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Gen Z and Millennials Are Seeking Authentic Church Community, Not Leaving It

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Pew Research Center conducted a 2021 study which showed that 29% of members of the general U.S. adult population describe themselves as unaffiliated with any particular religious tradition, otherwise known as “nones.” In addition, 49% of Millennials (born between 1981–96) and 49% of Gen Z (born between 1997–2012) consider themselves “nones” as well.

But does that mean they aren’t interested in Christianity at all?

Surprisingly, it doesn’t.

However, the conversations they want to have may be different than you might think. My colleague, Justin Brierley, recently discussed this issue with Mikhaila Peterson, famous YouTuber, podcaster and daughter of author Jordan Peterson, and Jon McCray, the “Whaddo You Meme” YouTuber, in The Big Conversation’s season four finale, “Are Millennials and Gen Z ready to believe in God?

Some encouraging news is that Millennials and Gen Z are looking for authenticity when it comes to religion.

For those of us who want to reach the younger generations, we need to understand the ways in which these young people’s identity and worldview influence their views on faith. Members of both generations find their identity in a desire to help people. They want to shape the world by doing good. So, when they see pain or division inflicted upon someone by the church or by those affiliated with religion, they no longer want to be associated with such people or organizations.

If we don’t prove our love for others by our attitudes and actions, we will lose the right to be heard by younger generations. 

This does not mean, however, that Gen Z and Millennials universally discount faith and spirituality. There is still a desire and hunger for religious thought and exploration, but religious figures must exude authenticity for young people to give any credence to their teachings. They are asking difficult questions and seeking honest answers that may not be clear-cut regarding what religion means for their personal lives. But that is OK – they are more comfortable living in that space of ambiguity than previous generations. But the death knell to any influence you could have upon them would be to give them a pat, black and white answer that is anything less than 100% honest and authentic.

In the “more good news” category, Gen Z and Millennials are looking for a community that is welcoming and where they don’t feel like they need to leave any part of themselves out to be present. Church leaders need to find a way to make adequate meaning or connection with what is happening in our world as opposed to being oblivious or dismissive of the world’s issues. With all of the cultural and social influences on our young people today, they have sincere questions and sometimes much confusion about their feelings and relationships. To shame and condemn them for this, or demand that they leave that part of themselves outside the church, is not only ineffective, but damaging to the seekers, the other congregants and the church itself.

Another fact to be celebrated is the fading influence of the recent “New Atheist” movement of people like Richard Dawkins and Christopher Hitchens, who tended to denigrate faith and the intelligence of any who would choose to believe. Instead, today’s atheists, like Alex J. O’Connor, otherwise known online as “CosmicSkeptic,” are more open minded and willing to engage in friendly dialogue, recognizing that brilliant intellectuals can also be committed people of faith. Alex’s blog headline, “Question Everything,” is indicative of his generation’s expectation that with some of life’s big questions come life-changing answers. Questions lead to the truth. I’m encouraged by this, because I know that these questions, skepticism and doubts all lead to conversations that will eventually point to God’s truth.

How do we restore trust in the church for younger audiences? Authenticity, transparency and honesty. The younger generations aren’t classified as rebellious and godless, but rather seek accountability and hold those of religious authority to a higher standard. These generations want to see us walk the talk —  not just preach about loving the least of these, feeding the poor and seeking justice for the oppressed, but to actually be on the grounds leading the way in action. 

Checklist: Sound Gear Components You Really Need

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Are you running sound at a small church or a new start-up church? If so, chances are you’re struggling with the sound system. I’ve seen a lot of “inventive” systems cobbled together by well-meaning folks and believe it’s time to toss out a life-line. I’ve put together a list of the essential pieces of sound gear components for a small church. Because most small churches don’t have much of a tech budget, I’m not going to be specifying high-end equipment. That doesn’t mean that you can’t have pro-quality and tour-grade gear. I want you to have good gear—I’m NOT here to say it’s OK to buy bargain-basement gear. (A quick note; these are personal preferences. Your mileage may vary.) [drum roll, please]:

Basic sound gear components are:

  • Mixer: 16-24 channel analog mixer with four or more auxiliary sends or a 16-24 channel digital mixer.
  • Cable snake: 16-24 channels with four or more auxiliary returns, 100-150 ft. snake—whatever gets you from the stage to the booth.
  • Two 15-inch three-way powered speakers for front of house (same brand and model line as the subs).
  • One or two 18-inch powered subwoofers (same brand and model line as the mains).
  • One 1/3-octave equalizer for front of house (not needed with a digital mixer).
  • One 2-channel compressor for pastor and one other channel (could be lead vocal or guest mic) (not needed with a digital mixer).
  • Either four powered stage monitor wedge speakers or four in-ear monitor systems.
  • Four to six vocal mics.
  • Kick drum mic.
  • Four instrument mics.
  • Mic cables.
  • Pastor wireless headset mic.
  • Mic stands (regular and shorty).
  • Furman power conditioner for the equipment at the sound booth.

Alrighty then. Now that I’ve defined what I consider the minimum sound gear components, let me start unpacking why. Below, I’ve highlighted details behind some of these sound gear components. It contains a good bit of brands to avoid and highlights a few for consideration.

The Mixer

16-24 channel with four or more auxiliary sends analog mixer or a 16, 24 or, yes, even 32 channel digital mixer.

Here’s what a typical lineup of channels might look like:

  1. Kick drum
  2. Snare
  3. Hi-hat
  4. Drum Overhead
  5. Percussion
  6. Bass Guitar
  7. Keyboard
  8. Acoustic Guitar
  9. Electric Guitar
  10. Extra Instrument
  11. Lead Vocal
  12. Backing Vocal
  13. Backing Vocal
  14. Pastor mic
  15. Extra mic
  16. Computer

Even though I show four mics for drums (ch. 1-4), I usually recommend just miking the kick drum and the snare in a live room. Now if you have a really dead room or you have a huge building, then use all four mics. If not, you have three channels that are now open. As you can see, there are enough channels for a typical contemporary band. If you have a choir, then you may need more than 16 channels and may need to look at a 24 channel board.

6 Keys to Small Group Leader Growth

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This is one of my favorite quotes. It is also a personal challenge for me. The quote reminds me that if I want my team to get better and if I want those I lead to get better, then I have to get better. This is the challenge all leaders face. And as a small group point person you are a leader. Small group leader growth is essential to healthy small groups. Here are six ways to make sure you are getting better as a leader, so that everybody wins.

