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15 Different Types of Pastoral Leaders

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Few of us who are pastors excel in—or even enjoy—every aspect of pastoral ministry. Most of us have a few areas we greatly enjoy, a few areas that stretch us uncomfortably, and many areas in the middle. When we recognize the extremes at either end, we’re better prepared to capitalize on our strengths and force ourselves to do our best under God’s grace in our weaker areas.

Which of these types fits you best? Least? If you’re a layperson, which best characterizes your pastor?

  1. Scholar. You enjoy talking about scholarly debates, and you stay on top of current resources on theology.
  2. Caregiver. You’re a shepherd who takes care of your sheep. You seldom miss a need among your congregation.
  3. Evangelist. The gospel almost “oozes” out of you. Few people you meet don’t hear some part of the good news from you.
  4. Entrepreneur. Within biblical parameters, you love dreaming up new ways to grow and support the church.
  5. Preacher. Nothing lights your fire like proclaiming the Word of God. It’s almost as if you do everything else a pastor does so you get a chance to preach.
  6. Leader. You’re continually reading works on leadership, and being the best leader you can is critical to you.
  7. Counselor. Perhaps because of your training or your experience, you enjoy one-on-one counseling sessions. Dealing daily with the problems of your congregation doesn’t drain you.
  8. Teambuilder. You’re the leader, but building your team of staff and lay leaders takes much of your time—by your choice. Consequently, your team tends to serve loyally and long-term with you.
  9. Maintenance man. It might be that your church expects you to help take care of the building and grounds, or perhaps you just enjoy doing these kinds of tasks.
  10. Prophet. You understand that both the church and culture need to hear the voice of a prophet, and you’re unafraid to be that voice. You seldom, if ever, avoid a tough issue.
  11. Disciplemaker. You regularly invest in young leaders, guiding them toward growth and challenging them to serve God faithfully. Likely, several members you’ve invested in are now serving as pastors and church leaders.
  12. Missionary. The Lord may not have yet called you overseas, but still your heart beats for the nations. You travel to do missions work as often as you can, and you challenge your church to do the same.
  13. Denominational loyalist. You love your church, but you also love your denomination (even with all its imperfections). Your participation at the local and national levels is strong.
  14. Community shepherd. You pastor not only your church, but also your community. People in the area, including members of other churches, know you as “Pastor _______.”
  15. Prayer warrior. Some of your primary work is behind the scenes, when you take your congregation before the Lord in prayer. Your folks have no question about the depth of your prayer life.

So, which types best describe you or your pastor?

This article originally appeared here.

The Counterintuitive Christ

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Everything about the circumstances of the coming of Christ into the world was counterintuitive. We tend to pride ourselves on the fact that we know this. However, the more we bring the pieces together into focus, the more astonishing it all becomes. Consider the following counterintuitive details surrounding the birth of Jesus:

The One who dwelt in inexpressible light with His Father and the Spirit, from all eternity, left that eternal glory to become man in the womb of a young, poor Jewish virgin (Luke 1:34). The One who rules and reigns as the King of Kings was not born in Rome, Greece, or Jerusalem (i.e., centers of power, status, and influence) but in the small and insignificant town of Bethlehem (Micah 5:2). He who sits enthroned in the heavens, was laid in an animal feeding trough (Luke 2:7, 12, 16). He who brought the stars into existence, calling each one by name, went nameless during the first week of His incarnate life (Luke 2:21). The One who owns the cattle on a thousand hills, was born to a mother who was so poor that she didn’t have enough to offer the proper sacrifice for His consecration (Leviticus 5:7Luke 2:24). On the eighth day, the infinitely holy One received a covenant sign that indicated His need for a blood judgment to cleanse sinful corruption and impurity—as the substitutionary sin-bearer, though He Himself was without sin (Luke 2:21). He who was the long awaited King of Israel was welcomed only by a handful of despised shepherds and traveling Gentiles at His birth (Matt. 2:2Luke 2:15).

Of course, the counterintuitive circumstances of the coming of Christ into the world also serve to highlight the glory of His divine being. The eighteenth century Scottish theologian, John Maclaurin, captured the juxtaposition of the base humiliation and exalted glory of Christ throughout His life in his sermon, “Glorying in the Cross of Christ.” He wrote,

His birth was mean on earth below, but it was celebrated with hallelujahs by the heavenly host in the air above; he had a poor lodging, but a star lighted visitants to it from distant countries. Never prince had such visitants so conducted.

He had not the magnificent equipage that other kings have, but he was attended with multitudes of patients, seeking and obtaining healing of soul and body; that was more true greatness than if he had been attended with crowds of princes: he made the dumb that attended him sing his praises, and the lame to leap for joy, the deaf to hear his wonders, and the blind to see his glory. He had no guard of soldiers, nor magnificent retinue of servants; but, as the centurion, that had both, acknowledged, health and sickness, life and death, took orders from him; even the winds and storms, which no earthly power can control, obeyed him; and death and the grave durst not refuse to deliver up their prey when he demanded it. He did not walk upon tapestry; but, when he walked on the sea, the waters supported him: all parts of the creation, excepting sinful men, honored him as their Creator.

He kept no treasure; but, when he had occasion for money, the sea sent it to him in the mouth of a fish. He had no barns, nor corn-fields; but, when he inclined to make a feast, a few loaves covered a sufficient table for many thousands. None of all the monarchs of the world ever gave such entertainment. By these and many such things, the Redeemer’s glory shone through his meanness, in the several parts of his life.

