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How to Reconcile With Your Wife: 9 Steps to Reconciliation

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How to Reconcile with Your Wife

In working with marriages in distress I’ve discovered most men have injured the women in their life emotionally, at least at some level. To understand how this can happen one needs to first understand one of the ways men and women are usually different. Most men are predominantly thinking beings—they receive and process experiences in life in a predominately rational and logical way. If someone says something that offends a man he will accept or dismiss it based on whether it is true.

Most women are different. Women are usually more in tune with their emotions. They are often more relationally aware. When life happens to them their dominant reaction is often to respond emotionally first. When someone hurts a woman’s feelings, for example, even though the information they receive may be false, it takes them longer to work through the feelings associated with the emotional injury.

(Of course both of these two paragraphs are general statements, but they ring true for most men and women.) I would contend though—every woman’s heart is injured to a certain extent. (And, fairly, probably every man’s.) Sometimes this injury occurs gradually over time. Sometimes it comes suddenly through serious breaches in the marriage trust.

The heart, speaking in terms of the seat of our emotions, was created much like other parts of the body. When a finger is broken the body is designed to instantly start to heal and protect itself from further injury. When a person takes a swing at you your natural reaction is to put your hands up in defense.

The same is true of the heart. When a person’s heart is injured, it goes into a self-protective mode to keep it from further injury. Over time, after years of injury, the heart becomes almost calloused, refusing to allow anyone to injure the heart again. A woman who has had years of emotional injury doesn’t have much heart left to give to anyone, but especially to the one who has done the injury. She has closed off her heart to keep from being hurt anymore.

Most men enjoy trying to “fix” problems, but men cannot fix their wife’s emotions. Emotions are not repaired as easily as one could fix a leaking faucet or program a computer. So what is a man to do if he feels his wife’s heart is injured? How do you heal a broken heart?

Of course, Jesus is the Wonderful Counselor. He can come in, erase all the pain and make the heart brand new. Most of the time, however, at least in my experience, He lets us wrestle with life’s heartache while we learn to better love one another.

The following steps are designed for a man to help heal his wife’s heart. This post developed when a pastor came to me with a horrible story of his wife’s sexual abuse as a child. Even today she struggles to trust any man, including her husband. I gave him this advice.

9 Steps To Reconciliation With Your Wife:

1. Seek God

Whatever draws you closer to God is a good thing—and will make you a better man, regardless of what happens with your marriage. When you are attempting to rekindle your wife’s love, use this time to develop and strengthen your relationship with God. It starts, as all relationships with God begin, through a recognition of who Christ is and your belief in Him. Start there and grow.

2. Practice patience

The first thing men need to do is to recognize restoring a broken heart will not happen overnight. Emotions heal very slowly. Steps should begin to restore an injured heart or to rebuild the marriage, but men should not expect too much too soon.

3. Love your wife

This is by far their greatest need. Most wives have their love need unmet. The standard for our love is perfection, since a man is to love his wife as Christ loves the church. As imperfect men we will actually never love our wife enough. The wife knows, however, when the husband’s attention is somewhere else. Many men sacrifice their marriage for their careers or other interests. A wife’s love need is new every day. A wife needs to know that she is second only to God in her husband’s affections.

I have found for my love for my Cheryl to grow as I need Christ’s help. I pray for this often.

The Hardest Year Yet for Pastors

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It is an understatement to say that 2020 has been incredibly difficult on all of us. Pastors and church leaders have carried a particularly heavy load in trying to survive personally and guide their families but also carrying the burden of an entire congregation that is struggling spiritually, emotionally, relationally, and financially.

As you probably know, I am privileged to lead a global fellowship of thousands of pastors (http://www.64fellowship.com/). In our connection with these church leaders they report unprecedented discouragement and even unexpected depression. Surprising numbers are quietly contemplating quitting their church in the midst of the pressures and uncertainties of the pandemic. Recent research by the Barna Organization estimates that 1 in 5 churches are facing permanent closure within 18 months due to COVID-19.[i]

Church members have become increasingly vocal, critical, and divided over issues related to regathering, wearing masks, and personal reengagement in ministry. Pastors field almost daily comparisons with other churches who are handling it the “right” way. They are also uncertain and anxious about what the post-pandemic church will look like in terms of attendance and ministry engagement. Will people return after getting used to watching church remotely? In many regions, pastors are struggling with oppressive regulations about the freedom to even gather anytime soon.

Financial concerns are another major point of stress. A new poll, released by the National Association of Evangelicals, involved more than 1,000 churches across all 50 states, showing that more than six out of ten churches have seen a decline in offerings since mid-March.[ii]

Twice in my decades of pastoral ministry I was called as the next guy (the “clean up guy”) following a highly-visible, megachurch moral failure by my predecessor. The lessons gained from these challenging experiences have provided practical insights about the pathway to ministry failure and, conversely, the keys to long-term integrity and endurance. I have written about this in my new book, Glorious Finish: Keeping Your Eyes on the Prize of Eternity in a Time of Pastoral Failings. This month you can get two for the price of one as our way of helping you resource your church leaders, or even better understand their unique journey.

What Can We Do?

As I interact with thousands of pastors from many denominational streams each year, I sense their great need for support from congregants, especially now. October provides a unique opportunity for all of us to act thoughtfully, generously ,and collectively in providing meaningful appreciation to our clergy.

First, we can pray earnestly for our church leaders and let them know we are doing so. The Apostle Paul openly asked for prayer (Romans 15:30; 2 Corinthians 1:11; Ephesians 6:19, Colossians 4:3, 1 Thessalonians 5:25, 2 Thessalonians 3:1). Besides, it is difficult to be a critic and an intercessor at the same time.

By actively serving we can all help alleviate their ministry burdens. Each of has a biblical responsibility to identify our gifts and talents — then jump in to faithfully carry the load or meet countless needs (1 Peter 4:10-11).

A note of genuine gratitude, positive feedback on a sermon, and appreciation for their sacrifices can go a long way to counteract the frequent criticisms they absorb.

Certainly every member can faithfully and sacrificially support the financial needs of the church. God gives us grace to be supernaturally generous, even in the toughest of times (2 Corinthians 8:1-7).

Beyond this, we can tangibly encourage the pastors and their families with a generous gift card, tickets to a local event, support for a special get-away, or an extra week of vacation. Get creative. Be generous. Enlist others in meaningful efforts of appreciation.

Let these verses guide you as you do the right and necessary thing this month.

  • “We ask you, brothers, to respect those who labor among you and are over you in the Lord and admonish you, and to esteem them very highly in love because of their work” (1 Thessalonians 5:12-13).
  • “Let the elders who rule well be counted worthy of double honor, especially those who labor in the word and doctrine” (1 Timothy 5:17).
  • “…those who proclaim the gospel should get their living by the gospel” (1 Corinthians 9:14).
  • “One who is taught the word must share all good things with the one who teaches” (Galatians 6:6).
  • “So receive him (Epaphroditus – a spiritual leader) in the Lord with all joy, and honor such men” (Philippians 2:29).
  • “Obey those who rule over you, and be submissive, for they watch out for your souls, as those who must give account. Let them do so with joy and not with grief, for that would be unprofitable for you” (Hebrews 13:17).

Strategic Targets

While I am not much of a bowler, I do know that it is hard to get a strike if you don’t hit the head pin. Similarly, the forces that seek to destroy the church fix their sights on the spiritual leaders, knowing the fallout will be significant.

In these stressful times, and especially in this designated month, let’s not miss this opportunity to support our pastors. The health of the church and the spiritual well-being of future generations may depend on it.

Copyright © 2020 Daniel Henderson. All rights reserved.

[i] https://www.christianpost.com/news/1-in-5-churches-face-closure-within-18-months-due-to-covid-19-shutdowns-barna-president.html

[ii] http://www.stateoftheplate.info/index.htm

This article originally appeared here.

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10 Great Prayers for Every Marriage

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Dear Lord, grow our love for You daily.

Dear Lord, help us to love each other unconditionally.

Dear Lord, allow us to respect one another in an empowering way.

Dear Lord, teach us how to complete each other, building us into one unit You design.

Dear Lord, rid our hearts from grudges or bitterness toward one another, teaching us to forgive readily and extend grace continually.

Dear Lord, let us encourage each other to achieve the dreams you give us individually and jointly.

Dear Lord, keep us humble, placing each other’s needs ahead of our own.

Dear Lord, guard our hearts from selfishness and self-centered desires.

Dear Lord, protect our marriage from the destruction of outside influences.

