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State Lawmakers Push for Priests To Report Abuse Learned About in Confessional

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(RNS) — Catholic leaders are pushing back against efforts to alter state laws that exempt clergy from reporting child abuse they hear about during the sacrament of confession, arguing the changes will force priests to choose between the law and their faith.

Advocates for abuse survivors insist the changes are necessary, noting instances where abuse by a parishioner or even a cleric continued despite a priest learning about it during confession.

“It’s almost as though it is a pass for priests,” said Michael McDonnell, spokesperson for Survivors Network of those Abused by Priests. “We hope politicians in every state would be encouraged to produce some legislation that would further safeguard children from any unnecessary damage.”

The debate comes as lawmakers in at least three states — Vermont, Delaware and Washington — consider removing an exemption in mandatory reporter laws for what is often described as “clergy-penitent privilege.”

Similar to attorney-client privilege, it protects information discussed in a confidential pastoral conversation from being used in court, even if the information concerns child sex abuse.

Catholic authorities in each locality are lobbying to keep the carve-outs in place.

“Requiring clergy members to report child abuse learned during a penitential communication would infringe First Amendment rights of all Catholics in the state of Vermont, not just clergy,” Bishop Christopher Coyne of the Diocese of Burlington said in recent testimony before members of the Vermont state Senate.

The Diocese of Wilmington, in Delaware, in a statement published earlier this month described the seal of confession as “nonnegotiable.” The statement said breaking the seal of confession would “incur an automatic excommunication that could only be pardoned by the Pope himself.”

The sanctity of clergy-penitent privilege in the United States, which applies to Catholics as well as other religious groups, dates back to at least 1813, when the Court of General Sessions of the City of New York declined to force a priest to testify. It was later affirmed by then-U.S. Supreme Court Chief Justice Warren E. Burger, who insisted in a 1980 ruling that clergy-penitent privilege recognizes a “human need” for confidential conversations with a religious leader.

But more recently the principle has been challenged. In 2016 in a case in Louisiana, a 14-year-old said she had told her priest during confession that she was being abused by another parishioner. The priest allegedly didn’t report the abuse and encouraged the minor to move past it — even as the parishioner continued the abuse. When the minor’s family eventually sued, the diocese defended the priest, arguing he was exempted from reporting and could not be compelled to testify.

More recently, an Arizona judged ruled in August 2022 that The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints could not refuse to answer questions or turn over documents in a child abuse case under the state’s clergy-penitent privilege.

Former Liberty University Law School professor Basyle “Boz” Tchividjian has challenged faith leaders to rethink their own approach to such statutes.

Where Should Teens Look for Answers?

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Where do Christian teens go for answers? Sometimes it’s Google. After all, the average teenager would rather take medical advice from an article they found in an online search than from an actual doctor.

Other times—or maybe most times, if we’re realistic—they look to friends and peers. That’s why it matters so much which crowd they’re hanging out with.

But, for believers in Jesus—and for everyone on the planet, actually—the answers we search for reside in one place. It’s not in our own minds, in the opinions of others, or in a search engine, but in the timeless truth of God’s Word.

Like Jesus, the Word is fully human and fully divine. It was written by 40 men over the period of 1,500 years. These men had backgrounds that ranged from shepherd to warrior to judge to king to fisherman to tentmaker and more. Although most of the writers had never met each other, what they wrote is in complete harmony. The only way this could possibly happen if they were guided by a divine hand. And they were—by the hand of God Himself!

Also like Jesus, the Bible has no faults. It’s completely perfect and trustworthy!

No other book, friend, expert, or online resource comes even close to the reliability of Scripture. We must teach our teenagers to look to the Bible for answers to the biggest questions in life. Here are three reasons why:

1. The Bible Is Inspired.

No, not that kind of inspiration. There are tons of books out there that are “inspirational,” but only one that is truly inspired. That book is the Bible.

Here’s what 2 Timothy 3:16 has to say about it:

All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting, and training in righteousness.

The Greek word for inspiration means “breathed out.” When you speak, you “breathe out” words into the air. When God spoke, He breathed out words onto paper (or papyrus) through the pens of the men who wrote it.

What makes the Bible so uniquely divine and so divinely human is that each individual writer retained his own personality and writing style as he wrote. So, although each word is the Word of God, each word is from the pen of men.

How could this process of inspiration possibly happen? Peter, the fisherman/apostle explains it:

Above all, you must understand that no prophecy of Scripture came about by the prophet’s own interpretation of things. For prophecy never had its origin in the human will, but prophets, though human, spoke from God as they were carried along by the Holy Spirit. (2 Peter 1:20-21)

The Greek word translated “carried along” is the same Greek word used to describe a boat that has given way to the wind, to be carried wherever it carries it. In the same way, the wind of the Spirit carried the writers to exactly where He wanted them to be as they wrote.

The Word of God truly contains the words of God, but at the same time is fully human.

2. The Bible Is Inerrant.

This simply means that the Bible, in its original writings, was without errors. Every word penned was perfect.

True Worship: Sacrifice Your Self-Serving Agenda

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When Jesus engaged the Samaritan woman at the well, the conversation moved from the physical (thirst) to the spiritual (living water). She attempted to change the subject back to the physical of the where and how of worship, but Jesus turned the conversation again to her spiritual condition and the who of worship: “God is spirit, and it is necessary to worship God in spirit and truth” (John 4:24). Once the woman encountered and acknowledged Jesus, she joined his conversation instead of expecting him to join hers. This divine encounter inspired her to sacrifice the self-serving agenda that originally brought her to that place. She left her water pot and went into the city and said to the people, “Come and see a man who has told me everything I’ve done! Could this man be the Christ” (John 4:29)?

The result of the Samaritan woman’s worship response was, “Many Samaritans in that city believed in Jesus because of the woman’s word when she testified, ‘He told me everything I’ve ever done’” (John 4:39).

