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The Good Life: How Faith, Friends, and Finances Boost Happiness

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At the very foundation of existence is relationship. According to Christian belief, God, the creator of the universe, exists eternally in relationship within himself—the Trinity: Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. Humanity, created in God’s image, shares this inherently relational nature. We are not solitary beings; we thrive in connection with others.

Decades of scientific research support this truth, with perhaps the most compelling evidence coming from the Harvard Study of Adult Development, the longest-running longitudinal study of human well-being. It suggests that the greatest predictor of health and happiness is living in the context of high-quality relationships. Moreover, a study by Gallup found that people who fall into the “thriving” category spend about six to nine hours per day engaging socially. These interactions span both strong ties (close friends and family) and weak ties (colleagues, acquaintances, and even strangers).

Faith + Friends + Finances: The Happiness Equation

The formula for happiness is surprisingly simple: Faith + Friends + Finances = The Good Life.

Faith

Being a part of a faith community and practicing spirituality in alignment with personal convictions correlates with better health and happiness outcomes. Faith provides a sense of purpose, moral support, and often a community of like-minded individuals who provide emotional and spiritual upliftment.

Friends

Spending six to nine hours a day interacting with others is a key indicator of happiness. Strong social ties include close friends and family, but even interactions with weak ties—like a friendly chat with a neighbor or cashier—contribute to our overall well-being. Our happiness is deeply intertwined with the quality and frequency of our social interactions, regardless of how casual or intimate they might be.

Finances

Financial stability matters—but only up to a point. Achieving a stable income of around $75,000–$80,000 in household earnings is the threshold for financial comfort, where basic needs are met, and money is no longer a stressor. While additional wealth can improve self-evaluation of one’s life, it does not necessarily equate to increased happiness. For instance, lottery winners typically return to their original level of happiness within a year of their win. Beyond financial stability, it’s about faith and friends, not more funds.

The Importance of Social Fitness

It turns out that social fitness is just as vital as physical fitness. Loneliness has been found to be twice as unhealthy as obesity. Studies indicate that individuals with strong relationships have a 50% greater chance of surviving anything that comes their way.

Warm, connected relationships are key to happiness. The quality of our relationships at age 50 can predict our health and well-being at age 80. Social connectedness during adolescence is a better predictor of adult success than any other single factor.

The Pitfalls of Affective Forecasting and Comparison

Humans often struggle with “affective forecasting”—our ability to predict what will make us happy. We might avoid talking to strangers or casual acquaintances, assuming it will be uncomfortable or awkward, but research shows that such interactions actually boost our happiness.

Conversely, comparing ourselves to others often leads to discontent. Even positive comparisons, where we judge ourselves favorably, can be a source of unhappiness. Greed, envy, and discontent can arise from this habit, creating unrealistic benchmarks that do not reflect our individual path or needs. Comparison often makes us feel “off-time,” meaning we’re not hitting expected life milestones, which can lead to feelings of inadequacy.

Social Fitness as a Living System

Our social life functions as a living system, dynamically affecting our minds and bodies. Honest self-reflection is a critical first step in living a good life. Relationships impact the mind, which in turn affects the body, and vice versa. Therefore, just like our muscles need exercise, our social lives also need regular “workouts” to stay fit.

Bishop Mariann Edgar Budde’s Words to President Trump Continue Stirring Controversy

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More than a week after Bishop Mariann Edgar Budde asked President Donald Trump to show mercy on Americans, her comments remain a hot topic in Christian circles. Budde, the first female bishop of the Episcopal Diocese of Washington, spoke during a Jan. 21 interfaith prayer service at the Washington National Cathedral.

Budde said people are “scared” about Trump’s second term, specifically mentioning members of the LGBTQ community and immigrants. The president and vice president, in attendance with their families, were visibly displeased by the bishop’s comments.

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Afterward, Trump said, “I didn’t think it was a good service.” The president criticized Budde and her “nasty tone,” saying she owed the public an apology. In response, Budde said she would continue to pray for the president. Meanwhile, some Republican members of the U.S. House of Representatives submitted a resolution condemning the bishop’s Jan. 21 sermon.

Some Christian denominations have issued statements in support of Budde’s words. On Jan. 26, the Committee on Faith and Order of the United Methodist Church wrote that Budde “sought to ground national unity in honoring the inherent dignity of all, in honest conversation and humility.” In a letter, the committee’s chairperson, Bishop David A. Bard, praised Budde’s “prophetic voice for justice in a suffering and conflicted world,” which he said she “delivered with gentleness and respect.”

Sharing that letter on social media, the Rev. Benjamin Cremer wrote, “Thankful that the United Methodist Church publicly supports Bishop Budde and her sermon.” Cremer, a digital pastor based in Idaho, wrote on his blog about the “politics of mercy”:

My immediate thought when I saw the backlash was, “This is always what happens when you preach about the need for mercy to a people who worship power.” Especially mercy towards people many have already decided are evil and not worthy of love. People like our LGBT siblings and immigrant neighbors who have long been the target of disinformation, fear, and hateful rhetoric. An appeal to mercy for demonized groups challenges the narratives that demonize them.