Maclaurin then contrasted the counterintuitive circumstances surrounding the death of Christ with the glory that was His by right of His deity. He wrote,

Nor was it wholly clouded at his death; he had not indeed that fantastic equipage of sorrow that other great persons have on such occasions; but the frame of nature solemnized the death of its Author; heaven and earth were mourners; the sun was clad in black; and, if the inhabitants of the earth were unmoved, the earth itself trembled under the awful load; there were few to pay the Jewish compliment of rending their garments, but the rocks were not so insensible; they rent their bowels; he had not a grave of his own, but other men’s graves opened to him. Death and the grave might be proud of such a tenant in their territories; but he came not there as a subject, but as an invader—a conqueror; it was then the King of Terrors lost his sting, and on the third day the Prince of Life triumphed over him, spoiling death and the grave. But this last particular belongs to Christ’s exaltation; the other instances show a part of the glory of his humiliation, but it is a small part of it.

In these and so many other ways, the coming of the Son of God into this fallen world for the salvation of His people occurred in the most counterintuitive way possible. If Jesus came after the expectations and desires of sinful men and women, He would have come in a display of pomp and power that leant itself to human wisdom and pride. Instead, He came in weakness, poverty, obscurity, and ignominy. When, by faith, we receive Him as the eternal Son of God, though veiled in the weakness of flesh and set in the context of these counterintuitive circumstances, we have our eyes opened to see the wisdom of God at work.

This article originally appeared here and is used by permission. 

10 Commandments for Great Small Group Discussions

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One of the things I love to do is facilitate discussions. This is WAY different than teaching or running a meeting, but many people miss it. Team meetings, board meetings and small group meetings are often less effective or helpful because the leader isn’t effective at facilitating the exchange of ideas.

Over the past 30 years of ministry I have had the chance to facilitate hundreds of discussions in dozens of environments, and along the way I’ve picked up some principles for what works and what doesn’t; here are my top 10.

10 Commandments for Facilitating Discussions

1. Don’t Teach.

If the goal is the transfer of information, then the need is a teacher. If the goal is the free exchange of ideas, then the need is a facilitator. Most pastors make lousy facilitators because wherever two or three are gathered together they see a chance to teach. Don’t do it, it kills real discussion.

2. Warm up the Crowd.

Always start with some kind of ice breaker. It can be corny, serious or somewhere in between, but it can’t be too personal and it needs to be something anyone can answer. And there isn’t a right or wrong answer. (See #4 below) The first question is like warming up before you exercise, it makes things go better later.

3. Stick to Essay Questions.

A quick poll of the group is fine, but good discussion questions should lead to, well, discussion. No simple one or two word answers.

4. Avoid Wrong Answers.

Asking factual questions makes it feel more like a quiz than a discussion, and introverts will disappear for fear of getting the wrong answer.

5. Focus on Opinions, Feelings and Actions; In That Order.

Not everyone (anyone?) knows the correct definition of apostle, but everyone has opinions and feelings; and anyone can take an action. Use questions like
-What do you think about…?
-How do you feel about…?
-What will you do about…?

A sub-rule is “All opinions and feelings are valid”. This makes the legalist in me shudder, but it’s true. My opinions and feelings are mine, so  you don’t get to decide if they are valid or not. As a facilitator you need to let the Holy Spirit do the work of convicting and judging. You don’t have to agree with an opinion or feeling to validated it.

6. Admit When You Don’t Know.

Sometimes questions will come up you don’t know the answer to; admit it. Promise to find an answer if you can. Making crap up ruins a discussion. (You can tweet that.)

7. Get Comfortable With Silence.

Silence in a discussion is seldom comfortable, but often necessary. Processors need silence to gather their thoughts before jumping in. Resist the urge to rescue the group and break the silence. Too much silence, however, can be a bad thing. If the lame duck question has been laying there for a couple of minutes put it out of its misery and move on.

8. Include as Many in the Discussion as Possible.

This is more art than science. Some people need permission to express their thoughts to the group, others would rather be forced to dance the Macarena naked than talk out loud. You have to watch for visual cues to separate the reluctant from the terrified. Call on the reluctant, make the terrified dance. Not really, just leave them alone.

Children’s Ministry Slogans: 10 Ideas for Your Kidmin Program

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Children’s ministry slogans, names, and branding ideas help set your kidmin program apart. By using kid-friendly, family-friendly children’s ministry slogans, you can invite and welcome new members. Plus, you can nurture an identity and build community among current church attendees.

We’ve compiled a range of suggestions for children’s ministry slogans. Many of them can tie into a program’s name and logo. Kidmin experts also recommend tying the slogan and name to the church and its other ministries, when possible.

And because the most important goal of children’s ministers is to share and grow kids’ faith, keep the focus biblical. Scripture-themed children’s ministry slogans ensure that priorities are clear.

Pro Tip: To add buy-in, seek ideas for children’s ministry slogans from parents and kids. You might even want to let them vote on which kidmin slogan is their favorite.

10 Children’s Ministry Slogans for Churches

Consider whether one of these children’s ministry slogans will work for you:

1. Stars Who Shine Jesus’ Light

The tagline for this kidmin slogan can be Philippians 2:15 or another Bible verse about light.

2. Growing Kids Who Bloom for Christ

Emphasize spiritual growth with this children’s ministry slogan. Bonus: It will look great on a flower-filled bulletin board!

3. Kingdom Kids Serving the King

Does your children’s ministry program have a kingdom-themed name? Then use a slogan that incorporates Jesus’ role as King of our hearts and lives.

4. Friends of Jesus, Friends in Jesus

Express both the vertical and horizontal nature of the Christian life with this kidmin slogan.

