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A Word of Encouragement to the Small Town Pastor

Over the last dozen years or so I’ve had the privilege of ministering with dozens of pastors in other churches. Many of these were in person. Others were virtual. I’ve been in large and small churches. I’ve been to big cities and small towns with only one stop light. (Or none at all.)

In the process, I’ve learned a few things about pastors and churches. In fact, much of what I write this blog about comes from those experiences.

A couple years ago I had back to back weeks in small cities dealing with, by some standards, smaller churches. I realized quickly, probably because I was coming from a larger city and a larger church, they were going to be shy about sharing their success.

I led a leadership retreat for a church with 150 leaders from different churches in the room. I was amazed they could attract that size crowd in a small city—and actually bring people from different churches together. But, talking to the host pastor, it was as if they had no success at all—at least when compared to my perceived “success.” (I’ve realized, too, if you have a decently read blog and you’re from out of town—people credit you with more success than you deserve. I’m sometimes seen as the “expert.” Just please don’t ask our staff about that one.)

It wasn’t humility on this pastor’s part. I’m not saying he wasn’t a humble person, but I don’t think that was keeping him from talking about the good things God was doing through his church. It was more. I think it almost always is.

That’s when it occurred to me—something I’ve observed numerous times, but never put into words.

Sometimes people don’t know how well they are doing.

It’s true.

Take my good friend Artie Davis as an example. His church is a mega impact on the small town of Orangeburg, S.C. I would love to see the church I pastor have half the influence in the community where I live. Artie also leads The Sticks Network of churches ministering in small towns. The impact of those churches is amazing every year I attended their conference.

Many times the small city pastors compare themselves to the big city churches. They compare numbers rather than progress. They compare size rather than context. They compare notoriety rather than influence.

And, because of that, many times, they don’t know how well they are really doing.

I see the connections, networking and influence the small town pastor has and I wish I could have this kind of Kingdom influence in my city. I see the respect they command in their community and know, in my context, in many ways they are miles ahead of me.

Small city pastor. God is using you. You are making a Kingdom difference. You just sometimes don’t know how well you are doing.

Do you know a small town pastor doing great Kingdom work?

Fun Christmas Jokes You Can Tell Kids

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Fun Christmas Jokes You Can Tell Kids

One of the most popular posts on this site is 25 Christmas Jokes You Can Tell Kids. Christmas is such a great time for children’s ministries.  You can teach kids who Jesus is, why He came and what it means to follow Him.  It’s crucial to focus on sharing the true meaning of Christmas.

That being said, it’s also a great time to connect with the kids through fun Christmas jokes.  Kids love jokes.  You can use these with one kid before service, in a large group or small group.

One cool thing you can do is set up a portable puppet stage in a common place in the hallway or foyer.  You can then have a puppet interact with the kids and families when they are in the hallway or foyer before or after the service.  You can purchase cloth that enables the puppeteer to see the kids without them seeing him or her.

Just make sure you have properly trained the person who will be the puppeteer. I found this out the hard way when one of our puppets cussed out a kid.  Yes, you read that correctly.  You can read more about the puppet who cussed out a kid at this link.

And often at Christmas, churches will have guests.  It’s also when all the CEO’s show up (Christmas-Easter-Only).  These kids and families are also a group you want to engage with while they are at your service.  If the kids have a great experience, they will bug mom and dad to bring them more often.

 

Have fun using some of these jokes this Christmas season to connect with kids.  All it takes is one funny joke to bring down the wall a child may have put up.  Once that wall is down and they’ve decided to engage with you, you can share God’s Word with them heart to heart.  Start with a joke that gets kids to laugh and helps them connect with you.  Which means you will have a great opportunity to share the true meaning of Christmas.

Enjoy!

What happened to the man who stole an Advent Calendar?  He got 25 days!

Why was the turkey in the music band?  Because he was the only one with drumsticks! 

What goes “Oh, Oh, Oh?”  Santa walking backwards!

How did Mary and Joseph know Jesus’ weight when he was born? They had a weigh in a manger!

What did the beaver say to the Christmas Tree? Nice gnawing you!

What do you call a mean reindeer?  Rude-olf  

What do snowmen have for breakfast? Snowflakes!

What do reindeer hang on their Christmas trees? Horn-aments!

Where do Santa and his reindeer go to get hot chocolate and coffee while flying in the sky? Star-bucks

What did the Christmas tree say to the ornament? Quit hanging around!

What’s every elf’s favorite type of music? Wrap!

What is Santa’s favorite kind of candy? Jolly ranchers.

What kind of photos do elves take? Elfies

What is the best Christmas present in the world? A broken drum, you just can’t beat it! 

Why did the kids start eating the puzzle on Christmas?  Because their uncle said that it was a piece of cake! !

Elves use what kind of money? Jingle bills!  

What comes at the end of Christmas?  The letter “S.” 

Why did the little boy bring his Christmas tree to the hair salon?  It need a little trim.

How do reindeer know when it’s Christmas?  They look at a calen-deer.

This article originally appeared here.

God Chooses the Weakest Things (And People)

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God Chooses the Weakest Things (And People)

For unto us a child is born,
to us a son is given;
and the government shall be
upon his shoulder.
(Isaiah 9:6)

In my earliest days as a minister—somewhere around my mid-twenties—an older mentor challenged me to “attempt something so great for God that it is doomed for failure, unless God be in it.”

Embracing his challenge, I began to dream of great things for the future. I envisioned becoming the kind of leader whose ministry would produce scores of new disciples, plant growing and healthy churches, provide community and encouragement for key city leaders, and serve as a resource for kingdom impact beyond my own context. Eventually, if it all worked out, I would also be invited to write books, speak at conferences, and minister from a national platform.

“That,” I would tell myself, “is something so big that only God can accomplish it…because I surely don’t have what it takes to accomplish these things.” Since that time, and by the grace of God, most of these things have occurred in my life and ministry. And yet…

And yet…

While such BHAG or “Big, Hairy, Audacious Goals” are not necessarily a bad thing, I’m not sure that the advice once offered to me by an older mentor is the same advice that I would give to younger ministers today. The older I get, and the more attuned I become to Scripture in particular, the more convinced I am becoming that the real action in God’s kingdom is not so much on the big platform or in the halls of power, but rather through quiet, daily, ordinary faithfulness lived out in local communities all over the world.

It is true that God has in various seasons, and for his own purposes, raised up servants to accomplish great things on a grand scale. Almost all of the Ivy League Universities were founded by Christians, for example. Christianity has produced great leaders in science such as Pascal, Copernicus, Newton, Galileo, Meitner, and Collins, to name only a few. The same can be said of the arts and literature, with the likes of Rembrandt, Dorothy Sayers, Dostoevsky, T.S. Eliot, Flannery O’Connor, Makoto Fujimura, Johnny Cash, and Bono being guided in their creativity by their faith in Christ. There is also the world of healthcare, with all those hospitals named after a Saint, and history’s most famous and impactful efforts toward social justice—William Wilberforce for the emancipation of slaves, Hannah More for her generous philanthropy, Dorothy Day for her journalistic activism, George Mueller for his leadership in the care of orphans, and Martin Luther King, Jr. for his sacrificial leadership in the realm of civil rights—all of whose efforts and achievements are a tribute to the power of Christ to heal the world.

Lastly, I would be remiss not to mention my former colleague and mentor, Dr. Timothy Keller, who recently made the Forbes list of the top fifty most influential people in the world. He was the only pastor named on that list.

These remarkable and unique examples notwithstanding, one still wonders if God’s primary strategy for bringing his grace, truth, and power into the world is to do so less through extraordinary and grand means, and more through ordinary and small and everyday means.

Writing to a Corinthian church that valued the extraordinary and grand—they were people who valued things like celebrity, power, wealth, networking, and being among the movers and shakers—the apostle Paul wrote:

“Brothers and sisters, think of what you were when you were called. Not many of you were wise by human standards; not many were influential; not many were of noble birth. But God chose the foolish things of the world to shame the wise; God chose the weak things of the world to shame the strong. God chose the lowly things of this world and the despised things—and the things that are not—to nullify the things that are, so that no one may boast before him. It is because of him that you are in Christ Jesus, who has become for us wisdom from God—that is, our righteousness, holiness and redemption” (1 Corinthians 1:26-30).