Dear Lord, make our commitment deeper than our emotions, stronger than the seasons of change and the trials which will come our way.  

6 Tips to Guide Your Ministry With Parents

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Q: “How do we engage these parents, who act more like agents and personal assistants, to be the primary influence in their child’s spiritual formation?”

First of all, let me say this. this generation of kids are very family oriented. When asked, the majority of these kids will say Mom or Dad is their hero.  This is a fact that can offer all of us hope for this generation. We all have to engage parents to parent.

Also, if you talk with most parents, they will all tell you with sincerity that they care. They wonder if they are really raising their kids well. I don’t know any parent who wants their kids to end up spoiled, misguided, or confused. But parenting is hard work.

Just Friday I was having a conversation with a fellow staff member at the church. He said point blank, “I never thought parenting would be as difficult as it has been.”

And he’s right. We want our kids to be safe. We want them to love Jesus. We hope they do well in school, have friends, behave in public and have great manners at the diner table. We work really hard at doing all of this, than one morning we hear something from the basement.

“When did they learn that word?!”

Somewhere between the school bus, some show on TV, and my own road rage of course they learned that word.

As parents, it’s too easy to coast. I think we’re all roller-coasters of involvement. It’s no wonder our kids are confused whether to call us friends or parents. But I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again: Parents are called to parent.

Parents have exponentially more time with their kids than we do at the church. How can we spend some of our resources helping parents be the best care-givers they can be?

Here are some principles to guide your ministry with parents:

1. Invite them along for the ride.

We often think that if parents want to know something that they’ll just ask us. Or if they don’t like something that they’ll just tell us. The truth is more like they’ll ask or tell someone else before they talk with us.

How are we inviting parents into the right conversations? We need to seek out their advice on their kids. We need to have their input. We don’t necessarily need to implement everything they suggest; we can’t. We can ask good questions and listen. Remember we partner with them, not the other way around. The more we help parents understand that we’re here to help them, the more likely they will come to us with a need.

2. Regularly communicate vision.

Take every opportunity to share your ministry goals with parents. Do this in ways parents receive information. Most likely, your church bulletin is not that place. How could use social media with parents? Maybe a weekly newsletter will work? How many face-to-face conversations are you having with parents? How about focus groups?

Whatever you choose, keep in mind that you’ll need multiple avenues to communicate the same information. We living in a information-saturated world, most people need to see or hear something at least seven times before they actually hear it.

3. Harness the power of influence.

You will always have at least one set of parents who are on board with your plan. Inspire them to influence other parents with whom they travel this journey. Many of us can’t know every single parent in our ministries, but we can know several with whom we can partner to help other parents.

Even this week, think of three sets of parents that can be part of a focus group. Share a meal with them and let them help you in this difficult task.

4. Treat parents with respect.

This sounds obvious, but I’m pretty sure we can come across as arrogant sometimes. We may have the plan and the “expertise”, but do we have the grace to deliver it in a way that doesn’t make a parent feel stupid? Truth be told, we don’t have all the answers. Many of us who work in children’s and student ministry don’t have kids in those age groups. We have theory, but we don’t always have hard evidence that what we say will work in the lives of these kids. Collectively the parents in your ministry have more intelligence than we do, let’s all approach them with humility.

5. Training Initiatives.

Many parents just don’t know where to start. Hold training events that help your parents with practical information they can use immediately. They can include content: media, pop culture awareness, Internet awareness, etc. You must also offer opportunities for parents to discuss solutions to the issues they face and give them strategies to help them transform their family for the better.

Before you can create these events, you should know what your families need. Talk to five or ten families and have them list the top five issues or questions they face as parents. Create events that answer specific needs for the families in your church and community.

6. Don’t give up.

Change doesn’t happen overnight. Don’t get discouraged. Keep investing the time into parents. It’s easy to invest into kids. They (usually) respond positively and will love you no matter what. For parents, it’s just gonna take time.  Remember, we’re only responsible to be true to our calling and share vision with parents. It’s their choice whether or not they take you up on it. And while you’re not giving up, pray, pray, and pray some more. This is about the Spirit of God working in their lives. Pray that he moves in their hearts and transforms their family.

What would you add to this list? I’d love to hear your ideas!

John Piper: We Can’t Ignore Unrepentant Sin While Grasping for Pro-Life Policies

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Popular reformed theologian John Piper shared his thoughts on the upcoming election on his website Desiring God.

“This article is probably as close as you will get to an answer on how I will vote in the upcoming presidential election,” Piper writes in an article titled Policies, Persons, and Paths to Ruin: Pondering the implications of the 2020 election.

He explains he did not write the lengthy post to dictate how someone should vote, as he does not mention either candidate’s names throughout the entire piece, but his desire is to bring light to a neglected perspective that sways how he votes.

He used the word baffled when explaining how he feels about why so many Christians “consider the sins of unrepentant sexual immorality (porneia), unrepentant boastfulness (alazoneia), unrepentant vulgarity (aischrologia), unrepentant factiousness (dichostasiai), and the like, to be only toxic for our nation, while policies that endorse baby-killing, sex-switching, freedom-limiting, and socialistic overreach are viewed as deadly.” Piper explains why he chose to include the Greek words for these toxic sins:

The reason I put those Greek words in parentheses is to give a graphic reminder that these are sins mentioned in the New Testament. To be more specific, they are sins that destroy people. They are not just deadly. They are deadly forever. They lead to eternal destruction (2 Thessalonians 1:9). They destroy persons (Acts 12:20–23). And through persons, they destroy nations (Jeremiah 48:29–3142).

Piper wants to “raise the stakes,” as he puts it, on the leadership that is modeled before us. Public behaviors that can lead to death are not something to be treated lightly, he says.

He makes the argument that it’s a “drastic mistake to think that the deadly influences of a leader come only through his policies and not also through his person.” Piper uses 1 Corinthians 5:61 Corinthians 15:332 Timothy 2:16-17, and 1 Kings 14:16 to explain his biblical viewpoint. He states that for the last five years our society has been witness to this type of infection by saying, “Flagrant boastfulness, vulgarity, and factiousness are not only self-incriminating; they are nation-corrupting.”

Piper Is Baffled That Christians Place Policies Over Character

“Christians communicate a falsehood to unbelievers (who are also baffled),” Piper says, “when we act as if policies and laws that protect life and freedom are more precious than being a certain kind of person.” Piper asserts that Christians communicate this falsehood year after year, and the church is paying for it. Although he doesn’t mention names, Piper alludes to the evangelical church’s (sometimes ostentatious) support of President Trump:

I find it bewildering that Christians can be so sure that greater damage will be done by bad judges, bad laws, and bad policies than is being done by the culture-infecting spread of the gangrene of sinful self-exaltation, and boasting, and strife-stirring (eristikos).

Piper Says Self Pride Is as Destructive as Pro-Abortion Policies

Piper is against abortion, and believes Roe vs. Wade is an evil decision. He calls Planned Parenthood a code name for baby-killing and ethnic cleansing, but he says, “I think it is baffling and presumptuous to assume that pro-abortion policies kill more people than a culture-saturating, pro-self pride.”

Piper asserts that a nation’s destruction comes from a self-absorbed, self-exalting boastful leader, more than we could ever imagine. Piper states that only a naive person would think a man who displays character traits that lead to death could also be pro-life.

Piper’s current views are consistent with his views during the last election. On the day of President Trump’s inauguration in 2017, John Piper wrote How to Live Under an Unqualified President. He stated then that he believed that Donald Trump was morally unqualified to be president and gave a list of reasons of why he thought so.

Piper Asks, “Has Your Preaching Developed Real, Radical Christians?”

In closing, the veteran pastor asked other pastors to reflect and think about imagining the collapse of the America they know. Painting the picture of a place where Christians will be fined, put in prison, exiled, and killed for what they believe, he asks the question, “Has my preaching been developing real, radical Christians?”

Radical Christians, he defines, as those who will rejoice in the face of persecution and not waiver when their faith is tested. Piper asked another question, “Or have you neglected these greatest of all realities and repeatedly diverted their attention onto the strategies of politics?” He expressed that one can inadvertently create a mindset that saving America is the most important issue in life instead of exalting Christ with or without the comforts and liberties America gives.