Critics of Bishop Mariann Edgar Budde Speak Out

Joe Rigney, a fellow of theology at Doug Wilson’s New Saint Andrew’s College in Moscow, Idaho, criticized Budde’s “untethered empathy.” In a Jan. 25 opinion piece for World magazine, Rigney wrote that the bishop, “in the halting and syrupy tone of a schoolmarm,” offered “a clear example of the man-eating weed of Humanistic Mercy, untethered from what is true and good.”

Budde’s comments, Rigney added, remind Christians “of how destructive the feminist cancer is in the Church.” God made women more empathetic than men, he wrote, which is a “great blessing” in the home but “a curse…when it comes to upholding strict standards of justice.”

After citing numerous Bible passages regarding the submission of women, Rigney concluded that “the greatest evil…is conceived and supported…in grandiose cathedrals, by earnest women with rainbow robes and closely cropped haircuts who do not need to raise their voice.”

State Senator, SBC Pastor Dusty Deevers Announces Bill To Make All Pornography Illegal in Oklahoma

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Dusty Deevers preaching at Christian Heritage Academy on Nov. 05, 2024. Screengrab via YouTube / Christian Heritage Academy

Republican Oklahoma state senator and Southern Baptist Pastor Dusty Deevers introduced a bill to the Oklahoma state legislature that aims to increase punishments for child sex abuse material and seeks to abolish the use of pornography in the state entirely.

On Jan. 21, Deevers announced Bill SB593, titled “Increasing Penalties for Child Pornography and Prohibiting Pornography in Oklahoma.” If passed, the bill would “significantly heighten existing zero-to-20-year penalties for the possession, distribution, and production of child sexual assault material to 10-to-30 years.”

The bill also “includes a provision that any subsequent offense for child sexual assault material results in 15-50 years in prison,” Deevers said in a press release. “There is perhaps no more psychopathic and antisocial behavior in existence than producing, distributing, or watching child sexual abuse material.”

Deevers added, “These people should not be back on our streets after brief stints behind bars. Rather, they should be locked away for decades at a minimum.”

RELATED: State Senator and Pastor Dusty Deevers Mocked by Jimmy Fallon for Bill That Would Outlaw ‘Sexting’

The bill also aims to prohibit all use of pornography in the state and impose up to 10-year prison terms for “production, distribution, or possession.” In addition, if passed, Bill SB593 would increase jail time for those convicted of “organized pornography trafficking” to a maximum of to up 30 years.

“Pornography is both degenerate material and a highly addictive drug,” Deevers said. “It ruins marriages, ruins lives, destroys innocence, warps young people’s perception of the opposite sex, turns women into objects, turns men into objects, degrades human dignity, and corrodes the moral fabric of society.”

“Any decent society will stand against this plague with the full weight of the law,” he added.

Bill SB593 was one of eight new bills Deevers proposed that are “aimed at restoring moral sanity in Oklahoma.” Others bills the state senator announced included the following: SB456—”The Abolition of Abortion Act,” SB550—”Prohibiting Drag Performances for Children,” SB228—”The Covenant Marriage Act,” SB829—”Prohibiting No-Fault Divorce,” SB281—”The Make Adoption Affordable Again Act,” SB328—”The Promote Child Thriving Act,” and SB736—”Equal Tax Status for Health Share Ministries.”

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“Sadly,” Deevers said, “the left’s century-long assault on morality and decency has been so successful that some have come to accept as normal a society that is drowning in hardcore pornography, prenatal homicide, and sexual performances for children.”

Mastering Confrontation

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4 Process Strategies for Mastering Confrontation

As a leader dealing with confrontation regularly, it’s helpful to continuously gather tools and resources for practical help when confrontation arises. We know there is no one formula to use per conflict. With each team member comes new ways to process and new ways to address healthy confrontation.

These four process strategies can be added to your tool belt as you process the “how” behind confrontation.

1. Esteem

Hands down, you’ll receive the best results when dealing with confrontation in a way that esteems others. The lack of concern for this is like a gardener who neglects to prepare the soil before planting. There shouldn’t be any expectation for healthy growth in that environment.

Alternatively, a leader who expresses value for his or her team members will lay a good foundation to begin confrontational processes. These conversations, grounded in esteem, will contribute toward healthy dialogue, greater information reception, and positive change. Let’s look at the ways we can show esteem:

Timing

One way to show esteem is by being considerate of the timing of your confrontation. Are you bringing up an issue with other people present? Whether they need to hear or not, doing so can cause quick embarrassment in a way that shuts down healthy conversation. Are you bombarding the other party in a way that will only lead to walls being put up and an on-guard posture? Consider a healthy environment for your team member to be able to receive the conversation in a safe place and timing. You could relate this discernment as needing to be a good “weatherman.” Leadership coach John Maxwell expands on that by saying good leaders are “able to read the atmosphere…Don’t let a great idea get rained on because you picked the wrong day to introduce it!”

Expressed Value

Each of us has a desire for justice rooted inside of us. And justice takes on different shapes. It’s that desire to make situations right or fair, a need to even the playing field. The negative extremes can include revenge or the desire to punish cloaked in a posture of being one who cares. However the need for justice shows up in our lives, we must root our confrontations in value for others. This is biblical. And it comes in the form of a blend of grace and truth. Jesus modeled the perfect way to reflect grace and truth. These three principles can help you as you navigate:

  • Truth spoken without grace can be cruel.
  • Grace dispensed without truth can be misleading.
  • Either truth or grace without demonstrating esteem can be potentially manipulative or controlling.