The life of Jesus also challenges our “attempt something so great” approach to life and ministry. By choice and design, Jesus was born outdoors to two economically strapped teenagers who would soon become refugees. He lacked a formal education, he worked a blue-collar job, he never got married or had children, and he spent some of his adult life homeless. According to Isaiah, his physical appearance was so unimpressive that there was nothing identifiably attractive about him (Isaiah 53:2). Most people misunderstood and rejected him, and he was eventually abandoned by his closest friends. He died as a common criminal on a trash heap, having been regarded as an enemy of both synagogue and state.

As it was with the Apostle Paul, so it was with Jesus—if power was going to be made manifest in him—it would have to be through his weakness (2 Corinthians 12:7-10).

We can also learn from the lives of other, so-called heroes of faith from Scripture. As I was recently reminded by a letter written by a fellow minister to a struggling young man—Moses stuttered, David’s armor didn’t fit, John Mark was rejected by Paul, Hosea’s wife was a prostitute, and Amos’ only training for being a prophet was as a fig tree pruner. Jeremiah experienced depression, Gideon and Thomas doubted, and Jonah ran from God. Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob all failed miserably by telling lies—Indeed, Scripture is filled with real people who had real failures, real struggles, real inadequacies, and real inabilities.

And God shook the earth with them.

For it is not so much from our strength that God draws, but from his own, invincible might.

Perhaps it is this quality of God’s—his affection for using the weakest vessels to accomplish his greatest work—that compelled Henri Nouwen to adopt the practice of what he called “downward mobility.” Nouwen, a celebrated thought-leader and touring speaker based out of Notre Dame, and then Harvard, and then Yale, was in the prime of his career when he received and invitation from his friend, Jean Vanier, to lay aside his accolades and ascending fame for the purpose of pastoring a small community for the mentally disabled, called L’Arche (The Shelter). Nouwen’s rationale for accepting this role—which many would view as career suicide—was as follows:

Scripture reveals…that real and total freedom is only found through downward mobility…The divine way is indeed the downward way…[Jesus] moved from power to powerlessness, from greatness to smallness, from success to failure, from strength to weakness, from glory to ignominy. The whole life of Jesus of Nazareth…resisted upward mobility.

What many people do not know is that some of Nouwen’s most well-known, most impactful written works would be released into the world not from a grand stage or massive speaking platform, but rather from his more obscure, quiet life among disabled men and women at L’Arche, whom he had come to embrace as family.

I’ve also seen the “power of small” play out in my own community here in Nashville among the people of Christ Presbyterian Church. As anyone in our church would attest, the true celebrities among us—the ones whose lives and presence point the rest of us toward the glory and goodness of God most remarkably—are people who are open with their weaknesses, people with special needs, and people who are in the process of dying.

Two years into my role as senior pastor of Christ Presbyterian, I shared my own story of dealing with anxiety and depression with our congregation. At the end of the service, a man in our congregation approached me and said, “Scott, I want you to know that today is the day that you became my pastor. In the end, it won’t chiefly be your vision or your preaching or writing that will bring hope to people like me. Instead, it will be the story of how God has ministered to you in your struggles.”

I am not the first pastor through whom God has brought strength to others through the telling of his weaknesses. I was merely following the lead of the apostle Paul, who spoke of his grief over his coveting in Romans 7, and then his debilitating thorn in the flesh in 2 Corinthians 12. In both instances, God’s power was manifest not only to Paul, but also to millions of other sinners and sufferers through history.

There’s something powerful about confessing our sins and sorrows to one another and then bringing them into the light of God’s healing grace, isn’t there? What was true then is also true today—God’s power is made perfect and is manifest—not chiefly through human strength but through human weakness.

Likewise, one of the greatest privileges I have is being pastor to a church with many children and adults who have special needs. This is a population to which our church has chosen to invest resources and give special attention. I firmly believe that the greatest beneficiaries of this investment are not the people among us who have special needs, but those of us who get to live a slice of our lives in their company.

I think of Katie who has Down Syndrome. She has the biggest smile and gives the longest and strongest hugs. I think of how she insists on a hug from me, her pastor, almost every Sunday. I think of how she lights up when I tell her she is beautiful, and how she sweetly reminds me that I need to tell her she is beautiful on those rare occasions when I forget. I think of how she hands me pictures that she has drawn—pictures that represent her profoundly simple and simply profound interpretations of my sermons.

I also think of William—who also has Down Syndrome and is autistic. William’s parents are stretched fully and are on constant call working together to care for his needs. And yet, they never stop telling us how rich their lives are because of him. If not for William, they would know Jesus less. If not for William, we, too, would know Jesus less. Hand a box of Cheez-Its to William and you might not get it back. If you look away for even a minute he may have disappeared to another room. And he laughs at my jokes and gives me high fives and smiles ear to ear when our eyes make contact. He, like Katie, insists on giving me hugs. William, with full awareness, belongs. Though unable to articulate his thoughts clearly in words, he hands out bulletins at church, serves communion, and dances to hymns and worship songs. As he does all of these things—as he lives honest and true—he brings us all back to the truth. He brings us back to grace. He shows us the King and the kingdom that we would not be able to see clearly without the likes of him. He shows us that we belong, too.

The last demonstration of power I will speak of here, which is also perhaps the most remarkable, is people who suffer with hope instead of despair. I can think of so many men, women, and even children in our community who have faced some of the direst circumstances—Lou Gehrig’s disease, dementia, cancer, divorce, betrayal, the loss of loved ones, and more—with tears of sorrow and protest on the one hand, and an anchor of hope on the other.

I think especially of Ben, a beloved school teacher who went to heaven way too early in life because of cancer. In his final days and as his body wasted away from the disease, he recited Scripture and sang songs of worship to God. When asked in his last moments if he wanted anything said on his behalf to his students, he said matter-of-factly, “Tell them that it’s true. Tell them that it’s all true. Tell them that the gospel of Jesus Christ…is true.”

After Ben’s death, and precisely because of it, a revival of faith and of renewed commitments to walk closely with the Lord took place among his friends, his colleagues, and his students. As it was with Samson, so it seemed with Ben as well—that he accomplished as much in his death as he had in his lifetime, by the grace and power of God working through his weakness (Judges 16:23-31).

So, for these and many other reasons—while the greater, more visible and grand-scale achievements in the kingdom deserve their due—perhaps now is as good a time as any to celebrate the way God intends to work through all of us versus only a few of us—through what the Apostle Paul called the glory of weakness, which is a quality that we all share, and which is the place where the true power of God resides most.

Indeed, not many of us were wise or influential or noble or powerful according to human standards when Christ called us. And yet, we are nonetheless poised—not in spite of our weaknesses, but precisely because of them—to shake the earth.

This article originally appeared here.

Jesus Is the Messiah Because of…Egypt?

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Have you ever considered how significant geography was in the identification of Jesus as the true Messiah? Matthew 2 describes the incredible circumstances around the birth of Jesus as the fulfilment of prophecy, and all three prophecies he points to are geographic—Jesus is the Messiah because he was driven to Egypt, his exile caused weeping in Ramah, and he returned to Nazareth (Matthew 2:151723).

All three of these prophesied locations demonstrate elements of typology—by typology I mean that there are a series of events in the Old Testament that give a rough description of what the Savior will look like, and then that description is filled in by Jesus. In fact, the word Matthew uses for “fulfilled” (Matthew 2:151723) can even be understood to mean “fill up.” Consider the Old Testament a connect-the-dot drawing, the New Testament is the coloring book, and then Jesus fills in the image.

All three of these geographic prophecies follow the same pattern. There is an initial shape laid out in the Torah, then later on in Israel’s life there is more detail added, and then the New Testament comes along and describes Jesus as filling in that pattern.

Today I want to consider how his flight to Egypt proved that he was the Messiah.