“My Way Need Not Be Yours,” Piper Says

Piper explains that his calling is not to tell someone who to vote for but to lead people to see Jesus Christ. He feels that casting a vote for either candidate is endorsing devastation, and he expresses that he and only he will account for who he votes for:

With a cheerful smile, I will explain to my unbelieving neighbor why my allegiance to Jesus set me at odds with death — death by abortion and death by arrogance. I will take him to Psalm 139 and Romans 1. And if he is willing, I will show him how abortion and arrogance can be forgiven because of Christ (Ephesians 1:7). And I will invite him to become an exile — to have a kingdom that will never be shaken, not even when America is a footnote in the archives of the new creation.

In a 2010 LifeWay Research survey, protestant pastors named John Piper as one of the ten most influential living pastors in the United States. Piper has written over 50 books, including the bestselling titles Desiring God Meditations of a Christian HedonistDon’t Waste Your LifeThe Pleasures of God: Meditations on God’s Delight in Being GodThe Supremacy of God in Preaching, and many more.

You can read Piper’s entire article here.

Al Mohler, another prominent Christian leader, has expressed a divergent view from Piper’s. You can read more here: Evangelical Leaders React to Mohler Supporting Trump.

Outbreak Confirmed at Grace Community Church

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Editor’s Note: Oct. 26, 2020 This article has been updated to include a statement from John MacArthur’s legal team.


The Los Angeles Public Health department has identified John MacArthur’s Grace Community Church in Sun Valley, California as the site of a new COVID-19 outbreak. This is the first outbreak being reported since the church opened its doors in July. The church will appear on the county’s outbreak dashboard later today.

Grace Community Church Outbreak

ChurchLeaders reached out to LA County’s Public Health department who confirmed they are investigating an outbreak associated with Grace Community Church. The department also said they will be listing the church on its outbreak dashboard today: 

Public Health can confirm it is currently investigating an outbreak at Grace Community Church and will list the church on our outbreak dashboard today showing 3 confirmed cases. As with all investigations of outbreaks, Public Health will work closely with the church to support outbreak management strategies that can limit transmission of COVID-19.  

In order to be considered an outbreak, an organization must have three laboratory-confirmed cases associated with it. Houses of worship are required to report to the county if they have three such cases. At this time, the LA County Public Health Department has not disclosed whether Grace Community Church’s confirmed cases are among congregants or staff. 

After complying with the state of California’s stay at home orders which stipulated houses of worship cease from gathering in person beginning in March of this year, Grace Community Church started meeting again in July. While MacArthur has been famously outspoken about his defiance of the public health orders, he has implied that he didn’t explicitly tell people to come back to in-person services. Rather, he says they came on their own. 

Throughout the weeks, though, MacArthur has maintained that no one has gotten sick. At the time of this article’s publishing, there has been no public statement from Grace Community Church or John MacArthur acknowledging the outbreak or the confirmed cases. The church referred ChurchLeaders to its legal team for comment, and we received the following statement written by Jenna Ellis, who is serving as Thomas More Society Special Counsel, and is representing MacArthur and Grace Community Church:

Three very mild positive tests among more than 7000 people is hardly news. 0.0004 or 0.043 percent is not an ‘outbreak.’ The LA Times and others’ grossly misleading and fear-mongering headlines aim to mischaracterize Grace Community Church as irresponsible and a superspreader. It has never been the Church’s position that it is only safe to hold services if no one ever tests positive, or for example, if no one ever gets the flu during flu season. Our position has been that LA County shutting down churches indefinitely amid a virus with a 99.98 percent survival rate, especially when state-preferred businesses are open and protests are held without restriction, is unconstitutional and harmful to the free exercise of religion.

MacArthur’s Fight Against the State and the Virus

MacArthur has had a number of things to say about the coronavirus and the resulting restrictions. He’s pursued legal action against the state of California for what he sees as overreach into the church’s affairs. He’s also said “there is no pandemic.”

The church and state are currently in the midst of a protracted legal battle. Different judges have ruled in favor and against MacArthur and the other leaders of Grace Community Church. The next scheduled court appearance for MacArthur is set for November 13, 2020.

The pastor has appeared on news outlets and podcasts, saying how disappointed he is that other churches are shutting down. Alluding to church leaders such as Andy Stanley and J.D. Greear, who have recently announced they will wait until next year to resume in-person services, MacArthur said “they don’t know what a church is.

CO Churches Win Preliminary Injunction Not to Obey COVID-19 Orders

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A federal judge has granted a preliminary injunction to two churches in Colorado, exempting them from state orders saying that houses of worship must limit attendance and require attendees to wear masks. Judge Daniel D. Domenico’s ruling on the Colorado mask mandate and worship attendance limits centers on the argument that the state of Colorado is treating houses of worship differently from businesses or secular gatherings.

“The court does not doubt that the State made these decisions in good faith, in an effort to balance the benefits of more public interaction against the added risk that inheres in it,” said Domenico in his ruling issued Oct. 15. “But the Constitution does not allow the State to tell a congregation how large it can be when comparable secular gatherings are not so limited, or to tell a congregation that its reason for wishing to remove facial coverings is less important than a restaurant’s or spa’s.” 

Pastor Robert A. Enyart with Denver Bible Church in Wheat Ridge and Pastor Joey Rhoads with Community Baptist Church in Brighton filed their lawsuit in August. The plaintiffs claimed that Gov. Jared Polis’ orders violate the Free Exercise Clause of the First Amendment of the Constitution and violate the Constitution’s Fourteenth Amendment because of their vagueness. The plaintiffs also took issue with the defendants’ implementation of the Stafford Act, the CARES Act, and the Colorado Disaster Emergency Act (CDEA).

In addition to Gov. Polis, the suit lists Jill Hunsaker Ryan, Executive Director of the Colorado Department of Health and Environment (CDHE), and the CDHE as defendants. Also listed are Steven T. Mnuchin, U.S. Secretary of the Treasury; Chad D. Wolf, Acting Head of U.S. Homeland Security; and Alex M. Azar II, Secretary of the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services.

The Constitution and the Colorado Mask Mandate

Current Colorado guidance for wearing a mask says that people must wear one when indoors in a public place, with certain exceptions. For example, under the Colorado mask mandate patrons must wear a mask when entering, exiting, or walking around a restaurant, but may remove the mask when they are seated. Laypeople in houses of worship are required to wear a mask at all times. Clergy are exempt from wearing a mask when in spaces not accessible to the public or when a clergy member is officiating a service.

In his ruling, Domenico said that the court makes it a practice to defer to the state, recognizing “the complex interaction between constantly evolving scientific understanding and policymaking.” This posture does not mean, however, that the court has no role to play, nor that the Constitution is irrelevant. While all people must comply with restrictions when they are applied in a neutral way, the judge said, 

The First Amendment does not allow government officials, whether in the executive or judicial branch, to treat religious worship as any less critical or essential than other human endeavors. Nor does it allow the government to determine what is a necessary part of a house of worship’s religious exercise. Those fundamental principles, which involve no balancing or second-guessing of public health officials’ scientific analysis or policy judgments, require the court to grant Plaintiffs’ motion, in relatively narrow part.

The state, said Domenico, is being inconsistent in how it is enforcing the Colorado mask mandate and other restrictions on houses of worship compared to businesses that have similar situations. The judge noted that he did not find the plaintiffs’ other complaints to be compelling. “Although Plaintiffs have not demonstrated a likelihood of success on the merits of most of their asserted claims,” said Domenico, “they have demonstrated a likelihood of success on their First Amendment free exercise claim against the State Defendants.”

According to CBSN Denver, the state of Colorado is planning to appeal the judge’s injunction. A spokesperson for the governor’s office referred to the case as “pending litigation” and said that, in the meantime, the Colorado Attorney General has filed an emergency injunction to ensure the orders stay in place. 

The Thomas More Society, which is also representing Pastor John MacArthur in his legal battle against the state of California, represented the pastors in the Colorado case. Special Counsel Rebecca Messall said, “The lawsuit calls both the federal government and Colorado leaders into account for their violations of the right to free exercise of religion, among other abuses of power, primarily resulting from Governor Jared Polis’ COVID-19 related Executive Orders.” 

Colorado Politics reports that religious leaders in the state have mixed opinions on the ruling. Rev. Brady Boyd, pastor of New Life Church in Colorado Springs, said, “I think it’s the right ruling. The vast majority of churches are going through extraordinary measures to keep people safe, and the government restrictions are not necessary.” 

The Right Rev. Rev. Kimberly D. Lucas of the Episcopal Church in Colorado said, “I consider the governor’s orders, which are based on scientific evidence regarding the spread of the COVID-19, the bare minimum we can do.”

