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Beth Moore: How to Fight That Persistent Enemy, Anxiety

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It seems somewhat reasonable for people to experience fear during a time of crisis. But Beth Moore observes that many of us deal with persistent, consuming anxiety in our daily lives. And if, instead of overcoming anxiety, we go around constantly worried about our ability to cope, we are not living in the freedom Jesus died to give us. 

“If you are in Christ and you keep telling yourself all the time that you cannot cope, you are reconfirming over and over again a complete lie,” said Moore in a talk posted to her YouTube channel. Speaking to a group of women, she said that the truth is, “You have been made mighty in Christ. You have no idea what that woman in you is capable of living out in victory and in glory to the one and only Son of God.”

Succumbing to vs. Overcoming Anxiety

“In your day-to-day existence and in my day-to-day existence, we have no bigger battle than our battle with anxiety,” said Moore. The Bible teacher opened with Merriam Webster’s definition of “anxiety,” which describes it as a “painful or apprehensive uneasiness of mind usually over an impending or anticipated ill.” The definition also says anxiety is connected to “self-doubt about one’s capacity to cope with it.” 

Anxiety never stops telling us, “I can’t cope with this,” said Moore. In fact, when we are feeling anxious, we are telling ourselves over and over again that we cannot handle whatever situation we are worried about. She asked, “Do you realize how often we confirm and re-confirm in our souls that we cannot cope?”

But as followers of Jesus, how can this mindset be something that characterizes us? Moore referenced the hope the Apostle Paul expresses in 2 Corinthians 1:8-10, when he says,

We do not want you to be uninformed, brothers and sisters, about the troubles we experienced in the province of Asia. We were under great pressure, far beyond our ability to endure, so that we despaired of life itself. Indeed, we felt we had received the sentence of death. But this happened that we might not rely on ourselves but on God, who raises the dead. He has delivered us from such a deadly peril, and he will deliver us again. On him we have set our hope that he will continue to deliver us.

Moore also alluded to 2 Corinthians 12, which says that God’s power is made perfect in weakness. “Here’s what we’re doing,” she said. “We’re acting like those are such sweet, sweet theories. And we just keep talking about them and keep quoting them, while we live a life that we cannot cope with.” When we do that, “We are preaching something we are not living.”

It’s helpful to note that anxiety manifests itself in different ways. In fact, the words “anxiety” and  “anger” share a common root. “That is fascinating,” said Moore. “Can you see where there is some anger wrapped up in some of your anxiety?” One example of what this could look like is a woman who is anxious about not being able to pay her bills might express her worry as anger toward her unemployed husband. Anxiety can also manifest itself as irritability. “I experience extreme irritability when my husband is driving,” said Moore, adding, “He also experiences extreme irritability when I am driving.”

Moore then offered her own definition of “anxiety” as “care clothed in fear and intensified by anger and clamoring for control.” Anxiety, she said, is “all about control”—and recognizing that truth is key to overcoming anxiety.

Overcoming Anxiety by the Power of the Spirit

1 Peter 5:6-7 says, “Humble yourselves, therefore, under God’s mighty hand, that he may lift you up in due time. Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you.”

“Anxiety has a robust remedy,” said Moore. “Cast that thing.” Any situation that causes us to be anxious “needs to be a hot potato in our hand.” The second we think about it, we need to throw it at the Lord. One commentator on the 1 Peter passage explains that the commands to humble ourselves and to cast our worries are connected; casting our anxiety on God is how we show humility toward him. Said Moore, “The act of humility is in the casting because the pride is in the keeping….All of that desire for control is nothing but pride.”

WATCH the Social Distancing Version of ‘Still Rolling Stones’

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‘Still Rolling Stones’ Social Distancing Version

Life as we know it has come to a screeching halt over the last six weeks due to COVID-19. As a result, everything from sporting events to concerts, school to graduations, and even weddings have all been cancelled until people can once again gather safely.

Prior to the world being shut down by the coronavirus pandemic, Lauren Daigle was headlining her own world tour with special guests, Johnnyswim. After just three weeks on the road, the “You Say” singer was forced to postpone the remainder of her tour until later this year.

But on Sunday, the two-time Grammy winner pulled together her fellow bandmates to create a “social distancing version” of her hit song, “Still Rolling Stones.”

Live from their own homes, the video compiled each of their respective parts to create a beautiful rendition of the 28-year-old’s well known hit.

“I had so much fun with all my bandmates putting this together for you,” Daigle wrote in an Instagram post of the performance. “From all of us, we hope you enjoy the social distancing version of ‘Still Rolling Stones.’”

What we lack in physical connection these days, we’ve made up for with creativity.

Easter 2020 looked different from any Easter our modern world has seen before. Church choirs had to scramble to come up with solutions for what is typically a very musically-inclined celebration for the Church. Worship leaders and choir members got very creative with the Easter choir this year as they leaned on technology to help them pull off complicated arrangements while practicing social distancing.

Virtual choirs aren’t limited to church settings and Christian musicians, either. A few weeks ago, studio singers in the Nashville, Tennessee area got together via cell phones to sing a beautiful arrangement of “It Is Well With My Soul.”

Just last week, Walmart released a 60-second ad spot featuring employees from around the country singing portions of Bill Withers’ 1974 classic, “Lean on Me.”

Woven among the clips of Walmart team members singing, are videos and photos of neighbors helping neighbors in communities across the country. Everything from social distancing, to people supporting one another, to people connecting through their windows, this one minute clip captures the spirit of humanity, caring for each other.

Stop Blaming God for the Coronavirus

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Why does God allow the coronavirus to exist, to spread, to kill? Fundamentally, there is a truth that lies at the root of the answer to that question: Our relationship with nature is broken.

NATURE…

we 

seek 

solace

in

what

stalks

us

now

There are natural consequences in nature that nurtures one moment and harms the next.

I wrote this once about my husband Mike’s death from falling into a glacial crevasse…

Nature is a monster lying in wait. We marveled at nature’s beauty that day and tiptoed on its surface until it proved that it is wild and waiting to snatch the life from anyone who comes near. Its gaping jaw opened and swallowed my husband that day. 

Nature is not our friend. Regardless of its beauty and wonder and the revelation of who God is in its very fiber, creation is writhing under the curse of humanity’s sin. 

We stand in awe of something that is decaying. Jagged cliffs were once beautiful mountains that have suffered under the constant deluge of rainwater. Erosion is the shadow of the world that was to be. 

And we do not understand that just as we are fallen and in need of grace, nature is fallen. It is brutal. It stalks the unwary.

Animals attack. Boats capsize. Thorns pierce. Gravity hungrily drags people to their death. 

We who are living in a broken world are called to be caretakers of a once-perfect environment that now cannot be approached with the naivety and ignorance we exhibited that fateful day.

The coronavirus is nature run amok.

It feels like nature is not our friend right now. It is the unnatural crossing forbidden barriers. It is a dish eaten with consequences for all humanity. It is an enemy that oozed through a permeable wall. 

And now it stalks the weak, the infirm, the aged. 

Just as the weak, the infirm, the aged deer cannot keep up with the herd when an enemy attacks…the virus pounces on the edges of our society. 

The Carpenter and the Cross

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Why was Jesus born the son of a carpenter, to work as a carpenter (Mt 13:55Mk 6:3)? Some would respond that before the Son of God entered his public ministry he needed to work, and carpentry provided a living as good as any other. However, there are other occupations which look as if they would have been better suited to prepare him for ministry. Fishing would have been fitting work; Jesus called the disciples to become fishers of men, fed multitudes with fish and bread, and compared the kingdom of heaven to a fishing net. He could have been a vintner, growing and processing grapes for wine. Young Jesus turned water into wine, then later said he himself was the vine feeding his disciples, and he cautioned his listeners against putting new vintage into old skins. Shepherding could be called a family tradition, since the Messiah came from the line of Judah, and King David worked among the sheep. Jesus told a parable about seeking the lost lamb, he said he knows his sheep, and—most importantly—he is the sacrificial Lamb of God. Shepherding would seem a better occupation than carpentry.

