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COVID, Christians, and the Civil Magistrate

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It is now a little over four months since various lockdowns and quarantines began in the United States in response to the spread of the coronavirus. I haven’t written anything about it for a couple of reasons. First, I’m neither a medical professional nor an expert in contagious viruses. I do not believe that reading or watching news reports and reading a few Facebook posts qualifies me to speak authoritatively or even competently on the nature of this virus. Second, as with many other topics, discussion of this one has been thoroughly politicized, and it is almost impossible to write on politicized topics without being misread or misunderstood. However, I have received enough questions from my former and current students that it seems it might be worth putting some thoughts down in written form.

I don’t intend to comment directly on the virus, per se. Frankly, I have no idea what to say about it because the information I have been reading and hearing over the last four months has been extraordinarily confusing. What I read in one newspaper contradicts what I read in another, and what I read in both is contradicted by what I read the following day or the following week. Furthermore, I don’t have the expertise to weigh and evaluate the conflicting information, and I can’t gain such expertise overnight. In part, the changing information is understandable, because this is apparently a new virus and research is ongoing. Be that as it may, it is still confusing (at least to me), so I am not going to offer any opinions on the virus itself. I suppose everyone has a right to their opinion, but not everyone’s opinion is right. My opinion on the virus, if I was confident enough to form one, would almost certainly be off in one way or another. And what happens online, stays online . . . forever.

Rather than attempt to speak directly on the virus itself, what I would like to attempt to address is the way in which Christians respond to the ever-changing information and directives, especially those coming from the civil magistrate. I don’t pretend to have all the answers, but I know church leaders and individual Christians are having to think through everything they read and hear and make decisions for their families, churches, and others based on this information. It’s very difficult, and a lot of different questions have arisen.

Two questions that I’ve seen more than once in recent weeks concern face masks and congregational singing:

  • Should I obey or disobey if the local or state government mandates face masks in public places such as churches?
  • Are the restrictions on certain aspects of corporate worship such as singing an Acts 5 situation worthy of civil disobedience?

These kinds of questions are becoming more and more frequent in some contexts, at least in the United States. I am certain many are going to disagree with my thoughts on these issues. It may be that those who disagree are right and I am wrong.

Either way, it might be worth considering a few “big-picture” principles in the hope that it will at least provide some food for thought as believers wrestle with these things.

Our first principle is that God is our Creator and Redeemer, and His Word is our ultimate authority. As followers of Christ, we are to obey God. This principle is (or should be) non-controversial, so for the sake of space, I am not going to dwell on it at the moment. The problem is not so much the agreed upon concept that we are to obey God. The problem comes in when we start to speak about obeying lesser authorities such as civil magistrates. One text that regularly comes up in such discussions is Acts 5:29 “We must obey God rather than men.” Before discussing this text, we need to dispense with something that seems to be a common misunderstanding of it in some circles. Some seem to have taken “We must obey God rather than men” to mean we must never obey men. That, however, is not what Acts 5 is saying. The statement in Acts 5 is made in a context in which the apostles have been commanded by God to preach the Gospel and commanded by certain Jewish leaders not to preach the Gospel. The command of these human authorities directly contradicted the command of God. In that case, the apostles had to obey God rather than those men. They had to preach the Gospel and suffer whatever consequences this entailed at the hands of wicked men.

I think most Christians understand that God has instituted subordinate authorities in human life. There are relations of authority and submission between husbands and wives, parents and children, elders and church members, etc., and most Christians understand that. The difficulty seems to arise when we talk about civil magistrates. In the United States, there is a strong tradition of civil disobedience, and particularly since the Vietnam era, there has been a high level of distrust and skepticism about the civil magistrate – at least at the federal level. In many segments of the population in the U.S., there is a strong and often hostile anti-government sentiment. In some cases, this results in complete contempt for governmental authority and flouting of civil laws.

The question Christians need to ask is how we as followers of Christ are to think about the civil magistrate. What should our view be? Do we simply choose and baptize one of the world’s many competing political philosophies – philosophies expressing everything from virtual worship of the state to complete contempt for it? That is what many Christians have done. But is that what we should do? I am in agreement with John Calvin in that I do believe that we can learn many things from non-believers about such things as human government (Institutes, II.ii.12–13), but I also think we have to be self-critical when we consider their ideas. We have to make sure we don’t adopt ways of thinking that are contrary to basic biblical principles.

The Most Beautiful People Have Known Defeat

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According to world-renowned grief expert, Elisabeth Kübler-Ross, “The most beautiful people…are those who have known defeat, known suffering, struggle, and loss, and have found their way out of those depths.”

I remember my mentor and pastor, Tim Keller, saying something similar: “The strongest souls are the ones that have emerged out of suffering, and the most massive characters are the ones that have been seared with scars.”

One such soul is Joni Eareckson Tada. For more reasons than I am able to count, she has been a hero to Patti and me for years. Joni, the founder of a ministry for people with disabilities called “Joni and Friends,” has been paralyzed from the neck down since age seventeen due to a diving accident. Joni has also battled cancer more than once. She has endured seasons of wrestling and sorrow and “Why, Lord, Why?” because of her disability and illness. She has wrestled with chronic affliction and has emerged having also made her peace with God.

One of the things I love most about Joni, and one of the reasons why I keep going back to her writing to seek inspiration from her story, is that she has a vivid, hope-filled vision of heaven. She has a beautifully authentic way of conveying through her own story what C.S. Lewis once wrote, that “Heaven will work backwards and turn even…agony into a glory.” For example, Joni wrote the following reflection in response to a question that she, as a Christian, is asked often:

“If God is good and if God has the power to do anything, why hasn’t God healed you?”

To this, she said:

“Those steps [following Jesus] most often lead Christians not to miraculous, divine interventions but directly into the fellowship of suffering. In a way, I’ve been drawn closer to the Savior, even with this breast cancer. There are things about His character that I wasn’t seeing a year ago or even six months ago. That tells me I’m still growing and being transformed…When people ask about healing, I’m less interested in the physical and more interested in healing my heart. Pray that I get rid of my lazy attitude about God’s Word and prayer, of brute pride – set me free from self-centeredness. Those are more important, because Jesus thought they were more important.”

On her website, Joni summarizes these same sentiments in a single sentence, where she says that God will permit what he hates in order to accomplish what he loves. How can she say something like this? I suspect that it has to do with her deep awareness of the cross of Jesus, where God permitted what he hates (the violent marring and death of his only begotten Son) to accomplish what he loves (salvation for sinners, whom he loves).

Joni’s acceptance of her physical afflictions might trouble us, until we are also given a window into her thoughts about the New Heaven and New Earth, where, as the Bible says that there will be no more death, or mourning, or crying, or pain. In the New Heaven and New Earth, Jesus will make all things new, including frail, perishable, mortal and sometimes disabled human bodies (Revelation 21:1-5). Reflecting on her wheelchair, Joni said:

“I sure hope I can bring this wheelchair to heaven…I hope to bring it and put it in a little corner…then in my new, perfect, glorified body, standing on grateful glorified legs, I’ll stand next to my Savior…And I will say, ‘Jesus, do you see that wheelchair? You were right when you said that in this world we would have trouble, because that thing was a lot of trouble. But the weaker I was in that thing, the harder I leaned on you. And the harder I leaned on you, the stronger I discovered you to be. It never would have happened had you not given me the bruising of the blessing of that wheelchair.’ Then the real ticker-tape parade of praise will begin. And all of earth will join in the party.”