5. Come Learn to Love Like Jesus

Jesus wants little children to come learn about him and his love.

North American Mission Board Staff Member Clint Clifton Dies in Plane Crash

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Clint Clifton, missionary and senior director of development for the North American Mission Board (NAMB), died in a plane crash in Dawson County, Ga., late Thursday (Jan. 12) evening.

Clifton is the founding pastor and elder at Pillar Church of Dumfries in Quantico, Virginia.

According to Dawson County Sheriff Jeff Johnson, the Dawson County Sheriff’s Office E-911 Center received a call around 9:12 AM on Friday morning reporting a possible plane crash. After investigating the crash site, Johnson later confirmed that Clifton’s fatal plane crash occurred Thursday evening—Clifton was pronounced dead at the scene of the crash.

Clifton was flying alone in his personal plane on his way home after attending meetings he had in Atlanta. He leaves behind his wife Jennifer and their five children Noah, Ruthe, Isaiah, Betchina and Moses.

Pillar Church of Dumfries released a statement Friday night on Facebook. “With heavy hearts we grieve the loss of our founding Pastor and friend. Please pray for Jennifer and the whole Clifton family during this difficult time,” the caption read above the image of pastor Colby Garman’s statement.

“The news comes as a tidal wave of sorrow to us as a church family but especially to his wife Jennifer and the kids,” Garman said. “There are not adequate words to express the feeling of loss that they have experienced. In addition to being a great Pastor, he was a better husband and father.”

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Garman described Clifton as a special person “that we are going to miss so deeply. It is impossible to imagine Pillar Church without his unique passion and joyful presence. I wish that there were words that I could give to bring comfort to you right now, but some sorrows take time and eternity to heal. Until then we will sorrow, but we do not sorrow as those without hope.”

The pastor shared 1 Thessalonians 4:13-14 and encouraged people to pray for the Clifton family. “As you process this news, I would encourage you to bring your sorrows to the Lord and share the burden with one another. Share stories together of Clint’s impact on your life, give fresh consideration to the purpose God has given each of your lives, and endeavor to make the most of the moments God has given us to walk together,” Garman concluded.

“But we do not want you to be uninformed, brothers, about those who are asleep, that you may not grieve as others do who have no hope. For since we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so, through Jesus, God will bring with him those who have fallen asleep.” —1 Thessalonians 4:13-14 (ESV)

Outreach Magazine’s editor-in-chief Ed Stetzer worked with Clint on the NewChurches podcast, the largest church planting podcast in the world. Stetzer told ChurchLeaders, “Clint’s public ministry was all about church planting and reaching people. His private life was about his family.”

“I join with his family and many who he has impacted in mourning his loss,” Stetzer said. “Moments like this are heartbreaking and often without answers—but Clint would want us all to cling to Jesus, and we will.”

‘God Is Real’—Over 4 Years Later, Chris Pratt ‘Wouldn’t Change a Thing’ About His MTV Awards Speech

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In 2018, actor Chris Pratt told the audience at the MTV Movie & TV Awards that God is real and that God loves them. Now, over four years later, Pratt says that he “wouldn’t change a thing” about his speech. 

“Throwback to that time MTV honored me with ‘The Generation Award,’” said Pratt in an Instagram post this week. “I was given three minutes to impart wisdom to the next generation. Given the chance to do it again I wouldn’t change a thing. Except maybe I wouldn’t try to eat the popcorn backstage.”

 

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Chris Pratt Has No Regrets

In his MTV awards speech, Chris Pratt shared nine rules for life, some of which were goofy and some of which were serious. The rules included guidance about how to give a dog medicine and what to do if someone needs to poop at a party.

Others were, “You have a soul. Be careful with it,” and “Learn to pray.” Pratt alluded to the death and resurrection of Jesus in his final rule, “Nobody is perfect.” 

“You are imperfect; you always will be,” said Pratt. “But a powerful force designed you that way. And if you’re willing to accept that, you will have grace, and grace is a gift. And like the freedom that we enjoy in this country, that grace was paid for with somebody else’s blood. Do not forget it!”

Since he gave this speech, Pratt has continued to be vocal about his beliefs and has dealt with quite a bit of criticism. In 2019, Pratt denied claims that he attends a church that is hateful toward the LGBTQ community. Last year, fans called for Pratt to be recast in “Guardians of the Galaxy” over his perceived homophobia.

‘Jesus Is the Only Way’ Shirt Allegedly Leads to Confrontation at Mall of America, Sparking Debate About Turning the Other Cheek

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Videos that appear to show security guards at the Mall of America (MOA) confronting a man wearing a t-shirt that says “Jesus is the only way” have gone viral on social media, sparking a debate about what it means to “turn the other cheek.” In the videos, one of which has gotten over 1 million views on TikTok, a security guard tells the man that people are offended by his shirt and that he must either remove it or leave the premises.

“I’d want to see the events leading up to this, but I don’t like what is seen here,” says Twitter user Bernard Pike. “What is the correct biblical response here: Take off the shirt and turn the other cheek? Or stand firm with the shirt on and push those security guards to action?”

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Mall of America Security Guards Confront Patron

Videos of the confrontation have appeared on YouTube, Twitter, TikTok and Facebook. It is not clear who originally posted the videos, although it is possible one source is Facebook user Kameko Rawls. ChurchLeaders has reached out to Rawls for confirmation and for more information regarding the incident. 

A Facebook reel from Rawls dated Jan. 7 has the text, “They wanted him to leave because of his shirt,” and shows a confrontation between two security guards, a man and a woman, and a man wearing a shirt that says, “Jesus Saves,” on the front. The back of the shirt depicts the “coexist” symbol crossed out, along with the words, “Jesus is the only way.”