Christ did not say much about wood or carpentry. He spoke of judging others with the analogy of the eyes having a splinter or a log, and he alluded to carpentry when he told of the man tearing down barns to build bigger ones. Why the Christ was born of the virgin Mary into a carpenter’s household is information the Lord has not condescended to reveal to his image bearers. However, this brief article proposes that the attributes of carpentry uniquely contributed to prepare Christ for his earthly ministry.

When I was a child visiting my grandparents, a man I did not recognize came to the house. My grandmother introduced him to me as her brother. He was a quiet and reserved man, but he none the less extended his hand in gentlemanly fashion and I grasped it. I could feel his calloused leather-like palm and fingers. I was surprised by the texture and lack of suppleness of his skin. Grandmother informed me that her brother had been a carpenter for a number of years. The manual procedures required in his trade resulted in gloves of skin created by reoccurring contact with the surface of wood.

Like my great uncle, the Lord of Glory’s hands had been thickened to some degree over time by tooling wood.[1] Some of the personal encounters Jesus experienced during his ministry might raise a question regarding God’s wisdom in selecting carpentry for a trade. Consider some of the things Jesus did in ministry. His thick-skinned fingers took mud he made from spittle and dirt and gently applied it to the eyes of a blind man to give him sight (Jn 9:6). It was his toughened hands that softly touched the children that came to see him (Mt 19:13-15). Then, following rash Peter’s slash of Malchus’s ear with a sword, the Christ, the anointed one, carefully used his calloused hand to miraculously restore the ear (Jn 18:10Mt 26:51). The softer hands of a physician, lawyer, or scholar may be thought more appropriate for Jesus’s work, but the toughened hands of the Carpenter exemplified his full humanity as he accomplished the divine work of redemption.

Jesus often argued from the lesser to the greater in his teaching, but his carpenter’s hands show a physical argument from the intuitive, what man expects, to the counterintuitive, what God does. The ways of the Triune God are not man’s ways. Christ’s hands exhibited his mannishness—and their skill came in handy to make a whip for running the moneychangers out of the temple—but those same hands could also minister gently when needed.

There is another aspect of wood working which contributed to prepare Jesus for his ministry: Patience learned through temptation and persistence. Without patience, working wood is an exercise in frustration, leading to temptation through anger which, if yielded to, becomes sin. When tooling any species of wood, the wood’s characteristics govern the success of the project. A carpenter must study the tightness of grain in a board, the hardness of the piece, how wet it is, the location of any knots, and the color patterns to ascertain the best way to cut, chisel, or plane it. An open grain wood such as oak characteristically chips and splinters easily, but other woods such as walnut and mahogany can vary in their grain patterns significantly from board to board.

Wood working techniques in Jesus’s day were not as sophisticated as today, but the nature of wood still offered challenges and the tools for overcoming them were primitive. Cutting wood tests patience and even the finest cabinet maker may find a nearly completed masterpiece turned to scrap with a wayward cut or a mismeasurement. When Christians contemplate Christ’s temptations, they often think of the lofty enticements from Satan in the wilderness, or the agony in Gethsemane as Jesus faced the cross. Yet the simple hazards of the carpenter’s shop and daily living tempted the Lord of Glory as well. Hebrews 4:15 is a verse of comfort for the Christian, because it says Jesus, the Great High Priest, was tempted thoroughly yet did not sin. In his comments on the verse, Richard D. Phillips points out that the Lord’s compassion is founded in his experience with temptation:

The Lord you serve, the Savior to whom you look, is not aloof from your trials, but feels them with intimate acquaintance. He is not disinterested or cold to what you are going through; he came to this earth and took up our human nature precisely so that he might now be able to have a fellow feeling with us (P&R, 2006).

Two points are to be noted. First, Christ took up our human nature precisely, that is, he was and is fully man, and was tempted not only in the wilderness by Satan, but also during the day to day events of life—including carpentry. Secondly, Jesus is seated at the right hand of the Father and he has a fellow feeling with us. What an alliterative and pleasing way of expressing the Son’s compassion.

Psalm 51: We Need to Sigh in Worship

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Psalm 51

Have you ever considered why we sigh? You know, the cleansing breath the comes along from time to time and seems to accompany a time of stress or punctuates frustration or exasperation.

Researchers have identified sighing as a deep breath roughly twice the size of our regular breathing pattern. It is an interruption of irregular breaths. It can be brought on by stress, anxiety, fear, or frustration. It is a reset for our breathing pattern that puts us back into a healthier breathing rhythm.

There are times in our Christian pilgrimage when we sigh. Frustration can overwhelm us and immerse us in self-pity and stress. Just as the physical challenges of life can bring fatigue and anxiety, spiritual struggles can paralyze our faith.

Psalm 51 is a sighing psalm. You can almost visualize David struggling to regain his spiritual respiratory equilibrium—his regular spiritual breathing. A serious lapse in David’s commitment to God had damaged his pursuit of God’s heart. You can hear the frustration in the first half of his lament:

vs 3: I can’t get my mistake out of my head/heart.

vs 5: I have been a screw-up all my life.

vs 6: I know better than what I did.

vs 8: I want to hear joy and gladness again.

vss 10-12 God, don’t give up on me; fix my spirit so I can experience joy again!

David needed a reset. He realized there was nothing he could do to regain his footing—to right his way. “There is no payment or sacrifice that will heal this; I realize now, that laying aside my huge ego is what is needed.” (My paraphrase of verse 16) His spirit was broken.

There are times in our spiritual pilgrimage when we are broken. We have stumbled, and the bruises keep hurting. Our home remedies and salves aren’t healing us and we sigh. We have reached the end of ourselves and we find ourselves in Psalm 51. We have surrendered to the moment. We may not have orchestrated a murder like David had, but we are crippled with guilt and we sigh.

Sighing is that physical release of breath that almost sounds like our last. Exhaustion, frustration or catastrophe have slowed us and we have no ready answer but to let out a wordless breath of air. We are signaling God that we are out of strength.

Part of corporate worship is sighing. We need to go beyond the traditional view of confession and sigh. Spiritual sighing, just like the physical respiratory act, is a collective reset. We need to release and interrupt our desperate breaths and allow God to restore a rhythm and pace that reflects steadfast steps of faith. Further, we need to listen for the sighs. The faith family of God experiences and enjoys a peace this world does not understand when we are healing agents. There are times when we need to sigh collectively and breathe together. The church needs to release the frustration, despair and anxiety of living in enemy territory (our world this side of heaven) and reset our souls’ breathing—taking in God’s Spirit to feed and refresh His new creation within us.

Notice in the final verses that David turns his attention to the congregation of Israel. His journey from despair has taken him from a lone view of his sin to a healing unity of his people.

If Psalm 51 is the sighing song, then Psalm 23 is that breathing reset that brings renewal and a steady pace to our often hectic lives. The benediction in Psalm 23 is a beautiful picture of reassurance and comfort. “Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life; And I will dwell in the house of the Lord forever.” Psa.23:6

 

It’s Ok to Fear Coronavirus

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We find ourselves in a time of unprecedented trouble. Faced with a global pandemic, we need to take a moment to think biblically about our response to COVID-19.

I only have one thought that I will repeat in today’s devotional: Be afraid, but don’t give way to fear.

That statement may seem contradictory, so let me explain.

Fear is one of God’s good gifts to us. I think there are three types of spiritually healthy fear:

1. Fear of God. This is a holy reverence of the Almighty, living in awe of, and submitting to, the King of the universe.

2. Rapid Response Fear. This is our instinctual ability to react in a moment of danger. Think of a parent who spontaneously leaps into action to protect their child right before they hurt themselves.

3. Appropriate Concern: This allows us to be sobered by what we are facing, and with our God-given ability to analyze, we make wise and planned choices to protect ourselves and those we love.

God designed us with the ability to be afraid because he loves us and wants to protect us.

Be afraid, but don’t give way to fear.

Giving way to fear is characterized by meditating on the trouble we are facing and forgetting God in the process. This fear reveals itself when we allow our minds and hearts to be controlled by what was initially appropriate concern.

Is the pandemic (or anything that makes you afraid, for that matter) all you think about, all you read about, and all you talk about? If any type of trouble consumes your meditation, the larger it will loom, the more impossible a solution will seem, and the more frightened you will become.

In this world, you will face danger, so ignoring that reality is not wise. God has given you the ability to be concerned, so acting as if there is no reason for concern is not the solution.

