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5 Practical Expressions of Love In Leadership

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Love in leadership is so critical because the love of God is both incomprehensible and incomparable.

It’s difficult to fully understand the depth of God’s love. There’s no end to it. It’s a love that surpasses knowledge (Ephesians 3:19).

Paul prays that [we] have power, together with all the saints, to grasp how wide, and long, and high, and deep is the love of Christ” (Ephesians 3:18).

A perfect love can’t be measured, or fully understood, but it can be experienced. It can be expressed, and that’s what God asks of us, to lead with this kind of love.

A love that is incomparable—“the incomparable riches of his grace, expressed in his kindness to us in Christ Jesus“ (Ephesians 2:7).

It’s because of His great love for us (Ephesians 2:4) that we do what we do.

I don’t know about you, but that can be an overwhelming thought at times.

I have to rest in His grace to know that He can use me to lead based on a motive of love. My love is so imperfect, yet God’s love says this is exactly what he wants me to do.

There are two things that help me grasp something as grand as this.

  1. God reminds me that it’s not about me and my love. It’s about God and His love. And if I genuinely seek to express God’s love, He helps fill in where I fall short. That doesn’t remove my humanity, it elevates God’s love and power.
  2. If I remain diligently focused on His purpose, that helps keep my motives pure.

It’s easy for any leader to get caught up in the everyday responsibilities from first-time visitors to staffing issues and end up missing the big picture.

The following paragraph is a devotional I wrote in an attempt to capture a succinct biblical summary of God’s purpose for the church and the nature of our calling.

It helps me keep focused on the big picture.

Our salvation (Eph 2:5,8), and the work that we have been divinely prepared for (Eph 2:10), was established in love (Eph 2:4; 3:17), according to His eternal purpose (Eph 3:11). And now, through the church (Eph 3:10), and with his power (Eph 3:20), we are called to know this love, (Eph. 3:19) and lead with this love, to fulfill His purpose.

Bored in Ministry? How to Bring the Excitement Back

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Is your ministry tired? Feel like you’re just going through the motions? Lost your passion for reaching kids and families? Hearing kids say the services and activities are boring? In maintenance mode? Feel like you’re stuck in the mud? Spinning your wheels but not going anywhere? Maybe, even wondering if you should quit?

Let’s talk for a minute. I can identify with how you feel because I have been there myself. More than once.

The good news is you don’t have to stay there. You can get back on track and see fresh perspective, energy and passion come flooding back into your life and ministry.

Let’s look at a few ways you can bring yourself and your ministry back to where it needs to be.

ASSESS IT. Your ministry is a reflection of your leadership. If the ministry has lost its excitement, it may be because you’ve lost your excitement and first love for the ministry. Search your heart. Spend time with God and ask Him to infuse you with fresh passion, energy and excitement for the ministry.

Think about a fire. A fire burns out if you don’t add wood to it. It’s the same with our ministry. If we don’t add wood to it, it will burn out. What is the wood you need to add to your ministry fire?

ACKNOWLEDGE IT. This is not the time to go into denial. If you ignore the issue, it will not just go away. Have the courage to face it head on. Identify what is causing the dip. If you refuse to admit something is wrong, you won’t be able to fix what is broken.

ASK KIDS AND FAMILIES WHAT IS MISSING. Bring in a group of kids and ask them to help you identify what has lost its effectiveness. What is boring? What isn’t fun anymore? Do the same thing with a group of parents. How can you minister to their children more effectively? What do you want to see happen in your child’s life? How can you better partner with them?

ADAPT WHAT IS NOT WORKING. Be willing to change and adapt what is not working. Across the country you will find churches that refuse to adapt. The result is those churches are dying. Don’t be one of those churches.

ADD SOME NEW TEAM MEMBERS. New volunteers can bring fresh energy and excitement. Enlist some new team members and bring them on board. Their energy can challenge your veteran volunteers.

We are privileged to be in children’s ministry. Just think, God chose you and I to impact people at the most important time in their life. Now that is something to be excited about.

This article originally appeared here.

Is Data Mining Ethical for Churches?

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Data mining has certainly been in the news a lot lately. Every time you turn around another company has been hacked and more of our personal information has been exposed. In addition, many of our favorite social networks are selling our data to big companies who in turn monetize it for profit. It’s no wonder why data mining has such a negative connotation. (I wrote about this in the May 2018 issue of Ministry Tech if you’d like to know more.)

While data mining can certainly be used for nefarious purposes it can also be used for good. Churches also collect tons of data (much like social networks and your favorite online shopping website) that can be used for greater Kingdom impact. It might be good to spend some time evaluating the data you already have. Many questions about attendance, giving, and serving trends can be found in the data you are already collecting.

Data about giving patterns can help reveal a lot more than just how much money was given. Giving data can be used to help track attendance and correlated with children’s check-in data, [it] can show a lot about how a family interacts with your ministries. What does it say if kids are checking in but there is no giving data? What about giving data with no children’s check-in history?

Check-in and attendance data also help provide a good picture of how an individual or family is connecting (or not connecting) with your ministry. Obviously, you want to see attendance trends for facility planning and discipleship but there is a lot more to it. Closing the back door to keep folks from slipping through the cracks is a challenge every ministry faces. Data mining, or using the data you already have to help you identify problem spots, is a valuable tool to target discipleship.

Serving data is another way to look at how well folks are being assimilated into your ministry and a great measure of discipleship. Having a clear picture of “who is doing what” can help you target volunteers for different ministry opportunities. Many times 20 [percent] of the people are doing 80 [percent] of the work because the other 80 [percent] of the people aren’t being properly asked or discipled to serve.

And then there’s cross-comparing the data: Do you know who’s attending and giving but not serving? What about who’s giving and serving but not attending? With online giving, it is also possible to give and not serve or attend.

We often don’t take the time to mine our data to answer these questions and more in order to grow our effectiveness. Corporations prioritize mining data to make money, churches and ministries should mine data to grow the Kingdom of Christ and help equip those they serve to become more faithful disciples.

 

Jonathan Smith is the Director of Technology at Faith Ministries in Lafayette, IN. You can reach Jonathan at jsmith@faithlafayette.org and follow him on Twitter @JonathanESmith.

 

 

Top 13 Children’s Ministry Conferences for 2019 in the U.S.

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Children’s Ministry Conferences for 2019

In Matthew 19:14, Jesus said, “Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these.” We put together this list of the top 12 children’s ministry conferences for 2019 in the United States so you can get the training, refreshment, and encouragement you so deserve in 2019. This is a multi-denominational list in chronological order because the church is multi-denominational.

JANUARY 2019 CHILDREN’S MINISTRY CONFERENCES

Children’s Pastors Conference

Being a Children’s Ministry leader takes a lot of energy, and it’s also easy to become discouraged or tired. We’ve created a world-class event that is uniquely designed for you, so that you can thrive in the calling that God has put in your life.

Dates: January 15-17, 2019
Location: Orlando, Florida
Sponsored by: International Network of Children’s Ministry
Speakers: Bob Goff, Lisa Harper, Beth Guckenberger, Robert Madu, Annie Downs, and more

The Gospel Truth About Children’s Ministry

Despite the latest programs and methods, many church leaders express fear that they are not discipling today’s kids to stand firm in their faith in the coming days. Is your church prepared to raise and equip young people to thrive in their faith?

Dates: January 24, 2019
Location: Houston, Texas
Sponsored by: Awana
Speakers: Matt Markins, President/COO of Awana, Nick Bethea Children’s Pastor at Cross Church – Arkansas

FEBRUARY 2019 CHILDREN’S MINISTRY CONFERENCES

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Children’s Ministry Expo

Whether your church has 50 or 5,000, you’ll find something to help you effectively reach kids for Christ. A great hands-on experience to see, hear and touch all sorts of tools to help you provide services to kids and their families. Meet local Christian Entertainers you can afford, listen to informative speakers who will help equip you, look at new curriculum samples and get other great ideas for your ministry.

Dates: February 1, 2019
Location: Tulsa, Oklahoma
Sponsored by: Children’s Ministry Expo
Speakers: John Tasch, David Rausch, Marie Kuck, Yancy, and others.

FourFiveSix’s Preteen Leaders’ Online Conference

At this unique conference experience, teams from around the world will discover: why the preteen years are a unique window of opportunity for ministry leaders, how to multiply the effects of ministry to preteens, creative ideas to take preteen ministry to the next level, and more.

Dates: February 21-22, 2019
Location: Online
Sponsored by: FourFiveSix
Speakers: Patrick Snow, Sean Sweet, Melissa Macdonald, Dan Scott, Becki and Gordon West, and others.

Focus ’19 

The theme for 2019 is “Go Beyond” at the Church of God Kidmin Leadership Training Conference. 

Dates: February 28 – March 2, 2019
Location: Knoxville, Tennessee
Sponsored by: Church of God
Speakers: 
Shane Cooke, Randy Christensen, Heather Quagliana, and others.

Do We Really Understand What It Means That Jesus Is Our Messiah?

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Why does the Bible refer to Jesus as the Messiah?

If we didn’t grow up with solid teaching about the Old Testament, it’s easy to wonder why it is in our Bibles and how it relates to the person of Jesus as revealed in the New Testament.

While we probably need to take a class (or 10) to even begin exploring what the entire Bible says about our messiah, this video from The Bible Project is a good place to start. It begins by explaining why we need a messiah in the first place.