You are likely familiar with this story from the perspective of the New Testament. After his birth, Herod sent men to murder Jesus. His father, Joseph, was warned in a dream to flee to Egypt for safety. After as many as a few years, or as little as a few months, an angel appeared to Joseph and told him to return to Israel.

Matthew 2:15 says that this series of events happened in order to fulfil the prophecy found in Hosea 11:1: “Out of Egypt I called my Son.” The context of Hosea 11 is that of the original exile, so Jesus’ flight to Egypt is pointed to by the original flight to Egypt, one that took place back in the book of Genesis.

The Shape of the Story from the Torah

In Genesis 27, Moses explains how the promise for the coming savior is handed to Jacob (as opposed to Esau). The narrative of Genesis then follows Jacob has he marries his two wives and fathers 13 children through four different women. Then, in Genesis 32, Jacob is renamed Israel, and we are told this is because all of the nation Israel will come from him and his 12 sons.

His favorite son, however, is Joseph, and Joseph finds himself in mortal danger. Because his brothers resent him, they conspire to murder him, and lay a trap to end his life. However, God intervenes, and instead Joseph is sold into slavery and taken to Egypt. The rest of Genesis describes how Joseph’s transfer to Egypt ends up as the catalyst to draw all of his brothers to Egypt as well. One detail of that story is pertinent here—God used dreams to lead Joseph to safety in Egypt (Genesis 37:5940:5-1641:1-3242:9).

These dreams not only kept Joseph safe, but by keeping Joseph safe they saved all of Israel by drawing them to Egypt. Eventually, 400 years later, God called Israel out of Egypt, through the water, through the testing in the wilderness, and finally led her back into the Israel the land.

The Shape of the story from the prophets

Centuries later, Israel was in trouble from the Babylonians, and many Israelites saw Egypt as their savior. God mocked this desire to trust Egypt—and mocked is not too strong of a word; consider: “A beautiful heifer is Egypt, but a biting horsefly from the north is about to come upon her” (Jeremiah 46:20).

Israel eventually was taken into Babylonian exile, and the last Jews to flee of course fled to Egypt (Jeremiah 41:17). The place that God designed as a refuge for Israel in Genesis had become a place of avoidance, and ultimately a place of captivity.

Nevertheless, God set his love on Israel and called them back from exile, and caused them to return to the land again (Jeremiah 30:1-4). He did this because he loved them, and not because of their repentance or faith. This is the story so powerfully illustrated by Hosea, who (like God) took an adulterous wife, lost her to captivity, and then brought her back.

The exact prophecy: Hosea 11:1

Hosea 9-10 picks up the story of Israel’s captivity. Because of her sin, they were now surrounded by their enemies. They needed refuge, and found it in Egypt (Hosea 9:39:6). Meanwhile, they had rejected their true King, Yahweh (Hosea 10:3). God responded to their rejection of his kingship by afflicting their so-called Kings, and brining their reigns to a crashing halt (10:7, 14-15).

When those false kings are finally cut off (Hosea 10:15), then God will call his true Son out of Egypt (Hosea 11:1). This is the verse that Matthew sees as fulfilled in the advent of Jesus Christ and his flight to Egypt.

Jesus colors in the image

Matthew’s use of Hosea 11:1 is more than a superficial connection to an Old Testament prophecy. Instead, Jesus’ flight to Egypt identifies him as the true son of Yahweh. Consider the OT outline:

  • Genesis, Jeremiah and Hosea show that Egypt is where God’s son goes when he needs to flee Israel.
  • These OT exiles in Egypt are both preceded by murderous intent.
  • God leads Joseph to Israel through dreams
  • Joseph is the one who draws Israel into Egypt (in Hosea, it is Ephraim—Joseph’s son)
  • Egypt is given by God as a place of freedom, but it becomes a place of bondage.
  • And the exile ends when God calls his Son back to Israel.

Do you see how this outline is laid out in Genesis, repeated in Jeremiah and Hosea, and culminates in the true son of God—Jesus—coloring in the image?

This is an incredibly persuasive argument that he is the Savior. These prophecies are detailed, specific, and the type is fulfilled by Christ when he was only a little child.

It’s not possible that he arranged for himself to be taken to Egypt, nor would it have been possible for him to be the true Israel without it. Matthew uses these three geographic prophecies to show us that even as a child, Jesus was the true Israel, the only-begotten son of God, and the obvious fulfillment of Old Testament prophecy.

This article originally appeared here.

‘Significant, Credible Evidence’ Ravi Zacharias Engaged in Sexual Misconduct, Report States

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The law firm hired to investigate multiple allegations of sexual misconduct and abuse by the late Ravi Zacharias has released an interim report. While their investigation is not complete, the firm reports that they “have found significant, credible evidence that Mr. Zacharias engaged in sexual misconduct over the course of many years.”

Furthermore, the report confirms that “some” of the allegations that have been investigated and reported by news outlets this year are consistent with their findings. Most troubling in the interim report is this statement: “Some of that misconduct is consistent with and corroborative of that which is reported in the news recently, and some of the conduct we have uncovered is more serious.”

The report is written by Lynsey M. Barron of the law firm Miller & Martin. Earlier this year, Ravi Zacharias International Ministries (RZIM) announced they would be hiring the firm to investigate claims multiple workers at spas formerly co-owned by Zacharias made that the world-renowned apologist had solicited them for sex. 

Barron writes that while looking into the allegations, private investigators hired by Miller & Martin spoke to “many” witnesses, including massage therapists who worked at the spas Zacharias co-owned and who wish to remain anonymous. The investigators also “reviewed numerous documents and electronic devices used by Mr. Zacharias over the years.”

The interim report emphasizes that the investigation is not complete and that the firm will continue its work. While they were originally commissioned by RZIM to address the allegations from the spa workers, Barron says they were also given “broad discretion and authority to follow leads into other sexual misconduct that might arise.” 

It is unclear whether Miller & Martin will look into the case of Lori Anne Thompson, a Canadian woman who tried to hold Zacharias to account for a relationship that turned sexual and that she describes as a predatory abuse of power on Zacharias’ part. While Barron’s letter indicates they have and will be looking into other allegations in addition to those voiced by the spa workers, a statement published by Thompson today indicates she has not been contacted.

In September of this year, RZIM reiterated their belief that Thompson and her husband, Brad, had tried to extort the founder of their ministry. At the time, they maintained Zacharias’ account of the interaction between himself and the Thompsons.

However, a statement from RZIM released today employs a different tone. The statement says they are “devastated” over Miller & Martin’s findings concerning the spa workers:

This misconduct is deeply troubling and wholly inconsistent with the man Ravi Zacharias presented both publicly and privately to so many over more than four decades of public ministry. We are heartbroken at learning this but feel it necessary to be transparent and to inform our staff, donors, and supporters at this time, even while the investigation continues.

Originally, RZIM said they would not release any more statements on the issue until the investigation was complete, but felt compelled to share the interim report, which they received on Tuesday. Additionally, the statement says that they share compassion for Zacharias’ victims, and they are asking for “your prayers for them and also for Ravi’s family who have been devastated by this information.”

When he passed away in May, Zacharias left behind his wife, Margie, two daughters, and one son. Zacharias’ daughter, Sarah Davis, is the current CEO of RZIM.


For more on this topic:

The Story Behind the Ravi Zacharias Allegations (Part 1): Lawsuits, NDAs, and Email Threads

The Story Behind the Ravi Zacharias Allegations (Part 2): ‘Cursory’ Investigations and More Accusations

RZIM Apologist: Ministry Needs to Apologize to Victims and ‘Overhaul’ Culture

Churches Step up to Fill Stomachs as Food Insecurity Soars

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Among the many challenges America has faced this year is a rising level of food insecurity. According to the U.S. Department of Agriculture (USDA), almost one in four households has experienced food shortages during 2020, up from one in 10 last year. Families with children are especially vulnerable, partly due to prolonged school closures.

Since coronavirus-related shutdowns and layoffs began in March, demand at food giveaways has continued to escalate. Churches and community organizations that distribute groceries and meals say the need has never been greater. 