A friend of Joni’s named Lynn Wheeler, who was part of our church family here in Nashville, died a few years ago. Lynn, like Joni, had been confined to a wheelchair for over a decade, paralyzed from the neck down due to a car accident. Before her accident, Lynn ran marathons, played competitive tennis, coached swimming, and played the guitar. She was also a fully engaged as church member, friend, neighbor, wife, mother, and grandmother.

While many would grow cynical and angry toward God after such a harsh turn of events, Lynn dropped her anchor into God’s promises. I can honestly say that Lynn Wheeler—from her wheelchair—was one of the most joyful, faith-filled, affirming and other-focused people I have met. Her resolve that God is good in every circumstance, coupled with her optimism about the hope and future that God had prepared for her, led her to speak of her disability not chiefly as an affliction, but as her “assignment.” Lynn was determined that her disability would be an opportunity for God to receive glory in and through her.

According to Lynn’s loving and faithful husband, Doug, when she woke up after being sedated for seven weeks in ICU and he told her about the accident, the first thought that came to her mind was a verse from Psalm 139: “All the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be” (Psalm 139:16). Trusting in the faithfulness of God, she would later write:

“My body is a mess right now, but it is well with my soul…I know my days are ordained for me, and [God] will comfort and strengthen me when I am weak. I cling to His truth, though it doesn’t make sense. His plans for me continue, though everything has changed…I take joy in the little things; find protection in my limitations. I think of heaven more.”

Lynn’s favorite hymn, which became the central hymn at her funeral just as it had been the theme song of her life, includes these lyrics:

Whate’er my God ordains is right:
He is my Friend and Father;
He suffers naught to do me harm,
Though many storms may gather,
Now I may know both joy and woe,
Some day I shall see clearly
That He hath loved me dearly.

Whate’er my God ordains is right:
Here shall my stand be taken;
Though sorrow, need, or death be mine,
Yet I am not forsaken.
My Father’s care is round me there;
He holds me that I shall not fall:
And so to Him I leave it all.

A runner, tennis player, swimmer, guitarist, singer, friend, grandma, mother, and wife in a wheelchair for the rest of her days after a sudden accident took it all away. And her conclusion to the matter was…

I think of heaven more.

Whatever my God ordains is right.

It’s no wonder that at Lynn Wheeler’s funeral, Rev. Dr. David Filson declared that in her lifetime, her wheelchair became her pulpit.

Joni, Lynn, and others who draw near to God through their disabilities give me hope for the day when my own mental, emotional, and physical decline arrives. They give me hope that when I am hurting, God will be near, and that as my “outer man” wastes away, my “inner man” will be renewed and made strong (2 Corinthians 4). For, just as the Apostle Paul said about the disability that he referred to as his “thorn in the flesh,” God’s grace is sufficient in every circumstance, and his power is made perfect through our weakness.

Indeed, we are treasures in fragile jars of clay. We do not lose heart, because in comparison to “the weight of glory” that awaits us in the New Heaven and the New Earth, even our permanent afflictions are made temporary, and our heaviest burdens are lightened. For the things that we see and experience now—things like diving accidents and car crashes and wheelchairs—are temporary. And the things that we do not yet see or experience—things like renewed bodies and perfect souls and youthfulness that is renewed and will soar like the wings of an eagle—these things are eternal (2 Corinthians 4:7-18, 12:7-10; Isaiah 40:28-31).

Oh, how we need the Lynn’s and Joni’s of the world to help us see the world, help us see God, and help us see reality, through their eyes.

It may be that these beautifully broken friends represent the very perspective that we need in the sometimes-difficult journey of making our peace with God.

Because, truth be told, we are all disabled.

And we all need The Physician’s care.

This article about beautiful people have know defeat originally appeared here.

6 Marks of Healthy Sexuality

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What are the marks of healthy sexuality?

It’s not inappropriate to ask what is most pleasurable or most exciting for married couples, but meaningful lovemaking is so much more than creating greater sexual arousal and climaxes. That’s why it’s not a bad idea to also ask “What are the markers of a wholesome sexual experience that is accomplishing God’s relational intent?”

Markers of Healthy Sexuality

In my view, “healthy” protects happy pleasure; it doesn’t threaten it.

I write this post with a bit of pastoral concern: Lisa and I have met some wives (and the occasional husband) who felt tempted to compromise their faith and even their own sense of sanity because they realized after getting married that their spouse has some sexual hang-ups. At first, they thought the best thing to do was to “go along.” Going along never works; it just prolongs the inevitable crisis. Nursing an unhealthy inclination never makes things better; it just makes the way back a little longer and ultimately more difficult.

Seeking a healthy sexual relationship is a fair and good and wise and holy pursuit.

These six marks of healthy sexuality aren’t exhaustive; I’m sure there are many more, but here’s a short, non-scientific test to see how you and your spouse are doing in regards to sexual intimacy.

1. Healthy sexuality is always relational sex.

Any sexual experience divorced from relational connecting isn’t healthy sex. Pornography, voyeurism, predatory touching, any form of paying for sex, exhibitionism, group sex, anonymous sex or objectifying marital sex all have the same common denominator: sex divorced from relational connecting. Most forms of sexual deviancy include a separation between sex and emotional connection.

In a biblical view of sex, physical intimacy draws husband and wife ever closer together. After the intimacy is over they smile, hold on to a very pleasant shared memory, and their bond is deepened accordingly. Unhealthy sex further isolates an already damaged person. They “wake up” from the sexual experience, feel increased shame (making him/her a little less capable of authentic intimacy) and want to hide what just happened from everyone instead of remember it fondly with a special someone.

3-Point Evaluation to Test the Strength of Your Leadership

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Every leader has their own productive strengths, internal capacities, and external opportunities. That’s part of what makes each of us unique. And within that, there is great freedom and importance to be yourself in your leadership.

With that said, however, there are three broad leadership categories all leaders are measured in by those who follow them.

Before we dig into those three areas of leadership responsibility, I’d like to acknowledge an important fact.

All leaders are evaluated.

Even those who resist it.

(Evaluation is not the same as judgement. Evaluation is based on strengths with a bias of support and for improvement. Judgement is based on weakness with a bias for criticism or even condemnation.)

You may or may not have a formal annual review by a supervisor or a board of directors, but you are evaluated by those you follow you.

It’s not always even a conscious process, but don’t pretend it doesn’t matter.

It doesn’t mean people aren’t grateful for your leadership; being assessed is just part of being a leader.

You are assessed on your:

  • Decisions
  • Words
  • Attitudes
  • Actions
  • Results

The results of your evaluation range from the possibly surface sounding issue of whether or not someone likes you, to the deeper issues of whether or not that person actually trusts, respects, and follows you.

The danger in knowing you are evaluated is the potential for you to fall prey to performance or people-pleasing.

Which, of course, are to be avoided at all costs.

The best way to embrace the evaluation of your leadership by your congregation is to evaluate yourself first and more rigorously than your followers would.

The idea of your congregation evaluating you doesn’t mean you report to everyone. Still, it does acknowledge that people make daily decisions of whether or not they will continue to follow your leadership.

(If you have a direct supervisor, it’s also wise to evaluate yourself and take action on your personal growth before your supervisor does.)

Let’s dive into the three broad categories of responsibility for which you are assessed for both capability and results.

3 Categories of Leadership Responsibility

(Note: This post acknowledges the elements of spiritual life and character as foundational to these three categories.)

1) Relational Savvy

Healthy, meaningful, and productive relationships always begin with connection, and that requires trust.

I like the word “savvy” because it says so much. It includes confidence, knowledge, and ability. It provides perception and understanding.