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  1. Use the Bible as a leadership book. Maybe it’s just me, but for years I never considered using the Bible as a leadership book. I knew that all solid leadership principles were scripturally based, but I never thought to use the word of God as a leader’s guide. A quick search of plans on the You Version app shows over 25 plans focused on leadership. Pick one and make it a priority to complete each day.
  2. Find a mentor. Actually, find multiple mentors. Find people who are further down the road than you are and spend time with them. I have a mentor for my role as a small group point person, another for my role as a husband, another for my financial life, another for being a Dad. Most of these relationships are not formal mentorships. I just hang out with people I want to be like.
  3. Read…a lot. This could also be called Mentorship, Part 2. Do you wish you could hang out with Steve Gladen and pick his brain about small groups? You can! Read Leading Small Groups with Purpose. Do you want to know how a campus pastor leads under Andy Stanley? Read How to Lead When You’re Not in Charge by Clay Scroggins. Reading gets you the best thoughts of amazing leaders.
  4. Go back through your notes. I have a stack of conference books in my office from numerous conferences I have attended. For years these just sat there. Lately, I have adopted a practice of going back through my notes from these events. There are leadership nuggets in there. When you do this, you might just be surprised by how insightful you were.
  5. Get leaders on your team. As a small group point person this is part of the job for most of us. However, intentionally recruiting high-caliber leaders will make you a better leader. If you are not challenged to be a better leader by the quality of the people you lead, recruit better people.
  6. Take risks. Set goals that you are nervous might result in you having to explain why you failed. Playing it safe is guaranteed to make it easy for you to maintain the status quo. Pushing the envelope will force you to be a better leader. You owe it to the people you are leading to be the best leader you can possibly be, they deserve that. I also want to remind you that your leadership is making an eternal difference.

 

This article on small group leader growth originally appeared here.

Youth Ministry: The Case for (the Right Kind of) Teen Ministry

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Youth ministry is my passion. Before I get any flak for concept-stealing, know that I got permission from my friend Lee Strobel, author of The Case for ChristThe Case for FaithThe Case for Christmas, and The Case for… just about everything dealing with the subject of Jesus, to spin his “Case for” theme toward youth ministry.

Lee wholeheartedly agreed I should tackle this message. He, too, is convinced we need to reach this next generation of kids. And reaching them will require youth leaders, parents and pastors fully aligned with the right kind of philosophy.

I hesitate to even use the term “right kind of youth ministry.” That’s because I’m not referring to any particular youth ministry model or program. Models and programs are fine and necessary. But what makes or break them is not the program itself but the philosophy behind them.

The business adage “Culture eats strategy for breakfast” is also true for youth ministry. When the right kind of culture is present, almost any model or program will work. And when the right kind of culture is not present? Then it doesn’t matter what program or model you have in place. Failure is inevitable.

But before I make a case for the right kind (philosophy/mindset) of youth ministry, allow me to make a case for youth ministry in general. Why is youth ministry strategically important for the church?

3 Reasons Youth Ministry Matters

1. Urgency

This is something we all intuitively know: The VAST majority of people who put their faith in Jesus do so by age 18. I’m sure you’ve read the statistics that the younger a person is, the more likely they are to come to Christ.

My friend Shane Pruitt did an unofficial survey on Twitter. Here’s what he tweeted afterward: “Just let the implications of this poll set in for a minute. 2,694 people polled about the age they surrendered to Jesus: 77% before they were 18. 95% before the age of 30. It’s imperative that the next generation be reached with the Gospel right now, or they may never be.”

These kinds of results make it clear. If you’re a church leader who claims to be serious about reaching your community for Christ, you must seriously focus a good portion of your efforts on reaching the most spiritually open demographic in your community: children and teens!

2. Effectiveness

Teenagers not only come to Christ quicker. They also can spread the Gospel faster and further than adults. According to Pew Research, the average teen has 425 online and face-to-face friends. Think about that. The average teen’s social media reach is more than four times the average congregation size! The exponential reach of teenagers is shockingly large, and their influence on those they reach is amazingly deep.

What if we leverage that influence for the Gospel? What if we rebrand “The Great Commission” as “The Greatest Cause”? And what if this cause, The Cause, inspires a generation to reach their generation for Jesus?

It could create unprecedented momentum not just in our youth groups but in our churches. It could trigger a revival that makes its way to the church auditorium!

3. Long-term results

Teenagers who are trained, equipped and mobilized for the Gospel are much more likely to not just keep their faith past graduation but to advance it for the rest of their lives. As on-fire-for-Christ teenagers grow into adulthood, they’ll bring that passion to the adult congregation. Our churches will be much more healthy tomorrow if we focus on making and multiplying teen disciples today!

There’s a great line in the classic cop-vs.-gangster movie The Untouchables. Elliott Ness, played by Kevin Costner, is upset that he can’t find a good cop in all of Chicago. A seasoned and still-honest cop, played by Sean Connery, responds by giving Ness the solution. He tells him, “If you can’t find a good apple in the barrel, go to the tree.” With that, they go to the rookie training center for police officers and recruit the rest of their team. And, of course, they end up beating the bad guys.

Focusing on youth ministry is “going to the tree.” So many times it’s hard to find adults who are on fire for Jesus and willing to share their faith. I’m not saying they’re like corrupt gangster-era Chicago cops. But there’s a good chance they’ve been institutionalized by the consumeristic “What’s in it for me?” typical church-going experience.

The Christmas Story: 4 Ways to Engage Kids With Special Needs

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The Christmas story is good news for all people, including kids! KidMin leaders can create a sensory experience and invite participation when celebrating Jesus’ birth. Engaging kids with special needs and learning differences is especially important.

Try these ideas in your children’s ministry. They’re great for involving youngsters with special needs in the Christmas story.

4 Activities About the Christmas Story

1. Angel Sock Puppet

Make angel sock puppets using white socks, gold pipe cleaners, hot glue and a Sharpie marker. Retell the Christmas story from Luke 1:26–33, 38, 46. Slip an angel puppet on one hand of each listener. While sharing about the angel’s visit to Mary, invite participants to mouth the angel’s words with their puppets. Be sure to have the storyteller look for opportunities to quote the angel.

Students with special needs will be more likely to remain attentive if their puppet has opportunities to perform, silently mimicking the angel’s words. You can use the sock angel for all parts of the Christmas story involving the appearance of an angel.