When God created the world, He placed Adam and Eve in a beautiful garden and gave them authority over everything He made. He commanded them to do something: be fruitful and faithful stewards over everything He gave them. He also commanded them not to do something: eat from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil. If they did, they would die. As we know, the serpent persuaded Eve to try the fruit, which she also gave to Adam. Together, they disobeyed God’s command, bringing brokenness and death into the world.

Yet in the midst of God’s punishment for their sin, He gave the first promise of a savior. Eventually, He said, the “seed” of the woman would crush the head of the serpent.

But that’s only three chapters of the Bible. What about the rest of the Old Testament? It turns out that God reveals information about humanity’s savior throughout the entire Bible. When He calls Abraham, He tells him that through his offspring, He will bless all people in the world. He tells Abraham’s great-grandson, Judah, that a king will come from his descendants who will bring flourishing and peace. While Judah’s descendant, David, is a king after God’s own heart, he is still a fallen man and is not the promised messiah. But God does say that the messiah will come through David’s line. Even during the darkest days of Israel and Judah, when the majority of kings rejected God, God’s prophets maintained that the messiah would come and bring restoration.

Then, finally, Jesus came, a King, not just of Israel, but of all people. He saves us, not from outside oppression, but from the oppression of sin and death, giving us real power to combat the evil in our lives. And He will come again to complete His victory over evil and suffering and to bring His kingdom to earth forever.

If you enjoyed this video from the Bible Project, you’ll like these as well:

Chick-fil-A Will Observe the Sabbath—Even on Superbowl Sunday

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Practically every Christian in the United States (and a sizable population of non-Christians, too) knows Chick-fil-A is closed on Sundays. The Christian fast-food company is diligent about observing the Sabbath and allowing their employees an opportunity to go to church. While they’ve been known to break the policy in times of emergency (ox-in-ditch type situations) or very special occasions, the company has chosen to forgo profit on a majorly lucrative day this year: Superbowl Sunday.

“It is pretty unusual,” Jonathan Hollis, the operator of the Chick-fil-A location located inside Atlanta’s Mercedes Benz Stadium, admits. In a video posted to Chick-fil-A’s website, Hollis explains there are plenty of other opportunities to serve people at the stadium attending events other than those, like NFL games, that are held on Sundays.

Some nights the location serves as many as 5,000 sandwiches, Hollis says. Given the popularity of the Superbowl, it’s possible this location would have served even more than that at the upcoming February 3rd Superbowl game.

Chick-fil-A Is Doing Really Well, Despite Its Shorter Work Week

But for Chick-fil-A, it’s not a matter of how much money they are missing out on, rather a matter of principle. Since opening in 1946, the company’s founder, Truett Cathy, reserved Sundays as the Lord’s day and has shut its doors.

Chick-fil-A’s website says: “Having worked seven days a week in restaurants open 24 hours, Truett saw the importance of closing on Sundays so that he and his employees could set aside one day to rest and worship if they choose.”

Despite being open one day less than other major restaurant chains, Chick-fil-A is doing very well. According to an article in Forbes Magazine, Chick-fil-A is on a trajectory to become the third-largest restaurant chain in the U.S. in 2019—just behind McDonalds and Starbucks. The article also mentioned how the company treats its employees.

Many Chick-fil-A operators also pay well above the minimum wage, including a California operator who pays $17 an hour. At the corporate level, Chick-fil-A was just named one of the best large companies for women based on compensation and culture.

Chick-fil-A Has Made Exceptions to Their Closed-on-Sunday Rule

It’s important to note the times Chick-fil-A has opened locations on Sunday, simply because of their stark contrast to events like the Superbowl. When a power outage struck Atlanta’s Hartsfield-Jackson airport on a Sunday in December 2017, leaving thousands of travelers stranded, the location inside the airport opened up to serve them.

In 2015, a few locations near Dallas, Texas, opened on a Sunday to serve first responders who were working to save lives during a tornado that left 11 people dead.

More recently, a location in Mobile, Alabama, opened on Sunday to help a 14-year-old boy with special needs celebrate his birthday. CBS news wrote:

Elijah Sprague is autistic and has cerebral palsy, and his dream is to work in a drive-through. So his family pulled a few strings and the Chick-fil-A in Mobile let Elijah work there for his birthday.  

“This is super special to us,” Elijah’s mother told reporters. “Elijah’s not going to graduate like our other kids. He’s not going to get married or have kids. So this is just a really cool experience to us for him to have this level of attention…it’s neat for people to recognize he’s a really cool kid.”

In conclusion, Chick-fil-A seems to be doing impeccably well at following Jesus’ instructions on how to observe the Sabbath (see Luke 14). We are to observe it and rest from work, even if we could potentially make a whole lot of money if we didn’t. On the other hand, if there’s an emergency and we can do something to help other people, by all means we should work.

Put succinctly, Chick-fil-A has rightly concluded that the Superbowl is not an ox in the ditch.

Archbishop of Canterbury: ‘Every Christian Is a Charismatic’

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Archbishop of Canterbury Justin Welby, who has made headlines for his practice of speaking in tongues, believes all Christians are charismatic—in the sense that they’re all “filled with the Spirit.” Welby, head of the Church of England since November 2012, says in a recent interview that praying in tongues is “part of my daily discipline,” not “an occasional thing.”

Welby downplays his 5 a.m. habit, saying, “It’s not something to make a great song and dance about.” He adds, “Given it’s usually extremely early in the morning, it’s not usually an immensely ecstatic moment because I’m sort of…struggling.”

Welby also says he seeks—and is encouraged by—words of knowledge and prophecy. “I expect to hear from God through other people with words of knowledge or prophecies,” he says, “some of which I am unsure about, others I can sense there being something of the Spirit of God.” At his official residence, Welby receives many letters claiming to have a supernatural source.

Spiritual Gifts Aren’t Denomination-Specific, Says the Archbishop

The spiritual gifts of speaking in tongues and receiving words of knowledge and prophecy usually are associated with charismatic churches, such as Pentecostals. But Welby dismisses denominational distinctions, warning of “the danger of putting ‘charismatic’ as a tribal category within the church.” He adds, “All Christians are filled with the Spirit, so every Christian is a charismatic, in that sense.”

Welby, who’s from the evangelical wing of the Anglican Church, once belonged to a congregation where speaking in tongues wasn’t uncommon. He was first filled with the Holy Spirit at age 19, he says. “It was from that moment and in the days that followed I realized that the Holy Spirit of God had touched me in a very powerful way,” he said in 2015. “I began to speak in tongues and began to learn of the intimacy that Christ brings to us.”

The Biblical Basis for Speaking in Tongues

Before Jesus ascends into heaven, he tells his disciples about speaking in “new tongues” (Mark 16:17). At the first Pentecost, when the Holy Spirit descends on the disciples, Peter quotes Joel 2:28, which mentions prophecy, visions and dreams. And Romans 8:26 refers to the Holy Spirit’s “groanings too deep for words.”

Tongues, which have no easily understandable meaning, are useful when you don’t know what to pray, say some Christians. Some people believe speaking in tongues ceased with the early church, but Welby says the Holy Spirit remains alive and active through all believers.

The Archbishop uses the early church as a model for what’s possible today, citing Thy Kingdom Come, a global prayer movement focused on evangelism. Between Ascension and Pentecost (May 30 through June 9 this year), Christians from more than 65 denominations and 114 countries pray that more people will come to know Jesus. The movement, which Welby helped organize in 2016, “has no deeper rationale than the command of Jesus,” says the Archbishop. “[Jesus] said, ‘Go back into the city and pray for the Spirit of God.’”

3 Ways Churches Coddle KidZ and StudentZ

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Greg Luianoff and Jonathan Haidt coined the phrase “coddling of the American mind” in their Atlantic article and subsequent book by the same title. They lament the unintended consequences of an over-protective culture that shields people from reality, ideas, diverse thinking and risk. They wisely conclude that coddling hampers growth and development. Reading the book made me think about parenting, kids and student ministry, and the temptation to coddle. Here are three common ways churches can coddle the next generation—either unintentionally or intentionally.

1. Dumbing Down the Message

I have never loved kid’s ministries using “kidz” or misspelling other words—“We can’t spell correctly but you can trust us to teach your kids about Jesus!” I know it is harmless and not coddling, but I just don’t like any semblance of “we are dumbing things down” in an attempt to be clever or catchy. Kids and especially students can understand the big doctrines of the Christian faith. They are often under-estimated by church leaders. For example, high school students read classic literature, work on Calculus problems, and debate ethics. And at church they can handle some deep thinking and will grow because of it.

2. Ignoring the Community

Every church must decide if they will run from the local community or pursue and love their local community. Because every local community is filled with people who hold beliefs and values contrary to the Christian faith, some churches sadly seclude themselves and go to over-protective mode. When a church secludes herself from the community, both the community and the church suffer. The community suffers because the church is called to serve the community, and the community fails to realize the blessing the church is to be. But those in the church also suffer, including kids and students, because they are not confronted with the pain, doubt and diverse viewpoints that will help them grow.