All of those ingredients are part of being self-aware as a leader.

The process works like this.

Heart ➡️ Connection ➡️ Trust ➡️ Follow

Here’s a brief summary of how these four words work together.

If you lead with your heart, people can connect with you. If people connect with you, they will trust you, and if they trust you, they will follow you.

If you read this process in reverse, it gains even greater clarity and insight.

People will not follow anyone they do not trust. They cannot trust someone they don’t connect with, and they can’t connect with someone with whom they cannot find their heart.

I’ve written an entire post on this, and you can read it here.

Zoom Meetings Are Here To Stay: Tips For Great Zooming

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I have used Zoom meetings for a number of years. During my tenure at Leadership Network, there was never a week and seldom a day that didn’t include a Zoom meetings. So, when so much of the world shifted to Zoom over the past few weeks it was completely comfortable for me.

I’ve learned that is not the case for many. We had staff members that had never heard of it. Deacons and Bible study leaders needed coaching in how to use the platform. Many in our church have scrambled quickly to figure it out so they can continue to be engaged.

Just this morning, I talked with a couple of church leaders who still aren’t using it, simply because they don’t know how. We only know what we know, right?

I’m a simple guy. I once wrote an eBook on Evernote. It was so simple I couldn’t believe people would even buy it. They did. And many said it was helpful.

This IS NOT going to be a textbook on how to use Zoom. I’m certain you can Google or search on YouTube and find something better than what I’m going to share. I just have a platform and a few readers, so I thought I’d share some thoughts from my experience. I hope it’s helpful.

5 Tips for Great Zoom meetings:

Have an agenda.

Hopefully you would do this for an in-person meeting, but it may even be more important for Zoom meetings. Know in advance where you want to go with the meeting. This will also keep you from putting people on the spot; like you shouldn’t in an in-person meeting. Give people advance notice if you are going to call on them for something specific.

Facilitate the meeting.

Even though it is virtual, someone still needs to lead the meeting. Make sure there is a “host” or someone who will make sure progress is made towards the agenda. No one likes meetings that continue when the business is done. That’s even truer when you’re online. When you’ve completed the agenda the “leave meeting” option is your friend.

Don’t be afraid of silence.

Sometimes the technology makes us think we have to have constant “noise”, but it’s okay to have moments where no one is talking. See the meeting as your “room”. Imagine you are there in person and people are in chairs around the table.

Give everyone a chance to talk.

Introverts shut down when meetings are in person, but that’s especially true in a zoom room. Introverts will not be likely to talk over others. You’ll have to give them a place to talk. That’s also where some moments of silence can help. (I wrote a post about engaging introverts in meetings. It might be even more applicable now.)

Find and learn some important features:

Record. This allows you to save the meeting and share it with anyone who was not able to attend. You can find record on the bottom of the screen.

Chat. Located on the bottom of the screen, the chat feature allows you to share written content or provide links to other resources. This is also a great way for introverts to provide input.

Mute. This feature is in the bottom left of the screen. I find it best if everyone mutes unless they are talking. This helps you avoid background noise or interruptions.

Gallery View. In the top right hand corner is the “speaker view” or “gallery view”. I recommend the gallery view so you can see everyone at once. If it is a larger group you may have more than one screen of people. You can toggle back and forth with a tab that is usually in the middle of the page on the left or right of the screen.

Share screen. Also located in the bottom of the screen is a “Share Screen” option. This is what it sounds like. You can pull something up on your computer and instead of seeing you the participants will see your screen. There is also an option in their for a Whiteboard. I’ve just started using this feature but it really is helpful if you are like me and “think” as you draw/write on the board.

 

This article on Zoom meetings originally appeared here, and is used by permission.

How I Found Out There Was Another Woman—And Moved Forward

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The moment I found out that my greatest fear had come upon me, I was sitting at a desk talking on the phone to a friend who had also been a co-worker of my first husband.

I called her to ask her if she knew what was going on with him. How had this man who had proposed to me—twice!—had children with me, and given me his name, chosen to leave me with no real reason other than “I don’t think we belong together anymore”?

Although I was very suspicious that there was someone else, my heart and mind did not want to go there.

We had seen numerous professional counselors, ministers and friends and he continued to deny that there was anyone else in the picture or in his life.

I wanted to believe him, but something kept nagging at me that there was more than what my eyes were seeing.

I asked God to reveal to me anything that was hidden but needed to be revealed. And within about nine days, He did just that.

As I called this friend and asked a bold question (“Do you know if he is having an affair?”) I honestly imagined her replying with some level of shock as she would say, “No way, Shelley. He is going through something, but he would NEVER do that to you or the girls.”

But she didn’t say that.

Instead, the other end of the line got really quiet as she said:

“I’m so sorry. Yes, he is.”

I literally had to concentrate on breathing in and out. I cannot even begin to describe the storm of emotions and thoughts going through me. Every nerve felt exposed. I wonder, if I did not have two precious little lives counting on me, what I might have done in that moment.

But God …

Moving on when he moved out was a moment-by-moment process of relying on God’s strength to get me through.

What got me through this and into a much better season? To keep this brief, I’ll bullet point some major “columns” that held me together while my world fell apart:

Does God Give You a Map or Compass?

Historically, there have been two tools to help guide us in our travels. One is a map, and the other is a compass.

They are two very different things.

A map is a drawn out picture of freeways and highways, roads and routes, that help you see how to get from point “A” to point “B.”

But as Seth Godin once noted, the map keeps getting redrawn. Technology keeps changing the routes we take to get to our destinations (and projects).

It doesn’t pay to memorize the route, because it’s going to change soon.

The compass, on the other hand, is more relevant than ever.

A compass gives a sense of direction, but not specificity. It tells us “due north,” but not which turn to take on the way. It keeps us heading in the right direction, but the actual steps taken are ours to determine.

So maps give steps, but those steps are ever-changing and often wrong; a compass gives us direction that never fails, and leaves it to us to make judgments as to how best to put one foot in front of another.

What does God promise those who follow Him?

Certainly not a map.

Just ask Abraham.

The Bible tells us that when God called him to leave his country, it was simply “to the land I will show you” (Gen. 12:1, NIV).

Actually, that’s not even a compass. That’s a personal Guide.

So perhaps the point is to form ourselves in Christ in such a way that we have an internal sense of true north, but then place our lives in the hands of the One who will guide each and every step.

Sounds like a plan to me.   

Feelings Are Real. But Are They Always the Truth?

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There’s a new movie coming out about James Brown, who sang the hit song called “I Feel Good.” He’d wail, “I FEEEEEEEEEL good. I knew that I would now.” And of course in his song “Happy” Pharrell Williams gives us some deep insights into that emotion:

Because I’m happy
Clap along if you feel like a room without a roof
Because I’m happy
Clap along if you feel like happiness is the truth
Because I’m happy
Clap along if you know what happiness is to you
Because I’m happy
Clap along if you feel like that’s what you wanna do

Have you ever thought about how many feelings we can have? God has created humans with the capacity for an incredibly wide range of subtle feelings. We can feel happy, playful, calm, confident, courageous, peaceful, joyful, comfortable, optimistic, delighted, encouraged, satisfied, jubilant. We can also feel angry, afraid, depressed, hopeless, confused, hurt, sad.

Our culture is feeling-oriented and feeling-driven. Of course, Nike tells us “Just Do It” whether we feel like it or not. But popular music tells us we can’t help falling in love, and can’t help it when the feeling’s gone. We say “I’m just not feeling it.” Rather than saying, “I believe we should do this,” we say, “I feel like this is the way to go.” Even as believers we use “feeling” language a lot – “I feel like God wants me to go into music.”