An Exponential Increase in Assistance Requests

In the Chicago area, which is facing its worst hunger crisis in four decades, Pastor Matt DeMateo estimates that the food pantries at New Life Centers of Chicagoland now feed 60 times more families per week than before the pandemic. To expand its reach, New Life partnered with the Greater Chicago Food Depository to help community and faith-based organizations distribute food. Needs are especially high in the city’s Black and Latino neighborhoods, which have been disproportionately affected by the pandemic.

The goal, says DeMateo, is to “assure people that they are not alone” and to build on “a sense of community…despite all the pain” this year has brought. On Tuesday, New Life donated “thousands” of food boxes, donated Christmas gifts to 3,000 children, and handed out winter coats.

In Pasco, Washington, New Beginning Community Christian Church distributed 60,000 pounds of food last weekend, with cars lining up four hours early and stretching for blocks. The congregation plans to give out another 30,000 pounds of food on Christmas Eve.

Marlando Sparks, who’s been arranging the events with his wife, Stephanie, say they keep hearing about people in dire need of groceries—including one woman who’s been eating cat food. “Many people don’t realize how many churches get phone calls asking if there is any assistance,” he says. “That is something from before the pandemic.” Sparks adds, “Most churches will help 100 people, and now there are 500 people needing help.”

This year, New Beginning has been able to help more families thanks to an innovative government program.

Farmers to Families Gets Food to People in Need

As part of the coronavirus-relief CARES Act, the USDA established Farmers to Families to supply and distribute food that might otherwise go to waste. Since spring, the $4.5 billion program has provided about 130 million boxes of fresh produce, meat, and dairy products to Americans in need. Contracted distributors package and transport items to food banks and other nonprofit organizations, including churches.

Although Farmers to Families received additional funding as 2020 progressed, the program has run out of money in some areas due to high demand. New Beginning in Washington state had wanted to participate earlier in the fall, says Sparks, but funding uncertainties put their efforts on hold until recently. When the church received a call about available produce at a nearby farm, teams quickly headed out to transport 800 boxes of carrots, potatoes, and squash.

In Colonial Beach, Virginia, New Monrovia Baptist Church has conducted weekly food giveaways through Farmers to Families. Boxes are available to any county resident, which is “awesome,” according to church member Kelisha Johnson. “In an environment and time like this, it’s a blessing to be part of something that the community needs,” she says. “Once we set the example, hopefully, people will come on board and realize that it is important to help our brother or our sister that may or may not look like us or live near us.”

UM Missions in Zimbabwe Provide More Than the Gospel

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Students Munashe Chidewu (left) and Nyasha Homba wash their hands at a faucet served by a solar powered well pump at the United Methodist Hanwa Mission in Macheke, Zimbabwe. Photo by Kudzai Chingwe, UM News.

At a time when clean water is scarce in many parts of the world, The United Methodist Church in Zimbabwe is keeping the precious liquid flowing at its three missions.

“Water is life and everyone needs it,” said the Rev. Alan Masimba Gurupira, administrative assistant to Bishop Eben K. Nhiwatiwa. “Humans and all programs of agriculture are pinned on the availability of adequate water supply.”

He said September through November were the hottest months of the year, drying up water bodies. “The economic meltdown worsened the situation,” he said, noting that the country has long faced food insecurity due to drought.

The World Food Program reported in April that the number of people facing acute food insecurity could rise to 265 million in 2020 as a result of the economic impact of COVID-19, nearly double the number in 2019. That number includes 7.7 million people in Zimbabwe, half of the country’s population.

Access to clean, safe water has been even more important during the global pandemic, when handwashing is key to stopping the spread of the virus.

Zimbabwe Volunteers in Mission and the Nyadire Connection have helped ease some of the water issues at United Methodist Hanwa, Dindi and Nyadire missions.

The availability of water at the missions enhances food security, said Gurupira, noting that the sale of farm produce allows the mission and community to be self-sustaining.

Charles Eric Moore Jr., a team leader for Zimbabwe Volunteers in Mission, said that this year, the group sourced funds to install a solar-powered well pump on two boreholes at Hanwa and one at Dindi.

Normally in Zimbabwe, boreholes are electric-powered, but that has become a challenge due to load sharing and high tariffs.

“Electricity has become much more expensive and even more unreliable,” Moore said. “The ability to continue to provide a sustainable water supply to the missions became a top priority for us.”

Moore said the solar-powered boreholes provide enough water for the missions and neighboring families, as well as Hanwa’s enhanced irrigation system and an emerging agricultural project.

The Gift of Laughter – Make Memories

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Last night we took our entire family (that’s eight with all our kids at home) out to a dinner show in Orlando.  The name of the show was “The Outta Control Magic Comedy Dinner Show” at Wonder Works.  Julie and I had experienced the show in January when we visited Orlando on our anniversary and we wanted our kids to share that same experience.

Of course “outta control” can often simply refer to our family in general – remember there are eight of us.  Before going out to the show we went to the Mall @ Millenia to have our family photos taken.  This is always an adventure and again the “outta control” moniker does apply.  Our family photo plan generally starts out with great intentions and somehow seems to always move toward a Three Stooges scene.  You have to understand that our kids range in age from 8 – 25 and their personalities are just as diverse.

Well, we did manage to leave the studio without any major destruction and moments of shear hilarity. When your family is making the photographer laugh…super size candy canes appeared…fireman’s hats are falling into the frame…family members toppling over…it’s a feat in and of itself. The photo is not too shabby either and will soon be appearing hear at CM Buzz.

Back to the show…obviously as a family we like to laugh.  Although, my kids sometimes desire to move away from me when we attend a movie.  Something about my loud outburst of laughter can cause them to cringe on occasion. We went to the “Outta Control Magic Comedy Dinner Show” to hopefully create a family memory and boy did we succeed.  Myself and three of our boys were selected to participate in three different parts of the show.  Two great things about the show include that it is a family friendly show and that has audience participation built right in. Kudos to Tony Brent for an amazing performance!

A cheerful heart makes you healthy.  But a broken spirit dries you up. Proverbs 17:22

My encouragement to all of us this holiday is to laugh together. Look for opportunities to make memories and laugh together.  Even if your kids try to scoot away to another seat…laugh out loud and make it a memorable Christmas!

Homeless Advocates Organize Against Sean Feucht’s Upcoming Outreach in Skid Row

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California musician Sean Feucht, right, performs with his band on a dead-end street near Seattle’s Gas Works Park after the city refused him access to the park for a Labor Day concert, Monday, Sept. 7, 2020. RNS photo by Julia Duin

LOS ANGELES (RNS) — Advocates for the residents of LA’s Skid Row neighborhood are organizing against a planned appearance by Christian recording artist Sean Feucht in the community, which has one of the highest rates of homelessness in the country.

“They have a reputation of basically drawing tons of unmasked people where they go. If that’s the case, we have to protect our community,“ said pastor Stephen “Cue” Jn-Marie, who founded the faith community known as The Row, or “The Church Without Walls,” in Skid Row.

Feucht’s Dec. 30-31 events in Echo Park and Skid Row, a 54-block area of downtown, are part of his national “Let Us Worship” tour that protests COVID-19 restrictions. The two days of outreach will culminate with a New Year’s Eve celebration from 9 p.m. to midnight at the parking lot of Higher Vision Church in the city of Valencia, more than 30 miles away.

The tour, which Feucht refers to as the #letusworship movement, has been criticized by health officials and faith leaders alike for drawing thousands of spectators and worshippers, many ignoring social distancing guidelines and health orders requiring masks.

The New Year’s Eve celebration had initially been planned for the nearby Azusa Street Mission, the site of a revival meeting in the early 1900s that is recognized as the origin of modern Pentecostalism. It was unclear why the event was relocated. Feucht, Azusa Street and Higher Vision Church representatives were not reached for comment.

Other events held in Seattle; Nashville, Tennessee; Washington, D.C.; and other U.S. cities have also met with opposition by local authorities and scattered counterprotests.

Feucht’s New Year’s Eve events come as Los Angeles County is experiencing a surge in COVID-19 cases and deaths and as available hospital beds dwindle. If disease transmission remains the same, the county health department projects 700 to 1,400 new hospitalized patients a day by New Year’s Eve, according to the Los Angeles Times.

