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Women Watching Porn

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There’s no more frightening place to sit than alone in the shadows with your sin. The permeating decay of sin’s destruction is the stuff of true nightmares. But what if pastors and friends from church were inadvertently helping you stay in the shadows? We can easily chat about total depravity, but the moment a pastor addresses only men on a Sunday morning to confront “their” porn problem, he’s unintentionally left women in the dark., with their sin. Women watching porn is a big problem.

We Need to Talk About Women Watching Porn 

I’ve counseled women with varying degrees of damage from sexual sin—from those willingly involved in BDSM all the way to sex-trafficking victims. No matter how much I see it, I never grow un-phased by the shrewd precision with which sexual sin wounds women. And now, thanks to the cultural normalization of pornography and the availability of WiFi and smartphones, statistics of porn users have not only soared—they’ve left no age group, demographic or gender unharmed.

That said, we must stop assuming pornography is a man’s problem, because it’s not. It’s a human problem.

No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to mankind. God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it. (1 Cor. 10:13)

In context, Paul is addressing two specific temptations: sexual immorality (1 Cor. 10:8) and grumbling (1 Cor. 10:10). Paul calls these sins “common” because they are regular temptations everyone faces. To assume sexual sin is only a male problem is to deny the help God promises to send all Christians.

Women Watching Porn: Slaying Taboos

We’re often uncomfortable talking about women watching porn. It’s a delicate topic for pastors to address with women because sexuality, by nature, is intimate. Since confessing sexual sin to a male pastor or elder is difficult, many may be less aware of the problem.

Yet when we treat porn as a men’s issue, we withhold grace and help from women in their time of need (Heb. 4:16). Our great high priest doesn’t sympathize with just some of our weaknesses, but with all of them. And because of the Spirit’s power at work in us, we can boldly confront any kind of sin.

But when we make a particular sin taboo—from the pulpit or anywhere else in the church—it creates pockets of darkness where sin can fester and flourish. Sheltered by silence and fed by shame, the unaddressed sin has unrestricted reign to destroy lives.

Humility Unchains

On the other hand, no Christian regardless of gender can remain both silent about sin and free from shame. Proverbs 28:13 says, “Whoever conceals his transgressions will not prosper, but he who confesses and forsakes them will obtain mercy.”

The more we conceal our sin, the harder our hearts become. And sin always harms, even when it seems private—this includes masturbation and pornography; this includes sexting; this includes lustful thoughts. As explicit as it is to write those words, we must be clear that true freedom and holy restoration are available to women who struggle in these ways.

Believers silent about their sin waste away in grief (Ps. 32:3). When we isolate ourselves, we prize the pride our shame protects over the holiness our humility allows (Prov. 18:1).

But God “opposes the proud” and “gives grace to the humble” (James 4:6).

Jesus answers your cry of loneliness with his perfect comfort.

Jesus answers your feeling of shame with his perfect record.

Jesus answers your desire for companionship with his perfect communion.

Jesus answers your desire for ultimate pleasure with his perfect promises.

Sister, confess your sin and embrace Christ instead.

Team Effort

People don’t change because of the power of statistics or hearing about the devastating effects of porn. People change through the transforming power of the gospel. People change by submitting to the truth of God’s Word rather than the ravenous appetite of the flesh.

And people change with help from one another (1 Thess. 5:14).

Pornography is a spiritual problem rooted in the deceitfulness of idolatry—and like all idolatry, we need one another in the fight. A Christian struggling with porn needs other believers to help her slay sin by the power of God’s Word (Eph. 5:18–21; Col. 3:16).

Following the text on temptation in 1 Corinthians 10:12–13, Paul writes: “Therefore, my beloved, flee from idolatry.” We all need help. None of us is above the temptation pornography provides.

Pastors: pornography is a human problem.

Women who struggle: come out of the shadows to Jesus.

Church: rise up and help your sisters.

This article about women watching porn originally appeared here.

It’s Not the Right Partner for Marriage if Your Fiancé Doesn’t Have This Quality

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One of the most important qualities in the right partner for marriage (and a successful life) is something I never even considered when I was single.

I’m not talking about faith in God—I certainly considered that. Physical attraction mattered a lot to me, and I’m not saying that physical appearance doesn’t matter at all. But there’s another quality that wasn’t even on my radar. Since Lisa excels at it, I’ve probably taken it for granted because I had “it” when I chose her. But when I see other people marry someone who doesn’t have this it reminds me that this quality should be near the top of any single person’s “list.” What is it that’s so important for singles to consider in a future mate?

The Right Partner for Marriage Must Have . . .

A strong work ethic.

The older I get the more I realize that life is a lot of work; if you marry someone without a strong work ethic, you’re sentencing yourself to a lifetime of picking up the slack.

In his book A Passion for Faithfulness, Dr. J.I. Packer points out how “in the Bible, work as such means any exertion of effort that aims at producing a new state of affairs.” So, for example, you might have to work at finding a job. If someone is the kind of person who just gives up and feels sorry for himself or herself, they won’t do the work of finding employment and they won’t produce “a new state of affairs.” They’ll just wait for someone to help them out.