True Worship: Sacrifice Your Self-Serving Agenda

In the book of Romans, Paul focused on the divisions by which we segregate ourselves. In the twelfth chapter he wrote, “So, brothers and sisters, because of God’s mercies, I encourage you to present your bodies as a living sacrifice that is holy and pleasing to God. This is your appropriate priestly service” (Rom. 12:1). Sacrifice is surrendering for the sake of something or someone. It is the act of giving up, offering up, or letting go. A baseball bunt is a sacrifice for the sole purpose of advancing another runner. Executing this sacrifice is called laying down a bunt.

We go to great lengths and personal expense to make sure our children and grandchildren have the best clothes, schools, lessons, and coaches. We begin economizing and genericizing the moment they are born in order to save money and set it aside for the best of college educations. We surrender our own personal wants, preferences, and even needs so that they will have everything necessary for a successful future. In fact, most of us would literally give our own lives for our children and grandchildren because no sacrifice is too great—except maybe when we’re asked to sacrifice our worship music preferences.

Sacrificing your self-serving agenda often requires us to adjust generationally and relationally. Terry York and David Bolin wrote, “We have forgotten that what worship costs is more important than how worship comforts us or how it serves our agendas. If worship costs us nothing but is fashioned to comfort our needs and preferences, it may not be worship at all.” [Terry W. York and C. David Bolin, The Voice of Our Congregation: Seeking and Celebrating God’s Song for Us (Nashville: Abingdon, 2005), 112.]

Russell Wilson, Ciara Visit 300 Maximum Security Inmates; 27 Trust in Jesus

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Denver Broncos quarterback Russell Wilson and his wife, singer Ciara, recently visited 300 inmates at a maximum security prison, where they led worship and encouraged offenders with God’s Word. Wilson and Ciara partnered with God Behind Bars, who said that 27 men gave their lives to Christ after the couple’s visit.

“Lord there’s nothing better than YOU!!!” Wilson posted on his Instagram. “Over 300 Maximum Prison Inmates worshipping Jesus! His Grace and Spirit is overwhelming in the midst of mistakes He still loves and forgives.” In his caption, Wilson quoted John 3:17, which says, “For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him.”

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Russell Wilson, who had a disappointing year playing for the Broncos in 2022, is a Walter Payton NFL Man of the Year award-winner and is outspoken about his Christian faith. The facility Russell Wilson and Ciara visited was reportedly Everglades Correctional Institution in Miami, Florida. ChurchLeaders has reached out to the Florida Department of Corrections to confirm this information.

God Behind Bars partners with local churches and ministries to show offenders the love of God. In a Facebook reel posted March 9, God Behind Bars said, “27 incarcerated men gave their lives to Jesus inside of a maximum security prison. 300 incarcerated men filled the prison chapel to hear a word from @dangerusswilson. He opened the night in Isaiah, “Behold, I will do a new thing, Now it shall spring forth; Shall you not know it? I will even make a road in the wilderness And rivers in the desert.” – Isaiah 43:19. That is exactly what Jesus did in this prison.”

 

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The reel shows Wilson holding a Bible and encouraging the men that God is doing “a new thing.”

“After this moment,” the God Behind Bars post continues, “the prison chapel began to erupt in worship and praise. The voices of the incarcerated were so loud, it felt like it could be heard by the entire prison. In a place so easily filled with so much division, there was a moment where incarcerated men put their arms around each other and prayed for those struggling with anxiety and depression.” 

Ciara also spoke to the men. “You know what’s so beautiful about God’s love?” she asked. “He don’t let off. He don’t let off.” The singer said she loved God’s promise that “there’s no condemnation in Christ Jesus. So you ask for forgiveness, he will forgive you.” Moved with emotion, she said, “My heart is filled with joy.” 

God Behind Bars said that Ciara sang “Way Maker,” after which “men came to the front and wept, giving their lives to Jesus. Many of these men are serving life sentences in prison, but now they will be spending LIFE with Jesus. It is hard to put words into what happened but it was a night of UNITY, PRAISE, and SALVATION! We will never be the same! God is bringing revival to prisons! Jesus is doing a NEW THING.”

 

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Saddleback’s Andy Wood Explains Female Teaching Pastors Are Biblical, Female Elders Are Not

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On Friday (March 10), Saddleback Church lead pastor Andy Wood released a video  responding to the Southern Baptist Convention’s (SBC) recent determination that the denomination’s largest church is no longer “in friendly cooperation with the Convention.”

The determination came in light of Saddleback’s decision to allow women to function in the role of pastor, specifically Wood’s wife, Stacie, who serves as a teaching pastor at the church and regularly preaches during worship services.

In the unlisted YouTube video, Wood shared how the Saddleback Church elders came to the decision that permits women staffers to preach and serve in pastoral roles.

Saddleback Church previously raised the concerns of some SBC churches in March 2021 when they ordained three women pastors—a first in the church’s 40-plus year history.

Saddleback was in danger of being disfellowshipped last June at the SBC annual meeting in Anaheim, California, due to these ordinations. Instead, the SBC Credentials Committee recommended a committee be formed to study the usage of the title “pastor” in regard to female staffers.

RELATED: Rick Warren Shares With Russell Moore the Scriptures That Convinced Him Women Pastors Are Biblical

After some conversation on the convention floor, the Committee’s recommendation was rejected by the messengers. The Credentials Committee took no further action, which left Saddleback Church in “friendly cooperation” with the convention.

Later, a different complaint was submitted to the Credentials Committee by an SBC messenger after Stacie preached during a Saddleback Church worship service, thus leading to the SBC’s decision to disfellowship Saddleback last month.

Wood and his wife were announced as Warren’s successors on June 2, 2022.

“This afternoon, at our all-staff meeting held at the Lake Forest campus, I was finally able to publicly announce that we have found God’s couple to lead our congregation, and that they have agreed to come,” Warren said in a congregational email at the time.

On August 28, 2022, Warren delivered his final sermon as Saddleback Church’s pastor. A couple months later, Wood shared that the church had no plans to leave the SBC despite their continued allowance of women pastors, including his wife’s preaching.

“Stacie and I are grateful to be called to serve at Saddleback Church. We are not co-pastors but rather have unique roles on staff. I’m serving as the lead pastor and one of our Saddleback overseers while Stacie is serving as one of our teaching pastors,” Wood explained in a Baptist Press article.

