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Starting a Women’s Ministry Program From the Ground-Up

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When I think about starting a women’s ministry, I’m inspired by church planters. One of my favorite aspects of church planting is that things are ground-up; theology is becoming reality, philosophy is becoming practice. In other words, if you have ideas of how church can be, you can make them happen. Doors are wide open, obstacles are few.

And in church planting, you’re starting something new almost all the time, whether it’s a children’s ministry, a small group, an elder team, a prayer ministry or an outreach strategy.

It must also be said that seeing an idea come to fruition can be one of the greatest challenges in church planting, and because church planters are seeing multiple ideas come to fruition at the same time, it is quite the juggling act. This greenhouse-like atmosphere requires diligence, patience and back-breaking hard work. Most of all, it requires thinking through the “whys” of church. These “whys” lead to “hows”; a philosophy of ministry leads to practice and structure.

My husband and the other elders at our church do most of this philosophizing, but when our church reached a point when we needed to move into starting a women’s ministry that was more structured, the idea generating fell to me. With an empty drawing board before me, I felt the weight of my decisions.

Just how do you go about starting a women’s ministry?

I realized quickly that the philosophy — the “whys” — behind the women’s ministry would be the most important decision I ever made. The “whys” would inform everything we did for and with women in our church. Why would this ministry exist?

From our ministry experience, I’ve seen that there are two main “whys” for women’s ministry: To gather women together around an activity for fellowship, and to introduce women to a process of spiritual growth. One is event-based, the other is relationship-based. I knew that we could do a series of unrelated events that brought women together, or we could develop a process of connecting that would lead to one-on-one or small group discipleship.

In the latter, events would serve as an entry into relationships. There would need to be a “What next?” after every event, whether it was a small group Bible study or a discipleship relationship or a way to invest in other women.

Honestly, this is still a work in process. We are two years in, and still constantly trying to adjust how this philosophy plays out practically. The philosophy of our women’s ministry is that we would constantly drill down to discipleship. We invite women into Bible study, needs-based ministries or occasional events so that women can connect in spiritually sharpening relationships.

5 Reasons Growth May Be More Difficult in Your Church

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Every year another two million American adults become less receptive to the gospel, and less receptive to churches.

Every year.

That is one of the nuggets I took from the Pew Research work on the “Nones” when they first released the data in 2012. Pew has continued to follow the religious commitment level of Americans. From 2007 to 2014, over 12 million American adults have moved from a high level of religious commitment to a low level of commitment. They just skipped the medium level of commitment altogether.

Cultural Christianity is dying.

One no longer has to be a Christian or in a church to be accepted by society. That relatively easy pool of prospective attendees for our churches is disappearing.

But most churches keep doing what they’ve always done.

As a consequence, they are reaching fewer. They are declining.

Why?

The answer to that question is too complex for a simple blog post, but let me provide five high-level responses for now.

  1. Church members are not being intentionally relational with those who are not in church. The old way of church outreach was more transactional; today it requires the development of relationships. Most church members will not take that step. Many don’t know how to take that step.
  2. Many churches are stuck in the past. While we never compromise the gospel and the Word, our methodologies must reflect an awareness of our culture, and a willingness to be missionaries to that culture. Sadly, too many church members are unwilling to make changes. Church, for them, is about their needs and their preferences.
  3. Church members are not regularly inviting people to church. Yes, it can be that simple. Many of the religiously unaffiliated will come to church if we invite them. But it’s difficult for them to respond to an invitation if they never get one.
  4. Many church members fail to act like Christians on social media. Unbelievers are watching us on Facebook and Twitter. And many of us are more likely to show our rear ends than Christian love. Social media is where the unchurched reside. And they constantly see our petty quarrels, our venomous politics and our self-serving attitudes. Look at this blog post about what non-Christians think about us. I wrote it in 2013, but the comments still come in from unbelievers.
  5. If they come to church, they only have a mediocre experience. The religiously unaffiliated do visit our churches from time to time. But, more often than not, they see our holy huddles and our lukewarm greetings. Most will not return.

Growth is indeed more difficult in most of our churches today. We no longer have the large pool of cultural Christians from which to draw. But we can reach them. We must reach them.

We will have to treat our membership in our churches as missionaries to the community instead of country club membership. Biblical membership is not about getting our perks, privileges and preferences. It’s about sacrificing self for the gospel.

Then, and only then, will we see our churches start growing again.

This article originally appeared here.

Small Group Worship Matters!

Rick Warren taught us there are five purposes of the church and five purposes for our lives. They key to life and the key to church is to keep these purposes in balance. Do not emphasize one at the expense of another. You might be surprised to learn that not everyone agrees on the whole balance thing. (You might also be surprised by this. I heard an early teaching by Rick–back when his church was small, like five or ten thousand–and he taught about the four purposes of the church. He didn’t add fellowship in until later.)

Steve Sjogren doesn’t believe in balance either. He believes that the purpose of service can be the driver for all the rest. Servant evangelism, he calls it. Service drives the evangelism, which gets people in the church where they can be disciples, worship, and fellowship. Service drives the train. http://www.servantevangelism.com

From one perspective, you could argue that my plan–the double your class through hospitality plan — is a fellowship-driven plan. Fellowship drives people into groups where they are saved, discipled, worship, and serve.

If I understand John Macarthur’s philosophy of ministry, he is all about discipleship through hour-long expository sermons. This is equipping the saints for the work of the ministry. The saints are equipped, the service gets done, the evangelism gets done, worship and fellowship get done. Discipleship drives everything else. http://www.gty.org

Jack Hayford teaches we ought to emphasize one purpose above the rest as well, but he chooses a different purpose–not fellowship, not service, not evangelism, not discipleship, but worship. Worship is the key driving purpose that raises the tent for all the others to work under.

What do you think? Should we:

  • Keep the purposes balanced? (Rick Warren)
  • Emphasize evangelism above the rest? (Bill Hybels)
  • Emphasize service above the rest? (Steve Sjogren)
  • Emphasize fellowship above the rest?
  • Emphasize discipleship above the rest? (John Macarthur)
  • Emphasize worship above the rest? (Jack Hayford)

You might be surprised by my answer: I’d give the nod to putting worship slightly above the rest. It is one of the reasons we start every conference with worship. Why?

  • The Bible says it is fitting. It is just right. It is fitting that the upright would praise Him.
  • Jesus said that if He is lifted up, He will draw all men unto himself. Lifting up seems an obvious allusion to worship. This is the message of Sally Morgenthaler in Worship Evangelism. There is something inherently attractive to the world to see a people enthusiastically adoring God.
  • We are taught that we get close to God through worship. Isn’t Christian living all about getting close to God? What is discipleship if it is not learning to live close to God? Psalms teaches that we enter His gates with thanksgiving and His courts with praise. We might say, “We get into God’s neighborhood with thanksgiving and into His living room with praise.” We get into God’s area code with thanksgiving and up close and personal in praise.
  • Praise helps us to get the Lordship issue right. Christian living is centrally about who is boss, who is Lord. Worship helps to clear our thinking about this. As we sing, “I exalt you!” we are reminded that He is God and I am not. Discipleship is all about learning to live under the Lordship of Christ. Worship helps us with that.
  • Worship builds fellowship. There is something about the common experience of exalting our one God together that makes us feel closer together. We cannot all get closer to God without also getting closer to each other.
  • Jehoshaphat demonstrates the importance of worship in one of my favorite Old Testament stories. He faces his enemy with the choir leading the army. The enemy is defeated. Gotta love that story. Here is a great line: “We do not know what to do, but our eyes are on you. Love it.
  • Worship is just a wonderful experience. Worship at its best is joyful worship. Piper: “He is most glorified in us when we are most satisfied in Him.” You love to worship, don’t you? It is, for me, more fun than Six Flags. If there were not any redeeming, noble quality about worship, I’d still want to worship because it is so much fun.