3. Limiting Risks

The authors of The Coddling of the American Mind lament a culture that has expanded the definition of “safety” to beyond threats of physical harm. The authors wisely reason that when the term “unsafe” is broadened to include any type of pain, people will be pulled from situations that will develop them. When people are coddled, risks are minimized and people’s development is thwarted. Churches must challenge people to take risks because risks develop us. Taking students on a global mission trip is risky. Inviting older kids to help adult leaders serve younger kids is risky and extra work. Challenging kids to speak up for their faith is risky. But all of these moves help kids and students grow. A life without risks is a life without growth.

Should a church have procedures and processes to ensure those who invest in kids and students are trustworthy? Absolutely! Should a church ensure the area where kids gather is safe, clean, fun and a place parents can fully trust? Absolutely! But “safety” must not mean dumbing down the message, ignoring the community, or limiting risks that build confidence and faith.

This article originally appeared here.

On Earth as It Is in Heaven: A Biblical Theology of Worship

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Worship at the Dawn of Time

Since the beginning of time, there has been worship—in heaven and on earth. In heaven above, seraphim flew before God in the heavens, singing, “Holy, holy, holy is the Lord God of hosts; the whole earth is full of his glory!” (Isa. 6:3); angelic creatures flew before him, calling to one another, “Holy, holy, holy, is the Lord God Almighty, who was and is and is to come!” (Rev. 4:8). On earth below, the sun, moon and stars sounded forth his praise across every land and sea under the heavens: “Praise him, sun and moon, praise him, all you shining stars” (Ps. 148:3).

Worship in Eden

In the beginning, God also called Adam to covenant worship on Mount Eden (cf. Ezek. 28:14) through his word and sacrament: “And the Lord God commanded the man, saying, ‘You may surely eat of every tree of the garden, but of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil you shall not eat, for in the day that you eat of it you shall surely die’” (Gen. 2:16–17). Adam was commanded to fast from one tree in order that he might feast at another tree, and thus enjoy consummate union and communion with God—everlasting life. And so for Adam and all his descendants, a liturgy was fixed, stitched into the very order and fabric of human life on earth: call—response—meal:

Call to worship (through God’s Word and sacrament)
Response (by faith and obedience)
Fellowship meal (union and communion with God)

In short, God established worship on Mount Eden with his son, Adam. It was familial, covenantal worship of God through word and sacrament—the word of the covenant of life and the sacrament of the tree of life.

Idolatry in Eden

But Adam’s worship soon turned to idolatry when he abandoned the call of God and followed the call of the serpent. He abandoned his probationary fast, disobeyed the voice of his God, and bowed down to the serpent. He exchanged the worship of the Creator for the worship of the creature. Since Adam was the covenant head of humanity, he introduced the liturgy of idolatry into the fabric of human life.

Worship Through Sacrifice

Yet God is too great and good and glorious to forego the right, fitting and delightful adoration that is due him from his creatures. God worked to restore the worship of himself by making a new covenant with man—the covenant of grace.

In Genesis 3:15, the promise of a son who would come and crush the serpent was, by implication, a promise to restore—and perfect—the worship of God. This covenant of grace became the context in which God would restore worship. Integral to that restored worship was the idea of sacrifice—seen in the animal skins that God provided for Adam and Eve (Gen. 3:20).

As redemptive history unfolds, sacrifices play an important part in the lives of the chosen seed. Noah, Abraham, Isaac and Jacob respond to God’s call in faith and obedience; they offer sacrifices to God. Sacrifice also becomes central to the life of Israel, God’s national (typical) son. The purpose of the exodus is described in terms of worship by sacrifice at Mount Sinai (Exod. 3:12, 18; 4:23; 5:2; 10:7–11).

Worship by sacrifice in the Holy of Holies reaches its climax under King Solomon, God’s royal (typical) son. In his “dedication service” for the temple on Mount Zion, Solomon offers so many sheep and oxen that they could not even be numbered (2 Chron. 5:6). In the covenant of grace, worship by sacrifice in God’s presence becomes the new norm.

Worship at Eden, Sinai and Zion

The Old Testament story presents three “mountain peaks” of worship in which God’s son is called to worship: Adam on Mount Eden, Israel at Mount Sinai, and Solomon on Mount Zion. In each worship setting, the liturgical order is organically developed. For example, as Israel gathers at Mount Sinai, after being redeemed and rescued out of slavery in Egypt, a liturgy is formed that becomes the basic pattern for Israel’s worship in the future.

Gathering (at Mount Sinai) (19:1–3a)
Calling (by God’s word) (19:3b–9)
Cleansing (through sacrifice) (19:10–15)
Mediated access (through an appointed prophet-priest) (19:16–25)
Divine communication (Ten Commandments and Book of Covenant) (20:1–24:2)
Consecration (promise of obedience) (24:3)
Sacrifice (burnt offerings and peace offerings) (24:4–5)
Divine communication (Book of Covenant) (24:7)
Cleansing (blood of burnt offerings and peace offerings sprinkled) (24:6, 8)
Mediated access to God’s presence (24:9–10)
Fellowship meal (with God) (24:11)

A similar pattern to Exodus 19–24 is seen in 2 Chronicles 5–7, as Solomon gathers Israel for the dedication of the temple. Again, the key elements of sacrifice and prophetic-priestly intercession are present:

Gathering (at Mount Zion) (5:2–3)
Cleansing (through sacrifice) (5:4–6)
Mediated access (through priests) (5:7–10)
Praise (with singing and music) (5:11–13)
Glory of God fills the temple (5:14)
Divine communication (Word of God through Solomon) (6:1–11)
Prayer of intercession (by Solomon) 6:12–42)
Fire and glory (from heaven) (7:1–2)
Praise (bowing and thanking) (7:3)
Cleansing/consecration (through sacrifice) (7:4–7)
Meal (feast) (7:8–10)
Blessing and dismissal (7:9–10)

Confessions of a Struggling Youth Minister

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Confessions of a Struggling Youth Minister

“How are you doing?” I don’t know about you, but in my Bible Belt ministry context, this combination of words poses as a friendly greeting at best, and at worst represents a question that one rarely answers truthfully. When I am asked this question, the expected response is usually, “Fine.” If I tarry in coming up with my answer, I reveal vulnerability, brokenness, maybe even sin. Not many folks have time for that nonsense.

I suspect that most Youth Ministers wish to avoid being asked this question because, unfortunately, we fear that no one really wants to take the time to stop and hear the truth. I also suspect, however, that most Youth Ministers desperately wish for at least one person in their church to be their confidant: someone with whom they can share anything without the fear of judgment or job loss. How do you find such a person? Can this person even exist inside your church?

Perhaps it was my need to have these questions answered that caused me to blurt out at a recent Session meeting, “It’s really difficult to know when it’s OK to let someone know you’re not OK.”

This particular meeting came on the tail end of one doozy of a year. We had just moved into a new church facility at a completely new location. The process of transferring to that new location was all encompassing, and everyone was exhausted by the time the move was complete. At the same time, we as a leadership had watched several marriages in our church fall apart, despite our best efforts to walk alongside the couples and point them to Jesus. To top it all off, we had been through some incredibly difficult conflict with another staff member. And yes, that conflict involved me. We were drained. I was hurt and embarrassed over my sin and my failings. None of us were “fine.” But when your job seems to depend on you being “fine,” you may be the last person anyone expects to let it be known that you’re not OK.

Time continues to help heal wounds and God is so gracious and faithful that he even uses these failures to transform me more and more into the image of His Son, Jesus. But I have to confess: Very few of my problems were solved at that meeting, and I don’t know who I can really lean on in my church! I suspect I’m not the only one, not even the only one in my church.

I sat with the staff the other day as we shared prayer requests. Everyone in the room either had nothing to share, or shared something about someone else. I certainly can’t blame anyone for feeling uncomfortable with vulnerability in that setting. I myself was not willing to share any of my own struggles at the time; the potential risks overshadowed the benefits. “What if I’m the only one who struggles with this?” “What if they fire me for these sin issues?” These are legitimate concerns that you may share as well, but keeping your struggles to yourself because of these concerns will only isolate you.

Even Jesus needed community, and while he certainly didn’t have any sin issues, he did live vulnerably with his disciples. In Matthew 26:36-38, Jesus brings Peter, James and John with him to the Garden of Gethsemane where he shares with them that his “soul is very sorrowful, even to death.” The Son of God was a man of sorrows (Isaiah 53:3) and he was open about them to others! Why should we think we don’t need to open up? Similarly, there is a value in cultivating accountable and authentic relationships with Jesus followers outside of our own churches.

Some of the best meetings I’ve had over the past year or two have been with brothers from other churches in my city who have been willing to listen without judgment to whatever bomb I was willing to drop on our conversation. The weight of not being OK in ministry can almost instantly be lifted through confession and open conversation with another believer. That doesn’t mean your problems are solved. It means you know you’re not alone, and that God is at work in your life as other believers carry your burdens. And a great perk of that type of relationship is that it is mutual. You get to serve the other person by listening and groaning with them.

How Can the Bible Be Inerrant if Copyists Made Mistakes?

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How can the Bible be inerrant if there are variations among the manuscripts and even between different accounts of the same events? That’s the question we’ll explore together in this post.

How Can We Have the Word of God if Some of the Words Are Different?

I slumped in an unpadded pew, half-listening to the morning Bible study. I wasn’t particularly interested in what the Bible teacher in this tiny Christian high school had to say. But, when the teacher commented that the New Testament Gospels always reported word-for-word what Jesus said, I perked up and lifted my hand. This statement brought up a question that had perplexed me for a few weeks.

