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Creating Healing Spaces for Those Affected by Race-Based Trauma

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According to the Federal Bureau of Investigations (FBI) 2019 Hate Crime Statistics Report, data collected by 15,588 law enforcement agencies reported 7,314 hate crimes that involved 8,559 offenses. There were 8,552 victims of single-bias motivated incidents, of which 57.6% were a result of race/ethnicity/ancestry bias, 20.1% religion bias, and 16.7% sexual orientation bias. Of the 6,406 reported known offenders, 52.6% were White, 23.9% were Black or African-American, and the race was unknown in 14.6%. While the United States has made some progress toward improving race relations, racism, discrimination, and race-based trauma incidents continue to be problematic for people of color (Comas-Díaz, 2016).  

The American Psychiatric Association’s Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorder’s (DSM) definition for trauma is used by practitioners, researchers, and scholars in the mental health field to inform diagnosis, future research, and treatment. The most recent DSM (5th edition) expanded its definition of trauma from previous versions; however, it does not include in its criteria the types of stress (e.g., discrimination, racism, poverty) that create similar reactions experienced by those either directly exposed to a life-altering event or who witness an event or a combination of traumatic events (Carter et al., 2020; Carter, 2007).  

Racial discrimination is identified in the literature as a form of stress that may lead to traumatic reactions by those who experience a negative, race-based encounter (Carter et al., 2020; Carter, 2007). When a person experiences danger due to an actual or perceived experience of racial discrimination, it can lead to stress referred to in the literature as racial trauma or race-based stress (Comas-Díaz et al., 2019; Carter, 2007). Race-based stress is not limited to a personal experience. Observing a person from another ethnic minority group encounter racial discrimination can also trigger a stress response (Comas-Díaz et al., 2019; Carter 2007). According to clinical psychologists, Sabrina Liu and Sheila Modir (2020), secondary trauma may occur in communities of color following a national crisis event such as September 11, 2001, when innocent Middle Eastern Americans were unfairly treated.

Every ethnic minority group (EMG) in the United States has a story to tell and experiences to share concerning racism and discrimination. Compared to other EMGs in the United States, African-Americans by far have endured a longer history of racism and discrimination. Conversely, Asian-American and Hispanic immigrants have experienced challenges assimilating into the United States (Chou et al., 2012; Vega & Rumbant, 1991). Additional research is needed to better understand how these groups are subjected to racial discrimination and race-based stress. Understanding these differences will also help inform the best practices for creating healing spaces. Boston University professor, researcher, and clinical psychologist, Stefan Hofmann, and his colleagues, Tina Chou and Anu Asnaani (2012), conducted a study of the three largest communities of color in the United States: African-Americans, Asian-Americans, and Hispanics. The findings suggest that perceived racial discrimination led to an endorsement of major depressive disorder, panic disorder, agoraphobia, panic disorder with agoraphobia, post-traumatic stress disorder, and substance use disorders.  

As the incidents of negative race-based encounters rise and people of color report feeling anxious, angry, and/or depressed, creating healing spaces sensitive to the needs of those directly impacted by these encounters is desperately needed. According to the United States Department of Health and Human Services (2001), ethnic minorities tend to seek counseling services at lower rates than whites. Stigma, racism, lack of access to healthcare, unemployment, mistrust of the healthcare system, lack of transportation, and finances have all been identified as barriers to treatment (USDHHS, 2001). Speaking with a clergy member and a trusted elder in the community, religious coping and spirituality continue to be survival strategies used by people of color (Comas-Díaz, 2016; USDHHS, 2001). It is important to note that religion is as diverse as race, which means special attention should be taken when incorporating religion or spirituality in the healing process (Milstein et al., 2010). 

Serving Those Affected by Race-Based Trauma

As a mental health professional, clergy member, community leader, ministry leader, or teacher, you may or may not currently provide care, minister, or teach individuals affected by race-based trauma. However, as the United States becomes more diverse, there may come a time when you will need to hold space or minister to someone who has experienced race-based trauma. Alternatively, you may feel led to create a healing space via Zoom© for friends or co-workers.

‘God’s Not Done With Us’—Venue Church Pastor Tavner Smith Confirms Foreclosure Notice, but Says Church Will Not Shut Down

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After denying last week that Venue Church will be shutting down, lead pastor Tavner Smith confirmed Sunday that a bank has put a notice of foreclosure on the church’s building, located in Chattanooga, Tennessee. Smith said that church leaders nevertheless expect to retain the building and reiterated that Venue Church will not be closing.

“We’ve gone through a hard season, it’s been no lie, we’ve not hidden that,” said Smith before he began his sermon. “It’s been pretty public…We have had hard times and fallen on hard times and we’ve done our best, not just as a staff, but as a whole church. We’ve all come together.”

Tavner Smith Addresses Foreclosure Reports

Regardless of whether anyone has attempted to hide it, the “hard season” Tavner Smith alluded to has been difficult to conceal. In November 2021, Venue Church volunteers showed up at Smith’s house to find the pastor in his boxers with one of the church’s female employees, who was wearing only a towel.

In December of that year, a video surfaced showing Smith kissing that same woman in public. Smith and his now ex-wife had begun divorce proceedings earlier in May, and their divorce was finalized that December. Eight staff members and all of the church’s board members quit due to the controversy, according to the Chattanooga Times Free Press

In a December meeting, Smith denied having an affair with the staff member, but said that he and she planned to pursue a relationship after each of their divorces were finalized. Smith took a sabbatical in January and returned to the pulpit in February, where he acknowledged having an “inappropriate relationship.” In addition to the controversy surrounding this relationship, Smith has been accused of financial misconduct, living a lavish lifestyle and preaching a prosperity gospel.

In an Instagram video posted last week, Smith referenced news reports that Venue Church faces foreclosure and will be shutting down. “I wanted to say it’s absolutely not true. Venue Church is not shutting down,” he said. “Number two, our legal team, who is amazing, has assured me that I can tell you with confidence our Chattanooga location is going nowhere.” The pastor said he would address these allegations in his upcoming Sunday sermon. 

A notice of foreclosure and sale states Venue Church has defaulted on payments it owes First Citizens National Bank and that the building will be auctioned off on Aug. 24 at 2:00 p.m. According to The Daily Beast, an attorney for the bank said the only actions that would stop the foreclosure are a court order or the church paying off its debt in full. 

“I would just like to briefly address the mess,” Smith said at the beginning of his Aug. 7 sermon titled, “It’s time for closure.”

“You probably read in the paper or saw in the paper that the bank put a notice of foreclosure on our building, which is absolutely true,” said Smith. He praised the generosity, kindness and patience of the congregation. “It is a scary situation when you’re navigating through things like this and you know you’re not just going through it alone, but you’re going through it with a group of people…When we found out and saw the notice, just like you, we were scared as well. But we also knew that God’s not done with us.”

Referencing Jesus’ statement that, “The truth will set you free,” Smith said, “There is a difference between facts and truth. Facts happen; truth prevails.” The pastor said he prayed and “the Lord gave us wisdom to seek some really amazing legal counsel and they’ve really helped us.” According to Smith, these attorneys have assured church leadership that there are “multiple options” for keeping the building, but he did not elaborate on what those options are. Regardless of what happens with the building, Venue Church will continue, said Smith, because the church is not a building

Lifeway Research: Pastors Identify Modern-day Idols, Comfort Tops List

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Idols don’t always come in the form of carved statues or reside in places of worship. Many pastors believe modern-day idols can be benign-looking desires with significant influence on people in their congregations.

According to a study from Lifeway Research, more than half of U.S. Protestant pastors believe comfort (67%), control or security (56%), money (55%) and approval (51%) are idols that have significant influence on their congregations. When asked to choose the potential idol with the most sway over people in their churches, pastors again point to comfort (30%) and control or security (20%) above the others.

“It’s easy to think that those in Christian churches have chosen their God and are faithful to Him,” said Scott McConnell, executive director of Lifeway Research. “However, pastors quickly acknowledge how divided their congregations’ allegiances can be. These gods don’t have a physical shrine, but they compete for the hearts of Christians.”