2. Discretion 

You’ve probably experienced a number of opinions on who should be included in what conversations. People enjoy information. But the danger is our motives are not always aligned with the heart of God. Information can lead to gossip. People can be hurt by learning too much information they did not need to hear. The facilitation of conversations depends on a discerning leader relying on the Holy Spirit to bring wisdom in conversation and confrontation.

And before we move forward, it’s important to do a heart check in our own lives as we bear the weight of information. Doing so can lead to pride and foolishness as we overshare. The word candor conveys the idea of honesty and forthrightness. However, being candid also allows us to be reserved and discerning about the extent of information we share.

You might have heard the term silent lying. Silent lying is the refusal to tell others what they need to know to improve the relationship or situation, when doing so really does matter. It is an acquiescent silence. So we see here that silent lying is a passive act, while discretion is active in mastering confrontation.

‘Heartbreaking’—Pastor Addresses Response to Clip of Baptism He Stopped After Man’s Shocking ‘Jesus’ Claim

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A clip of a man who said, “I am Jesus Christ,” right before a pastor was about to baptize him is generating some discussion online. Pastor David Whitmore, who stopped the baptism after hearing the man’s shocking claim, told ChurchLeaders he hopes the video will help pastors “be prepared in season and out of season.” Whitmore also expressed dismay at the behavior he has observed from Christians online.

“I’ve been thinking about this and praying about this for the last few days,” said Whitmore in a phone call on Jan. 29, referring to the disunity among Christians he perceives in online posts.

“That’s probably the biggest thing that weighs on me,” he said, “is, how many times do we scroll on Instagram, Facebook reels, whatever…and all of a sudden, our judgmental flesh comes in and we start thinking derogatory of a situation without knowing the context?”

The pastor shared that he does not care what people think of how he handled the baptism, which occurred one-and-a-half to two years ago, but said he finds it “heartbreaking” that people would post their opinions without even trying to understand the situation. 

‘I Am Jesus Christ,’ Says Man About To Be Baptized

A video clip posted by polemical news site Protestia shows Whitmore preparing to baptize a man during a church service. Whitmore is the pastor of Catalyst Church in Evansville, Indiana. Contrary to what some who saw the video assumed, Whitmore had known the man, whom he described as a “unique individual,” for a while prior to the baptism. 

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The man had been exploring faith and eventually approached Whitmore, telling the pastor that he was ready to be baptized. The pastor went through the gospel with him, as he does with everyone who wants to be baptized, and the man gave accurate answers about the identity of Jesus.

When it came time for the actual baptism, as Whitmore prepared to baptize the man, the pastor asked him, “Have you placed your faith and trust in Jesus Christ as the Lord and Savior?” The man replied, “I am Jesus Christ.”

“What?” Whitmore said.

“I’m back, boys,” said the man. 

“Huh?” said the pastor, who then addressed the man by name and asked him again, “Have you placed your faith and trust in Jesus Christ as the Lord and Savior?”

The man responded by denying that he was himself. At that point, Whitmore decided to stop the baptism because the man had some “theological things that he’s dealing with.” 

Calvin Robinson Defrocked for Making Gesture Resembling Nazi Salute

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Anglican cleric and conservative political commentator Calvin Robinson has had his ordination revoked following an incident in which he jokingly mimicked a Nazi salute to a crowd at a pro-life event. 

Robinson had been ordained in the Anglican Catholic Church (ACC), a denomination in the continuing Anglican movement, which is separate from the Anglican Communion. He is also a regularly featured speaker at Turning Point U.S.A. events, including its Pastor Summit.

Robinson made the offensive gesture at the conclusion of an address he recently gave at the National Pro-Life Summit in Washington, D.C.

“This I see as the last stand for the west,” Robinson said, referring to the United States. “The whole of the old world is crumbling. Every country in Europe is embracing death. America, as far as I can see, is the only country fighting for life.”

Gesturing toward the audience, Robinson continued, “And that’s down to you guys. So God bless all of you for what you’re doing. Please keep doing it.”

“I hope that I can encourage you,” Robinson said, before putting his hand to his chest. Then extending his arm upward with a straightened hand, he added, “And my heart goes out to you.”

Robinson’s gesture was met with scattered laughter and then applause as he exited the stage. 

Elon Musk’s Questionable Gesture Stirs Online Discussion

Robinson’s actions were a reference to those of tech mogul Elon Musk, who was accused of performing a Nazi salute to a crowd of Trump supporters following the presidential inauguration last week. 

Musk said that he was sending his heart out to the crowd, and he twice put his hand to his chest before extending it out in an upward motion.

In the days that followed, Musk was subject to harsh criticism, and many speculated about whether the gesture was an intentional allusion to the infamous salute used by the German Nazi party. 

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In the midst of the controversy, online influencer Andrew Tate suggested that conservatives should embrace the Nazi salute as an act of defiance against political correctness.

Renewed and Transformed by the Gospel With Kyla Gillespie

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In this episode of “Transforming the Church,” Pastor Derwin Gray dives into a conversation with Kyla Gillespie to hear her powerful story and the complexities of grappling with her sexual identity.