“But, sometimes,” I mused, “the words of Jesus in one Gospel don’t match the words of the same story in the other Gospels—not exactly, anyway. So, how can you say that the Gospel-writers always wrote what Jesus said word-for-word?”

The teacher stared at me for a moment, stone-silent.

I thought maybe he hadn’t understood my question; so, I pointed out an example that I’d noticed—the healing of a “man sick of the palsy” in Simon Peter’s house, if I recall correctly (Matthew 9:4-6; Mark 2:8-11; Luke 5:22-24, King James Version).

Still silence.

Finally, the flustered teacher reprimanded me for thinking too much about the Bible. (In retrospect, this statement was more than a little ironic: A Bible teacher in a Bible class at a Bible Baptist school accused me of thinking too much about the Bible!) What I was doing, he claimed, was similar to what happened in the Garden of Eden, when the serpent asked Eve if God had actually commanded them not to eat from the Tree of Knowledge.

I didn’t quite catch the connection between my question and the Tree of Knowledge—but I never listened to what that teacher said about the Bible again. I knew that something was wrong with what he was telling me. Still, it took me several years to figure out the truth about this dilemma—a truth which, just as I suspected, had everything to do with the teacher’s faulty assumptions about the Bible and nothing to do with Eve or the serpent. What I learned later was that the idea of word-for-word citations and quotations is a modern notion that would have been foreign to the authors of Scripture.

Here’s what my Bible teacher assumed: If the Bible is divinely inspired, the Bible must always state what was said word-for-word, with no variations. To question this understanding of the Bible was, from this teacher’s perspective, to doubt the divine inspiration of Scripture.

Oddly enough, when it comes to differences between biblical manuscripts, some skeptics seem to pursue a similar line of reasoning to the one my teacher followed when I asked the differences between the Gospels. “How does it help us to say that the Bible is the inerrant word of God if in fact we don’t have the words that God inerrantly inspired,” one such skeptic claims, “but only the words copied by the scribes—sometimes correctly but sometimes (many times!) incorrectly?” In other words, if there are variations among the many thousands of copies of Scripture, how can anyone reasonably claim that the Scriptures are inerrant?

So how can Christians respond to such suppositions?

Let’s look together at three crucial facts that can equip you to take another perspective on these skeptical claims!

1. “Inerrant” describes the original manuscripts, not the copies

First off, inerrancy has never meant that every copy of Scripture throughout history has been identical! The word “inerrancy” refers to the original autographs of Scripture, not to every manuscript and printed copy made afterward. God inspired the authors of Scripture and safeguarded their words from error. God did not, however, prevent the thousands of copyists across the ages from making mistakes as they copied the manuscripts! As a result, the surviving copies of Scripture are sufficiently accurate for us to recover the inerrant truth that God intended and inspired, but they have not always been copied with perfect accuracy.

3 Reasons We Don’t Preach Gospel-Centered Sermons

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Lately I’ve had numerous discussions with ministry leaders about why it’s so difficult to find truly gospel-centered preaching. Even among those who otherwise affirm the biblical necessity of prioritizing Christ in our preaching, it is sometimes rare to encounter sermons that do not treat Christ and his grace as an option or afterthought. Why is this so? Why, despite an abundance of helpful resources and exemplary models, do we still have a hard time turning the homiletical corner to preaching Christ? Here are three possible explanations:

1. We lack the conviction.

Some lack the conviction to preach gospel-centered sermons simply out of ignorance. They have not had access to examples of it. They’ve not been trained to preach that way. They are unaware—ignorant, in the dictionary sense—of the possibility of Christ-centered preaching. Others are aware of the option but have rejected it. For whatever reason—whether not seeing the value or alternatively affirming a different hermeneutic—they do not think gospel-centered is the best way to preach. Whatever the reason, they do not see Christ’s words to his disciples on the road to Emmaus or Paul’s words about Christ being the yes to every biblical promise as instructive for proclaiming an expository message in a Christocentric way.

2. We lack the competency.

This reason may be most common. Many preachers have not been trained adequately to preach in a gospel-centered way. Their profs didn’t teach it. Their pastors didn’t model it. Their experience has not bent toward it. They affirm the value theologically, but they have trouble in the actual sermon composition of “getting there” exegetically. Many preachers end their sermons with an evangelistic invitation and suppose this is gospel enough. And certainly, a gospel invitation at the conclusion of a message is better than no gospel content at all! But some preachers just can’t figure out how to preach Christ from the biblical text in natural, biblical ways. They want to, but don’t know how.

Finally, however, is a reason I think may be more common than we realize, and one that is not often considered, because it steps beyond our gifts and into our character.

3. We lack communion with Christ.

I don’t mean that non-gospel-centered preachers aren’t Christians. I just suspect that many who lack the aroma of Christ in their preaching actually lack the aroma of Christ in their spiritual lives. They have probably gotten so accustomed to the routine of ministry that the Scriptures and the Christ within them has become more a matter of feeding others rather than feeding one’s self. The Bible has become something dealt out, rather than first something dwelled in.

At the inaugural Gospel Coalition Conference in 2007, Tim Keller gave the seminal talk “What Is Gospel Centered Ministry?” That message contains the now-classic “Jesus is the true and better” application. At the end of that homiletical run, Keller said something that has stuck with me ever since I first heard it. He said, “That’s not typology; that’s an instinct.” Of course, what he was doing was typology. But I think what he meant was that Christ-centered preachers almost cannot help preach Christ. They would have to make themselves avoid preaching the gospel. If anything, the temptation is to “jump over” the immediate exposition of the text to, as Spurgeon famously said, “make a road to Christ.”

In other words, if we are regularly communing with Christ, reading the Scriptures in a devotional sense in a daily and disciplined way, the instinct is there to preach Christ. It is a spiritual impulse that (super)naturally finds its way into our sermon preparation. How could a gospel-centered preacher not preach a gospel-centered sermon?

It’s just a theory, but perhaps the reason so many preachers who read all the gospelly books and blogs, listen to all the gospelly podcasts, and follow all the gospelly Twitter accounts still struggle to preach gospelly sermons is because they are not in regular communion with the Christ who is the center.

But it’s not too late, brothers. It’s not too late to refashion our conviction to Paul’s resolution, to work diligently in exegetical competency toward gospel-centeredness, and to return afresh to daily rest in our Savior.

But if I say, “I will not mention his word or speak anymore in his name,” his word is in my heart like a fire, a fire shut up in my bones. I am weary of holding it in; indeed, I cannot.
— Jeremiah 20:9

This article originally appeared here.

2 Reasons Christian Leaders Can Take Risks (More Than Other Leaders Can)

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I have often challenged leaders to find seasons of being overwhelmed because you will only grow if you are overwhelmed and take risks—risks of taking on more responsibility or chasing after a big goal. This was true when you took your first steps as a toddler, when you boarded a bus or subway for the first time as a child, when you took your first hard class in school, and when you led your first meeting. If you are never overwhelmed with a sense of “I am in over my head,” you will not force yourself to learn new skills or develop new capabilities.

But you can’t be too overwhelmed or you will be crushed. The art to our own leadership development is being overwhelmed enough to grow but not so overwhelmed that we can’t breathe. How our muscles grow is instructive for us here. If you want to grow your muscles you must lift heavier weights. Your muscles must be overwhelmed. But if they are too overwhelmed, you can get injured and face setbacks for a long time.

In Jordan Peterson’s highly acclaimed book 12 Rules for Life, he writes about the difference between order and chaos and he challenges people to have one foot in both. While we long for order, it is chaos that challenges us. He writes:

“Order is not enough. You can’t just be stable, and secure, and unchanging, because there are still vital and important new things to be learned. Nonetheless, chaos can be too much. You can’t long tolerate being swamped and overwhelmed beyond your capacity to cope while you are learning what you still need to know. Thus, you need to place one foot in what you have mastered and understood and the other in what you are currently exploring and mastering.”

So, according to Peterson, to be able to learn new things you need one foot on stable ground and one foot exploring. Peterson’s encouragement caused me to reflect on why Christians are in such a great position to learn and grow and develop. Here are two reasons Christian leaders, more than other leaders, should be able to take risks and step out of their comfort zones:

1. The ground believers stand on is firm.

Those who don’t stand on solid footing can’t embrace the chaos as much as those who stand on solid ground. Believers have received the good news of Jesus, and now stand on the firm foundation of that news (I Corinthians 15:1-2). The news that Christ came to secure our salvation and give us His peace and forgiveness is news that changes everything about us. It is the firm foundation on which we build our lives. There is no surer a foundation. Everything else we are tempted to build our lives on will fail us, but Christ is forever and He satisfies forever those who come to Him. Our salvation has been purchased. Our standing is secure. Our identity is set. We stand on solid ground

2. The results of the risks don’t impact our identity.

Those who don’t stand on the solid ground of Christ are likely to find their worth and identity in the result of the risk that they take. Believers don’t have to find their identity in the result; we should not find our identity in the result. So, we don’t have to lead in fear or timidity because the result of our leadership isn’t who we are. God has already secured who we are. Standing on the foundation of the gospel frees me to take risks because my identity is not in the result of the risk. Christ has already secured my identity as His child. I am set. I stand on solid ground.