I don’t have anything against feelings. They are a gift from God. But I’m grateful that early on in my Christian life I heard a truth that helped me immensely:

Feelings are real but they are not necessarily the truth.

Feelings are real – we truly experience them. We don’t imagine them. They are real. But they are notnecessarily the truth. They may be the truth but they aren’t always the truth. If we believe in Jesus Christ and feel like God loves us and accepts us that is the truth. If we feel condemned or or that God has abandoned us that is not the truth.

Feelings are a poor barometer of the truth.

As believers we live by faith, not by sight. Our circumstances may appear to indicate that God is not for us or that he is giving us too much to handle. Yet we live by faith in God’s word which says despite our circumstances God is for us and is not giving us too much to handle.

So it is with our feelings. We live by faith in God’s word not what our feelings tell us. We may feel hopeless. We may feel like we can’t go on another day. The challenge for believers is always what are we going to believe– our feelings or God’s word?

We must believe and obey God’s word no matter how we feel.

I’m sure that Jesus did not “feel” like going to the cross for us. But Jesus didn’t live by his feelings. He obeyed his Father whether he felt like it or not.

We may feel like we can’t go on. We may feel like it is impossible to forgive someone. We probably won’t feel like rejoicing in the midst of affliction or giving thanks in everything but we can and we must obey God’s word.

Of course to be able to live by faith in God’s word we need to know God’s word. If we regularly take in God’s word and meditate on his promises, our faith will increase and we won’t be dependent on our feelings.

So remember:

Feelings are real but they are not necessarily the truth.

Feelings are a poor barometer of the truth.

We walk by faith and not by feelings.

I hope that you feel great today. I hope you feel God’s love and pleasure today. I hope you feel happy and joyful and thankful. But if these feelings elude you, don’t be discouraged. Thank God anyway. Praise him. Ask him for the feelings you desire. And believe and obey his word whether you feel like it or not.

‘Shame on You’ Todd White Says to Critics in Sermon Addressing His Repentance

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Evangelist Todd White made waves last week for saying that he was repenting for not preaching the whole gospel. The preacher, who has previously been known for his street evangelism and miracle-working ministry that some have categorized as prosperity gospel preaching, has been speaking about sin, God’s judgment, and the need to repent. Now, in a new sermon he gave at Lifestyle Christianity Center in Texas on Sunday, White says that while his conviction has grown to preach the gospel and to “wake up a sleeping church,” it is his critics, not him, who need to realign their priorities. 

“To say that someone’s wrong and to not get on your face and cry out for their soul…you actually hate me,” White said emphatically, alluding to his critics. These people, claim White, love their own opinions over the person they criticize. “If you have a problem with someone, you better be praying for them,” White told the congregation. 

While White insisted the subject of his sermon was not a “defense of Todd,” he spent quite a bit of his hour+ message addressing the issue of criticism—both his personal experience with it and also what the Bible says about it. White said his new conviction and seeming shift in ministry focus is the result of him spending a lot of time with God and feeling he’s “about ready to explode” with the new things he’s been learning.

Todd White Addresses the American Gospel Documentary

White began his sermon with a question: “Why would people join a church that’s fighting against itself or hypocritical?” Before he mentioned his critics, White said:

If any of you think that you know it all about the Gospel, you’re deceived. I don’t care who you are; I don’t care what theologian you are; I don’t care if you’re a doctor of theology; you’ve got your masters of divinity. If you think you know it all, I’m sorry you’re wrong.

Next, White addressed the makers of the film American Gospel, which was made available on Netflix in May and which portrays White as ascribing to and preaching the prosperity gospel. The film shows clips of preachers such as White, Joel Osteen, and Benny Hinn preaching—either on television or at live events—and essentially breaks apart their theology using interviews with other preachers—mostly reformed preachers—such as Costi Hinn, Matt Chandler, and Jackie Hill Perry. In the sermon, White says “not one” of the people involved in the film called to talk to him while they were making it. He said he was portrayed as guilty by association due to his being friends with Bill Johnson, Kenneth Copeland, and Benny Hinn. “Now all of a sudden Todd’s the biggest heretic on the planet,” White said dramatically. He goes on to compare what the filmmakers did to murder and racism:

Shame on you for not praying for me or talking to me but making a movie thinking that you’re God’s police. You’re going to stand before a Holy God and answer for your life of judgment and hate and it’s called murder. It’s no different than racism. It’s the same thing! It’s called no love. You have no love. If you think that being God’s police officer is love, you’re wrong because you haven’t prayed with vehement tears.

White then asks, hypothetically, whether his critics are “really going after God like you say you are?” He then answers the question in relation to what he does: “My wife will tell you that I love the Lord. She sees me in my prayer closet. She sees how I talk. My kids will tell you that I love the Lord. I don’t settle for anything less than Jesus.” 

Emphasizing this point, White said he’s come to a “new awareness” of his role in God’s Kingdom:

I have stepped into a new awareness of why I’m really here. I feel like I just got saved. I feel like I’ve just met Jesus. The truth is if I didn’t meet Jesus when I got saved, I would have continued in sin. But I’m very concerned for a large majority of the body of Christ that says that they’ve met him and yet lives in sin. I’m very, very, very concerned—my heart is broken—because Jesus says all or none. He says gather or scatter. He says for or against. …He didn’t say come to the altar all of you who have messed up. He said come to the altar all of you who want to give up on this life and enter into a life of eternity.

Billy Graham—Not White Supremacist—to Represent NC in US Capitol

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North Carolina is one step closer to replacing the statue of Charles Brantley Aycock, a known white supremacist, that currently resides in the U.S. Capitol’s National Statuary Hall Collection. A state legislative committee just gave sculptor Chas Fagan the green light to move forward with creating a statue of the Rev. Billy Graham to represent the state instead. 

“We wanted (the statue) to be someone who really made a significant impact in the lives of the state and the country and the world,” said former State Rep. Dan Soucek, who is a Republican. “When people from all over the country and all over the world walk through Washington and say, North Carolina has two choices to be in here, what do we want them to be?”

Removing the Statue of Aycock

Every U.S. state is represented in Statuary Hall by two historical figures (North Carolina’s other statue is of Zebulon Baird Vance, who was a governor and Confederate military officer). Even though the move to replace Aycock’s statue comes amid widespread calls to get rid of racially offensive memorials throughout the nation, Soucek’s plans have been in the works for several years. In fact, it was in 2015 that Soucek co-sponsored a bill calling for the statue’s removal and suggesting a statue of Graham as a replacement. 

The process of replacing the statue of Aycock, which has been in the Capitol building since 1932, began in April 2018 when Soucek was named to a Statuary Hall Selection Committee. He told reporter John Newsom that he got the idea for the bill when he was in Statuary Hall and a constituent pointed out Aycock’s legacy of white supremacy. Later, another constituent suggested replacing that statue with one of Billy Graham.

Even though the current racial unrest in the U.S. was not the catalyst for replacing the statue of Aycock, Soucek believes current events will allow the process to move faster than it would have otherwise. The House Appropriations Committee recently introduced a bill calling for the removal of all Confederate statues or busts in public areas of the U.S. Capitol building, and the bill mentioned Aycock specifically. While the House voted to pass the bill on July 22nd, it is not yet clear whether the Senate will consider it, nor whether President Trump would sign the bill if it came to him.