Worship creates spiritually vibrant people. Groups that regularly worship together are almost twice as likely (86%) to be spiritually vibrant when compared with those who don’t worship together.

By the way, small group worship also correlates positively to growth. Groups that worship together are more likely to grow.

The Three Most Common Causes of Depression

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Over the past couple of days I’ve been privileged to be teaching a group of Reformed Baptist pastors about giving help and hope to the depressed. I was greatly encouraged by their compassion and balance as we explored the causes and cures of depression. I believe the church in general is coming much closer to the mind of Christ in ministering to depressed Christians, due to a growing understanding of the complexity of depression and the need to adopt a holistic approach to recovery.

One of the questions that arose in discussion was “What are the most common causes of depression in our own day?” From my experience of counseling in this area over many years, I’d say the three most common causes are the following.

Burnout

Many people, including many conscientious Christians, are pushing themselves beyond safe limits in the pace of their lives, the hours they work and the responsibilities they take on. When that is combined with a neglect of sleep, exercise, good food, friendship and a weekly Sabbath, it’s no surprise that the body and mind eventually say, “Enough!” The exhausted and depleted body and brain drag down thoughts, emotions and spirituality.

Abuse

A significant proportion of people with depression have suffered serious sexual abuse in childhood or, even more commonly, excessive discipline from an authoritarian and hyper-critical parent. Although decades may have passed, the false guilt, the self-loathing, the shame, the people-pleasing and the sense of worthlessness can re-surface and pull people into a deep pit of depression and anxiety. This is not inevitable, of course; victims who refuse to allow their abuse to dominate their thinking or define their identity usually escape this vortex.

An Unforgiving Spirit

Although every sin depresses the spirit to some degree or another, an unforgiving spirit is by far the most damaging sin. Christians may have been forgiven by God for massive offenses; yet they can sometimes find it extremely difficult to forgive other lesser offenses. One pastor told me that he had held on to a bitter unforgiving spirit for 40 years, hardening his heart and harming his relationship with his wife and congregation, though they were completely innocent parties. Only when a counselor confronted him and led him to forgive someone in his distant past, did his heart soften, his darkness lift and his relationships improve.

There are of course other common causes of depression—the next on my list would be bereavement, post-partum, chronic ill-health, materialism, pornography—but burnout, abuse and an unforgiving spirit are the top three by far.  

Lockdowns Stop Mission Teams from Returning to the U.S.

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At least two church mission teams are among the Americans trying to return to the U.S. during the global pandemic, which has led to various countries going on lockdown. Church leaders and parents have been contacting politicians, trying to arrange a safe return for their loved ones.

A group from Florida that’s been stuck in Peru just learned they’ll be on a flight to Washington, D.C., this evening. But a Missouri group that’s been in Guatemala could be grounded through March 30. This week, the State Department issued a Level 4 travel advisory, warning citizens to stop all international trips.

Lockdown Was a ‘complete surprise’

Twenty-six members of All Nations Church in Tallahassee, Florida, became stranded in Peru after its government declared an emergency, closed borders, and stopped all transportation. Pastor Steve Dow tells a TV station, “It was a complete surprise to all of us.” When he went to the U.S. embassy in Lima with his passport, Dow says he was denied entry and told that nothing could be done.

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Mark Milligan, a deacon who coordinated the trip, says, “It’s one thing to be here one week, but to be out over three weeks, it’s a lot more than what everybody bargained for.” On social media, the group shared that members are safe and healthy, have good attitudes, and view this as a “God opportunity.”

They’ve been requesting prayers for a resolution, and an answer came Thursday evening. “We are thanking God that our crew now has a flight booked and will be on their way home soon!” the group wrote on Facebook. In a video, they shared the good news that they’ll be on the first flight out of Peru, at 5 p.m. today.

Excitement Is Wearing Off Quickly 

Meanwhile, 14 teenagers and five adult leaders from Platte Woods United Methodist Church in Kansas City, Missouri, are still in Guatemala, awaiting help. Their service trip came to an abrupt end when the Latin American country went on lockdown due to the virus outbreak. “Nobody anticipated absolute border closures,” says trip leader Dr. Marty Kanne.

When the group arrived, Guatemala had no cases of the virus, but the situation changed quickly. Though officials say no flights will go in or out of the country until March 30, Missouri Senator Josh Hawley is working with Secretary of State Mike Pompeo to find a quicker resolution.

Group members report being bored but healthy. “We’re trying to do a lot of things to pass the time,” says 17-year-old Mackenzie Albright. For example, the teens are practicing their Spanish, playing cards, working out, and making TikTok videos.

“But when you’re with the same people for a really long time, in a confined space,” Albright adds, “sometimes things get old, but we’re trying.” The unknown has been “a little scary,” the teenager admits, but one plus is that a medical doctor is part of their group.

Brandi Molina, the church’s missions director, says group members miss their families but “are just trying to stay positive and take it day by day.” She adds, “We know we have a lot of people at home that are working on our behalf, and so we just have to have faith.”

Michael Jr. Has a Free Comedy Special for Anyone Who Needs a Laugh

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Comedian Michael Jr. has decided to release his new comedy special in an unexpected way: by offering it for free this weekend on Facebook. Because people have been struggling with fear, anxiety, and isolation, the comedian is hoping his special will be an opportunity for everyone to take a break from their worries and laugh a little.

“At a time when they’re telling us to physically be separated, I actually think that this comedy can emotionally bring us together,” said Michael Jr. in a video explaining why he decided to release his special in this way. “Laughter is good like a medicine, and I have to say that this is a time when we really could use some medicine.” 

Michael Jr. Starts Asking a Different Question

Michael Jr. said he has been doing stand-up comedy for about 27 years. About halfway through his career, he experienced a change in his priorities. “Normally when a comedian gets on stage, the question we’re asking is, ‘How can I get laughs from people?’ Well, I had a shift take place, and I felt like God told me to ask a different question. And the question I’ve been asking is, ‘How can I give people an opportunity to laugh?’” Changing the question he was asking made a big difference, said Michael Jr., “because now it’s not just about receiving. It’s really about saying, ‘What can I truly deliver?’”

Asking the new question has led Michael Jr. and his team to places like homeless shelters, prisons, and abused children’s facilities. “A lot of the times,” he said, “when we’re doing a big show in a city, we’ll stop at one of those locations, really to make laughter commonplace in uncommon places.” And that idea is precisely what has led him to release his special for free in the middle of a global pandemic. “Right now because of this virus and everything that’s going on,” said the comedian, “our communities are uncommon places for laughter.”

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He had originally been intending to release the comedy special later this year or early year next on a platform such as Netflix or Hulu. “We didn’t plan to do this before,” he said, “but it’s ready for such a time as this, so I want you to enjoy it.” 