The problem is that your meditation has been consumed by the trouble you are facing.

Whenever trouble consumes our meditation, it’s because we have ultimately forgotten God. We have forgotten that there is a Lord of glory, wisdom, goodness, power, and grace who sits on the throne of his universe. No difficulty of any kind – no person, place, or pandemic – can negate his good and glorious promises to his children.

As you look horizontally, things may seem entirely out of control. But when you look vertically, this world is under careful supervision.

Do I claim to understand the pandemic? Not at all. Until we’re on the other side, we may never fully understand why God would allow this trouble to enter our lives.

But we know who he is. We know what he can do. We know what he has promised. We know that he is the same yesterday, today, and tomorrow.

In this moment of global pandemic, don’t let your meditation be dominated by fear so that you become God-forgetful. Don’t ignore the reality of the situation, don’t be embarrassed by your instinctual ability to respond rapidly when needed, and make wise plans out of appropriate concern.

Most of all, never stop fearing God.

Be afraid, but don’t give way to fear.

God bless,

Paul Tripp

REFLECTION QUESTIONS

1. What makes you most afraid of the pandemic? Why is this fear a God-given gift?

2. Besides the coronavirus, what else are you afraid of currently? Have you allowed this trouble to capture your meditation?

3. What happens to you spiritually when horizontal trouble consumes your thoughts and time?

4. How can you practically take steps to fear the Lord in this moment of crisis? Be specific.

5. Who do you know who is afraid at this moment? How does the Bible address their fears? Contact and comfort them today with the gospel!

This article originally appeared here.

How to Tell the Difference Between Healthy and Unhealthy Boundaries in Marriage

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Question: What are examples of healthy boundaries in marriage? How do I love my spouse, but still express my own voice and needs? (Barbara G.)

Examples of healthy boundaries in marriage can be hard to identify. When things are working—whether in your marriage or in someone else’s—it just seems natural. On the other hand, examples of unhealthy boundaries in marriage are usually painfully obvious, not only to you, but to the people around you.

To answer your question, let’s first examine what healthy and unhealthy boundaries in marriage look like. I’ll then provide a framework for gauging the health of the boundaries in your marriage. You can share these with your spouse. Plus, I’ll cover the six key categories of marriage where boundaries matter the most.

 

In general, there are two ways that problems tend to surface with boundaries in marriages:

Example of Unhealthy Boundaries in Marriage: Being Consumed

In the first way, you let your spouse consume or overwhelm you. In this instance, the other person may have a loud, strong presence. They state their needs clearly and don’t pick up on your needs. You may have deferred to their preferences or changed yourself to be what they need.

unhealthy boundaries in marriage consumed

As you can see from the diagram, “you” are barely showing. When you are “consumed” by someone else, you might feel like:

  • My needs don’t matter.
  • I have to do it his way.
  • I can’t be myself.
  • When decisions are made, I don’t have a say.

Example of Unhealthy Boundaries in Marriage: Being Too Distant

On the other hand, perhaps you’ve grown far away from your spouse. You live separate lives and give each other plenty of space. The problem is that you can grow too far apart. You are no longer connected nor operating as a team. You lose the intimacy that once brought you together.

unhealthy boundaries in marriage distant

As you can see from the diagram, you and your spouse have no areas of overlap. You are disconnected from each other and living separate lives. If you’ve grown distant, you might feel like:

  • I don’t even know who he is anymore.
  • He doesn’t know what I want or need.
  • I am on my own emotionally and spiritually.
  • We are more like roommates.

Example of Healthy Boundaries in Marriage

Healthy boundaries in marriage are somewhere in the middle. It’s learning how to say “yes” to yourself AND stay connected to your spouse. Using another visual illustration, healthy boundaries look like this:

healthy boundaries in marriage

In this diagram, you and your spouse share interests that overlap, and you remain connected to each other.

However, you also have a sense of autonomy. You each have your own interests. You don’t have to be on the same page about every single thing. Plus, both you and your spouse have other friendships, and you might even share a few. There’s connection and intimacy, yet there’s still space for individuality. Healthy boundaries in marriage feels like:

  • We maximize our strengths and focus on the things we like to do together.
  • We don’t agree on everything, but we seek to understand our differences.
  • I feel encouraged by my spouse to pursue my God-given talents. I also support him.
  • My spouse supports me emotionally. I also support him in his times of need.

Try this exercise at home:

As you consider your own marriage, review the three previous diagrams and ask yourself which type reflects how you feel. If possible, use the diagrams as a springboard to have a conversation with your spouse.

Oftentimes, couples are doing well in some areas, but struggling in another. Consider breaking down your relationship into the following categories. Then, notice whether you feel “consumed,” “distant,” or “healthy” within each category:

Boundaries in Marriage Categories:

  1. Parenting
  2. Vocation/Work
  3. Spiritual practices
  4. Hobbies
  5. Money
  6. Sex

On a scale of 1 to 10, how true is the following statement for each category? (1 = not true at all; 10 = completely true)

When it comes to [parenting/work/spiritual practices/money/sex/hobbies], we understand and respect each other. We cherish what we agree on, and we seek to understand and respect each other where we differ.

As you understand your strengths and your areas of growth, you will gain clarity. You stop “catastrophizing” the issues, slow down, and identify your specific challenges. You don’t have to fix that problem right away. Sometimes, simply naming the issue together as a couple can help bring more calm.

You might even decide to work on a specific challenge with a counselor, take my online course, or you can continue to work through solutions together. However, allow me to emphasize this point:

The more you understand what YOU want and need, the healthier your relationship will be. As you can communicate on behalf of what you are feeling, you stop fighting and move toward solving problems together, as a TEAM.

Together, this is how you express your own voice and experience healthy boundaries in marriage.

This article originally appeared here.

Willow Creek Names New Senior Pastor After Year+ of Searching

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After a year and half without anyone officially filling the role of senior pastor, Willow Creek Community Church in Chicago announced it has accepted Pastor Dave Dummitt for the position. 

“I’m so excited to become a part of the Willow family,” Dummitt says in a video posted to Willow’s site. “Over these last few months, [my family and I] have sensed God leading us to come and be a part of what he’s doing in and through Willow.”

Dummitt currently leads a multisite church in Michigan called 2|42. He and his wife, Rachel, have four children. The announcement posted to Willow’s site provides more about Dummitt’s background:

David Dummitt is an innovative, entrepreneurial pastor and leader with a strong passion to help people take first and next steps with God. He is known for his collaborative leadership style and ability to develop strong teams.  

Dave is the founding and lead pastor of 2|42 Community Church in Southeast Michigan. Over the last 15 years, 2|42 has grown from a 35-member launch team meeting in Dave’s living room to more than 10,000 people meeting at seven different campuses each weekend. 2|42 was founded on a commitment to community outreach and radical generosity, so they designed their church buildings to serve as community centers with indoor sports and fitness facilities, cafes, playscapes for kids, and a school for the arts open to the public throughout the week. 

Dave attended Wheaton College and Asbury Theological Seminary. He is passionate about the kingdom of God advancing through church planting. Dave previously held the role of North American director of NewThing, a global church-planting organization. He also sat on the board of the Solomon Foundation, the fastest-growing church extension fund, for four years. Additionally, Dave partnered with two gifted technology developers to create Gyve, an innovative technology platform for churches and nonprofits.

Dave loves great movies, water sports, time at the gym, and being able to take off on his Harley. He and his wife, Rachel, met during their time as students at Wheaton College. Together they have four children: Grace, Luke, Joe, and Alex.

What Happened to Willow’s Previous Senior Pastors?

An investigative journalism piece published in the Chicago Tribune in March 2018 put into motion a series of events that the evangelical church at large is still grappling with. For several years now, the evangelical community throughout the world has looked to Willow and founding pastor Bill Hybels as a leader of innovation in evangelism and doing church. That all came into question when the article unpacked a series of allegations against Hybels of sexual misconduct and harassment hit the news stands. If allegations of sexual misconduct weren’t enough, the journalists also found that the church elder board had conducted what it later admitted was an investigation into the allegations that was fraught with “missteps.” The actions and inactions of the elder board during this time ultimately broke the trust between the congregation and the church’s leadership and the whole board ended up resigning. 