Significant Influence of Idols

While most pastors point to comfort, security, money and approval as potential idols, fewer say success (49%) and social influence (46%) are idols in their congregations. Nearly 2 in 5 say political power (39%) is an idol their congregants face, and nearly 1 in 3 say sex or romantic love (32%). Another 14% of pastors say none of these are idols with influence in their churches, and 2% say they’re not sure.

Younger pastors are more likely than older pastors to identify several of these modern-day idols in their churches—particularly political power, money and control or security. Pastors ages 18-44 are the most likely to say political power (55%) and control or security (72%) are idols they see in their congregations.

The younger pastors are, the more likely they are to see money as a rival object of worship. Pastors ages 18-44 (63%) and 45-54 (58%) are more likely to say money is an idol in their churches than pastors 65 and older (46%).

Furthermore, older pastors are less likely to identify any of these potential idols among their congregants. Pastors ages 55-64 (18%) and over 64 (19%) are more likely to say none of these are idols in their churches than pastors 18-44 (9%) or 45-54 (10%).

“The large differences we see between younger and older pastors cannot be definitively explained by this study,” McConnell said. “There are signs that younger pastors are of the mindset that idols are rampant today, whereas older pastors may be slower to classify one of these as having significant influence on their people, or they may define idols more narrowly.”

Some different modern-day idols stood out to pastors of different ethnicities. White pastors are more likely than African American pastors to identify political power (41% v. 29%) and approval (53% v. 40%) as idols in their churches. And African American pastors are more likely than white pastors to say none of these are idols in their churches (25% v. 13%).

Pastors with higher levels of education are more likely than pastors with less formal education to identify money and control or security as idols in their churches. Pastors with master’s degrees (64%) or doctoral degrees (57%) are more likely than those with no college degree (43%) to say money is an idol in their churches. And pastors with master’s degrees (67%) or doctoral degrees (64%) are more likely than those with bachelor’s degrees (47%) or without college degrees (38%) to say control or security. Meanwhile, pastors with no college degree (25%) are the most likely to say none of these are modern-day idols in their churches.

Pastors of larger churches are more likely to identify idols of social influence and sex or romantic love in their congregations than pastors of smaller churches. Pastors of churches with more than 250 (55%) in attendance and those with 100-249 (51%) are more likely than those at churches with 50-99 (42%) or less than 50 (39%) to say social influence. Similarly, pastors at churches with attendance of more than 250 (40%) and 100-249 (39%) are more likely than those at churches with attendance of 50-99 (30%) or fewer than 50 (21%) to identify sex or romantic love as an idol.

Olivia Newton-John Said the Lord’s Prayer Nightly After God Saved Her Baby

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Following the death of singer, actress, and activist Olivia Newton-John on Monday (August 8), statements have surfaced from one of her final interviews. On a February 2021 episode of the podcast “A Life of Greatness,” Newton-John detailed a pact she made with God while pregnant with her only child. She also shared personal thoughts about spirituality and death.

Newton-John, 73, died at her California home after battling stage 4 cancer for several years. She was first diagnosed with breast cancer in 1992; it returned in 2013 and metastasized by 2017. In addition to her entertainment career, Newton-John was an advocate and philanthropist who wanted “positivity” to be her legacy.

Olivia Newton-John Asked God to Save Her Daughter

Last year, Olivia Newton-John told podcast host Sarah Grynberg she almost lost her daughter, Chloe, during pregnancy in 1985. “I went to bed and asked God to save her,” the singer said. “And if he did, I would say the Lord’s Prayer every night for the rest of my life. And so I have. I think prayer is very powerful.”

Chloe, whose father is Newton-John’s ex-husband Matt Lattanzi, is now 36 and has followed her mother’s footsteps into music. She is posting tributes to her mother online, captioning one photo, “I worship this woman.”

During the podcast, Newton-John also answered questions about mortality and life after death. “I have quite a few times [thought that death] was a possibility sooner than I wanted it,” she said. “We all know we are going to die. I think we spend our lives denying it. It’s extremely personal.”

Admitting the concept was “hard to put into words,” Newton-John continued, “I feel we are all part of one thing. I have had experiences with spirits or spirit life and felt the spirit world and have heard things that I believe there is something that happens.”

She also referenced energy, saying, “It’s almost like we are parts of the same computer, and we go back to the main battery. I don’t have a definite definition of what it is. I think there is a great knowingness out there we become part of it. I hope that the energies of the people you love will be there. I think all the love will be there. I’m sort of looking forward to that, not now, but when it happens.”

Olivia Newton-John: Always ‘Shining the Light’ on Others

In announcing his wife’s death, John Easterling wrote: “Olivia has been a symbol of triumphs and hope for over 30 years sharing her journey with breast cancer.” Her family asks that donations go to the Olivia Newton-John Foundation Fund, which is “dedicated to researching plant medicine and cancer.”

FBI Executes Search Warrant at Trump’s Mar-a-Lago; Christian Leaders React

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On Monday (August 8), the FBI executed a search warrant at former president Donald Trump’s Mar-a-Lago resort in Palm Beach, Florida. Trump took up full-time residence at the resort after his term as president ended in 2021. 

According to the former president’s son, Eric Trump, the FBI was searching for documents sought by the National Archives. Donald Trump had allegedly taken 15 boxes of presidential documents from the White House upon his departure from office, including classified documents, which could threaten national security. 

The former president broke the news of the raid himself in a statement released on Monday. 

“These are dark times for our Nation, as my beautiful home, Mar-A-Lago in Palm Beach, Florida, is currently under siege, raided, and occupied by a large group of FBI agents,” Trump’s statement read. “Nothing like this has happened to a President of the United States before.” 

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Trump characterized the FBI’s execution of the search warrant as “not necessary or appropriate,” further arguing that it constituted “prosecutorial misconduct.” 

Claiming that the search warrant was part of a plot by Democrats to keep him from running for president in 2024, Trump said, “Such an assault could only take place in broken, Third-World Countries. Sadly, America has now become one of those Countries, corrupt at a level not seen before. They even broke into my safe!” 

This news broke on the same day as two other stories involving Trump. In one of those reports, it was revealed that journalist Maggie Habberman claims to have evidence suggesting that Trump, while president, routinely ripped up documents that ought to have been preserved and flushed them down the toilet. 

Another report included the claim that President Trump once expressed to John Kelly, his White House chief-of-staff, that he wished high ranking national security and military officials would act more like “the German generals in World War II,” whom he believed were completely loyal to Adolf Hitler. 

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Kelly allegedly clarified that Hitler’s top military personnel attempted to assassinate him three times, but Trump reportedly denied the existence of that historical reality.

How to Follow Up With First-Time Guests Online

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Many churches follow a Sunday morning ritual of asking “Who is new?” and then handing out connect cards to visitors. The next step is where many churches go wrong. Either they fail to follow up completely, or they only make a one-time effort to reach out to first-time guests. 

Digital tools allow you to create a consistent and sustainable way to follow up with visitors. Connecting with new visitors with church technology (such as with a tool made for online giving, admin, and marketing) can help you automate effective follow-up. 

The goal? Don’t let anyone “fall through the cracks,” communicate that you care about every visitor, and provide the opportunity to take the next step with your church family. 

In the following article, we’ll take a look at how you can follow up with first-time visitors online…and increase the chances of growing your church family

 

3 Steps to Follow Up with First-Time Guests

Here are three simple steps to create an automated system of follow-up with people who check out your church during a weekend service. 

1. Hand Out Connect Cards. 

As mentioned above, a connect card can be a great way to collect information from first-time visitors. 

While a conventional connect card might provide a few lines for visitors to write down their name, email address, and phone number, a connect card with a QR code is even better. 

Visitors can scan the QR code and go directly to a contact form on your website. Then they can provide you with their information online–so that you don’t have to hand out pens, collect cards, and then manually input information into your church CRM

Remember that your connect card should be simple and well-designed. Give visitors one compelling reason to scan the code.“Learn More About Our Church Family” or “Get Connected With Us!” tell new visitors that you want to connect beyond one visit, and give them a clear course of action. 

 

2. Create an Automated Email Series. 

An automated email series requires minimal time and effort from church admin. 