For a two-minute tutorial on making a sock angel puppet, see the video from Orange’s First Look curriculum team.

2. Natural Raffia

Provide each listener a handful of torn craft paper or natural raffia. For kids who have an aversion to touching scratchy materials, place the shredded paper inside a sandwich bag. Invite students to quietly manipulate the material (or feel their baggie of torn paper) as the storyteller reads Luke 2:1–7.

The shredded craft paper serves as both a fidget and a concrete tool for helping listeners connect with the Christmas story. The storyteller might say things like:

Feel the texture of the papers in your hand.
The papers in your hand (or bag) feel like hay.
Hay is on the ground in a stable instead of carpet.
Hay is placed in a manger for animals to eat.
Mary and Joseph could not find a place to spend the night in Bethlehem.
They had to sleep in a stable.
Baby Jesus was born while Joseph and Mary stayed in the stable.
There wasn’t a bed or a crib for Baby Jesus to lay in.
So Mary placed Baby Jesus on the hay in the manger.
Jesus slept on the soft hay in the manger.
The hay felt a lot like the crinkled paper you are holding.  

‘I Pray Every Day for the Lord to Use Me’: Video Goes Viral About FedEx Driver Praying With Grieving Woman

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As Christians, we are all called to be God’s vessels and a ‘light unto the world’. But it’s so easy to wrap that little cliché up in a bow and tuck it away for a time when it’s convenient for us.

Most of us probably know what it’s like to feel that little nudge from the Holy Spirit to help someone in need, to pray for a stranger, or to stop in your tracks in the middle of a hectic day.

But how many of us actually obey that subtle “nudge” by moving our feet in the direction of His will, when it would be SO easy to keep going about our own way?

Well, FedEx employee Amanda Riggan knows exactly what it’s like to be in that position. And in a moment when she encountered a woman grief-stricken over her husband’s sickness, she knew she couldn’t afford to keep plugging along on her route, though she had 100 stops to go.

“I drove off. My heart’s pounding. I do probably 20 more stops and I have to go back,” said Amanda.

“A lot of people want the Lord to use them, and for me as an example, I pray every day for the Lord to use me,” she continued. “But when he’s trying to use you or when you feel that call and that tug on your heartstrings, do you move your feet? Do you move?

Watch the video below to discover how the rest of Amanda’s inspiring story unfolds. May it encourage you to follow God’s leading in your own heart today.

A $100 Million Ad Campaign Wants To Fix Jesus’ Image. His Followers Remain a Problem.

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(RNS) — Jon Lee has some words for evangelical leaders who argue that Christian ethics like kindness, honesty and loving your neighbor don’t apply to culture-war politics.

“Good luck,” said Lee, a principal at Lerma, a cross-cultural advertising agency based in Dallas.

Lee is one of the chief architects of the “He Gets Us” campaign, a $100 million effort to redeem Jesus’ brand from the damage done by his followers, especially those who say one thing and then do another.

Launched earlier this year, ads featuring black-and-white online videos about Jesus as a rebel, an activist or a host of a dinner party have been viewed more than 300 million times, according to organizers. Billboards with messages like “Jesus let his hair down, too” and “Jesus went all in, too,” have also been posted in major markets like New York City and Las Vegas.

The campaign, funded by the Signatry, a Christian foundation based in Kansas, will expand in the next few months, with an updated website, an online store where people can get free gear if they forgive someone or welcome a stranger, and an outreach program for churches, all leading up to a Super Bowl ad.

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Jon Lee. Courtesy photo

Lee said organizers also want to start a movement of people who want to tell a better story about Jesus and act like him.

“Our goal is to give voice to the pent-up energy of like-minded Jesus followers, those who are in the pews and the ones that aren’t, who are ready to reclaim the name of Jesus from those who abuse it to judge, harm and divide people,” Lee said.

Jason Vanderground, president of Haven, a branding firm based in Grand Haven, Michigan, said the movement hopes to bridge the gap between the story of Jesus and the public perception of his followers. The campaign has done extensive market research and found that, while many Americans like Jesus, they are skeptical of his followers.

The market research split Americans into four categories: non-Christians (16% of the sample), people who are “spiritually open” (20%), “Jesus followers” (34%) and “engaged Christians” (30%). It showed a wide gap between the first three groups and the last category.

Most people in the first three categories said the behavior of Christians is a barrier to faith. More than two-thirds agreed when asked: “Followers of Jesus say one thing, but do not follow those things in practice.” Only 5% of the engaged Christians agreed. Most folks in the first three categories also agreed that Christians care only about stopping abortions, rather than caring for moms and their children. Only 6% of the engaged Christians agreed.

‘All Shepherds Are Sheep’—Diane Langberg on Abuse and Authority in the Church

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Pastors who want to avoid abusing their authority must practice self-examination and must do so in trusted community, says Christian psychologist Dr. Diane Langberg. Langberg also emphasizes the importance of church leaders seeing themselves as sheep under the authority of the one true Shepherd, Jesus.  

“All shepherds are sheep,” said Langberg, speaking at the Church Mental Health Summit Monday, Oct. 10. “You are to be working out your life under the good and great Shepherd as you shepherd his sheep.”

Diane Langberg on How Church Leaders Can Avoid Abusing Their Authority

Diane Langberg is a Christian psychologist who has expertise in trauma recovery. She is the author of “Redeeming Power: Understanding Authority and Abuse in the Church.” Langberg appeared at the Church Mental Health Summit Monday where she gave a talk titled, “Understanding Authority and Abuse in the Church.” The summit, a free, one-day event, was a joint venture from Spiritual First Aid and Hope Made Strong and featured speakers including Rich Villodas and Kayla Stoecklein discussing a variety of topics related to mental health and the church. 

Langberg began by explaining that power is part of the image of God in people. As such, power is something God wants his children to use in order to care for and serve others. “And obviously, it’s gone awry,” said Langberg. “Something that’s part of the image of God in us has often been used to hurt people.”

People frequently do not have a clear understanding of what power is and how it works, said Langberg. “Leaders often feel powerless when they’re not, so it gets confusing for many people,” she said, going on to define power as “the ability to have an impact.” Because every person has a voice and the ability to influence others, all people have power to some extent.