If a child becomes addicted, they may just give up and say, “Kids will be kids.” If the responsibilities of keeping up a house become too overwhelming or caring for an ill spouse (that would be you, of course) becomes too wearisome, they may seek refuge in an escape type of addiction. Rather than confront life and work to improve their current situation, they collapse, feel sorry for themselves, and make things worse with “self-medication.”

If you marry someone who isn’t prone to work, who in fact abhors work and is lazy, things will tend to go from bad to worse. Staying in shape as you get older is a lot of work. Reading books and listening to sermons to gain wisdom is a lot of work. Growing in prayer is a lot of work. Saving responsibly for retirement is a lot of work. Raising kids is a ton of work. At certain points in your marriage, even cultivating a fulfilling sex life may take a good bit of work. The best things in life are dependent on someone who is willing to work to lay hold of them. If you marry someone who resents work, you’re marrying someone who will never lay hold of the best this world has to offer.

Packer stresses that “God made us all for work” (Gen. 2:15) and that God “has ordained work to be our destiny, both here and hereafter.” Jesus reflects this aspect of deity when he said, “My Father is always at his work to this very day, and I, too, am working” (John 5:17). If you marry someone who despises work, you’re marrying someone who ultimately resists God’s design for our lives. God wants us to work on our character, our marriage, our children, our future, our wisdom, our prayer life and our vocation. A lazy person won’t ever live the life God created them to live.

The benefits of work are enormous. Because God made us for work, work causes us to spontaneously praise God. If you’ve ever finished a productive day of meaningful work, you know exactly what I’m talking about; when you work hard at something and succeed, there’s a thrill of fulfillment that few things can match. Work matures us as we learn to say “no” to our worst tendencies and “yes” to the best. Work deepens our relationships with others as work requires us to understand and serve others and it often builds a sense of teamwork and cooperation. Work stretches us to become the kind of people who depend on God, who keep on learning, and who refine latent skills that need to be perfected.

Now that my son and his wife have a new baby, I’m newly reminded of the exhausting work raising a child involves. Fortunately, both my son and his wife are extremely hard workers; I can’t imagine what it would be like for either of them to have to do this on their own. I know—single parents do this all the time, and I stand in awe of how so many single parents rise to such a challenge. But in God’s best timing, we won’t choose to become single parents if we can avoid it. If you marry a lazy person, it may feel like you’re a single parent even if you’re married.

So, as you consider the right partner in marriage, I hope you’ll put a strong work ethic near the top of your list. Care about yourself and your calling enough to say “goodbye” to a potential suitor who is lazy. One of the greatest dangers of laziness as a sin is that it prevents us from experiencing so much good. It is thus a foundational sin that negatively impacts virtually every arena of life.

 

 

This article about the right partner for marriage originally appeared here. For more advice on making a wise marital choice, check out Gary’s best-selling book The Sacred Search: What if It’s Not Who You Marry, but Why?

5 Keys to Men’s Small Groups

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“Dude … want to get some coffee?” Those six words and a core group of three men were enough to start our Thursday morning men’s small group. But before I show how to get guys to join men’s small groups, allow me to turn the clock back to early 2007.

At that time, the interim pastor of my church of 40 was also serving as the senior pastor of another small congregation of 20. Rather quickly, the leadership of the two churches decided to join together as one. So the men’s ministry was the first to be combined, meeting monthly on Saturdays for breakfast and Bible study. This continued through the launch of the new church.

But as weekly attendance for our Sunday service had grown to about 80 or 90 people, attendance at these monthly men’s breakfasts slowly declined and whatever momentum we’d carried from the launch of the new church had dissipated.

Men’s Small Groups – the History

So the typical pre-Saturday men’s group conversation usually went like this between me and another leader:

“Hey Andy … can you lead the men’s Bible study this month?”

“Sure. When is it?”

“Tomorrow.”

“Who’s cooking?”

“Let’s see … I am, but Phil’s working, Jason hasn’t responded to any emails all week and Ricky said he’d bring the OJ. I’m handling the eggs and bacon … can you do the pancakes?”

Poor Organization & Leadership

Sound familiar? The ministry had become an albatross that wasn’t being led effectively, with organization handled at the last minute. Add to that the declining attendance, the lack of fellowship among the men and it was clear the men’s ministry needed a change-up.

In January 2009, a group of us met for breakfast at a local Denny’s to discuss how we could restart the men’s ministry. It was clear meeting monthly was not conducive to creating a genuine sense of fellowship among the men—and for many of them that was all they wanted. Many were not ready to go deeper.

What Is a Tween: A Close-up Look at Preteen Kids

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In your tween ministry, it’s important to know who you’re ministering to. That’s why I’ve gathered some stats and insights from my preteen ministry and compiled an overall picture of what is a tween. I hope this spurs good conversations about how you’re ministering to these kids.

