburb of Chicago about two years earlier to plant this church. They had engaged with many hurting people in the neighborhood. They had made inroads into community activities and were involved in bringing healing to some of the town’s basic needs. But they were frustrated.

“What are we doing here? We’ve been here two years and nothing is happening!” said one of the men, Matt. “We haven’t seen any more people come to our Sunday gathering. We haven’t seen any conversions.” Matt wasn’t seeing a connection between what they did on Sundays and the rest of the week.

Then, a woman named Sylvia jumped in, “I don’t know what I’m doing with Joan in the neighborhood. She’s so broken. I thought I was helping her, but now you’re all telling me I’m enabling her. I thought this is what we were doing here as a church. Now I’m so confused as to whether I’m supposed to be doing anything.”

Sylvia, it seems, saw the helping of hurting people as the work of the church. But she was not clear as to how what they did as the church extended into her relationship with her neighbor.

Both Matt and Sylvia illustrated a disconnect between their organized church life with God in worship and discipleship, and the life they led with God in their neighborhoods.

This disconnect, I suggest, is common in today’s missional churches. Churches that emphasize God’s mission in the world and urge Christians to participate in it often find many Matts or Sylvias among them. We struggle to connect what happens “in here” as a committed people of God gathered on Sunday to what happens “out there,” where Christians minister daily among the struggles and injustices of the world.

This all changes when we understand that the presence of God is at work in the world, and the church—as a people—is called to be faithful to his presence through Jesus Christ. We not only gather in his presence on Sundays, we live in his presence, discern his presence and witness to his presence in the world the other six days of the week. What we do on Sunday, tending to the presence of Christ as we gather together, enables us to discern that same presence at work in the rest of our lives and in our neighborhoods. Discipleship and mission are inextricably linked. And the church is neither Matt’s emphasis nor Sylvia’s emphasis alone—but both are intricately intertwined.

Being Faithful to the Presence of God

The theme of God’s presence runs through the entire Bible, beginning with Adam and Eve in the garden, to the tabernacle and the temple among the people of Israel, to God coming to us as “Emmanuel—God with us,” all the way to the new heaven and the new earth where God dwells fully present among his people (Rev. 21:3-4,22).

The Old Testament speaks regularly of God’s presence in the world. Yet God was still especially present with his chosen people Israel via the tabernacle and then the temple. John 1:14 says, “The Word became flesh and tabernacled among us.” Through Jesus, God came to dwell with humanity through his people, the body of Christ, the church, which the apostle labels “the temple of the living God” (2 Cor. 6:16). The entire story of the Bible leads toward God restoring creation to his presence through Jesus Christ and his people.

It is amazing the ways that Jesus promises to be present among us. To name just a few, Jesus tells his disciples that when you have a conflict, and two or three come together and agree, “I am there among you” (Matt. 18:20). When Jesus inaugurated the Lord’s Table, he said, “Whenever you eat this meal, be present to my presence” [my translation of the Greek word anamnesis, which is typically translated as “remember me”] (Luke 22:19). And so the church has long recognized Jesus’ special presence at the Lord’s Table.

25 People You Should Thank – Today

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Thankfulness is a virtue we often ignore. Sometimes we get so caught up in our own little world we forget to say thank you to people who have helped us the most. Then there are people who simply need thanking to help them feel better about their own situation. Everyone likes to be appreciated. I thought I would use this article to spur you to think about who you should thank.

25 People You Should Thank

A family member who holds the family together.

The parent who paved your way.

The person who gave you a start in your career.

Someone who encourages you that you only know online.

A random stranger God lays on your heart.

An often unnoticed but vital part of society—such as the custodian, street worker, truck driver or garbage collector.

A friend who was there when you needed one most.

A pastor who helped shape your understanding of God.

The person you know who prays for you regularly.

The person who waits on you every day—somewhere—and you may not even know their name.

A politician you admire for doing the right thing—as best you can tell.

The unexpected person who was there for you at just the right time in your life; who said just the right thing you needed to hear.

