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Do You Miss the Teens in Your Youth Ministry?

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As everyone signed off the virtual youth night, the silence hit me.  It’s a silence I have heard before, it is one that emerges after a night of ministry, but this evening it was deafening. The silence is a reminder of how much I miss the teens and adults who make up the ministry I oversee. I never thought I would miss the volunteer who would linger behind to lament about that one disruptive kid in their small group. I never thought I would miss waiting with a teen for their parent to pick them up. I miss it, and it’s been hard.

While I miss seeing people face to face, it reminds me that there are several ways we can connect and communicate with others. While there is nothing more powerful than in-person interaction, there are still things we need to do to tell the teens in our parish that we are always near. While it’s essential to have that weekly check-in (Whether It’s Virtually Or Physically) it’s not enough, and that’s why we need to:

IF YOU MISS THE TEENS, UTILIZE OTHER MEDIUMS

Social media is a powerful method of getting the message out to your audience, but it can also get lost in the noise. Technology can make our efforts lazy. It’s easy to type up an email or hold up our phone to record a message. Again, those mediums can be useful, but they lack the authenticity of:

PICKING UP THE PHONE: While you might not have the time to call everyone, you can still call someone. Whether it’s the teens or their parents, picking up the phone to ask them, “How Are You Doing?” can speak volumes. While screens can connect you, sometimes we need a break from them.

SENDING A CARD: Something is exciting about receiving a piece of mail. It’s like unwrapping a gift because of the time and energy spent creating and mailing it. Unlike other forms of communication, a handwritten note or card is personal and shows the recipient that you care about them.

When you miss someone, make an effort to let them know that you care by doing something unique and personal. The impact and influence you will have on them will speak volumes.

IF YOU MISS THE TEENS, AMPLIFY YOUR EFFORTS

While it would be great to see all of my teens, knowing that someone from the ministry is reaching out to them is just as good. As the weeks go by, making sure your team has the best contact information to connect with their teens. Give them ideas (e.g., writing cards, watch parties) for how to communicate so that they don’t just rely on email. Remind your team that they are not only an extension of your ministry but God’s love.

IF YOU MISS THE TEENS, DO THE SMALL THINGS

Right now, the idea of running a ministry while figuring out life can be overwhelming. You might not feel like you can do it all, and that’s okay because no one is asking you. Start with one person and make that interaction meaningful. Focus on the quality of the relationship before you worry about the metrics.

When the quarantine is over how you interact with your teens, their families and your volunteers will still matter. Use this as a time to practice quality dialogue and intentional communication. Build into your schedule the ability to check-in so that the relationships can again grow. It’ll make the parish community you are a part of even stronger.

Do you miss the teens in your youth ministry? If so, how are you connecting with them?

This article about what to do if you miss the teens originally appeared here.

Free Printable: "Build Your House upon the Rock" Coloring Page

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Download and print this coloring page to help teach your kids the parable Jesus told about building your house upon the solid rock.

From Ministry to Children, “At the conclusion of the Sermon on the Mount, Jesus offers a final promise in the form of a parable. He tells of the wise man who builds his house upon the rock versus the foolish person who builds upon sand. The point is simple, hearing and obeying the words of Jesus is brings safety in this troubled life. This coloring sheet will help children visualize and commit this Bible verse to memory.”

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Free Series Graphic: “Fearfully and Wonderfully Made”

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Download this graphic to support a sermon series about our identity in Christ and being wonderfully made by our Creator.

“I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.” – Psalm 139:14


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Why You Should Care About Creativity in Youth Ministry

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“A youth worker’s job is to help students grow in Christ, not creativity. It’s ridiculous to expect youth workers to care about students’ creativity. After all, it has nothing to do with a life in Christ.” Youth workers would never talk like this. But what do their actions say? They only give creativity attention when they reach out to “artsy” kids. Why is this? God is the great Creator. Imitation of God has to take this into account. He gives us the gift of creativity to share himself with the world.

I wonder if we don’t teach creativity because we’ve forgotten how to be creative. Could it be that we don’t have any real understanding of creativity? The more I observe the church, the more I am convinced we are just mimics. We copy others in our sermon illustrations, our marketing, our music and our ministries. A quick Google search will yield several techniques to appear more authentic when preaching. That’s right—we’re even copying authenticity.

But in so many ways, your ministry is unique. Imitation won’t always cut it. Learning from others is key, but chances are, your ministry heroes were creative innovators. If God called you to make your youth ministry radically different from the other churches in town, would you? Could you?

In the end, there is a cost for all this mimicking: We produce students who can’t think for themselves and don’t know how to pursue God on their own. They sit in pews waiting to be told what passage of Scripture to read, what song to sing. But when a life crisis arises, will they know how to search Scripture for comfort? When their hearts yearn to praise God, will they know how to sing a new song (Psalm 96:1)? Creativity matters because it’s deeply personal and inherently authentic. It’s an honest way to connect with God. And that’s exactly what we need in our copy-and-paste church culture.  

Drastic Measures Against Viruses – A Cybersecurity Perspective

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When this column was written, the latest Ohio (COVID) statistics were 656 dead and 14,694 infected with the Coronavirus. And while these numbers are sad and horrible to report, these figures represent only a fraction of the totals that were initially speculated earlier in March. With that, the popular questions I keep hearing and seeing plastered all over social media sites are: Were the drastic measures taken by the Governor to shutdown businesses to control COVID-19 responsible for the decreased numbers? Was shutting down schools for the rest of the academic year the correct call? Or was the original COVID-19 assessment vastly overblown? As I continue to listen to the ping-pong/back and forth arguments from those who support the lockdown and social distancing mandates and those also who simply refuse to buy-in to the hype of this “invisible boogeyman” responsible for bringing the economy to a screeching halt: I find myself in a parallel universe to the arguments and those I have heard and answered to for twenty years in the cybersecurity field.