“Jesus is associated with religion, and it’s offending people,” the male security guard says at the beginning of the reel. A patch on his sleeve clearly says “Mall of America Security.”

“It’s not religion. It’s about eternal life,” the man wearing the shirt responds.

“Ok, but it’s the same thing,” says the guard. “People have been offended.” He then tells the man something he apparently has already told him, which is that the man must remove his shirt or leave the mall. The man protests that he didn’t “say anything,” but the guard reiterates that removing the shirt or leaving “are your only options right now.”

The TikTok video that received over 1 million views, posted by @livelifesanto, shows footage that Rawls did not post. In it the male security guard tells the man that his shirt is “religious soliciting,” something not permitted on private property. “Why don’t you just take it off and shop, man?” asks the guard, who is audibly frustrated. “That’s all we want.”

‘I Promised That I Would Give God the Glory’—Oklahoma State Women’s Basketball Coach Leads Team in Post-Victory Prayer

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After a victory over Big 12 rival Baylor on January 11, Oklahoma State women’s basketball coach Jacie Hoyt led her Cowgirl team in a locker-room prayer. Saying she “promised that I would give God the glory,” Hoyt then asked players to bow their heads before celebrating the win that improved their record to 12-4.

“[God] is working. He is on the move at Oklahoma State right now,” Hoyt said. “And we’re gonna give [the glory] back to him.”

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In her prayer, Hoyt thanked God “for all the great things that you are doing in this program right now” and “for this harvest that we’ve continued to reap.” She expressed gratitude “for the love that each of these girls has for one another, that they can overcome really really hard things because they fight so hard, and they’re using all of the gifts that you gave to each and every one of us, Lord.” Hoyt also gave thanks for her “amazing staff” and “the amazing university that we get to represent.” She closed by shouting, “We’re. Not. Done!”

Hoyt, 35, is in her first year at Oklahoma State but isn’t new to basketball or coaching. She grew up in Kansas, in a competitive family that includes mother Shelly Hoyt, a high school coaching legend. Four ACL tears hampered Jacie Hoyt’s own high school and college basketball careers. But looking back, she says those injuries gave her “a taste of watching from the sidelines,” expedited her coaching career, and shaped her philosophy and approach.

That philosophy includes a “family atmosphere” combined with lots of hard work on the court. “We’re going to find joy in everything we do and who we do it with,” Hoyt emphasizes. She also has impressive off-the-court goals, aiming to empower women, invest in players for post-basketball life, and provide “role models that young people can look up to.”

Faith Gives Coach ‘A Strong Sense of Purpose’

Jacie Hoyt credits her injuries with strengthening her faith, too. On a 2018 episode of the Sports Spectrum podcast, she described what happened when she couldn’t play the game she loved. “There was really just…nowhere for me to look but up at that point,” she said. “That’s when I really started to understand what that personal relationship [with Jesus] looked like, finding fulfillment in something that this world could never offer me.”

As she climbed the coaching ranks at other schools, Hoyt was careful not to “get caught up in having a dream job” because “God is the author of my story.” But being offered the Oklahoma State position was “really special,” she admits—especially because men’s basketball coach Mike Boynton “publicly professes his faith and cares about his players the way that he does.”

MLK Was Not Color-Blind, But Color-Courageous

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Pop quiz. Can you share one specific quote of Martin Luther King, Jr.?

If you are like most, you might recall this one, from his iconic “I Have a Dream” speech: “I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin, but by the content of their character.” 

Many consider this to be King’s most famous quote of all time. And, on the basis of this quote, they say that King was color-blind—and we should be too.

But guess what? The idea that King was color-blind is a myth. King was not color-blind, but color-courageous. When we look at the vast scope of his work, instead of taking one quote out of context, we’ll see that King never said that the way to advance racial equality was to ignore our racial differences.

There are, of course, many merits to color-blindness. For example, we are all equally created in the image of God—and, in this way, we must see each other equally. At the same time, we must also see that God has blessed us with beautiful differences—which he loves!  In particular, God calls us to see, celebrate and appreciate our ethnic differences. Ethnicity is a God-ordained cultural identity that God delights in as a means of bringing glory to himself and enrichment to his kingdom. But then we must go further: we must also see that, because live in a fallen world, our beautiful differences too often breed conflict and inequality—both intentionally and unintentionally. If we cannot see these realities, we cannot address them.

What’s Wrong With Being Color-Blind?

Let’s take a closer look at what it means to be color-blind. We have been living in the color-blind generation. The emphasis of color-blindness is, ostensibly, equality. Color-blind disciples refuse to “see” color in a well-intentioned effort to treat everyone equally. 

For the most part, color-blind discipleship is known mostly for what it doesn’t do. Color-blind disciples don’t see race. They don’t differentiate, and they certainly don’t (intentionally) discriminate. 

But here’s the thing: in our day, color-blindness is proving to be wholly ineffective. Why? Listen carefully: Because those who cannot see race also cannot see racism. Those who refuse to countenance racial categories are more prone to miss racial inequities; they are also prone to suppress important conversations about race that we still need to have. 

There’s now reams of research to demonstrate something very surprising: color-blindness actually leads to racial inequity, precisely the opposite of what was intended. In his phenomenal book The Psychology of Colorblindness, Philip Mazzocco did a review of all the research on colorblindness. His conclusion was this: 

Although the preference for colorblindness may be well-intentioned for some, the consequences of colorblindness . . . appear to be almost entirely negative both with respect to racial minorities, and society at large.