5 Epitaphs for the Legacy of the Apostle Paul

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Have you ever thought about what you want written on your tombstone? That may seem like a morbid thought to most people, but it’s actually a healthy question. As Psalm 90:12 says, “Teach us to number our days, that we may apply our hearts to learn wisdom.” We should periodically stop to think about our lives from the end. In Acts 20, we get a glimpse into five possible epitaphs for the legacy of the Apostle Paul. Paul gives a farewell speech to some of his closest friends and summarizes his entire philosophy of life. I’d like to be able to have these five statements be the funeral sermon at the end of my life.

5 Epitaphs for the Legacy of the Apostle Paul

1. I have been faithful to do what Jesus told me to do.

Paul says (to paraphrase Acts 20:24), “My single focus has been and is to do what God has told me to do.” At the end of the day, that is the only thing that really matters.

People go wrong with this in two opposite ways. Some people feel like it is their responsibility to save the world—to fix their friends, to make absolutely certain that their kids turn out right, to redeem every last orphan. So they carry the weight of the world on their shoulders, and nothing they do ever feels like enough. On the other hand, I’ve known people who never even stop to think that God has given them a responsibility at all.

We aren’t responsible to save the world; but we are responsible to fulfill the assignment Jesus has given us. Many of us need to redefine what “success” looks like in our lives. The legacy of the Apostle Paul reminds us that success in life is identifying what God has called you to and being completely faithful in it.

2. I told the truth.

Twice in Paul’s speech he says, “I did not shrink from declaring” the entire truth of the gospel (vv. 20, 27). Paul saw himself as a herald of the truth. He wasn’t responsible for the content of the message; he was only responsible to deliver it.

I want my life to be an example of that kind of boldness. The truth of the gospel can be offensive: People don’t like to hear about their sin, about the righteous judgment of God, about the reality of hell. But if we shrink from declaring the whole gospel because it’s uncomfortable, we are implicitly telling the world, “We don’t care that you are dying.”

We aren’t responsible to make our friends and family believe, but to tearfully present the truth like Paul (Acts 20:19, 31). Following the example of the legacy of the Apostle Paul  Charles Spurgeon said, “If sinners be damned, at least let them leap to Hell over our dead bodies. And if they perish, let them perish with our arms wrapped about their knees, imploring them to stay. If Hell must be filled, let it be filled in the teeth of our exertions, and let not one go unwarned and unprayed for.”

3. I directed people’s attention toward Jesus, not toward myself.

Paul defines his ministry as one filled with “humility and with tears and with trials” (Acts 20:19). That’s not how most of us would like to summarize our lives. I’d prefer victory, power and joy. In fact, the Greek word Paul used for “humility” was used quite extensively outside of the Bible as an insult. It meant low, weak, defeated. Yet when Paul uses it—and throughout the New Testament—it is considered a virtue.

8 Keys to Personal Prayer

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“We look upon personal prayer as a means of getting things for ourselves; the Bible’s idea of prayer is that we may get to know God himself.” — Oswald Chambers.

Prayer is first and foremost a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. Some people think of prayer as a business transaction or as something they have to do, just like checking something off a to-do list. But that isn’t really prayer at all. Think of prayer in intimate terms, like a conversation between close friends. What are some words you think of when you think of an intimate friendship? You probably think of words like loving, caring, warm, sincere, personal and intimate. These are words that should be used to describe our personal prayer time with the Lord. Personal prayer should not be dry or stuffy; it should be warm and intimate.

Every believer can have a dynamic personal prayer life. The Bible gives us the keys we need to develop a powerful prayer life. The Scriptures are full of examples of men and women who walked with God and used prayer to impact their world, and you can do the same thing through prayer.

8 Keys to Personal Prayer

1. Pray in Jesus’ Name

Real prayer is focused on Jesus Christ. Numerous Bible references talk about the importance of praying in the Name of Jesus. Jesus Himself said, “Most assuredly, I say to you, whatever you ask the Father in my name he will give you” (John 16:23). When we pray in the Name of Jesus, God the Father hears us. He responds to the prayer offered in the name of his Son Jesus, because our relationship with God is through the Son.