As the owner of Thirtyseven4, a leading provider of Windows and Mac antivirus/endpoint solutions, I have lost count of the times I’ve listened to tech folks argue that they “don’t need antivirus protection”. Yet, time and time again, these are the same individuals that moan about their systems running incredibly slow (due to malicious processes running they don’t know about), and who blame friends and family for the spam they are receiving, and generating etc. Better still are those users that claim that they no longer need security protection for their devices because their system has never been hit with malware. In direct correlation with the Coronavirus “precautions” leading to lower rates of death and infection: How do you know the antivirus protection solution wasn’t the direct reason that nothing has impacted your system? The reality is: the up-to-date security solution was the reason! But I suppose it’s human nature to be skeptical on what is unseen.

Cybersecurity solutions, like Thirtyseven4 Endpoint Security, are designed to work in the background and to go about its business silently. And while you may think it’s not doing anything, every file you access, read, copy and share is being carefully analyzed in tiny fractions of seconds against a comprehensive malware database and also heuristically for possible suspicious characteristics and behaviors of that file. Last year alone the Thirtyseven4 VirusLab proactively detected and safeguarded our users from 146 million pieces of malware (a number representing nearly 17,000 new detections an hour). That’s a lot of digital “invisible boogeymen”.

I’m not sure who’s right or wrong regarding the Coronavirus severity debate and handling, but I believe we can all agree that the Coronavirus is real. And I continue to draw the parallel between Corona prudence and online cybersecurity: It is simply not wise to wait until the medical virus “hits home” or a computer virus compromises your system before putting any preventative measures in to place. On the computer side of things–take it from one who knows infection– protecting your health and the health of your devices proactively is much easier than dealing with healing or cleaning respectively after the fact.

The purpose of “Staying Home to Save Lives” right now is to minimize the infection and deaths related to COVID-19. There is no way to measure the results of NOT doing this without costing human lives. We just have to understand and trust that staying home and limiting contact is in our (and others!) best interest.

I see the same truth ringing true in antivirus protection. Running a machine with no security or “free” security (about the same thing) puts your information, photos, contacts and data at risk. Utilizing a trusted security provider “flattens the curve” of infection on your machine. It is simply less possible to be compromised if you take proactive security measures.

As we continue to use our home systems for more “school and business” than ever, I highly suggest the wisdom and proven results of strong antivirus cybersecurity. The results can seem intangible, but the lack-of-infection is proof, (even if it is unseen proof). And the reality of an infection or vulnerability or breach on your machine will be tangible, if it occurs.

Stay home and stay safe—both in personal health and in the health of your devices.

Violent Raid of Chinese Church Leaves 3 Injured

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On May 3, Chinese officials raided a private residence in Xiamen city in Fujian province while members of a church were holding a worship service. During the police raid, authorities confiscated cell phones, injured several people, and detained six of the church’s members.

“You have entered my house, you grab our cell phones, you beat up people, you intrude violently,” said one member in a video posted by Chinese Christian Fellowship of Righteousness. “This is not allowed!”

Xingguang Church members had gathered to worship in one member’s home in Jimei district. Around 9 a.m. the meeting was interrupted by “dozens of security guards and officers from the local Ethnic and Religious Bureau,” says International Christian Concern (ICC). Officers entered without any warrant and said the worship service was “illegal.” Government officials had previously raided the church, which is not registered with the state, on April 19. 

Police Raid Xingguang Church Again

Several videos have been posted online showing authorities breaking into the residence and engaging in physical altercations with worshippers in a chaotic scene filled with yelling. Several men tried to stop the intruders from entering the home, but were unsuccessful.

When the worshippers resisted, authorities dragged them out of the residence, repeatedly telling those recording the incident, “Stop filming!” This video from a preacher named Yang Xibo from Xunsiding Church shows police forcing members’ heads to the ground.

Watchdog group ChinaAid reports authorities used violence against some of the women present and also took people’s cell phones. ChinaAid founder and president Bob Fu posted a video of the events, tweeting that church member Xu Wenping (who later filed a police report) received a fractured rib and bruises on his chest and forearms. Two other people were injured in the altercations as well.

Authorities harassed neighbors as well as the church members, even removing a family from one home for filming the disturbance. Police also entered and inspected several other residences.

Officials detained six male church members after the police raid and released them at 9:00 p.m. that evening. Xingguang Church’s pastor, Titus Yu, has been warned that his church is prohibited from meeting.

The Chinese Communist Party (CCP) has not flagged in its persecution of believers, even during the coronavirus pandemic. The government has blocked churches from livestreaming their services and censored church members’ communications on social media. 

Authorities have also continued to oppress Early Rain Covenant Church, arresting some members as they were participating in an online service on Easter Sunday. ChinaAid reports that officials have since continued to monitor Early Rain’s activities, as evidenced by the fact that police have been summoning members to order them to stop their online activities, but only do so when the members are meeting online.

Open Doors president and CEO David Curry believes that China’s oppression of people of faith stands out compared to religious persecution in other countries. Said Curry, “China is creating what I believe is a ‘persecution roadmap’ against religious faith. It is the greatest threat, in my opinion, to human rights today.” 

False Allegations in Lynching in Western India Pose Threat to Christians

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An attempt by Hindu nationalists and media in western India to blame Christians for the mob killing of three Hindus threatens to provoke violence against Christians, sources said.

A tribal mob on April 16 killed the three men, two of them Hindu ascetics, in Gadchinchale village, Palghar District in Maharashtra state.

“Linking this gruesome incident to the church looks like a deliberate attempt to malign the Christian community and can increase attacks on Christians not just in Palghar district but also elsewhere,” Vijayesh Lal, general secretary of the Evangelical Fellowship of India (EFI), told Morning Star News. “Rumors spread through social media, and vicious attacks by cow vigilantes have resulted in several incidents of lynching throughout India in the recent years, and we condemn each and every one of them. The Christian community has lost at least four of our own to these senseless killings; the Muslim community has lost many more.”

Hindu ascetics Mahant Kalpavruksha Giri, 70, Sushilgiri Maharaj, 35, and their driver, Naresh Yelgade, were traveling when forest guards who had previously stopped them due to the coronavirus lockdown stopped them again as they were returning to Mumbai. At a check post near Gadchinchale, about 55 miles from Palghar town, they were in an area tense from social media warnings against gangs kidnapping children and selling their kidneys—other assaults had taken place days before, and vigilantes patrolled the area, according to reports.