Those who abuse power are sometimes aware, and sometimes not aware, that they even have it. “It’s a very foggy area,” she said. Langberg also clarified that the power that church leaders have is not the same across the board, but varies depending on people’s personalities and the personalities of their ministries. That being said, leaders in any ministry position must be aware of how they exercise power. Do they use their power to serve others or to serve themselves? 

Throughout the interview, Diane Langberg gave Jesus as a model and reference point for how leaders should use their power. Jesus begins the Great Commission in Matthew 28:18-20 by saying, “All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me.”

“So any power that you have and that I have in any circumstance,” said Langberg, “is literally a derivative of his power, which means it is to be used with his likeness, with his character, with his goals.” 

The psychologist said that examining unhealthy churches is helpful for learning how to build healthy ones. In unhealthy church systems, there are usually a few people, often men, in a “closed sacred circle,” who have a lot to gain from remaining in power. Everyone else in the organization is expected to follow them without question; no one cares if the followers are wounded or hurting.

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Church leaders who desire to be healthy should behave in opposite ways. “Jesus was extraordinary in welcoming the least of these,” said Langberg. For example, Matthew 19:13-14 says, “Then people brought little children to Jesus for him to place his hands on them and pray for them. But the disciples rebuked them. Jesus said, ‘Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these.’” In a large, busy church it is easy to overlook those who are vulnerable, said Langberg, “because after all, they are just the little ones, and you’re talking to important people or whatever.”

Bethel Church Prophet and Healer Kris Vallotton Says Kidney Stone Pain ‘Will Mark Me for Life’; Scheduled for Surgery

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Bethel Church Senior Associate Leader Kris Vallotton, who is a bestselling author and co-founder of the Bethel School of Supernatural Ministry, shared on Facebook last week that he was suffering from a kidney stone and that the pain was intense.

“I went to the hospital today and found out I am passing a kidney stone,” Vallotton posted, adding that he “wouldn’t wish this on my worst enemy.” He then described his last couple of days as “tough.”

A few days later, Vallotton, who prophesied that Donald Trump would be elected President of the United states for a second term in 2020 and then apologized for his wrong prophecy, gave an update regarding his pain.

“I have been trying to pass a kidney stone for 8 days. It’s been 8 of the most intense days of my life! I have experienced lots of pain, but never intense physical pain that literally imprisons my body and taunts my soul,” Vallotton said.

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To illustrate how much pain he was experiencing, Vallotton revealed that he would sleep in the bathtub with hot water, because it helped reduce the pain.

The Bethel leader, who frequently shares testimonies of healings he has performed, said that he is scheduled to have surgery on Monday (Oct. 10) to remove the kidney stone. Over the last eight days, Vallotton shared that he had lost 14 pounds due to his inability to eat in light of the pain.

Vallotton titled his post “Pain,” and said, “I think this experience will mark me for life. I can feel compassion growing in me for people trapped in intense pain. How do they function? I find myself wondering how many ‘grouchy, impatient’ folks are actually just people full of pain?”

“It’s really hard to be around people consumed by pain as they really, only have one subject they want to talk about, which isn’t a subject anyone else wants to even think about. The compassionate people who brave the elements and climb the mountain of despair are my heroes! Several of them have shown up in my life this week,” he continued.

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Vallotton shared, “I have challenged myself to encourage others while I am in pain to help to make their lives a little better.”

The “Spiritual Intelligence: The Art of Thinking Like God” author admitted that it is “hard to be eloquent in this condition, but it’s easy to sacrifice for the people you love and believe in.”

“I have also worked to be thankful to God. I know He didn’t cause this but He is the Master at using it for good in my life,” Vallotton said. He then concluded his post by saying, “I love you all—this too shall pass!”

Late Monday afternoon (Oct. 10), Vallotton posted that he was pain free as a result of his successful surgery. “Pain free. I had an operation this morning to remove the kidney stone and immediately all the pain is gone! Thank you everyone who prayed for me during this crazy time. I love you all.”

‘I Heart Hot Youth Pastors’ Sticker Lands Student Minister in Hot Water

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After what he calls a “joke…of very poor taste” went viral, South Carolina youth pastor Cory Wall has been placed on administrative leave. Fairview Baptist Church in Greer, South Carolina, says it will conduct a “thorough and comprehensive investigation” into Wall’s recent distribution of “I heart hot youth pastors” stickers to church youth.

A photo of the sticker went viral last week, with many people expressing concerns about a 35-year-old church worker giving minors such a message. Both Wall and another church leader posted responses—which raised even more questions. Then on Sunday, the church, which is part of the Southern Baptist Convention, announced that Wall is on leave pending an investigation.

Fairview Baptist Church Youth Pastor Calls I Heart Hot Youth Pastor Sticker ‘A Poor Decision’

About the stickers, Wall says, in part: “Let me assure you that my intentions were pure, and the last thing I wanted to do was make…anyone…feel uncomfortable. We’re updating our church-wide database, and I encouraged kids to come see me to get a sticker and update their information. The sticker was meant to poke fun of the ‘I Heart Hot Mom’ culture. In hindsight, the joke was of very poor taste and a mistake on my part. I do apologize for their distribution.”

Wall adds, “One of our top goals with Fairview Students is to create a safe place for students. Last night, we fell short. Please accept my apologies.”

Scott Shipes, another Fairview Baptist Church pastor, also addresses the situation, writing that the sticker “was offensive to some.” He adds that although he can’t comment on a “personnel” issue, church leaders “understand the severity of the incident and have addressed it” with Wall.

Shipes confirms “this has been dealt with as a serious matter,” then segues into “Cory’s mentioning ‘having a porn addiction.’” That was years ago, writes Shipes, adding that Wall shouldn’t have shared that information with students “until he made parents aware of the topic beforehand and explain the context of why he would share this from his testimony.”

Fairview Baptist Church Faces Backlash on Social Media

Reaction to the sticker debacle was swift, with comments such as “Keep your kids far away from this church.” Some people say it seems like grooming behavior—or at least is tone-deaf, in light of ongoing sexual abuse investigations of the SBC.

“I hope they mean hot with the holy spirit,” reads one comment about the sticker’s message. “That’s so Trashy.” Another person calls the sticker “absolutely unacceptable.”

‘We Would Be Facing an Armageddon’—Franklin Graham Urges Christians To Pray After Putin Threatens To Use Nuclear Weapons

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'We Would Be Facing an Armageddon,' Franklin Graham Urges Christians to Pray After Putin Threatens to Use Nuclear Weapons

Agreeing with President Joe Biden’s recent Armageddon comment, Franklin Graham, president of Samaritan’s Purse and the Billy Graham Evangelistic Association, placed an urgency on prayer regarding Russia’s potential use of nuclear weapons against Ukraine.