Michael Jr. emphasized that he hopes people will use his show as an opportunity to come together with others in their households. He also hopes people will spread the word to those who are particularly stressed right now, like healthcare workers and the elderly.

“I believe laughter and fear have a hard time living together. So if we could just take a break and laugh for a little while, I think that’ll be pretty awesome. And if I can be a small part of that, I absolutely want to be, even if it means that we take my comedy special and just give it to you.”

Michael Jr. got his start at the Comedy & Magic Club in Hermosa Beach, California. He performs around the country and has been on television shows such as Jimmy Kimmel Live, The Tonight Show and The Late, Late Show, as well as appearing in the film, War Room. The comedian stars in the upcoming film, Selfie Dad, in which he plays a dad battling a midlife crisis and the desire to become a YouTube sensation when he learns that his true satisfaction can be found in God alone.

“I believe in the power of laughter to help us enjoy good times and get through hard times,” said Michael Jr. “This Facebook event is one way I can use my talent to shine a bit of light in this unprecedented time of isolation.”

To those who will join, he said, “I’m looking forward to it. I appreciate you. I love you. Let’s laugh together.” 

People can watch the 80-minute special, More Than Funny, at 5 p.m. CT this Sunday, March 22. It is appropriate for all ages.

Fearing for Children’s Lives, Christian Family in India Refrains from Reporting Assault to Police

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NEW DELHI (Morning Star News) – Tribal animists in central India drove a Christian family into the jungle last week, with one later intercepting their 9-year-old girl and threatening to kill her if she went to school again, her father said.

On Wednesday (March 11), two days after an attack expelling the Christians from Bilood village in Madhya Pradesh state, the wife of the primary assailant stopped the girl (name withheld) as she returned from school to her makeshift refuge in the jungle, her father said. The woman’s husband, identified only as Laxman, had led the March 9 attack on the family of pastor Lalu Kirade, with the assailants later demolishing their home in Khandwa District.

“Holding her by her hair, Laxman’s wife asked her how dare she enter the village,” Pastor Kirade said. “[Name withheld] told her that she cannot miss school as her annual examinations are taking place. But Laxman’s wife pulled my daughter’s hair and threatened her that she should not been seen in the village or she would be beaten to death.”

His daughter walked back to their jungle site crying the entire way, Pastor Kirade said.

“I cried before the Lord for hours, asking Him what the fault of my children was and why are they being treated this way,” the tearful pastor told Morning Star News.

He said he would not report either attack to police.

“My children are studying in the government school of the village – I cannot risk their lives,” he said. “If I make a complaint with the police, the assailants will not spare my children.”

Instigated by Hindu extremists from the Bajrang Dal, villagers who worship ancestors and objects in nature arrived at the pastor’s property on March 9 and told them they would be expelled unless they abandoned Christianity, sources said.

“He [Laxman] was inebriated when he came to my house around 5 in the evening and began to question me about my faith,” Pastor Kirade said, noting that villagers often become intoxicated as they celebrate the Hindu festival of colors known as Holi.

Trying to provoke a fight outside their home, Laxman asked why the pastor did not indulge in drinking and dancing to celebrate the festival, he said. The villager harassed the family for about two hours with questions that insulted Christianity, and the pastor asked him to leave, he said.

“Laxman began to beat my youngest [5-year-old] son, and I somehow rescued him,” Pastor Kirade told Morning Star News.

Two hours later, Laxman returned with a wooden rod and began to break items that lay outside the family’s home. Laxman’s wife and others from outside the village joined him, the pastor said. Seven or eight people with wooden rods began assaulting his parents, he said.

The pastor’s 65-year-old father, Dildaar Kirade, told Morning Star News they punched him eight to 10 times on the back and hand. The pastor’s mother, 60-year-old Rekha Bai Kirade, said they struck her with their fists four or five times on her back, and that she was still in pain.

Pastor Kirade said he knew most of the four or five villagers who then joined in the assault.

“My next-door neighbor, his wife, his three sons, other men from the village who knew me since my birth, joined hands with Laxman and broke my house and demanded that I be excommunicated,” Pastor Kirade, who was born in the village, said in tears.

As the raucous mob began to demolish his house, the pastor took his three boys, ages 5, 8 and 11, along with his daughter and parents, and escaped to thick jungle about one mile away. His wife was away visiting her parents.

Pastor Kirade’s congregation later informed him that the assailants demolished his home and warned that if they see him in the village again, they will kill him.

The Update on Generation Z Every Church Leader Needs

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Vivendi Brand Marketing released a comprehensive report titled “Gen Z & Entertainment” on those born between 2000 and 2012 (Although most would deem Generation Z to include those born between 1995 and 2010.). The report looks at how “they connect with books, festivals, gaming, music and series in a new and different way.”

The “Billie Eilish” generation (named after the Gen Z music phenom) is accurately noted as the largest generation on Earth, and they “mark a radical break from the expectations, behavior and mindset of their elders.”

Drawing from findings from more 60 reports, additional in-house research and extensive collaboration across all Vivendi businesses, they determined the following key traits that best characterize Generation Z:

  • Gen Z have an 8-second attention span, but at the same time are aces at absorbing content quickly, as exemplified with Tiktok, the app best associated with them.

  • Gen Z are connected. 72% use social media while watching television. As opposed to millennials and their “selfie culture,” they are all about authenticity and showing their genuine selves.

  • Gen Z are inclusive, tolerant and abhor discrimination. Activists and conscious consumers, they are fully aware of their environmental footprint, willing to spend less on material goods and more on in real life experiences.

  • Gen Z feel anxious. Always connected, their unfiltered view of the world fuels anxiety. Mindful of digital overload, they desire immersive, real-life moments that capture their full attention and alleviate their stress. Apps such as Flipd help them to digital “detox” and unplug from their digital life.

Readers of my book Meet Generation Z will find these marks familiar. The telling point is that the early research revealed in that book is not only being substantiated, but also demonstrating that it is not changing as they age.

Why bother with Generation Z?

Consider three reasons:

  1. They are the largest generation on the planet. If you care about reaching people for Jesus, you will care about Generation Z.

  2. They are not simply shaping culture. Soon, they will constitute culture.

  3. Most churches are tied to a specific generation. It may be because of the year the church was birthed; it may be because of the age of the senior pastor; it may be because of the era of its greatest growth. The danger of being generationally linked is that you will live and die by that generation. Wisdom would dictate that every church should keep its eye on the next generation, and the generation after that, in terms of outreach. That way you will not be a “one and done” church, but one that maintains vibrancy for, yes, generations.

So yes, “meet” Generation Z. But do not only meet them,

… reach them.

Sources

“Vivendi Unveils Extensive Report on Generation Z and How They Are Shaping the Entertainment Business,” Vivendi, March 9, 2020, read online.

James Emery White, Meet Generation Z (Baker).

This article originally appeared here.

Small Groups and Social Distancing: Promoting Online Community

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Amid the pandemic, people need each other more than ever before, yet they need to avoid each other more than ever. That’s where online community comes in.

Christians believe faith is more powerful than fear. As the news media and government agencies continue to discuss the critically important topic of the spread and impact of the virus, it’s easy for anyone to give into fear, especially when they are isolated from others.

Worship services are forced online as groups of 10 are being discouraged to gather. For smaller numbers, social distancing is encouraged where people should stay six feet away from each other. Whether by mandate or by choice, people are cautious about meeting with any size group. Isolation, though, tends to amplify fear. How can we promote community and social distancing at the same time? One answer is online community.