A small mob that grew to nearly 400 members attacked them on suspicions of being kidnappers or robbers, according to area Christians and media reports. Villagers began pelting the Hindu ascetics’ car with stones at about 9 p.m., and forest guards called police. Upon arrival police called for reinforcements when they saw the size of the mob, but another, 250-strong mob on the way to the site stopped the back-up officers, according to reports.

The growing mob accused police of protecting thieves and kidnappers as officers took Maharaj and Yelgade to a police car. When officers attempted to move the older ascetic, Giri, to the police car, the mob reportedly attacked them.

Members of the mob reportedly damaged the cars of both police and travelers and killed the two ascetics and their driver; officers were unable to stop them, and four policemen were injured and had to be hospitalized.

“The people who killed them reportedly were only a few from among the mob, but the larger mob was there and witnessed the killing,” area Christian leader Sakharam Shinde told Morning Star News.

Police later arrested more than 100 people, including nine minors, under sections of the Indian Penal Code related to murder, attempt to murder and deterring a government servant from performing his duty.

“The police chased people and arrested many, but in some cases, the police also broke into the houses of the people who were not involved at all and in fact did not even know about the incident and arrested them too,” Shinde said.

A local court in Dahanu on Thursday (April 30) extended judicial custody of those arrested until May 14.

Maligning Christians

Two days after the killings, Hindu nationalists on social media began trying to portray the perpetrators as Muslims. Videos released on Twitter were said to include the mob calling out Muslim names.

Attempting to counteract the attempts to stir up religious division, Maharashtra Home Minister Anil Deshmukh tweeted that the incident had no sectarian element, and Chief Minister Uddhav Thackeray stated the same in a video released on April 20. When fact-finding sites like Altnews.in investigated and took the air out of the claims of the Hindu nationalist posts, the social media narrative switched to allegations of a Christian conspiracy, sources said.

5 Easy Mother’s Day Crafts Even Dad Can Pull Off

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Here are some easy Mother’s Day crafts this year that don’t require access to the church’s craft closet.

Mom deserves some extra-good crafts this year! (Of course Dad deserves extra crafts this year, too, but your turn will come in June!)

So Dad, what are you going to do to make sure your kids have something special to give mom on Sunday? We’ve pulled together some easy Mother’s Day crafts that don’t take too much craftiness, time, or supplies on your part.  

Easy Mother’s Day Crafts

1. Handprint Flower Bouquet

Idea taken from TheBestIdeasforKids.com

Supplies Needed:

3 different colors of cardstock
Green construction paper or cardstock
Flesh colored construction paper or cardstock
White cardstock (12×12 in. piece)
Glue stick

Instructions: 

Determine how many flowers you’d like your bouquet to have, then trace each child’s hand on the different colors of cardstock a corresponding number of times. Cut out each hand. 

To make the flesh colored arm holding the bouquet, trace your child’s hand again, this time including his/her forearm.

Cut out strips of green paper in cylindrical shapes for the stems of the flowers. Cut enough stems for the number of flower hands.

Glue flowers and stems onto the white cardstock as shown in the picture.

If you’d like, you can have your children write mom a message on the cardstock. Ideas include reasons your child is thankful for Mom or his/her favorite activity they do together. 

Billy Graham Called America to Prayer at His 1963 LA Crusade—We Need This Message Now More Than Ever!

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Billy Graham has always been known for his spirited preaching. Throughout his ministry, he proclaimed God’s Word to millions worldwide.

During the 1963 record-breaking Los Angeles crusade, Graham challenged the 134,254 people (still an all-time Coliseum record) in attendance to return to the Christian bedrock of spiritual prayer.

This call to prayer is as relevant today as it was when it was first preached in 1963.

Why Porn Kills Sex and Intimacy in Your Marriage

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TIME magazine featured a cover story on a new initiative against Internet pornography. These anti-porn activists, though, aren’t the caricatured pursed-lip moralists. They are instead young men who say that pornography has compromised their ability to function sexually in real life. And that’s what pornography does. Porn kills sexual intimacy.

Porn Kills Intimacy

The cover struck a chord with me because I’ve seen a similar situation show up many times with couples seated in front of me for pastoral counseling. In a typical version of this scenario, a young married couple seeks help because they’ve stopped (or in some cases never started) having sex. In this typical scenario, the husband is the one who cannot maintain interest in sex. When one asks the right questions one finds that he’s been deeply immersed in pornography since adolescence. It’s not, in these situations, that he can’t get the mechanics of sex to work. It’s that he finds intimacy with a real-life woman to be, in the word that emerges repeatedly, “awkward.” Many of these men can only have sex with their wives by replaying scenes from pornography in their heads as they do so.

So what’s happening here? Why does it seem that ultimately porn kills sexual intimacy? There are, to be sure, many psychological explanations. Pornography desensitizes one to sexual stimuli, feeds the quest for endless novelty and creates a script of expectations that does not, and cannot, meet up to the real dynamics of personal relationship. But I think there’s more afoot here.

In order to understand the power of pornography, we must ask why Jesus warned us that lust is wrong. This is not because God is embarrassed about sex (see “Solomon, Song of”). God designed human sexuality not to isolate but to connect. Sexuality is intended to bond a wife and a husband and, where conditions are met, to result in newness of life, thus connecting generations. Pornography disrupts this connection, turning what is meant for intimacy and incarnational love into masturbatory aloneness. Pornography offers the psychic thrill and biological release meant for communion in the context of freedom from connection with another. It cannot keep that promise.

When pornography enters into a marriage, the result is shame. By “shame,” I am not meaning the feeling of being ashamed (although that may be part of it). I mean that one is, at the most intimate level, hiding. There’s something within us that knows that sexuality is meant for something other than the manipulation of images and body parts.

Porn kills sexuality because porn isn’t just about sex and because sex isn’t just about sex.