President Biden spoke about the increasing threat of nuclear weapon use by Russian president Vladimir Putin in his war against Ukraine during a fundraiser event in New York city last week (Oct. 6).

“We have not faced the prospect of Armageddon since Kennedy and the Cuban missile crisis,” Biden said. “I don’t think there’s any such thing as the ability to easily [use] a tactical nuclear weapon and not end up with Armageddon.”

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Biden described Putin’s talk about using nuclear weapons as serious.

“He is not joking when he talks about potential use of tactical nuclear weapons, or biological, or chemical weapons. Because his military is, you might say, significantly underperforming,” Biden explained.

On Saturday morning (Oct. 8), Graham agreed with Biden’s comments and said that today’s world is as dangerous as he’s ever seen it.

“I’m 70 years old, and there has never been a more dangerous time during my lifetime than we are living in right now,” Graham tweeted. “President Biden is absolutely right when he said that the threat of President Putin using nuclear weapons is very real, and we would be facing an Armageddon.”

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Graham urged Christians to pray that peace would be found for all the leaders involved in Russia’s war on Ukraine.

“Every person who believes in God and His Son, Jesus Christ, needs to be praying,” Graham encouraged. “Pray for the leaders involved, that God will work in their hearts and that a path to peace will be found. With each passing day it seems more difficult, but God can show up!”

‘I Want To Serve God Well’—SBC President Bart Barber Discusses Politics, Sexual Abuse, Christian Nationalism With Anderson Cooper on 60 Minutes

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On Sunday (October 9), SBC president Bart Barber appeared on a segment of CBS’s 60 Minutes with Anderson Cooper in a wide ranging interview that delved into the sexual abuse scandal in the SBC, former president Donald Trump and political division, abortion, and Christian nationalism.

Following the airing of the segment, a number of Christian leaders both inside and outside the SBC offered their reactions, with some praising the SBC president and others offering critique. 

On Sexual Abuse 

From the beginning of his term as SBC president, Barber has focused much of his effort on addressing the sexual abuse scandal in the denomination. In the wake of the Guidepost Solutions report, Barber, at the behest of SBC messengers, has appointed an Abuse Reform Implementation Task Force.

Regarding the actions of the SBC Executive Committee to protect itself over and against sexual abuse survivors for a period of at least two decades, Barber said, “That’s the mindset that we’re repudiating and moving against.”

“When you read that report and to read accounts of people who were brave enough to call in to the Executive Committee, to report abuse, for them to be ignored,” Cooper started before Barber interjected, “That’s not a strong enough word. We didn’t just ignore them. Sometimes we impugned their motives. Sometimes we attacked them.”

“The reason why I’m president of the Southern Baptist Convention is because our churches do not agree with that and have taken action to correct those things,” Barber said.

“I have strong feelings about this,” Barber went on to say. “It’s not just anger. Although I’m angry about it. God called me to be a pastor when I was 11. I believe in this. For people to sully this hurts me.” 

“I’m not doing this to try to accomplish some PR objective for us,” Barber continued. “I’m doing this because I want to serve God well.”

On Donald Trump and Political Division

When it comes to politics, Barber told Cooper, “Blind partisanship destroys everything—except baseball.” Barber went on to express that he is a St. Louis Cardinals fan, joking that he is “sticking with that, no matter what.”

Kidding aside, Barber said of political division, “It’s absolutely coming into the way that people in churches, who oughta know better, are speaking to one another about the issues that are outside the church that aren’t really theological. The best characterization is they’re not listening.”

When Cooper asked Barber if he thought the 2020 presidential election was stolen from Donald Trump, Barber answered emphatically that he did not. 

“I pray for [President Biden] consistently as the president of the United States. I believe he was legitimately elected,” Barber said. 

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By the Numbers: Southern Baptist Funded Disaster Relief Restores Lives, Spreads Gospel

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Since Hurricane Ian's landfall Sept. 28 and Wednesday (Oct. 5), Southern Baptist Disaster Relief volunteers volunteers had served more than 46,500 meals. Florida Baptist DR photo

Editor’s note: October is Cooperative Program Emphasis Month in the Southern Baptist Convention.

PORT CHARLOTTE, Fla. (BP) – When Hurricane Ian attacked Florida, Florida Baptist Disaster Relief (FBDR) was ready to offer restoration at a moment’s notice. State director David Coggins mobilized Florida volunteers as many states mobilized disaster relief teams to respond.

Numbers quickly ascended within days of the storm to include 180 volunteers serving at nine feeding stations and 10 cleanup sites in Florida, deployed from across Florida and eight other states. Through Oct. 5, volunteers had served more than 46,500 meals, completed 32 of the 232 cleanup and rebuild jobs initially requested and led three new believers to Christ.

The work, only a microcosm of the annual scale of Southern Baptist Disaster Relief (SBDR), is funded by the Southern Baptist Cooperative Program and the direct gifts from Southern Baptists and other supporters nationally. Florida has already received two truckloads of food and cleanup and recovery supplies from Send Relief Appalachia Ministry Center in Ashland, Ky.

“So those resources come as a result of people’s giving, and our churches that are a part of the Cooperative Program or involved in what we do are making those donations and supplying those resources,” Coggins told Baptist Press. “And of course in Florida we are getting donations, but our ministry is part of the Cooperative Program budget of the Florida Baptist Convention. So we have the resources of our state convention and our state Executive Director Dr. Tommy Green is very generous and supportive of that with the resources we need.

“Our equipment is purchased and maintained and operationally ready when there’s an event like this because we have those churches that are giving through the Cooperative Program and enable us to do that and have those resources available.”

With more than 4,000 credentialed volunteers, FBDR is included in the SBDR network of ministry that in 2021 alone served at least 845,000 meals, logged at least 355,000 volunteer hours, shared the Gospel more than 6,000 times and saw at least 603 professions of faith during emergency responses nationally, according to sendrelief.org. The numbers are not fully inclusive of all disaster relief work in the states, but include a great portion of outreaches, according to the North American Mission Board.

Florida volunteers participated in 500 cleanup and recovery jobs in 2021 across the nation, with no major disaster incident within the state, according to the Florida Baptist Convention 2021 Annual Report. In chaplaincy outreach, 912 chaplains participated in disaster relief and other outreaches, including health care, public safety and hospitality.