This article originally appeared here.

When Ministry Is Discouraging

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If you have been in ministry longer than a minute, you know that it is not always sunshine and roses. There are days that are hard and things go the exact opposite of how you would hope they would go. Sometimes there are many of those days strung together and ministry is a season of frustration and discouragement. I talk to people all the time who are facing this type of season.

People leave. Volunteers quit. Momentum changes. Challenging issues arise. Conflicts seem more prevalent. Detailed plans fall apart. All the technology breaks at once. Budgets are tight. Calendars are busy. Disappointments are around every corner. Stress is high and there don’t seem to be magic answers to complex problems.

Ministry is hard. You can do all of the right things and still be in a tough season. God never promises that ministry will be a smooth path. In fact, scripture paints an opposite picture of a life that is serving Jesus. The idea of taking up our cross and following Jesus is not a picture of easy street.

But, y’all, it is so worth it. One of my favorite verses of all time is 2 Corinthians 4:17.

For our momentary light affliction is producing for us an absolutely incomparable eternal weight of glory.

The angry deacon or the cussing third grader or the dwindling attendance may not feel like momentary or light afflictions. They hurt. They cause worry and stress and consume our minds. But they are momentary. They are not going to last forever, and even if by some strange chance that deacon stays grumpy toward you for the rest of your life, you won’t have to deal with him in eternity. 🙂 He is momentary compared to the eternal purposes God is accomplishing through you.

The second half of that verse says that these afflictions are producing an “absolutely incomparable eternal weight of glory.” None of the discouraging things we encounter compare with the eternal glory we are headed toward. Absolutely incomparable. Don’t let a discouraging season dissuade you. It is a season. It is not eternity. There are people who will experience eternal life because of the work that you are doing. It is worth it.

So, keeping this eternal glory in mind, how do we keep putting one foot in front of the other during discouraging times of ministry?

  • Do a sincere personal and spiritual inventory. A discouraging season doesn’t mean that you are doing anything wrong. However, it is healthy to do a sincere heart check to evaluate if there is anything that you should be doing differently. Are you depending on Christ to lead you and work through you or are you trying to do ministry in your own power? If there is sin in your life that you’ve been trying to hide, get rid of it. If there are disciplines you’ve neglected, determine how to move forward.
  • Talk to someone. Isolating yourself during discouragement is dangerous. You need to have someone in your life with whom you can be authentic and open. It might help to have someone inside of your church that can share their personal observations, but also to have someone outside of your church that you can say all of your unfiltered words to. Find encouraging, gospel-centered confidants who will point you toward Jesus.
  • Don’t avoid conflict and hard conversationsIn an effort to protect our own hearts, we tend to avoid the hard things, especially in dealing with people. Ignoring issues doesn’t make them go away. Talk to the people who you think are upset, address the volunteer who keeps skipping out, and reach out to those you feel disconnected from. Every issue will probably not be resolved to your 100 percent satisfaction, but I guarantee 100 percent of the things you avoid will not be resolved at all.
  • Sleep. You can rarely outwork a discouraging season. Yes, dig in and work hard and do the very best that you can do. But do not sacrifice your own health and sanity in the process. Sometimes God may just be using this season for us to slow down, chill out a little, rest physically and rest in Him.
  • Remind yourself that you aren’t in charge. We serve a risen Savior who has the power to defeat the grave and hell. He has power over the things that are discouraging you as well. He may not be fixing it all at this moment, but He is sovereign and knows exactly what needs to happen for His glory and your good.
  • Remember where your identity lies. You are not defined by attendance or people’s opinions or appearances or circumstances. You are defined as a child of God, loved and redeemed by Christ. “I have been crucified with Christ, and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me” (Galatians 2:20).
  • Don’t quit. Just don’t. Unless God has clearly led you in a different direction and/or your mental and physical health are at risk, you probably aren’t done. Jim Wideman says often that ministry is a marathon, not a sprint. Galatians 6:9 reminds us, “Let us not get tired of doing good, for we will reap at the proper time if we don’t give up.” I’ve never been crazy enough to run a marathon, but I’ve heard that the last couple of miles aren’t the hardest. The ones in the middle are. Keep running. Keep going. There is an “absolutely incomparable eternal weight of glory” ahead.

Friend, you’re doing good work for God’s glory. We need you. Eternity needs you. Those people who are around you who need Jesus need you. It’s worth it.

This article originally appeared here.

Why Christian Movies Are So Terrible

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Last month, while out at the movies, my wife and I happened to see trailers for two new movies produced by and for the Christian market—”faith-based films” they call them these days. Both trailers distilled their respective stories down to about three minutes of earnest dialogue snippets, tear-streamed dramatic moments, and inspirational footage of sports (basketball in one, track in the other). Throughout both trailers—which we saw on two different days before two different movies—the audience was audibly laughing. I was cringing. The paint-by-numbers aesthetic of the new wave of Christian movies persists in making the faith appear trite, inauthentic, corny and—worst of all, as far as the culture goes—uncool.

Why despite all the gains made in technology and budgeting can’t Christians make good movies?

I know, I know—people always try to come up with exceptions. But there aren’t any, really. Every now and again some well-meaning brother or sister will say to me, “This one’s different. You gotta see it. It’s not like the others.” And then it is. It painfully, painfully is. Why does it seem like the only good “Christian movies” are the ones made by the world’s artists with Christian themes (The Passion of the ChristSilence, etc.)? Some thoughts:

1. Christian movies are not made by artists but propagandists.

I don’t mean that these projects aren’t carried about by people who know what they’re doing with cameras, lighting, etc. The visual quality of Christian movies has definitely increased over the last decade. The caliber of talent on both sides of the camera has increased, as well. So when I say Christian movies aren’t made by artists, I don’t mean they aren’t made by people who are good at their jobs. What I mean is that they are made by people who don’t really know what the job ought to be.

I tracked this shift most notably in Christian writing (fiction) about 20 years ago. We always wondered why there weren’t any more C.S. Lewises or G.K. Chestertons around. The truth is, there were—they just weren’t writing for the Christian market, because that market does not want art that communicates truth but art that is being used by a message. And there’s a difference. It is the difference between art and propaganda.

Christian movies are more akin to propaganda than art because they begin with wanting to communicate some Christian theme—the power of prayer, the power of believing, the power of something—and then the story is crafted around that message. This is true even when the story is something based on a real-life incident. Delving into the depths of human character and motivation is subservient to getting the message across. This is why so much of the dialogue in Christian movies violates the classic writing proverb, “Show, don’t tell.”

2. Christian movies take place in the imagined reality of Christian sentimentalism.

Characters in Christian movies don’t often sound like people in real life. They sound like Christians imagine (or desire) real life to be. This is why the Christian protagonists are always earnest, even when they “don’t have all the answers,” and why the non-Christian antagonists always sound like the one-dimensional memes Christians tilt against in their Facebook streams.

Dialogue between believers and unbelievers always trends upward toward the believers’ win column, not because that’s how real-life conversation usually goes, but because that’s how Christians want it to go in their minds. You know the debates that you play out in your daydreams where you inspire the team with your spirituality, “own” the atheist with your apologetics, or warm the heart of your cranky neighbor with your kindhearted wisdom? All of that gets to come to life as if it really happens in a Christian movie. It doesn’t have to sound real. It just has to sound like the real we imagine there to be.

3. Christian movies emphasize narrative tidiness over nuance.

When I was trying to get my first novel published, I had an interested publisher say to me, “We can’t publish this if the sheriff has his arm blown off in the firefight at the end.” The scene in question was not gory or indulgent. But it was a narrative choice I made to make the stakes real and high. A good guy can get hurt in real life. Well, my big mistake was mistaking the world of Christian fiction for real life. In the world of Christian fiction—at least, for that publisher—good guys don’t get hurt.

Thankfully many Christian movies don’t follow those rules any more, but they still prefer narrative tidiness over nuance. There is a kind of prosperity gospel that pervades contemporary Christian art. It’s there in CCM radio, of course, and it’s all over Christian movies, including the ones based on true stories. The team has to win. The sick person has to defy the odds. (If you can get a sick person and a sports team in the same story, you’ve hit Christian movie gold.) The atheist prof must get owned. The unbelieving spouse must be converted. On and on it goes. Why? Because “if you just believe,” you can win.

Christian movies have embraced a theology of glory rather than a theology of the cross. This is why, apart from inauthentic dialogue and stilted acting, Christian movies ring so untrue to ears tuned to reality. We know real life doesn’t work this way—even for believers. The world of Christian movies is uncomfortable sitting in the ambiguity of suffering, confusion or chaos for too long. But if we must have Christian movies, they above all others, should be brave enough to tell us the truth, which is messier than what the market usually wants to hear.

4. Christian movie theology must be contained in platitudes.

Every prayer sounds scripted. Every dramatic moment sounds cliched. The pastors sound like the phrases on motivational posters. Christians speak to non-Christians in “gotcha” wisdom, delivering Jesusy fortune-cookie bon mots to souls apparently just a few well-turned phrases away from conversion. The theology of Christian movies can be scribbled on the back of a napkin. It’s Christian bookstore coffee mug-level philosophy. It’s Christian T-shirt-level aphorizing.

Christian movies are typically made by the same folks who produce weekend services full of applicational pick-me-ups and fog-and-laser inspirational easy-rock. There’s not a lot depth in them because there’s not a lot of depth behind them.