Regardless, North Carolina is moving forward with its own plans. Now that Soucek’s committee has approved a two-foot model of the statue of Graham, sculptor Chas Fagan will move forward with creating the life-sized one, reports Religion News Service (RNS). Once Fagan’s new model is complete, a congressional committee will have to approve it before it is cast in bronze. Fagan, who is based in Charlotte, has been commissioned for several other high-profile pieces, such as the statue of President Ronald Reagan that is in the Rotunda of the U.S. Capitol and the statue of St. John Paul II that is outside Washington’s Saint John Paul II National Shrine.

The Charlotte Observer reports that Fagan will depict Graham holding a Bible in one hand while pointing to a passage of Scripture with another. In addition to Graham’s name and the state’s name, the base of the statue will have crosses and Bible verses etched on it. 

A Tale of Two Men

Charles Brantley Aycock was an outspoken proponent of white supremacy and played a key role in the Wilmington Massacre of 1898. That incident featured an actual coup d’état in which white leaders overthrew the local government leaders of Wilmington, burned the offices of a Black newspaper, and murdered an unknown number of Black citizens. After those leaders gained control over the city government, they passed the first Jim Crow legislation in the state. 

Once removed, the statue of Aycock is expected to be moved to the site of his birthplace in Wayne County.

Billy Graham, who passed away in 2018 at the age of 99, stands in contrast to Aycock. Graham is primarily known for his legacy of evangelism, as well as for being a spiritual advisor to many U.S. presidents, no matter their political leanings. Soucek sees Billy Graham as an obvious choice to represent the state of North Carolina. “From a Christian religious point of view, Billy Graham is an undeniable worldwide icon,” he said. It is worth noting that Graham has two highways in the state named after him and the Billy Graham Library is a popular tourist attraction. 

According to RNS, no state money will go toward Billy Graham’s statue, the cost of which is estimated at $650,000. Rather, the Billy Graham Evangelistic Association is partnering with the state to raise money to fund it.  

Franklin Graham, Billy Graham’s son and President and CEO of the North Carolina-based Samaritan’s Purse, has seen a rendering of the statue and observed, “My father would be very pleased that people thought of him in this way, but he would want people to give God the glory and not himself.”

Do You Need to Update Your Kidmin Wellness Policies and Procedures?

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As we begin to slowly reopen our children’s ministry, we are updating our wellness and sick policies. I wanted to share them in case your church is in this process as well. Our policies are a work in process, so I would also LOVE your input and know what you are doing. Please comment and let’s make this a collaboration!

Updated Wellness Policies

We ask that your child please not attend if:

  • They have had a fever in the last 72 hours.
  • They are exhibiting any symptoms of illness, including:
    • Any flu-like symptoms
    • Cough
    • Shortness of breath or difficulty breathing
    • Fatigue
    • Muscle or body aches
    • Headache
    • New loss of taste or smell
    • Sore throat
    • Congestion or runny nose
    • Nausea or vomiting
    • Diarrhea
  • They have been exposed to someone with a positive Covid-19 diagnosis within the past 14 days.

Updated Wellness Procedures

  • Volunteers will be temperature checked
  • Small groups – 6 – 8 kids.
  • Sanitizing in between services and alternating toys each service as much as possible
  • Limiting shared supplies as much as possible.
  • We will not be serving snack during our 45 minute service.

This article originally appeared here.

The 3 Big Benefits of Church Online vs Attending Church in Person

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Our family normally attends Red Rocks Church here in the great state of Colorado. But, for the last few months, “attending” has been “logging in” and watching church online.

While there are some churches in our state that have started to meet in person again (with limited numbers), our church has chosen to continue to have church online for awhile longer. After all, online viewership is through the roof!

IMG_5066Of course, there’s nothing like meeting together as a church family. From fellowship in the lobby to worship in the sanctuary to going out afterwards with another family to grab lunch to gathering together during the week for small group, there’s something about the in-room experience that can never be truly and fully duplicated online.

But, instead of whining about what we miss attending in person church services, the Stier family has chosen to play the advantages of experiencing church online.

Here are three Big Benefits of attending church online:

Big Benefit #1:  We get to roll out of bed, log on and experience church with little effort.

Sure, there have been a few Sundays we have missed online services since Covid-19 struck. Once in awhile, different ones of us have had to watch the services at different times. But, more often than not, we have watched Sunday morning services together as a family since this whole pandemic started. One of the reasons is that it’s so darn easy just to tune in and watch.

How often do you get to watch church in your pajamas? How often can you go and refill your coffee right in the middle of the church service without someone glaring at you? How often can you lay down on the couch during the second point of the sermon?

Church online is easy.

Big Benefit #2:  We often have amazing conversations during the sermon.

I love it when my two teenaged kids ask questions like, “What does he mean by that?” or “Where does the Bible say that?” or “Is that really true?” or anything that forces us as parents to open the Scriptures and dive in. One of the great thing about online services is that you can put them on pause and get into a conversation about what is actually being taught right at that very moment.

Of course you can have those conversations after regular in-person church services in the car ride home too. But, by the time you leave the sanctuary, say your goodbye’s in the foyer and walk across the parking lot to get to. your car and rush off to lunch, the questions/comments you may have had during the sermon most likely have been forgotten.

Our Sunday am online experience has led to some really good theological conversations as a family and, on a really good Sunday, a few debates. Our living room has become a kind of a seminary class where there is more than just one-way teaching going on.

And that is a good thing.

Big Blessing #3:  We leave with an action plan for the week.

Discovery Bible Study has a list of questions that they encourage every person in their Bible Studies to ask and answer. It’s all designed to lead to, what they have nicknamed, “Obedience based Bible Studies.” After all God calls us to “be doers of the Word and not hearers only” according to James 1:22.

In that spirit, we all answer three questions every Sunday after the sermon is preached Here they are:

1)  What did you learn (or what were you reminded of) from today’s sermon?

2)  How are you going to apply what you learned this week?

3)  Who are you going to tell (either what you learned or about Jesus)?

Because the sermon is so top-of-mind for all of us these are easy questions to ask and answer on the spot.  After we have gone around the circle and answered these questions we finish with a family prayer for strength to live out what we have learned and that God would give each of us the opportunity to share the Gospel with someone that week.

While we can’t wait to get back to normal church services (especially the post pandemic ones where hand sanitizer and masks are no longer needed or encouraged) we are making the most of our online time as a family.

Apply these three to your online viewing experience and you can receive these big blessings as well!

This article about church online vs. attending church originally appeared here.

6 Tips on How Pastors Can Help Others Discover Their Spiritual Gifts

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The more we pastors help people discover, develop, and deploy their spiritual gifts, the healthier our churches become. In this post I suggest 6 tips that can help others discover their spiritual gifts.

1. Ask, “What do I enjoy doing/what do I do well?”

A good indicator of where a person’s giftedness lies may be found in activities that give him or her joy and satisfaction and interests them. Encourage others to get in touch with spheres of service that produce a flow of inner joy, excitement and energy. Helping others find what God made them for produces great joy.

2. Ask, “If I could I would…”

If I could do ______ and time and money were no issue, what would I do?  If I knew I couldn’t fail what would I do to make a difference?  If I could I would address what concerns, area of peoples’ lives, or areas in the church to make things better or improve things?

3. Pray.

What do you sense in your heart is your gift? Where do you get a sense of peace?

4. Take a test drive.

Help others jump in and commit for 6 months in a potential ministry to discover if it is a fit.