What Is a Tween: A Definition (Sort of)

According to the dictionary, a tween is “a youngster between 10 and 12 years of age, considered too old to be a child and too young to be a teenager.”

I’d add that because of differing maturation rates and physical development, the ages should be from about 9 to 13. The width of this group is so much more than age. Some tweens are completely ready to jump into adolescence, with its identity crises and relationship drama. Meanwhile, others are completely content with pets, toys, and paintball. So what is a tween? Because that group is incredibly diverse, a concise definition is tough to pinpoint.

Marketing to Tweens

Disney started using the word tween in the early ’90s to advertise to this age group. In fact, according to Children and Advertising by William M. O’Barr, “Marketers no longer target kids aged 2–11 as one segment. Instead, they target four specific demographics: toddlers (0–3), preschoolers (2–5), children (6–8), and tweens (9–12).” This means the group is incredibly separate regarding marketing attention and branding practices.

Tweens have buying power, too: “Spending statistics show 8- to 12-year-olds spend $30 billion of their own money each year and influence another $150 billion of their parents’ spending,” according to the same study.

What Is a Tween: An Economic Perspective

One factor that’s often understated is how incredibly savvy today’s tweens are as consumers. Marketers realize this is the most incredibly skeptical generation ever, and with advertisements, tweens don’t like to be sold. In fact, most of their consumer decisions and preferences come from their peer group. Their friends are making more and more decisions as a group.

Our ’90s-style, production-driven version of student ministry isn’t a draw to kids anymore. Our longtime Associate and Missions Pastor, Fenton Moorhead, relays this message to our staff: “You need to figure out: How do we attract a crowd without trying to impress them?”

That’s the question we must ask if we want tweens to come to our worship services, events, classes, and ministries. It’s how we’ll get them to serve, give, and live out their faith. How can we convince preteens without trying to impress them?

What Is a Tween: How to Get Buy-in

  • Find and develop peer influencers. Which students influence your group? Just as you want to recruit volunteers who naturally influence others, you also want to develop students who are natural influencers.
  • Emphasize relational ministry. The best thing that happened at Switch this year was C-Groups (our student ministry small groups). Most of our tweens attend church because their parents are involved. But this past week, more than 50 students showed up on a Wednesday night. In addition, three other groups of girls met in homes. Our retention of first-time guests for C-groups completely blows away that of our Sunday Morning Large Group Experience. Relationships for all ages are sticky.
  • Provide “free time.” This might sound elementary, but when I started in ministry, I wanted to program absolutely everything. We programmed every minute, every transition, and every phrase. Now I realize tweens need time to connect in ways that are native to them, not to the leader.
  • Teach in a relational way. Emphasize your love for God’s Word. If you don’t love the Bible, tweens won’t either.
  • Make change part of your culture. Change the look, feel, and delivery, but keep the main things the main things.

What Is a Tween: Helpful Resources

Parents: Understand Your Influence

Yes, your tweens influence your buying decisions. But don’t underestimate the influence you have on your tweens. Everything your tween can touch is under your watch. Make sure you’re involved in the decisions, relationships, and values your tweens make on a day-to-day basis. Parents, you make a difference!

Two More Tips for Ministering to Tweens

  • Relationships are king!
  • If you can teach tweens how to make decisions and work in relationships completely built on a foundation of Christ, then you have a revolution on your hands. It’s why at Switch we want tweens to make wise choices and develop positive relationships. But mostly, we want students to know this: When they find their identity in Christ and his love for them, then their choices, relationships, and identity all change to look like that of Jesus.

American Media Comparisons of Christians to the Taliban Is Disturbing and Concerning

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Michael Moore, a political documentary filmmaker (Bowling for ColumbineFahrenheit 9/11Sicko), used a recent interview with entertainment business news source Variety to compare American Christians to the Taliban.

Just days after the Taliban violently took control of Afghanistan, which has produced reports of Christians being killed for having Bible apps on their smartphones, Moore specifically targeted Southern Baptists.

In the interview, Moore indicated that religious fundamentalism oppresses women and outlined his concerns that women in Afghanistan will experience setbacks because of the Taliban’s rule.

Moore called the Taliban “religious nuts,” then stated that America has the same type of people as well. The filmmaker said he doesn’t have much faith in the Taliban’s word that they will keep girls’ schools open, something they claimed in a recent press conference. “They also said they are going to operate under Islamic law,” Moore said, then compared Southern Baptists to the Taliban. “That’s exactly how a lot of Southern Baptists want it to be here, too. In a lot of parts of the country, we are following dictates of conservative Christians. It’s wrong there and it’s wrong here.”

To many, an American comparing American Christians to the Taliban is dangerous and disturbing. News outlets have reported that the Taliban is going from house to house killing people who worked with the United States. Three Afghan National Army commanders were hung because of their association with America. Another outlet reported an Afghan Christian was skinned alive and hung on a pole by the Taliban.