2. Pray According to God’s Will

God is not a Santa Claus in the sky; he does not give us anything we ask for. But in 1 John 5:14 it says, “If we ask anything according to his will, he hears us.” This means that when we pray in accordance with his will, we can expect an answer.=

3. Scriptural Prayer

One of the best ways to pray is according to the Scriptures. If God’s Word is in our hearts, then his desires become our desires and we can have assurance he will answer our prayers. Make sure your prayers are in line with Scripture. The Lord always honors his word.

4. Keep Commandments

God honors those who honor his commandments. Jesus said, “Whatever we ask we receive from him, because we keep his commandments, and do those things that are pleasing in his sight” (1 John 3:22).

5. Believe

God wants us to have faith that he will hear our prayers. Jesus said, “Whatever things you ask in prayer, believing, you will receive” (Matthew 21:22). The Lord promises to respond to our prayer of faith. 

Creative Connections: Strengthening Bonds in Youth Ministry

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Creative connections turn youth group into more than a gathering. When teens form meaningful relationships with peers and adults, they feel like they belong. They also receive (and give) much-needed support for the faith journey.

Face-to-face creative connections are needed now more than ever. Digital interactions and online friendships can’t replace in-person time together.

Youth leaders can help kids connect, grow friendships, and explore their Christian faith. So let’s look at ideas for creative connections. Discover how youth fellowship is essential for building lasting friendships.

Youth Fellowship Sparks Creative Connections

For today’s teens, fellowship is more than participation. Youth pastors must create space where young people feel valued, accepted, and understood. Fellowship fosters community that adolescents crave. They need authentic relationships with Christ-following peers and adult leaders.

Building bonds in youth ministry takes many forms. The key? Let teens connect socially, emotionally, and spiritually. First provide a welcoming environment. Then offer these avenues for creative connections:

  • Small Groups and Mentoring—Provide safe spaces for teens to share. That way, kids can open up and develop trust.
  • Shared Experiences—Retreats, mission trips, and game nights allow friendships to form. Memories teens create become glue that holds the group together.
  • Communication—Encourage openness and honesty. When teens feel heard, they’re more likely to form meaningful connections.

Youth Activities That Engage Teens

Next, use creative connections for innovative youth activities. These break the ice, encourage teamwork, and help teens discover new interests. Try these ideas:

  1. Theme Nights—Plan events that will attract kids and their friends. Try a 1980s retro night or a superhero costume party. What a fun backdrop for interaction!
  2. Service Project—Serving together leads to creative connections beyond the church. Plus, it teaches compassion and teamwork.
  3. Creative Arts—Let teens express their God-given gifts in art, music, and drama. Host an open mic night, a talent show, or an art display.
  4. Outdoor AdventuresHiking, camping, and ropes courses are fun and challenging. Overcoming obstacles together spurs creative connections.
  5. GamesTeambuilding games also help kids form bonds.

The Role of Youth Leaders

Youth workers and volunteers are key to connections. You set the tone for the group while modeling relationship skills. Use these tips to enhance your leadership:

  1. Be Approachable and Relatable—That way, teens feel comfortable sharing their lives with you. Opening up about struggles shows teens you’re human.
  2. Encourage Peer Leadership—Empower teens by letting them lead in teams.
  3. Consistency—Be reliable, following through on commitments. Prioritize your relationships with God and other people.

The Value of Teen Friendships

Finally, know that teen friendships formed in youth ministry can be enduring. They provide a support system that extends beyond church walls. Kids encourage one another and offer accountability.

  1. Foster Social Ties—Allow time for interaction, both structured and unstructured. Planned activities are great. But also include casual hangout times so busy teens can get better acquainted.
  2. Celebrate Milestones—Strengthen bonds by observing kids’ special days and accomplishments.
  3. Welcome Everyone—Include newcomers and kids who might feel left out. Remind group members to break down cliques and love like Jesus does.

Youth ministry is fertile soil for growing creative connections. Church leaders can help teens form meaningful friendships while growing in faith.

By investing in relationships, we enrich individuals while strengthening our congregation and community. So let’s nurture creative connections. Let’s raise up a generation that values close ties with God and others!