5. Even the best “Christian movie” will never be cool.

If you’re still reading, you’re either agreeing with me or just looking for more evidence of what a heartless curmudgeon I am. But here is something to consider that may surprise everybody: Suppose we actually had a Christian movie that was aesthetically excellent and artistically authentic. It was written with a writer’s sensibility, theological depth, the nuance of reality, etc. And then suppose it had clear Christian content in it. Do you think it wouldn’t strike so many of us as out of tune with what we expect good movies to be?

This is a question every armchair critic of Christian movies—like me or maybe you—ought to consider: Is it just the aesthetic and dramatic quality of these movies we find embarrassing? Or is it the strangeness of hearing the kinds of things we say on a regular basis in church suddenly flung up on the big screen and aired out in front of the world? (Is it possible that the dialogue is realistic and we just stink at speaking well to one another?)

Or let’s consider this: The gospel always sounds offensive to the world. Maybe Christian movies that articulate faith content clearly are destined to be laughed out of the theater, regardless of the excellence of their cinematic context, if only because the cross is foolishness to those who are perishing.

What if there isn’t a way to make the gospel sound cool? That’s something worth pondering for Christian moviegoers and Christian movie-makers alike.

In any event, if your movie’s gonna get laughed at for being Christian, maybe at least make sure it’s because of the cross and not because it’s corny.

This article originally appeared here.

Bob Goff: How to Live an Extraordinary Life

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Bob Goff, best-selling author of Love Does: Discover a Secretly Incredible Life in an Ordinary World, has five tips for how we can both live well and love others well.


“Jesus seemed like the less time He had on earth, the more availability He gave to people. So I thought, I’ll learn a ton by being available,” Bob Goff says.

Based on Jesus’ example, Bob Goff’s number one principle is, “Don’t let anyone go to voicemail.” It’s easy to feel like we’re so busy we don’t have time to take a phone call. But if we’re willing to slow down, we’ll see that we do have time–we just need to readjust our priorities.

In keeping with this idea, Bob Goff’s second piece of advice is, “Don’t make appointments.” While this might sound counterintuitive, Bob Goff says that if someone asks to schedule a time to meet with him, he does what he can to meet with them immediately. This frees him up so that when people call him with a crisis in their lives, he is available to meet with those people right then in their moment of need.

Bob Goff’s third principle is to “Quit stuff,” and he doesn’t just mean bad stuff! Goff says that we should quit good activities that are making our lives so full that there isn’t room for us to breathe or for God to work.

Cutting out excess activities is good, of course, but what about what we actually choose to spend our time on? While we’ll always have responsibilities we don’t enjoy, we often have some freedom to make time for what we love. Bob Goff’s fourth point is, “Do what you’re made to do.” He says, “What are the things you think are beautiful and you’re good at and you like and they, you know, they square away with what what seems to you to be the highest and best?”  

Find out what those things are, and then do them! On the other hand, we all have areas of life that stress us out and where we lack skill. Goff advises that we do more of the former and less of the latter where we can.

His fifth and final point is, “Take the next step.” If there is something we know we need to do, but we’re overwhelmed by the entire process of meeting our goal, we should stop thinking about all the steps and simply take the next one.

By following Bob Goff’s advice, we can take practical measures to counteract busyness, to avoid procrastinating on what is good, and most importantly, to prioritize God and others.

Don’t Adjust Your Conscience Just to Fit the Culture

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Most of us are familiar with Martin Luther’s heroic statement at the Diet of Worms when he was called upon to recant. “Unless I am convinced by sacred Scripture, or by evident reason, I cannot recant, for my conscience is held captive by the Word of God, and to act against conscience is neither right nor safe. Here I stand. I can do no other. God help me.”

Today, we rarely hear any reference to the conscience. Yet throughout church history, the best Christian thinkers spoke about the conscience regularly. Thomas Aquinas said the conscience is the God-given inner voice that either accuses or excuses us in terms of what we do. John Calvin spoke of the “divine sense” that God puts into every person, and part of that divine sense is the conscience. And when we turn to Scripture, we find that our consciences are an aspect of God’s revelation to us.

When we talk about God’s revelation, we make a distinction between general revelation and special revelation. Special revelation refers to that information given to us in the Word of God. Not everyone in the world possesses this information. Those who have heard it have had the benefit of hearing specific information about God and His plan of redemption.

General revelation refers to the revelation that God gives to every human being on earth. It’s general in the sense that it’s not limited to any specific group of people. It’s global, and it extends to every human being. The audience is general, and the information given is general as well. It doesn’t have the same level of detail that sacred Scripture does.

We must make a further distinction within the context of general revelation between mediate general revelation and immediate general revelation. Mediate general revelation refers to the revelation that God gives through an external medium. The medium is creation, wherein God reveals something about who He is. Paul labors the point particularly in Romans 1 that the general revelation mediated through creation is so clear that every single person knows God exists and, therefore, is without excuse.

Immediate general revelation is revelation that is transmitted to every human being without an external medium. It’s internal, not external. It’s the revelation God plants in the soul of every person. God reveals His law in the mind of every human being by planting a conscience within each of us.

However, we face a problem: The conscience is fluid. It’s not fixed. Almost all people adjust their consciences between childhood and adulthood, and the adjustment is almost always downward. That is, we learn how to turn the volume of our conscience down, and we make the necessary adjustments so that our ethics align with how we want to live and not how God tells us we should live.

This is not to suggest that children are sinless. Even little babies have sinful minds, but the Bible recognizes that the degree of evil found in small children is characteristically different from the degree of evil manifested in adults. Thus, Paul says, “Be infants in evil, but in your thinking be mature” (1 Cor. 14:20). He recognized that a baby’s sins are not as heinous as those of people who are mature in age. Somewhere in our development, the gravity of our sins increases. Our consciences are seared as we begin to accept those things that as children we thought were unacceptable.

Almost 50 years ago, a bestselling book with a strange title was published—The Happy Hooker, written by Xaviera Hollander, a prostitute. Hollander sought to silence the people who believe that no prostitute in America could find joy in what she was doing. In her book, Hollander celebrates the joy that she experienced in her profession, saying that she never felt guilty about what she was doing. To be sure, Hollander said, the first time she involved herself in prostitution, she felt pangs of guilt. But over time, she got to the point where she felt guilty only when she heard the ringing of church bells. Suddenly, her conscience was disturbed because she was reminded that what she was doing was under the condemnation of Almighty God. Even this hardened professional prostitute could not totally destroy the conscience God had placed within her.

Here is the supreme irony and tragedy of sin: The more we repeat our sins, the greater the guilt we incur, but the less sensitive we become to the pangs of guilt in our consciences. Paul says that people store up wrath for themselves on the day of wrath (Rom. 2:5). That’s objective guilt—they are guilty because they have broken God’s law. But some people have so destroyed their consciences that they believe it really doesn’t matter what they do as long as it is consensual and causes no harm. Their subjective guilt—the sense of guilt that accompanies wrongdoing—diminishes.

We find new ways to view sinful behavior as acceptable, both as individuals and as a culture. We have now killed sixty million babies, tearing them limb from limb. People use social media to boast of this reality, saying how proud they are that they have maintained the freedom of a woman to abort her child. We now boast about marriage between a man and a man, and a woman and a woman, without shame. There is not much of a collective conscience left in this country.

Paul tells us in Romans 1 that people know the righteous judgment of God, and this knowledge of judgment comes through immediate general revelation. What is the nadir of the list of sins in Romans 1? Paul says, “Though they know God’s decree that those who practice such things deserve to die, they not only do them but give approval to those who practice them” (v. 32). The worst part of Paul’s indictment is not that people practice such things despite knowing the righteous judgment of God, but that they approve of those who practice them as well. When people destroy their own consciences, they do everything in their power to destroy the consciences of their neighbors. To quiet their consciences, people will seek allies and will make proclamations such as, “We’re only crusading for liberty here, for the freedom of choice.” What a strategy. “I’m not pro-murder; I’m pro-choice.” That’s what the Godfather would say. “I’m pro-choice. I choose to murder my enemies.”

However, our purpose in discussing these things is not to lament how bad the world is, but rather how bad we are in that we Christians do the same thing. We, too, adjust our consciences to fit the culture. We try everything in our power to excuse our sin. That’s why developing a conscience sensitive to the Word of God is so important. At the Diet of Worms, Luther did not say, “My conscience is held captive by my contemporary culture, by the latest Gallup poll, and by the latest survey that describes what everybody else is doing.” He did not say, “My conscience is influenced by the Word of God.” In essence, he said, “I am in captivity to the Word of God. That is why I cannot recant.” Had his conscience not been captive to God’s Word, he would have recanted immediately. So, he said, “To act against conscience is neither right nor safe.”

We don’t want to hear the judgment of conscience; we want to destroy the judgment of conscience. That’s our nature. The only antidote is knowing the mind of Christ. We need men and women whose consciences have been captured by the Word of God. Thank God for His Word. It exposes the lies we tell ourselves to make us feel better. We aren’t going to be judged on the last day on whether we feel guilty, but on whether we are guilty. Still, if you feel guilty, thank God for that. The feeling of guilt is the signal that there’s probably something wrong. The Holy Spirit convicts us of sin, and with that conviction comes a certain tender mercy that leads us to repentance and forgiveness so that we might walk in His presence.