Online Community: Reframing Life and Ministry

The only thing missing from everyday life amid a pandemic is personal contact. The church may not be meeting within the four walls of the church building for an hour on Sunday, but the church can function as the Body of Christ despite the lack of conventional church services.

Paul instructed in 1 Corinthians 12 that every member of the Body is important and that every member has gifts. Rather than meeting in weekend services to check off the church box for the week, members can and should be challenged to embrace their deeper calling. Who can they serve? How can they encourage? How can the church be the church outside of the four walls of a Sunday service? We really should be asking these questions anyway.

When we think of small groups in particular, often we focus on practicing the “one anothers” of the Bible.

“Love one another” (John 13:34; John 15:12).

“Be devoted to one another in brotherly love” (Romans 12:10).

“Honor one another above yourselves” (Romans 12:10).

“Live in harmony with one another” (Romans 12:16).

“Stop passing judgment on one another” (Romans 14:13).

“Serve one another in love” (Galatians 5:13).

“Carry each other’s burdens” (Galatians 6:2).

“Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other” (Ephesians 4:32).

“Build each other up” (1 Thessalonians 5:11).

“Encourage one another daily” (Hebrews 3:13).

“Spur one another on toward love and good deeds” (Hebrews 10:24).

“Pray for each other” (James 5:16).

There are 59 of these statements in all. (For a complete list, check out this post on smallgroupchurches.com

There are only a couple of these statements that should be avoided in a climate of social distancing:

“Wash one another’s feet” (John 13:14) and

“Greet one another with a holy kiss” (1 Peter 5:14).

All of the other “one anothers” can be practiced among believers even in isolation, quarantine, and social distancing.

5 Smart Ways To Build Trust in Your Marriage

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So trust is pretty important in marriage. Some of you that are married have a decent amount of trust in your relationship. How great would it be to raise that level of trust and grow even closer in your marriage? Others of you may have little trust. How would you like to move towards restoring what is broken?

Regardless of where you are in your marriage, you can always grow in the area of trust. Trust is a vital ingredient for any healthy marriage relationship! If you are intentional about building a solid foundation of trust in your marriage, you can build a family that will impact generations to come!

Here are 5 Smart Ways to Build Trust in Your Marriage:

1. Do what you say you will do.

Pretty simple. Say you are going to be home by 6pm? Be home by 6pm! If you can hold appointments elsewhere, you should be able to hold them with the ones you care about the most. Communicate your plans and try your best to stick to them. Trust is lost when you fail to follow through I’m action hat you have committed to in word. Choose the higher road and do what you say you will do.

2. Be consistent.

Time builds trust. Consistency over time builds even more trust. If your spouse is talking with you, be consistent in the way you engage and listen. If you have messed up recently in your marriage, as many have, it is going to take time to rebuild that trust. Be patient. Time and consistency. Be consistent.

3. Put your spouse’s interest before your own.

When marriages begin to go downhill, 9 times out of 10, one or both spouses begin to put their own interest before that of their spouses. ME mentality. This selfish mindset erodes trust faster than a wild hurricane on a sandy beach. When you SHOW your spouse you care about their needs more than your own, you will earn their trust over time. And when they begin to put your interests first, guess what happens? Both of your needs are met!

4. Don’t be stupid.

Seriously, don’t be stupid. Don’t do things that you wouldn’t do if your spouse was right next to you. Don’t say things you wouldn’t say if your spouse wasn’t right next to you. Don’t look at things you wouldn’t look at with your spouse right next to you. Don’t. Be. Stupid. Don’t be stupid!

5. Get past the past.

Forgive your spouse. If you’ve been married long, there is a 99.999% chance that one or both of you have played the “stupid” card a time or two. As a result, hurts happen and are tough to heal from and leave behind. If there is anything you are still holding against your spouse, let it go. Your forgiveness for them may eventually lead them to forgive you for when you have played the “stupid” card. Ultimately, you will not be able to control what their response will be, but you must take responsibility to forgive them first. Trust is impossible without forgiveness, because none of us are without fault. Forgive. Get past the past.

Which of these areas resonates with you the most in your marriage and why? What are other ways to build trust in a marriage? Love to hear your thoughts!

Pastors Refuse to Stop Assembling for Worship

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Though most American churches have temporarily closed and moved services online during this pandemic, some pastors refuse to obey orders or even follow safety recommendations. In East Baton Rouge, Louisiana, the Rev. Tony Spell of Life Tabernacle Church insists the current outbreak is “not a concern” and “politically motivated.”

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On Sunday, almost 1,200 people worshiped at Life Tabernacle, where Spell continued the Apostolic congregation’s tradition of laying on of hands. That’s a biblical practice, Spell says, adding he’ll keep it up “without the fear of the spread of any virus.” By still holding worship three times a week, the pastor is violating Governor John Bel Edwards’ order to halt gatherings of more than 50 people. Nationally, officials have reduced that number to 10 in an attempt to slow the outbreak.

Life Tabernacle Pastor Cites Religious Rights

According to Spell, assembling for worship is a right that can’t be taken away, no matter the circumstances. “People are still going to work, still going to the mall,” he says. “I encountered more people in Target today than I did during my service last night. It’s persecution of the faith for me not to have my worship service, and yet I am allowed to go out in public and shop. Why is there one standard for commerce and another for religion?”

Online or televised services don’t have the same emotion or impact, Spell contends. “There are miracles and signs and wonders in every one of our services, and that’s why we continue.” During Tuesday night’s service, he preached, “I just want to encourage the religious world tonight…Keep going to church! Keep on worshiping God!…The church is a hospital for the sick! It’s a place of healing for the brokenhearted!”

A police officer reportedly told Spell the National Guard would break up future services. After video of Life Tabernacle’s services surfaced, some church members were suspended from work as a health precaution.

Regarding his state’s ban, Bel Edwards says, “I’m a person of faith. I happen to believe very much in the awesome power of prayer. I also believe in science, and the scientists at the CDC say that the measures we are taking will minimize the spread.”

Other Leaders Agree With Rev. Spell

Brian Lowman, pastor of South Hills Baptist Church in Raleigh, North Carolina, has kept church doors open—literally, propping them so no one has to touch handles. He’s taking other precautions, such as not passing the offering plate and canceling Sunday school, but worship will continue for now. Lowman cites Scripture passages such as Hebrews 10:25 and 2 Timothy 1:7, saying God wants us to keep meeting and not be afraid.

Pastor Rodney Howard-Browne, head of Revival Ministries International in Florida, is not only still holding in-person worship services but also encouraging people to shake hands. “The only time the church will close is when the Rapture is taking place,” he says. “This Bible school is open because we’re raising up revivalists, not pansies.”

R.R. Reno, editor of the conservative Catholic magazine First Things, says, “Closing churches is utterly unnecessary,” and “modest-sized” services can be held responsibly.

As of Thursday noon, the United States had 10,442 confirmed cases of the virus and 150 deaths.

Dr. Tony Evans: God Is Using This Crisis to Wake People Up

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In a sermon livestreamed to an empty sanctuary on Sunday, March 15, Pastor Tony Evans addressed the global pandemic, using the last few verses of Hebrews 12 to explain that he believes God is using the crisis to call people back to him.