Even before the article was published, two pastors had been tapped to be Hybels’ successors–lead teaching pastor Steve Carter and lead senior pastor Heather Larson. Carter and Larson ended up resigning as well, although their involvement in what many feel was a coverup on the part of Willow leadership is a little murky. Carter has since shared a little more about the events that unfolded in 2018. 

The year 2019 didn’t seem to be very much easier for the leadership at Willow Creek as they sought to find a replacement for Larson and Carter. They even lost a couple of campus pastors over the matter. 

Dave Dummitt to Preach First Sermon in June 

An elder update posted to Willow Creek’s site explains Dummitt and his family are planning to move to the Chicago area in May and that his first weekend of preaching will occur on June 6th and 7th. The announcement states the elder board has spent “many hours” with Dummitt and that throughout the process they “continued to see Dave’s ability to lead with humility and strength, as well as his passion to equip and empower strong teams.”

Justice Department Sides With Small MS Church Over Drive-in Feud

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Last week, a church in Greenville, Mississippi held a drive-in prayer service for its parishioners. Church members kept their windows rolled up as they listened to their pastor via radio. Despite not appearing to violate CDC guidelines for social distancing, however, local officials handed out $500 fines to the congregants. Although the city has since decided not to enforce the fines, the situation prompted U.S. Attorney General William Barr to take action by publishing a statement in support of Temple Baptist Church and the right of all churches not to be singled out by authorities during this time of social distancing orders. 

Temple Baptist Church Defended by William Barr

“The City of Greenville fined congregants $500 per person for attending these parking lot services–while permitting citizens to attend nearby drive-in restaurants, even with their windows open,” the statement from Barr’s office reads. Barr indicates the crux of the reason he found fault with the city’s actions is that they didn’t enforce their policy “evenhandedly” and singled out the church over other institutions in the city.

The statement echoes the statements of other leaders in the Trump Administration who have asked organizations, including churches, to observe social distancing protocols as a matter of common sense, even while some argue that they violate our rights as Americans to assemble and congregate:

Social distancing, while difficult and unfamiliar for a nation that has long prided itself on the strength of its voluntary associations, has the potential to save hundreds of thousands of American lives from an imminent threat.  Scrupulously observing these guidelines is the best path to swiftly ending COVID-19’s profound disruptions to our national life and resuming the normal economic life of our country. Citizens who seek to do otherwise are not merely assuming risk with respect to themselves, but are exposing others to danger.  In exigent circumstances, when the community as a whole faces an impending harm of this magnitude, and where the measures are tailored to meeting the imminent danger, the constitution does allow some temporary restriction on our liberties that would not be tolerated in normal circumstances. 

Other Trump administration leaders, like Vice President Mike Pence, have asked churches to follow the guidelines from the CDC–specifically the one asking people not to gather in groups of 10 or more. Speaking to reporters a couple weeks ago, Pence admitted these protocols are not being mandated; rather they are recommendations.

Pence also said the Trump Administration is not interested in enforcing these guidelines, choosing instead to leave those decisions to governors and other local state officials. The fact that Barr’s office felt it necessary to intervene in the case in Mississippi is perhaps a reflection of the administration’s highly publicized commitment to religious freedom.

What Exactly Happened in Mississippi?

Police came to the parking lot of Temple Baptist Church in Greenville, Mississippi on Wednesday, April 8, 2020 and issued tickets to those participating in the church’s drive-in prayer service. Pastor Arthur Scott has been conducting such services for about three weeks now as most in his congregation are elderly and don’t have access to a smartphone. The church has also been livestreaming its Sunday services via Facebook.

However, on April 7, 2020, the City of Greenville issued an executive order instructing churches to cease all in-person services–including drive-in services–until Mississippi Governor Tate Reeves lifts the shelter-in-place order. 

Scott responded to the fines by filing a lawsuit against the city with the help of Alliance Defending Freedom. Speaking to Fox News, Scott implied there is a double standard in place in Greenville: “Just two blocks down the street, the Sonic, they can sit there and talk and eat, but a couple blocks up the other way, they can’t even come with the windows rolled up, with me preaching inside the church.” 

Greenville Mayor Errick Simmons held a press briefing on Monday, April 13, 2020 to address the situation. “Our churches are a cornerstone in our community. Our faith based leaders have been creative and innovative in their practice of social distancing through the use of electronic, social media, and other platforms during this pandemic,” he said. He went on to say the situation with Temple Baptist “has been taken out of context” and that “it’s a misrepresentation of the officers, this council and this mayor.” Simmons told the group he attends a church himself.

Simmons also said those issued tickets during the April 8th service would not be required to pay them, although the directive that churches suspend all drive-in services still stands for the time being. However, Simmons said he is seeking “definitive guidance” from the Governor’s office about drive-in services in particular.

Church Mourns Loss of Pastor Who Rejected Social Distancing

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The founder and pastor of New Deliverance Evangelistic Church (NDEC) in Richmond, Virginia, passed away Saturday from complications due to Covid-19. During the last in-person sermon he gave on March 22, Bishop Gerald O. Glenn had said he would keep preaching unless he were “in jail or in the hospital.” Within that week, however, the church made the decision to suspend services, and three weeks later, the pastor died. 

“It is with an exceedingly sorrowful and heavy heart that I come to you this morning,” said a church leader in a Facebook announcement posted on Easter Sunday. “Last night, April 11, at 9 p.m., our father, Bishop Gerald Glenn transitioned from labor to reward. Since I can’t lie, the first thing I asked God was, ‘Why?’ But bishop has taught us that God is big enough to handle our ‘why.’” 

He went on, “Our bishop has been a friend as well as a spiritual shepherd to so many of us here at Deliverance and around the country. He will be missed by us all.” The leader asked that as the church enters a 30-day mourning period for the bishop, the members would remember to pray for the pastor’s wife, Mother Glenn (who also has Covid-19), as well as the whole Glenn family. 

The leader encouraged the church to show one another the love of Jesus and quoted Isaiah 41:10, which says, “So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.”

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“I don’t know how,” he said, “but I got to say it: God will get the glory from this.”

New Deliverance Mourns Death of Pastor

The week prior to Bishop Glenn’s March 22 sermon, the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) had recommended that people avoid gathering in groups of 50 or more, and President Trump had advised against groups of 10 or more.

NDEC decided to hold a service the next week anyway, recording and posting it to YouTube, although the church’s videos have since been removed. The New York Post reports that during his sermon, Glenn described the decision to gather for worship as “controversial” and his role as a pastor as “essential,” minimizing the virus’s risk to the members. He said, “I firmly believe that God is larger than this dreaded virus. You can quote me on that.” 

The next day, the governor of Virginia issued an executive order banning all gatherings of 10 or more people. On March 27, The church issued a letter to members, announcing that services were suspended.

In a video posted to Facebook on April 4, Glenn’s daughter, Mar-Gerie Crawley updated the church that both her mother and her father had tested positive for Covid-19. While her mother had had pneumonia, she was no longer showing signs of it at the time. But Bishop Glenn also had pneumonia, and Crawley described his situation as “more complicated,” noting he had just been put on a ventilator. “This is the darkest our family has ever seen,” she said, but added that people’s prayers and support have meant a great deal to the family.

According to WTVR News, Crawley said that the purpose of the March 22 sermon was to encourage New Deliverance members, not to oppose state guidelines. She now entreats everyone to be cautious and shelter at home: “It becomes very real to you. I just beg people to understand the severity and the seriousness of this.” 

In a Tuesday post to her personal Facebook page, Crawley said that she and several other family members had also tested positive for Covid-19. She asked her New Deliverance family to trust in God during this time and to persevere in love.

“I don’t have the words right now to express myself,” she said. “I pray that God would give me the strength to in the future. What I do want to leave with you is this, God did not call us to fight, He called us to love. That’s how we will honor my Father. Love them in spite of. God will fight our battles. You all keep the faith and we will talk to you soon.”

6 Tips for Singles During Quarantine

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There are 6 tips for singles during quarantine that just might help you get through this season.

Ah yes, another article about this virus. This invisible man who haunts the landscape of our minds, yet most of us have yet to encounter firsthand. The microscopic specter who paces our stresses and anxieties, caressing and encouraging them.