Related Article: Christians in Afghanistan Feel ‘Thrown to the Wolves’ as Taliban Regains Control

Moore posted an image on Twitter of a split photo. The top image is a recent photo of the Taliban sitting in Afghanistan’s presidential palace in Kabul. The bottom image is a photo of January’s capitol rioters holding a “Trump is President” flag. Moore’s description reads, “Their Taliban, our Taliban, everybody’s got a Taliban. They’re at their best when they confiscate the halls of power.”

A comment responding to Moore’s tweet read, “You cannot be serious to compare unarmed larpers [live-action role players] to Muslim extremist who behead people…I hope you are being sarcastic.”

Another wrote: “As a high school history and civics teacher, PLEASE STOP undoing the work I am committed to by making overtly myopic and ignorant posts when you have such a large platform.”

Moore’s tweet has almost 11,000 comments, some of which agree with his comparison. One read: “Actually, it’s a perfect comparison.”

MSNBC Writers Use Platform to Compare Pro-Lifers to Taliban

Frequent MSNBC contributor Dean Obeidallah wrote, “The Taliban aren’t the only ones trying to impose their will on women’s bodies and choices,” in a piece that was published last week.

“I have to wonder where these voices were when extremists, based on a narrow reading of their religion’s beliefs, enacted a law that forces a woman who was raped to carry the fetus of the rapist to term,” Obeidallah said. “That same law makes it a crime for anyone to assist that woman in trying to abort the rapist’s fetus.”

Comparing the Taliban’s oppression and abuse of women to a newly signed abortion law in Arkansas, Obeidallah said, “That law was enacted not by the Taliban in Afghanistan, but in Arkansas. Gov. Asa Hutchinson signed the GOP-controlled legislature’s ban on abortion in all circumstances except to save the life of the woman in March.”

Related article: Afghan Christians Face Death—But They Are Putting Their Trust in Jesus

“This law also makes it a felony to help a woman get an abortion, even in the case of rape or incest,” he said. Obeidallah then targeted Gov. Hutchinson’s religious beliefs, saying he “didn’t hide that this law was about turning his religious beliefs into the law of the land, noting that he signed the legislation given ‘my sincere and long-held pro-life convictions.’”

MSNBC host Joy-Ann Reid targeted right-wing Christians in a tweet, saying, “This is the real-life Handmaid’s Tale. A true cautionary tale for the US, which has our own far religious right dreaming of a theocracy that would impose a particular brand of Christianity, drive women from the workforce and solely into childbirth, and control all politics.”

Leaked Footage Shows Grim Conditions in Iran’s Evin Prison

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In this undated frame grab taken from video shared with The Associated Press by a self-identified hacker group called "The Justice of Ali," a guard beats a prisoner, at Evin prison in Tehran, Iran. The alleged hackers said the release of the footage was an effort to show the grim conditions at the prison, known for holding political prisoners and those with ties abroad who are often used as bargaining chips in negotiations with the West. (The Justice of Ali via AP)

DUBAI, United Arab Emirates (AP) — The guard in a control room at Iran’s notorious Evin prison springs to attention as one by one, monitors in front of him suddenly blink off and display something very different from the surveillance footage he had been watching.

“Cyberattack,” the monitors flash. Other guards gather around, holding up their mobile phones and filming, or making urgent calls. ”General protest until the freedom of political prisoners” reads another line on the screens.

An online account, purportedly by an entity describing itself as a group of hackers, shared footage of the incident, as well as parts of other surveillance video it seized, with The Associated Press. The alleged hackers said the release of the footage was an effort to show the grim conditions at the prison, known for holding political prisoners and those with ties abroad who are often used as bargaining chips in negotiations with the West.

In one part of the footage, a man smashes a bathroom mirror to try to cut open his arm. Prisoners — and even guards — beat each other in scenes captured by surveillance cameras. Inmates sleeping in single rooms with bunk beds stacked three high against the walls, wrapping themselves in blankets to stay warm.

“We want the world to hear our voice for freedom of all political prisoners,” read a message from the online account to the AP in Dubai.

Iran, which has faced criticism from the United Nations special rapporteur over its prison conditions, did not immediately respond to a request for comment sent to its U.N. mission in New York. Iranian state media in the country have not acknowledged the incident at Evin.

However, several embarrassing hacking incidents have struck Iran amid ongoing tensions over its accelerated nuclear program and as talks with the West over reviving the atomic accord between Tehran and world powers remain on hold.

Four former prisoners at Evin, as well as an Iranian human rights activist abroad, have told the AP that the videos resemble areas from the facility in northern Tehran. Some of the scenes also matched photographs of the facility previously taken by journalists, as well as images of the prison as seen in satellite photos accessed by the AP.

The footage also shows rows of sewing machines that prisoners use, a solitary confinement cell with a squat toilet and exterior areas of the prison. There are images of the prison’s open-air exercise yard, prisoners’ bathrooms and offices within the facility.