Jn-Marie said he sent Feucht a Facebook message on Monday (Dec. 21) to express concern about his plans to visit Skid Row. As of Tuesday morning, Feucht had not responded, Jn-Marie said.

“Skid Row is one of the most vulnerable communities in the nation,” Jn-Marie said. “It’s also a community with housed folks as well as gatekeepers.”

If Feucht does not respond, Jn-Marie said, he and other advocates plan to stage a car rally to prevent unmasked people from entering Skid Row.

Since the beginning of the pandemic, Jn-Marie said, homeless advocates have taken the necessary precautions to minimize COVID-19 outbreaks in the community.

Jn-Marie said they’ve created hand-washing stations, provided hygiene products and doubled down on promoting mask-wearing. While the community welcomes food, clothing, hygiene items and any other assistance, Jn-Marie said, Skid Row doesn’t need “people to come in for a photo op.”

“We’ve worked to keep the community safe,” he said.

The Row has hosted Friday worship services in Skid Row for more than 10 years. That changed with COVID-19. While The Row continued to help feed residents, it stopped congregating for Friday worship. It has since resumed services, with social distancing and mask-wearing guidelines in place.

To  Jn-Marie, there’s a “miseducation of the church” among those who believe they are being persecuted by health orders in place to limit the spread of COVID-19, which has so far killed more than 300,000 people in the United States.

When people protest wearing masks that could potentially save lives, “we know that’s not God,” Jn-Marie said.

Jn-Marie referred to the people involved in the effort against Feucht as the “Deacons for Justice,” a reference to an armed self-defense organization to protect civil rights workers.

They won’t be armed with weapons, but “with the spirit of God,” Jn-Marie said.


This article originally appeared on ReligionNews.com.

How Does God Provide Our Daily Bread?

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Guest Post by Josh Blount

Please raise your hand if you’ve ever prayed “Give us this day our daily bread” and looked up to find a warm slice of Pepperidge Farm waiting on your plate.

Yeah, me either.

So does God answer that prayer, and if so, how? Gene Edward Veith, in his excellent book God At Work, gives Martin Luther’s answer to that question. God does provide us our daily bread, Luther argued, but not through supernaturally placing each meal on our plate. God gives us our daily bread by calling farmers, bakers, and grocers to their respective vocations – and as each one fulfills their calling, God provides for his creation through human hands. The doctrine of vocation (the idea that God calls and gifts people for specific jobs) was in Luther’s mind the way that God provided not only bread but a myriad of gifts and necessities to the human race. In essence, says Luther, work is one way we love our neighbor.

Chances are that within 24 hours of reading this post you will have gone to work or interacted with someone who is working to provide you a service. When the barista at Starbucks hands you your eggnog latte, thank them and thank God, recognizing his hand is behind every human vocation, as in his common grace he cares for a fallen creation with generosity and creativity. And remember Luther’s doctrine of vocation when you start your own work day tomorrow morning. Whether your job is brewing coffee, playing music, or building homes, by faithfully working at your job you’re part of the way that God blesses and provides for men and women made in his image. Your 9-5 job is a way to obey Jesus’ command to love your neighbor!

And that just might be more amazing than an instant slice of buttered bread.

Gen Z Is Lukewarm About Religion, But Open to Relationships, Study Shows

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(RNS) — More than half of teens and young adults who say they are affiliated with an organized religion also say they have little or no trust in organized religion. In other words, they are involved in religious institutions on paper but are disengaged at some level because they don’t trust religious institutions — even the ones they belong to.

And that’s just the roughly 6 in 10 who are still affiliated.

That lack of trust among religiously affiliated teens and young adults is one of many surprises in the “State of Religion and Young People” study released by Springtide Research Institute, which was founded in August 2019. The study surveyed more than 10,000 Americans ages 13 to 25 — the so-called Gen Z generation — about their involvement in, and feelings about, religion.

“They’re checking the box that says they are Jewish or Catholic or whatever, but over half of them are saying, ‘even though I checked the box, I don’t trust organized religion,’” said Josh Packard, a sociologist of religion who is the executive director of Springtide. “This is sort of stunning and not what you would expect from somebody who checked the box.”

He thinks the study’s findings should complicate, if not make obsolete, the notion that we can use “affiliated” as an easy shorthand for “religious” in America. Other findings in the study bear this out, including that about 1 in 5 Gen Z members who are affiliated with an organized religion also say they are not personally religious.

“The categories that used to be really effective indicators of their faith and spirituality are just not anymore,” Packard said. “You can’t rely on the old metrics like we might have once been able to.”

If the category of “affiliated” no longer lines up perfectly with “active believers,” the category of “unaffiliated” is complicated too.

For example, 60 percent of teens and young adults who are not involved with an organized religion described themselves as spiritual, and 19 percent said they attend religious gatherings at least once a month.

There are some other surprises in the study’s 119-page report, which is available for free. One is about gender. In the past, it’s been clear that men and boys have been more likely to leave organized religion than women and girls. The gender imbalance among religiously unaffiliated Americans has skewed male for years.

In this study of Gen Z, however, the edge among the unaffiliated goes to girls and women, 40 percent of whom are not involved with an organized religion. This was true of 36 percent of those who identify as male.

Packard was reluctant to draw definitive conclusions without more data, but he pinpointed many religions’ historical lack of gender equality as a likely factor.

The Best of 2020: Tim Keller on How to Practice True Tolerance

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Dr. Timothy Keller is the founding pastor of Redeemer Presbyterian Church in Manhattan, which he started in 1989 and grew to exceed 5,000 in weekly attendance. He’s also the chairman and co-founder of Redeemer City to City, which starts new churches in New York and other global cities. Tim is a New York Times bestselling author whose books have sold over two million copies and been translated into 25 languages. His latest is entitled Uncommon Ground: Living Faithfully in a World of Difference. Tim is married to Kathy, and they have three sons.

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Key Questions for Dr. Timothy Keller

-What advice would you give ministry leaders who struggle with being comfortable with self-criticism?

-What worldview challenges did you face when you moved to New York City?

-As you started Redeemer, how did you help people in Manhattan overcome their objections to Christianity?

-What do you mean by “tolerance” and why do you believe it is an important value?

Key Quotes from Dr. Timothy Keller

“A secular conservative culture is individualistic. Liberal secular culture is collectivistic…They’re both reductionistic, and Christianity is not.”

“It’s always easier to see the sins of another culture if you’re an outsider.”

“If you were raised in the evangelical church, it seems like you either are in reaction to it…or you’re defensive about it.

“You had better get open to criticism or else you’re going to lose everybody.”

“You’ve just got to be careful not to be reading your cultural assumptions into the Scriptures, or worse, out of the Scriptures.”

“Liberals say, ‘Ah, look at the Old Testament. It condones slavery, so we can write the whole thing off.’ Of course, we actually had conservatives in the 1860s saying, ‘The Bible says it’s all right for me to own slaves.’ And of course, both of them are refusing to really carefully…read the text.”

“We have got to [read Scriptures in context] today, and I think that would keep us from being as politically polarized as we are.”

“To go to a less cosmopolitan and sophisticated place takes humility, but to go to a more cosmopolitan and sophisticated place also takes humility.”

“The main way I think you make the jump into a different culture is you have to really ask God to help you mortify your pride.” 

“The secular mindset is not based on reasoning. It’s based on assumptions that they take as axiomatic, that are just beliefs. One of those beliefs is that really intellectually mature people just don’t believe in God. Another one is that emotionally mature people don’t need to believe in God.”

Jesus Came to Defeat Your (Real) Enemies

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Many have said that nothing unites like a common enemy. In business, startups will unite as insurgents to take down the incumbent. In politics, leaders bring people together against the other side. Defeating a common enemy can be a powerful unifier and motivator. In a divisive year there seems to be a greater desire to unite against some other side, a longing to come together against a common enemy. The enemy can easily become those who view politics differently, masks differently, social unrest differently, a vaccination differently, church gatherings differently, the election differently, etc. Sadly, in this season even friends and family members have become enemies for some.