Derek Carr, New Saints QB, Prioritizes Faith But Won’t ‘Throw Bibles at Everybody’

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At his introductory press conference with the New Orleans Saints on Saturday, veteran quarterback Derek Carr reiterated the importance of his faith and his desire to love and serve. Speaking to reporters March 11, Carr also opened up about his rocky split with the Las Vegas Raiders and his excitement about landing in the Crescent City.

Carr, a four-time Pro Bowler, spent nine seasons with the Raiders, who wanted to trade him to the Saints last month. Because Carr had a no-trade contract clause and had never been a free agent before, he balked when the Raiders let him speak to only one team.

But after the Raiders released him, Carr was so impressed by the Saints’ interest in him that he inked a four-year deal, worth a reported $150 million. He also praises the organization’s honesty, noting, “They didn’t try to make anything seem like it wasn’t.”

Derek Carr: ‘My Faith Is Number One’

While speaking at a Las Vegas church in January, Carr said he tries to avoid placing blame amid his complex exit from the Raiders. Instead, he wants to focus on forgiveness and peace. During his New Orleans press conference, Carr, 31, expressed “love and respect” for Raiders leadership.

He also pledged to give back to his new community. “We just try and always be open to that and what the Lord is saying to us on how to help,” Carr said about his service goals. “My faith is number one,” he added about his priorities. “That’ll never change no matter what, good or bad. And then my family and then football. And I love all three a lot.”

Carr’s family factored into his career move too. Although he sensed “so much love” in New Orleans, he wanted to be able to talk to more teams before inking a deal. “At the end of the day,” he said, “I wanted to be able to look my kids in the eye, look my wife in the eye, and know that I did everything in my power, I asked every question, I went through every process to make sure I tried to make the best decision for our family, for us together.”

Faith Factors Into Derek Carr’s Entire Life

As ChurchLeaders has reported, Carr grew up in a Christian home and solidified his faith in college, largely thanks to his wife, Heather. The father of four almost entered ministry full-time but says being in the NFL allows him to both preach and pray.

Jerry Falwell Jr. Sues Liberty University, Claiming He Is Owed $8.5M in Retirement Benefits

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Jerry Falwell Jr. is suing Liberty University in Lynchburg, Virginia, claiming that his former employer has withheld $8.5 million in retirement benefits that were previously promised to him. 

The son of the school’s founder and conservative activist Jerry Falwell Sr., Falwell has been credited with bringing Liberty University back from the brink of financial collapse while serving as its president from 2007 to 2020.

However, Falwell’s tenure at the school ended amid scandal and controversy in 2020 after Falwell posted an image to social media of himself alongside a woman with their pants unbuttoned and unzipped. The image was meant to be taken in jest, but many nevertheless found it troubling. 

After being placed on indefinite leave, Falwell and his wife, Becki, made a public statement that Becki had engaged in an extramarital affair and that their family was now being blackmailed. 

RELATED: Jerry Falwell Jr. Addresses ‘False Media Reports’ About Him Following Vanity Fair Profile

The next day, Reuters published a now-infamous article detailing the account of Giancarlo Granda, a former Miami Beach pool attendant who claimed that the Falwells had engaged in a lurid relationship with him, in which Falwell watched him and Becki have sex for his own pleasure. Granda also claimed that Falwell had used his money and influence to control him and keep him quiet. 

The Falwells vehemently deny the details of Granda’s account, though they admit that Becki did have an affair with Granda. 

Granda’s telling of the story was recently the subject of a Hulu documentary titled “God Forbid: The Sex Scandal That Brought Down a Dynasty.”

When Falwell resigned from Liberty University, it was announced that the two parties had settled on a $10 million severance package, because Falwell had not been formally accused of or admitted to wrongdoing. 

Since that time, Liberty and Falwell have volleyed various lawsuits. In October 2020, Falwell sued Liberty for allegedly damaging his reputation after the university launched an investigation into the school’s previous financial entanglements with Falwell’s personal real estate investments. While Falwell later dropped that suit, he later revived it in November 2021. 

RELATED: UPDATE: Jerry Falwell Jr. Cancels the ‘Real’ Liberty Graduation Party at Family Farm Due to Health Concerns

Liberty University sued Falwell in April 2021 for allegedly breaching his contract while working for the university, as well as violating his fiduciary duty. In the suit, the school claims that Falwell withheld information that would be damaging to the school’s reputation during severance negotiations, including his alleged problems with alcohol and the details of Becki’s affair with Granda.

How a Little-Known Editor Made God a Bestseller by Helping Americans Let Go of Religion

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(RNS) — Boston University religion professor Stephen Prothero doesn’t believe in fate. Or in divine providence.

But about a decade ago, the universe tapped him on the shoulder and gave him a job to do.

Prothero, who lives on Cape Cod, was at a Labor Day party when Judy Kaess, who lived nearby, asked him a favor. She’d inherited some old religion books from her father and wondered if he’d come by and look at them. By the time he’d arrived at Kaess’ house a few months later, she’d passed away of cancer. But her husband welcomed Prothero and led him to the family’s library.

Prothero thought he spend an hour looking at the books.

Ten years, later he’s still at it.

Those books — from legendary authors like Harry Emerson Fosdick, Dorothy Day, Howard Thurman, Albert Schweitzer, the Rev. Martin Luther King Jr and Bill Wilson, one of the co-founders of Alcoholics Anonymous — traced a history of American religion from the heyday of mainline Protestantism to the rise of the spiritual but not religious. The man who connected them all together was Eugene Exman, Kaess’ father and the longtime religion editor for Harper & Row, who had published them all.

Prothero knew he was on to something when he opened up a copy of “Strive Toward Freedom,” King’s 1958 account of the Montgomery bus boycott, and found a handwritten note from King’s wife, Coretta Scott King, thanking Exman for his help with the book. Then he found a similar note in a first edition of the Big Book of AA, this time from Wilson to Exman.

“Who is this guy that I’ve never heard of,” Prothero recalled thinking at the time.