When new visitors are input into your church database, that will trigger a series of 3-4 emails. Those emails can provide more information about your small groups and various ministries, or provide opportunities for visitors to take action.

Here are three templates you can use for a follow-up email series. 

Email 1

Subject line: Thanks for visiting!

Hi [first name]

Thank you for visiting our church home this weekend! We love having new visitors, and hope you enjoyed spending time in worship and the Word with us. 

Our church home has several opportunities to plug in deeper, if you’re interested. We have weekly Bible studies, a range of ministries for different life stages, and opportunities to give back to the community. Click here to learn more! [link to your website]

Have any questions for us? Feel free to reach out to [name of appropriate staff member], and we’d be happy to hop on a phone call with you. 

Have a blessed week!

 

Email 2

Subject line: Looking for a small group?

Hi [first name], 

Small groups and Bible studies are a great way to dive deeper into community, build new friendships, and learn more from God’s Word. 

At [church name], we’re big believers in the power of small groups. That’s why we have a range of studies so that you can find a group that fits your needs, schedule, and life stage. 

Click here to learn more about our small groups. 

 

Email 3

Subject line: Did you know we have an app?

Hi [first name],

You might have an app for managing your finances, editing your photos, and ordering food from your favorite restaurant. 

Why not use an app for church?

The [church name] app is a free, simple way to connect with us, learn about upcoming events, listen to sermons online, make donations, read the Bible, and even post prayer requests. 

Click here to download the app for free [link to app download]. 

Of course, these are just ideas. Regardless of what you include in your follow-up emails, make sure to give recipients an action to take–whether that’s to visit your website or to register for a specific event. 

 

3. Send a Text Message

Sending a text message may feel like an unconventional choice, but it might be the best way to connect immediately with first-time visitors. After all, text messages have an average 90-second response rate. Even older guests are likely to check their text messages. 

Just like your automated email series, you can also send automated text messages to new visitors. Once they input their phone number, that can trigger an automated text to follow up with them after the service. 

You can even include a link in your text message that directs new visitors to your website or church app. Or, you can ask for additional information that can help you understand what the new visitor’s needs are. 

Here are a few ideas for follow-up text messages. 

Hi [first name]! Thanks for joining us this weekend. We’d love to see you again–click here to learn more about our church family!

Hi [first name]! Hope you’re having an awesome week! Want to learn more about small groups? Click here. 

Hi [first name]! Looking for deeper connection? We’d love to connect with you. Click here. 

Again, you’ll want to customize your text message to your church’s style, voice, and messaging. But regardless of what you include in your message, make a plan to follow up with additional communication and touchpoints. The goal is to create multiple touchpoints with new visitors so that they have more than one opportunity to say “yes” to taking the next step with your church. 

 

Lay the Foundation for Online Follow-Up

To all of these suggestions about online follow-up, you may be thinking, Sounds great, but I don’t have a CRM, a church app, or an email tool.

It’s true that you do need a system in place for following up with guests online. 

But it doesn’t have to be complicated, or expensive. 

Tithe.ly is an all-in-one solution for churches to connect with their first-time guests and long-term members with tools for storing contact information, sending emails and text messages to your contacts, building an app and website, and much, much more. 

To learn more about how Tithe.ly can help you connect with others, click here

 

‘Community Lighthouses’ Powered by the Sun and Church Volunteers

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Sonia St. Cyr, a 74-year-old New Orleans resident who uses an electric wheelchair, poses for a photo on July 21, 2022, outside the Broadmoor Community Church where she volunteers at a food pantry. The church is part of a program being launched to put solar panels and batteries on locations around southeastern Louisiana so they can maintain power and help people in their communities such as St. Cyr during extended power outages like the one that followed Hurricane Ida last year. (AP Photo/Rebecca Santana)

LaPLACE, La. (AP) — Enthusiastic church volunteer Sonia St. Cyr lost something she treasures during the blackout caused by Hurricane Ida — her independence, afforded her by the electric wheelchair she expertly maneuvers over bumpy city sidewalks.

“After Ida I was housebound,” said St. Cyr, who has multiple sclerosis. She did her best to conserve power on her wheelchair, going only to the end of her block or sitting on her porch after the storm made landfall last August 29.

It took 10 more days before all of the habitable homes in New Orleans had electricity again. With the lights out and nothing open in her Broadmoor neighborhood of New Orleans, “It was not fun.”

A project launching in southeast Louisiana aims to help people like St. Cyr who are especially vulnerable during extended power outages as the warming climate produces more extreme weather including bigger and wetter hurricanes.

“Community Lighthouses,” outfitted with roof solar panels and a battery pack to store energy, can serve as electricity hubs after a disaster, enabling neighbors to recharge batteries, power up phones or store temperature-sensitive medications.

They’re being sponsored by Together New Orleans, a non-partisan network of churches and groups that tries to fix community problems.

Organizer Broderick Bagert said they felt “impotent and powerless” as the city struggled to deliver basics like collecting garbage in Ida’s aftermath. They realized that local governments couldn’t handle everything alone.

“You can spend a lot of time saying… ’Why don’t they?‘” said Bagert. “But you start to realize the real question is ‘Why don’t we?’”

More than just energy hardware, each lighthouse needs a team of volunteers to study their areas, learn who has health problems and who needs medication refrigerated or depends on electric wheelchairs for mobility. While people with means can evacuate ahead of a hurricane, about one in four people live in poverty in New Orleans, and not everyone can afford to flee. Hurricanes are also forming more quickly due to climate change, making it more likely that people can find themselves stuck in a disaster zone.

Each lighthouse should be able to connect with all of its neighborhood’s vulnerable people within 24 hours of an outage, Bagert said.

“This is not all about batteries and and solar panels. There are some other batteries and solar panels made by the hand of God. And that is called the human personality,” the Rev. JC Richardson, pastor of Cornerstone United Methodist Church, said during an event announcing one of the locations.

Churches Can Be ‘Personalized Ministry Partner’ for Local Schools

Volunteers from North Hills Church in West Monroe, La., pass out school supplies during a back-to-school bash on Saturday, Aug. 6. Photo by Abby McCartney, North Hills Church. Courtesy of Baptist Press.

NASHVILLE (BP) – In the midst of the back-to-school season, Southern Baptist churches are loving and serving the students, teachers and schools in their communities.

Churches are meeting needs in a variety of ways including hosting back-to-school bashes, offering free school supplies and giving away free backpacks.

First Baptist Church of Pensacola, Fla., hosted its annual back-to-school bash on Saturday, July 30. This event included giveaways, games, distribution of resources and free food.

Peter Burmeister, the church’s associate pastor of discipleship and assimilation, said the event is a great opportunity to serve their local school, C.A. Weis Elementary.

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First Baptist’s relationship with the school began more than 10 years ago when members realized the school did not have a PTA. So they formed an organization called “First Friends” that acts as a PTA.

The church also developed a ministry called Weis Initiatives, which plans out ways to serve the school beyond the back-to-school season.

After the initial year of the partnership, the school’s overall grade point average went up an entire letter grade from an F to a D.

Within a few years, the school became eligible for a significant financial grant. And the church recently broke ground on a new building specifically for ministries related to the school.

“I hope we’re beginning to leave a legacy in the community,” Burmeister said.

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“For me it’s a reminder of what can happen by having a personalized ministry partner. We’re just astonished by what has happened through simple acts of faith from people in our church.”

First Baptist Pensacola is not the only church with a strong relationship to their local school.

Lake Mystic Baptist Church in Bristol, Fla., is located just half a mile from W.R. Tolar K-8 School.

For the first time this year, Lake Mystic will be giving out free backpacks to registered families during the school’s open house today (August 8).

Located in one of least populated counties in Florida, W.R. Tolar has only a little more than 400 students among all of the grades. The nearly 100 backpacks Lake Mystic will give away will cover a large percentage of the student body. Each of the backpacks will also be filled with school supplies based on the lists provided by the school’s teachers.

Due in part to its proximity, Lake Mystic has a close relationship to the faculty and staff at the school. Many of the school’s teachers are members of the church, and the principal is even a former youth pastor at Lake Mystic.