“God is talking,” said Dr. Evans, “and one of the ways God speaks is through allowing circumstances into our lives and into our world that are not pleasant. He allows those circumstances to get our undivided attention. It’s a wake-up call.”

Pastor Tony Evans Explains What’s Going On

“I want to take just a few moments to answer the question probably on most people’s mind, and that is: what on earth is going on?” said Pastor Tony Evans. To answer that question, he said, we need to recognize “a very important biblical principle…Everything visible and physical is preceded by something invisible and spiritual. So if you want to deal with the physical, visible problem you must identify the invisible, spiritual cause.” Put another way, “If what you see is all you see, you do not see all there is to be seen.” 

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Evans based his sermon on Hebrews 12:25-29, which says, 

See to it that you do not refuse him who speaks. If they did not escape when they refused him who warned them on earth, how much less will we, if we turn away from him who warns us from heaven? At that time his voice shook the earth, but now he has promised, “Once more I will shake not only the earth but also the heavens.” The words “once more” indicate the removing of what can be shaken—that is, created things—so that what cannot be shaken may remain. Therefore, since we are receiving a kingdom that cannot be shaken, let us be thankful, and so worship God acceptably with reverence and awe, for our “God is a consuming fire.”

The passage contrasts the visible, created world with the invisible, spiritual realm of God’s kingdom and warns people not to refuse to listen to God when he is speaking to them. From these verses, which describe God shaking the earth, Evans drew the principle that God allows disruptions into our lives in order to get our attention. 

God has not been a priority in American society, said the pastor. We have marginalized him and turned to idols instead. When we forget about God, said Evans, “Oftentimes, in the Bible and in the world, God will shake things”—that is, he will allow the normality of our lives to be impacted. We know God is speaking now because our world has been disrupted. 

“This pandemic has disrupted our lives, our work, our play, our sports, our travel, our fun,” Evans said. “It has disrupted our gatherings. It has turned what was normal and made it abnormal. In fact, it’s made it, in some sectors, very dangerous. But this is a grand opportunity to return to the God who allowed the shaking to occur.” The opportunity is for us to stop putting our hope in created things, as the Hebrews passage says, and instead to trust in God as citizens of his kingdom, which cannot be disrupted or shaken. 

The pastor compared our current suffering from the pandemic to the pain women experience in childbirth. Labor is extremely painful, and no one desires that suffering in and of itself. But when we recognize that new life is the result, that becomes “good news in a bad situation.”

Evans believes there is a lot of good that has come as a result of the pandemic. People in our nation’s capital who were not talking to each other before are talking now, he said, and people across the country are helping one another and trying to be more responsible. Said Evans, “God is forcing us to not just say we’re one nation under God, but to start acting like we’re one nation under God.” 

Even though Evans did say the virus “is not chance,” he clarified that he does not believe God is deliberately inflicting suffering on people. God is not causing the virus, but he is allowing it in order to accomplish a spiritual purpose. 

Pastor Tony Evans on Living in God’s Kingdom

So what does this mean for those of us who are already part of God’s kingdom? It means, said Evans, that we should 1) give thanks and 2) serve other people. “Did you know you can give thanks right now?” he asked. “You don’t give thanks for the problem—you give thanks in it.”

He noted that we’re being told to wash our hands a lot, and said, “Well, as you wash your hands, I want you to wash somebody else’s feet. I want you to go and serve your neighbor.” Now is not a time for fighting or arguing, he emphasized. Now is a time for serving and showing kindness.

“If you are a Christian, if you’re part of this unshakable kingdom, I want you to give thanks that this pandemic does not own you cause God owns you,” said Evans. “Don’t be a casual Christian. This is a time for full-time Christians, not part-time saints.”

How to Livestream for Free: A Quick Solution for Churches

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More and more churches have made the hard decision to suspend their public worship services and instead offer their congregants an online version of church. For those churches that are new to livestream services, this can be a difficult time to navigate. Before you type how to livestream into Google, though, we’ve put together some quick suggestions for you.

While figuring out how to livestream can be complicated and expensive, depending on how polished you want your services to look and whether you want to host the video yourself, there are some ways to get your services up and running as soon as this weekend using things you likely already have at your church.

How to Livestream for Free

Responding to our current crisis by helping churches get their livestreams up and running quickly, OutreachDigital has a new streaming service for churches that just launched yesterday. Considering the fact that most of the churches who need a quick livestream solution right now are likely small ones that haven’t done this before, OutreachDigital is offering the service for FREE and has anticipated many questions you might have about the process.

Through FreeOnlineChurch.com, churches that already have a YouTube account or Facebook page can start streaming in a few steps. (Side note: If you don’t have a YouTube channel or Facebook page for your church, don’t worry; you’ll just need to set those up first.)

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The advantage of using FreeOnlineChurch is it acts as a bridge between Facebook or YouTube and your church website. This means that you can take advantage of Facebook’s or YouTube’s simple “go live” options and have the video easily accessible from your church’s website. Directing visitors and members to your church’s website is often easier than directing them to a Facebook page. Additionally, sending people to a streaming page on your website provides a distraction-free experience that is equipped with a digital Bible, an area to take sermon notes, and (soon) a community chat. Viewers also see links to your online giving along with other important links to your website.

Getting set up with FreeOnlineChurch.com is very simple. The only things you’ll need before you start are your church’s Facebook page or YouTube account and a phone, tablet, or computer with internet connectivity. The steps you need to take to sign up are simple, too:

    1. Visit FreeOnlineChurch.com
    2. Click Get started
    3. Fill out the forms
    4. Choose your free streaming provider (Facebook or YouTube)
    5. Follow the steps to connect your streaming provider to the FreeOnlineChurch.com platform
    6. Copy your URL from the settings page and Place a “Live” or “Church Online” button on your churches current website linking back to your FreeOnlineChurch.com page
    7. Whenever you go live or post a video, it will automatically show up on your church page

How to Livestream: Other Things to Consider

A big thing to consider when directing people online is whether you have a sufficient online  church giving platform. Check out Church Online Giving Platforms – 5 Reliable Tools We Love to learn about the services that are available to make online giving an easy experience for your congregation.

Once you’ve got your livestream up and going and have a couple weeks under your belt, it’s a good time to dive into some metrics. Check out Does Your Church Livestream? Here Are Some Things You Need to Know. There are some best-practices with streaming that are going to be helpful when and if you want to try growing your channel or just making it more accessible to searchers. 

Perhaps you’d like to host your videos on your own website. It should be noted that when you use either YouTube or Facebook, the videos are hosted on those respective platforms. If you want access to this video footage, say, perhaps to use for clips in your services or to make other videos, check out this article: Three Steps to Launch Your Live Streaming Ministry. Author Duke Tabor does an excellent job explaining the pros and cons of livestreaming via a social media platform versus livestreaming from your church website.

Why Body Abuse and Body Adoration Fail on Both Levels

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Joey Chestnut is the most dominant person in his field. People marvel at his ability and his dedication. He is consistently the national champion in the Nathan’s Annual Hotdog Eating Contest. He won again last year by downing 71 hotdogs (with buns) in ten minutes. 25 years ago, it took 20 hotdogs to win the hotdog eating competition. You can watch the competition on ESPN. Also, on ESPN, but very different, is the CrossFit Games – where athletes compete against one another. Hotdog eating and CrossFit competitions, broadcast on the same sports channel, illustrate the paradox we find ourselves in with body abuse and body adoration.