Included in the SBDR network and also responding in the current Florida recovery is Texas Baptist Men. Although the group has a masculine name, 42 percent of TBM disaster relief volunteers are women, according to the group’s 2021 Annual Report. In that year, and included in the national SBDR numbers, TBM logged 63,336 volunteer hours, provided 19,651 meals and recorded 303 professions of faith in what the TBM called its busiest hurricane season on record.

TBM also responded internationally, digging 17 wells to serve 7,000 people in five countries, the group said in its annual report.

The Louisiana Baptist Convention (LBC), in a state that has suffered devastating hurricane seasons, is also responding in Florida. When Hurricane Ida struck Louisiana in 2021, disaster relief ministries from 29 state conventions responded within a three-week period, according to the LBC 2021 Annual Report, serving at 25 sites in southeast Louisiana. From Aug. 29-Sept. 20 of last year, those volunteers prepared 638,660 meals, assessed 3,163 damaged properties, completed 494 chainsaw jobs, provided 7,558 showers and laundered 5,243 loads of laundry.

Among the 513 people with whom LBDR volunteers shared the Gospel, 87 made professions of faith.

Are the Culture Wars Changing How Christian Students Choose Colleges?

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People participate in the third day of a sit-in at Seattle Pacific University, May 26, 2022, after the board of trustees decided to retain a policy that prohibits the hiring of LGBTQ people. Photo via Twitter/@SPUisGay

(RNS) — These days, politics can influence everything from the dairy products you consume (Ben & Jerry’s? Chick-fil-A milkshake?) to whether you drink Pepsi or Coke. For some Christian families, politics are also revamping the college decision process, swaying them away from colleges marked “too liberal” or “too conservative.”

Though there are Protestant colleges that welcome political labels, others strive to remain as apolitical as possible. For the latter, it’s an increasing challenge to preserve their religious identity — which invariably has political implications in today’s supercharged environment — while welcoming students of all political backgrounds.

“I think Christians are discipled by political debates sometimes more than they are really discipled by Christ or Christianity,” said Ruth Curran Neild, whose son recently withdrew from Grove City College in Grove City, Pennsylvania, over concerns about the school’s politics.

Last year, the college was mired in a culture war debate over whether the conservative school had promoted critical race theory. A highly contentious board-approved report ruled it had.

“I saw the report come back from sub-committee, and I was gob smacked” said Neild, whose son had committed to the college in early November 2021. In her view, the board had taken the bait and engaged what she saw as a manufactured crisis over an ultra-conservative boogeyman.

“I thought they failed to want to listen to genuine cries of pain from marginalized communities,” said Neild. “It wasn’t grounded in shared Christian beliefs — it was at the level of politics.”

Neild, who lives in New Jersey and belongs to a Presbyterian Church in America congregation, told RNS that initially Grove City’s location, Christian identity and strong computer science program made it seem like an easy fit. But the board’s decision led to a family conversation in May, and, after much thought, Neild said her son opted for Messiah College, a school in Mechanicsburg, Pennsylvania, the family perceived as more politically neutral.

While several parents who spoke to RNS for this story said they’d tried to steer students away from Christian schools that “embrace MAGA,” as one mother put it, other parents voiced an opposing concern: They worried about what they saw as an encroachment of liberal values on traditional religious beliefs.

Amy Miller, who lives near Philadelphia and also attends a PCA church, told RNS her son transferred to Liberty University in Lynchburg, Virginia, this year from Muhlenberg College, a liberal arts college in Allentown, Pennsylvania.

Miller said the switch was related to Liberty’s reserve officers’ training corps program and its “conservative, Bible believing” Christian culture. She described Liberty as “refreshing” and as an “oasis,” where students can be bolstered in their Christ-centered beliefs before being daily bombarded by opposing worldviews.

“That’s why I would definitely push all the rest of my kids to Christian colleges,” said Miller, who expressed concern for how the broader culture approached questions related to gender and sexuality. Miller also noted not all Christian colleges would be a good fit for her family. “I think Wheaton College, my husband would say our kids cannot go there because he thinks that they’re a little bit more liberal.”

Pornography Accountability Apps Appeal Google’s Removal From App Store

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NASHVILLE (BP) – Accountability software including Covenant Eyes and Accountable2You, recently dropped from the Google app store, are still useful tools in helping addicts recover from their sin, abuse prevention advocates told Baptist Press.

Churches can also use such apps with ethical diligence, said Jason Thacker, chair of research in technology ethics for the Southern Baptist Ethics & Religious Liberty Commission (ERLC).

“I believe that churches and religious employers can use these tools but must do their due diligence to understand how they work, what is being collected, and who has access to it. Some churches and organizations may choose not to use them though, depending on their situation and context,” said Thacker, who leads the ERLC’s Digital Public Square outreach.

“Many organizations filter the internet using hardware or software-based tools that block access to certain sites and apps rather than employing personal accountability software. We must remember that the use of pornography is inherently a deeply intimate and isolating temptation,” he said, “so these tools must be accompanied by trusted friends and transparent relationships, rather than simply being seen as a one-sided fix for a much deeper problem.”

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Google dropped the apps amid accusations that they violate the company’s malware policy, which Covenant Eyes and Accountable2You both dispute.

Dawn Hawkins, CEO of the National Center on Sexual Exploitation (NCOSE) fighting sexual exploitation enabled by several mechanisms including the internet, said NCOSE is aware of people who’ve successfully used accountability software to fight personal addictions.

“We’ve heard from hundreds of people who have struggled with pornography addiction and dependencies that the best way most of them have found to help is through an accountability model, similar to AA (Alcoholics Anonymous) and many successful gambling recovery programs,” Hawkins told Baptist Press. “Pornography can be highly addictive, and research (has) objectively identified a wide array of harms from pornography use.”

Ron DeHaas, president and co-founder of Covenant Eyes, is NCOSE board chairman. Covenant Eyes is not spyware, Hawkins said, emphasizing that anyone using Covenant Eyes has to give permission for the app to work. Covenant Eyes provides details in its usage policy.

“We hope Google will change its decision to remove Covenant Eyes from its app store,” Hawkins said. “Those using Covenant Eyes or similar products want to use them because they find them helpful in managing their behaviors or addictions.