With Federal Funds Stopped, Local Faith Groups Plan To Redouble Private Efforts To Settle Refugees

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Lutheran Services Carolinas outreach coordinator supervisor Sarah Lewis, center, teaches an English class for recently arrived refugees, April 11, 2024, in Columbia, S.C. (AP Photo/Erik Verduzco, File)

PITTSBURGH (RNS) — The Jewish community here is haunted by the specter of the 2018 Tree of Life synagogue shooting, when a gunman killed 11 worshipers in deranged retribution against HIAS, a Jewish refugee aid agency, for bringing “invaders that kill our people.”

But congregations have never stopped helping to resettle refugees, and Jewish leaders vow their work will continue despite President Donald Trump’s order ending federal funding for it. “This work doesn’t change just because any president was elected,” said Rabbi Daniel Fellman, senior rabbi at Temple Sinai, a Reform congregation just a mile from the Tree of Life synagogue. “So we’re going to do everything we can to help people.”

But Trump’s order has left Temple Sinai and its partners scrambling to determine exactly how their refugee assistance program will be impacted. The temple’s volunteers will still look for deals on used furniture listed on local Facebook groups, and the order won’t keep the volunteers from offering newcomers help in deciphering the postal system, operating washing machines or navigating public transit. Federal funding, however, is indispensable to meet basic needs such as rent.

RELATED: Trump’s Executive Order Harms Persecuted Christians, Argues World Relief 

HIAS, formerly the Hebrew Immigrant Aid Society, was closing for Shabbat on Friday (Jan. 24) when a notice from the State Department arrived by email, instructing the agency to halt all services funded by the U.S., including to refugees who already arrived. An earlier executive order had already barred new arrivals of refugees for 90 days.

HIAS is one of 10 national resettlement agencies that are contracted with the State Department to process refugees and place them in communities across the country. These agencies, seven of which are faith-based, subcontract with local affiliates, allocating federal dollars to refugee resettlement. HIAS President Mark Hetfield said federal funding made up 60% of HIAS’ budget for this year.

In Pittsburgh, one local affiliate, Jewish Family and Community Services, has settled hundreds of refugees, coordinating airport pickups, finding housing, purchasing groceries and clothes and helping refugees open bank accounts, enroll in school and find jobs. JFCS Director of Refugee and Immigrant Services Ivonne Smith-Tapia said the government provided between $1,250 and $1,650 for each refugee, depending on need. The State Department also funded the staff positions at JFCS and training for the refugee clients.

Drew Barkley, center, meets with two resettled refugees at Temple Sinai in Pittsburgh, Jan. 28, 2025. (RNS photo/Kathryn Post)

JFCS has long supplemented federal money with private fundraising. In 2021, the group approached Temple Sinai and Pittsburgh’s Shadyside Presbyterian Church about becoming co-sponsors. Together, the two congregations formed a refugee resettlement committee that has since settled five families in the city, according to Drew Barkley, a Temple Sinai executive director and a member of the committee.

From Church Juice – Secrets of Great Church Websites

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Each year we at Church Juice create a list with some of our favorite church websites. After looking across the Internet for hours in search of great church websites, here is one conclusion: It’s now easier—and more cost effective—than ever to have a great looking church website. Despite that fact, the vast majority of church websites are in dire need of attention.

Website design is constantly changing. Technology evolves and design trends change. While this is not an exhaustive list, nor are the websites ranked in any order, we encourage you to use these great church websites as you look to update your own church website this year.

From Church Juice – Secrets of Great Church Websites

What you’ll notice in common among great church websites:

Large images and video. Every one of these church websites use large images or videos throughout their website. Imagery is important.

Current. Every website on our list is updated. You won’t find outdated events or information.

No rotating announcements. The day of the marquee image rotator is over. You’ll be hard-pressed to find any current website that uses rotating images to share announcements.

3 Signs of a Transformed Life

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As an example of signs of a transformed life, there is a man who is part of one of the Summit’s prison campuses and has been in prison for 14 years. All signs point to him being innocent, set up by others in power to take the fall for some shady dealings. When he was convicted, he lost everything—his livelihood, his life savings, his reputation, his wife. His story is heartbreaking.

“Still, I thank God for this,” he has shared. “Because before this happened, I thought I was God. So, God let this happen to show me I was not God, and in here, in prison, I found him. And I wouldn’t trade what I’ve found in God for all the freedom and all the riches in the world.”

Like this man, can you look back at your life and see how God wrote your story? You may discover a transformed life.

The Apostle Paul recognized God’s pursuit of and provision for him, even when he had made a living out of persecuting the church. Then, after he became a Christian, he was able to communicate how Jesus had transformed his life, and his witness is one of the most profound in Christian history.

In his letter to the Galatians, one of the ways Paul defended the gospel was by pointing to three ways he experienced Jesus in his personal life: the signs of a transformed life. While you probably haven’t seen a visible manifestation of the resurrected Jesus like Paul did, if you’ve really met Jesus, these things will be true of you, too.

3 Signs of a Transformed Life

1. “I see how God pursued me.”

When Paul talks about his conversion, he talks as if God was the one acting, and he, Paul, is the one being acted upon: “But when God, who from my mother’s womb set me apart and called me by his grace, was pleased to reveal his Son in me” (Galatians 1:15-16 CSB).

Someone who has had a genuine experience with Jesus usually feels less like it was a decision that he made and more like something that happened to him, less something that he took up and more something that took him up.

Every person I know who has walked with Jesus has admitted that when they look back, they recognize that God was the one at work in their salvation. They see how God was putting people into their lives, questions in their heart, and sometimes even painful experiences in their path—all to draw them to himself.