Eugene Exman passed away in 1975. Photo courtesy of the Eugene Exman Estate

Eugene Exman passed away in 1975. Photo courtesy of the Eugene Exman Estate

That question sent Prothero on a search for Exman’s story and how the editor’s spiritual quest and knack for finding big ideas helped reshape religious publishing and American spirituality. He found the answers in a treasure trove of the Exman’s papers — stored in the family’s barn and file cabinets — including Christmas cards from Wilson and ethicist H. Richard Niebuhr, which Prothero rescued from a trash bag bound for the dump.

Those documents detailed Exman’s publishing career and his spiritual quests — which ranged from a boyhood encounter with God that haunted his life, to founding an ill-fated spiritual commune, to traveling to Africa to visit Schweitzer, to dropping LSD. Prothero tells that story in “God: The Bestseller,” due out March 14 from Harper One.

Prothero spoke with Religion News Service recently about the new book. This interview has been edited for clarity and length.

The book opens with the story of visiting the home of a neighbor and discovering what her father had left behind. When did you realize there was a book here?

When I first visited the house, I didn’t know why I was there. Usually, in a case like this, people want me to tell them what a collection of books like this is worth — and how to get rid of it. But Walter said, ‘No, no, no, we don’t want to sell the books. We want to give the books away.’ He said, ‘My wife has passed away recently. I’m worried that if I die, this stuff’s just going to end up in a yard sale.’

I started cataloging the books, and as I’m doing that, Walter keeps showing up with boxes, and I keep going through them. I got really curious.

It didn’t take long before I thought somebody’s got to write a book. And obviously, it was me. This was too perfect. I’m not really a providential or even a synchronicity person, but it felt kind of uncanny.

There Is One Thing Worse Than Being Lost

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Editor’s Note: This article is the fourth in a series exploring seven temptations of the western Church, based on Jeff Christopherson’s novel, “Once You See.”
(Read Part 1, Part 2, and Part 3.)

All of us at one time or another have been physically lost. Perhaps, momentarily as a child you absentmindedly wandered away from your parent’s sight. Do you remember those feelings? Anxiety. Dread. Panic. Do you recall the feelings of relief when your parents found you. Those are overwhelming and unforgettable moments.

I grew up near the vast forests and lakes of Northern Saskatchewan. It was a place where vacationing children frequently wandered away from their family’s campsites and found themselves in immediate danger. Nothing but disorienting miles of unending forest with few roads, landmarks, or positioning points of reference. Family searches quickly escalated to all-campers’ searches. With no quick resolution, massive search parties of neighbors, concerned citizens, and trained bloodhounds soon convened under the skilled coordination of forest rangers. It becomes a highly focused mission with one only one permissible outcome: find Johnny and bring him safely home. 

As a child, I was friends with a boy who spent multiple days in the forest all alone, lost. His only comfort in those terrifying days was the confidence that his mom and dad were in that same forest desperately searching for him. That hope gave him the courage to press on. He made a wise decision to stop trying to save himself, stay still, and wait for his parents’ rescue. And several frightening days later, rescue came.

Terrifying.

All of us will agree that being lost is a terribly distressing thing. But there is one thing that is actually worse. 

Being lost and knowing that nobody is looking for you.

Which leads us to the fourth temptation of the Western Church.

Passivism: The Temptation of Comfort

Searching for lost people is always difficult. It’s always inconvenient. And it’s always uncomfortable. It means that we abandon our lakeside vacation, and we begin to tromp over fallen trees and through creeks deep into an inhospitable mosquito riddled environment. 

But the thought of the lost one, and his or her loved ones, propels an army of weary, bug-bitten legs forward, step by difficult step. With full knowledge that the lost one has no navigational tools for self-rescue, the search party selflessly presses forward in their life-or-death search and rescue mission.

Would this metaphor accurately describe the North American Church? Or are our churches more often designed for the comfort and preferences of the lakeside loungers who prefer not to mess with mosquitos? 

“I prefer ancient, theologically rich hymns.” “I prefer rapturous worship.” “I prefer…” and we fill in the blanks with our sacred partialities. And we, as church leaders, in an effort to attract the profitable lakeside crowd, market our churches by connecting similar world-view preferences into a singular irresistible offering. And to ease our spiritual conscience by our overt neglecting of Jesus’ mission, we paint hollow sentiments on our church signs that unconvincingly say in a variety of ways that “Everybody is welcome.”

3 Reasons Your Sermons Should Be Shorter

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Among preachers, the issue of sermon length is an evergreen topic of debate. 

While many preachers try to keep their sermons to about a half hour, others contend that they simply cannot say everything that needs to be said about a Bible passage in less than 45 minutes to an hour. 

Others still, though smaller in number, are actually striving to make their sermons shorter and shorter. Having been both a preacher and a church attendee who has listened to countless sermons, I’m with this smaller number of people. 

What’s interesting about it is that when I was preaching every week, I could have sworn that my sermons absolutely needed to be longer, so that I could convey all the insights that I had gleaned from studying. Now that I spend more of my time listening to other people’s sermons, I’ve come to realize that this just isn’t the case. 

Here are at least three reasons why your sermons should be shorter. 

1. Long Sermons Aren’t Necessarily Deep Sermons.

Many preachers consider it a badge of honor that they can take a passage of only a few verses and stretch it out into a sermon that fills an entire hour. In some ways, it is a performative means by which they prove that they love the Bible more than other preachers.

After all, if you can speak about just a few verses for hours on end, then not only your devotion to the words of Scripture but your thorough study of them must be incalculable. 

To be sure, most preachers who deliver long sermons have spent many hours in study, and they do genuinely love the Bible. But the quality of a sermon is not measured by its length. It is measured by how effectively it conveys what the biblical author intended to say in a given passage. 

Oftentimes, when a preacher drones on too long, he says more than needs to be said about what the biblical author was seeking to convey, thereby obscuring the central truth of the passage. 

Certainly, the content of the Scripture passage needs to be well-explained, developed, illustrated, applied, and reiterated. This takes time. But if a sermon gets beyond a certain length, what is certain is that at least some of what the preacher said was tangential and could have been edited out.

Even still, many of those listening to a long, unwieldy sermon often conclude that the message was “deep,” but that is actually mostly because they didn’t walk away with a clear picture of the text. They didn’t understand it, so it must have been deep. But it wasn’t deep. It was just unclear.