Denver Bible Church and Community Baptist Church are not the only Christian organizations in Colorado engaged in litigation with the state. Andrew Wommack Ministries in Woodland Park is another Colorado ministry fighting a legal battle over the right to gather in opposition to Colorado’s COVID-19 restrictions. 

Luci Swindoll Dead at 88 After Contracting COVID-19

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Luci Swindoll died on October 20, 2020 at the age of 88. Her death was a result of complications after contracting COVID-19. She is the older sister of popular evangelical preacher and author Charles (Chuck) Swindoll.

The popular Christian book Wide My World, Narrow My Bed on singleness was written by Luci in 1982. It was the first of more than half dozen books she would write over her life. The book was written after she asked God, “I’d like to do something significant with my life, and would you open that door for me….and tell me ‘This is it.’ ” Later that night at a party hosted by her brother Chuck, she was introduced to the president of Multnomah Publishing who asked her to write a book on being single.

Swindoll was single her entire life. In her memoir I Married Adventure she writes that her father said, “You can go anywhere you want to go, achieve anything you like, you just have to line up your desires with the Lord’s and go. You have to take a few risks and head out.” Luci said, “There is no doubt I’ve missed many joys and advantages from not having a spouse and family. Nevertheless, I would still choose the life I’ve known. If the Lord took me today, I wouldn’t look back regretting I never married.”

She expressed what she would regret, “I might might look back regretting I didn’t climb Mount Everest or spend a week in a submarine or become a translator for the Federal Bureau of Investigation.”

You are never alone…God is with you. – Luci’s Father

She almost got married due to peer pressure from her friends and mother. After dating a Christian boy and going steady she accepted an engagement ring the summer before she started college. In her memoir she recalls how her heart was torn accepting the ring because she didn’t love this young man as one should in marriage, but she wanted to please her mother. It only took Luci three months on her college campus to realize her dreams were not her mother’s and she called off the engagement.

Luci took a role in over 30 operas at the Dallas Civic Opera and worked 30 years for Mobil Oil in Dallas, Texas. She joined the launch of the women’s counterpart to Promise Keepers that was called Women of Faith in 1996. Mary Graham, Patsy Clairmont, Thelma Well, Shelia Walsh, and Marilyn Meberg all sat on stage, like a front porch setting, and spoke honestly to the crowds of women about life’s struggles and what God had done in their lives.

In an interview with LIFE Today, Swindoll said that legalism is the worst thing that has ever happened to the church. She said, “I spent a number of years being in a legalistic denomination that caused me to have to behave, and look the right way, and dress the right way, and never miss Sunday school or I would be condemned in one way or another.” She came to the realization that God deals “with Grace…He loves me simply because He loves me…He loves each of us, because He cannot help Himself, it’s who He is. (That) set me free to be who I really am.”

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Her brother Chuck shared on Twitter a couple days after her death saying, “1) To all who have reached out regarding my sister, Luci, and her passing on October 20, thank you. Your kindness means so much to our family. We will have a special “Celebration of Life” in her honor in 2021, after the pandemic has ended—date to be announced. 2) My sister and I were very close, I loved her deeply, and I grieve her death. But I am comforted, knowing she is now relieved of all earthly trials. Relief softens the harsh blows of grief. Thank you for your caring words of compassion and your ongoing prayers of support.”

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Poland’s Top Court Rules Out Abortions Due to Fetal Defects

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Police guard Poland's constitutional court as pro-choice and anti-abortion activists protest, in Warsaw, Poland, Thursday, Oct. 22, 2020. Poland’s top court has ruled that a law allowing abortion of fetuses with congenital defects is unconstitutional. The decision by the country’s Constitutional Court effectively bans terminating pregnancies in cases where birth defects are found and will further limit access to abortions in Poland. (AP Photo/Czarek Sokolowski)

WARSAW, Poland (AP) — Poland’s top court ruled Thursday that a law allowing abortion of fetuses with congenital defects is unconstitutional, shutting a major loophole in the predominantly Catholic country’s abortion laws that are among the strictest in Europe.

Two judges in the 13-member Constitutional Court did not back the majority ruling. Activists deplored the decision, and the Council of Europe’s human rights commissioner wrote on Twitter that it was a “sad day for women’s rights.”

Hours later, hundreds of mostly young protesters defied a pandemic-related ban on gatherings and staged a protest before the court with signs saying “You Have Blood on Your Gowns” and “Shame.”

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Pro-choice activists from “Women Strike” attend a protest in front of Poland’s constitutional court, in Warsaw, Poland, Thursday, Oct. 22, 2020. Poland’s top court has ruled that a law allowing abortion of fetuses with congenital defects is unconstitutional. The decision by the country’s Constitutional Court effectively bans terminating pregnancies in cases where birth defects are found and will further limit access to abortions in Poland. (AP Photo/Czarek Sokolowski)

The demonstrators then walked to the offices of the main ruling conservative party, Law and Justice, and to the house of the party leader and deputy prime minister, Jaroslaw Kaczynski, who is the driving force behind the government’s policies. Police cordoned the house off from the noisy protesters who were calling for the government to step down. Officers briefly tussled with some people, took their banners and sprayed pepper gas to disperse the crowd.

The ruling party will soon propose new legislation to better support women and their children that will be born as a result of the court’s ruling, the party’s spokeswoman said.

The court’s decision came in response to a motion from right-wing lawmakers who argued that terminating a pregnancy due to fetal defects — the most common reason cited for legal abortions in Poland — violates a constitutional provision that calls for protecting the life of every individual.

The court argued that terminating pregnancy due to defects of the fetus amounted to eugenics — a 19th century notion of genetic selection that was later applied by the Nazis in their pseudo-scientific experiments.

It agreed with the plaintiffs that it was a form of banned discrimination when the decision about an unborn child’s life was conditioned on its health.

The challenged law was introduced by Poland’s young post-communist democracy in 1993 as a hard-won compromise between the influential Catholic Church and the state authorities. It allows abortions when a pregnancy endangers a woman’s health or life, or results from rape or other illegal act, and also in case of congenital defects. Only the last provision was challenged.

Even before Thursday’s ruling, many Polish women have sought abortions abroad.

Health Ministry figures show that 1,110 legal abortions were held in Poland in 2019, mostly because of fetal defects.

In justifying its decision, the court said “there can be no protection of the dignity of an individual without the protection of life.”

The verdict was announced by the court’s president, Julia Przylebska, a loyalist of the right-wing government that is focused on family and Catholic values. Przylebska’s appointment to the court in 2015 was one of the government’s first steps toward taking control of the judiciary. These steps have drawn condemnation from the European Union which says they violate the democratic principle of the rule of law.

Archbishop Marek Jedraszewski, known for his strong conservative views, hailed the verdict and expressed “great appreciation for the courage” of the judges in the defense of human life “from the moment of conception to the (moment of) natural death.”

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Anti-abortion activists attend a protest in front of Poland’s constitutional court, in Warsaw, Poland, Thursday, Oct. 22, 2020. Poland’s top court has ruled that a law allowing abortion of fetuses with congenital defects is unconstitutional. The decision by the country’s Constitutional Court effectively bans terminating pregnancies in cases where birth defects are found and will further limit access to abortions in Poland. Sign reads in Polish “yes to life”. (AP Photo/Czarek Sokolowski)

But opposition lawmakers lashed out.

The head of the Civic Coalition, Borys Budka, said on Twitter that the government used a “false” court of its own appointees to do something “simply inhuman.”

Council of Europe Commissioner for Human Rights Dunja Mijatović deplored the decision.

“Removing the basis for almost all legal abortions in #Poland amounts to a ban & violates #HumanRights,” she tweeted. “Today’s ruling of the Constitutional Court means underground/abroad abortions for those who can afford & even greater ordeal for all others. A sad day for #WomensRights.”

Former European President and Poland’s former prime minister, Donald Tusk, criticized the timing of such key ruling during the difficult time of the pandemic.

Police guarded the court’s building as groups of pro-abortion rights and anti-abortion activists gathered outside as the verdict was announced. The groups were small, because anti-COVID-19 regulations ban gatherings of more than 10 people.

One of the judges who did not back the ruling, Leon Kieres, argued he was mindful of the situation and condition of women when deprived of the right to decide about a pregnancy with defects.

Polish lawmakers considered legislation earlier this year that would have imposed a near-total ban on abortion by outlawing the procedure in cases of fetal abnormalities, even when a fetus has no chance of survival. They ended up postponing a final vote on the proposal brought by a Catholic group. Similar efforts also were mothballed in the past following mass nationwide protests.


Monika Scislowska contributed to this report.

This article originally appeared on APNews.com.