I picture Sir Coronavirus in a velvet-backed chair stroking his cat while the world goes mad.

One of the terms I’ve heard circling lately is the idea of “Corona Babies” being created during this quarantine period. Families or couples who are holed up together get bored and have little else to do… “There will be a baby boom come December,” they say.

That’s great for those who have a babymaking pard’ner, but what about us single folk? What about those of us cooped up with our roommates like me, or worse, all alone?

Experientially, this feels like staying home sick from school, but the reality is different because we are not actually sick. We have opportunity to create new things, read, or most likely, binge watch every video on the internet. The temptation exists for me to just sit around, waiting for this thing to pass while streaming whatever Netflix tells me is trending today, while on my phone reading news updates about this freakin’ virus.

6 Tips for Singles During Quarantine

Since we are all in this together, I have a few thoughts to ponder while we pass through this new territory together. It’s nothing profound, nor are they “things you must do in order to stay safe!” Just thoughts from a single extrovert slowly losing his mind.

Singles During Quarantine: Don’t Just Consume.

Like I said, the temptation for all of us will be to passively digest entertainment until the quarantine is lifted and we can return to normal life. There is absolutely room to sit around and enjoy some films and series, but if that’s all we do, we will have wasted these days.

Something to always keep in mind whenever you take in any media, not just in this season, but always: Consume media with your brain turned on. There is no such thing as mere entertainment. Every show, song, film, and YouTube series may be premised as just entertainment, but whatever we consume makes assumptions about the world and how ethics should function. We often digest these blindly and before we know it, we share the same moral ground as the rest of the world.

For instance, most people my age believe sex outside of marriage is permissible. Did someone explicitly tell them this, or was it slowly absorbed from every movie and TV show out there today, until finally the ethic became a part of their mental fabric? Everyone on Friends, The Office, and Modern Family is sleeping together as if it’s no big deal, so why should we think it is?

Just make sure to absorb all media with your brain on, or else it will slowly inform how you live your own life before you know it.

Singles During Quarantine: Keep in Touch.

If we’re honest, the biggest temptation for us single people will be to practice the fine art of babymaking, but without a partner. Porn and masturbation are already running rampant as (without going into too much detail) I’ve seen countless memes about the activities of lonely folks forced inside, and we can only expect it to get worse.

Be Careful Because Virtual Ministry Can Still Burn You Out

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As we checked in over Google Hangout, my coworker exclaimed, “I Think I’ve Had A Little Too Much Screentime.” We all jumped in and agreed we were there. Since virtual ministry and telecommuting started for our parish, I’ve found myself looking at emails, social media, and teleconferencing sites nonstop. These are unusual times, and with any type of change, it’s easy to find yourself overwhelmed.

Right now, everything is being canceled and rescheduled. More and more businesses are trying to move to a telecommuting model. As we make this transition, it’s essential to look at your schedule because anytime a void appears, something eventually fills it. And while virtual ministry seems convenient because you can do everything from home, beware because it can still stretch you thin. It can be much harder to create a virtual ministry and not get overwhelmed because it’s harder to establish limits. It’s harder to walk away from the office and shut down when you telecommute. So,  before you get fully into the virtual world, you need to make sure you have time for:

PRAYER AND PEACE

It might be harder to find that quiet spot in the house, but you need to make sure you are allowing God to speak into your life. There is so much to process, and that can be a bit overwhelming. While there are more and more resources online, it might be beneficial to disconnect, pick up a Bible, pray the rosary, or journal.

TRUE BOREDOM AND CREATIVITY

Don’t be afraid to have “Screen-Time Free Segments” of your day when you simply sit and think. You don’t have to be continuously connected; in fact, boredom can bring freedom because it gives your time to rest.

Similarly, you can build in time to create. Maybe this is a season to try painting, cooking, or pick up a musical instrument. You can write that book or work that recipe you never had time to tackle. Taking on something abstract or artistic will expand your ability to take on different challenges.

MEANINGFUL CONNECTION

When are you taking the time to get to know the people in your home? Are you playing board games, eating meals and taking walks? It might seem a little counterintuitive to the social distancing; however, you need to know how to cohabitate during this time of isolation.

If you are on your own, it’s scheduling meaningful phone calls with friends and family. Get back into a routine where the majority of your discussions are about life and not work. The relationships you form will carry through this season.

STARTING AND QUITTING

You need a beginning and end to your day. Setting timers and reminders can serve as the guardrails you need to shut things down. It’s important to talk with your coworkers and volunteers about when you are available and when you are not. If you are a pastor or administrator, make sure your team is doing or else you’ll find yourself connected continuously. If you can, relegate your laptop to a room and only go in there during your office hours. Shut down the technology when you take a break. If you have to give it away to a roommate or family member.

Put those personal and prayerful times into place, so that you can create a manageable pace to your new schedule. While telecommuting brings a little more flexibility, it’s easier to blur what’s work and what’s rest. Virtual ministry and telecommuting are attractive, just don’t forget to ease into it, we need you for the long haul.

This article originally appeared here.

The Wonder of Marriage: Celebrating the Benefits of a Lifelong Love

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It’s time to celebrate the wonder of marriage and the benefits of a lifelong love. Britney is in her early thirties and has mostly married friends. As a single, Britney told me she sees marriage from the perspective of what you gain, but almost all her married friends see marriage from the perspective of what they have lost. They seem frustrated with what their marriage isn’t, while Britney sees so much of what their marriage is and provides.

“When I get married,” Britney told me, “I hope I can remember that it’s such a blessing just to have someone who is there for you. He might not parent your child the way you want him to, but at least he’s having a child with you. He might not help clean the house as much as you hoped he would, but he’s there to get it dirty! He might like to occasionally go out with his friends, but he comes home to you at night. When you’re single, you’re all alone all the time. I hope I can remember what this feels like, that it would be such a blessing to have someone who wants to do life with me.”

It’s so helpful for me to talk to people like Britney because I’ve never really been single. I got married when I was twenty-two so I never had an independent “adult” life without a spouse. If Britney had been my friend back then, she’d probably have seen in me what she sees in her friends now—someone who takes the benefits of marriage for granted while complaining about the biggest frustrations and losses to my single friends.

Marriage is a wonder. The personal benefits of marriage are enormous. For me, I’ve seen how marriage has helped me in three particular areas: personal healing, happiness, and growth in holiness.

The Wonder of Marriage: The Healing Power of Acceptance

The spiritual art of “accepting” each other is one of the best and most healing aspects of marriage; it’s also a biblical command: “Accept one another, then, just as Christ accepted you, in order to bring praise to God” (Romans 15:7).

Lisa and I met two friends for dinner after work. I arrived first, and then the couple; Lisa came last since she was traveling from home. When my wife slid into the restaurant booth, she snuggled up right next to me, giving a little exclamation of delight.

“Are you cold?” asked the young woman.

“No,” Lisa said. “It’s just that he’s been gone all day. I haven’t seen him yet. I miss him.”

Her comment, thirty years into our marriage, made me feel like a king. She missed me.

One of the most healing aspects of marriage for me has been the fact that I live with a woman who knows me better than anyone else ever has or ever will and yet she still likes me. She even respects me. Even with all my particularities, bad habits, and weaknesses, she truly wants to be with me.

That brings a lot of healing to a basically insecure man (and says some even more marvelous things about the graciousness of my wife). When Lisa married me, I was the player who was second or third-string on every team he played on until he started running cross country. The only job I had was part-time and my prized possession was a ten-year old Ford Maverick Grabber. I had a college degree in English Literature which meant my first job offer after four years of study was as a busboy–not even a waiter, a busboy!

But Lisa chose me and continues to choose me. I’m in a world where everything I do gets evaluated; every sermon, every book, every blog post. But no matter how poor the sermon, how misguided the blog post, or how boring the book, Lisa’s going home with me.

Shannon had a “colorful” background as a single woman before she became a Christian, which was about a year and a half before she met Jason. Jason had been a committed believer his entire life, was raised in a homeschool, and his regular prayer since the time he was twelve years old was that God would provide a “godly virgin” for him to marry.

As they got to know each other, Jason told Shannon about his early prayer, not knowing anything about her past. Shannon wondered if she should end any romantic hopes right there. But the rest of the relationship seemed so good that eventually she took a deep breath and told Jason that before she became a Christian, she had been with…several…men.