The irony of our generation is this: Today few people intentionally embrace racism … yet racial inequity firmly persists in nearly every area of life that can be measured—wealth, education, criminal justice, healthcare, career opportunities, and so much more.

‘A Matter of Principle’—Pastor Accused of Solicitation of Minor Is at Center of Feud Between Prosecutor and Police

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In Oct. 2021, Virginia pastor John Blanchard was one of 17 men arrested in connection with a prostitution sting, and he was subsequently charged with solicitation of prostitution from a minor. While his charges were tentatively dropped a year later in Oct. 2022, prosecutors and police have apparently been at odds over whether Blanchard should be brought to trial. 

While prosecutors have the right to refile charges against Blanchard if they feel they have enough evidence to convict, it does not appear at this juncture that they intend to do so. 

Blanchard was previously accused of sexually assaulting a former assistant who had worked for him at Rock Church International in Virginia Beach, where he has been lead pastor since 2013. He was acquitted of those charges in 2019.

With regard to the case of Blanchard’s 2021 arrest and the prosecutor’s dropping of his charges, Virginia State Delegate Tim Anderson, who represents Virginia Beach and is also a lawyer, has been sharply critical.

“In my legal opinion, from what I have seen, there’s no excuse not to prosecute this case,” Anderson said in Nov. 2022. “If [Blanchard is] found not guilty or if he’s acquitted, that’s one thing. But to use prosecutorial discretion and say nothing happened here, that’s, in my opinion, an abuse of discretion.”

At that time, local police chief Col. Jeffrey Katz refrained from criticizing prosecutors, saying, “The decision to prosecute—or not prosecute—a case rests with the County’s elected Commonwealth Attorney. The only person who can bring clarity to this decision is the person who made it. It would be irresponsible for anyone to speculate on such an important decision.”

Nevertheless, Katz has been less supportive of prosecutors with regard to how Blanchard’s request to have his criminal record expunged has been handled.

In December 2022, during his first appearance on the stage of Rock Church since his 2021 arrest, Blanchard not only defended his innocence to the congregation but pledged to “recover” the “good name” of Rock Church in the community by “moving forward with legal action.” 

Soon after these remarks, Blanchard filed his expungement petitionWhile the court has not ruled on the petition, Chesterfield County Commonwealth Attorney Stacey Davenport has “no objection” to it.

In light of the possibility of Blanchard’s request being approved, Katz weighed in with criticism for how Blanchard’s case has played out.

“AS A MATTER OF PRINCIPLE,”  Katz said in a statement published to Facebook, “I have found it necessary to make a few public statements regarding the arrest of Pastor John Blanchard. These statements have consistently reinforced my fervent support for the quality of the case and the investigative efforts of my staff. That has not changed.”

Katz continued, “Pursuant to a Freedom of Information Act request filed in November 2022, I exercised my discretion under the law to publicly release the details of this investigation because I believe there is a compelling public interest in maintaining as much transparency as possible with this case.”

Diane Langberg on Church Leaders and Abuse: ‘We Have Utterly Failed God’

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(RNS) — Not long after Diane Langberg began working as a clinical psychologist in the 1970s, a client told her that she had been a victim of sexual abuse at the hands of her father. Not sure of what to do, Langberg went to talk to her supervisor.

The supervisor, Langberg recalled, dismissed the allegations.

“He told me that women make these things up,” Langberg said. “My job was to not be taken in by them.”

The supervisor’s response left Langberg in a dilemma. Did she believe her client? Or did she trust her supervisor’s advice?

“The choice I made is pretty obvious at this point,” the 74-year old Langberg said in a recent interview.

For the last five decades, Langberg has been a leading expert in caring for survivors of abuse and trauma. When she began, few believed sexual abuse existed, let alone in the church. Churches were seen as a refuge for the weary and some of the safest places in the world.

Today, she said, there’s much more awareness of the reality of sexual abuse and of other kinds of misconduct, especially the abuse of spiritual power. Still, many congregations and church leaders have yet to reckon with the damage that has been done to abuse survivors where churches turned a blind eye to the suffering in their midst.

“We have utterly failed God,” she said. “We protected our own institutions and status more than his name or his people. What we have taught people is that the institution is what God loves, not the sheep.”

The daughter of an Air Force colonel, who grew up attending services in a variety of denominations, Langberg still has faith in God. And she remains a churchgoer, despite the failings of Christian leaders and institutions. Still, she said, those churches and institutions have a great deal to repent of and make amends for.

Langberg, author of “Redeeming Power: Understanding Authority and Abuse in the Church,” spoke with Religion News Service about the sex abuse crisis in the Southern Baptist Convention, what lessons she’s learned over the past five decades and why she keeps the faith despite the church’s flaws.

This interview has been edited for clarity and length.

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When it comes to sexual abuse, there are a growing number of church leaders who say, ‘We get this now and we can fix it.’ But are they aware of the long-term consequences that come with mishandling abuse allegations over a long period of time?

Perhaps it would be helpful to first think about not the church but marriage. If somebody has an affair, they cry and say they are sorry. Then a year later, they have an affair with somebody else. How many affairs are going to be OK before you leave?

Study: US Clergy Favor Medical Treatment for Depression

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(RNS) — About 21 million adults in the U.S. have had at least one major depressive episode, the National Institute of Mental Health reports.

A new study now finds that those who have gone to a priest or pastor for advice will most likely have been encouraged to seek out mental health professionals and take medicine to treat it.

That’s the conclusion of a nationally representative survey of clergy serving U.S. congregations from across the religious spectrum. The National Survey of Religious Leaders asked 890 people whose primary job is as a clergy leader about causes of depression and appropriate treatments for it.