2. If You Give People Too Much Information, They’ll Apply None of It to Their Lives.

This point is related to the last one, but it’s important to note that the function of a sermon is different from that of a Bible commentary. 

How the Church Has Failed Single People (And What to Do About It)

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Within the American evangelical tradition, marriage has always been a high priority—a life stage every Christian should certainly strive to reach. The expectation placed upon young women and man can be subtle and indirect or overt and demonstrative, but at the end of the day it’s clear: they should marry, and soon.

At 27, I married “late” by the standards of my parents’ generation. So I personally experienced the indirect comments from the older women passing me on my way into church service. They often led with a compliment of sorts: “Mija, you’re too pretty to still be single.” Some were more direct: “You keep praying for the Lord to bring your Boaz. I’m sure he has a wonderful husband lined up for you, but don’t stop praying.”

I was even given books about praying for my future husband—which I hesitate to admit, considering I wrote a devotional about prayer for your future husband. (Please don’t give a copy to a single person you merely hope gets married one day soon.)

As much as the commonly held expectation for people to marry is forced upon Christians, demographical shifts are showing that there is a widening gap between the expectation and the reality. Oftentimes, we envision a single person as someone who is young and still searching for a partner. Not only are these assumptions overly narrow and often insulting to single people, but they are no longer true for a large number of people in our churches. Based on recent studies, over 40% of Christians in America are single and between the ages of 30 to 49.

It’s time we start correcting our own assumptions about singleness. Society has gotten better about not making single people feel like outcasts. This is a mentality shift we need to adopt in the church as well.

I genuinely believe that most of us don’t intentionally make single people feel this way, but the language we use and systems we put in place speak volumes.

Changing Systems Within the Church

A great way to not isolate single people is by beginning to think of them as a large demographic within your congregation, rather than a small group of people going through a short or transitional phase of life.

There are any number of reasons a person can be single, whether it’s an active choice for them or not. Some people within our churches are single due to divorce, the death of a spouse, wanting to be married but not having found the right person, or choosing singleness as their preference. The reason a person is single shouldn’t change the effort or intention we put into making them feel like they belong.

And we do need to start being intentional about making them feel included.

Oftentimes, we don’t even realize all the ways we alienate the single people in our midst. For example, sermon illustrations from preachers often stick to general categories like married, young adults, students, or parents. A single person might not fit into any of these categories, so leaders and teachers need to be aware of the large segment within their congregation that will often feel isolated because they simply aren’t thought about in sermons or Bible studies.

We should also think more intentionally about the small groups offered by our churches. Small group offerings are often categorized by marriage, parenting, and young adult groups. But again, single people between the ages of 30 and 49 don’t fit into these life categories.

6 Ways To Pray When It Doesn’t Seem Like It’s Working

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You know God loves you.
You know He answers prayer.
You know your eternal destiny is secured.

But have you ever secretly, quietly, wondered, “God are you with me right now?”

Intellectually, biblically, you know He is, but in the quiet of the night, it might not always feel that way.

At times that is the life of a leader.

  • Perhaps you have someone you care about in the hospital.
  • Maybe you are concerned about the stability of your church this fall.
  • You might be troubled about where we are as a country.

Your personal stress levels are rising.

You carry responsibility, you care, and you pray!

Yet, at times it may seem like your prayers hit a wall.
They don’t seem to be working.

Are they getting through?
Are you praying the right things?

You wonder what God has in mind.

That’s natural, but here’s the danger.

When you wonder if your prayers are actually working, the enemy has you right where he wants you. Discouraged and maybe even ready to surrender your passion and love for ministry. Keep praying!

When things aren’t going well, that’s the time (now more than ever) not to surrender. Keep praying.

Don’t Forget Tech Safeguards When You Travel

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Travel has now reached pre-pandemic levels, so what are the tech safeguards we should keep in mind? But still: threats abound!

The usual suspects did use the pandemic as “time off.” They continued to write emails and use other methods to try to get people’s credentials so they can steal as much as possible—all the way up to and including our identities! In fact, as I wrote this paragraph, I received another email inviting me into a relationship that would have my harm as its goal.

We all know about SPAM threats, and websites that may have been compromised (injected with malware because they did not keep up with their security patches, etc). But new threats are coming at us all the time!

For instance, I learned a few months ago about ‘juice-jacking’: compromised USB port charging stations! These have actually been around since 2011, but are growing in number. Whether in airports, at hotels, and so on, public USB charging stations can be easily hijacked to facilitate file transfers and malware transfers.

In addition, many public WiFi systems have not been configured to block the ability of others on the same system to read your WiFi data transfers.

And then there are the one-off attempts to get us to wire money or buy Amazon or Apple gift cards and text them the codes on the gift cards. Those cannot be stopped, by the way; they are one-off attacks built from focusing on your organization. The bad guy studies the staff structure on our website, and emails us to get a sample of our email signature. Then they use all that against us—only us. Unpreventable.

Tech Safeguards For Travel

Computer Best Practices

I use a Mac, which is as vulnerable to most kinds of attacks as Windows systems. The reason is that most of today’s attacks easily transfer to other systems. So, when I attach to my organization’s data, if I have a malware that is written to only exploit Windows systems, it may transfer from my Mac to other systems via our shared data storage.

Sleepy Chicken TikTok Trend: Warn Teens About Dangerous Recipes

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Have you heard of the sleepy chicken TikTok trend? No, it’s not a wacky dance move. Instead, it’s an icky-sounding recipe that recently went viral. Although questions remain about how many kids are actually concocting or sampling so-called sleepy chicken, its existence alone is dangerous.

So warn impressionable teens about the dangers of such trends. Teach kids to use discretion on social media and to avoid peer pressure in all forms. And share this information with parents to keep them in the loop about teen culture.

In a nutshell, the sleepy chicken TikTok trend involves cooking raw chicken with NyQuil cold medicine. That leads to an odd-colored result that, when ingested, makes people tired. Abusing medication this way isn’t a laughing matter. In fact, the Food & Drug Administration (FDA) and the maker of NyQuil have issued warnings about sleepy chicken.