Pastor Cody Watson said the church wants to continue to use these connections build a strong relationship with the school.

“We just want to be intentional to love and serve,” Watson said. “With us being the closest geographical church to the school, we try to minister and truly reach those families and teachers.”

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Many of the backpacks Lake Mystic will give away were given to the church by Send Relief as a part of its Backpack Sunday initiative Aug. 7.

Aug. 7 was also Send Relief Sunday on the 2022 SBC Calendar, and the entire month of August has a focus on Christian service.

Lake Mystic is not the only church to take advantage of the opportunity to receive backpacks from Send Relief.

Christians Still Displaced From Northern Iraq 8 Years After ISIS Invasion

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Children of Iraqi Christian refugees craft mosaic artwork at The Olive Tree Center, a Christian cultural and economic center in Madaba, Jordan, helping refugees of the 2014 ISIS invasion of Iraq. Submitted photo

NINEVAH PLAINS, IRAQ (BP) – Christians largely remain displaced from the once vibrant Nineveh Plains eight years after the Islamic State decimated the region, a Christian charity working in the area said.

Of the estimated 100,000 or more Christians who fled their homes in the 2014 invasion, perhaps 20,000 have returned to date since repatriation efforts began in 2017, Max Wood, chairman of the nondenominational American Foundation for Relief and Reconciliation in the Middle East (American FRRME), told Baptist Press.

Iraqi Christian refugees in Madaba, Jordan, lament the eighth anniversary of the Aug. 6, 2014 ISIS invasion of northern Iraq. Submitted photo

“It was very peaceful until ISIS came along. It’s got its own charm. It’s just horrible that so many people have had to flee that area in 2014,” Wood said after the eighth anniversary of the invasion that refugees remember as The Black Day. “We learned about The Black Day from working with refugees in Jordan.”

About 200 refugees gathered at the American FRRME’s Olive Tree Center in Madaba, Jordan, Aug. 6 in prayer, dance, poetry and song to commemorate those who died or were displaced in the invasion. About 40,000 Christians displaced from the Nineveh Plains are in Jordan, Wood said, where the government prevents their employment. Iraqi Christians rely solely on humanitarian aid.

Stavro, a Christian teenager who was 6 years old when ISIS invaded northern Iraqi, shared his memories of the invasion.

“A part of us died that day. We had to flee our city overnight, because if we stayed, we would have starved or died. We walked many miles to get away, with so many dead people, burned houses, and bodies,” Stavro said during the commemoration in 2021. “We asked our parents when we could return to our joys, our schools, and normal life, but we had no answer. We didn’t know how we would survive, but we believed God was with us. We came to Madaba, [and I] fell in love with this city, [where] we prayed that the war would end and for all nations to know God.”

American FRRME Executive Director Susan Greer said Iraqi Christians are still suffering eight years after the invasion, and more than five years after ISIS was defeated in northern Iraq.

“This is an ongoing humanitarian crisis,” Greer said. “Eight years later and these people are still suffering, not only from the trauma of what ISIS fighters did to them and their families, but from an acute lack of reconstruction and reconciliation efforts in a region that continues to be plagued by violence and security threats.”

Those who remained in Iraq during the invasion “were forced into slavery, captured, forced to convert to Islam, or were killed. To this day, many of the missing still have not been accounted for,” she said. Those who fled and haven’t returned cite “lack of financial aid, services, livelihoods, security and social cohesion” as primary reasons keeping them away.

FRRME is one of numerous nongovernmental organizations, many of them Christian, working to help displaced Iraqis return home and restore their livelihoods.

Wood encourages Christians to pray for displaced Iraqi Christians and those who have returned to the region, to educate themselves about the plight of Iraqi Christians, and to financially support reputable organizations helping internally displaced persons and refugees.

Tony and Lauren Dungy: On Faith and Family, Football and Race, Winning and Losing

Former Indianapolis Colts coach Tony Dungy and his wife, Lauren, walk off the field after Dungy was inducted into the Colts Ring of Honor during an NFL football game in Indianapolis, Monday, Nov. 1, 2010. Indianapolis Colts president Bill Polian is at left, while Colts owner Jim Irsay is at right. (AP Photo/Darron Cummings)

(RNS) — Retired NFL coach Tony Dungy and his wife Lauren see the key parts of their life — football and family — as forms of ministry.

The parents of 11 both lead Bible studies in addition to his work as a broadcaster on NBC’s “Sunday Night Football” and hers as vice president of the Dungy Family Foundation.

Their new book, “Uncommon Influence: Saying Yes to a Purposeful Life,” set to release on Aug. 9, aims to help people see their family, neighborhoods and workplaces as platforms where they can have a positive effect.

“Many people think ‘Oh, I don’t influence anybody,’” said Tony Dungy, the first African American head coach to win the Super Bowl. “The reason why we wrote this book was to encourage people to know that they can have influence. They do have influence.”

Married 40 years, Tony Dungy, 66, and Lauren Dungy, 65, gradually parented a growing family, modeling their support of adopting children and fostering “countless” kids. They describe themselves as “born-again” Christians who attend nondenominational evangelical churches in Tampa, Florida, and Eugene Oregon, where they spend part of the summer.

They talked to Religion News Service in mid-July about their joint prayer life, race and the NFL, and supporting pregnant women in the wake of the Dobbs decision overturning Roe v. Wade.

The interview has been edited for length and clarity.

In your new book, you both write about ways to live purposefully in everyday life. Tony, could you describe what seems like a prayerful approach to people-watching that you mentioned in your book?

 

Tony Dungy: For me, it’s always been: What can you do to make an impact in your community, in your family and your job and that is helping people get better? That’s something I always enjoyed as a coach. And so that’s what I look at nowadays. Sometimes you have to pray about that. How can I be impactful in this person’s life? What is going on with them? And that’s more than just casually meeting you and saying hello. Really getting to know you and understanding what your needs are. And is there a way that God can use me to help?

Lauren, you talk about some basic steps that you and he take, including praying before you even step out of bed and start your morning routine. Can you describe that a little bit and why you take that approach?

Lauren Dungy: It’s important to hear from our Heavenly Father every day and really, for that matter, all day long. But certainly before we begin our morning routine, Tony and I do spend time before the Heavenly Father, and we pray together. We pray for each other, for our family, our household and for what God might be calling us to do that very day. And we need him to direct our path. It’s a daily practice that we do, and every now and then we’ll miss that. And, I’ll tell you, our day is just a little off. We feel that something is missing, or maybe we’re second-guessing some decisions. And it’s because we didn’t take the five or 10 minutes to talk to God.

Tony, you write about teamwork and advising on how to keep diverse people coming together, working together, winning. How do you view the ways the NFL has handled itself in light of the allegations and findings related to sexual misconduct by people both in the ranks of players and owners?

TD: Well, I don’t think we’ve done a great job. We have a very, very high standard, and we should have a high standard. I always talked about that with my players when I coached. We have young people looking at us to set the tone, and they’re going to do what we do. So I think it’s really important that we be above reproach, and obviously you can’t have everybody at that level. But I think we do need to deal with those who fall under the bar, whether it’s players or owners or management or front office, and I don’t think we’ve done a good job of that, so that’s someplace we can improve.

There also have been a range of issues related to race in the NFL in recent years, from controversies about taking a knee during the national anthem to concerns about racial discrimination in hiring in upper ranks of the league and also denial of payments to retired Black players who had dementia. Do you think these times are more tense and difficult than when you became the first African American coach to win a Super Bowl in 2007?

TD: No, I think we just hear about it more. The thing you mentioned with the retired players and the testing, that’s been going on for years and years, and I was a player and I didn’t even know about it. I didn’t know about the baseline they used until this article came out a year or so ago. So I think those issues have been there. I think they’re being brought more to light.