Published this week in JAMA Psychiatry, the study reports that 90% of clergy respondents said they would encourage someone with depressive symptoms to see a mental health professional and 87% would encourage people to take prescribed medications for it.

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Mark Chaves. Photo © Duke University

“There are some clergy out there that discourage medical care,” said Mark Chaves, a sociologist at Duke University and principal investigator of the study “But it turns out, it’s a small minority, even among conservative religious groups.”

The study, funded by the Templeton Foundation and fielded from February 2019 to June 2020, is thought to be the first nationally representative survey of clergy beliefs on depression, Chaves said. The larger study included 1,600 congregational leaders from which 890 primary clergy were polled for the depression study.

While many clergy also encouraged religious treatment for depression, such as prayer or Scripture study, those religious remedies were supplementary. They did not replace medical treatment.

The study also asked clergy what they thought were the reasons people experienced depression. The vast majority attributed it to “stressful circumstances,” “traumatic experiences,” “chemical imbalance,” “lack of social support” or a “genetic problem.”

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Only 29% of clergy said depression was caused by “lack of faith,” and 16% said “demon possession.”

Black Protestants and white evangelical Protestants were more likely than Catholic priests or white mainline Protestant ministers to encourage religious treatment of depression, without a medical component. Even among those groups, though, only a small minority — about 15% — endorsed substituting religious for medical responses.

Non-Christian clergy comprised 8.5% of those surveyed and included Jewish, Muslim, Hindu and Buddhist leaders. They scored similarly to mainline Protestants and Catholics, Chaves said, with very “pro-medical” views on treating depression. 

Conference on Religious Trauma Aims To Equip Survivors for Recovery

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(RNS) — Raised by evangelical Christian missionaries, Kara Erickson struggled for years with anxiety, depression and eating disorders that two decades ago landed her in inpatient treatment. It wasn’t until three years ago, however, that she stumbled onto the term “religious trauma” in Jamie Lee Finch’s 2019 book “You Are Your Own: A Reckoning With the Religious Trauma of Evangelical Christianity.”

That’s when she connected the dots between her religious upbringing and her physical symptoms.

“I had been approaching my depression and eating disorder from this place of ‘You are broken and need to be fixed.’ Trauma helped me understand that I am wounded and need to be healed,” Erickson told Religion News Service.

Shortly before her revelation, Erickson, who worked as a juvenile prison counselor before moving to Canada in 2009, met Lydia Bakkar in an online workshop in Vancouver for moms looking to “find their spark.” At age 16, Bakkar had left what she now calls a fundamentalist Christian cult where her father was a leader. The two women bonded over their desire to help people who had been harmed by the church.

Combining Erickson’s vision and Bakkar’s business experience — she owns a knitting and crochet business in the Seattle area — the two have launched a new online conference on religious trauma that begins Sunday (Jan. 15).

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Beyond the Wound, which will extend over three weeks, will feature a mix of livestreamed sessions and prerecorded interviews with therapists, scholars and other professionals examining religious trauma from a neurological perspective. More than 260 attendees from across the globe have registered.

“It’s giving people permission to feel, to accept themselves, to trust themselves, and, adding on these skills and tools, to be able to move on and find what’s going to be good for you,” Bakkar said.

Erickson added, “We wanted to create the resource we wish we would have had.”

Clinicians have begun to examine religious trauma more seriously in the past decade, aided by increased academic research into what has become a widespread movement, especially among people raised in evangelical Christianity. Several organizations focused on religious trauma, including Recovering From Religion, the Reclamation Collective and the Religious Trauma Institute, have popped up since 2010.

“Religious trauma has been a thing since religion has been a thing,” said Laura Andersona Nashville, Tennessee, psychotherapist, co-founder of the Religious Trauma Institute and founder of the Center for Trauma Resolution and Recovery, who is presenting at the conference, The term itself, however, is a recent coinage as psychologists have identified trauma more broadly and developed new strategies for treating it.

“When 2016 hits, we started to see this exodus of people coming out of churches just being very confused about the result of the election of Donald Trump. That’s where I think publicly it started to become OK to talk about and name,” said Anderson, adding that the #MeToo and subsequent #ChurchToo movements also raised awareness of spiritual abuse and religious trauma.

Tragedy 31 Years Ago Formed Foundation of New Chaplain’s Ministry

The staff of First Baptist Church of Portland, TN, surprised Tim Colovos and his wife Ginger, front center, with a fellowship Dec. 30, two weeks after he retired from seven years of pastoring the congregation. Courtesy of Baptist Press.

BOWLING GREEN, Ky. (BP) – When a paranoid schizophrenic randomly shot into a group of patrons at Stel’s Diner in Warren County, Ky., in 1992, killing William Ratliff, it fell to Tim Colovos to tell two young teenagers their father was dead.

Then and there, as a college student serving as youth pastor of Oakland Baptist Church in Oakland, Ky., Colovos realized an aspect of his spiritual gifting. He describes it as “an urgency to be with people when very difficult times arise.”

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“From that moment on, I just knew that this was something that perhaps the Lord could use for me for many years. And fortunately I think that He has,” he said. “It’s hard enough to go through life, but when you have a traumatic event, to be able to go through life without people by your side and without hopefully godly wisdom and godly counsel by your side, it’s almost unbearable.”

Three decades later, with a heart still pulsing for the hurting, Colovos heard God calling him from the full-time pastorate to full-time chaplaincy. He transitioned in December from the senior pastorate of First Baptist Church of Portland, Tenn., with a worship attendance of about 300, to full-time chaplaincy at Hospice of Southern Kentucky.