Much of the footage bears timestamps from 2020 and this year. Several videos without the stamp show guards wearing facemasks, signaling they came amid the coronavirus pandemic.

Jesse Jackson and Wife Remain Under Observation for COVID-19

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FILE - In this Monday, Aug. 2, 2021 file photo, Rev. Jesse Jackson speaks to the crowd during a demonstration supporting the voting rights, on Capitol Hill, in Washington. The Rev. Jesse Jackson and his wife, Jacqueline, have been hospitalized after testing positive for COVID-19 according to a statement Saturday, Aug. 21, 2021. He is vaccinated against the virus and publicly received his first dose in January. According to a statement released Saturday evening, the Jacksons are being treated at Northwestern Memorial Hospital in Chicago. He is 79 years old. Jacqueline Jackson is 77. (AP Photo/Jose Luis Magana, File)

CHICAGO (AP) — The Rev. Jesse Jackson, and his wife, Jacqueline, remained under doctors’ observation Sunday at a Chicago hospital and were “responding positively to treatments” for COVID-19, their son told The Associated Press.

The couple, married for nearly six decades, were admitted to Northwestern Memorial Hospital a day earlier. Physicians were “carefully monitoring their condition” because of their ages, Jonathan Jackson, one of the couple’s five children, said in a statement.

Jesse Jackson is 79, and Jacqueline is 77.

“Both are resting comfortably and are responding positively to their treatments,” Jonathan Jackson said. “My family appreciates all of the expressions of concern and prayers that have been offered on their behalf, and we will continue to offer our prayers for your family as well.”

Jesse Jackson, a Chicago civil rights leader, is vaccinated against the virus and received his first dose in January during a publicized event as he urged others to receive the inoculation as soon as possible. The vaccination status of his, wife, who is also an activist, was unclear. Family members said she has an unspecified underlying health condition that triggered concerns in recent days.

“We ask that you continue to pray for the full recovery of our parents. We will continue to update you on a regular basis,” Jonathan Jackson said.

Jesse Jackson, who has Parkinson’s disease, was hospitalized earlier this year for an unrelated gallbladder surgery.

A mentee of the Rev. Martin Luther King, he was crucial in guiding the modern civil rights movement on numerous issues, including voting rights. Despite his Parkinson’s diagnosis, Jackson has stayed active and continued travel, even during the pandemic.

In recent weeks he has been arrested for civil disobedience, including last month during a sit-in at the Phoenix office of Democratic U.S. Sen. Kyrsten Sinema, who has faced pressure over her opposition to ending the filibuster to pass voting rights legislation.

A Northwestern spokesman did not have further information.

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This article originally appeared here.

As Vulnerable Afghans Flee Kabul, US Faith Groups Prepare to Aid Them

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U.S. soldiers stand guard along the perimeter at the international airport in Kabul, Afghanistan, Monday, Aug. 16, 2021. On Monday, the U.S. military and officials' focus was on Kabul's airport, where thousands of Afghans trapped by the sudden Taliban takeover rushed the tarmac and clung to U.S. military planes. (AP Photo/Shekib Rahmani)

WASHINGTON (RNS) — In early August, as Afghanistan fell to the Taliban, Krish O’Mara Vignarajah reported to Fort Lee, an Army post in Virginia, to welcome and offer legal assistance to Afghans who aided the U.S. during its decades in the country. The people she met — Afghans with Special Immigrant Visas, or SIVs, but little else — were racked with mixed emotions after being evacuated.

They expressed relief, gratitude and a combination of “fear for those left behind and the sadness of leaving the only home they’ve ever known,” said Vignarajah, president of the Lutheran Immigration and Refugee Service.

Then, a week ago, flights into Fort Lee abruptly stopped.

Vignarajah, along with the heads of other agencies that make up the backbone of the U.S. refugee resettlement apparatus, pivoted to a role they undertook many times under the Trump administration, which reduced the number of refugees to a historic low: arguing for more vulnerable foreign nationals to be processed and delivered safely to U.S. shores.

This time, however, the crisis was particularly urgent.

In a blitz of traditional and social media advocacy, Vignarajah and a slate of other leaders — Mark Hetfield of the Jewish agency HIAS as well as representatives of World Relief, Church World Service and the Episcopal Church — joined other religious and secular refugee aid organizations in calling for President Joe Biden to do more to aid vulnerable Afghans.

“We can’t tie a life-or-death humanitarian evacuation to an arbitrary timeline,” Vignarajah tweeted on Thursday. “Our government made a commitment and we can’t give up until the job is done. If political will matches military might, we can still pull off the boldest evacuation in modern history.”

They also repeatedly expressed frustration with assertions by the White House that SIVs and vulnerable Afghans weren’t evacuated earlier because some didn’t want to leave and challenged the government’s initial Aug. 31 departure deadline.

According to survey data provided to RNS by Data for Progress, a majority of Christians (54%) believe Biden should speed up the process of giving American allies in Afghanistan immigrant visas to come to the U.S.