5. Look for results.

When you exercise your gifts and you are fitted in the right place in your ministry, you will see effectiveness. God will bring about spiritual results in the lives of people because when when we use our gifts, we become a channel through which God’s Spirit flows.

6. Seek the advice of wise people.

Seek out gifted people in the area where you think your spiritual gifts may lie. Place yourself under their tutelage. The affirmation of others often can indicate giftedness.

How have you helped others discover their spiritual gifts?

This article originally appeared here.

Stephen Arterburn: How Porn Led to Actual Death in My Life

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At a virtual conference held by Promise Keepers this weekend, author and speaker Stephen Arterburn challenged men to stop making excuses and to live fully into their callings as men of God. Arterburn shared from his own life how the excuses he once made to look at pornography influenced his decision in college to pressure a woman into getting an abortion.

“On any given Sunday,” said Stephen Arterburn, “of us men that are sitting in church, more of us have looked at pornography than have opened God’s word to look at his truth.” Arterburn believes that if more men cared about God’s word and his kingdom than they did about looking at porn, “We’d see the kingdom of heaven here on earth.”

Stephen Arterburn: No More Excuses 

Stephen Arterburn is the founder of New Life Ministries and the co-author of Every Man’s Battle: Winning the War on Sexual Temptation One Victory at a Time. He was one of several speakers who participated in Promise Keepers’ virtual event, which was originally intended to take place at a stadium in the Dallas area. Instead, 500 churches in the U.S. and men from 65 countries joined online to hear from speakers including Dr. Tony Evans, John Eldredge, Luis Palau, Bob Goff, and Mark Batterson

Arterburn described his childhood as “a sad, sad growing up” that was shaped by strict legalism and a constant struggle with his weight. He was exposed to porn as a young boy when he would visit his grandfather’s office and see the pinups of women that were on the walls. Through that experience, Arterburn learned that women were not equal to men, but were objects to be used.

Later, Arterburn attended Baylor University and after graduating, was asked to speak at the college’s chapel. He decided to share that while attending the university, he had gotten a girl pregnant and then paid for her to have an abortion. Arterburn now sees a direct link between the fact that he pursued an abortion and the fact that pornography taught him to see women as objects.

“You see,” he told conference viewers, “when you objectify women and some woman gets pregnant, well, it’s just an object. It’s not a person. And so I just moved, did what I thought you needed to do to get rid of it…But it wasn’t an object. It was my baby.”

When he used to look at porn, Arterburn would rationalize his behavior by telling himself that he wasn’t hurting anybody and that what he was doing was not that bad. “Imagine your standard being ‘It’s not that bad,” said Arterburn. God’s standard is Ephesians 5:3, which says, “Among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God’s holy people.” But his mindset was what Proverbs 4:12 describes when it says, “There is a way that appears to be right, but in the end it leads to death.” 

Pornography not only brings death to the people around the one using it but also harms the person looking at it. “Pornography, it literally neuters a man,” said Arterburn. “It doesn’t make you more of a man. You can’t have sex with a real, live woman after pornography has gotten hold of you.” 

Back the Blue Rally Accused of Intimidating Church in Dallas

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After a pro-police caravan stopped at Dallas-area Friendship West Baptist Church, which is known for being active in the social-justice movement, the pastor demanded an apology and urged caravan organizers to work toward racial unity.

Sunday noon, almost 1,000 vehicles participating in a Back the Blue Cruise entered the parking lot of Friendship West Baptist Church, which displays a large Black Lives Matter banner. Cruise organizers say they’d received permission to use the lot as a rest stop, but the pastor refutes that, saying they lied to his staff and tried to intimidate his congregation.

Malicious Act or Misunderstanding?

The Rev. Frederick Douglass Haynes III, senior pastor of Friendship West Baptist Church, says church staff had approved a Black Lives Matter rally on church property but not a pro-police event. “The mess that went down this morning was an act of intimidation,” he said in a video posted online. “They know good and well that they lied.”

Haynes says Back the Blue participants waved Confederate flags and Trump 2020 flags before being forced out. “As far as I’m concerned,” he says, “they heard the words of their racist commander-in-chief in Washington, D.C., and are trying to intimidate us.” Multiple megachurches in the area have large parking lots, the pastor notes, yet the caravan chose theirs—the only one proclaiming that Black Lives Matter. “We’re the only [church] whose pastor is always out when it comes to these kinds of rallies and takes a stand against injustice, so I think the answer is real clear.”

But Back the Blue organizer Nathan Abrams says it was all a misunderstanding. “One of my organizers knew one of the pastors at the church and we had gotten approval, from what I understand, from one of the pastors,” he says. “I don’t know where the communication breakdown was, but I do want to say to that church from the bottom of my heart, I apologize for any kind of misconceptions or misunderstandings.” Abrams says he didn’t expect such a large turnout, either.

Pastor: Invest in Our Communities

Pastor Haynes, who promises to “get to the bottom” of what happened, says the Back the Blue rally “in no way reflects the mission and ministry” of his congregation. On its website, Friendship-West declares: “It is in our DNA to fight for justice, with a focus on social, economic, gender, food, and environmental justice for everyone.”

In videos about Sunday’s incident, Haynes pulls no punches. “If you ain’t saying Black Lives Matter, you might as well have a Klan rally,” he says. “Now is the time to divest from policing systems and invest in communities. You want your lives to matter, Blue? Then that’s what you do.”

Henri Broady, a Black man who co-organized the Back the Blue event, says it wasn’t a protest, and political flags were banned. When he noticed a Confederate flag, Broady says he addressed that situation personally. He lives near Friendship-West but says he’s never noticed the church’s Black Lives Matter banner.

Back the Blue participant Wayne Preddy says he just wanted to express support for local law enforcement. “As a community, we can all come together as one and show support for the good police,” he says. “Not the bad apples but the good police who really want to protect everybody.”

Orlando Magic Jonathan Isaac: Kneeling Isn’t the Answer; The Gospel Is

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While every other player and coach on the Orlando Magic was kneeling during the playing of the national anthem before a game Friday, July 31, Jonathan Isaac stood. Other players and coaches took a knee to peacefully protest police brutality against black lives in America. But Isaac, who struck a lonely and contrasting figure in his jersey, became the first NBA player to stand during the anthem this season.

The power forward, who averages over 12 points in just under 30 minutes a game for the Magic, also decided against wearing the Black Lives Matter t-shirt that every other player has been wearing over their jersey during pre-game warmups and ceremonies.

The Orlando Magic defeated the Brooklyn Nets 128-118, and saw Jonathan Isaac score 16 points in 16 minutes. In an interview Isaac gave after the game, he was asked, “you didn’t kneel during the anthem, but you also didn’t wear a ‘Black Lives Matter’ shirt. Do you believe that black lives matter?”

Jonathan Isaac Thinks the Gospel Is More Helpful Than Kneeling 

Isaac (22), who became an ordained minister this past spring and is African American, responded, “Absolutely. A lot went into my decision.” He went on to say, “kneeling or wearing a ‘Black Lives Matter’ t-shirt don’t go hand-in-hand with supporting black lives…I do believe that black lives matter, putting that shirt on or kneeling doesn’t make me support black lives or not.”

My life has been supported through the gospel.

The Magic’s forward explained that his life has been supported through the gospel and Jesus Christ. Isaac continued to then give the gospel: “Everyone is made in the image of the God, and we all fall short of God’s glory….We all make mistakes, and I think that the gospel of Jesus Christ, is that there is grace for us. And that Jesus came and died for our sins and that if we if all will come to an understanding of that, and understand that God wants to have a relationship with us…that we can get past skin color, we can get past all the things in world that is messed up; jacked up.”