In the ancient city of Corinth, the warning was given about prostitutes in the pagan temples of the city. The prostitutes were paid for sexual activity, disconnected from covenant. They were part of a cultic system that ascribed almost mystical powers to the orgasm. How is that any different from the pornography industry of today? The Apostle Paul warned that the implications of immorality with these prostitutes weren’t just a matter of bad relational consequences or a bad witness for Christ to the outside world (although these were no doubt true too). The one who joined himself to a prostitute participated in an intangible spiritual reality, by joining Christ to the prostitute, by becoming one with her (1 Cor. 615-19). Since the body is the temple of the Holy Spirit, sexual immorality is not just “naughtiness.” It is an act of temple desecration, of bringing unholy worship into a holy place of sanctuary (1 Cor. 6:19).

Pornography is not just immorality; it’s occultism.

That’s why pornography has such a strong pull. It’s not just a matter of biology (although that’s important). If there are, as the Bible teaches, unseen criminal spirits alive in the cosmos, then temptation is about more than just being in the wrong place at the wrong time. The professing Christian, no matter how insignificant he or she may feel, is a target of interest. Sexual immorality seems to present itself randomly when, in fact, as with the young man of Proverbs, it is part of a carefully orchestrated hunting expedition (Prov. 7:22-23).

The shame that results within the conscience in the aftermath of a pornographic episode—much less a lifetime of such—cannot help but break intimacy in the one-flesh union of marriage. From the beginning of the human story, shame before God leads to shame with one another (Gen. 3:7-12). Nakedness (intimacy), designed to feel natural, now feels painful and exposing—or, to put it the way many men have put it, “awkward.”

If this describes you, you are hardly alone. Marriage is always difficult, always a matter of spiritual warfare (1 Cor. 7:5). In order to fight, one must first address shame, which means repenting of the desire to keep everything hidden. Find a trusted elder in your church, and seek help.

The young men seeking an insurgency against the pornography they’ve grown up with are to be commended. But pornography is a lure too powerful to be fought by willpower or social movements alone. We need to bear one another’s burdens, through the energy of the Holy Spirit within the new temple of the church. That starts with being honest about what pornography is—and what it does.

5 Ways the Pandemic Is Saving the Church

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COVID-19 is rightly seen as a plague on our world, leaving a wake of physical death and financial devastation in its path. Most would say it’s been terribly distressing to the church, as most churches around the world are not able to gather for weekly worship or physically interact as a community of faith. What if the truth is that this pandemic might not just be serving the church, but saving the church?

What if the path most churches were on, if not forced into a radical redirection, would have guaranteed their continued marginalization, irrelevance and decline? What if the pandemic has forced countless churches to change in ways that will actually allow them to grow in both size and influence?

Consider these five ways that maybe the pandemic is saving the church instead of killing it:

1. Churches have been forced to move from a weekend-centric, crowd approach to a seven-day-a-week, incarnational approach.

While every church should embrace, celebrate and promote corporate worship, too many churches made that celebration the end-all for the life of the church. We say that the church isn’t bricks and mortar, but a community of faith that can be strategically served by bricks and mortar. Yet too many churches were never leaving the building. The goal of the church is to be the church in the community where it resides, attempting to reach and serve in the name of Jesus. The pandemic has broken us out of our gospel ghettos and holy huddles and into the neighborhoods and streets where we live.

2. Churches have been forced online. 

You would think the vast majority of churches were already online. They’re not. I don’t mean they don’t have a website—most do. I mean they don’t have an online presence. Having an online campus, or even streaming a service on Facebook, had been pursued by a relatively small fraction of the 45,000 or so Christian churches in the technologically-advanced U.S., much less the wider world. Now, virtually overnight, the vast majority of churches do have an online presence. In other words, churches are finally going where the majority of the world “lives.”

3. Churches have been forced to embrace social media.  

If most churches did not have an online presence before the pandemic, it goes without saying they were not embracing or using social media. In fact, a recent study found that only 15% of churches in the U.S. were using Twitter or Instagram. Yet, as churches are having to learn, social media is the communication network of the modern world. It’s how people relate, get their news or are “touched.” In essence, the pandemic has forced churches to learn to communicate the way the people they are trying to reach communicate.

4. Churches have been forced to innovate and change.

Necessity, it has been said, is the mother of invention. It is also the mother of change. When you are forced to stop doing things the way you have always done them, but must find a way to soldier on, you are forced into new ways of thinking and new ways of acting. It has been quipped that the seven last words of a dying church have always been, “We’ve never done it that way before.” In the nick of time, at least for many churches, they are now saying, “We must do things like never before.” That takes a church from seven words before death, to seven words before life.

5. Churches have been brought back to mission.

When all of your methods and practices have been stripped away, you are left with something raw and unfiltered. It’s called your mission. Case in point? The Gideons. Imagine an organization that prints and distributes Bibles to hotels suddenly finding that the hotels are now saying, “No thanks.” They quickly realized that Scripture distribution was never meant to be their main focus. The organization wanted to win people to Christ. Bibles in hotels were just a means to an end. “Sometimes the methods get confused with the purpose,” said Alan Anderson, president of The Gideons International in Canada. “We took a step back and asked ourselves, ‘What are we trying to accomplish?’” Churches around the world are finding that much of what they had been doing to fulfill the mission had become the mission. Now, they are seeing the true mission in a new and liberating light.

If you had told me even three months ago that these five changes would soon take hold of the global church in a matter of days, if not hours, I would have assumed that it could only be the work and power of the Holy Spirit; that a true and historic spiritual awakening must be taking place.

I would never have assumed a pandemic.

But perhaps this is precisely what is happening through the pandemic. As the apostle Paul wrote, “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him” (Romans 8:28, NIV). As all good expositors know to add, Paul is not saying that all things are good, just that God can work good through all things.

Perhaps the good that God is working through this pandemic,

… is the awakening of the church and saving the church we’ve all been praying for.

Sources

Andrew Conrad, “10 Powerful Church Statistics on Social Media Use,” Capterra, March 13, 2018, read online.

Daniel Silliman, “Bible Printer Closes as Gideons Rebalance Priorities,” Christianity Today, March 17, 2020, read online.