Those who considered themselves evangelical or born again Christians were slightly less likely to say the same (48%). (The survey was not large enough to include other faith groups or combinations of religion and race.)

Criticism of the administration mounted as the U.S. government scrambled to retain control of the Hamid Karzai International Airport. Reports abound of vulnerable Afghans and foreign nationals struggling to reach the airport, citing roadblocks by Taliban forces. In at least one instance, tear gas was fired by soldiers into throngs clamoring for entry, although it was unclear which fighting force the soldiers belonged to.

Glenn Beck Raises Over $20 Million to Save Christians in Afghanistan

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Conservative commentator Glenn Beck has asked his followers to donate money to rescue Christians in Afghanistan. As of this writing, Beck says that people have responded by giving over $20 million. 

“I’m BLOWN AWAY by what this audience has done to help rescue persecuted Christians in Afghanistan!” said Glenn Beck on Twitter. “OVER $20 MILLION raised in less than 3 days! THANK YOU!”

Glenn Beck: This Is Our Dunkirk 

On Wednesday, Aug. 18, Glenn Beck posted a tweet, asking his followers to help “get persecuted Christians out of Afghanistan” by donating to The Nazarene Fund, an organization that he founded. The Nazarene Fund exists to “to liberate the captive, to free the enslaved, and to rescue, rebuild and restore the lives of Christians and other persecuted religious and ethnic minorities wherever and whenever they are in need.” Beck, it should be noted, holds to the Mormon faith, which differs from Christianity on several crucial doctrines relating to sin, Scripture, and the nature of Jesus. Beck is also a controversial figure who has at times promoted conspiracy theories

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Later the same day, Beck tweeted again, saying that within two hours his followers had already donated enough money to rescue 800 people. The Nazarene Fund’s website says that to rescue an entire family and provide six months of care can cost around $20,000 to $30,000.

Since the Taliban took over Afghanistan last week, reports have surfaced of threats against Christians and other minorities in the country.  “We’re hearing from reliable sources that the Taliban demand people’s phones, and if they find a downloaded Bible on your device, they will kill you immediately,” said Rex Rogers, president of media ministry SAT-7. “It’s incredibly dangerous right now for Afghans to have anything Christian on their phones. The Taliban have spies and informants everywhere.”

“This is our Dunkirk,” said Beck. “Each of us have to be willing to sail our own little ship into the storm of the battle to save those who have been stranded and left behind by our own government.” 

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Ed Stetzer on Deconversion: Some Thoughts on Kissing Christianity Goodbye

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Recently, I was cleaning out my basement and came across a box with Josh Harris’ Humble Orthodoxy in it. I tweeted it, not in a snarky way, but said something about all of us needing to stay tethered and how this was sobering.

I did not tag Josh, but someone did. He replied, and I replied back. We then took the conversation to direct messages. It was a good conversation.

Josh and I were not close, but I always appreciated his kindness and spirit. Although my tweets delete in a week, I appreciate his kind words even in that exchange.

Last week, the Mars Hill podcast released a bonus episode called “I Kissed Dating Goodbye” after Josh Harris’ book by that name. The man Collin Hanson dubbed the “evangelical boy wonder” wrote his bestselling book at age 21 and was a megachurch pastor at 29.

Today Harris is a former evangelical and no longer identifies as a Christian. (He announced in July 2019 he was no longer a Christian.) He recanted his prior teachings and recently offered a course for $275 on “deconstructing one’s faith,” but pulled it after pushback from ex-evangelicals.

It started me thinking about an earlier article. For some reason, when I wrote about Bart Campolo’s deconversion, it was very widely read. My guess is that is struck a chord with many.

I wrote it from the perspective of a dad — as I am — and how to process when our adult children walk away. (Parenting and passing on the faith is one of the most difficult challenges for many of us.)

Perhaps it will be a help to some of you as you process these conversations of deconversion. Here some of what I wrote in 2017.

 

Bart Campolo — From Preacher to Humanist

Bart Campolo, son of progressive evangelical leader Tony Campolo, gradually transitioned from Christianity to secular humanism. He became the first Humanist Chaplain at USC in 2014, and moved to Cincinnati in 2017.

Campolo’s departure from the faith was particularly disappointing to me since I’d talked to Bart (though I doubt he remembers our short conversation) and he was encouraging to me. And, like so many evangelicals, his father was an influence on my life and ministry.

My First Reaction

I have to confess, the immediate reaction I had to Campolo’s departure was that this is why progressive evangelicalism and particularly mainline Protestantism (Campolo straddled both) can be dead ends, often failing to keep the next generation. And, there is some statistical support for that reaction (at least for mainliners).

Survey Finds ‘Remarkable and Devastating’ Drop in Biblical Beliefs of Born-Again Christians

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According to a new survey from Probe Ministries, born-again Christians have experienced a “startling degradation” in their biblical beliefs during the past decade. Summarizing the organization’s 2020 “Religious Views & Practices Survey,” president Kerby Anderson says, “Pastors and church leaders just can’t assume any longer that the members of their church or Christian organization have a biblical worldview.”