Resources About the Sleepy Chicken TikTok Trend

Check out these websites to learn more about sleepy chicken. Use TikTok challenges to discuss issues such as making good decisions, selecting good friends, building up one another, and resisting temptations.

1. Disgusting & Dangerous

Because NyQuil is a sedating antihistamine, it causes drowsiness. Doctors warn against abusing the over-the-counter medication. Dr. Aaron Hartman says, “When you cook cough medicine like NyQuil, you boil off the water and alcohol in it, leaving the chicken saturated with a super-concentrated amount of drugs in the meat. If you ate one of those cutlets completely cooked, it’d be as if you’re actually consuming a quarter to half a bottle of NyQuil.”

2. Vapors Alone Could Be Toxic

According to the FDA: “Boiling a medication can make it much more concentrated and change its properties in other ways. Even if you don’t eat the chicken, inhaling the medication’s vapors while cooking could cause high levels of the drugs to enter your body. It could also hurt your lungs.”

3. Take as Directed

NyQuil’s maker also has issued warnings against misusing its product. Viral trends tend to reappear down the road, so it’s important for teens to heed all precautions.

Tim Keller Asks for Prayer in Health Update: ‘New Tumors Have Developed’

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Tim Keller looks at the book of Deuteronomy in the fifth episode of the Gospel in Life series. Screenshot from YouTube / @Gospel in Life

Author and pastor Dr. Timothy Keller has posted an update on his battle with cancer, asking for prayers for the latest strategy he is taking to combat it. New tumors have developed, says Keller, so he will be repeating the immunotherapy he endured last year. 

“Dear Praying Friends,” said Keller in a post to his social media Sunday morning. “I will shortly be returning to the National Cancer Institute in Bethesda, MD in order to spend April doing a variation of the immunotherapy that I received last June. It was successful in eradicating 99% of the tumors. However, new tumors have developed. They are unfortunately in some fairly inconvenient places, so the doctors encouraged us to go through the treatment again, this time targeting a different genetic marker of the cancer.”

Dr. Timothy Keller: Immunotherapy ‘Was Fairly Brutal’

Dr. Timothy Keller is the founding pastor of Redeemer Presbyterian Church in New York City. In June 2020, he announced he had been diagnosed with pancreatic cancer. Keller started chemotherapy, which had encouraging results, he reported in August. In November of that year, Keller shared that the chemotherapy was continuing to have promising results and that he was tolerating it well.

Keller had surgery in May 2021 to remove some nodules, and his update shortly afterward was hopeful. However, in September 2021, Keller said that due to a “mysterious lump” that turned out to be cancerous, his doctor was increasing his chemotherapy.

In May 2022, Keller celebrated the two-year anniversary of his diagnosis, expressing gratitude that the chemotherapy had helped reduce his Stage IV cancer and that “God has seen it fit to give me more time.” He continued, “However, we are also moving onto an immunotherapy trial at the National Cancer Center in Bethesda, MD as of June 1, 2022. This has shown great promise in potentially curing cancer, though it is a rigorous and demanding month-long program (that will need updates up to 6 months).”

While that treatment was highly successful, it did lead to a scare that was serious enough to prompt Keller’s son, Michael, to ask on June 14 for prayers for his father, who was dealing with side effects from the treatment. Three days later, Michael posted an update, saying, “Thank you for your prayers this past week. Things were scary for a bit but God was gracious, working through your prayers and the skill of the doctors, and now he is doing much better. He is due to be released from the hospital.”

Keller has stated that his battle with cancer has had a dramatic impact on his spiritual life, as well as that of his wife, Kathy. “We never want to go back spiritually where we were before the cancer diagnosis,” he said. “We never want to go back to that.”

Dealing with cancer, said Keller, has caused him to depend on God as he never has before: “He really is there. He is enough. I’m actually happier than I’ve ever been on a given day…I enjoy my prayer life more than I ever have in my life.”

Jackie Hill Perry: ‘Older Women, We Need You. We Need Your Wisdom.’

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Jackie Hill Perry explains the purpose of Glory 2023. Screenshot from YouTube / @Lifeway Women

As part of a recent Glory Event, Jackie Hill Perry posted a short video calling out older women and pleading for them to speak into the lives of younger women.

“You. You got all this wisdom. All this life experience and Scripture. And yet, you sit and be silent,” Perry challenges.

Jackie Hill Perry Calls on ‘Older Women’

The Facebook video summarizes Jackie Hill Perry’s words: “Older Saints, older women, we need you. We need your wisdom. We need your experience. We need your nurture. Your direction. We need YOU. So take my challenge as a plea… for you to stand in the call of Titus 2:3-5.” That passage says:
Older women likewise are to be reverent in behavior, not slanderers or slaves to much wine. They are to teach what is good, and so train the young women to love their husbands and children, to be self-controlled, pure, working at home, kind, and submissive to their own husbands, that the word of God may not be reviled.
Perry‘s short, one-minute video includes “a challenge to the older women in the room.” She calls out older women and their biblical responsibility to the younger women in their lives. Perry continues, “Because, some of the younger women are where they are because you haven’t stepped up.”
“And, I know some of it is the enemy,” she explains. “The enemy is telling you that you are not sufficient for the work that God has called you to.”
Perry understands that not all women are comfortable speaking into one another’s lives, and she addresses this directly. Instead of thinking you “gotta be cool or you gotta be relatable,” speak the truth in love. She says, “We don’t want you to be relatable because you can’t be. We want you to be righteous. We want you to be reverent. That’s all. That’s the only expectation we have of you.”

 

Young and Older Women React to Perry’s Plea

With thousands of reactions and hundreds of comments, Jackie Hill Perry’s video is creating quite a stir among believers. Comments include affirmations, defensiveness, and genuine conviction.

“We are here,” says one person. But the younger ones are not listening. They have their own agenda. They are on a ‘false hurrah!’. I’m seeing it everywhere. I’m 67. I’ve been in ministry for 30 years. However, I continue to pray and lift it all to the THRONE ROOM.”