This article about how the pandemic is saving the church originally appeared here.

Spiritually Drunk on the Worries of Life

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Sometimes we focus on something good so much that the worries of life overtake our enjoyment of life.

Have you ever known someone who cares about their physical health so much they forget to enjoy life?

Everything they eat, everything they put on their bodies (soap, toothpaste, shampoo, sunscreen) have to be approved by the right magazines and “authoritative” organic websites. More than they fear sin, they fear parabens and sodium laurel sulfate in their cosmetics, and trans fats and high fructose corn syrup in their foods.

But you wonder, does their soul suffer from all the stress and worry over their physical health? I heard a guy determined to push back from the weekly advice about what new food was taking years off our lives tell me, “If eating tortilla chips takes a year off my life, I’m good with that. I’d rather live 80 years with tortilla chips than 81 years without them.”

Admittedly, most of us fall way too far in the other camp—not giving enough thought about what we eat or put on our bodies. Physical health is of some value, which is why I am grateful for a wife who challenges me in this area—but godliness has value for all things (c.f. 1 Timothy 4:8).

In the same way that some people obsess over physical health almost to the detriment of their enjoyment of life, it’s possible to care about our marriages too much to the detriment of our spiritual enjoyment. It may seem bizarre that someone like me would write that last sentence, but it’s true. The healthiest marriages aren’t lived by those who obsess over their marriages. Marriages need space to breathe, and even more importantly, spiritual light to flourish.

The Worries of Life

Jesus says in Luke 21:34: ““Be on your guard, so that your minds are not dulled from carousing, drunkenness, and worries of life.” The first key word here is “dulled.” Other translations use “weighted down.” What Jesus is saying here is that a certain mindset, an over concern or participation in the wrong things, leads us to a drugged state, spiritual speaking.

These wrong things are the “worries of life” which Jesus elsewhere (explicitly and implicitly) describes as what we’ll eat, wear, the size and condition of our house, how others view us, our financial status, an insatiable search for the next pleasure or power elevation, and the state of human relationships. When the “worries of life” become our focus, we become spiritually inebriated.

“Carousing” is used in other Greek literature as a hangover headache or drunken nausea. It’s probably a metaphor for living in a spiritual fog. You know what “drunkenness” is. The startling part of this passage for most Christians may be that Jesus compares being too concerned with the things of this world to being drunk. The spiritual damage they do is equal because both dull us to the spiritual realities of life in Christ and his certain return.

To understand what Jesus is saying, think of the condition more than the cause: when “worries of life take over,” you can’t think clearly, you can’t act decisively, and you can’t focus on what you want to focus on because you’re like someone who is intoxicated or who is suffering from a huge hangover headache. Your next drink, your next sexual fix, or the current status of a human relationship so consume you that you can’t think about the things of God.

Luke’s warnings about the “worries of life” is a favored passage in the Christian classics which they usually apply to human affection more than substance abuse. The classical writers warn that too much earthly affection (even for family) undercuts divine affection. It’s possible to focus so much on our earthly relationships that we lose sight of the life-giving, soul-clarifying, love affirming relationship with God.

William Gurnall, author of the Puritan classic The Christian in Complete Armor, writes, “The heart of man hath not room enough for God and the world too. Worldly affections do not befriend spiritual. The heart which spends itself in mourning for worldly crosses, will find the stream runs low when he should weep for his sins.”

I can’t think about my sins before God when I’m consumed with my spouse’s sins against me. I can’t delight in all that God makes available to me when I’m obsessed with all that my spouse isn’t providing. Another way to put this is, do I focus more on what my spouse isn’t and doesn’t do than on who God is and the many kindnesses He dispenses? Far from excusing a spouse, this spiritual exercise helps you to tolerate a spouse! When you know you are supremely and divinely loved, it’s easier to face earthly turmoil, neglect and disappointment in any other human relationship (friends, parents, children, spouses).

I have said and earnestly believe that every married couple should read at least one marriage book a year and go to a marriage conference of some sort every year because marriage is such a foundational relationship that we need regular tune-ups. Because of my work, I read about five to ten marriage books a year (which is too many), but I read even more spiritual growth books. I don’t want to focus on marriage too much because the worries of life—even marital worries—can turn me into a spiritual drunk.

Are You Worshiping Worship Songs?

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Songs. We sing a lot of them. We write them. We hear them. We pick them out for every weekend service. If you’re a worship leader, songs are your currency. You can’t exist without them. But have you ever felt like you were worshiping worship songs?

For me, songs are a love/hate relationship. I enjoy them. I like singing them. But when it comes to worship, I feel like we tend to worship them.

Wouldn’t that be interesting if the very vehicle designed to help us worship actually kept us from worshiping?

Songs can get in the way of the real thing. We know how to sing but we’ve lost our ability to pray. We know how to pick songs but we don’t really know how to lead worship. We feel comfortable behind our guitars but don’t know how to lay our hands on the sick.

We attend worship events to hear our favorite bands and sing our favorite songs, but are we really connecting with our Maker?

I’m calling worship leaders to more of the real thing. Maybe we need to lead less worship and learn how to read our Bibles again. Maybe we need to lay aside our talents for a season and re-capture a heart for the lost. Maybe we need to get off the stage and have conversations with suffering widows. Maybe. Just maybe.

Are Songs a Problem?

Well, songs could be a problem.

But…

Songs connect us. Songs inspire us. Songs help us process our pain and remember the promises of God when we need them the most.

Songs matter.

But let’s not forget that the greatest song is a life laid down. Let’s get back to living the life and being real.

Worship Leader, you need to be a Christian before you are a musician. You need to love Jesus before you love songs. It’s these disciplines and this foundation that gives you authority as a leader.

  • Let’s pray for the people we lead.
  • Let’s read our Bibles.
  • Let’s spend time with Jesus even if it doesn’t produce a song, a book or a sermon
  • Let’s study more about the fullness of God.
  • Let’s share the Gospel with our neighbors.
  • Let’s invite people into our lives.
  • Let’s love Jesus with abandon.

What do you say?