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God Is Love: Valentine’s Day Devotion for Sunday School

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God is love is the ultimate Valentine’s Day message! Use this lesson to remind Sunday school students how much their heavenly Father loves them.

For this Valentine’s Day devotion, kids dig into God’s sweet love for them. Then they offer their love in return!

God Is Love Devotion

Scripture: 1 John 4:7-12

You’ll need:

  • Bible
  • large bowl
  • individually wrapped candies
  • paper
  • pens

Valentine’s Day Lesson

First have kids wash their hands.

Say: On Valentine’s Day, we tell others how much we love and appreciate them. We might do this by sending our friends cards, giving people candy, or telling others how we feel about them. Let’s see what the Bible says about loving others.

Have kids form a circle. Pour the candies into a large bowl and place it in the center of the circle. Explain to kids that every time they hear the word love in the passage, they can take one piece of candy. But every time they hear the word not, everyone has to put one piece of candy back in the bowl.

Read aloud 1 John 4:7-12, pausing to allow kids time to take candy or put it back in the bowl. When you’re done reading, each child should have 10 candies.

Ask:

  • Put one piece of candy back, and tell about a time you needed God’s love.
  • Eat one of your candies, and tell how God has shown his love for you.
  • What do these Bible verses teach us about real love?

Writing Love Letters

Say: This Valentine’s Day, let’s practice loving God and loving others! God shows us his love in so many ways. Today, let’s create a Valentine’s Day card to tell God how we feel about him.

Youth Ministry Leader Burnout: Move From Exhaustion To Health

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Youth ministry leader burnout is unfortunately common. This calling brings challenges that can zap your joy. When ministry demands lead to burnout, everyone suffers.

The good news? You can take steps to prevent burnout and restore your overall health. Discover ways to avoid youth ministry leader burnout so you can serve joyfully and effectively.

Signs of Youth Ministry Leader Burnout

Burnout doesn’t happen overnight. It creeps in slowly as pressures accumulate. Common signs include:

  • Feeling constantly tired or exhausted, even after resting.
  • Losing enthusiasm for ministry tasks that once brought joy.
  • Struggling to focus or make decisions due to mental fatigue.
  • Experiencing heightened stress or irritability.
  • Neglecting personal relationships, self-care, or spiritual growth.

Prioritizing Self-Care

Youth pastors often feel guilty about taking time for themselves. They think ministry should always come first. But self-care isn’t selfish. It’s essential for long-term service. Jesus modeled the value of rest and solitude. He often withdrew to pray and recharge.

Take time to care for your:

  • Physical health—Ensure you get enough sleep.  stress. Maintain a healthy diet and exercise regularly. Physical well-being impacts mental health.
  • Spiritual health—Engage in daily Bible study and prayer. This isn’t lesson prep but personal connection with God. Attend services where you’re not leading. Then you can worship and be ministered to.
  • Emotional health—Find outside hobbies or interests. Such activities provide an outlet for stress. If emotional struggles become overwhelming, seek counseling.

The Need for Boundaries

To prevent youth ministry leader burnout, stick to clear boundaries. Ministry work can blur the lines. So carefully protect your time, energy, and personal life.

Set specific work hours. Then communicate those to staff, volunteers, youth, and congregants. Designate family or personal time. Avoid constantly checking emails or responding to texts outside of work hours. If needed, use an auto-reply feature.

You can’t do everything! Politely decline tasks that fall outside your priorities or capacity. Delegate to trusted volunteers or team members. This lightens your load while empowering others.

Schedule regular time with family and friends. Ministry should never come at the expense of relationships. Take at least one day off weekly to rest and recharge. Do something you enjoy, free from work-related obligations.

Manage Stress

Proactively managing stress is essential in youth ministry. After all, you dealing with teenagers, as well as church conflicts. Cast your anxieties on God through prayer (see 1 Peter 5:7). Read Scripture for peace and perspective. Journal to calm your mind.

Build a network of trusted mentors or other youth leaders. Share advice and encouragement. Talk to a senior pastor and seek support.

Use tools like calendars or apps to organize your schedule. Prioritize tasks. Plan ahead to avoid last-minute scrambles for events or lessons.

Delegate!

Many youth pastors try to do it all. While passion for ministry is commendable, overloading can lead to exhaustion. So recruit and train a team of volunteers to share the workload. Clearly define their roles and responsibilities. Trust your team to handle tasks without micromanaging. This not only eases your burden but strengthens the entire ministry.

Also engage parents as partners in ministry. Encourage them to assist with events, small groups, or admin tasks. Keep parents informed about ministry activities and goals.

Michael John Cusick: Escaping Spiritual Exhaustion

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If we’re feeling spiritually exhausted, as if there’s a disconnect between what we preach and teach about the abundant life in Christ and what we are currently experiencing, where do we turn? In this week’s conversation on FrontStage BackStage, host Jason Daye is joined by Michael John Cusick. Michael is the CEO and founder of Restoring the Soul, an intensive counseling ministry. He’s a licensed professional counselor and a spiritual director who served in vocational ministry for many years. Together, Michael and Jason explore the gap that ministry leaders often experience between what they believe about the divine love of God and what they experience in their own lives. Michael then provides a beautiful insight into the difference between being bad and being broken and how this understanding can impact your life, your relationship with Christ, your relationships with others, and your ministry.