Indianapolis Colts coach Tony Dungy, left, and Colts' Dominic Rhodes (33) celebrate after the Colts defeated the Chicago Bears 29-17 in the Super Bowl XLI football game at Dolphin Stadium in Miami on Sunday, Feb. 4, 2007. (AP Photo/Amy Sancetta)

Indianapolis Colts coach Tony Dungy, left, and Colts’ Dominic Rhodes (33) celebrate after the Colts defeated the Chicago Bears 29-17 in the Super Bowl XLI football game at Dolphin Stadium in Miami on Sunday, Feb. 4, 2007. (AP Photo/Amy Sancetta)

Do you see any better days ahead and for the NFL on race relations?

TD: I do. I do. I think we have people that are concerned about it. The Diversity Committee is meeting and putting together recommendations. Getting people to follow those recommendations is always a different story. But I do think bringing the issues to light has helped.

Is It Possible to Be Hyperimaginative in Thinking About Heaven?

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A reader recently asked me, “What do you mean by ‘hyperimaginative’ in this sentence in Heaven: ‘Discussions of Heaven tend to be either hyperimaginative or utterly unimaginative’?”

Here’s part of what I said in the book:

We cannot anticipate or desire what we cannot imagine. That’s why, I believe, God has given us glimpses of Heaven in the Bible—to fire up our imagination and kindle a desire for Heaven in our hearts. And that’s why Satan will always discourage our imagination—or misdirect it to ethereal notions that violate Scripture. As long as the resurrected universe remains either undesirable or unimaginable, Satan succeeds in sabotaging our love for Heaven.

After reading my novels that portray Heaven, people often tell me, “These pictures of Heaven are exciting. But are they based on Scripture?” The answer, to the best of my understanding, is yes. Scripture provides us with a substantial amount of information, direct and indirect, about the world to come, with enough detail to help us envision it, but not so much as to make us think we can completely wrap our minds around it. I believe that God expects us to use our imagination, even as we recognize its limitations and flaws. If God didn’t want us to imagine what Heaven will be like, he wouldn’t have told us as much about it as he has.

Rather than ignore our imagination, I believe we should fuel it with Scripture, allowing it to step through the doors that Scripture opens. I did not come to the Bible with the same view of Heaven that I came away with. On the contrary, as a young Christian, and even as a young pastor, I viewed Heaven in the same stereotypical ways I now reject. It was only through years of scriptural study, meditation, and research on the subject that I came to the view of Heaven I now embrace.

Nearly every notion of Heaven I present in this book was stimulated and reinforced by biblical texts. Though some of my interpretations and speculations are no doubt mistaken, they are not baseless. Rightly or wrongly, I have drawn most of them from my understanding of the explicit and implicit teachings of Scripture. Discussions of Heaven tend to be either hyperimaginative or utterly unimaginative. Bible believers have tended toward the latter, yet both approaches are inadequate and dangerous. What we need is a biblically inspired imagination.

We should ask God’s help to remove the blinders of our preconceived ideas about Heaven so we can understand Scripture. The apostle Paul said, “Reflect on what I am saying, for the Lord will give you insight into all this” (2 Timothy 2:7). I encourage you to pray, “Open my eyes that I may see wonderful things in your law” (Psalm 119:18).

By hyperimaginative, I meant fantasy-prone, to the point of being gullible and reading into things, and going beyond the actual evidence and any sense of objectivity. I would include the power of suggestion when people hear the various afterlife stories, such as young Colton Burpo’s claim of seeing rainbow unicorns in Heaven, as well as circles/halos around the heads of people. There is no suggestion of rainbow-colored unicorns in Heaven, or unicorns at all, and the idea of halos over people’s heads comes from medieval art, not from the Bible.

I’m not saying I know for sure God didn’t take him to Heaven, but I do know for certain that the statements made by people who claim to have been to Heaven should never be considered authoritative. God’s Word should be the only standard by which we judge which parts of people’s testimonies about Heaven we should and should not consider accurate.

To claim that one’s old friend who died, who was an avid golfer, is now playing golf in Heaven, is hyperimaginative, since the resurrection has not yet happened. Therefore, it seems unlikely this is happening in the present Heaven, though it is possible that it may happen on the future post–resurrection Heaven, which will be the New Earth. In fact, there is no reason I can think of why people with resurrected bodies would not play sports on a resurrected earth, even though we can’t know for certain until we get there.

There’s a difference between an overactive imagination and outright lying, of course, but the story of “the boy who went to Heaven” is a sad case demonstrating how far people can go in their imaginations, to the point of fabrications. That particular boy who claimed he’d gone to Heaven as related in a bestselling book (not Heaven is for Real, a different book) five years later admitted, “I did not die. I did not go to Heaven…I said I went to heaven because I thought it would get me attention.” He added this, something every Christian should take to heart: “When I made the claims that I did, I had never read the Bible. People…should read the Bible, which is enough. The Bible is the only source of truth.”

Why We Need a Savior: Ruth’s “Weakness” Is Greater Than Samson’s Strength

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It’s clear throughout Scripture why we need a savior.

I recently reflected on the dark conclusion to the book of Judges—how the book ends with a note of desperation. “In those days Israel had no king; everyone did what was right in his own eyes.” And what was “right in their eyes” was patently horrific. It seemed so appealing at the beginning, to define God how they wanted him to be. But it turned out to be hell on earth–that’s why we need a savior.

If the book of Judges were all we had to capture this time in Israel’s history, it would be a dismal piece of history indeed. But there’s another story, a hidden subplot, to what’s going on in Judges. It’s the tiny companion volume known as Ruth.

The book of Ruth is set in the waning days of the rule of the Judges. In case you forgot what those days were like, it wasn’t a great time to be a woman in Israel. Women were bought and sold as property, kidnapped to satisfy the demands of the warriors, and murdered with no apparent concern for justice. Yet the central character of Ruth is a woman. Not only that, she isn’t even an Israelite. And at the start of her story, she’s a widow. By all outside appearances, Ruth is as low and as weak as a person could get.

But while the obviously strong men and rulers are busy driving their nation into the ground, the weak and seemingly helpless Ruth stands out because she trusts God in the face of impossible odds. And because of her faith in the midst of uncertainty, God would use her as his avenue for undoing Israel’s darkness.

You see, all throughout Judges, we’re left wondering if any of these judges will be the savior and deliverer that Israel needed. Some displayed incredible feats of strength and might, but in the end, none of them were up to the task. But the book of Ruth shows us that where the strength of Israel failed, the weakness of God would succeed. God chose Ruth—a woman, an outcast, a nobody—to keep the promise of God alive. Ruth would have a son, Obed, who had a son, Jesse, who had a son, King David. The king that Israel needed would come not through the strength of Samson, but through the weakness of a foreign widow.

But even David wasn’t the ultimate king that Israel needed. From David’s line, generations later, came the king that they truly needed, a king who would have more in common with Ruth than with the judges: Jesus. Like Ruth, he was poor, wandering as an outcast without a home. Like Ruth, he wasn’t the deliverer Israel expected. The message of why we need a savior becomes clear: because of his weakness, he was the Savior they needed.

Jesus, however, would endure far worse than Ruth ever did. While Ruth endured hardship for a while, she ended her life in a stable and wealthy family. But Jesus would end his life with his closest friends abandoning him. He would not be rich, but would have his only possession on earth—the clothes on his back—stripped from him. And he would not end his days in ease, but would face the most horrific death that humanity has yet dreamed of.

To understand why we need a savior, it’s worth another glance back at the book of Judges. For as dark and gruesome as the conclusion to Judges is, it’s not the darkest chapter of Scripture. The darkest moment in the Bible is when the gracious and beautiful Son of God was beaten, mocked and crucified by religious leaders who thought they were doing the work of God.

The cross was so bloody and horrifying that we’re tempted to look away. But it was no more bloody than our sin demanded that it be. The difference between the horrific scene of the cross and the horrific scenes of Judges 17:21 is that Jesus took it on voluntarily. While the men throughout Judges were comfortable subjecting other people (usually women) to bloody punishment, Jesus would accept the punishment on our behalf.

Again, here’s why we need a savior: If we see our sin for what it is, if we realize that what Jesus endured was our due, what can we say to this but, “Grace! Grace! God’s grace! Marvelous, infinite, matchless grace, freely bestowed on all who believe! You that are longing to see his face; will you this moment his grace receive?” 

Closed Group vs Open Group – Which Is Best?