Biblical Worldview Suffers, Especially Among Young People

The survey, which included more than 3,000 Americans between age 18 and 55, reveals that born-again Protestants experienced the greatest level of decline in Bible-based beliefs from 2010 to 2020. During that decade, the percentage of people who agreed with core Christian doctrines fell from 47% to 25%. Although people may label themselves as born-again Christians, says Anderson, they still “can have a false view of Jesus Christ and embrace a pluralistic worldview.”

The drop in Bible-based beliefs among young adults—from 15% to 5%—was “remarkable and devastating,” Probe Ministries notes in a summary. Among U.S. born-again Christians between age 18 and 39, more than 60% say there’s more than one way to salvation, including Jesus, Buddha, and Muhammad. More than 30% say Jesus sinned while living on earth or they’re not sure whether he did.

In addition to exploring “basic” biblical worldviews, the survey also asked participants about “expanded” biblical worldviews, including whether the devil is real or symbolic. The drop-off in both categories “is more than dramatic and extremely discouraging,” Probe Ministries notes. “However, we cannot forget that the percent of biblical worldview Christians in the Roman Empire in AD 60 was much less than 1% of the population. Three hundred years later, virtually the entire empire was at least nominally Christian. If we will commit ourselves to ‘proclaiming the excellencies of Him who called us out of darkness into His marvelous light,’ God will bring revival to our land” (see 1 Peter 2:9).

What the Biblical Worldview Findings Mean for Pastors

The 2020 survey also reveals that the number of Americans 40 and under who are “unaffiliated” with a particular religion continues to climb. And only about one-third of Americans 55 and under say they believe in an “active, creator God.”

Addressing the results, Anderson says America’s church leaders must “continue to explain the cost of salvation” and clarify to congregants “that there is no way to salvation, other than through the sacrificial and atoning death of a sinless Christ. That no one can come to the Father except through the Son, but also that anyone may come through Him.”

Christian Political Engagement – 4 Rules

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One can hardly roam our social media feeds these days without encountering fiery political speech. Engaged citizens, policy advocates, and politicians themselves spend countless hours scrolling and posting their views on whatever hot-button issues seem to be dominating the newsreels, often manifesting itself in angry and demeaning language and accusations against someone somewhere of negligence, malfeasance, or blatant evil. Pointed fingers cast blame on everyone except ourselves, of course, and those within our own tribe. And the apparent consensus is that this sort of social media activity equates to good, productive political engagement. But is this sort of engagement good? And is it productive?

Christian Political Engagement – 4 Rules

What is political engagement, really?

A question like this immediately brings to mind James Davison Hunter’s challenging book, To Change the World: The Irony, Tragedy, & Possibility of Christianity in the Late Modern WorldIn a section of the book titled “The Public Witness of the Church is a Political Witness,” Hunter discusses what he calls one of the ironies of our political responsibility. He says,

A final irony has to do with the idea of political responsibility. Christians are urged to vote and become involved in politics as an expression of their civic duty and public responsibility. This is a credible argument and good advice up to a point. Yet in our day, given the size of the state and the expectations that people place on it to solve so many problems, politics can also be a way of saying, in effect, that the problems should be solved by others besides myself and by institutions other than the church. It is, after all, much easier to vote for a politician who champions child welfare than to adopt a baby born in poverty, to vote for a referendum that would expand health care benefits for seniors than to care for an elderly and infirmed parent, and to rally for racial harmony than to get to know someone of a different race than yours. True responsibility invariably costs. Political participation, then, can and often does amount to an avoidance of responsibility (172-173).

Hunter’s argument is that our political participation often amounts to little more than going through the motions and shifting the burden of responsibility from ourselves to our elected officials (or others) by virtue of our vote or social media activity. Rather than welcoming the “costs” of true responsibility, we have a tendency to cast our ballots and then, for the next four years, cast blame on all those who have “mishandled” the responsibilities that we may have been too timid to take on ourselves. It is easy to shirk our responsibilities in exchange for the sort of faux engagement that happens too often online, but this exchange is neither a faithful nor productive one.

So, for Christians, what should productive political engagement look like? There are countless examples that could be named, from volunteering in a local crisis pregnancy center to writing to one’s state representatives to serving on local boards or running for office. The opportunities are too numerous to list. But, there are several “rules of engagement” that should mark the way that we approach our political responsibilities as Christian citizens.

1. Engagement trumps participation

All those who are truly engaged in the political process are participants, but not all political participants are equally or meaningfully engaged. Mere political participation looks much like Hunter’s description, a casting of the ballot only to retreat to our respective silos assuming that we have fulfilled our civic obligations. At that point, we think we are free to participate behind the veil of our computer screens, engaging in the sort of venomous online dialogue that has become the norm. This is political participation.