On one hand, we are eating more and eating less healthy as a culture. Doctors agree that this is a serious health problem but researches debate the root of the problem. Some point to how we can eat so much, so cheaply in comparison to other nations and believe that raising prices or taxes on food is the solution. Others point to longer work hours and less time for exercise. Some point to convenience as the culprit. Others point to our increasing portion sizes. There is more to eat and it is easier to eat more than ever before.

But on the other side of the paradox the fitness industry is steadily growing. According to the International Health, Racquet, and Sportsclub Association, Americans with gym memberships have increased from 19.5M to 62.5M in the last thirty years. There are CrossFit boxes, boot camps, fitness centers that provide massages and smoothies, boutique fitness centers, streaming services, and equipment that virtually connects to others around the world as you exercise.

We can feel this personally with our own bodies. It is easier than ever to bounce back and forth between the two sides of the paradox. We are constantly tempted to not take care of the one body the Lord has given us or to make our body the focus of our lives. We live in a world where it is easier to both abuse and adore our bodies. The result is a lot of pressure and a lot of shame.

Both body abuse and body adoration fail us for these two reasons:

1. Both body abuse and body adoration make gods out of good gifts.

Food is a good gift from God. He gave us taste buds to savor and enjoy the food and He is pleased when we enjoy each other and enjoy a great meal together. Jesus is the only person in the New Testament accused of being a glutton because the religious leaders saw him enjoying meals “those sinners and tax collectors.” Food is a good gift but we abuse food when our stomach bosses us around as our god. Our bodies are a good gift too, and any movement we can make is a gift. But our body is a terrible god. When we make food or our bodies our gods, they fail to satisfy us. There will always be another “must have meal” and another goal for our bodies. We will never look in the mirror and declare, “it is finished.” Whether our stomach or our bodies, when we glory in something other than Christ, our glory is always our disappointment and shame (Philippians 3:18).

2. Both body abuse and body adoration focus on the temporary.

When we abuse our bodies with food or drink, we are focused on temporary pleasure and not considering the long-term implications to our bodies. But when we adore our bodies, we are also focused on the temporary. Our earthly bodies are not going to last us forever. We can exercise and eat clean, but we are fighting the inevitable. Our bodies will fail us.

3. The better way: glorify God with our bodies

There is a better way. The Apostle Paul reminds us: “You are not your own, for you were bought at a price. So glorify God with your body” (1 Corinthians 6:19-20). We are to glorify God with our bodies, not glorify our bodies. As Christians, our bodies are sacred, as the Lord has taken up residence in our lives. If we speak poorly of your bodies we are speaking negatively about where God lives, about His house.

In the Old Testament, the temple was where God’s people would gather to worship God. It would have been sacrilegious to abuse the temple – to not value the place where God met with man. At the same time, it would have been idolatrous to worship the temple, to bow before the temple as if it was the object of adoration. The temple was not to be abused or adored. The temple was to be used as a tool to glorify God. Our bodies are now His temples. They are sacred and should be treated with care, but they must not be worshipped.

This article about body abuse and body adoration originally appeared here.

Why Scriptural Interpretation Requires Informed Reading

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Can we accurately perform Scriptural interpretation without informed reading? Let’s try an experiment: How would you define the phrase “Roman Catholic”? If I put that question to a group of people, would everyone give the same definition? Most likely not, and for various reasons, such as cultural origin, previous exposure to the phrase, or religious background (some former Roman Catholics might define it simply as “Papisticalism”).

The phrase Roman Catholic took on its meaning many years ago, and has been “traditioned,” or passed-on, to us through various communicative mediums and in various life contexts. In order to understand what is meant by it, one cannot simply assume what he was told is correct—some contact with its history is necessary for a proper definition. And when that contact is made, one has just relied on historical data for interpreting a contemporary phrase.

Are we able to interpret Scripture without assumptions? Are we able to do theology without the Christian theological tradition? No, on both counts. Stephen R. Holmes puts it this way:

To attempt to do theology without the tradition, then, is to deny, or at least to attempt to escape from, our historical locatedness. It is worth stressing initially that this locatedness is unavoidable: It cannot be escaped from. If we imagine trying to ignore all who have gone before, and coming to the testimony of the apostles in an unmediated form, we simply cannot do it, as will be clear if we begin to imagine what would be involved in the attempt. We might first claim to listen only to the Bible—but the Bible we have, if it is a translation is shaped by a tradition of Bible translation, and by its translator(s).

Should we attempt to avoid this problem by recourse to the original languages, then we would have to learn those languages from somebody, and so would be inducted into a tradition of translating certain words and grammatical constructions in one way and not another, and we would almost certainly have recourse to the lexicons and other aids, which are themselves deposits of the accumulated knowledge of earlier scholars. Further, the standard editions of the Greek New Testament bear witness on nearly every page to the textual criticism that has come up with this text, and not another, and so we cannot even find a text of Scripture that has been ‘handed on’ to us by those who came before.

If we pushed this imagined quest to the last extreme, we might picture a person who has somehow learnt koine Greek only by studying original texts, and who has even examined every extant manuscript of the New Testament and developed her own canons for textual criticism: on these bases she might claim to have unmediated access to the Scriptures. Still, however, the claim must be false: apart from the archeological and bibliographic work that has produced the manuscripts she has used, if she speaks English, German or French, or several other languages, her native tongue even has been decisively affected by earlier theological controversies and biblical translations. There is no escape from the mediation of our faith by the tradition . . . .

We cannot have unmediated access to the apostolic witness to Christ . . .[1]

By “locatedness,” Holmes intends ultimately our place as creatures in God’s world. Everything we know is mediated to us through various means and, sometimes unknown to us, tainted by the various means through which it comes to us. This is inescapable; it is part of being creatures in a long succession of creatures.

But someone might object:

“When I’m reading my Bible and it uses a word of which I am not familiar, I do not consult commentaries, at least not at first; instead, I go directly to a good dictionary of the English language and try to figure out the meaning of the Bible word all on my own.”

I think you can see the fallacy in this. One cannot abstract oneself from the world of thought in which one lives, nor from the thoughts of previous generations. That is neither how we learn nor how we think.

Since this is the case, instead of trying to rid ourselves of all presuppositions in order to approach Scripture with no conditioning aspects in our thinking (an impossible task, indeed), we should humble ourselves. We need to recognize that since we must come to the text with conditioning assumptions, we ought to do all we can to come with the best ones. This is why historical-theological interpretation—what is sometimes called “Theological Interpretation of Scripture,” or TIS [2]—utilizes the Christian theological tradition in its various forms (e.g. creeds, confessions, catechisms, great theological works, time-tested commentaries) to aid in Scripture interpretation. If bringing presuppositions to the table of interpretation is inevitable, why not work hard to bring the best, time-tested presuppostitions which have been deposited by God’s providence throughout the history of the Church?

On a practical note, if your church subscribes to a historically-proven confession of faith, read that confession enough to get well-acquainted with its doctrinal formulations and its theological contour (e.g. Notice the order of chapters and ask yourself if there is a logic to the order.). This will provide scripturally-based theological contours which will aid you in understanding Holy Scripture.

On a side-note, without the discussion above, my practical advice could be used as evidence that I exalt the confession above Holy Scripture. That is not at all the case. If your confession does not possess a scripturally-based theological contour, it is not worth subscribing. Again, my point is simply this: Since we all come with working assumptions that affect interpretation, we ought to try our best to ensure we come with the best assumptions possible.