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“How do you feel about a closed group vs open group?” This was a recent question I was asked by a church that was in the beginning stages of formulating their church-wide small group model. I smiled because this is a loaded question for several reasons that we will discuss here.

Closed Group vs Open Group – Which Is Best?

Open small groups generally remain “open” all the time, meaning there is no limit to the amount of new people who can join. Every week an “open” small group meets, is an opportunity to invite and meet first-time guests.

Closed small groups limit the number of participants. Once a group starts, new people aren’t continually invited out. Groups can remain closed for up to 18 months before opening back up to guests.

The following is what I shared with the church about closed groyp vs open group:

3 Observations on Open Group vs. Closed Group

1. This is a Philosophical Decision.

There are no right or wrong answers, morally speaking. This makes the decision-making process fuzzy because nobody can claim the moral high ground with his or her opinion.

Overall, there are approximately 10-12 small group ministry models that churches use (meaning, one church uses one particular model). Each model has its strengths and weaknesses. One model may flourish at one church but never work at another. Then open groups versus closed groups discussion falls into this same context.

2. Closed Groups Encourage Deeper Levels of Trust.

Since you are meeting with the same people every time, the hope is that you can begin to lower your walls over time and become vulnerable with other group members. One weakness of a closed group is the potential for the group to become gossip sessions and clique-ee.

On a side note, I personally believe that once a group has been together for over two years without multiplying, it is almost impossible for group multiplication to happen.

3. Open Groups Encourage Evangelism and Assimilation.

Since the group meeting is always open, members of the group know they can invite an unbeliever or someone who just recently started attending the church. One concern is that a constant flow of new faces limits the potential for deeper intimacy and accountability.

North Point Community Church in Atlanta (Andy Stanley) has crushed their numbers with the closed group model. While I personally don’t lean towards closed groups, it’s impossible to say it can’t work and help people.

I definitely gravitate toward the open group model myself for the following reasons…

  • I like the potential an open group has in encouraging holistic or balanced discipleship, meaning, an open group can exhort a believer to grow in evangelism while a closed group doesn’t emphasize reaching out to new people.
  • I also like the implications for numerical growth and group multiplication in an open group.
  • Lastly, I like the ability for a new weekend attendee to have many groups they can consider visiting because they are all “open” the majority of the time. Most of the large cell churches overseas use the open group model.

I feel the need to throw in a quick disclaimer: Open groups can become cliques and have gossip sessions as well. Just because a group is labeled “open” doesn’t always mean they are functioning as one. If the group is “open” in theory but not actually reaching out to new people, they will have the same vulnerability as a closed group. I believe that when a small group starts clicking, it will stop clique-ing.

 

This article about a closed group vs open group originally appeared here.

How to Fix Audio Distortion

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The word distortion has different meanings depending on who you ask.  For some, they immediately think of “distorting words or phrases” wherein someone takes what you have said and twists it into something else. For others, they picture a distorted image. A guitarist sees distortion as an effect for applying to their guitar’s sound. A sound tech sees distortion as a bad sound reflecting a problem in the audio system. That’s audio distortion.

How to Fix Audio Distortion

Reasons for audio distortion

  • A microphone or sound source, like a computer, is being overloaded with sound.  Regarding microphones, the microphone can’t handle the volume level which it’s detecting and thus distorts the sound that it’s sending into the sound system.  In the case of other sound sources like a computer, you might push the volume level within the computer software past a point which the computer’s hard can handle.  Thus, it sends out a distorted sound.
  • Speakers are being pushed beyond their limits.  Working in live audio production, you might have the occasion of working on equipment not set up to handle loud volumes that your gig requires.  Pushing speakers to produce louder sounds than they were meant to produce will lead to a distorted output.
  • Faulty equipment.  Equipment can fail in a variety of ways.  For example, an effects processor could fail and you’d no longer hear any sounds passed through it.  However, it could also fail and you’d hear a distorted sound passed out of the processor.

Stopping (or preventing) audio distortion

1. Sound source distortion

The most common reason for distortion is an input overload like the microphone overload mentioned above. Mic’ing an instrument, or even a vocal, is more than sticking a microphone right up to the sound source.  You have to use the right type of microphone for the job. You also have to set it up in a way that best captures the sound.  A distorted sound can be resolved by placing a greater distance between the sound source and the microphone.  Or, it could be resolved by switching the type of microphone.  For example, placing a condenser mic up to a kick drum can cause distortion so you could either swap it for a dynamic microphone or, in the case of large-diaphragm condensers (LDC), move them a few feet away from the microphone. I’m not saying the live environment is the right place for an LDC but you do see how the microphone type and location can stop / prevent distortion. Check out The Six Types of Kick Drum Microphones.

Distortion from a sound source, like a computer, usually happens when the sound within the source (computer, cd player, etc.) is driven to a higher output level than what the hardware is able to handle. I find this can easily happen with computers because there are two volume settings which can get changed; the operating system’s volume control and the volume control of the software used to play the sound. You can even go one level deeper and look at the volume of an individual track in a multi-track audio program.  Start by checking the operating system’s volume is at the normal level, then go to the software program and then down into the individual track volume.

2. Speaker distortion

Audio speakers are designed to handle a certain level of volume. Once they pass a certain level, they will distort the sound and if prolonged, will eventually fail. The latest newsletter goes into more detail on speaker failure.

Regarding preventing speaker level distortion, you need to know a few pieces of information; the maximum volume your speakers can handle, the average volume your church service or other gig runs, and the level of the loudest part of the service / gig. You can then determine how much headroom you have in your production.  This headroom is the measurement of the difference between the average sound produced out of the sound system and the loudest output level the system can handle. If your average volume level is 90 dBA and your speakers can only handle 120 dBA then you have 30 dB of headroom. You can prevent speaker distortion by watching your sound meter readings when you get to the loudest part of your event and reducing the board volume to keep it under the limit. You can also use a compressor to do this effectively as long as you aren’t overdriving your compressor which can also lead to a distorted sound.

A common question I receive, when I hold a training session, has to do with the channel / board level peak lights. The question comes in the form of “is it ok if the clipping light comes on” or “isn’t it bad if the channel is clipping.” Clipping is a sign the signal level is too high. A channel with occasional clipping isn’t an issue.  A singer suddenly belts out a word louder than the others or a drummer let’s his sticks hit a bit harder. That’s OK. Most of the time, this sort of clipping isn’t going to be noticed.

A channel showing consistent clipping means you need to lower the channel volume or if you caught it during the sound check, you can reset the gain structure for that channel. Board clipping works much the same. Occasionally, it’s ok but anything more than that and you have to re-evaluate your board input levels. I would go as far to say if your board level is clipping in any form, then you should look for the source and see what you can do to eliminate it. Clipping is an extra audio process that can negatively affect your sound.

3. Faulty Equipment

Audio distortion produced by faulty equipment isn’t a matter of “how do I stop it” as much as it is a matter of “what do I do know.”

Consider the impact of removing the equipment from service. Will its removal have a drastic affect on the quality of the sound? I’m talking about “will the congregation notice the difference.” With this information in mind, you should evaluate your existing equipment and determine what happens if that particular piece of equipment fails.

Should you;

  • Repair it?
  • Replace it?
  • Have access to a spare for swapping in?

The Take Away

Audio distortion is a sign an input volume is too high, a speaker is doing more than it’s rated, or a piece of equipment has failed. Each reason for distortion has a solution which can be easily implemented. The best part of all, barring equipment failure, you can resolve most problems during the sound check …. of course, we are talking “live sound” where anything CAN happen at any time.

How to Help Your Child Grow Spiritually: 7 Tips to Guide Young Faith

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Knowing how to help your child grow spiritually is a top priority for Christian parents. As our kids have grown, Katie and I have been asked about that topic regularly. Being able to guide children to grow spiritually is a privilege but can seem weighty at times. We’ve gotten it right in certain seasons and wandered around lost in others. Sometimes our ideas work really well; other times they fall apart.

Read on to discover our Bible-based advice for guiding children’s faith growth.