GOP-Led Senate Panel Advances Barrett as Democrats Boycott

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Sen. Mike Lee, R-Utah, left, speaks with Chairman Lindsey Graham, R-S.C., during a Senate Judiciary Committee Executive Business meeting, including the nomination of Amy Coney Barrett to serve as an associate justice on the Supreme Court of the United States, Thursday, Oct. 22, 2020, on Capitol Hill in Washington. (Caroline Brehman/Pool via AP)

WASHINGTON (AP) — Senate Judiciary Committee Republicans powered past a Democratic boycott Thursday to advance Amy Coney Barrett’s Supreme Court nomination to the full Senate, keeping President Donald Trump’s pick on track for confirmation before the Nov. 3 election.

Democratic senators refused to show up in protest of the GOP’s rush to install Trump’s nominee to replace the late Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg. Never has the Senate confirmed a Supreme Court nominee so close to a presidential election.

All 12 Republicans on the committee voted in favor of Barrett, a conservative judge. No-show Democrats left behind posters at their desks of Americans they say have benefited from the Affordable Care Act, now being challenged at the high court. Senators plan to convene a rare weekend session before a final confirmation vote expected Monday.

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Images of people who’ve been helped by the Affordable Care Act (ACA) occupy the seats of Democratic senators boycotting a Senate Judiciary Committee business meeting on the nomination of Judge Amy Coney Barrett to be an associate justice of the U.S. Supreme Court, Thursday, Oct. 22, 2020 on Capitol Hill in Washington. (Hannah McKay/Pool via AP)

“Big day for America,” Trump tweeted after the committee vote.

Barrett, 48, would lock a 6-3 conservative court majority for the foreseeable future. That could open a new era of rulings on abortion access, gay marriage and even the results of this year’s presidential election.

Republicans have bristled at Democrats’ claim that the Obama-era health law, known as “Obamacare,” is in jeopardy if Barrett joins the court. But Trump told CBS’ “60 Minutes” that “it will be so good” if the court puts an end to the law. The court is set to hear a Trump-backed case against the health overhaul on Nov. 10.

“I think it’ll end. I hope that they’ll end it,” Trump said in comments released Thursday by the White House before the interview airs Sunday.

As the Senate committee met, protesters, some shouting “Stop the confirmation!” demonstrated outside the Capitol across the street from the Supreme Court. Some dressed as handmaids, a reference to Barrett’s role in a conservative religious group that once called high-ranking women members “handmaids.” Other demonstrators had “#SupportAmy” signs.

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Activists opposed to the confirmation of President Donald Trump’s Supreme Court nominee, Judge Amy Coney Barrett, dressed as characters from “The Handmaid’s Tale,” protest at the Supreme Court on a foggy day, Thursday, Oct. 22, 2020 in Washington. (AP Photo/Jose Luis Magana)

The protesters drowned out Democratic senators who had called a news conference to decry what they called a “sham” confirmation process.

Senate Democratic leader Chuck Schumer of New York said the Senate’s Republican majority “is conducting the most rushed, most partisan and the least legitimate nomination to the Supreme Court in our nation’s history.”

“Democrats will not lend a single ounce of legitimacy to this sham vote,” he said. Unable to stop the confirmation, Democrats have been trying unsuccessfully to stall the process so the winner of the White House race could name the new nominee.

Don’t Quarrel Over Opinions But Welcome One Another

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Don’t Quarrel Over Opinions But Welcome One Another

These are critical days for our churches. The Devil is always prowling around like a hungry lion, looking for opportunities to sow division between the people of God. He has been doing this since the beginning and is very very good at it. We shouldn’t underestimate our Enemy. The covid pandemic has provided him with a perfect storm of circumstances that he is surely trying to exploit to his full advantage.

In light of that, I’d like to encourage us to make Paul’s prayer in Romans 15.5-6 our daily prayer for our churches in these days: May the God of endurance and encouragement grant you to live in such harmony with one another, in accord with Christ Jesus, that together you may with one voice glorify the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ.

It’s so important to realize that unity in the church is something we’re commanded to strive for, maintain, and practice. It’s up to us, by the grace of God, to preserve it. When issues arise in our churches that threaten unity, that’s our opportunity to put these commands into practice. It’s a bit like patience: the only time you can really show patience is when something (or someone) is testing your patience, making you want to tear your hair out! Whether you are submissive to those in authority is only really tested when you are told to do something you don’t agree with. A child given $100 by his father and told to spend it in his favorite store is not going to say, “OK dad, I submit!”

So too our commitment to unity is only really put to the test when something comes up that we have different and strong opinions about. One way to maintain unity would be to eject the minority who think differently. That would leave a very united congregation! But it would be the artificial unity of the cults, where everyone has to think the same on every issue. Gospel unity looks very different – that’s where we bear patiently with one another, love one another and strive to think the very best of one another.

Paul’s prayer for unity comes at the end of a long discussion dealing with exactly this kind of situation. He’s been dealing with serious tensions between two groups in the church. They were all Christians, but one group was mostly Gentiles who didn’t have any of the scruples the Jewish Christians in the church had about food laws or respecting Jewish holy days. Why should they? They never kept them in the past, and now Christ’s death meant they weren’t needed any longer. But Jewish Christians found it hard to reconcile themselves to eating food they’d been taught all their life was unclean. They knew they didn’t need to keep the Jewish feasts, but they always had and they loved them.

These differences in background and perspective were threatening to split the church in Rome. So Paul writes in Rom 15.7Welcome one another as Christ has welcomed you, for the glory of God. The Gentile Christians are to welcome the Jewish Christians and the Jewish Christians are to welcome the Gentile Christians. They were to do much more than just tolerate one another—they were to welcome each other gladly into their fellowship and hearts. They were not to allow secondary issues to divide them. As Paul puts it in Rom 14.1, they are not to ‘ quarrel over opinions ’.

But that’s just what they were doing in Rome. The Gentile Christians were looking down on the Jewish Christians with ‘a disdainful smile of contempt’ (as John Stott puts it), while the Jewish Christians were condemning the Gentile Christians as sinners ‘with a frown of censorious judgment.’ The Gentiles saw the Jews not eating certain foods, shook their heads, and said, ‘Stupid’; the Jews saw the Gentiles eating those foods, put their head in their hands, and said, ‘Sin’. And both were in the wrong.

How many ‘opinions’ do Christians today quarrel over instead of welcoming one another? Face masks, online services, political opinions about how our governments are handling the pandemic. Of course we all think our views on these things are based on biblical principles. We may feel passionately about our opinion. But we need to remember that it is an opinion at the end of the day—and the Lord of the church commands his people not to quarrel over opinions. Don’t judge one another and don’t show contempt for one another. On any issue we’ll be tempted to do one or the other of those two things. Do you know which way you are tempted?

As Paul prays for unity in the church at Rome, just notice a couple of things he says:

1. He prays to the God of endurance and encouragement. Why does he single out these things as he prays for unity?

· Endurance—patience—is going to be needed in large supply if there is to be unity in a church. There is a huge temptation to be impatient with those who don’t see things as we do. We say and do insensitive things. The scruples of one group and the apparent laxity of the other troubled and annoyed each other. Praise God that he is the God who sends endurance. He is so patient with us when we really are stupid and sinful, and he enables us to be patient with each other when we merely think others are being stupid and sinful. We need patient endurance or our churches will become very bitter, nasty places.

· Encouragement. This word has a wide range of meanings: comfort, give support, exhort, spur on. Unity doesn’t come easily or naturally to fallen human beings. In our pride and selfishness we want to do things our way. We need all the help, support, and encouragement God can give us to consider one another more important than ourselves.

2. ‘Live in such harmony with one another, in accord with Christ Jesus.’ If anyone ever had the right to please himself it was Jesus Christ. But he willingly bore with the weaknesses of others. He freely surrendered his rights and bore the hatred of men. So Paul asks, ‘Are you really going to refuse to forgo a pork chop for the sake of others?’ ‘Are you going to insist on having your way, even though it will damage your brother for whom Christ died?’ Whenever you’re tempted to privilege your own preferences and rights above the scruples of others, meditate on Jesus’ lifetime of self-denial for the sake of others and pray this prayer.

This article originally appeared here.

The Church Leader’s Brain in the Covid Crisis: 5 Tips to Keep Your Brain Humming

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Church leaders today are scrambling to find creative, innovative, and workable strategies, plans, and ideas to minister in our Covid crisis. I appreciate the plethora of blogs, podcasts, video-casts, and seminars offered to help us respond well. However, there is a fundamental process that precedes 100% of all ideas.