Jason smiled—he smiled!—and said, “Of course you were. But none of those men will love you like I will.” Jason’s acceptance of her past told Shannon, “You’re not damaged goods. You’re the woman I want to spend my life with.” Shannon found great healing from past shame, proving the sweetness of that Scripture we have already quoted, “Accept one another, then, just as Christ accepted you, in order to bring praise to God” (Romans 15:7).

Zoom or Facetime? Choose Your Video Calling Solution Wisely!

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The coronavirus (Covid-19) has many staff working from home, and there are a number of things worth considering as you manage the ‘brand’ of your church in a distributed work environment. It’s important to select a video calling solution or two the church believes will serve its needs well while also protecting those in the video calls, and then requiring the team to use that/those solution(s).

Video Call Solution Standardization

That may seem obvious, but most are not doing that strategically. And left to choose whatever they want, many church team members are choosing a common video platform that falls significantly short: Zoom. It has vulnerabilities that could compromise and embarrass call participants and the church. Consider, for instance, if on a church small group video call, the participants were shocked when a bad actor crashed into the call and began showing unwelcome things via their webcam. This is happening so often that it’s even been given a name: zoombombing!

There are a number of video calling solutions that work well, and may not even cost the church to use. Here are my preferences:

  1. If everyone on the call— or in the small group— has an Apple iPhone, use Facetime! It’s safe, and there’s probably no learning curve for the participants.
  2. If you’re an O365-using church, use Teams! You already have it— probably for free since Microsoft wants to work with the church. And it can be extended to include those you want in calls that aren’t in your domain, or tenant.
  3. GoToMeeting is also a good solution, and they offer it free for 30 days! Each call can have up to 250 participants.

Appearance Standardization

Does your church have a dress code? If so, publish to your team a reminder of it, or policy relaxation guidelines. The video calls team members make from home still represent the church, so let them know if wearing their bathrobe in those calls is acceptable. Set minimum guidelines.

Also, what minimum It’s important to select a video calling solution standards do you have for the environment they’re working in? Some things to consider include the background (Teams has the ability to blur the background!), pets and children, breakfast bowl in front of the camera, and so on.

Care of/Provision for Employees

We care about the members of our team. What if they don’t own an ergonomic desk and chair? Or don’t have appropriate lighting? Or A/C if it’s getting warm? Or poor bandwidth? Identify in advance what you’re willing to do to help, which will aid in responding fairly to all requests.

Workspace Concerns

Perhaps you’ll let employees take their church work chair home, or desk lamp. A/C installation, however, may be more than the church is willing to improve.

Bandwidth Concerns

Some ISPs (Internet Service Providers) are willing to increase the contracted bandwidth (speed of the internet connection) for those working from home for awhile at no charge! But not all, so I suggest that if a team member requests a bandwidth increase, tell them to contact their ISP to see what can be done. If there’s going to be a monthly increase, add it to their base pay (rather than a pay stub separate line item which says the church is paying for it). Be aware, however, that increased bandwidth may not help video call quality if there are others in the home who are playing video games or streaming since those services will often expand their bandwidth consumption based on total availability.

Lord willing, the church will get through the Covid-19 pandemic, and come out of it even stronger than we were going in! My personal prayer is that this will be the beginning of a revival!

Should Pastors Try to Reunite a Church Split?

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One of the most painful and heartbreaking times in our church’s 80-year history was the church split that took place in the early 1980s. The pastor at the time took half the church and planted another church just a few blocks from our church.

Church splits are very unfortunate and painful experiences anytime they happen, but what made this split that much more tragic was the reason for the split.

One of the main issues I have been told that caused the split was disagreements over spiritual gifts. It is important that we realize that our church is not the first to be divided over spiritual gifts, as this was the reason Paul wrote a portion of the letter of 1 Corinthians to the Corinthian church (1 Corinthians 12-14). As the stories go, I am told the split at our church was so nasty and painful that families even divided.

That was 30 years ago. …

Although these gifts can divide, God in his sovereign grace has his ways of doing what Paul says to the Corinthians these gifts should actually do—unite God’s people.

After half the church left, our church continued on and the church that split off began that new work just down the street. About five years ago, the newest pastor of that church and I, in God’s kind providence, became friends.

We began to discuss the histories of our two churches and wondered if we now had a responsibility to get these two churches back together since they split over something that was supposed to unite. We determined for different reasons that bringing the two churches back together as one would not be the best thing to do, but we did decide to have a joint service together as a symbol of that unity that is supposed to exist and could now still exist among our two churches.

About five years ago, the church that split off from us came to a joint Sunday-morning service at our church. The new pastor from that church and I led the service and we asked Don Whitney to come and preach. It was an amazing moment. We watched people who hadn’t seen each other for 25 years embrace and reunite. It remains a highlight for me as a pastor and for my ministry at our church.

The church that split off from us continued to decline and all that remained was a few older members and a large building largely unused.  A few months ago the church that split from us joined with a healthy and growing church plant in the area. This church plant had a thriving young, internationally diverse congregation, but no older people and no building. The church that split from us had a few elderly members left and a good-sized building. As a result, the split of our church over 30 years ago is no more.

It is now a part of this church plant that is a strong, healthy church led by a faithful pastor who is taking great care of those few faithful elderly members that remained. Now all of those folks, old and young, diverse in many different ways, are being united around a love for Christ and a love for each other. What a powerful display of the gospel and God’s kind providence to God’s people.

May the wounds continue to heal. May these churches never divide again over that which should unite. May the gospel be displayed in the multigenerational, multi-ethnic congregation that now meets at that same place—just down the road from us.  

Mobilizing Teenagers (Even in a Pandemic) to Lead a Movement

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Not only is youth ministry possible during this pandemic, says Greg Stier, but youth workers can unleash teenagers to be part of a massive global awakening. Stier, founder and CEO of Dare 2 Share Ministries, addresses this during the new evangelism webinar “From Apathy to Action: How to Mobilize Your Teenagers to Lead a Movement.” 

In the one-hour webinar, available on YouTube and at dare2share.org, Stier uses a training philosophy based on Luke 10, when Jesus sends out the 72. Four steps to activating disciples include:

  • Why? (the inspiration)
  • What? (the information)
  • How? (the application)
  • Now! (the activation)

Spurring Young Evangelists to Action

With many Americans still under stay-at-home orders, Stier says, youth workers can do much more than use Zoom, social media, and texting to stay in touch with teenagers. He urges church leaders to get on their knees and wrestle in prayer, as Epaphras does in Colossians 4:12. Stier also points to missionary giant Hudson Taylor, whose most fruitful time stemmed from fervent prayer while being “quarantined” to bed with a spinal injury.

With the foundation of prayer, the first step—“Why?—involves inspiring and motivating kids, says Stier, the father of two teens. During this pandemic, apathy can set in as students are stuck in their rooms and on screens. But through real stories and raw truth, leaders can reach students’ hearts and set the pace for life transformation.

Next is the informational step, or “What?, which works best when concepts are reduced to powerful, easy-to-remember, easy-to-share sound bites. That’s followed by the “How?”—or application. In Luke 10, Jesus provides practical do’s and don’ts, and young evangelists need similar advice. For tips, prayer prompts, and accountability, Stier recommends Dare 2 Share’s recently updated Life in 6 Words app, which soon will offer virtual-sharing options.

Finally comes the activation step of “Now!” Kids need experience getting out of their comfort zones and becoming real-life evangelists, says Stier, adding that they, like Jesus’ disciples, will return excited and ready for more.

Greg Stier: Pandemic Is a Generational Marker

Implementing this strategy during coronavirus-related lockdowns will have profound effects, says Stier, especially once society opens up again. Kids will be looking for something, and when they gather again they’ll share stories and tell why they had hope amid the uncertainty.

“I believe this pandemic is going to mark this generation,” Stier says, “and if we pray for them now and give them [these steps]…students will be unleashed to share the hope of Jesus Christ with their friends.” This societal marker, he adds, “could kick off the greatest awakening in the history of humanity.”