This article originally appeared on Ligonier.org.

Ephesus: The Church That Forgot to Love!

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(seventh article of our series on the Seven Churches of Asia Minor. Revelation 1-3)

“To the angel of the church at Ephesus, write: These things says he who holds the seven stars in His right hand, who walks in the midst of the seven golden candlesticks: ‘I know your works…’” (Revelation 2:1ff) 

The first of the seven churches of Asia Minor is Ephesus. Its letter is found in Revelation 2:1-7.

Blessed are you among churches, Ephesus. 

You were begun, it would appear, by the highly esteemed husband-wife team of Aquila and Priscilla. On his way home from the Second Missionary Journey, the Apostle Paul left Aquila and Priscilla at Ephesus but did not stay himself.

Ephesus had the ministry of the gifted Apollos, who would have been a media darling in our modern age from all evidence. (Move over, Joel Osteen!)

Paul spent three years ministering in Ephesus. (Acts 19 mentioned two years and three months, but in Acts 20, Paul tells the Ephesian leaders he spent three years there.) This was the longest time he gave to any one congregation.

Then, Ephesus was pastored by Timothy and later by the Apostle John. They had had the best.

Unto whom much is given, much is required, said our Lord in Luke 12:48.

The City–

Ephesus was the biggest city in Asia and the most important center for commerce, politics and religion throughout the region. With a population of 300,000, it was the third largest city in the Roman Empire.

The Temple of Artemis (Diana) was there. Said to be 400 x 200 feet in diameter and 60 feet tall, with 127 columns this was considered one of the seven wonders of the ancient world. Look up the Temple of Artemis and you’ll not be impressed. She was one ugly lady. And because of the emphasis on fertility, the statue was adorned with many female breasts. (Pastors, you probably won’t want to be showing that on the screen!)

Ephesus, we’re told, was considered the dividing point between the East and the West. (Which is interesting, since there is no automatic point delineating East-West the way there is with the North and South. We think of Psalm 103:12, “As far as the East is from the West, so far has He removed our transgressions from us.”

Ephesus was located at the mouth of the Cayster River between the Meander and the Hermus rivers. So it was convenient for travel, trade, cultural mixing, etc. Archeological remains today include a Domitian temple and a huge statue.

Not that any of this matters for our study. I am much aware that commentaries on these seven cities feel a necessity to give details on the city in question. But if I were writing a commentary on my church, to give details about Jackson, Mississippi, and its commerce, culture, history, location and such might be remotely interesting but would have little to do with what the Lord actually was saying in His analysis of the church. So, let’s go on.

I know your works…

The Lord says this to all seven of the churches. It figures, of course, since He “walks in the middle of the lampstands.” He is among us, seeing as no one else does, knowing it all. Nothing is hidden from His searching eyes.

The Lord knows the deeds of this church, its labors (to the point of exhaustion), its perseverance and its love for the truth. The Lord knows how their zeal for truth—pardon me, Truth!—drove them to put on trial some having fake credentials as apostles and putting them out of business. The Lord knows the Ephesians did all these things for His name’s sake, which sounds about as good as we could ask for.

But it isn’t. Something is wrong.

I have something against you…

“You have left your first love.”

You’re doing incredible work, Ephesians. True, enough. But it’s all about to come crashing down.

You have forgotten to love one another.

Such a subtle thing in a church with a glowing resume. Many would say this hardly matters, that we have a church here leading the denomination, setting new marks for accomplishments, raising the bar.

It matters to the Lord Jesus. Earlier He said this would be the mark of the believer. “By this shall all men know that you are my disciples, that you love one another…even as I have loved you” (John 13:34-35).

So, what’s going on here?

I’ll tell you what I think it is. These Ephesians are saying they love God and perhaps they do. But they have no love for the people, for one another, for outsiders with whom they deal.

It’s the horizontal relationships, not the vertical, that they have allowed to lapse. And this matters a great deal to our Lord.

In fact, He’s not going to allow it.

“Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, donate all my possessions to feed the poor, and give my body to be burned, unless I am loving people it will be for nothing”  (cf. I Corinthians 13).

My friend Margaret Perkins told me something that happened at home one morning as the children were getting ready for school. Youngest child Sidney for some inexplicable reason prepared lunches for himself and his sisters Jean and Lynn that morning. Mom watched and was impressed. She was just about to brag on her son, when suddenly Sidney picked up the lunch bags and threw them at the feet of his sisters. “There!” he said. “There are your lunches!” Mom Margaret watched all that and said, “Oh, Sid, honey! You almost got it right!”

Almost, but not quite. Without love, nothing counts.

Where does such love come from?  

“The love of God has been poured out in our hearts by the Holy Spirit who was given to us” (Romans 5:5). He is the Source of love.

The fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace…” (Galatians 5:22).

And so, the Ascended Ruling Lord gives the Ephesus Church a prescription, of three steps…

–Remember from where you are fallen.

Repent. Call the lack of love what it is: sin. Repent of it.

–Repeat the first works. Do what you did at first—all the basic things new believers do. They worship, fellowship, pray, get into the Word and make a serious effort to draw close to the Savior.

Repent or else! 

“Or else I will come to you quickly and remove your lampstand from its place—unless you repent.”  

If the lampstand represents the church, as Jesus said it did in 1:20, then what does it mean for Him to remove the lampstand? It sounds a mite like double-talk, speaking of removing the church from the church.

I think we know. Because we’ve seen it happen.

It’s the presence of the Lord Himself that makes a congregation a church of Christ. So, removing the lampstand would mean the Lord leaving that church. He would be withdrawing His presence, His blessings, His power. They would still be able to meet as a congregation and go through the motions, but the Lord would not show up and would not touch lives and anoint messages and bless worshipers.

The Lord would cancel their franchise.

A franchise business is part of a large enterprise. The local owner signs a contract by which he purchases a franchise operation, agrees to purchase all his supplies from the parent company, and to abide by its policies, regulations and operations. If a local restaurant fails to keep up its end of the bargain, the parent company can cancel its franchise. They remove the signage and take away anything identifying it as a BK. Now, the local owner can go right on selling fries and burgers, but he’s on his own. So with a church that has lost its franchise, i.e., its lampstand. It may continue to meet and call itself a church, may keep right on using the Scriptures and doing all the religious things. But the Lord is no longer there and no one encounters Him in the services.

It’s the death knell for a church.

The promise: To him who overcomes…

“I will give to eat from the tree of life, which is in the midst of the paradise of God” (2:7).

Ray Summers said, “The concept of overcoming is one of the outstanding ideas of the Book of Revelation.”

Ray Stedman said: “Imagine it! The tree of life which was removed from us by sin in the Book of Genesis, when Adam and Eve were cast out of Eden, is now being offered to us again in the Book of Revelation. In the concluding book of the bible, the Word of God comes full circle.

Paradise was a place of fellowship with God, wherever it was precisely. In Luke 23, Jesus promised the thief on the cross that “today thou shalt be with me in Paradise.”

This article originally appeared here.

Best Books for Pastors in 2018

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We asked pastors around the world a simple question: What books did you read in 2018 that helped you be a better pastor? We’ve curated their responses below. (See our 2017 list here.)

God Is: A Devotional Guide to the Attributes of God, by Mark Jones

“Mark Jones somehow manages to write profound and historically informed theology that is succinct and full of application. These short chapters broadened and deepened my understanding of God and encouraged my soul. His chapter on the simplicity of God, which he relates to the (singular) fruit of the Spirit, was especially helpful for uncovering idolatry in my own heart and useful in counseling others to see their sin.” – Kyle Newcomer, pastor of Christ Our Savior Baptist Church in Houston, TX

Reformed Preaching, by Joel R. Beeke

“The first mark of a healthy church is expositional preaching. Beeke shows that expositional preaching should not only be biblical and textual, but also experienced and applied in the life of the pastor and people. Reformed Preaching reminded me that preaching the truths of Scripture must be applied to my own life before applying it to the lives of God’s people.” – Alex Hong, pastor of Christian Bible Fellowship in West Covina, CA



Strengthening Your Marriage, by Wayne Mack

“Mack’s book is my go-to workbook for almost all the pre-marital and marital counseling I do, and for continuing to shape and sharpen my own marriage of 21 years. I still haven’t seen another book that requires the reader to immerse themselves so much in the biblical text and see God’s own wisdom for our marriages. The title of the first edition used to be, “How to Develop Deep Unity in the Marriage.” What Christian couple doesn’t want more of that?” – Tim Cantrell, senior pastor of Antioch Bible Church in Johannesburg, South Africa

 

How the Nations Rage, by Jonathan Leeman

“The relationship of discipleship to politics is confusing. And I’m supposed to teach my church how to navigate this complexity! Christ is Lord of all. But where and how do biblical absolutes connect? Where do the gray areas of wisdom lie? Jonathan Leeman clarifies complexity, solidifies convictions, and points out how to identify the Christian’s spaces for legitimate disagreement so that I serve the Lord Jesus, his church, my neighbors and society with biblically informed wisdom and confidence.” – PJ Tibayan, pastor of Bethany Baptist Church in Bellflower, CA

 