And what is that process? Thinking.

Thinking precedes leadership, outreach, preaching, and pretty much everything. And clear thinking precedes good leadership…and all the rest.

In fact, the word mind (which is where thinking happens) appears over 160 times in Scripture. It was one of the Apostle Paul’s favorite words and he admonishes us to ‘think’ in certain ways (Phil. 4.8).

So in this age that requires great ideas and great leadership, how can we foster good thinking?

Here are five suggestions to help keep your mind clear, focused, and working at its best, given the circumstances.

1. Recognize that brain fog is normal. Realize that as things change hour to hour, we will sometimes feel that we are in a brain fog, finding it difficult to focus and concentrate. This is normal because the covid crisis uncertainties incite our fight-flight centers (the limbic system) that in turn dampen the ability for our brain’s CEO (the pre-frontal cortex) to think most effectively. This is normal. You are not losing your mind. When this happens, don’t get frustrated at yourself because when you do, you engage your fight-flight center all the more and clear thinking gets further diminished.

2. Build in regular breaks. Take a few minutes break every hour or so. When we use our brain, it uses energy. But over time, that energy gets depleted and we can’t focus as well and our willpower gets depleted. It’s called ego depletion. That is, mental energy and willpower is a limited resource. Taking breaks can refresh your brain.  I use an app called Time Out (I have no ties to this company) on my computer. I set it so that every hour it slowly dims my screen for three minutes. During those three minutes I do a short mindfulness exercise by closing my eyes and taking slow deep breaths. This is proven to refresh your brain.

3. Label your feelings. This covid crisis is stirring up many unpleasant feelings like worry, anxiety, anger, and fear in church leaders (Is our church going to survive?). The Christian world often implies that good leaders should not have these feelings. As a result, we stuff or ignore then. However, neuroscience has discovered that when we suppress negative emotions, ironically, it makes those emotions even stronger (called the ironic process theory). So, label your difficult emotions during this time. Be honest with God how you are feeling. In doing so, you will take the power out of them.

4. Mind your mind. Everywhere we turn we are reminded about the horrors of Covid-19. However, without intentional conscious awareness, these terrible thoughts can become a regular part of our subconscious (and conscious) thinking. It’s called rumination, a mental process when we repeat and mull of over negative thoughts in our mind (think of a scene on a dvd repeating over and over and over). To mind your mind means to periodically conduct a thought check. Ask yourself, “What am I thinking about at this very moment?” In other words, think about your thinking (it’s called metacognition). If you find you are caught up in negative thinking, change your mental channel. Referring again to what the Apostle Paul wrote about in Philippeans 4.8, he says we must think about certain things that honor God. Unless we think about our thinking, we won’t know if we need to change the mental channel.

5. Create certainty. The brain loves certainty. It predicts what it thinks will happen next. If circumstances indicate a fair certainty of what happens next, it likes it and remains relatively calm. But with uncertainty, the fight-flight centers kick in and compromise clear thinking. How can you create certainty in a very uncertain church world? I suggest two ways. First, each morning write out your priorities, set some goals, and schedule when you plan to work on them. Creating and following a schedule will help your brain calm down because you are creating certainty. Second, read and meditate on the great stories of biblical heroes who had great faith. They lived in uncertain times, not knowing the future. But they trusted in the One who was consistently and perfectly certain, God. As a result, they experienced the benefits of certainty.

A few google searches will reveal many great ideas on how to do church in the Covid crisis. But remember, good thinking always precedes great ideas and great leadership, which we need in these uncertain times. Practice these five brain tips to maximize your thinking as you lead, preach, and serve in these challenging times.

This article originally appeared here.

You Can Be ‘part of the big team’ That Will Get Rid of the Virus, Fauci Tells Kids at Chapel Service

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During a virtual children’s chapel service in August, a Maryland congregation welcomed a special guest who answered young listeners’ questions about the COVID-19 pandemic. Dr. Anthony Fauci, America’s leading infectious disease specialist, appeared via video on August 13 to speak with Pastor Connie Miller at St. Luke Lutheran Church in Silver Spring.

The church, which also has a Christian Day School, is located just seven miles from the National Institutes of Health in Bethesda, Maryland, where Fauci serves as director of the National Institute of Allergy and Infectious Diseases. According to an article on LivingLutheran.org, the chapel theme that week was heroes, and Fauci’s kid-friendly video, which aired on Facebook Live, now has more than 16,000 views. 

Fauci Shares Honest Information and Love

Pastor Miller launched online chapel services because children “were feeling the same type of loneliness and isolation as the adults” in the congregation. Virtual chapel, she says, “was an attempt to let the children know how much Jesus loved them and that they were never alone.”

As she pondered the concept of heroes, Miller realized Dr. Fauci was a “major essential worker” based nearby. “I was thinking he had not had an opportunity to talk with young children about COVID,” she says, “so we contacted him”—and he accepted.

Miller asked Fauci to explain the coronavirus, why people are wearing masks and staying socially distanced, whether pets can get COVID-19, and how he became a doctor and scientist. She described her guest as “very warm and gracious” and appreciated his age-appropriate responses. “It’s so important to share honest information with children and make sure they know how loved they are and respected as well,” says the pastor. 

Dr. Anthony Fauci Calls Kids ‘part of the big team’ 

Fauci, 79, told young listeners they play a key role during this pandemic. “Children are going to be an important part of how we protect each other,” he said. “So when you hear [about]…the importance of washing your hands or even wearing a mask sometimes, the reason is, we want to protect you and we want you to be part of the protecting of everybody else. So it’s kind of taking care of each other.”

Masks can be awkward and even uncomfortable, Fauci admits, but they keep viruses from coming out of people’s mouths when they talk and sing. “Remember,” said the doctor, “you’re doing it for a good reason: Because you want to be part of the big team that’s going to get rid of this coronavirus so we don’t have to worry about this anymore.”

The quickest way to reach that goal, Fauci said, is to listen and stay safe. “Don’t think, children, that this is going to be the way it is forever,” he added. “Don’t get discouraged. This is only temporary.”

Pastor Miller closed by telling Fauci he’s “a gift” and by praying for him—and for everyone who has the virus. The doctor, she told a reporter, is “a person of great integrity and excellence who cares for all of us.”

Fauci, who has served under six presidents, says he attempts to remain politically neutral. But as battle lines have been drawn around COVID-19, his work and messaging have come under attack. On 60 Minutes last Sunday, Fauci described needing security because of death threats.

President Trump recently called Fauci “a disaster.” Yet poll respondents consistently rank the doctor as more trustworthy than the president as a reliable source of pandemic-related information.

Colts’ DeForest Buckner Gets Baptized

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The Indianapolis Colts Pro Bowl defensive tackle DeForest Buckner surrendered his life to Christ, and got baptized this week.

Buckner has played 5 seasons with in the NFL, with 2020 being his first season with the Colts. The Colts traded their first round-pick in the draft to the San Francisco 49ers to acquire the Buckner and made him one of the highest paid defensive lineman in the NFL.

With is wife and baby boy were by his side when he posted on Instagram, “Today I surrendered my whole self to Jesus and chose to trust Him with my life whole heartedly. My walk with Christ is only beginning and I am grateful for the support surrounding my journey of Faith.”

The defensive lineman posted Titus 3:5 in the same post, “He saved us, not because of righteous things we had done, but because of His mercy. He saved us through the washing of rebirth and renewal by the Holy Spirit.”

Buckner accredits his wife’s faith to being influential in his walk with Christ.

Mixed Philippine Reaction on Pope Nod on Same-Sex Civil Unions

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MANILA, Philippines (AP) — Pope Francis’ endorsement of same-sex civil unions drew mixed reactions Thursday in the Philippines, Asia’s bastion of Catholicism, with a retired bishop saying he was scandalized by it while an LGBT group welcomed the pontiff’s remarks with relief.

President Rodrigo Duterte’s spokesman said the Philippine leader has long expressed support to same-sex civil unions but added it needed to pass through Congress.

Retired Sorsogon Bishop Arturo Bastes said he “had very serious doubts about the moral correctness” of the pontiff’s position. He said it ran against long-standing church teachings, which explicitly permit only the union of man and woman whether in civil, legal or church sacramental unions.

“This is a shocking statement coming from the pope,” Bastes told reporters in a cellphone message. “I am really scandalized by his defense of homosexual union, which surely leads to immoral acts.”