This article about worshiping worship songs originally appeared here.

5 Words of Encouragement to the Church Planter or Young Leader

Recently I was able to share some encouragement with church planters in Chicago. Having been a planter twice, I understand the unique challenges facing planters. They are constantly struggling with leadership issues, finances and simply knowing what to do next.

I get it. Most of what I know now came from experience and the wisdom of others.

Many of the suggestions I shared are suitable for young leaders in any field.

Here are five words of encouragement:

The more specific you are, the more we can help. Established churches have systems. Processes. Committees. Structure. Too much, you might say, and that’s why you’re planting. But we have budgets that have likely been approved long in advance. The more detailed you can be with what you need the easier it is to meet the need. Otherwise, it seems overwhelming. And don’t be afraid to talk about money. Everyone knows you need it. Just don’t be surprised if help is more readily available in other ways.

Surround yourself with some encouragers. Make sure you have people who speak regularly into your life. People outside the work you’re doing. Some days they’ll keep you going.

Seek your affirmation among the people God sent you to minister to. Great advice someone gave me. You’ll many times feel underappreciated. You may not feel you’re doing any good. You’ll second-guess yourself and your calling. Get back into helping the hurting people, the work—whatever it is—God called you to. Be recharged.

Everything great starts with a humble beginning. Either in your personal humility or the humble beginnings of your work. Take your pick. We all want the grand and instant success. That’s seldom the reality. Those who launch big often had enormous stories of previously being humbled. “Do not despise these small beginnings, for the LORD rejoices to see the work begin” (Zechariah‬ ‭4‬:‭10).

Protect your soul—and your marriage. You have to discipline to decompress. Paraphrase of Jesus: “Come to me all who are stretched, burnt-out, weary and heavy-burdened—I will give you refreshment for your soul.” Live this truth daily. Put it as a regular practice of your life.

God bless you, planter. Leader. Friend.  

2 year-old girl singing the Lord’s Prayer

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The Lord’s Prayer by Zoei Toh. Zoei is 2 years and 8 months old.

Couple Abducted From Wedding in Attacks in Northwest Nigeria That Kill 12 Christians

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Muslim Fulani herdsmen in northwest Nigeria killed 12 Christians and kidnapped a couple from their church wedding ceremony in attacks this month, sources said.

In Tegina Kabata village in Niger state’s Shiroro County, herdsmen attacked a church site where a wedding was taking place on April 12, abducting the couple and some church members, area resident Danjuma Iliya told Morning Star News.

“As the pastor was officiating during the wedding solemnization, the herdsmen stormed the church and took away everyone who was unable to escape from the church building, including the bride and groom,” Iliya said. “In that village, five Christians were killed in the series of attacks carried out by the herdsmen.”

Two other Christians were killed by herdsmen in Niger state’s Gidigori village, Kusherki District, in Rafi County, on April 20, area resident James Ayuba said. They were two of seven Christians killed in three herdsmen attacks over five days in Rafi County, he said.

Others were injured in herdsmen attacks in the county’s Madaka and Sabon Gari villages on April 20-21, he said.

Church Elder Abducted

Also in Niger state, five missionaries kidnapped on March 2 were released on April 22, sources said. In a short statement on April 22 that gave no details, leaders of Calvary Ministries (CAPRO) expressed joy that their missionaries had just been released.

“Please rejoice with us as the remaining five of our missionaries kidnapped in Kamuku Field, Niger state 52 days ago are now safely back to freedom,” the statement read.

The missionaries were abducted when armed Muslim Fulani herdsmen on March 2 raided a school in Maruba, Shiroro County, run by CAPRO.

The announcement came the same day that a church elder in north-central Nigeria’s Kaduna state had been kidnapped. Armed Fulani herdsmen abducted Emmanuel Iliya Agiya, elder and treasurer of the Evangelical Church Winning All (ECWA) in Atang village, Jema’a County on April 22, area resident Aku Joshua Shai told Morning Star News by phone.

After shooting into the air to send villagers scampering into the bushes, the herdsmen broke into Iliya’s house that night and took him away at gunpoint, he said.

“The armed herdsmen first tried to forcefully gain entry into the house of the brother of the victim but were unsuccessful,” Shai said. “They then proceeded to the next house, the victim’s house, dragged him out, and then took him away at gunpoint.”

Iliya is son of community leader Chief Iliya Agiya, Shai added.

Christian Killed

Also in Kaduna state’s Jema’a County, armed Fulani herdsmen on April 14 attacked Zakkan village, killing one Christian and wounding two others, Shai said.

Abel Danjuma, 40, was killed, and his two brothers, 45-year-old Henry Tuta, 50-year-old Chairman Tuta were injured. Henry Tuta was treated and discharged from Kafanchan General Hospital, while Chairman Tuta’s serious injuries required that he be transferred to Jos University Teaching Hospital, Jos, Shai said.

“The three victims are members of the Catholic Church at Zakkan village,” he said. “The herdsmen, too, blocked the Abuja-Jos route at Zakkan village and kidnapped two young girls who were traveling from Abuja to Taraba state. The girls were later rescued and set free by Christians from Zakkan village who went in pursuit of the herdsmen and rescued the girls.”

On Jan. 30 Christian Solidarity International (CSI) issued a genocide warning for Nigeria, calling on the Permanent Member of the United Nations Security Council to take action. CSI issued the call in response to “a rising tide of violence directed against Nigerian Christians and others classified as ‘infidels’ by Islamist militants in the country’s north and middle belt regions.’”

Nigeria ranked 12th on Open Doors’ 2020 World Watch List of countries where Christians suffer the most persecution but second in the number of Christians killed for their faith, behind Pakistan.


This article originally appeared here. If you would like to help persecuted Christians, visit MorningStar News for a list of organizations that can orient you on how to get involved.  

Sign of Hope: Central Park Field Hospital to Close in 2 Weeks

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Samaritan’s Purse is preparing to close its field hospital in New York City’s Central Park. The evangelical Christian nonprofit organization, led by Franklin Graham, is not admitting any new patients as of today and preparing to disinfect and completely dismantle its tents in two weeks’ time. The announcement came on Saturday, shortly after New York City Council Speaker Corey Johnson called for the nonprofit to leave the city.