Stier also shares details about Dare 2 Share Live, a nationwide broadcast from the ministry’s Denver-area headquarters on October 10, 2020. On that “10-10” date, the focus will be John 10:10 and the abundant life Jesus offers. Until May 31, the flat per-group fee is $99, which includes training curriculum. Last year’s event reached youth groups in more than 120 cities.

The push to reach people for Jesus, Stier concludes, isn’t about Dare 2 Share but about “a movement rising up” and about “capitalizing on the current situation.”

4 Steps to Equip Your Church to Be Good Neighbors During COVID-19 and Beyond

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Social distancing is our current reality, but that should not keep our churches from embracing the Great Commandment and living on mission. In fact, now is the perfect time to encourage our people to demonstrate compassionate care to their neighbors. Good neighbors doing good works leads to goodwill which opens the door for the Good News! Here are four simple steps to mobilize your church attendees to be good neighbors:

4 Steps to Help Your Members Learn to Be Good Neighbors

Step 1: Cast the Vision

In difficult times, people can drift toward turning inward. Without a doubt, there are real needs among those who call your church their spiritual home. We do not want to dismiss these needs, so please practice appropriate pastoral care for your people.  However, we definitely want to help our people move beyond being reactive to this crisis and begin praying for God to show them ways to be proactive. The Church has always stepped up during times of crisis and this is an opportunity for your church to be the hands and feet of Jesus right in your community. So cast this vision.  Each of us could spend every waking moment reading, listening to or watching another news report on COVID-19. Help your people resist this temptation and begin carving out time to make a difference during this crisis.

A great resource to help you cast the vision is the free Sermon Starter available from the Neighbors Helping Neighbors movement. Churches across the country are encouraged to share this message based on Jesus’ Great Commandment. The Sermon Starter also includes an engagement activity to invite the people in your church to take action right in their own neighborhoods. 

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A full training video is available to walk you through these steps and give more context and ideas to how you can encourage your church to embrace this opportunity to be good neighbors and extend the love of Jesus.

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Step 2: Lead by Example

As ministry leaders there are times we lead from behind, encouraging our flock as they grow. There are other times when we lead from in front, setting the pace and providing models to follow. In activating our people to be good neighbors, we definitely need to be leading by example. If, based on your current health, you are able then make the time to reach out to your nearest neighbors and check in with them, letting them know you are available to help with whatever needs they might have. There may be some neighbors on your block or in your building that you have not yet met. This is a great time to connect with them and let them know you care. 

Share stories with your church, either by live streaming online or via email, about your interactions with your neighbors. Invite them to pray for Greg and Connie next door or Mr. Owens across the street. Demonstrate what it means to be a good neighbor and invite your church to join you. Be safe in your approach… there are ways to be a good neighbor without endangering yourself or your neighbors. In fact, that takes us to the next step: provide ideas, tools and resources.

Step 3: Provide Ideas, Tools and Resources

To really increase the engagement of your people in serving their neighbors you must provide some ideas and tools to help them take action. The key is to offer ideas that can be implemented from a safe distance, if necessary. A great resource for your church is the Neighbors Helping Neighbors kit which includes a sermon starter that focuses on the Great Commandment, door hangers that your people can place on their neighbors’ doors when they are out walking the dog or getting some fresh air, a pdf guide with a number of ideas to compassionately care for their neighbors, and an engaging exercise that every household can use to reach their neighbors called the Dozen Door Challenge.  The door hangers have space to write your name and contact info so neighbors can reach out if they need assistance, prayer or just someone with whom they can talk.  You can even get yard signs that your people can put in their front yard to let their neighbors know they are available to help. Thousands of churches are joining in this neighboring movement. Imagine tens of thousands of homes reaching out to their neighbors all across the country!  

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Step 4: Pull Together as Needed

As your people connect with their neighbors new opportunities might arise where your church can step in and serve in a bigger way. Perhaps someone has a neighbor who has a local restaurant that is struggling.  You can encourage your church to order meals from that restaurant and bless that business. Maybe there are nurses and doctors who are in your members’ neighborhoods. Families in your church can make up care packages for the healthcare workers and you can organize a way to distribute them. Ask your people to share any larger needs and prayerfully consider how your church might be able to step in and serve.

BONUS: Celebrate Stories

Don’t forget to invite your people to share stories of being good neighbors so you can celebrate them with your church family.  It is always encouraging to hear how others are serving their neighbors and to pray for people across your community. You will likely see more opportunities to lift people up in prayer, people with whom your members have developed a personal relationship. Make the time to celebrate what God is doing and remind your people what it means to be the Church!

These are truly challenging times, yet God is at work in the midst of this crisis. Let us resist the temptation to only focus inwardly.  May we open our eyes to what God is doing and join him as we seek to make an impact for the Kingdom. May we plant seeds for the Gospel as we mobilize our people to live out the Great Commandment and connect with neighbors across our communities. This is the time for us to be the Church!

Police Threaten, Arrest ERCC Members on Easter Sunday

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The coronavirus pandemic has not stopped the Chinese Communist Party (CCP) from persecuting Christians in general, and it has not stopped the CCP from oppressing Early Rain Covenant Church (ERCC) in particular. Authorities arrested several of the church’s members as they were participating in an online service on Easter Sunday.

“At that time I was also in the Zoom call, but there was a long period of time where I did not hear a thing,” an ERCC member told International Christian Concern (ICC). “I thought it’s the network connection issue at first, but I soon heard a quarrel erupt. Our coworker Wang Jun was questioning some people, [saying], ‘Who are you to do this [to us]?’”

Early Rain Covenant Church Members Arrested 

ERCC is a house church located in Chengdu, the capital of Sichuan province. The church’s pastor, Wang Yi, is currently serving a prison sentence of nine years for charges including “inciting subversion of state power.” The ERCC church member who spoke to ICC said that some of those who were arrested on Easter received phone calls that the police were coming for them, and one of the members had his electricity cut off. 

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Besides Wang Jun, those arrested included Guo Haigang, Wu Wuqing, Jia Xuewei, Zhang Jianqing, and Zhang Xudong. Police told Zhang Jiangqing, “Don’t participate in already banned [religious] activities anymore! Don’t listen to Pastor [Wang]’s sermons anymore! If you do this again, we will deal with it seriously and take you away!” 

According to a report from Radio Free Asia (RFA), police arrested eight Early Rain members, not six. One church member told RFA, “We haven’t met in person since the raid of Dec. 9, 2018, and also because of the epidemic. We have been holding our services online.” The member added, “The brothers and sisters of our church were taken away from their homes. Several people I knew were taken to the police station, where they took statements from them, then released.” RFA says that the officials’ actions were part of “a simultaneous operation targeting church deacons, ministers, volunteers and regular members.”

A post on the Facebook page, Pray for Early Rain Covenant Church, states, “A number of Early Rain Covenant Church members were visited by police at their homes this Easter morning and many of them taken to the police station for interrogation. After being threatened and ordered to stop meeting together, they were released. Pray that God would continue to protect their church and grant them courage and resolve in the face of persecution.” ICC says that members’ electricity has been turned back on.

ChinaAid founder and president Bob Fu tweeted about the arrests, asking for prayer.

ERCC was not the only congregation the government targeted on Easter. Fu tweeted that a church in Qinghai province that was over 20 years old was demolished that day. 

As ChurchLeaders recently reported, one of the ways the CCP is persecuting Christians during the pandemic and ensuing lockdowns is by shutting down online broadcasts of worship services.

Early Rain Covenant Church Pastor Wang Yi

Pastor Wang Yi has been imprisoned ever since he was arrested along with about 100 members of his church in a raid in December 2018. While many of the members have been released, the CCP has been persistent in its persecution of the church since then. Authorities recently sentenced elder Qin Derfu to four years in prison. At the end of December 2019, officials held a secret trial for Pastor Wang, after which they sentenced him to nine years in prison. The most recent available photo of Wang shows him looking significantly thinner than he does in pictures taken before his arrest.

The Pray for Early Rain Facebook page has posted a video of Wang Yi preaching a sermon in April 2018 a couple weeks after Easter Sunday that year. “I’ve been thinking about the Lord Jesus walking the road to Golgotha,” he said. “There were no flowers or applause along the way.”