[1] Stephen R. Holmes, Listening to the Past: The Place of Tradition in Theology (Grand Rapids, MI: Baker Academic, 2002), 6-7.

[2] It is safe to say that though TIS is a diverse movement in our day, all schools of thought within it advocate the need to use historical and systematic theology as aids in the interpretive process. One of the reasons for the diversity within TIS is due to the fact that its practitioners are theologians from various traditions. This causes disagreement concerning what resources of the tradition ought to be utilized.

This article originally appeared here.

Surrender Your Right to Be Angry With Your Spouse

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If you are a married person, you will benefit from surrendering the right to be angry with your spouse. Here’s how.

We tried to go to bed. It was late, and we were beyond exhausted, but as we lay stiff and unflinching in our dark bedroom, we knew that neither of us would soon be getting any sleep. I had said something stupid as I am wont to do. It was just an off-hand, thoughtless comment, and I knew as soon as it came out of my mouth that it was wrong.

My words hung in the air between us, an invisible barrier to our usual friendship and affection for one another, and no amount of apologizing could erase what I had said. He was hurt and angry, and he had every right in the world to be.

We argued in our awkward way. We debated about who would move to the couch, although in truth neither of us wanted the other to go. On most days we look forward to this very moment, crawling into bed together after a long day, breathing side by side all night. Familiar. Easy.

On this night, though, we struggled to figure out a way to tear down the divide between us, a separation caused by my careless words and his befitting anger. For awhile we didn’t speak. Neither of us knew what else to say. And then, suddenly, he broke the stalemate between us. He reached across cold empty space and made the choice to surrender his right to be angry with me. He pulled me close and we instantly relaxed into our regular, simple way of dreaming through the night together.

He had every reason to be mad for awhile. He could have punished me with cold silence or long explanations of how mean my words had been. He would have been justified in holding onto his anger for the rest of the night, in staying on the far edge of his side of the bed, unyielding. He could have awakened the next morning with anger still burning inside, not yet ready to forgive his wife and closest friend. He could have done any of those things with perfectly legitimate cause.

But he didn’t. He gave up his right to be angry. With the Holy Spirit’s help, he chose to replace strife with peace, angst with comfort, regret with reassurance. He gave me a gift of grace and demonstrated a truth of Scripture: Love keeps no record of wrongs.

I feel sure that this is the kind of grace that peaceful marriages are built on. When husbands and wives resist the urge to be right, to drive their point home, to prove their own righteousness and their spouse’s wretchedness, when they give up their freedom to be offended, when they choose forgiveness over anger–this is where God-given peace can flourish. And this is one way that we can show the world who Christ really is, one petty marital spat at a time. God certainly works in mysterious ways.

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Note: Abuse should never be tolerated. If you are in an abusive situation, please don’t consider this post as prescriptive advice. Seek help through a counselor, law enforcement, and your church.

This article about surrendering your right to be angry originally appeared here.

4 Ways to Keep Your Marriage Strong in Youth Ministry

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Ministry has to be one of the busiest jobs on the planet. The reason is that it never stops. I know that I work at the office from 8-5 p.m. Monday-Friday, and then most weekends are filled with events and ministry responsibilities. On Sunday, I am at the church to have things ready to go by 8:00 a.m., and do not return until about 12:30 p.m. I do not say any of this to complain, but I am saying this to prove that ministry is busy. In the midst of the busyness, it is easy to neglect our families. Believe me, I have heard phrases such as this from my wife, “You are never at home with us!” That is the last thing that you want to hear. So, how can we change this and not allow our wives to feel this way during the busyness of our ministry? Do we neglect our family, or do we neglect the ministry? I am here to tell you that you can love your spouse and kids, and keep your marriage strong and healthy even with a busy ministry! How? Here are four ways that you can do this:

4 Ways to Keep Your Marriage Strong in Youth Ministry

1. Sleep in with your wife occasionally

I head to the office kind of early to have my personal quiet time with God. So, I am at the office each morning by 7:30 a.m. My daughter is still in bed, and my wife is about to get her day started as well. One thing that has encouraged my wife more than anything, is on Thursday mornings I sleep in with her, and then she cooks breakfast. I go into the office later. Look, things are not going to fall apart if you miss the first hour of the day occasionally.

2. Never lose the romance

I used to think that romance always had to be expensive. Here is the reality: It does not have to be expensive to be romantic. Look, I get it, in ministry you have no money, but be creative with what you have. Show up with an evening plan and surprise for your family. Show up with flowers or candy from time to time. Have a surprise getaway somewhere for just you guys sometime. Plan a scavenger hunt for your spouse through your city with thought. Never get too old for romance.

3. Listen to your spouse’s advice and use it

My wife is much wiser and smarter than I am. I sometimes feel intimidated by using her advice because it is better than mine, but one thing that encourages my wife is when I listen to her advice, and use it. She loves it.

4. Turn off your phone at night sometimes

This is something that I struggle with, but when I succeed, and leave mine off or in another room, I can focus on my wife and daughter more.

Question: What do you do in ministry to keep your marriage strong?

What It Means to Be the Church: Churches Filling Needs as Lock-Down Continues

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Even though most church buildings are temporarily closed due to the COVID-19 coronavirus, many pastors and members are busier than ever. Church leaders and volunteers throughout America are stepping up to serve their communities during a fearful time of unprecedented disruptions and long-term lockdowns. These churches are showing the world what it means to be the church.

At the outset, many congregations are providing food to schoolchildren, assisting homeless people, and coordinating with local relief agencies. And they’re emphasizing safety at every step, following advice about social distancing and reducing exposure.

 

Be the Church: Fill the Gap for Hungry Students

With many school districts shutting down or switching to remote learning, food insecurity has become a widespread concern. To ensure that students don’t go hungry while cafeterias are closed, churches are providing grab-and-go meals—sometimes partnering with the efforts of public school districts.

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In Janesville, Wisconsin, for example, volunteers at St. Paul’s Lutheran Church and School prepared 500 lunches for Monday morning. For families who couldn’t drive by for pickup, “Kindness Karavan” driver made deliveries. Federal law prohibits schools from delivering food to students, so district officials say they’re grateful for assistance from faith-based groups. The meals from St. Paul’s have been a stop-gap measure while the Janesville School District sets up its own grab-and-go lunch program.

St. Paul’s Principal Rob Lunak says, “We teach children that we are created, loved, and redeemed by God. What we do for others is an expression of that love.”

Churches in some communities are collaborating, offering sack meals on a rotating basis. Jack Osteen, pastor of Leesville First Assembly Church in Leesville, Louisiana, says about 70 percent of area children rely on free-or-reduced lunch at school. As president of a local ministerial alliance, he’s rallying volunteers to meet needs. “We just want to provide meals every day throughout the week,” he says. “Simply come through the drive-thru and tell us how many kids” are in your home.

Be the Church: Stock Food Pantries

For families in need, churches are organizing food drives and trying to keep shelves full at local food pantries, despite panic-buying in many grocery and big-box stores.

Kate Lombardo, who helps run a Connecticut food bank, tells CNN, “It’s just frightening for people who live hand to mouth on a daily basis. There’s already a stress factor of poverty, let alone the additional stress coming from a pandemic.”