“This group, which is led by the notoriously bigoted, hate-spewing Franklin Graham, came at a time when our city couldn’t in good conscience turn away any offer of help,” Johnson said in a statement released Friday, May 1st. Despite the city needing the help several weeks ago, Johnson said, “That time has passed. Their continued presence here is an affront to our values of inclusion, and is painful for all New Yorkers who care deeply about the LGBTQ community.”

Samaritan’s Purse Faces Some Pressure to Leave

Samaritan’s Purse has been the recipient of a lot of criticism since erecting the field hospital in April in an effort to assist the Mount Sinai Hospital network. The bulk of the criticism has revolved around the statement of faith the organization requires employees and most volunteers to sign, which defines marriage as “exclusively the union of one genetic male and one genetic female.”

Before allowing the nonprofit to operate in New York City, mayor Bill de Blasio said his office would work to ensure Samaritan’s Purse contract workers would treat potential patients, regardless of their sexual orientation or faith practices, without discrimination. For their part, Samaritan’s Purse communicated they would treat those in need as they always have: indiscriminately. “While we lawfully hire staff who share our Christian beliefs, we do not discriminate in who we serve,” a statement from Graham reads.

On Saturday, Mount Sinai announced they were able to dismiss the field hospital now that “the surge in COVID hospital admissions is reaching manageable levels.” The statement did not in any way indicate that the dismissal was the result of any breach of trust or disfavor between Samaritan’s Purse and the hospital. In fact, the statement said the hospital was “grateful” for the opportunity to work with Samaritan’s Purse and called the level of care patients received under the organization’s care “high.”

The statement indicates a two-week phase out period will give the field hospital time to finish treating its remaining patients and “decontaminate” the tents. Currently, there are Samaritan’s Purse workers who are serving at the hospital’s Beth Israel location who will also “wind down” their support over these next couple of weeks.

Demonstrations in Central Park on April 14th by the Group Reclaim Pride Coalition called for the removal of the nonprofit due to their beliefs concerning marriage and homosexuality. In addition to Johnson, New York City Council member Carlina Rivera and New York State Senator Brad Hoylman voiced their opposition to any continued partnership between Mount Sinai and Samaritan’s Purse.

Protestors showed up again on Sunday at the hospital’s Beth Israel location to dissuade the hospital from accepting any more help from the Christian organization. Protestors held signs saying “Stop the hate” and “Islamophobia kills”. 

Most New Yorkers Seem to Welcome Samaritan’s Purse Help

Despite the disagreements some may have with the organization, though, others have simply expressed their gratitude for what it is doing–regardless of what their statement of faith contains. For instance, Dr. David Reich, the president of Mount Sinai Hospital, is a gay man himself. In a letter to Mount Sinai staff written by Reich and Dr. Dennis S. Charney, dean of the Icahn School of Medicine at Mount Sinai, the two leaders acknowledged the “differences of opinion” they have with Samaritan’s Purse:

While we have strong differences of opinion with Samaritan’s Purse on this issue, this does not detract from our shared mission to save lives in our wonderfully multicultural and diverse city. While many in this nation could have responded to calls for help, Samaritan’s Purse not only responded, but did so in a fashion that no other organization could accomplish so rapidly.

Indeed, Samaritan’s Purse acted extraordinarily quickly to erect the emergency hospital. The group drove the necessary equipment from its warehouse in North Carolina to New York City and erected the field unit in a matter of four days with the help of local volunteers. 

Graham has been highlighting other acts of kindness New Yorkers have shown to the field hospital workers and volunteers. Last week, Tonight Show host Jimmy Fallon had food delivered to the workers.

GRACE: How to Protect Children from Abuse During the Crisis

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Evidence shows that various forms of abuse have spiked as a result of the social isolation caused by the coronavirus crisis. The organization Godly Response to Abuse in the Christian Environment (GRACE) recently live streamed a panel discussion on the topic “Child Safeguarding and Survivor Care During Covid-19.” In it, panelists offered specific and practical advice for church leaders on how to go about protecting children and other vulnerable people in their congregations.

“This is what the church is for,” said Justin Holcomb, a ministry leader who is also one of GRACE’s board members. “This is where the message of Christianity comes through loud and clear.” Holcomb emphasized that church leaders should not ignore or underestimate the fact that abuse has been increasing now that people are more isolated than ever. 

Protecting Children During the Crisis 

Boz Tchividjian, GRACE’s founder and executive director, facilitated the discussion. In addition to Holcomb, the panel included Laura Thien and Victor Vieth (also GRACE board members), as well as attorney and abuse survivor Rachael Denhollander. While Denhollander and Thien answered questions relating to how the global crisis exacerbates survivor trauma, Holcomb and Vieth addressed what church leaders specifically can do to help abuse survivors and victims.

Victor Vieth, who is a former child abuse prosecutor, outlined five factors that increase the likelihood a child will be abused during the pandemic. 

  1. Most child abusers are in the home/family unit. 
  2. Children are now isolated with their abusers. 
  3. The pandemic has increased the stress on families (no outlets like going to the gym, going to a game, etc.)
  4. Children are online more now, and predators know this.
  5. Because children are quarantined, they’re cut off from adults who could help them (teachers, faith leaders, doctors, extended family members).

“For all those reasons,” said Vieth, “most child protection professionals think child abuse is on the rise.”

Ministry leaders should be aware of potential signs of abuse and act when they see them. If you are still seeing your church members through Zoom calls, said Vieth, “Then just pay attention to certain things.” Signs of physical abuse can include:

-A handprint on a child’s face
-A pinch mark on an ear
-Missing hair
-Forearm injuries (from self-defense)

“Beyond that,” said Vieth, “I would say to pastors and others, when you’re dialoguing with students, create an environment where they do have an outlet,” that is, an outlet to tell someone what is happening to them. If you lead a faith-based school, make sure a school counselor is available. As you’re checking on families, pay attention to how they’re managing stress, and reach out if you see something concerning. There is a lot you can tell about an environment even from a Zoom call. Pay attention to any yelling in the background. Even if no abuse is happening, you can still help a struggling family.