At Christmas we celebrate the good news that Jesus came here to defeat our enemies but perhaps we need to be reminded who our real enemies are. After all, our Christian faith teaches us that our real enemies are not flesh and blood.

In the Christmas story we see Zechariah celebrating the reality that Jesus was coming to this world to defeat our enemies. After nine months of silence because he did not believe the angel’s announcement, Zechariah was finally able to speak when John the Baptist was born. Just as his wife has been pregnant with their son for nine months, Zechariah had been pregnant with incredible words describing the coming Messiah:

Blessed is the Lord, the God of Israel,
because he has visited
and provided redemption for his people.
He has raised up a horn of salvation for us
in the house of his servant David,
just as he spoke by the mouth
of his holy prophets in ancient times;
salvation from our enemies
and from the hand of those who hate us.
(Luke 1:68-71)

This is the only time this phrase “horn of salvation” is in the New Testament. In the Old Testament the language is used to describe the defeating and scattering of enemies (Psalm 92:9-10 as example). Jesus is the horn of salvation, the Anointed King who defeats our enemies.

When Zechariah prophesized this, the Jewish people were under Roman rule in their own land. They also struggled with political and religious division among themselves. It was a very tense time. Each group wanted a Leader for their side, a political Messiah to overthrow Rome and resolve issues in their day. Many people could have easily taken Zechariah’s prophecy to be assurance that the Messiah was coming to defeat their political enemies.

Jesus disappointed those people greatly because He came to defeat a different set of enemies. Jesus did not enter our world to defeat the common enemies of the day. He did not come to fight Rome, but to fight and defeat our sin and shame. Ultimately, Jesus did not come to restore the political systems of that day, but to restore us to Himself. Jesus came as a very different King, a King that serves and suffers. Yet also a King that conquered death and Satan, the accuser and the liar who only seeks to destroy us.

Just as people were disappointed with Jesus, we too will be disappointed with Jesus if we forget who our real enemies are. If we think our enemies are flesh and blood, people with different views than us, we will be disappointed. If Jesus disappoints you, He will disappoint you because He is not focused on conquering what you are hoping He will conquer. But if we remember who our real enemies are, then we rejoice in the beauty of Christmas, the conquering news of Christmas. Through His birth, perfect life, sacrificial death, and conquering resurrection He has defeated our enemies of sin, shame, and death. He has rescued us from the grasp of the enemy and He will never let us go.

This article originally appeared here.

The Real Christmas Carol

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Most people have seen one or more versions of Charles Dickens’ A Christmas Carol.

Hands down, it is among my favorite Christmas tales: the story of Ebenezer Scrooge having his conscience reawakened through the apparition of his former partner, Jacob Marley, and the ghosts of Christmases past, present and future.

I like the characters.

I like the Victorian-era Christmas charm, complete with frosted windows, mistletoe and plum pudding.

I love the streets of Old London.

But when I first read the novel itself, after viewing various versions of the movie, I was shocked. Scrooge was not the buffoonish, almost cartoon-like character some of the movies made him out to be.

He was genuinely evil. Cruel. Malicious. He was a dark and sinister man. The story actually reads more like a Stephen King novel.

When you study the era itself that Dickens wrote about you realize that it was dark and evil as well (He published A Christmas Carol in 1843 as a social statement against harsh child labor practices.).

Historian Lisa Toland wrote a fascinating essay on the reality behind the story.

 

 

She explains that almost 75% of London’s population was considered working class, many of them children laboring in the factories. In fact, every member of a family had to work in order to survive. Dickens himself worked as a young boy to support his family while his parents were in debtors’ prison.

The time was known as the “Hungry Forties” because there was a depression along with a time of poor harvests. The London skyline was little more than smokestacks putting out clouds of sooty grit that covered rooftops and the cheeks of the young chimney sweeps.

It was the coal-dependent nature of these factories that created the famed London Fog. It wasn’t fog at all, but a combination of smoke, soot and grit. The streets were covered in rainwater, the contents of chamber pots and animal waste. Rats were abundant.

Small, often emaciated children sold flowers and matches while the wealthy class’ horse-drawn carriages swept past. London’s poor were forced into shrinking housing districts. Multiple families lived in single rooms in rundown buildings.

That was Dickens’ London.

And people had turned a blind eye because supposedly there were “services.” When two men ask Scrooge for money, he replies: “Are there no prisons? And the Union workhouses? Are they still open? … The Treadmill and the Poor Law are in full vigor, then?” Without context, there is much that we fail to understand.

What makes Scrooge’s comments so biting is that the Poor Law and its accompanying workhouses were despised by the poor. The driving principle was to make the conditions in those places worse than how they would have lived and worked had they had a job. And in trying to determine who did deserve to go there, the group that fell through the cracks was children. The father or mother would be sent to the workhouse, leaving the children alone to beg in the streets.

Or worse.

If you died while laboring in a workhouse, your body was automatically turned over for dissection. You wouldn’t even receive a burial. The conditions were so bad and people there were treated so poorly, that many of London’s poor chose to beg on the streets or enter into prostitution in order to avoid the workhouses.

From that darkness, Dickens gave us a tale of redemption.

The story of someone being saved.

There is another story we tend to romanticize.

We’ve all seen the Christmas cards that go out: pictures of Mary in flowing robes, gentle animals gazing lovingly down on the baby who is always blue-eyed, blonde and, while supposedly newborn, has the look and weight of a six-month-old.

That’s not the way it was.

Mary and Joseph were desperate to find a place for her to give birth and couldn’t find one. They ended up in an outdoor livestock area. Unclean, unkempt, unwelcome. Tradition – dating back to Justin Martyr in the second century – says it was probably some kind of cave. Smelly, damp, cold.

They had to use a feeding trough as a bassinet. The word “manger” is very warm and fuzzy, but don’t romanticize it. A manger was a feeding trough for the animals.

 

This was a desperately stark and sad scene.

And lonely.

The Bible tells us that Mary wrapped the baby in cloths. That was common for the day. Long strips of cloth were used to wrap the baby tight and keep their legs and arms straight and secure. The process is called swaddling.

It tells us something of the lonely nature of Mary’s motherhood that Luke records that she was the one who wrapped Jesus up after His birth. In other words, there was no midwife or relative helping, which would have been the norm.

And she was young. Very young.

Engagement usually took place immediately after entering puberty, so Mary may have just entered her teens—13, 14 or, at the most, 15.

And from that darkness, we are given another picture of redemption.

Another story about being saved.

Another story that can be romanticized, but that was very, very real.

Real in a way that drives us to our knees to marvel at God come to Earth to save… us.

Sources

Lisa Toland, “The Darker Side of ‘A Christmas Carol,’” Christianity Today, December 2, 2009, read online.

This article originally appeared here.

Uncover the “Why” of Incarnation

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It’s a perfectly logical question for this time of year.

The incarnation of Jesus: God becoming flesh in the form of a baby. St. John covers this pretty good in chapter 1 of his gospel account.

Here’s a hint: It didn’t have anything to do with Christmas. How do I know that? When Jesus was born they didn’t celebrate birthdays. His parents didn’t even use the Roman calendar we use to declare his birthday as December 25. Maybe somewhere someone wrote down the day Jesus was born. Heck, we’ve got a one in 365-day chance that he was born on that day. But considering they used a 360-day calendar, it’s safe to say that Christmas isn’t really about Jesus’ birth.

So let’s instead focus on the incarnation of Jesus the Christ. All of that birthday stuff is just a distraction from the really good stuff.

Christmas, from a religious holiday perspective, is about Jesus bringing the Good News to earth.

I’m pretty sure the incarnation of Jesus has nothing to do with having his birth celebrated by giving one another gifts financed by debt. Oops. Sorry, too personal?

And I surely know it had nothing to do with putting a ton of your churches resources into putting up decorations and hosting a pageant. God didn’t take on flesh as an outreach event. Yeah, I’m looking at you.