“I’ve said before that I’m also willing to walk the road to Golgotha,” said Pastor Wang. “I’m willing to suffer for the Lord. All these years, I’ve always thought I was willing to suffer for the Lord. But I cannot bear a road with no flowers but only spit. I cannot bear a road with no praise but only doubts, betrayal, and slander. But one day, the Lord suddenly said to me, ‘This is the true meaning of Golgotha! What you wanted to walk before was a runway.’” 

The pastor went on, “Golgotha is not about a road. Golgotha is about the spit, the doubts, the betrayals, the injuries, and the slander you encounter on that road. This is the road to Golgotha.”

‘Christ Over COVID’ Calls for Global Prayer As Coronavirus Ravages Russia, Former Soviet Nations

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Editor’s Note: This article concerning Slavic Gospel Association and the Christ Over COVID Prayer Initiative was provided by Eric Mock, Vice President of Ministry Operations for SGA, who travels to Russia several times a year to serve with local missionaries and churches.


With on-the-ground reports indicating Russia’s coronavirus peak is less than two weeks away, a pioneering ministry to the former Soviet bloc today launched a global campaign–“Christ Over COVID:  Much Prayer, Much Power”–calling for prayer and urgent relief for orphans, widows, and families.

“Right now, God is using COVID-19 to open hearts like nothing we’ve seen since the fall of the Iron Curtain,” said Michael Johnson, president of Slavic Gospel Association (SGA, www.sga.org)–an evangelical organization that has led the way in supporting local pastors and churches in this region for 80-plus years.

For decades, SGA founder Rev. Peter Deyneka–a Belarussian immigrant to the United States known as “Peter Dynamite” because of his dynamic prayer life–fought communist oppression on his knees in prayer. His rallying cry, “Much Prayer, Much Power”, is the title of his 1958 book calling Christians around the world to intercede for their “suffering brothers and sisters.”

Today, says Johnson, prayer warriors are needed more than ever as COVID-19 spreads across Russia, Georgia, Ukraine, and other Slavic nations–as well as threatening the Russian-speaking community in Israel.

Dire Straits

As Americans cope with the economic pain of widespread lay-offs and unpaid furloughs, millions of people in Russia and neighboring countries are in dire straits, with no safety net or stimulus package to help them. Even in normal times, the average monthly salary in Russia is about $500, with many surviving on much less.

Most of the former Soviet bloc is on lockdown–with martial law in some areas of Georgia, extended quarantine measures in Ukraine, and potential imprisonment for quarantine violators in Russia, where tankers are spraying disinfectant over Moscow’s streets. Russia expects its infection rate to peak in about two weeks, and reports suggest the eventual death toll will be severe.

“People in the villages are saying, ‘only your church helps us’,” said Johnson, whose Illinois-based organization supports a grassroots network of evangelical missionary pastors and churches in cities and rural villages across a 4,170-mile landmass–stretching from Eastern Europe to the Bering Strait off the coast of Alaska.

‘In God’s Hands’

“Everything is in God’s hands,” said Stas, an SGA-supported evangelical pastor in Russia. “We are trusting in the Lord, that he will not abandon us.”

Despite their own financial hardships, evangelical church members in Russia are sacrificially setting aside funds to help their neighbors in the days ahead, said Pavel, a local pastor. “With each week of this quarantine, there will be more homeless and hungry people,” he said.

Faithful congregations supported by SGA are delivering food packages to their most needy neighbors and the homeless, but they admit if the crisis lasts more than a month “we just don’t know what to do.”

SGA-supported pastors are keeping in touch with their quarantined church members over the phone and online, recording messages and sermons, and encouraging elderly shut-ins and people with disabilities who are among the most at-risk.

Amid the widespread fear and social restrictions, evangelical church leaders in Kazakhstan, central Asia, say there’s a new openness to the Gospel. In state-run orphanages, the children and workers are eager to hear about God.

“The children are praying like never before, singing Christian songs, and memorizing the Psalms,” said an SGA-supported missionary.

“I know that as Christians in America, we have a lot to deal with right now,” said Johnson, “but this is a breakthrough moment for the Gospel in the Russian-speaking world–and our church family is believing that ‘much prayer means much power’.”


Go to www.SGA.org/COVID to sign up to pray and receive updates about how God is working through evangelical churches in Russia during the crisis.

Craig Groeschel: How to Lead Effectively Through the COVID-19 Crisis

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This is a very real global crisis. It’s not the first in the history of the world and it won’t be the last. We will get through this. Will it be hard? Yes, it already is. Will things be different? Likely so! Will we get through this? Eventually!

It’s important to remember that while every major crisis creates unexpected problems, it also creates unprecedented opportunities. So, while we have more and different problems today than a month ago, there are more and different opportunities than we had a month ago.

What Kind of Opportunities Might a Global Crisis Present?

There are three different types of opportunities we should be looking for:

  1. Practical – now you have an excuse to make some changes you should have made before
  2. Financial – those who can see needs and respond quickly can create value, build businesses and develop ministries
  3. Missionalpeople are more open spiritually than they were a month ago; it’s an opportunity to speak into their lives

Now that we know how to look for the opportunities, we must clearly define the problems we are facing. Some leaders just start diving in without clearly defining the problem, but it’s important to step back to be proactive instead of reactive.

We see at least four different problems with COVID-19. These are different for all of us depending on what country, state or industry we’re in, but there are some similarities. The virus itself is the first problem – we don’t want people to get sick. The second problem is fear or panic. Cascading economic impact is the third problem, and finally, public perception that may not mesh with reality is a real problem. Make sure you are clearly defining the problems that you and your team need to address.

Next we must set priorities and it should become clear that there are only a few things that really matter. These four tiers of effectiveness can be a good guide:

Four Tiers of Effectiveness:

  1. What is mission critical?
  2. What is strategic and important?
  3. What is important but not essential?
  4. What is externally initiated?

Clearly define your tiers. Keep focused on tier one and tier two priorities right now. Focus on mission critical activities. You’re going to be tempted to do lots of things. Don’t. Everyone is going to have ideas—good ideas. Focus your energy toward the biggest priorities.

Create a plan around these mission critical things.

Communicating During a Global Crisis

When it comes time to communicate, there are three things you must do:

  1. Communicate Empathetically

Unfortunately, most of your team members’ first thought isn’t about your business, your nonprofit or your church. By nature, they are asking, “How will this impact me? My family?” They are understandably afraid.

You will want to acknowledge their fears and speak to them. Help them know you understand what they are feeling. Don’t be afraid to say what people are thinking. Do everything you can to value your employees. They won’t follow you if they don’t believe you understand. Help them know you genuinely care about them!

  1. Communicate Truthfully

Tell the truth, even when the truth is negative, uncertain or scary. This is so important.

As leaders, we don’t motivate through a crisis, we lead through a crisis. This is not a time for motivation, this is a time for wise decisions, and leading through the crisis. Be realistic and truthful.

So, tell them when you don’t know or when you aren’t sure. The only thing you want to promise them—whatever you decide—things will change. So, adjust. That’s why you speak confidently, but not definitely. You are certain your team will make wise decisions as you know more, but you don’t know enough to project way into the future today. We’re not making promises. We’re confident, calm—we’re leaders.

  1. Communicate Frequently

You cannot over-communicate. Every day, things are changing, sometimes by the hour. Every day, your team will have new questions, concerns and fears. Our various campus staff normally meet all together four times a year. Now we are meeting online every week—sometimes twice a week. Our church normally worships on the weekends, but we also added a midweek online service and our normally monthly communication is now weekly. Our campus staff team is calling every member of our church asking them if they need prayer or assistance. We’re increasing the frequency of communication.

With every communication explain “why” as often as possible. People will go along with the what when they understand why! You’re going to make a lot of decisions based on the information you have, but your team might not have all that information. That’s why you need to be clear about the why before the what.

Finally, some practical advice:

  1. Cut any unnecessary expenses. Cash is king during a crisis. We have no idea how long this will last or how bad it will be. Cash to your business is like oxygen to your body. If your team is going to need to make sacrifices, you go first, and you sacrifice the most. If everyone is taking a 10 percent pay cut, you take 20 percent.
  2. It may seem obvious—take care of yourself! Like many of you, I haven’t had a real day off in weeks! So I’ve scheduled time to rest and recover. Sleep, unplug, walk, laugh, see your kids! Put your own oxygen mask on, and then put it on others.
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