“I think a lot of us don’t quite realize yet that we’re older,” says another. “I also think we never had anybody invest in us when we were young, so we’re not quite sure how to step into that role ourselves. The church has been failing in this area for a long time.”

“O, wow!” says one follower. “That’s exactly what I was talking about today with another older sister. That we’ve got to step up our game. Thank you for the confirmation, Jackie Hill Perry! Keep telling it like it is, woman of God!!!”

Another says, “I would LOVE an older Christian woman to come alongside me & mentor me. I’ve prayed for it, even asked specific women for it and been turned down. I decided the Holy Spirit will have to suffice until someone says yes”
“Amen, for the older Women of God in comments, please don’t give up,” says yet another. “I understand that as one may have rejected you but there are some still praying for you to show up. Don’t grow bitter or cold in your compassion, and on behalf of the ones too ignorant to understand – I apologize wholeheartedly and seek your forgiveness. They may not come back more but trust me they won’t ever forget that you warned them. I used to have a hard head myself. I love all of y’all and I thank God for you.”

Actor Rainn Wilson: ‘The Last of Us’ Typifies ‘Anti-Christian Bias in Hollywood’

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“The Office” star Rainn Wilson, a member of the Baha’i Faith, took to Twitter over the weekend to state what many people already suspect: Hollywood often targets Christians.

On Saturday, the actor known for portraying Dwight Schrute, tweeted: “I do think there is an anti-Christian bias in Hollywood. As soon as the David character in ‘The Last of Us’ started reading from the Bible I knew that he was going to be a horrific villain. Could there be a Bible-reading preacher on a show who is actually loving and kind?”

The Last of Us” is a post-pandemic, post-apocalyptic series based on the same-named video game. The first season of the HBO Max show, which features a group of survivalists, concluded March 12.

Hollywood’s Anti-Christian Bias Is Nothing New

By March 13, Rainn Wilson’s tweet about anti-Christian bias in Hollywood had received more than 44,000 likes. In the comments, someone describes the season-one finale of “The Last of Us” as a “slap in the face.”

Brittany Martinez, founder of EVIE Magazine, tweets: “As SOON as the pastor started reading from the Bible I knew he was going to be awful. I was like ‘watch that guy be David the creepy cannibal from the video game.’ And then it was David.” She notes that in the video game, “David wasn’t a pastor.”

Commenters also offer examples of positive or fair media portrayals of Christians. These include the Mel Gibson character in the movie “Signs,” the Denzel Washington character in the movie “The Book of Eli,” and Sheryl Lee Ralph’s character on the TV show “Abbott Elementary.”

“VeggieTales” creator and “Holy Post” podcast cohost Phil Vischer replies to Wilson: “The neighboring [Asian-American] pastor in ‘Baskets’ is genuinely kind and positive. Can’t remember if he ever reads the Bible onscreen, though. I think it’s largely assumed in coastal circles that pulling out a Bible is always an attempt to control others. Hence… villain.”

Twitter users say the anti-Christian phenomenon is nothing new. Worship leader Sean Feucht replies to Wilson: “We’ve all known this for a long long time Rainn.”

“Goes back to Mr. Collins in Austen’s ‘Pride & Prejudice,’” tweets Eric Conn, CEO of New Christendom Press. “The preacher man is nearly always portrayed in a negative light. Also true of Hollywood today.”

And Ed Stetzer, Outreach Magazine editor-in-chief and host of the Stetzer ChurchLeaders Podcast, tweets: “Indeed, making Christians the bad guy in the show is the norm, nowadays.”

‘Sinister Minister’ Is a Common Fictional Trope

Religious villains appear in many genres, including fiction by Stephen King. “Normal people doing normal things in their normal lives don’t make for riveting storytelling,” tweets Matthew C. Rogers about the common TV trope. “Writers generally use archetypes throughout their narratives, and the ‘Sinister Minister’ is one that many people can understand and identify.”

For FBI Legend J. Edgar Hoover, Christian Nationalism Was the Gospel Truth, Argues New Book

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J. Edgar Hoover in an undated FBI file photo. Photo courtesy of FBI/Wikipedia/Creative Commons

(RNS) — Lerone Martin’s new book began with a cup of coffee that led him to sue the FBI.

While working on a book about religious broadcasters, a colleague suggested over coffee that Martin, a religion scholar, research the FBI to see if they had any related files. At the time, the colleague, scholar William J. Maxwell, author of “F.B. EYES,” had been studying the FBI’s surveillance of Black writers. Perhaps the FBI had been keeping an eye on religious broadcasters as well.

Martin, then living in St. Louis, began filing Freedom of Information requests. Around the same time, he was also hearing from local pastors in St Louis who had been contacted by the FBI in the wake of the shooting of Michael Brown in Ferguson. The FBI, they told Martin, wanted to know what the pastors were going to do to calm protests in that city.

“That got me thinking,” said Martin. “This is not a surveillance story. This is a story of partnership.”

Martin began thinking about the kinds of pastors the FBI might want to partner with. Chief among them was the late evangelist Billy Graham, known for his crusades for Jesus and against communism and liberals.

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Lerone Martin. Photo by Andrew Brodhead/Stanford University

When Graham died in 2018, Martin asked for his FBI file. The Department of Justice said no. So, Martin sued in federal court and three years later settled with the FBI and got the files. He also obtained files on other Christian leaders and organizations, most notably more than a thousand pages of documents outlining the relationship between longtime FBI director J. Edgar Hoover and the editors of Christianity Today, the flagship publication of Graham’s evangelical movement.

What Martin, now an associate professor of religion at Stanford, found in those files was this: Hoover was perhaps the most influential Christian leader in America during his tenure in office, promoting a gospel of America as a Christian nation and labeling anyone who threatened the power of white Christian men as communists and a threat to God’s will.

“Hoover saw his politics as nothing more than an extension of his faith,” said Martin, author of “The Gospel of J. Edgar Hoover: How the FBI Aided and Abetted the Rise of White Christian Nationalism.“ “And because America is a Christian nation, the FBI is charged with defending and perpetuating that ideal.”