The incarnation, a quick review

  1. John 1:12—“Yet to all who did receive him, to those who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God.” [Let’s be honest, we like this statement best because it has to do with us. It’s OK, it’s good news to us. It’s awesome news to become a child of God!]
  2. John 1:9—“The true light that gives light to everyone was coming into the world.”

The Good News of Jesus is personal. I’m an evangelical, and boy do I like that! It’s all about me, baby!

Or is it?

John 1:9 is oddly inclusive. It implies that it’s not just about me. And it’s not just about bringing people to church so that they can be exposed to the message of Jesus.

The incarnation of Christ includes bringing a more general Good News to the earth. To everyone. And for those of us (myself included) who see the incarnation through an evangelical lens … this idea messes with our theology a little. We talk a ton about personal salvation and accepting Jesus into our heart. But John makes it clear that there is some general good news brought to the whole world through Jesus’ light.

Think about the physics of bringing light into a dark room for a second. Let’s say you are in a dark movie theater. It’s full of people … a thousand of them. And suddenly the screen goes pure white.

Who does that white light effect? Just the people who chose to be effected by the light? Of course not! Everyone who was in darkness is effected by the light. Personal choice has nothing to do with it. Everyone in the room was in darkness and is now experiencing some sort of the benefits of the light shining.

So, as we think about the incarnation of Christ, we must think about “What does it mean that Jesus brought light to the whole world, practically?

7 Reasons You Should Speak Without Using Notes

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One of the questions I get asked all the time is, “How do you speak for 40 minutes without using notes?” It’s a great question. Personally, I actually prepare notes, but I rarely if ever use them when I speak. So, why should you learn to speak without using notes? Because you can. And because it will make you far more effective.

I create notes (sometimes even scripting out stories word for word) because: Better preparation makes me a better speaker. Writing down my thoughts clarifies my thinking. My notes give me something to review the day before the talk and the day of the talk.

But then, when I get up on stage, I leave them behind. The only exception is if I need an outline to keep the computer graphics people in sync or I’m using a fill in the blank handout for people—again, so I can track verbatim with their notes and keep us in sync.

And then, it’s just the outline that’s on the screen or in people’s hands that comes with me. No other notes.

But I didn’t start this way as a communicator. Like most people, my first years of speaking were heavily reliant on notes. I remember that moment early in my ministry when I finally freed myself of notes. It was nerve wracking. It’s actually not that hard to do, and it’s learnable. But it was so rewarding. Using notes almost always makes you less effective as a communicator.

7 Reasons You Should Speak Without Using Notes

So, why should you learn to speak without using notes? Because you can. And because it will make you far more effective.

1. Your favorite communicators don’t use notes

I’m going out on a limb here to guess that your favourite communicators don’t use notes. Why? Because the best rarely, if ever, do. People connect better with speakers who speak without notes. You do. So why not become one?

2. You seem far more sincere and authentic when you don’t use notes

This isn’t a good thing. It’s just a true thing. You might be 100 percent sincere and authentic when reading from your notes. But you don’t come across that way. When you read a talk, or rely heavily on your notes, people think it’s coming from your head, not your heart. Or worse, they think it’s a series of points you’re supposed to believe but don’t. Freeing yourself up from your notes creates a much more believable message. When you read a speech, people think you’re insincere and inauthentic, even when you’re not.

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Great Last Minute Christmas Gifts for Church Musicians

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2020 has been a crazy year for the musician in your life. Between lost gigs and our new virtual church set up there has been a lot of change. Whether you are a worship leader looking for great last minute gifts for your team or you know a church musician, check out this list to bring some bright gear to the end of their year.

Great Last Minute Gifts

1. The Most Popular Affordable In-Ear Monitors

Most musicians are using in-ear monitors. I can’t count the number of times I have left mine at home and it’s always a great idea to have another extra pair. These IN-EAR MONITORS are really affordable and have incredible reviews! Tip: I suggest buying the clear ones since they are the most in-demand and least obstructive on the stage. Here is another very highly rated in-ear monitor. 

 

Perfect Christmas Gifts for Church Musicians

2. Perfect Stand for All That Extra Gear

Laptops, cameras, and random devices are everywhere in modern music-making. One of these Universal Laptop Projector Tripod Stands will serve just about every musician and there’s a good chance they don’t even know they need one.

Computer, Book, DJ Equipment Holder Mount Height Adjustable Up to 35 Inches

Perfect Christmas Gifts for Church Musicians

 

3. Subscription to Monthly Magazine 

Every month for a year your musician friend will say “thank you” again and again when they receive one of these high-end periodicals. Magazines like this are great for training and even leaving around the church green room.

Songwriting Magazine Subscription

Sound Magazine Subscription

Guitar Magazine Subscription

Bass Magazine Subscription

 

4. Extra Music Stand Light

Every music maker at some point in their life needs a MUSIC STAND LIGHT. Dark stages can make reading music a drag and it’s nice to have one of these in your case. Bonus if you buy this before our Christmas Eve Candlelight service!

5. Clip-On Tuner

Staying in tune is job number one for the string instrumentalists in your life. We might already have one of these crucial devices, but we could always use another. Please buy us another CLIP ON TUNER and we will thank you for it! This is for stringed instrument players.

 

6. Extra Floor Tuner 

I know not a single guitarist or bass player that could not benefit from an extra floor tuner. These tuners have gotten great reviews. KLIQ TinyTune Tuner Pedal for Guitar and Bass – Mini.

7. Low Profile Folding Guitar Stand

Most guitar players could use an EXTRA GUITAR STAND that breaks down but still can hold the instrument safely. This particular stand is a personal favorite. It’s so common to show up to a church or a gig and realize you don’t have a stand for your guitar, this low-profile stand will be the perfect practical gift. This adjustable stand fits acoustic guitars, electric guitars, basses, and ukuleles.

K&M Heli 2 Guitar Stand Folding A-Frame for Acoustic and Electric Guitars (17580B)

 

8. Throat Coat Tea (for singers) 

HERBAL MEDICINES THROAT COAT TEA  is world-famous with singers in every genre of music. It’s perfect for worship leaders or anyone that’s just “not feeling it” early Sunday morning. Couple this gift with TEA KETTLE on this list and you will be a best friend forever!

Traditional Medicinals Herb Tea Og1 Throat Coat 16 Bag

9. The Best of the Best Notebook for Creatives 

Leuchtturm is known for making the best notebooks. You will get a big smile from just about any creative person as they open this AWESOME NOTEBOOK that speaks for itself. Right before the new year, this book will be the perfect inspiration for new ideas, songwriting, and journaling.

10. Variable Temperature Hot Water Kettle (for singers) 

Hot water and tea are the secret weapons for just about any singer. Having THE PERFECT ELECTRIC WATER KETTLE for warming up water to a drinkable warmth is a must!

11. The BEST Phone Film From Home Stand Package 

We are all filming more at home these days with online church. These next three items are a life changer for anyone who is filming from home. The flexibility and quality are second to none and it’s all affordable.

A nice HEAVY BOOM STAND to hold your phone. A microphone stand is 100 times more adjustable and easy to use than a typical camera stand. 

A nice METAL ADAPTER thingy to affix the adapter.

A nice PLASTIC ADAPTER to cradle your phone.

Christmas Gifts Worship Musicians

12. A Foot Tambourine 

This FOOT TAMBOURINE is a great last minute gifts for the worship leader or musician that has to multi-task. By just stomping your foot, you will turn into the drummer you’ve always wanted to be. This might seem like a silly gift, but it’s very practical and will put a smile on your loved one’s face. Bonus: check out this very cool ANKLE SHAKER.

 

Christmas Gifts Worship Musicians

 

13. Nostalgic Tabletop Metronome

This groovy tabletop metronome (a device that helps musicians keep time) is a perfect gift for a musician. There are now countless computer and app-driven devices for keeping time, but this NOSTALGIC  TABLETOP METRONOME will fit perfectly in your musician’s office or practice space.

Christmas Gifts Worship Musicians

14. Stylophone Retro Pocket Synth

Having more instruments is always a good thing! This FUN LITTLE POCKET SYNTH will be a unique addition to the music makers in your life.