Faithful Friendships: Building Bonds in Children’s Ministry

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Faithful friendships develop and thrive in kidmin classrooms. Amid the Bible lessons, games, and crafts, Sunday school students learn about Christ-honoring relationships. By modeling faithful friendships, you help children discover one of life’s biggest blessings.

Godly friends keep kids rooted in Jesus. They also empower kids to reach out to others with the gospel.

Friendship in ministry is key for spiritual and social development. Many children have a tough time fitting in and finding their place. So a supportive, loving church is a haven.

Friendships at Sunday school offer a sense of belonging, encourage positive behavior, and reinforce Bible teachings. Read on to learn more…

Building Faithful Friendships in Children’s Ministry

How can your program encourage faithful friendships among kids of all ages? Start with  these tips:

1. Create a welcoming atmosphere.

First be intentional with the kidmin environment. Make every child feel valued and included. From the moment children walk in, they should sense a loving space. So avoid judgment and let kids be themselves.

2. Encourage group activities.

Next, offer large-group activities so children can get acquainted. Games and group discussions make Bible learning fun. Plus, they let children work together and bond. Choose activities that require teamwork. Then children learn to cooperate and rely on one another.

3. Model Christ-like behavior.

Children often imitate what they see. So church leaders much show kindness and patience in interactions. Be a good friend yourself! Listen attentively and offer encouragement. Include everyone, especially students who might feel left out.

The Role of Kids’ Church Friends

Church friends play a key role for kids. These friendships often extend beyond church walls, providing laughter and support.

  • Foster Peer Ties — Let kids interact during small-group discussions, paired activities, free-play time, and so on.
  • Address Conflicts  — When disagreements arise, focus on forgiveness. Guide children through conflict resolution with empathy.
  • Celebrate Together — Recognize the friendships that form in your ministry. Mark birthdays, share stories of kindness, and organize special events.

Christian Friendship for Kids

Faithful friendships are grounded in biblical principles. Teach love, kindness, and service so children understand how to honor God through relationships.

  • Bible Lessons — David and Jonathan, Ruth and Naomi, and the Good Samaritan are powerful examples of friendship. Discuss how students can apply lessons of selflessness in their lives.

Unlocking the Quiet Power: Introverts’ Guide to Making New Friends

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In a world that often celebrates extroversion, being an introvert can sometimes feel like navigating a landscape designed for someone else. Yet the quiet strength of introversion can be a profound foundation for building meaningful connections and expanding one’s circle of friends. The key lies not in reinventing one’s intrinsic nature but in leveraging the unique qualities introverts possess.

Embrace Your Introversion as a Strength

Your preference for deep, meaningful conversations and your ability to listen and observe can be incredibly attractive qualities. In social settings, try to initiate conversations that go beyond small talk. Discussing a book, a hobby, or a passion project can be a great way to connect on a more meaningful level. Remember, many people are longing for deeper connections, and your introverted nature equips you uniquely to provide them.

Explore Activities Aligned with Your Interests

Seek out groups or events that align with your passions or hobbies. Whether it’s a book club, a gardening workshop, or a coding meetup, these gatherings can provide a structured environment where social interactions are more predictable and centered around shared interests. This can make it easier to strike up conversations since you already have a common ground.

Leverage Online Platforms to Initiate Connections

Introverts often find it easier to express themselves in writing before meeting someone in person. Online communities, forums, or social media groups dedicated to specific interests can be a great starting point. Engaging in discussions online can help build confidence and establish initial connections that can later transition into real-world friendships.

Set Realistic Social Goals

Rather than pushing yourself into overwhelmingly large social gatherings, start small. Aim to make one new connection at a time or set a goal to attend one new event each month. Gradually increasing your social activities can help make the process less daunting and more manageable.

Practice Self-Compassion and Patience

Expanding your social circle is a journey, not a race. It’s okay to have moments of discomfort or to need time alone to recharge. Recognize and honor your limits, and don’t be too hard on yourself if every social interaction doesn’t go as planned. Growth often comes from stepping out of our comfort zones, but it’s important to do so at a pace that feels right for you.