Covenant and God’s Purpose for the World, by Thomas Schreiner

“To be mastered by the Bible’s story we need to read it again and again. Tom Schreiner’s clear and succinct book unpacks the Bible’s story by correctly connecting and contrasting God’s covenants with his people. My soul delighted in Christ, his work and the Scriptures’ unity. Pastors should read and recommend Covenant to their church members so that people grow in biblical literacy and savor God’s covenant goodness.” – PJ Tibayan, pastor of Bethany Baptist Church in Bellflower, CA

 

 

Habits of Grace: Enjoying Jesus through the Spiritual Disciplines, by David Mathis

Habits of Grace, through vivid images and gentle wooing, called me into more faithful engagement with the spiritual disciplines of Word, prayer and fellowship. His chapters on meditation have lead me to slow down in my devotional time and to link my Bible reading to my prayers much more directly. Growing in the discipline of meditation has served my hospital visits (as I’ve lingered over, and not just read, the Bible with saints) and my pulpit ministry (as I’ve more deeply examined and internalize our text). This book builds upon Don Whitney’s classic and proved for me a challenging refresher.” – Ross Shannon, pastor of First Baptist Church of Lapeer, Michigan

Side by Side: Walking with Others in Wisdom and Love, by Ed Welch

“Many books offer great ideas that drift out of mind before readers put them to use. This book models how to be concise and practical. Living up to its name, it walks readers from the first conversation with a newcomer at church to a deep, biblical friendship. The elders of my church just read it together, and I plan to distribute it widely to church members.” – Nathan Lugbill, pastor of Castleview Baptist Church in Indianapolis, IN

 

 

No Quick Fix: Where Higher Life Theology Came From, What it is, and Why it’s Harmful, by Andrew Naselli

“We all have categories in our minds for protecting the purity of the gospel as a free gift of God by grace through faith while also explaining the existence of someone who is in Christ and yet not walking in obedience. The key, however, is how we theologically explain these categories and pastorally counsel in light of them. The Keswick theologian will turn to the unbeliever—carnal Christian—mature Christian paradigm to diagnose the problem, followed by a “crisis of faith” moment as the prescribed medicine. Unpacking key biblical texts and investigating key historical movements and people, Naselli accomplishes exactly what the book’s subtitle claims the book will do.” – Jason Seville, pastor of an international church in China

George Whitfield: God’s Anointed Servant in the Great Revival of the Eighteenth Century, by Arnold A. Dallimore

“I need to read more biographies. I need to read more works with an anchor in the past. I need more evangelistic zeal. Dallimore on Whitfield was good for all of this. This is a short treatment of Whitfield’s life, and whet my appetite for his longer two volume work, George Whitefield: The Life and Times of the Great Evangelist of the Eighteenth-Century Revival.” – Trent Hunter, pastor of Heritage Bible Church in Greer, SC

 

 

Conversion: How God Creates a People, by Michael Lawrence

“What theological topic do you deal with more than you expected to as a pastor? For me, the answer is easy: conversion. A prospective church member might explain that they were saved at seven, lived a life of sin for a decade, and then “rededicated” their life to Jesus at 17. Another might truly turn from sin and trust in Christ at 17, but not have a deeper emotional experience or understanding of the Christian life until 25. When were these people saved? And what about my friend who is really nice and sincere? Is that evidence of regeneration? How about our evangelism? Should we push to “close the deal”? Should we appeal to felt needs? Needless to say, Lawrence’s book is much needed resource for all of our churches. I frequently quote from it, recommend it, and turn to it as I prep for a sermon application or an upcoming conversation. In fact, we just decided to purchase a copy for every family in our church.” – Jason Seville, pastor of an international church in China

The Thing Is, by Tony Payne
“This little book articulates the purpose of the Christian Life in a way the clear and compelling. I’ve read it with the men I’ve been discipling and it has been so neat to see how it has broken down their preconceived notion of their purpose and replaced it with the undeniable biblical call to every Christian.” – Nick Gatzke, pastor of Old North Church in Cleveland, OH

 

Honorable mentions:

  • Going Public: Why Baptism is Required for Church Membership, by Bobby Jamieson — “This book helped me have a fuller understanding not only of biblical baptism, but also a wider panoramic view of the consistent interconnectedness of believer’s baptism with Baptist ecclesiology more generally.” — Marc Minter, pastor of First Baptist Church in Diana, TX
  • The Gospel Comes with a House Key, by Rosaria Butterfield — “This book addresses a very important aspect of pastoral ministry (and Christianity in general) in a deeply gospel-centered way.” — Chuck Newkirk, pastor of Church on Mill in Tempe, AZ
  • Impossible People, by Os Guinness — “Guinness argues that as society increasingly removes itself from objective truth we must be an “impossible people” whose hearts can “melt with compassion, but with faces like flint and backbones like steel who are unmanipulable. Short read with high impact for navigating our times.” – Nathan Knight, pastor of Restoration Church in Washington, DC
  • How to Preach Without Notes, by Charles W. Koller — “Koller helped me see that a key to preaching without notes is to craft the parts and the whole of sermon in a memorable fashion. Naturally, that will be better for me and the congregation. Already, my thesis and outlines are cleaner.” – Trent Hunter, pastor of Heritage Bible Church in Greer, SC

This article originally appeared here.

James MacDonald May Not Be Welcome at Harvest Naples After All

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After a very rocky 2018, Harvest Bible Chapel’s 2019 is not looking any better so far. According to one journalist, Pastor John Secrest, the leader of Harvest’s Naples campus, is not happy about James MacDonald potentially preaching in Naples and has allegedly been fired over this opposition.

“I was not consulted in this decision, I do not support it,” Secrest wrote to the Harvest elders after learning from a January 16, 2019, Harvest elder update that MacDonald would be taking an “indefinite sabbatical” but that he might preach at the Naples campus.

Pastor Seeking to Pull Naples Campus Out of HBC

Journalist Julie Roys says Secrest disclosed the news to her. After sending an email to his congregation letting them know he had opposed the elder board’s decision to allow MacDonald to preach at the Naples campus, Roys writes “his email account was shut down and he was also shut out of the church’s social media.”

In a blog post, Roys includes the letters Secrest wrote to the Harvest elder board expressing his disagreement with their decision and the letter he sent to the Naples congregation. After publishing the post, Roys learned Secrest has been fired by Harvest Bible Chapel.

In a letter to the congregation, Secrest wrote:

I want you to know that I have asked the elders to reverse their decision to allow Pastor James to preach in Naples while on his sabbatical as outlined in the elder update sent to you on Wednesday 1/16/2019. This request was denied.

The good intentions of our ministry partnership with Harvest Chicago have been overshadowed by these developments. Furthermore, when we entered into this agreement there was not a disclosure of the investigative reporting which led to a lawsuit and the resulting fallout.  

I am grieved over my own failure of leadership to not stand firm in objections I raised during the process of making this agreement. I allowed my fear of man and my own insecurities to compromise my responsibility to protect our church. Please forgive me.

These, among other factors, lead me to the conclusion that this agreement is not in the best interest of our local church in Naples. Therefore, I have asked for our agreement to be revoked and for our local autonomy and self-governance to be restored to Harvest Naples.

In 2016, Secrest went through Harvest’s four-month residency program with Harvest’s church planting network, Harvest Bible Fellowship. Harvest Bible Fellowship has since shut down, but not before Secrest took the skills he learned to Naples, Florida, in 2016 to plant a church. In September 2018, HBC Naples decided to officially join Harvest as its eighth campus. Now, Secrest is asking for the church’s autonomy back.

Harvest’s and James MacDonald’s Ongoing Trouble

The news is just the latest in a tumultuous period for Harvest. After the World Magazine article, written by Roys, was published in December 2018, the church has struggled to keep up with damage control. One needs only to search for the church’s name on Twitter to see comments from alleged former members and leaders expressing their consternation over how the church leaders are handling the unfolding controversy.

Roys and four other individuals were the subjects of a lawsuit filed by Harvest that claimed Roys and the writers of the blog The Elephant’s Debt were spreading misleading and false information about MacDonald and the church. The lawsuit was just recently dropped, and the elders released a statement on Wednesday that seemed to indicate they were going to move toward reconciliation with those who hold grievances against the church and its leadership.


Editor’s Note

At the time of this article’s publishing, Harvest Bible Chapel had not released a statement concerning the Naples campus, Secrest or his alleged firing. However, we can now confirm Secrest no longer works for Harvest Bible Chapel and the leadership has sent an email to the Naples congregation. Part of the letter is reprinted here:

It is with great sadness and regret that we write to inform you that John Secrest is no longer an employee of Harvest Bible Chapel.

Despite great efforts and reasoning, John has chosen not to yield to the consensus of our local leadership team or the elders of Harvest Bible Chapel. Conversations with John over the last few months, culminating this week, have made it clear that he no longer desires to work for Harvest Bible Chapel.

Because of his continued unwillingness to yield to the direction of the elders and the insubordinate email he recently sent counter to the elder direction, it became clear that he should not continue in his role.

Our hearts are grieved as John’s contributions to the Naples Campus cannot be understated. We wish him, Jessica and his family well.

The letter went on to describe how the campus will function in the future. HBC named Rick Donald as interim pastor and Associate Travis Doucette as Pastor of Worship and Leadership Development. The letter also mentioned concerned congregants could reach out to local elders with questions. Finally, the letter indicated MacDonald would not be preaching at the campus this weekend.

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