FrontStage BackStage Podcast With Michael John Cusick

View the entire podcast here.

Keep Learning

Looking to dig more deeply into this topic and conversation? Every week we go the extra mile and create a free toolkit so you and your ministry team can dive deeper into the topic that is discussed. Find your Weekly Toolkit here… Love well, Live well, Lead well!

WATCH: This ‘Dad Is Crying’—Lecrae Reflects on ‘God’s Goodness’ After Daughter’s Baptism

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Award-winning musician and podcaster Lecrae seems to have done it all—on and off the stage. But this time, his daughter, Amaya, was the focus of friends and family as she “publicly declared her decision to follow Christ” and was baptized at their local church.

“I can’t change my baby girl’s heart—only God can,” said Lecrae.

Lecrae Is ‘Overcome With Emotion’ As Daughter Amaya Is Baptized

Christian rapper Lecrae and his wife, Darragh Moore, were married in their 20s and have three children together. Lecrae has been close with their daughter, Amaya, and invited her to be his guest at last year’s Grammy Awards. He was nominated for Best Contemporary Christian Music Album and Best Contemporary Christian Music Performance (along with Tasha Cobbs)—both of which he won that night.

“My daughter was a tiny little girl the last time I went to the Grammys and she couldn’t go,” he recalled. “As she’s become a young teen, she’s dreamed of going. Win or lose, I’m honored to still be here and to create a memory with my baby girl. God is the greatest.”

Filled with pride, this dad recently shared a video of Amaya’s recent baptism. The family gathered around to support Amaya’s decision at a baptism service at Eagles Nest Church in Roswell, Georgia.

“Today, my daughter publicly declared her decision to follow Christ, and it’s just now hitting me. I’m overwhelmed with emotion, (Dad is crying),” posted Lecrae.

Amaya received a certificate commemorating her decision and the event. She also proudly held up a sign saying, “I have decided,” for a photo with friends and family.

The rapper spent time “reflecting on God’s goodness and faithfulness.” He continued, “As parents, we long for our children’s physical well-being, but more than that, I’ve prayed for their hearts to know and love God.”

The hip-hop star has been open about his own struggles as he continues his walk with Christ. There was a season where he and his wife weren’t “gonna make it,” and he credits his mentor and friend Montell Jordan for speaking the truth in love.

Since that “darkest season,” Lecrae and his wife have since confessed, forgiven, and changed their everyday lives to reflect God’s design for marriage and life. This transformation has changed “the entire trajectory of our entire family,” he shared.

 

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‘I’m Scared To Be at the House’—Person Wearing Satanic Mask and Holding Bible Reference Terrorizes Texas Homeowner

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On the night of Jan. 18, residents of Carrollton, Texas, were left frightened after a person appeared on their doorstep wearing a satanic goat mask and holding a sign with Revelation 20:1-15 written on it.

The troubling encounter was captured by the homeowners’ Ring camera while they were out getting dinner. “My husband and I had gone out to dinner,” the homeowner told CBS News Texas. “And then we had stopped off at the store to pick up a Powerball ticket, and I was waiting in the car for him, and my ring notification went off.”

That is when the homeowner, who didn’t want to be identified, saw a masked person ringing her doorbell.

“I’m scared to leave the house. I’m scared to be at the house,” she said.

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Describing what she saw on her Ring camera, she said that the “person popped up on the video with that goat’s mask on, and they were approaching my door.” The sign the person was holding is “about the end times. It’s about judgment day.”

“I freaked out,” she added. “I mean, I was like, I couldn’t even think of anything.”

The homeowner quickly called the police to report the masked man, but he was no longer at the residence when law enforcement arrived. While a report was filed, police informed the homeowner that no crime was committed. Police are continuing to monitor the situation.

The Scripture reference on the masked person’s sign describes the defeat of Satan and eternal judgment. It reads:

And when the thousand years are ended, Satan will be released from his prison and will come out to deceive the nations that are at the four corners of the earth, Gog and Magog, to gather them for battle; their number is like the sand of the sea. And they marched up over the broad plain of the earth and surrounded the camp of the saints and the beloved city, but fire came down from heaven and consumed them, and the devil who had deceived them was thrown into the lake of fire and sulfur where the beast and the false prophet were, and they will be tormented day and night forever and ever. Then I saw a great white throne and him who was seated on it. From his presence earth and sky fled away, and no place was found for them. And I saw the dead, great and small, standing before the throne, and books were opened. Then another book was opened, which is the book of life. And the dead were judged by what was written in the books, according to what they had done. And the sea gave up the dead who were in it, Death and Hades gave up the dead who were in them, and they were judged, each one of them, according to what they had done. Then Death and Hades were thrown into the lake of fire. This is the second death, the lake of fire. And if anyone’s name was not found written in the book of life, he was thrown into the lake of fire.

Trump Signs Executive Order Ending Federal Support of Gender-Affirming Care for Minors; Evangelicals Celebrate

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On Tuesday (Jan. 28), President Donald Trump issued an executive order to restrict access to hormonal and surgical treatments for minors experiencing gender dysphoria. 

“Across the country today, medical professionals are maiming and sterilizing a growing number of impressionable children under the radical and false claim that adults can change a child’s sex through a series of irreversible medical interventions,” the order states. “This dangerous trend will be a stain on our Nation’s history, and it must end.”