Nurture New Connections

When you do make new acquaintances, follow up with them. Sending a message about how much you enjoyed the conversation or suggesting a future meetup centered around a shared interest can go a long way in deepening a budding friendship. Remember, building meaningful relationships takes time and effort from both sides.

Ultimately, expanding your friend group as an introvert is about finding balance—leveraging your innate qualities while gently stretching your comfort zone. By embracing your introversion, seeking out like-minded individuals, and approaching social interactions with curiosity and openness, you can cultivate a rich, fulfilling social life that resonates with who you are at your core.

This article originally appeared here.

Carl Lentz, Mike Todd Discuss Brokenness, Restoration and Transformation

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On his new “Lights On” podcast, former Hillsong New York Pastor Carl Lentz spoke this week to Mike Todd, pastor of Transformation Church near Tulsa, Oklahoma. Lentz and his family landed at Transformation following Carl’s extramarital affair, which led to his dismissal from Hillsong in 2020.

The Aug. 14 episode was an “unfiltered conversation” between Lentz and Todd, with occasional comments from Laura Lentz, Carl’s wife. Despite talking for almost two hours, the men said they didn’t even get to any of their planned topics.

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Instead, they recapped how Todd and Transformation Church embraced the Lentz family, how church leaders can prepare to shepherd people in pain, the nature of modern-day ministry, and some fine points of submission and restoration.

Mike Todd on Protecting the Lentz Family ‘Cocoon’

Carl Lentz said he and Laura want to feature people who’ve changed the couple’s lives, telling Todd, “It has to start with you.” After the scandal at Hillsong, the Lentz family initially went to Florida to regroup for about a year. Then Todd invited them to visit Transformation, which Carl Lentz described as “a giant hug.”

Lentz thanked Todd for wanting to “run into this fire and the effect of it on my family,” calling the Oklahoma pastor “a spectacular human.” Although Lentz was concerned that Todd would catch “heat” from associating with a fallen pastor, Todd said he was ready for what has turned out to be an authentic, vulnerable process.

“It almost feels like a cocoon because it’s like I was allowed into something while y’all were becoming something else,” Todd told the couple. “I had the honor of protecting that cocoon from not being penetrated by anything while you were becoming…and still [are] becoming what [God has] already destined.”

Evangelist Greg Stier Challenges Christians To ‘Risk Their Social Equity’ for Jesus

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Greg Stier, an evangelist, author, and founder of Dare 2 Share, is releasing a new book that gives 21 challenges to help Christians live a revolutionary life. Titled “Radical Like Jesus,” the book releases on Aug. 20.

For more than three decades, Dare 2 Share has mobilized millions to share the gospel boldly. Stier told ChurchLeaders that he’s noticed a “tendency in Christianity where Christians tend to wanna do Bible studies more and more and more…Christians tend to exegete but we don’t execute.”

“I’m a big theology guy. I love the Word. I do expository preaching [and] all that stuff,” Stier said. But if Christians don’t put what they’ve learned “into practice, James 1 calls us foolish.”

In “Radical Like Jesus,” Stier provides “21 snapshots of the life of Jesus from the time he is 12 to the time he sends his disciples out to go and make disciples of all nations.”

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Every chapter ends with a challenge that Stier hopes every reader puts into practice before starting the next chapter. The challenges are designed to “activate your faith,” Stier said, so that readers can, as James 1:22 says, “be doers of the Word, and not hearers only, deceiving yourselves.”

Stier shared that he believes the church in America is “safe.” He argued that many Christians simply go to church but never make disciples. They never have to worry about encountering the “dangerous,” Stier said.

“Meetings are safe. There’s nothing dangerous about a meetings,” Stier explained. “You go to a meeting, and you feel good. You take notes, and you sing songs…I love that part of the Christian faith; I don’t want to dismiss meetings.”

“But I think there’s a safety that [comes with] ‘I’m involved in Bible studies and I’m involved with serving in this ministry department,'” Stier said.

“But do you know your neighbors? Have you reached your coworkers? Are you building redemptive bridges with your classmates?” Stier asked. “Are you coming back ready to tell stories? And do you have a church that [so] cares about those stories that you’re actually involved in making and multiplying disciples?”

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