Christmas Gifts Worship Musicians

 

This article on great last minute gifts for your worship team originally appeared here, and is used by permission.

Pat Robertson: It’s Time to Tell Trump He’s Had His Day

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Televangelist and Trump supporter Pat Robertson says he believes President Trump’s efforts to dispute this year’s presidential election results are “all over.” Additionally, Robertson said he thinks Trump running for reelection in 2024 would be a “mistake.”

“I think we’re going to see a President Biden and I also think we’ll be seeing a President Kamala Harris not too long after the inauguration of President Biden,” Robertson said Monday on The 700 Club

Robertson, who prophesied that Trump would win a second term back in October, emphasized his prediction about Harris rising to the highest office in the land is not “anything particularly from the Lord; this is my own opinion.”

While he admits he had hoped “for some better solution” to President Trump’s yet-to-be-proven claims of widespread voter fraud,  Robertson said that since the Electoral College has voted and declared Joe Biden the winner, he thinks Trump’s hopes of overturning the election results are futile. “I don’t think the Supreme Court is going to move to do anything,” Robertson added.

Trump Is a ‘Mixed Bag’

Trump has already implied he will try running again in 2024. Robertson called such an effort “a sideshow” and “a mistake.” Instead, Robertson said he thinks Nikki Haley, former U.S. Ambassador to the United Nations, would be a better bet: “I think she’d make a tremendous candidate for the Republican Party.”

Robertson also said that the President “lives in an alternate reality. People say he lies about “this, that, and the other,” Robertson explains, but insists the president isn’t lying. “To him, that’s the truth.” 

The televangelist mentioned a handful of things Trump has said that “really aren’t true,” such as how big the crowd was at his inauguration, that he saved NBC with his “Apprentice” show, and that he’s the most popular president. While Robertson says he does believe God placed Trump in the Oval Office and praised the president for doing a “marvelous job” with the economy, at the same time Robertson pointed out some of the president’s flaws. “He is very erratic and he’s fired people and he’s fought people and he’s insulted people and he keeps going down the line, so it’s a mixed bag,” he concluded. 

For this reason, Robertson believes “It would be well to say ‘You’ve had your day and it’s time to move on.’” 

That’s not to say Robertson is thrilled about a Biden-Harris administration.

“I think Biden is not capable of handling the stuff that’s going to be thrown at him,” Robertson explained. He then talked about China potentially invading Taiwan and Iran giving the U.S. military trouble in the Straights of Hormuz.  Robertson believes challenges from China and Iran will be “too much” for Biden to handle. 

Additionally, Robertson said he is very concerned about a shift toward socialism he believes the country is headed toward, thanks to leaders like Bernie Sanders. “It would be terrible to see this country go into some type of socialist decline,” he noted.

You can watch Robertson’s full comments here.

Los Angeles County Lifts Ban on Indoor Worship, Thanks to SCOTUS

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Based on recent Supreme Court decisions in favor of churches and religious freedom, Los Angeles County has lifted a ban on indoor worship. A revised public health order states that both indoor and outdoor services are permitted as long as attendees practice “strict physical distancing” and wear face coverings. Such protocols can “lower the risk” of COVID-19 transmission but won’t “eliminate” risk, the county warns, adding that outdoor worship is still preferable.

Due to “an unprecedented surge of COVID-19 cases, hospitalizations, and deaths,” county officials state, “every effort to prevent the spread of COVID-19 to congregants and to the entire community is critical.” In Southern California, currently the epicenter of America’s battle against coronavirus, intensive care units are full. The average daily infection rate in L.A. County alone is 13,000. Hospitals are “getting crushed,” says Dr. Brad Spellberg, chief medical officer at L.A. County-USC Medical Center. “I’m not going to sugarcoat this.”

California Churches Celebrate ‘victory’

Pasadena-based Harvest Rock Church, which had sued Gov. Gavin Newsom over “draconian” worship restrictions, posted on Facebook Sunday, “GOOD NEWS!! LA County lifts the ban on indoor worship. Family, thank you for standing with us this year, through everything! Thank you for your words of encouragement, support and for your prayers. 2020 was not wasted!”

At Grace Community Church (GCC) in Sun Valley, where Pastor John MacArthur has fought to remain open and faced hefty fines, congregant Leon Felipe said of the reversal, “It’s a victory. We need to worship. We need to be together, with our brothers and sisters. … It’s not just another thing to do. It’s worship.” Another congregant, Zelda Williams, said, “It’s not that we feel vindicated; it’s our Lord who is vindicated.”

GCC attorney Jenna Ellis expressed hope that L.A. County will now “cease hostility toward Grace Community Church and agree to drop the pending contempt proceedings.” She also called the ban reversal “a tacit admission that [the county’s] action was unconstitutional, as it was inconsistent with the Supreme Court’s rulings.” SCOTUS, with a newly cemented conservative majority, recently ruled in favor of churches in New York, Colorado, and New Jersey.

Other Churches Aren’t in a Rush

At St. Genevieve Catholic Church in Panorama City, the Rev. Lawrence Santos says he’s sticking with outside services for now, based on diocesan directives. “We’re happy to be able to celebrate outdoors,” he says. “The main concern is for the safety of people.” The church set up an altar and canopy in the parking lot, where some worshipers choose to remain in their vehicles.

The Rev. Loletta Barrett of Whittier First Friends Church says virtual-only worship is the responsible way to conduct church for now. “God gave us brains and scientists to help us understand how God’s creation works, and so the loving way to worship God is to listen to the scientists and stay home worshiping God and caring for others at a distance,” she says. “We have many people who live with people, whose health is compromised, of all ages. If all the friends can’t gather, it really wouldn’t be worship anyway.”

Jentezen Franklin, Trump Adviser and Prominent Georgia Pastor, Tests Positive for COVID-19

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Pastor Jentezen Franklin preaches to an empty sanctuary of Free Chapel, Sunday, March 15, 2020, in Gainesville, Georgia. Courtesy photo

(RNS) — Jentezen Franklin, a prominent pastor and unofficial evangelical adviser to President Donald Trump, has tested positive for COVID-19, the disease caused by the novel coronavirus.

Free Chapel Pastor Javon Ruff announced Franklin’s diagnosis during services Sunday (Dec. 20) at the Atlanta-area megachurch, saying the senior pastor “actually is doing great,” according to local news reports.

That announcement comes days after Franklin attended a Christmas party at the White House, though a spokesperson for Free Chapel said the pastor’s illness had no connection to the White House event.

Rather, the spokesperson said in a written statement shared with RNS, Franklin came into contact with the virus at least two days after the party.

It was not immediately clear what day Franklin had visited the White House. He posted photos and videos of the event Tuesday on Instagram. He then “was exposed to an associate of the congregation in the (Atlanta area) on Thursday, who turned out to be infected,” according to the statement.

So far, his symptoms have been mild, and he has been self-isolating and “abiding by all relevant CDC guidelines” in consultation with his doctor, according to the statement.

Symptoms can appear between two and 14 days after exposure to the virus, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.

Franklin is a frequent guest at the White House.

On Tuesday, the pastor posted photos and videos of himself and his daughter posing with Christmas decorations and a portrait of former President Ronald Reagan at a party inside the White House. Some of the party-goers appeared to be wearing face masks in the post. Franklin was not.

This summer, he attended a White House Rose Garden ceremony, after which several attendees were diagnosed with COVID-19, including University of Notre Dame President the Rev. John I. Jenkins, Harvest Christian Fellowship Pastor Greg Laurie and President Trump. Franklin tested negative after the event.

At the time, Franklin had posted a video on Twitter sharing he’d gotten the test “out of an abundance of caution” because he had met with and prayed for Trump before the event. He encouraged people to pray for all who have “the real disease, the very deadly disease of COVID-19.”

Free Chapel also announced Sunday it will move its Christmas Eve candlelight services online because of the rise in COVID-19 cases in the Atlanta area.

“We hope you have a special and meaningful Christmas this year with your family. This will be a Christmas like no other for so many people but Jesus is still the light of the world,” said Tracy Page, executive pastor of Free Chapel.


This article originally appeared on ReligionNews.com

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