Through its food pantry, Grace Church in Noblesville, Indiana, expects to feed 600 families this week. People who need groceries can order online, and then volunteers deliver items to cars. Keith Carlson, executive director of Grace Care Center Foundation, says, “We’re trying to make it as seamless as possible and as easy as possible and yet limit any kind of interaction so that we don’t expose more people and keep people safe.”

At Casa de Dios Christian Church in Corpus Christi, Texas, volunteers are distributing free produce in conjunction with a local food bank. Deliveries are brought out to people’s cars as they drive by, to minimize person-to-person contact.

Be the Church: Reach Out to Homeless Neighbors

Some churches that normally welcome homeless people to their facilities for meals are now making deliveries to various locations. In San Antonio, ending meal services isn’t an option, according to Gavin Rogers, pastor of Travis Park Church. The church typically assists between 400 and 600 homeless people each week, he says, “through medical clinics, through hot meals, clothes, and showers.”

In light of the coronavirus pandemic, creativity has become necessary for some of these outreach efforts—and for some of the menus. Travis Park’s Corazón Ministries is using an “ice cream truck” approach to meal delivery, says kitchen manager and chef John Chadwell. “We’re going to a park for a little bit, handing out some food, going to another park handing out food, checking on folks.”

2,000 People Show Up for Testing at Church of the Highlands

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As the United States struggles to provide testing for the coronavirus, Church of the Highlands in Alabama has made more diagnoses possible by offering one of its campuses as a drive-in testing site. WBRC FOX6 News reports that on Tuesday morning, healthcare workers were prepared to test about 500 people when 2,000 showed up.

“We’re so thankful for the volunteers from Church of the Highlands, the generosity of the people…that have made all of this possible,” said Layne Schranz, who is an associate pastor with the church, “but we’re really thankful for the medical community, Christ Health Center, and all the doctors and nurses that were actually doing the testing.”

The Church of the Highlands has over 20 campuses throughout Central Alabama and is providing the testing in Birmingham in partnership with Christ Health Center (CHC) and Assurance Scientific Laboratories. The church is also in consultation with Jefferson County Department of Public Health and authorities at local hospitals.

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Church of the Highlands Helps Meet a Significant Need

Pastor Schranz gave an update on the situation at a news conference Tuesday afternoon where he was joined by Dr. Robert Record, Christ Health Center’s CEO. Record said that CHC has 18,596 patients, half of whom are uninsured, and that for weeks the center’s healthcare workers have seen patients they believed had contracted Covid-19, the disease caused by the coronavirus. Yet, said Record, “As of Friday afternoon, I could not get one test for one patient.” At the same time, he and his colleagues in the medical field were aware they needed hard data to demonstrate “how present” the virus was in their community.

Record emphasized how important testing is in order to contain the virus and protect vulnerable populations. He said, “We know that if we can test people, we can identify disease, isolate people, and stop disease from spreading as fast to give us time to catch up. We can potentially prevent one of our really critical areas like a nursing home from being overrun with disease and save a lot of lives. We’re all in to do that. We want to do it the best we can for the most people we can.”

Testing for the coronavirus in the United States has so far been seriously inadequate, as Dr. Anthony Fauci, the director of the National Institute of Allergy and Infectious Diseases, recently testified. Speaking at a House hearing, Fauci told Rep. Debbie Wasserman Schultz, D-Florida, “The idea of anybody getting [a test] easily the way people in other countries are doing it, we’re not set up for that. Do I think we should be? Yes. But we’re not.” Fauci was even more direct when he said, “The system is not really geared to what we need right now. That is a failing. Let’s admit it.”

So what led to this new testing site in Birmingham? Dr. Record said that a friend and colleague of his, Dr. Ty Thomas, had the ability to test people, but not the capability to handle the logistics of doing so. After Thomas asked for Record’s help, Record approached his pastor at Church of the Highlands, who “said ‘All in yes’ within two seconds.”

Record showed up at Church of the Highlands’ Grandview Campus Sunday morning with a team of about 15 people, and they had a drive-in testing site set up within 48 hours. The site opened for testing Tuesday, March 17, and workers were able to test an estimated 500 people, turning away over a thousand more.

Because the high volume of people who turned up caused significant traffic problems, organizers moved the testing site to the Grants Mill Campus of Church of the Highlands, which was where they conducted testing Wednesday. 

What Are the Parameters for Being Tested?

People are allowed to start lining up in their cars for testing at 6:30 a.m., but no earlier, and testing begins at 9:00 a.m. There is no official end time for lining up because organizers anticipate reaching capacity before testing officially starts. This is in fact what happened Wednesday: The site ran out of its 500 tests by 8:45 a.m. At that point, the police started turning people away. Testing will resume Thursday on the same schedule.

The site is only testing people who are either manifesting symptoms of Covid-19 or who have had direct contact with someone who has contracted the virus. Record emphasized the necessity for people to be discerning about their level of need for testing.

“We need to make sure the person most in need gets the testing first,” he said. “If you’re just curious or you’ve got a tickle in your throat, you very well may have Covid-19, and we wish we had unlimited testing to get it to you. We really want people to look at themselves and say, ‘Is it important that I get this test today, or can I wait because someone needs it more than me?’”

Schranz said the organizers had learned a lot during the first day of testing and that they anticipated making their processes even more efficient in the coming days so they could evaluate as many people as possible. “I just want to thank everyone for your support and patience with us,” said the pastor. “We are trying our very best to do what we can.”

Jeremy Camp: God Does Not Waste Suffering

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Jeremy Camp is a worship leader and Grammy-nominated singer and songwriter who has had 40 number one radio hits. I Still Believe, the movie based on his life, released around the world March 13th. Jeremy has three kids with his wife, Adrienne. He and Adrienne have written a book on marriage releasing in 2020 called In Unison.

Key Questions for Jeremy Camp

-Did you learn anything about your own suffering while I Still Believe was being made?

-How has your wife, Adrienne, helped you through your grief and been part of your healing?

-How do you feel this film can help ministry leaders and the church?

-What advice do you have for ministry leaders when it comes to leading people in worshiping the Lord?

Key Quotes from Jeremy Camp

“I shared my story for years, I wrote a book about it, and this is the first time I’ve been able to see it played back visually, and it’s not been easy.”

“God is using this pretty radically in people’s lives, and so for me it’s worth it to feel that pain.”

“God has not given us a spirit of fear…fear is not from the Lord. It’s from the enemy. So if you’re walking in fear, you have to understand, it’s the enemy speaking into your mind.” 

“My hope is there are going to be people that are not Christians that are going to watch this film and go, ‘Ok how did they get through this?’ and it’s going to point them to Christ. Or those that are Christians that are hurting, struggling, and are going to go, ‘Yeah, ok. The Lord is the only thing I can lean on.’”

“God doesn’t waste suffering.”

“Suffering is a necessary part of life, and it’s hard to say that, but he gives us the tools and the ability to walk through it with strength and with grace.”

“Jesus on the cross, he said…‘My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?’ And of course, Jesus didn’t sin. So was that a sin to ask why?”

“[Adrienne] has been a big support, and she’s my champion because I don’t know how I’d be able to handle it if she wouldn’t have talked about it.” 

“There’s a lot of themes in this movie that youth pastors, pastors, leaders can draw from.”

“I’ve had many stories already of people that have watched the film saying, ‘I’ve battled with fear all my life, and I feel like I had a breakthrough.’”

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