“I love being with grieving people, as strange as that sounds. I’ve just really found that the Lord seems to use me in those situations over the years,” Colovos told Baptist Press. “And so it’s just kind of always been maybe a soft place in my heart where I can try to be my best when somebody else is at their worst. It’s kind of an unfortunate circumstance that happens.”

Colovos describes the move as “a leap of faith.” He sensed God calling him away from First Portland in mid-2022, but said he had no idea of his next assignment.

“I simply communicated to the deacons at First Baptist that I felt the Lord was calling me away, and I don’t have anything lined up. But I just wanted to be transparent and share my heart with them, to let them know,” Colovos said. “In July or August, I had no inkling that God would call me to Hospice of Southern Kentucky. God is just a great orchestrator of our steps. One thing led to another and I’m four weeks in on the job right now.”

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Colovos will supplement his chaplaincy work beginning Jan. 29 as bivocational pastor of White Stone Quarry Baptist Church, a Bowling Green congregation of about 50 worshipers.

“I’ve never been a bivocational preacher, but I’m going to do my best to be a pastor to those folks, the best I can,” he said. “Just doing chaplaincy work and hospice, I believe that’s ministry. I know it’s ministry.

“But I love the church. I love the Bride of Christ. And I want to remain in the pulpit. And I want to remain not just a preacher, but a pastor.”

Colovos answered the call to the pastorate in 1987, and sees his current positioning as the continued fulfillment of that calling.

“It is a true statement that we live in a lost and dying world. Typically a chaplain will visit a family and be with a family in moments of grief. And in moments of grief, more times than not, people are what we would call a captive audience,” Colovos said. “So if they are ever going to have a listening ear, it’s going to be during the time that they are meeting with a chaplain.”

Signs Your Leadership Is ‘Future Blind’

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I’m not a psychologist, but I’m declaring a new malady that I’m calling “Future Blind.” The symptoms could apply to a great number of people, and for many it can be deadly in a variety of ways.

I’m describing the problem as, “The inability to see anything beyond the present. To be blind to what’s coming. A failure to anticipate the future.”

An example would be someone who waits until the very last minute before making a decision, or someone who refuses to plan or consider future options or possibilities.

I have a friend that does this while driving. He never gets in a turn lane until it’s almost too late to make the actual turn. He doesn’t brake until the last minute, which causes his passengers to experience something close to a heart attack. He speeds up and slows down in jolts, because he’s not paying attention to what traffic is doing ahead.

A client I worked with refuses to think about anything beyond today. He won’t plan because he knows that sometimes things change, so why bother? But that leaves his team in total chaos, unable to work toward any common goals.

The worst problem with being Future Blind is that it leaves no margin. In other words, with my driving friend, he’s far more likely to have an accident because he leaves no space to maneuver in case someone else slams on brakes, or crosses over into his lane.

The client’s team can’t compensate for outside changes, because the leader had no plan to begin with.

If you suffer (even in the slightest) from being Future Blind, I recommend you start looking beyond the moment. Stop scrolling on social media, stop focusing just on what you’re doing right now, raise your eyes, and look ahead.

What’s tomorrow look like? What happens if things go wrong? What about a Plan B?

It’s a good argument for scheduling a personal planning session at least once a week. Take a few minutes to reflect on the upcoming week, meetings you have scheduled, and the tasks you have to accomplish. Then, fill out your calendar or schedule with that in mind.

Focusing on the present is important when we’re doing deep work, but every once in awhile, it’s a good idea to come up for air and look around.

If nothing else, it makes it far more difficult to be caught off-guard.

This article originally appeared here and is used by permission. 

The Secret Ministry of Pastors’ Wives

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Within a local church, the lead pastor’s ministry is the most visible to the public. Antithetically, pastors’ wives ministries are the least seen. She may be visible, but her ministry often is not.

Growing up as the son of a minister of music, who then became an executive pastor, and now serving as a pastor, I have a unique perspective of the ministry of pastors’ wives.

The purpose of this post is not to gripe about any personal issues, but more so to express in generalities what I’ve noticed with the plethora of pastors’ wives I’ve known over the years.

5 Secrets of Pastors’ Wives Ministry: 

1. Pastors’ wives have stressful Sunday mornings.

On Sunday mornings, pastors’ wives essentially live like single moms. I know that for my wife, she awakens the kids, and takes them through their morning routine, etc. I’d love to help, but I’m working starting early on Sunday mornings. This is the case for a large majority of pastors’ wives.

This is a ministry to the church. She’s taking the weight of familial responsibility off her husband’s shoulders every Sunday morning for the sake of the overall church having a pastor who is prepared and focused to preach.

2. Pastors’ wives minister to women with more confidential matters.

My wife is not a trained counselor, and didn’t have the luxury I experienced of going to seminary and taking counseling courses. I noticed that with my mom (executive pastor’s wife), my wife (pastor’s wife), and mother-in-law (pastor’s wife), that all of them experience times of ministering to other women who are pouring out their hearts.

This is a ministry to the church. Often, women want to talk to another woman instead of to their male pastor. So, the only person they see whom they feel they can trust is the pastor’s wife.

10 Guidelines for Praise and Worship Leadership

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Here are my Top 10 guidelines for praise and worship leadership. I have been leading worship teams for 30 years, but I still go back to this list to see what I need to work on!

Drum roll please… Let’s start with #10

Praise and Worship Leadership

10. Never stop growing

  • Are you practicing your singing and playing on a daily basis?
  • Are you taking lessons and improving your craft and leadership?
  • Are you changing and growing with the new trends, styles and songs?