At least three other bishops expressed disbelief, saying they would verify if it’s the Vatican’s official position and if the pontiff was accurately quoted in context in a documentary, where he made the remarks.

“It is just a documentary film so it is not official and should first be verified,” Balanga Bishop Ruperto Santos said, adding there could have been editing alterations or the documentary was “just for propaganda so that it could be talked about or patronized.”

The Catholic Bishops Conference of the Philippines, the largest group of bishops in the predominantly Roman Catholic nation, has yet to issue any reaction.

LGBTQ group Bahaghari told ABS CBN News that the pontiff’s position was a “huge thing” and should lead to changes in the Philippine family code to recognize such unions.

Presidential spokesman Harry Roque said Duterte has long supported same-sex civil unions and the papal endorsement may finally convince legislators to give their approval. In the past, such proposals have been opposed or avoided by conservative legislators or those who feared earning the ire of influential church leaders.

“With no less than the pope supporting it, I think even the most conservative of all Catholics in Congress should no longer have a basis for objecting,” Roque said.


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Sean Feucht’s Worship Protest Gets Green Light in DC, Despite Fears of ‘Superspreader’ Event

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WASHINGTON (RNS) — Christian recording artist Sean Feucht is slated to bring his worship protest tour to the nation’s capital this Sunday (Oct. 25) despite concerns around mass gatherings during a pandemic.

Feucht’s tour has received widespread criticism from public health officials and other faith leaders who challenge the wisdom of hosting events where neither he nor many attendees wear masks or abide by social distancing restrictions.

As reported by The Daily Beast, the National Park Service has already approved a permit for the event, which organizers expect up to 15,000 people to attend. The concert is part of Feucht’s “Let Us Worship” tour, which has consisted of sporadic and sometimes impromptu performances — featuring attendees belting out praise songs — at various locations across the country.

The Park Service provided Religion News Service with Feucht’s permit Wednesday afternoon, which grants him use of part of the National Mall from 6:30 am on Saturday, October 24, 2020 to 1:00 am on Monday, October 26. It briefly details a “COVID-19 mitigation plan” provided by Feucht’s team that includes erecting a sign at the table where Bibles are given away, temperature-testing the crew (who will be provided with masks and gloves) and placing sanitation stations near restrooms.

The Park Service noted that a COVID-19 plan “is not a requirement or condition of the permit,” and acknowledged that social distancing restrictions will not be enforced.

“While the National Park Service strongly encourages social distancing, the use of masks and other measures to prevent the spread of infectious diseases, we will not require nor enforce their use,” read a statement from a spokesperson.

The Park Service did not answer more specific questions regarding criticism of the event.

Washington’s COVID-19 restrictions explicitly prohibit gatherings of more than 50 people. However, while the National Mall is located at the heart of the city, it is administrated by the federal government.

“It violates D.C.’s COVID-19 plan and it’s almost certainly going to lead to a superspreader event— and cause many new cases, hospitalization, and even death. It violates virtually every principle to mitigate this pandemic. It’s disgraceful,” Lawrence Gostin, a professor of global health law at Georgetown University, told The Daily Beast.

The California musician’s tour is framed as a protest against state and local ordinances restricting various religious activities in order to stop the spread of the novel coronavirus that has killed at least 220,000 people in the United States so far.

However, not all of Feucht’s concerts have occurred in places with such restrictions. His band recently performed in Nashville, Tennessee, without applying for a permit, even though churches in the city are allowed to worship in person.

Feucht has framed his concerts as a dispute between “politicians” and Christians like himself, but pastors are among his fiercest critics.

“All I see is a concert with no social distancing,” the Rev. Thomas McKenzie, pastor of Church of the Redeemer in Nashville, told Religion News Service. “It seems to be this is more about Sean and less about Jesus.”

The Metro Nashville Health Department later released a statement saying it was “very concerned” about the event in the city, adding that it planned to “pursue appropriate penalties against the organizer.”

Some of Feucht’s performances, such as one planned in Seattle, have been canceled by authorities. But he has held concerts in the street anyway, packing hundreds into small spaces in defiance of local regulations and recommendations put forth by the federal Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.


This article originally appeared on ReligionNews.com.

Jesus-Centered, Evangelism-Driven, Prayer-Saturated Youth Ministry

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I’m convinced that discipleship is a by-product of a youth group being focused on Jesus, driven by evangelism and engaged in intercessory prayer. When these three strands of spiritual DNA are powerfully present in your group your teens will be growing deeper in their relationship with Jesus at an accelerated pace. Here are three reasons why I believe this so deeply:

1. Youth ministries that are Jesus-centered prioritize worship and the Word.

True worship recognizes Jesus as the epicenter of, not only the universe, but the life of the worshipper. It recalibrates straying hearts back to his Kingship in their souls. Worship, like a giant magnet, draws our teens into his Throne room and compels them to bow their knees low and raise their hands high.

But focusing on Jesus also causes us to help our teens pour over God’s Word in a quest to intimately know Him (Philippians 3:10.) The Bible becomes their map to discover and develop a deeper relationship with Christ.

That’s why we need to refuse to allow this culture define our teenagers’ view of Jesus as a mystic, do-gooder and/or all around nice guy. No, we must constantly take them back to the Word of God where they can discover the Son of God for who He really was (and is!)

Every passage of Scripture has a pathway to Jesus somewhere in it. Some of these paths are clearly marked and free of obstacles. Others are cluttered and covered over with fallen treens and rocks. But, if you search hard enough (Proverbs 2:1-8) you can find these paths, take them and be sure that they will always lead you to Jesus.

When Charles Spurgeon was asked, “What’s your style of preaching?” his answer was clear and succinct. “I take my passage and make a beeline for the cross.” We need to do the same with our teenagers in our times of worship and our times in the Word.

For help in building a Jesus-centered youth ministry check out Rick Lawrence’s excellent book Jesus Centered Youth Ministry.

2. Youth ministries that are driven by evangelism reflect the heart of Christ.

Jesus told his disciples in Matthew 4:19, “Come follow me and I will make you fishers of people.” Jesus first call to his disciples was a call to evangelize. His last words to his disciples were, “And you will by my witnesses in Jerusalem, in Judea, in Samaria and to the uttermost parts of the world.

The call to discipleship is not a call to more meetings, more programs, more camps, more games or more curriculum. No, the call of discipleship is a call to more evangelism! Yes, camps, meetings and games will happen along the way but the way of Christ is the way of seeking to save those who are lost (Luke 19:10.)

The 3 1/2 year earthly ministry of Christ was a 3 1/2 year long mission trip separated by meetings and miracles along the way. The twelve disciples of Jesus watched him interact with countless strangers and turn conversations about water to the “Living Water” and chats about bread into the “Bread of Life.”

The disciples witnessed the final result of all of these conversations when they saw their mutilated leader hanging on a cross of wood outside Jerusalem. It was at this point they fully realized that the call to discipleship was a call to risk (aka “Pick up your cross and follow me.”)

Evangelism poses the greatest risk that our teens can experience. As a result of sharing their faith they can be mocked (Matthew 5:11,12), they can lose friends (Matthew 10:34-36) and they can be ostracized (John 12:42,43.) The act of evangelism, when done in the power of the Spirit, is at the core of what it means to pick up one’s cross and follow Jesus to the potential of being verbally “crucified” by one’s friends, family, classmates or teammates.

But challenging our teens to take the risk of evangelism can lead to the reward of our teens growing deeper in their faith faster than we could have ever imagined. Evangelism, especially among one’s friends, makes you desperately dependent on God’s Spirit. And it is this dependency which produces spiritual growth (John 15:1-8.)

If you don’t know how to get your teens to evangelize then use some of the free resources we have at Dare 2 Share, get them to one of our evangelism training conferences or check out this book I wrote for teenagers on how to share their faith. Teens need more than motivation when it comes to sharing their faith. They need training. Dare 2 Share can help you with that.

3. Youth Ministries that are saturated with prayer are filled with the Holy Spirit and power.

In Acts 4:31 Luke writes, “After they prayed the place where they had been meeting was shaken. They were all filled with the Holy Spirit and went out and spoke the Word of God boldly.” Prayer came first. As a result of their prayers they were filled (aka “empowered by”) the Holy Spirit. As we’ve seen time and time again in the New Testament, when the Holy Spirit fills you he comes with a match to set your tongue on fire with the good news of Jesus Christ (Acts 2:1-12.)

Get your teens praying. As they do they will learn what it means to be filled with the Holy Spirit. Teach them to intercede on behalf of each other and their friends who don’t know Jesus. Teach them to pray as Jesus taught his disciples to pray (Luke 11:1-13.) As a result your teens will get a deeper passion for Jesus and compassion for the lost.