“Racism isn’t the only thing that plagues our society, that plagues our nation, that plagues our world,” he said. “We want to to get past not only racism but everything that plagues us as a society. I feel like the answer to it is the gospel.”

The reporter followed up with asking, “Can you explain further what religion has to do with kneeling for the anthem to protest against racism and police brutality…the correlation between the two?”

Black lives are supported through the gospel.

Isaac graciously answered, “Honestly I don’t really see it as religion for myself. I see it as a relationship with God, through His Son who died for our sins. Kneeling and putting on a t-shirt, for me personally isn’t the answer. For me, black lives are supported through the gospel. All lives are supported through the gospel.” He ended his answer with, “We all fall short of God’s glory and at the end of the day, whoever will humble themselves and seek God and repent of their sins that we could see it in a different light…see our mistakes and people’s mistakes in a different light…that it would help bring us closer together, and get past skin color and anything else on the surface that doesn’t really deal with the hearts of men and women.”

He explained he met with his teammates prior to the game and discussed why he wasn’t wearing the ‘Black Lives Matter’ t-shirt or kneeling, and they said he had their respect. Isaac emphasized he wasn’t breaking with the team to try and stand out, but that he was trying to be a humble servant of Jesus.

John MacArthur Disappointed in Churches Shutting Down; ‘They Don’t Know What a Church Is’

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John MacArthur, lead pastor of Grace Community Church Sun Valley, California, recently made waves by announcing his church would remain open despite the second round of closures ordered by the state government of California. Over the weekend, MacArthur doubled down on his position and said he’s not “nervous” about the situation the church is in. Rather, he sees the whole thing as an “incredible opportunity” to be the church during this trying time.

“What is disappointing to me is how few churches are standing up. How few large churches or even Christian leaders are willing to say ‘We’re not going to bow to Caesar. We’re going to serve our Lord,'” MacArthur said during an update video posted to the church’s account.

“Large churches are shutting down until—they say January,” MacArthur said incredulously. “They don’t know what a church is and they don’t shepherd their people,” MacArthur added. “Significant leaders aren’t giving any strength and courage to the church. They’re not standing up…rising up…and calling on Christians to be the church in the world,” he lamented.

While it’s not clear which churches MacArthur was talking about, some big churches such as J.D. Greear’s Summit Church in North Carolina and Andy Stanley’s North Point Church in Atlanta, Georgia have recently announced they won’t be opening for in-person services until next year.

Grace Community Church Sun Valley Will Serve God

MacArthur stated that for 51 years, Grace Community Church has remained faithful to the preaching and teaching of God’s Word and because of that they have seen God’s divine providence.

The church isn’t unsympathetic to those members who don’t feel safe gathering just yet, though. MacArthur emphasized members can continue to stay home and watch the live stream if, for instance, they have compromised immune systems. Additionally, the church is adding outdoor seating starting this coming Sunday to accommodate around 1,000 people who may still be concerned about being in closed areas with others. MacArthur said, “we want to make people feel welcomed.” The church will provide hand sanitizer, masks, and water to those choosing to sit outside.

The Church May Face Legal Problems

Franklin Graham posted on Twitter shortly after Grace Community Church published the update from MacArthur. Graham wrote, After Pastor @JohnMacArthur announced that his congregation at @GraceComChurch in Sun Valley, CA, would be assembling in obedience to God’s Word, he received a letter from LA county officials threatening repercussions such as fines & possible arrest.”

This isn’t the first time that Grace Community Church has gone through legal trials. The church was sued back in the 70’s and 80’s for clergy malpractice. After ten years, the Supreme Court upheld the ruling of California’s Supreme Court and found Grace Community Church not guilty of clergy malpractice. MacArthur claims the suit was an attempt to stop them from teaching Scripture.

During his update, MacArthur addressed another point of controversy that has come up recently. MacArthur said some people are talking about the church receiving stimulus money from the federal government earlier this spring. The church did receive a check, however MacArthur says they sent the money back.

John MacArthur’s and Grace Community Church’s statement “Christ, not Caesar, Is Head of the Church” has garnered over 21 thousand signatures, with several thousand of those being pastors and churches, MacArthur said.

An Important Update From Our Pastor

An important update from Pastor John about what’s happening on our church campus on Sundays.

Posted by Grace Community Church on Friday, July 31, 2020

5 Things COVID-19 Is Teaching Us About Sunday School

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It may seem hard to fathom, but a microscopic virus is doing some good things in the church’s most important ministry – Sunday School. It’s difficult to say when churches will officially return to the campus to reopen Bible study groups (some are already doing this – others are on the verge – and still others are watching and waiting for their opportunity to restart groups on campus). In the meantime, COVID-19 is teaching us 5 things about Sunday School.

If we’ll all pay attention and learn from these things, Sunday School can be stronger and more vibrant than ever – if we are paying attention. Has COVID-19 taught you anything about your church’s Sunday School ministry? I’ve come to understand five things about Sunday School, especially relevant in our COVID-19 world. When groups return to the church campus, here are some things we’ll need to keep in mind:

1. Groups will need to intentionally reclaim people.

It’s hard to believe, but some adult Bible study groups have not met since March! Whether because of technology challenges or a belief that the church would quickly return to the church campus, some groups have gone 16 to 18 weeks without meeting. Even now there are reports of “Zoom fatigue” among those people meeting online, and attendance in those virtual Bible studies has diminished. Some Christians are growing out of the habit of meeting regularly with their Bible study groups. The church is going to have to reclaim its own members when Bible study groups restart on our church campuses. Savvy group leaders are reaching out to every member on their group’s ministry list to maintain contact and to encourage them to stay plugged in prior to the return to on-campus groups. It’s almost unthinkable, but we are going to have to go plow our own fields and harvest our own people, without losing sight of the thousands of people all around our churches who are not members of any church or any Bible study group! There’s going to be a lot of needed ministry, and it’s going to require us to reclaim people who once sat down the row or across the circle from us.

2. Group and individual Bible study is more important than most of us realized.

Church leaders are discovering (or rediscovering) that groups are just as important – and some would say even more important – than the church’s worship gathering. Robby Gallaty, pastor of a large church in the Nashville area, said in his book Growing Up, a book on Christian discipleship, that preaching to make disciples is like going to the church’s nursery, spraying the kids with milk, and saying, “I just fed the kids.” In a similar way, Dr. Brad Waggoner’s research for his book The Shape of Faith to Come presented what it takes for a person to grow as a disciple. He wrote, “The number one factor…most correlated to the highest maturity scores is the practice of reading the Bible….the simple discipline of reading the Bible has a major impact on Christians. Spiritual leaders need to take note of this. We put a lot of time and energy into preparing sermons, as we should. But we make a huge mistake if we think our sermons, regardless of their quality, are enough to create sustained life transformation…our people need daily exposure to the life-transforming power of God through His revealed Word” (p.68).  Online groups, on-campus groups, groups that meet in homes, and groups that meet in other places provide much-needed relational glue for the church. People connect people – programs don’t connect people. Studying apart and then studying together fuels the life transformation brought about as the Holy Spirit leads and guides Christians into all truth. Couple the group experience with a daily Bible reading and study experience and you have postured people to grow as disciples.