9. Develop your organizational and admin skills

  • Are you writing (or buying) great charts for your band?
  • Are you running organized and productive rehearsals?
  • Are you creating timely schedules for your musicians and planning ahead on the church calendar?

8. Keep working on a good relationship with your pastor

  • Do you have a weekly meeting with your pastor?
  • Are you supporting your pastor in private and public?
  • Have you ever had your pastor and his wife over for dinner?

7. Mentoring is one your most important jobs

  • Are you looking for and developing the potential leaders on your team?
  • Are you giving room for new leaders to lead a song or worship time?
  • Jesus spent over three years developing His team; are you following His example?

Thom Rainer: 7 Reasons Why Church Outreach Programs Fail

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One of my passions in life is to help churches move from becoming inwardly focused to outwardly focused. When I wrote I Am a Church Member, my key motivation was to demonstrate that biblical church members are always looking outwardly. When I wrote Autopsy of a Deceased Church, my desire was to demonstrate the terrible consequences and deaths of local congregations when the members are inwardly focused. It’s why church outreach programs fail.

So why don’t you deliver us a “plug and play” program?

Some of the readers asked for me to deliver the latest outreach program to their churches. Hear me well: There is nothing wrong with outreach programs per se. They can be very helpful if put in the proper context.

The problem is that most highly prescriptive programs do not do so. As a result, they do not deliver their intended results. In fact, they can, in some cases, do more harm than good if they are not framed well.

7 reasons why most church outreach programs fail.

1. They are seen as an end instead of a means.

As a consequence, some will be a part of an outreach ministry as a sense of legalistic obligation.

Most church members, especially Millennials, refuse to participate in something unless they know the “why” behind it.

2. Most church outreach programs fail because they are not addressed in front-end membership classes.

The best time to help shape expectations and responsibilities of members is when they first become a part of the church.

Rarely is the issue of becoming outwardly focused addressed.

3. Many church outreach programs fail because they do not feel natural.

Though it is cliché, the best way to share the love of Christ is in the natural overflow of our love for Him.

The best outreach ministries should teach us how to channel that overflow.

Sarah Bessey: I Loved God. I Struggled with Loving His Church

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A few years ago I came home from our Easter service; I was a wreck. A sobbing, crying, hands-lifted-high, had-to-take-my-contacts-out wreck. I was feeling the need to write it out a bit, to figure out what I was feeling by putting fingers to keyboard, to begin to untangle all of the emotions swirling in my heart, to shake them out for a good look, a look at loving his church. I feel like God has made something beautiful out of my mess and my dust.

Years ago, my husband Brian left full-time vocational ministry, and, you who have walked this road with us, you know, it’s been a journey. We were so burnt out, so exhausted, so broken hearted, and part of me, a big part of me, never wanted to darken the door of a church again.

Brian embarked on seminary, he was being drawn more and more to denominational infrastructures as a way to guard against some of the abuses that are sadly common to our faith background. And me? I just stopped caring, stopped going; I decided to forget about church and just follow Jesus. I stopped calling myself a Christian because I couldn’t identify myself with so much of what the church was doing or selling or preaching. We were worlds apart, but we clung together to one truth: God is love. Love was all that held me, all that held us both, as we struggled to find out how we could navigate our exhaustion, our questions, our doubts, our frustrations, our histories, with the Bride of Christ.

We went to church now and then, but it was a chore, we never felt at home, I couldn’t seem to shut off the running monologue in my head, critical, wounded, bitter. Finally, I gave up and just settled that God would work something out, that somehow he would show me what church is and what it should be and how I could be part of it somehow in a way that felt intellectually, spiritually and emotionally honest. In the meantime, I turned to Jesus, I flung myself at his feet, and I found grace there, I found healing, rest, Love, peace.

I loved God. I struggled with loving His church.

I still have a lot of those questions. I still get the hives when I see big churches with big splashy programs, any mention of a building project. Any talk of business plans and marketing money, gimmicks and light shows, make my eyes cross. Sometimes I still go to church and feel like running, pell-mell, tumble-bumble, into the fresh air.

But a year ago, we went to a local church here. And it was close to Easter and my heart, somehow, my heart just exhaled. I didn’t know what it meant. I hardly know now. All I knew was that I felt like I was home, like maybe God had something for me here.

How My Work as a Pastor Nearly Killed Me!

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Hebrews 12:3 is a verse I can’t seem to get out of my head these days. It’s just sort of there, buzzing in the background like the hum of a refrigerator. I can almost ignore it, and then, suddenly, I can’t: Consider Jesus, who endured from sinners such hostility against himself, so that you may not grow weary or fainthearted. —Hebrews 12:3

Weariness is a part of life. I know that there are seasons when it seems as though I’m running through thick mud. But here, the writer of Hebrews is pointing out that there is an exercise we can do that will relieve us from weariness.

Now the weariness that is being referred to here isn’t so much a physical weariness; rather, it’s an emotional weariness, a weary spirit. Anyone who’s doing anything knows that there are times when it seems like no matter what you do, there just isn’t enough juice in the tank to meet the challenges ahead. People are difficult, work can be challenging, and at times the pace at which life is happening, both good and bad, just saps us of our ability to manage well.

How My Work as a Pastor Nearly Killed Me!

A couple of years ago, I had a six-month stretch where it felt like I was drowning. My staff thought I was going to either quit or drop dead. The ironic part is that things were going good! Looking back, I was running at a pace that no human can sustain. I was sprinting a marathon. It nearly killed me.

But other times, things are not going so good. Every one of us goes through fire. Every one of us gets pinched in the hinges of relationships and work. What then?

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