RELATED:   Old-school Christian nationalism’s avatar of racism, antisemitism and conspiracies

Unlike early Christian nationalists, like Father Charles Coughlin — a star of early broadcast radio — or Gerald L.K. Smith, longtime editor of “The Cross and the Flag,” Hoover had the institutional power and discipline to make his beliefs stick. And he had a gift for convincing conservative Christian leaders to join his crusade.

When the Nation magazine ran a series of articles critical of the FBI and Hoover, legendary Christianity Today editor Carl Henry rode to his aid, offering to run one of Hoover’s essays in the magazine. When the essay arrived, Henry was effusive in his praise.

Arizona Christian University Sues School District for Religious Discrimination

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(RNS) — For 11 years, dozens of education students at Arizona Christian University, a private school in Glendale, Arizona, have gained teaching experience thanks to a student teaching program with the local public school district.

But last month the board of the Washington Elementary School District, the largest in the state, serving more than 25,000 students in 33 schools, unanimously voted to terminate its relationship with Arizona Christian. The district’s five-member board said their decision was based on the university’s “strong” anti-LGBTQ stance.

But in a lawsuit filed by the university Thursday (March 9), Arizona Christian claims that the school district was motivated by anti-religious bias, charging that the district has violated the university’s constitutional rights as well as Arizona’s Free Exercise of Religion Act. The suit names the district’s board members as defendants as well as the district.

RELATED: Federal Court Dismisses LGBTQ Students’ Class-Action Discrimination Lawsuit

According to the lawsuit, the district has hired at least 17 Arizona Christian education students over the 11 years the program has been in operation. The suit claims the district has never made a complaint about an Arizona Christian student or alumnus.

“What happened here is students are losing out on opportunities, and they’re frankly being punished because of their religious beliefs,” Jake Reed, a lawyer with Alliance Defending Freedom, which is representing the university, told Religion News Service.

“Here the school district is only further hurting its own students by cutting off the stream of teachers who have consistently showed excellent service in the school district,” Reed said, noting that elementary schools across the U.S. are facing a teacher shortage.

In a statement made last week, district Board President Nikkie Gomez-Whaley argued that the decision wasn’t about religious discrimination.

“While we recognize the right of individuals to practice their faith, public schools are secular institutions. To that end, the board unanimously voted to discontinue its partnership with Arizona Christian University (ACU) whose policies do not align with our commitment to create a safe place for our LGBTQ+ students, staff, and community,” the statement said. “This is not a rejection of any particular faith as we remain open to partnering with faith-based organizations that share our commitment to equity & inclusion.”

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A local television station, ABC15, reported Thursday that more than two dozen staffers had resigned from the Washington Elementary School District but could not confirm why the staffers resigned.

At the February meeting, board members cited the school’s religious mission — including its desire to promote “biblically informed values” like “traditional sexual morality and lifelong marriage between one man and one woman,” as a reason to cut ties with the university.

“If we’re bringing people in whose mission … is to influence people to be biblically minded, how does that hold space for people of other faiths? How does that hold space for our members of the LGBT community?” asked board member Tamillia Valenzuela, who noted that three of the board members are members of the LGBTQ community.

“For me this is not a concern about Christianity,” Gomez-Whaley said at the February meeting. “For me my pause is … this particular institution’s strong anti-LGBTQ stance and their strong belief that you believe this to your core and you take it out into the world.”

The lawsuit states that the university believes in treating every person with love and respect, regardless of their beliefs or identity, and that it instructs its staff and students to “respect and abide by the policies of the school districts it cooperates with.”

It also says the district’s decision harms the school by forcing the university and its students to choose between its partnership with the district and its religious beliefs.

Linnea Lyding, dean of the Shelly Roden School of Education and the School of Arts, Science & Humanities at ACU, said in a press release that the university’s education students bring respect and kindness to the classroom: “We certainly hope we can continue our partnership with this district for the benefit of the elementary children in our community and for our student-teachers.”

This article originally appeared here.

7 Laws of Service in the Kingdom

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If we want to follow Jesus, we must know his Kingdom law. Consider the following verses:

“I am among you as one who serves” (Luke 22:27). “A disciple is not above his teacher or a slave above his master” (Luke 6:24). 

In the days following Hurricane Katrina, Rudy and Rose traveled to New Orleans to help. Unable to find a place to plug in, Rudy walked into the kitchen of Williams Boulevard Baptist Church and volunteered. That church was strategically situated next to the Highway Patrol headquarters, which was hosting hundreds of troopers from the nation as they protected the darkened city. The church had become a hotel for the troopers and the women of the congregation were serving three meals a day. They welcomed Rudy and assigned him to the garbage detail.

Not exactly what he had in mind.

Rudy had been pastoring a church in southern Canada. When he saw the suffering of our people on television—entire neighborhoods flooded, thousands homeless, people being rescued off rooftops—he resigned his church, sold his gun collection to fund the move, and he and Rose came to help.

Now, he ends up emptying garbage cans. By his own admission, Rudy was developing an attitude problem.

One day he was lifting a large bag of garbage into the dumpster. The kitchen workers had been told not to put liquid garbage into the bags, but evidently they didn’t get the message. Suddenly, as Rudy was lifting it up, the bag ripped and all kinds of kitchen leftovers poured down over him—gumbo, red beans and rice, gravy, grease, whatever.  

Rudy stood there drenched in garbage, crying like a baby.

“That’s when the Lord broke me,” he said later. “I told the Lord, ‘If you just want me to empty garbage cans, I’ll do it.’”  

That was a Thursday. That Saturday night late, a minister from that church woke him up. “Rudy, our pastor is sick. They tell me you are a preacher. Can you preach for us tomorrow morning?”

In time, Rudy became pastor of one of our churches. He turned the little congregation into a center for training teams to go down the river sharing the love of Christ with those whose lives had been upended.

The Lord gave Rudy and Rose French an unforgettable ministry to the victims of Hurricane Katrina. But it began with his “baptism of garbage,” if you will. 

How to Follow Jesus

You will be a servant.

You have no choice if you are to follow Jesus.

He characterized Himself as a Servant. The way to greatness in the Kingdom, He said, is through serving.

The Scriptures are saturated with teachings and examples and encouragement regarding servanthood.

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