Since this is true, why have so many groups taken the summer off? What have we let COVID-19 keep us from gathering in some form or fashion (there are ways to practice physical distancing and to put other safeguards into place!). I am sensitive to people who do not want to regather because of health concerns related to the virus – my son had COVID (he lives in our home) just six weeks ago and has recovered, so I understand the dangers. What I have a hard time understanding is why so many groups have taken an extended break from being together when they could have been meeting some other way – either online or in a modified in-person way. COVID hasn’t kept us from running errands, eating out, going on summer beach trips, and everything else under the sun. But when it comes to church, it’s stopped us in our tracks.

3. Bible study curriculum can be a strategic part of a discipleship strategy.

Bible study groups that have weathered the COVID-19 storm have done two things. First, those groups have continued to meet (primarily via Zoom). Second, they have remained committed to studying the Bible by using an ongoing Bible study series. My company, LifeWay, produces a number of ongoing Bible studies in a variety of formats (book-by-booktopical, and chronological). But no matter which study a group uses to study the Bible, LifeWay’s studies are created by experts, built on long-term discipleship plans, and have highly trusted content. By following the discipleship plan built into the curriculum, group leaders don’t have to create their own studies each week. Instead, they can spend that time investing in people – which was Jesus’ model. His plan for making disciples was by doing it life-on-life.

4. Smaller groups have advantages in disciple-making.

Jesus’ plan for making disciples was simple: he focused on relationships with 12 men, plus a smaller inner group of 3 men. He spent most of his time instructing them, relating to them, and participating in ministry with them. If large gatherings were the model for making disciples, Jesus would have held many more open-air hillside teaching events than he did. Instead, he knew the power of small. Today, smaller Bible study groups have disciple-making advantages, especially during and after COVID-19. Groups can meet in places that larger ones cannot (physical distancing in large groups has made it almost impossible for them to gather during COVID-19). Living rooms, backyards, parks, pavilions, and side rooms in restaurants have provided the meeting spaces that smaller groups have used to their advantage while larger groups have not been able to meet. Discipleship has continued, even during COVID, through smaller groups that proved to be nimble, agile, and flexible. Thankfully, many larger groups are beginning to reorganize into smaller ones – groups within the group. These new groups are under the leadership of someone from the class who stepped up to teach and lead 1/3 or ½ of the group. Now the formerly large group has a fighting chance for its people to meet, especially if COVID-19 flareups cause states to roll back to “phase 1” restrictions on gathering this autumn.

5. Sunday School is getting a once-in-a-lifetime reset.

Yes, we may be witnessing history in the making. COVID-19 has given us the chance to experience a “hard reset” in Sunday School. In computer terms, a hard reset restores a device (phone, tablet, laptop) to its original factory settings. Sunday School may get a needed reset and go back to its roots of evangelism, outreach, teaching, training, and multiplying by starting new groups. Now there are numerous opportunities for Sunday Schools to do things they haven’t been doing, but should have been, as groups return to the church campus. Churches are discovering that through technology like Zoom, a regular cadence of training can take place online; training is going to be easier, less expensive, and more accessible than ever in a virtual environment. Some groups are going to reorganize, dividing their adult groups into much needed care groups (which should have been done pre-COVID). The focus on outreach, assimilation, and evangelism could return to the forefront of why churches have a Sunday School in the first place. If the church misses this opportunity to do a hard reset, it will miss one of the biggest opportunities to institute a course correction in its largest and most important ministry.

Yes, COVID-19 is instructing us. It’s telling us how to improve Sunday School. It’s serving as a teacher to students who are paying attention in the classroom of life. COVID-19 is showing us where we’ve been weak, and how to improve. If the church’s Bible study groups return to the campus and do business as usual, then we will have missed a great opportunity to restart our groups with a focus on Sunday School’s roots.

How will your group and your church’s Sunday School ministry change because of COVID-19? Have you been taking good notes? COVID-19 has been teaching. Are you ready for the test? It’s coming.

This article originally appeared here.

Church Leaders: Survivor, Reviver or Improvisor; Which Are You?

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If you are a church leader the number one question right now is, “When and how do we resume in-person meetings?” While some churches never stopped meeting and several high-profile churches have already resumed, for most churches the pressure to get back to large gatherings is building. As we enter this new phase of the coronavirus I see three distinct categories among church leaders. 

Church Leaders Who Are Survivors

The first is the leader just struggling to keep their head above water. Giving is plummeting, what reserves they had are drying up, and they don’t know if they’ll survive if they don’t reopen soon. These are often smaller churches who weren’t well positioned going into the crisis, and sadly the crisis may take them under. My heart goes out to these pastors, and my hope is they will reach out and find help from healthier churches in their communities.

Church Leaders Who Are Revivers

The second category is the leader moving as fast as possible to get back to where they were before the crisis. These are the churches that are opening as soon as possible. Their model of church was effective before the crisis, and they can’t wait to pick up where they left off. I saw this on Twitter from the pastor of one such megachurch church: 

“Gentle reminder for all the “church will never be the same” and “online is going to be the new normal!” hot takes: We literally have 2,000 years of data (through many pandemics) that church will overwhelmingly happen via in-person gatherings. People are HUNGRY to gather again.”

The church this pastor leads has a lot invested in getting back to large, in-person gatherings; multiple large auditoriums, hundreds of specialize staff, and thousands of members anxious to return to what they’ve always known. The pressure to return is tremendous

Church Leaders Who Are Improvisors

The third category is the leader who sees this as an incredible opportunity to rethink and retool what church could look like for the next 50 years. They see the move to online in this season as an eye-opening in terms of evangelism and discipleship. They are asking, “How can we leverage what we are learning now to create a new, more effective model of church for the coming years?” I met this morning with leaders from one of the largest churches in America as they are trying to figure out, not just for themselves but in partnership with other churches in their region how they can do more than just reopen.

After any crisis the tendency is always to get back to normal, back to what we know, back to what was working. There is nothing wrong with that desire, but it seems like it would be unfortunate to waste an opportunity like we have before us to simply return to the status quo. The challenge is most of us have let the ability to truly innovate grow dormant. Over the last 10 years the questions I hear most often from church leaders are, “Who is already doing this well and how can we copy them?” Even during this crisis I have been asked this questions multiple times. The reality is no one is doing it well because no one knows what they are doing. If we want to innovate we can’t simply copy. We can learn and adapt, but to truly discover what is next we have to invent and test. We won’t know who is doing it well for several years, in the meantime we have to improvise.

Here are a few ideas to fuel your improvisation:

  1. Experiment with multiple models of church. 
  2. Investigate the pros and cons of house churches seeking to understand why they have significant traction in other cultures but not in the U.S. 
  3. As restrictions allow, launch different forms of microsites in a variety of venues. (i.e. coffee shops, day cares, club houses, empty restaurants)
  4. Constantly ask questions of people in and out of your church to discover what is effective and what might be effective in the future. 
  5. Offer a variety of options of children’s ministry in a various venues; family services, small groups only, socially distanced large groups, etc.
  6. Study churches in other contexts and cultures to learn how they respond to limitations on in person meetings.
  7. Offer services multiple times during the week to discover new pools of potential disciples. 
  8. Wait to return to in-person gathering as long as possible to learn as much as you can before cranking up the machine it takes to run large gatherings. 

There isn’t a right or wrong to any of these categories. When your house is on fire, you don’t have time to create a new form of fire extinguisher. When you are leading an organization that is effective and on mission you aren’t looking to start over. But for a few leaders who find themselves with the capacity to rethink the future, this is truly the opportunity of a lifetime.

This article for church leaders originally appeared here.

Free Kids’ Lesson Package: “Honesty”

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From CMD, “Lesson 1’s theme is little white lies. Kids will learn that a lie is a lie, no matter how ‘small.'”

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