“Countless children soon regret that they have been mutilated and begin to grasp the horrifying tragedy that they will never be able to conceive children of their own or nurture their children through breastfeeding,” the order continues. “Moreover, these vulnerable youths’ medical bills may rise throughout their lifetimes, as they are often trapped with lifelong medical complications, a losing war with their own bodies, and, tragically, sterilization.”

Therefore, the executive order stipulates that the federal government “will not fund, sponsor, promote, assist, or support the so-called ‘transition’ of a child from one sex to another, and it will rigorously enforce all laws that prohibit or limit these destructive and life-altering procedures.”

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The order applies to individuals under the age of 19 and includes the use of puberty blockers, hormone treatments, and surgical interventions. 

The order further directs the secretary of Health and Human Services to “take all appropriate actions to end the chemical and surgical mutilation of children, including regulatory and sub-regulatory actions, which may involve the following laws, programs, issues, or documents.”

It also directs the attorney general to review the enforcement of Section 116 of Title 18, United States Code, which prohibits female genital mutilation.

This order brings the United States into closer alignment with European countries, such as the United Kingdom, which restricts access to puberty blockers for minors experiencing gender dysphoria and promotes various therapeutic options in lieu of medical interventions.

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The order is being hailed as a victory among conservative groups and by evangelical leaders. 

Black Ministers Denounce Project 2025, Urge Collective Black Resistance

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(RNS) — On the day after President Donald Trump was reelected, the Rev. Joseph Evans, a Berkeley School of Theology professor, wondered, along with some of his colleagues: “What are we going to do now?”

The subsequent collaboration of more than two dozen Black ministers answered with a statement, “A Credo to Legatees of the Black Church Tradition,” urging those who were raised in or now run African American congregations to defy white Christian nationalism and take acts of resistance, including investing in Black banks, supporting Black businesses and providing scholarships to help students attend vocational schools and historically Black colleges and universities.

“We believe, Black people should return to the ecumenical Black Church tradition and renew fellowship with their brothers and sisters,” the document concludes, “to help fight and resist hegemonic practices which continue to endorse under-resourced public and private funding to abolish human poverty.”

The statement, dated Jan. 1 and published later in the month in the Black digital media outlet Reel Urban News, is a critique of Project 2025, a series of conservative proposals that some Black denominational leaders had worried could be solidified in a second Trump administration.

“Project 2025 is informed by white Christian Nationalism,” reads the statement, completed prior to its authors seeing some of the project’s proposals put in place through Trump’s first executive orders.

“We believe our Credo is inspired by the Spirit of the Lord: Therefore, our Credo is not a reaction to Project 2025. Instead, it is an ethical response to white Christian Nationalism.”

The Rev. Barbara Williams-Skinner, a coordinator of Faiths United to Save Democracy and the onetime executive director of the Congressional Black Caucus, is among the document’s supporters.

“I added my name to the Credo because it prophetically calls Black clergy back to the theology of moral resistance in the spirit of Frederick Douglass and many other righteous resisters to injustice and oppression like those inherent in Project 2025,” she told RNS in an email message. “Project 2025 is an all-out attack on over 60 years of civil rights protection of African American people in the U.S.”

In his first days back in office, Trump — whose name was mentioned only in a footnote of the ministers’ statement — signed executive orders that terminate DEI federal programs, offices and positions; urge private-sector entities to end DEI preferences; and revoke executive orders that supported affirmative action in treatment of government contractors and promoted diversity and inclusion in the federal workplace.

Time magazine reported on Friday (Jan. 24) that its analysis determined that close to two-thirds of Trump’s executive actions at that point reflected or partially reflected Project 2025 proposals.

In addition to critiquing Project 2025, the statement’s writers also questioned the practices and beliefs of white evangelicals.

“We believe, that many in the white evangelical church have committed irrefutable political, economic, and religious idolatry,” the Black ministers state. “White evangelicals are drunk on the religion of white Christian nationalism which does not find its footing in the gospel of Jesus of Nazareth which is to ‘proclaim good news to the poor.’”

6 Warning Signs of a Bad Pastor and Spiritual Abuse

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What are the signs of a bad pastor?

Over the last year, I’ve read a number of books about incredible, powerful, visionary people who achieved incredible things, only to have everything fall apart due to their own self-destruction.

I’ve read sobering stories of bad pastors/spiritual abusers, deceitful business startup founders, and obsessive athletes. I’ve also witnessed the profoundly destructive power of bad pastors and spiritual abuse first hand.

What struck me as I read these books was that in both the “secular” world and the church, destructive leadership tends to look the same. In other words, the same things that caused Jimmy Bakker to implode also led to the downfall of Elizabeth Holmes and her company “Theranos” (once valued at $1 billion).

And Tiger Woods, though not necessarily a “leader” in the same sense as a pastor or CEO, imploded for many of the same reasons.

More and more, it’s critically important to be able to identify dangerous, destructive pastors BEFORE everything falls apart. Few things cause Christians to become disillusioned more than being ripped to pieces by a really bad pastor. Few things do more to sully the name of Jesus more than abusive spiritual leaders.

Here are six bright red warning signs of a bad pastor.

Warning Sign #1: A Bad Pastor Surrounds Himself With “Yes” People

Godly spiritual leadership is about helping people move from where they are to where God wants them to be. It’s a wonderful thing when a leader desires to see people going full-throttle for God.