“Confronting a pornography addiction can often be a lonely and discouraging process; these sites help to focus on accountability as a way to fight this personal battle. In doing so, these sites help confront the demand for sexually exploitative material.”

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Transparency is critical in using such services, Thacker said.

“First and foremost, these services need to be used with transparency. Some businesses and churches will require the use of these tools but it must be communicated exactly what they do and how they do it,” he said. “This type of openness creates trust and unity.

New Poll Finds 4 in 10 Non-Catholic Latinos Were Once Catholic and Left

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Milagros Orengo, second from left, her daughter Emily Orengo and Maria Santos, right, all from Egg Harbor, N.J., pray behind a barricade at Independence Mall in Philadelphia, as a Mass with Pope Francis at the Cathedral Basilica of Sts. Peter and Paul is projected on a large screen, Saturday, Sept. 26, 2015. (AP Photo/Carolyn Kaster)

(RNS) — A new NBC News/Telemundo poll focusing on the Latino electorate found that 41% of Latinos who do not currently claim Catholicism as their religion said they had previously been Catholic.

Jonathan Calvillo, an assistant professor of Latinx studies at Emory’s Candler School of Theology, said the flip side of that statistic is just as important: the growing number of non-Catholic Latinos who were never Catholic to begin with (58%).

Some were raised Protestant, of course, but increasingly, he said, many are raised nonreligious.

While Calvillo said there are some who go from being Protestant to being Catholic, it’s a smaller percentage than the larger number of those who leave the Catholic Church. “But it does exist,” he said.

The poll, which consisted of interviews with 1,000 Latino registered voters, found that 48% identified as Catholic, 25% as Protestant, 1% as Muslim, 1% as Jewish and 18% said they didn’t identify with a religion.

The nationwide survey, conducted Sept. 17–26 in English and Spanish, queried respondents on a number of political issues in the run-up to the 2022 midterm elections. Overall, the survey found that while Democrats lead Republicans by more than 20 points among Latino voters, that number is down from past NBC/Telemundo over-samples of Latino voters. The lead, for example, was by 26 points in October 2020 and by 42 points eight years prior to that in October 2012, according to NBC News.

Jonathan Calvillo. Courtesy Emory University

Jonathan Calvillo. Courtesy Emory University

Those who stand outside of the Catholic Church, by birth on one hand or by choice on the other, likely move toward opposite poles on the political spectrum, said Calvillo, whose research has focused on how religious affiliation influences ethnic identities among Latinos.

“As aggregate populations, religious nones will likely support more progressive political positions, while evangelicals will lean more conservatively,” Calvillo said.

That leaves Catholics as more of a centrist demographic, said Calvillo, though he noted there can also be overlap, such as with ultraconservative Catholics and ultraconservative Protestants.

The poll found that 67% of those who identified with a religion said their religious beliefs only played a minor role or did not impact how they vote in elections, while 33% said it was a major or single most important factor.

However, a 2020 analysis from the Public Religion Research Institute argued that religion is the “largest demographic divider” among U.S. Latinos and found that Latino Protestants were more conservative, Republican and supportive of Trump than Latinos who are Catholic or religiously unaffiliated.

Latino voters in the NBC News/Telemundo poll were found to largely side with Democrats over Republicans on the issues of abortion (by a 50% to 23% margin), climate change (46%–13%) and health care (46%–21%). They lean more toward Republicans on the economy (38%–34%) and on border security (36%–33%).

North Greenville University Mourns Death of Baseball Player

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TIGERVILLE, S.C. (BP) – A North Greenville University baseball player’s death in his off-campus apartment came about from natural causes, according to the initial indications of an ongoing investigation.

Davis Heller, a 6’8” first baseman, died Oct. 5.

“Our baseball program is heartbroken over the loss of an amazing human being and brother in Christ,” NGU coach Landon Powell said in a statement. “Davis was a positive force everywhere he went. A gentle giant who greeted everyone with a smile and constantly uplifted those around him. An example of what a great teammate should be, Davis has left a lasting legacy on this program. A great competitor, but even better friend to those who got to know him.”

The 22-year-old Heller, a native of Gilbert, Ariz., joined the defending Division II national champion Crusaders after spending the 2021 and 2022 seasons with the University of Alabama.

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His 2021 season was cut short with an injury. In 2022 he played in eight games, starting two, while accumulating 10 plate appearances that brought a .200 batting average, one run and one RBI. Heller was named to the SEC spring academic honor roll both seasons.

Alabama’s baseball team offered its condolences on Twitter.

“Our thoughts and prayers are with the Heller family,” the post read. “Davis was loved by everyone and a friend to all. He will be missed.”

Heller was majoring in Strategic Communication. An announcement from NGU asked for prayer for his parents, three sisters, extended family and friends. Funeral arrangements are still pending.

This article originally appeared at Baptist Press.

A Polyamorous Commitment?

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I know, I know…the title of the blog is an oxymoron. How can you be polyamorous and be in a committed relationship? But that’s getting ahead of ourselves. First, what does it mean to be polyamorous? It’s not exactly an old or established term.

To be polyamorous means to be “open to romantic relationships with more than one person at a time.” Consider Sarah Brylinsky who is legally married to Brandon Brylinsky. Two years ago, they met Matte Namer. All three of them fell in love. “Now, the three plan to have a child, and they want to make their relationship official so that they can be recognized by their community as a family.”

As a kind of consensual non-monogamy, polyamory is on the rise. A 2021 study found that one in nine single American adults had engaged in it. Currently in the United States it is illegal to be married to more than one person at a time. Only the city of Somerville, MA, legally recognizes polyamorous domestic relationships (started in 2020).

Yet what is growing in frequency is a “commitment ceremony,” symbolically but not legally binding the involved. They are often very similar to a wedding, including such things as vows. Processionals can also be involved. For example, a couple who is already married might wait at the end of the aisle while the third person walks down to symbolically join them.

As one wedding planner in New York noted, “You can do whatever you want.”

And that is the issue.

And even the reason for having a “commitment” ceremony.

Jessica Fern, a Boulder-based psychotherapist who works with polyamorous people, touted the potential benefits of ceremonies like this. She said,

“When someone experiences legal marginalization for their relationship structure or style, commitment ceremonies can go a long way to deepen a relationship, publicly acknowledge its significance, and even assuage some of the pain and injustice that being a minority can create.”

In other words, these ceremonies culturally and publicly seek to validate the choice.