7 Tips: How to Help Your Child Grow Spiritually

Here are seven suggestions for parents as they guide children to grow spiritually:

1. Model your spiritual life to children. 

For anything related to parenting, you must pass along what you desire to see. If you want to pass anything to your kids spiritually, you must model it for them. They will watch you for 18+ years!

Your kids will see you read your Bible (or not). They’ll see how often you pray and what your prayers contain. And they’ll notice how often you attend church and how important spiritual things are to you.

As a parent, it is important to consider the example we are setting for our children not just in our daily habits and behaviors, but also in our spiritual practices. If we want our children to prioritize their relationship with God and seek wisdom and guidance from Him, we must model that behavior ourselves. However, it can be easy to get caught up in the busyness of life and neglect our own spiritual growth. In such cases, we can seek guidance and support from trusted sources such as pastors, counselors, or the best psychic reading sites of 2023 that offer Christian-based guidance and insight. Nevertheless, it is important to remain discerning and grounded in our faith, remembering that our ultimate source of wisdom and guidance comes from God alone.

2. Involve kids in a church.

Again, children will often do what you do. So do what you’d like to see them do! (As you can tell, that’s a recurrent theme in how to help your child grow spiritually.)

What if your kids don’t like church? Many parents say their kids don’t want to attend worship services or Sunday school. “I don’t want to force spiritual things onto my kids,” they say. This often comes from a place of fear because you don’t know what to do. But it’s also the fear that your kids will reject church and want nothing to do with Christianity.

The problem is that we don’t apply this to anything else. We force our kids to do math, learn a language, eat broccoli, turn off electronics, etc., often to their dismay.

If you don’t involve kids in a church, when do you think they’ll learn that? If they don’t understand an aspect of a worship service, explain it to them. And if you don’t know what to tell them, do some research together.

As often as possible, kids and students should be involved in small groups, serving in a church and attending worship. Is every kid different? Yes. Should you force your kids to do something they dislike? Sometimes.

Our kids take out the trash and dislike it, but they still do it. I don’t think they’ll be scarred as adults because of that.

3. Read the Bible together.

Part of why kids dislike church is they don’t understand the Bible’s relevance and the things that happen at church. It’s something their parents do, apart from them. So do it with them!

I know this is difficult, and kids don’t always want to sit still. But doing something is better than nothing.

For our family, we used resources like The Jesus Storybook Bible when the kids were younger. Now we use a catechism, working through one question per week as a family. It doesn’t matter what you do…as long as you do something.

Apologetics Topics: 5 Questions Youth Workers Need to Address

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Apologetics topics often come up during youth group Bible studies and programs. If you’ve worked with teenagers for any length of time, you know they ask great questions. Occasionally, we do a session or series where teens can ask anything. We often receive more questions than we have students!

Youth ministers can equip teenagers in many meaningful ways. One is by helping them understand that faith in Jesus isn’t blind. It doesn’t go against all reason. Rather, faith is a logical response to evidence that supports God’s existence. It also accepts that Jesus really is who the Bible claims him to be.

Youth workers can’t expect to have all the answers to teenagers’ questions. (”I don’t know” is honest and commendable, at times.) Yet we should at least have a good handle on the most common apologetics topics teenagers raise. Teens are very smart! So if you can’t address issues that arise, they may think no good responses exist to objections about Christianity.

You may have barely finished college. Or maybe philosophy and apologetics aren’t your strengths. That’s OK. But it’s not an excuse to neglect the important questions teens in your church and community are asking.

5 Apologetics Topics to Prepare for

Youth workers should have a handle on these five apologetics topics. I’ve provided info for studying up at the bethinking.org website, a great apologetics resource.

1. Do all religions lead to the same place?

A common sentiment in our culture is that exact beliefs don’t really matter. After all, religions all lead to the same goal or place. (Or they just call God by a different name.) It just matters that you believe sincerely.

Yet a very brief look at the basic tenets of major religions shows this to be false. Check out this article by Josh McDowell on the topic.

2. Are science and Christianity enemies?

Most high school students see Inherit the Wind at some point. So it’s easy to conclude that science and Christianity are inherently at odds. Students need to hear that some of the best evidence for a Creator God comes directly from science. Here’s an article on the topic by Alister McGrath.

Not Easily Broken: Trauma Bonds and the Road to Healing

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In recent years, the mental health community has focused on understanding a phenomenon known as trauma bonds. The interest in these bonds is mostly due to our efforts to better understand and treat interpersonal violence victims, such as domestic violence and human trafficking. Although it was challenging to find sufficient information on trauma bonds until recently, the term was first used in the late 1980s by addiction therapy expert, Dr. Patrick Carnes, to describe how abuse, fear, and excitement (typically connected to sexual attraction) can lead to a destructive attachment.1 

“He will not crush the weakest reed or put out a flickering candle. Finally, he will cause justice to be victorious.”

Matthew 12:20 (NLT)

A trauma bond is a powerful emotional connection between an abuser and victim developed and strengthened by repeated traumatic events. These bonds are an adaptive response to extreme distress and tend to occur when all other coping attempts have been exhausted. Therefore, they are a type of defense mechanism with strong connections to attachment theory and learned helplessness. A trauma bond can be understood as an exploitive attachment wrapped with confusion and topped off with trauma and despair. 

Trauma bonds develop when cycles of intense love are followed by abuse that produces an almost unbreakable attachment.2 Bonding begins when an abuser identifies and meets a victim’s needs while professing love for that person. Those recognized needs are exploited in order to gain control of the targeted victim. Common vulnerabilities include security, family, being desirable, and belonging. This process is sometimes referred to as “love-bombing” due to the intense and continuous pursuit of the victim. 

The next stage begins with the abuser—confident of the attachment—finding fault with the victim and then threatening to withdraw affection. The victim is repeatedly devalued, and gaslighting (psychological manipulation) is introduced that causes the target to doubt his or her judgment, perception, and even memory. Then, the victim works to please the abuser to restore the relationship. Abusers will alternate their responses with either cruelty or affection. The randomness of these extremes creates a powerful dynamic for bonding to develop. The abuser’s cycle includes a combination of reward and punishment and appreciation and degradation, all of which promotes the development of trauma bonds. Thus, the stronger the attachment to the abuser, the more control rendered over the victim, creating an obsession with pleasing the abuser. Paradoxically, victims often experience a deeper bond with their abusers than with those who treat them well.

“He will cover you with his pinions, and under his wings you will find refuge; his faithfulness is a shield and buckler. You will not fear the terror of the night, nor the arrow that flies by day, nor the pestilence that stalks in darkness, nor the destruction that wastes at noonday.”

Psalm 91:4-6, ESV

Abusers create a never-ending series of exploitive hoops for victims to jump through to earn their affection.3 These hoops escalate the victim’s need for security in the relationship, and once the emotional pain becomes intolerable, the abuser offers affection, thereby becoming the savior. The greater the pain, cruelty, or trauma, the deeper the bond. The abuser is the source of the victim’s pain and yet the only one who can relieve that pain.4 

Churches’ Freedom Affirmed Again by Federal Court

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CHICAGO (BP) – The freedom of churches and other religious organizations to make employment decisions based on their beliefs has again gained support in the federal court system.

The Seventh Circuit Court of Appeals in Chicago dismissed July 28 a former guidance counselor’s lawsuit against the Archdiocese of Indianapolis and a Catholic high school. Roncalli High School had refused to renew Lynn Starkey’s contract after she admitted being in a same-sex marriage in violation of Catholic doctrine.

In a unanimous decision, a three-judge panel of the Seventh Circuit Court ruled the “ministerial exception” based on the First Amendment’s religion clauses protects the right of the archdiocese and the school to decide who will fulfill their religious mission. The First Amendment prohibits government establishment of religion and guarantees the free exercise of religion.

The Southern Baptist Ethics & Religious Liberty Commission (ERLC), which signed onto a friend-of-the-court brief in support of the archdiocese and school, commended the opinion.

“Once again, the courts have affirmed that religious organizations, without government interference, have the right to recruit and employ individuals who hold to the beliefs and practices of the faith,” said Hannah Daniel, the ERLC’s policy manager.