Unfortunately, what often happens is that pastors and spiritual leaders conflate God’s plans with their own plans. What often starts as good and godly ambitions can curdle into spoiled, selfish ambitions.

They say they want to gather thousands of people and create massive movements and do giant things “for God.” In reality, it’s more about creating something that will shine the white-hot spotlight on them instead of God (even though they might not recognize it as such).

The problem with this (apart from the obvious pride and glory stealing), is that creating massive movements requires massive amounts of momentum. To generate momentum, everyone has to be on board, eager to make the pastor’s vision a reality.

Those who challenge the pastor and the vision only slow things down, making it really difficult to pick up speed and achieve the “big things.”

And so one of the signs of a bad pastor and abusive spiritual leaders are that they surround themselves with people who always say, “Yes.” The inner circle—those closest—will support every decision the pastor makes, no matter how destructive or ludicrous.

A Detailed Revival History in America

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This is an historic image of a scene from the Welsh Revival of 1904-1905. Wikimedia Commons

America has a deep, rich revival history. In describing what happened in Jonathan Edward’s Northampton, Mass., church in 1734, observers said, “It pleased God ..to display his free and sovereign mercy in the conversion of a great multitude of souls in a short space of time, turning them from a formal, cold and careless profession of Christianity, to the lively exercise of every Christian grace, and the powerful practice of our holy religion.” [1] That’s about as clear a definition as we’ll ever get! In revival history, God supernaturally transforms believers and nonbelievers in a church, locale, region, nation or the world through sudden, intense enthusiasm for Christianity.2 People sense the presence of God powerfully; conviction, despair, contrition, repentance and prayer come easily; people thirst for God’s word; many authentic conversions occur and backsliders are renewed.

Revival and awakening are, generally, synonyms. The larger the geography a revival covers, the greater the tendency to call it an awakening.

Revival History in America: A Well-Travelled Road

The Great Awakening, 1734-43. In December 1734, the first revival of historic significance broke out in Northampton, Mass., where a young Jonathan Edwards was pastor. After months of fruitless labor, he reported five or six people converted—one a young woman. He wrote, “[She] had been one of the greatest company-keepers in the whole town.”3 He feared her conversion would douse the flame, but quite the opposite took place. Three hundred souls converted in six months—in a town of only 1,100 people!4 The news spread like wildfire, and similar revivals broke out in over 100 towns.5 Starting in Philadelphia in 1739, George Whitfield’s dramatic preaching was like striking a match to the already-underway awakening. An estimated 80 percent of America’s 900,000 Colonists personally heard Whitfield preach.6,7 He became America’s first celebrity.8

The Second Great Awakening, 1800-1840. In 1800, only one in 15 of America’s population of 5,300,000 belonged to an evangelical church.9 Presbyterian minister James McGready presided over strange spiritual manifestations in Logan County, Ky. The resulting camp meeting revivals drew thousands from as far away as Ohio.10,11 Rev. Gardiner Spring reported that for the next 25 years not a single month passed without news of a revival somewhere.12 In 1824, Charles Finney began a career that would eventually convert 500,000 to Christ. An unparalleled 100,000 were converted in Rochester, N.Y., in 1831 alone—causing the revival to spread to 1,500 towns.13 By 1850 the nation’s population exploded fourfold to 23,000,000 people, but those connected to evangelical churches grew nearly tenfold from 7 percent to 13 percent of the population—from 350,000 to 3,000,000 church members!14

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The Businessmen’s Revival of 1857-1858. In 1857, the North Dutch Church in New York City hired a businessman, Jeremiah Lanphier, to be a lay missionary. He prayed, “Lord, what would you have me do?” Concerned by the anxious faces of businessmen on the streets of New York City, Lanphier decided to open the church at noon so businessmen could pray. The first meeting was set for September 23—three weeks before the Bank Panic of 1857. Six attended the first week, 20 the next, then 40, then they switched to daily meetings. Before long all the space was taken, and other churches also began to open up for businessmen’s prayer meetings.15 Revivals broke out everywhere in 1857, spreading throughout the United States and world. Sometimes called The Great Prayer Meeting Revival, an estimated 1,000,000 people were added to America’s church rolls, and as many as 1,000,000 of the 4,000,000 existing church members also converted.16

72 of the Cheesiest Christian Pick Up Lines You’ve Ever Heard

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Christian pick up lines are funny, awkward, cheesy, and if I ever hear my sons use them when they get older I’ll disown them in the blink of an eye! (Either that or use it on my wife and see if it works. LOL.)

Christian Pick Up Lines

Men…ladies…are you guilty of ever using lame Christian pick-up lines like these? Hilarious!

1. I would part the Red Sea for you.

2. Now I know why Solomon had 700 wives…because he never met you.

3. What are you doing for the rest of your afterlife?

4. Did you say your name was Esther? Oh, I guess I just think you were chosen for such a time as this.

5. Did it hurt when you fell from heaven?

6. Ten percent of me is 100 percent certain that I can give you 10 percent of my heart forever.

7. I feel like God’s telling me that you should go on a date with me.

8. For you, I would slay two Goliaths!

9. Let’s be like Noah and do this as a pair.

10. You must be Egyptian because I’m a slave for you.

11. The word says to ‘give drink to those who are thirsty, and feed the hungry’; so how about dinner tonight?

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