When you build a Jesus-centered, evangelism-driven, prayer-saturated youth ministry it will be messy, but it will be a great kind of messy. Lives will be transformed and Satan will counterattack (sometimes in the form of an angry church leader or disgruntled parent.) But building this kind of youth ministry is worth every scowling criticism and fiery dart. Because building this kind of youth ministry can change the world.

How do I know? Because it happened once 2,000 years ago when Jesus built a youth ministry with twelve young disciples who eventually turned the world upside down with his radical message of grace!

May it happen again through your youth ministry!

Jerry Jenkins, Co-author of the Left Behind Series, on How Learning to Tell Good Stories Improves Sermons

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Jerry Jenkins has been a professional writer for over 50 years. He’s written more than 185 books across several genres and his writing has also appeared in magazines like TIME, Reader’s Digest, Parade, and many others.

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A lot of people don’t realize that Left behind was your 125th book. How did your early writing career prepare you to write Left Behind?

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Do you have a writing routine? Rhythms you do the same way every time?

How do busy leaders make time for writing?

Who are some of your favorite authors to read?

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Pastoring Through a Contested Election: A Kenyan Perspective

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Since I’m about to talk about a topic as precious to us as politics, allow me to make a clarification as I begin. Contrary to popular opinion—perhaps even including that of the editors of this article—this is not the African perspective, nor is it the Kenyan perspective. In fact, what I’m about to say might not even be the perspective of the members of our congregation. I’m simply sharing one pastor’s best efforts to lead his congregation through a season of political turmoil and a contested election. So draw any counsel you might from the words below with caution. This is simply what Ken from Kenya thinks; Africa has not approved this message.

I’m yet to witness a Kenyan election that was not contested, save the General Elections of 2002 where we all got what we wanted: the ousting of the incumbent who had ruled for 24 years and the installment of a coalition government which we all believed would usher in the kingdom. Five years later, the elections were bitterly contested, and the country stratified yet again along tribal lines. Promises were broken, alliances were redrawn, and lives were lost. Beaming optimism devolved into bitter cynicism. The evil of our tribalism that we had managed to domesticate so well and for so long violently erupted into our society in all of its grotesque ugliness.

THIS IS US

Sadly, this affected our church.

Unkind, evil words were spoken with conviction by professing believers on both sides of the divide. Words were scrutinized, motives were judged, opinions were dichotomized, and the options were tyrannically simplified. Members displayed little empathy for one another.

So what did we do? We confessed our sins in our corporate prayer. We confessed not as tribalistic units but as united sinners who have been brought together through the blood of Jesus.

We also sought to interpret the state of our country primarily through our doctrine of sin. Our division as a nation was the surest evidence of our “division” from God. Our countrymen hated each other because they were haters of God. The nastiness in our national politics embarrassingly exposed our nastiness as humanity, reminding us that we’re all self-destroying rebels who cannot fix ourselves. We need a Savior.

Even in the church, we need to remember this. We’ve not yet been totally purified of sin. We’re still tempted toward everything that defined us before we came to Christ: “evil, covetousness, malice. . .  envy, murder, strife, deceit, maliciousness. . . gossips, slanderers, haters of God, insolent, haughty, boastful, inventors of evil, disobedient to parents, foolish, faithless, heartless, ruthless” (Rom. 1:29–31). For these sins and many more we sought forgiveness from God.

If your aim is to be a faithful witness of God’s truth in a season of political turmoil, then I suggest you start with a robust confession of sin. This strips us of any self-righteousness and self-pity that muddies our gospel witness to our communities. After all, the saints who see themselves primarily in the light of their well-studied political opinions are least likely to be the fragrance of God’s truth to the onlooking world. We must remember that, apart from Christ, we would be miserable sinners. We ought to cry, as wretched men and women, “Who is sufficient for these things?”

POTENTIALLY  PREJUDICED VS. GUILTY AS CHARGED

During this season of of a contested election, it occurred to me that my voting choices were strangely aligned to my ethnicity. Do you know what else I noticed? The same was true for many of my friends, even though their particular voting choices were different than mine. All our votes closely aligned to our ethnicities even though each one of us would have argued that our tribal identity had little to do with our opinions.

I want to be clear: I hold my opinions because I believe them to be true. And yet, it’s hard to say that I am entirely untainted by the tribal prejudices I have inherited not merely from Adam but also from my particular ethnic heritage. Without having to confess my political views as sin, I’ve found it useful to hold them with a healthy dose of suspicion.

As a pastor, this insight into my potential prejudices helped me hold to my political opinions with humility. That meant not sharing them broadly and avoiding arguments about politics in which I tried to convince others to cross over to my side of the divide. In short, I refrained from moralizing my political opinion. While some suggested it was sinful to celebrate the electoral victory of the president, others described the results as an answer to prayer and insensitively exhorted those who felt robbed and wronged to pray for the president “as the Bible clearly instructs.”

I and our church benefited because I didn’t correct every perceived error nor did I engage every discussion. The complexity and intensity of politics can easily overshadow the unity that is ours in Christ. We can’t let that happen. Instead, we must strive in the Spirit so that we display the gospel clearly to the glory of God. What did that look like in our church? Instead of intensity, we strove for gentleness. Instead of drawing lines and making demands, we strove for patience. Instead of making enemies with all who disagreed, we strove for bearing with one another in love.

LET BROTHERLY LOVE CONTINUE

After a bitterly contested election, it doesn’t take a genius to know that some of your members will be angry and maybe even a little bitter. Meanwhile, others will be giddy and relieved. In our particular case, we had members who spent several nights huddled with their kids, frightened by the smell of teargas from the riots near their homes. We also had members who slept soundly. What did we do? We encouraged those who rejoiced at the result to abandon their rights for the sake of those who are not. We encouraged them to do a little more than spare a thought for those who were afraid. We encouraged them to actively serve them.

Pastoring through a contested election isn’t like writing a position paper. It’s attending to wounded sheep. It’s calling members as brothers and sisters to check in on each other. It’s opening up our homes for anyone who felt unsafe. It’s fewer barbershop conversations about various theories related to politics and sociology and more empathetic interactions with a focus on the obvious needs around us. We don’t need to agree on all the answers to show compassion, or to lament an obviously sad state of affairs.

And pastors, some people you’ve shepherded for years may call you an apostate because you mentioned the “J” word. Some may think you don’t care about their pain because you pray about God’s command to submit to the government. It’s okay. In a time of turmoil, keep your primary focus on your sheep, and incessantly express compassion and love. This will go a long way.

PREACHING THE WORD

It was a fight not to get sucked into the categories society had established for us. When the political lines are drawn between “Justice” and “Peace,” it’s unlikely that believers will comfortably identify with either side of the divide. Though the heated conversations of the day sound all-important, we should remind ourselves that the Word of God endures forever. News channels, newspapers, and social media are filled with mere opinions. So, pastor, make sure you execute your God-given charge and preserve your pulpit for that Ancient Word. Don’t confuse the value of any political insight with the value of God’s Word for God’s people.

In our case in 2017, the elder scheduled to preach on the Sunday after the controversial election preached from Obadiah. In that book, God had prepared a rebuke for many of us and an encouragement for all of us. Points in the passage weren’t forced to fit into the political season. Instead, this brother faithfully preached the passage in front of him and allowed God to do the hacking and healing he wanted.

Just consider what Obadiah covers: God’s justice, which had been directed to Judah in judgment, was now directed at the Edomites who “stood aloof on the day that strangers carried off the wealth of Judah.” Those who gloated at the destruction of others were warned of God’s coming judgment. And the sins God promised to judge went well beyond mere actions. He who sees all things will bring his righteous judgment upon their sinful attitudes toward their “enemies.” What’s more, God announced that all nations would face his impending judgment. Meanwhile, Obadiah offered the hope of God’s coming kingdom.

If there’s ever a time to trust in the sufficiency of God’s Word, it’s in the midst of political turmoil. When your people look to you and ask what “word” you have for them, make sure that you aspire for nothing more than being a faithful herald of God’s Word both in season and out of season. Faithful preaching in a season of political turmoil will offend and encourage indiscriminately. It will reshape the boundaries politics has erected and promote a peculiar unity not around shared political viewpoints but around deeper, more enduring truths. Faithful preaching will lead you and your people to regular repentance and reified faith in our crucified, raised, and ascended King, the One who is indeed coming soon.

This article originally appeared here.

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