Let’s be clear. It can only be deemed the deepest of ironies that a polyamorous relationship would want to be governed by commitment, much less vows, much less marriage. The very idea of a polyamorous relationship is a disavowal of commitment.

I know that the world is veering steeply away from a biblical perspective. But that does not mean that biblical truth is not… well, biblical truth.

Marriage is between one man and one woman.

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I Never Expected to Doubt

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“Oh Jesus! Jesus!”

My spirit sprung to prayer with catlike reflexes as I watched my 2-year-old daughter tumble down the 15-step staircase. I stood helpless as her little body hurled toward the hardwood floor.

She stood up without a scratch . . . but my soul didn’t.

In that moment, I was never more aware of the wound that had been festering for months.

The wound was doubt.

Experiencing Doubt

I had been experiencing doubt about God’s existence and the Christianity I had believed to be true my whole life. But until that moment, I didn’t realize how deeply that doubt had wrapped itself around my mind. To the casual observer, my daughter fell, I prayed, and she was okay. But for the first time in my life, I wasn’t so sure it was divine intervention. For the first time I felt foolish . . . for praying.

I felt silly for crying out to God in that desperate moment. It was terrifying to realize the faith that had once been my identity now seemed more like a child’s fairy tale than the explanation of reality.

For me, doubt was an entirely new concept. Growing up, I watched God’s power at work in people’s lives, in my life. I knew God was real. I knew Jesus died for my sins, was resurrected, and was coming again. I knew the Bible was his Word, and I couldn’t be convinced otherwise. I was active in youth group, went on mission trips, and emerged as a trusted leader among my peers. I was the kid who no one would have dreamed would doubt her faith. I was the kid no one worried about, the one who would be just fine.

But now, in my early 30s, I wasn’t fine. I had just spent four months enduring the skepticism and intellectual attack of an agnostic “pastor” who invited me to be a part of a study group at church. A pastor who won my respect and trust had dismantled my faith, one belief at a time.

Doubt Isn’t the Opposite of Faith

By God’s grace and unfathomable mercy to me, my faith was rebuilt. But during my time of doubt, I suffered from an all-too-common misunderstanding about what biblical faith is. I thought doubt and faith were opposites—that if I questioned what I believed, I’d somehow be a failure in God’s eyes. But this definition of faith has more in common with how atheists understand faith than how the Bible defines it. Atheist Richard Dawkins defines religious faith as “blind.” In a debate with John Lennox, he said, “We only need to use the word ‘faith’ when there isn’t any evidence at all.”

But in the Bible, “faith” means trust, not blind belief. We all put our trust in various things every single day. Every time we drive our car across a bridge, we trust it will hold up like it has many times before. We trust, not because we have 100 percent proof, but because we have good evidence to believe the bridge won’t collapse.

Doubt isn’t the opposite of faith. Unbelief is the opposite of faith.

As Tim Keller writes:

A faith without some doubts is like a human body without any antibodies in it. People who blithely go through life too busy or indifferent to ask hard questions about why they believe as they do will find themselves defenseless against either the experience of tragedy or the probing questions of a smart skeptic. A person’s faith can collapse almost overnight if she has failed over the years to listen patiently to her own doubts, which should only be discarded after long reflection.

According to Keller, the strongest form of faith is one that has wrestled through doubt. The Bible is full of great examples. Here are three doubters Jesus responded to with mercy.

1. The Desperate Father

Mark 9 tells the story of a man desperately trying to find healing for his son who was demon-possessed. This particular demon caused the boy to become mute and would often seize him, throwing him into fire or water to kill him. The man asked Jesus to have pity on him and heal his son. Jesus responded, “All things are possible for one who believes.” Without hesitation, the man cried out, “I believe; help my unbelief!” (Mark 9: 24).

Help my unbelief.

It’s a simple, heartfelt prayer that Jesus readily answered by healing his son. He commanded the demon to come out and restored the boy to health and wholeness.

The man asked for help with his doubt, and Jesus came to his aid.

2. John the Baptist

If there’s any biblical figure who should have no reason to doubt, it’s John the Baptist. This is the man who was filled with the Holy Spirit before he was even born. This is the the man who came out of the wilderness proclaiming the coming Messiah. This is the man who baptized the Son of God, witnessed the Holy Spirit descending like a dove, and heard the audible voice of God. Yet at the end of his life, while rotting in Herod’s prison cell, he doubted. “Are you the one who is to come or should we look for another?” (Matt. 11:3).

This is the question he sent his disciples to ask Jesus—and Jesus didn’t scold him for asking. He didn’t reply, “John, you shouldn’t doubt!” or “We don’t ask those types of questions here!” No. Jesus performed miracles in front of John’s disciples and sent them back to testify, even referencing a prophecy about himself that John would understand.

John asked for reassurance, and Jesus was happy to oblige.

3. Thomas

Thomas is often referred to as “Doubting Thomas,” but I don’t think that’s accurate. Thomas was more of a skeptic than a doubter—which is quite reasonable considering the situation. The resurrected Jesus had appeared to the other disciples. When they told Thomas about it, he replied, “Unless I see in his hands the mark of the nails, and place my finger into the mark of the nails, and place my hand into his side, I will never believe” (John 20:25).

Like today, resurrections weren’t everyday occurrences in the ancient world. If they were, they wouldn’t be considered miracles. It was perfectly rational and intelligent for Thomas to ask for evidence to back up the claim of his fellow disciples. When Jesus finally appeared to Thomas, he didn’t shame him for his skepticism. Instead, Jesus said, “Put your finger here, and see my hands; and put out your hand, and place it in my side. Do not disbelieve, but believe” (John 20:27). It was only after offering evidence that Jesus instructed Thomas to believe.

Thomas asked for evidence, and Jesus delivered it.

Doubt toward God

In his book Doubting Toward Faith, Bobby Conway writes that doubt is directional. We can doubt toward God, or we can doubt away from him. If you’re struggling with doubt, I encourage you to doubt toward God. If you can’t think of what to pray, pray like the great men of faith who came before you:

  • Ask for help
  • Ask for reassurance
  • Ask for evidence

God is waiting to help and reassure you. The evidence for his existence and the truth of Christianity is plentiful. We don’t need to be afraid of doubt—the gospel can stand up to skepticism and questioning.

Jesus could handle the doubts and questions of the desperate father, John, and Thomas. He can handle yours too.

This article originally appeared here.

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