“This decision fortifies this core right for faith-based employers like churches and strengthens their ability to faithfully carry out their purpose and mission without compromising their religious beliefs,” she told Baptist Press in written comments.

Luke Goodrich, vice president and senior counsel at the religious liberty organization Becket, said the Seventh Circuit’s ruling “ensures that religious schools can remain faithful to their mission.”

“Our justice system has consistently ruled that the government cannot intrude on a religious organization’s choice of who will pass on the faith to the next generation,” he said in a written statement.

The Seventh Circuit decision followed two U.S. Supreme Court opinions and multiple federal appeals court rulings affirming the “ministerial exception.”

In 2012, the Supreme Court unanimously ruled a “ministerial exception” exists that enables churches and other religious groups to hire and fire based on their beliefs. That opinion, which protected churches from government interference in their “internal governance,” came in Hosanna-Tabor Evangelical Lutheran Church and School v. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission.

The justices affirmed the Hosanna-Tabor decision in 2020 in a 7-2 ruling in Our Lady of Guadalupe School v. Morrissey-Berru.

In her suit, Starkey – who had served in various roles, most recently as co-director of guidance and a member of the school’s administrative council – contended she “should not be considered a minister because she never engaged in religious matters or held a formal religious title,” Judge Michael Brennan wrote in the Seventh Circuit opinion.

Papa Johns ‘Lost Its Way’ Because of Losing Conservative Values Focused on ‘Truth and God,’ Says Former CEO

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John Scnatter speaks at CPAC, which took place in Dallas, Texas, Aug. 4-7, 2022. Screenshot / @Right Side Broadcasting Network

Papa Johns is declining in quality, customers and income due to a loss of conservative values, key elements of which are “truth and God,” said the company’s founder and former CEO John Schnatter in an interview Thursday

“We built the whole company on conservative values,” said Schnatter, who remains a shareholder with Papa Johns. “The conservative ideology has two of the most critical attributes: truth and God.” Schnatter says that since his exit from the company, “They’re losing traffic, they’re losing customers” and the quality of the pizza is “down with Little Caesar’s.”

John Schnatter’s Interview at Dallas CPAC

John Schnatter made his comments in an interview with Right Side Broadcasting Network (RSBN) at the Conservative Political Action Conference (CPAC) in Dallas, Texas, this past weekend. Schnatter has been at the center of controversy in recent years, a topic he addressed in the interview, where he framed himself as a victim of “cancel culture.” 

According to his website, Schnatter started Papa Johns in 1984 from a broom closet in his father’s bar. In 2010, the successful pizza company partnered with the NFL to become the league’s official pizza sponsor. But in 2017, Schnatter made comments in a conference call that seemed to blame poor company sales on the NFL’s response to players kneeling during the national anthem to protest police brutality. 

Papa Johns and the NFL ended their partnership several months later. Schnatter stepped down as CEO, although he continued as chairman of the board until 2018, when controversy erupted again after Schnatter used the n-word in a conference call. Schnatter says he only used the word in the context of explaining that he never uses it and is not racist, while critics say the fact he used the word at all reveals racism. Schnatter resigned from the board and was taken out of all Papa Johns marketing. 

“Cancel culture’s very dangerous,” he told RSBN. “Papa Johns [under Schnatter’s leadership] debunked every single element of the Left’s ideology, so unbeknownst to me, I had a giant target on my back, just by being the American dream.” Employees used to say the Pledge of Allegiance before meetings, he said. “We ran our business on principles. We had the highest quality, we had the best service, we had the best culture.”

Now, Schnatter says, “I think they lost their way.”

Schnatter told RSBN he was concerned about how the “evil” Left is targeting American youth. He did not give detailed examples of how young people are being attacked, but mentioned critical race theory, entitlement, vaccines, meth and sex trafficking among his concerns. He also said that the “five folks who own everything” want to create a global economy. If they “destroy our youth, then we may be desperate enough and disarrayed that we join a global economy and we lose our freedom and we lose our individual property rights.” 

These five powerful people (Schnatter mentioned “Gates,” who is presumably Bill Gates) want to be God, said Schnatter, “so what’s the closest thing to God? An embryo, a child. So they’re after our youth. And they’re trying to steal the American dream.”

SBC President Bart Barber Names Abuse Task Force Members

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EDITOR’S NOTE: This story has been updated to include the language of an amendment to the SATF recommendations passed by the messengers at the 2021 SBC Annual Meeting.

NASHVILLE (BP) – Southern Baptist Convention President Bart Barber has announced the members and leaders of those making up the Abuse Reform Implementation Task Force (ARITF).

Messengers to the annual meeting in Anaheim tasked Barber, pastor of First Baptist Church in Farmersville, Texas, with the responsibility as part of the approved recommendations from the Sexual Abuse Task Force, chaired by North Carolina pastor Bruce Frank. The recommendations were the result of a yearlong study and investigation by Guidepost Solutions into the SBC Executive Committee.

“The purpose of this task force is to assist the churches of the Southern Baptist Convention in our efforts to shut the doors of our churches to those who would act as sexual predators and to wrap our arms around survivors and those who love them,” Barber said.

In addition to the formation of the ARITF, the recommendations included the establishment of a “Ministry Check” website. The ARITF will oversee and report back to the Convention on the feasibility, effectiveness and costs of the website, which will be established and maintained by an independent contractor chosen by the task force.

Marshall Blalock, senior pastor of First Baptist Church in Charleston, S.C., will serve as ARITF chair and Mike Keahbone, pastor of First Baptist Church in Lawton, Okla., will be vice chair. Others making up the task force are:

  • Todd Benkert, pastor and lead elder of Oak Creek Community Church in Mishawaka, Ind.
  • Melissa Bowen, member of First Baptist Church in Prattville, Ala.
  • Brad Eubank, senior pastor of Petal First Baptist Church in Petal, Miss.
  • Cyndi Lott, member of Catawba Valley Baptist Church in Morganton, N.C.
  • Jon Nelson, lead pastor of Soma Community Church in Jefferson City, Mo.
  • Jarrett Stephens, senior pastor of Champion Forest Baptist Church in Houston, Texas
  • Gregory Wills, member of Travis Avenue Baptist Church in Fort Worth, Texas, as well as professor of church history and Baptist heritage and dean of the School of Theology at Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary.

“These task force members will be assisted in their work by a few consultants, whose names will be released later,” said Barber. He added that the consulting group would include survivors of clergy sexual abuse, pastors, lawyers, educators and one person who was the object of a false accusation of sexual abuse in the past.

“Every member of the task force is an active member of a Southern Baptist church, representing a wide variety of church sizes from several geographic areas within the Convention,” he said. “Some of the members are also providing leadership to task forces serving their various state conventions.

“Between the task force members and the various consultants, the task force discussions will feature the input of top experts in the subject matters of sexual abuse, the law, Southern Baptist history and polity, trauma-informed counseling and most importantly, the Bible.”

Per the recommendations, the ARITF is authorized to operate for one year, with messengers at subsequent annual meetings voting on whether to renew the group “as needed” and deliver a report each year of its existence. Barber will appoint any vacancies at the time as necessary.

Specific charges of the ARITF include:

  • Study best practices in keeping with Southern Baptist church polity for feasibility and report back to the 2023 annual meeting on which reforms could be adopted by the Convention as well as how they should be implemented. Such recommendations include a survivor care fund, memorial, auditing the Caring Well curriculum and possibly creating a permanent committee or entity.
  • Assist SBC entities in studying Guidepost recommendations and advise on implementing reforms relevant to each entity’s ministry assignment.
  • Be a resource in abuse prevention, crisis response and survivor care to “Baptist bodies” who voluntarily seek assistance. This can include providing a list of recommended, independent, qualified firms for training and inquiries and assisting state conventions with recommendations, upon request.
  • Consult with the SBC Credentials Committee for revising the evaluation and submission process to include complaints of noncooperation due to sexual abuse and publish the revisions.
  • Work with the Executive Committee and Credentials Committee to select an independent, qualified firm or firms to assist the Credentials Committee by providing factual findings for complaints of noncooperation due to sexual abuse. The ARITF will report back to the 2023 annual meeting on the selection.
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