“This is a good time for pastors to give a sermon on these issues,” said Vieth. Even providing resources for people to help them deal with stress can go a long way: “Just creating that sort of environment can prevent at least some level of abuse.”

Vieth explained that if a church already has policies for protecting children in place, those are not irrelevant now that church bodies are not meeting in person. Leaders can adapt these policies for virtual situations by first reviewing their goals and then asking how best to achieve them now.

For example, if you have a policy that two adults are always present in the room with children, make sure that two adults are always present in a Zoom meeting with children. If you can’t do that, put the meeting on a public calendar so that other adults know it is taking place. At the very least, have a policy to record Zoom sessions so someone else can check them later. 

Other rules for protecting children could be 1) when on a Zoom call, no teacher or pastor will be in a bedroom wearing pajamas, 2) there will be no texts to students in the middle of the night, and 3) another adult will always be copied on any communication between adults and youth.

Vieth stressed, “God has not left you alone in this struggle. There are multiple resources, and it is simply a matter of reaching out to those resources to get the assistance you need.” 

German Catholics Admit Church Was ‘complicit’ in Nazi Crimes

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Cesare Orsenigo, Pius XII's nuncio to Germany throughout World War II, with Hitler and Joachim von Ribbentrop. Source: Wikipedia

Ahead of this week’s 75-year observance of the end of World War II in Europe, bishops of the German Catholic Church released a document admitting that their predecessors “made themselves complicit in the war” by not opposing it “with a clear ‘no.’”

German Catholic Church Issues ‘Confession of guilt’

Last week, the country’s council of Catholic bishops issued what one church official labels a “confession of guilt,” filled with details about cooperation with the Nazis. For example, hundreds of priests provided spiritual care to German soldiers, thousands of churches were converted into military hospitals, and tens of thousands of nuns served as nurses.

“The bishops may not have shared the Nazis’ justification for the war on the grounds of racial ideology,” the document notes, “but their words and their images gave succor both to soldiers and the regime prosecuting the war, as they lent the war an additional sense of purpose.” German Bishop Heiner Wilmer adds that even if the WWII-era bishops experienced shifting perspectives as the conflict continued, “They did not pay enough attention to the suffering of others.”

Pope Was Silent During Holocaust, Documents Show

In early March, the Vatican opened the archives of Pius XII, who was pope from 1939 to 1958. Before the pandemic forced the archives to be shuttered again a week later, researchers found evidence that put the leader in a negative light. They claim Pope Pius knew about the mass extermination of Jews yet never criticized the Holocaust directly. Further, he hid information about German concentration camps from U.S. officials, and the Catholic Church (possibly with U.S. assistance) helped former Nazis escape to South America.

Pius, who’s been called “Hitler’s pope,” had been on the track to sainthood, but now that appears to be on hold. His defenders claim he was a quiet diplomat who worked to hide Jews at the Vatican and in churches and monasteries. The Vatican had previously published 11 volumes of documents from Pius’ archives.

Hubert Wolf, a Catholic priest who led a German research team through the briefly opened archives, says the task ahead is daunting. Millions of pages need to be arranged chronologically, carefully analyzed, and compared against the existing volumes. “If Pius XII comes out of this study of the sources looking better, that’s wonderful,” says Wolf, a respected author and professor. “If he comes out looking worse, we have to accept that, too.”

Lessons for Today

Findings from the archives are important for more than historical purposes, say church officials. Bishop Georg Batzing, president of the German Catholic Church bishops’ conference, says modern-day leaders must “carry the legacy into the future”—especially as Europe faces “the old demon of division, nationalism, ‘ethnic’ thinking, and authoritarian rule.”

Batzing adds that because “terrifying anti-Semitism is widespread, even here in Germany,” students of history must take a strong stand against such beliefs. “This applies without ifs and buts to the church,” he says, “which is committed to the gospel of peace and justice.”

An advocate of reforms in the Catholic Church, Batzing says believers need to stand “against racism and agitation” and also maintain dialogue “with our Jewish brothers and sisters in faith.”

Russell Moore: Leading Well Through Election 2016

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Russell Moore is President of the Ethics & Religious Liberty Commission of the Southern Baptist Convention, the moral concerns and public policy entity of the nation’s largest Protestant denomination. He is a frequent cultural commentator, an ethicist and theologian by background, and an ordained Southern Baptist minister. Moore is author of several books, including Onward: Engaging the Culture without Losing the Gospel.

Key Questions:

In the midst of a challenging and divisive election season, how can leaders lead their people well through this time?

Should Christians vote for the lesser of two evils when it comes to picking a political leader?

How should Christian leaders respond when we feel like our religious liberties are being taken away?

Do you feel we’ve lost sight of the priority of prayer in the midst of so much chatter on things like social media?

Are there specific things you’ve been praying for or verses you’ve been thinking about during this election season?

Key Quotes:

“Substituting politics for religion…is a temptation across the political spectrum in American life right now.”

“Any election that doesn’t have Jesus of Nazareth on the ballot is the lesser of two evils.”

“Sometimes what energizes Christians, is we don’t want to be offended. But we don’t have any right to expect not to be offended or not to be ridiculed.”

“We have to be people who are advocating for religious liberty, and not just for ourselves, but for everyone. If all Christians are doing is watching out whenever the religious liberty of Christians is being restricted, then that’s not religious liberty.”

“If I sit down and pray by name for people that disagree with me and maybe are, in my view, mistreating me, it sort of hems me in, I find, with the way that I relate to them.”

“Regardless of what happens in this election cycle and frankly whatever happens to United States of America, the kingdom of God is not dependent on that.”

Mentioned in the Show:

Onward: Engaging the Culture without Losing the Gospel
Dr. Russell Moore Reacts to the Supreme Court’s Decision on Same-Sex Marriage
Russell Moore Calls for Evangelicals to Dump Trump
Should Christians Vote for the Lesser of Two Evils?

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