Being engaged goes further than simple participation. It necessarily involves showing up at the voting booth, but it may also include volunteering at the voting booth. For Christians, as Hunter suggests, it not only entails voting and advocating for pro-life legislation, but it might also include joining the March for Life, volunteering at a crisis pregnancy center, or even “adopt[ing] a baby born in poverty.” The point is, political participation is easy. It costs nothing. But engagement is hard work, and it’s costly.

2. Engagement is costly

Because politics has civic and social ramifications, to be truly and meaningfully engaged in our society’s politics necessarily requires a willingness to be practically inconvenienced. To return to Hunter’s quoted examples, many can identify the potential difficulties of deciding to “adopt a baby born in poverty . . . to care for an elderly and infirmed parent . . . to get to know someone of a different race,” but these and more may very well be what bearing “political responsibility” begets. Convenient or not, these are the costs of being a politically engaged Christian citizen.

But just because engagement is costly does not mean engagement is joyless or that it is not worthwhile. In contrast to the emptiness of our society’s brand of political participation, with its slothfulness and omnipresent outrage, meaningful engagement in the politics of our society is a way in which we may bring the personal implications of the gospel — those good works prepared by God for us to do (Eph. 2:10) — to bear on a culture starving for good news.

Actual, meaningful political engagement is an arena wherein we can exercise the indicatives of the new birth; chiefly, loving our neighbor as ourselves. And if our engagement is to be loving, it must be kind.

3. Engagement should be kind

Contemporary American politics has grown increasingly vicious, and it seems committed to slithering down that dark path. The bulk of this hateful behavior takes place online, where citizens can exercise intimidation behind the security of a screen and can dehumanize their opponents with inhumane and sometimes unconscionable words. This is a form of the political participation mentioned earlier, when our so-called engagement takes place solely in the political theater that is social media.

But for Christians, this sort of activity “should not even be named among us” (Eph. 5:3). If political engagement is chiefly an act of neighbor love, and if love, as defined by the apostle Paul in Scripture, is to be kind, among other things, then there is really no excuse for us to take up our political responsibilities without the kindness that Scripture requires (1 Cor. 13:4). And, lest we misunderstand, kindness is not spineless or weak. On the contrary, a Spirit-driven commitment to convictional kindness in the face of slander and misrepresentation takes courage and resolve. And it might be just the thing to turn the tide of politics as we know it.

4. Kingdom citizens, kingdom politics

Finally, part of the Christian’s vocation in a political system such as ours is to call out what is evil and unjust with prophetic boldness, that is certain. But while some of us are called to be prophets, the New Testament makes clear we have all been commissioned as priests, and while there is some overlap, the ministry of priests often looks quite different from that of a prophet.

As the apostle Peter writes in his first letter to the church dispersed abroad, part of the generic vocation of God’s royal priesthood, the church, is to “conduct herself honorably among the Gentiles” (2:12), to “submit to human authority” (2:13), to “do good” (2:15), to “honor everyone” (2:17), and to “be like-minded and sympathetic, love one another, and be compassionate and humble, not paying back evil for evil or insult for insult but, on the contrary, giving a blessing, since you were called for this” (3:8-9).

The New Testament speaks exhaustively about how the church is to conduct herself in all spheres of life, including in politics. And this much is certain, our citizenship in the kingdom of God is meant to inform, indeed rule, the way that we exercise our American citizenship (or wherever you find yourself). That means being more engaged — and meaningfully so — in the political process, not less. It means before we speak a word of complaint, we should consider how we might constructively resolve what dismays us. It means cultivating a willingness to bear our political and civic responsibilities no matter the cost.

If we wish to see American politics improve, we must reject political participation in its current and unhealthy form. Instead, we must be willing to roll up the sleeves of our priestly garments and, with kindness, invest in the costly work of meaningful political engagement.

 

This article on Christian political engagement originally appeared here, and is used by permission.

 

Christians and Affliction – Learning to Rejoice

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Many of us think Christians are supposed to always be happy, and if you’re not, something’s wrong with you or your faith. We even used to sing, “At the cross…it was there by faith I received my sight, and now I am happy all the day.” No pressure at all for Christians and affliction. I remember the reading Job for the first time and thinking, “I don’t think Job went through life always happy, ‘like a room without a roof.’” He wasn’t alone, either. The Psalms aren’t all catchy, peppy, encouraging tunes. And, Jesus himself didn’t bounce through life in a don’t-worry-be-happy way. Scripture tells us he was a “man of sorrows” (Isaiah 53:3).

But Jesus was still someone who said, “The joy of the Lord is my strength.” This is a joy that comes from knowing that what you have with God is better than what you are missing in life. It comes from knowing that what he’s promised you in his Word is more secure than what you can guarantee on your own.

The Apostle Paul takes it a step further. Romans 5:3 says, “And not only that, but we also rejoice in our afflictions, because we know that affliction produces endurance” (CSB).

Rejoice in afflictions? Is Paul some kind of masochist, where he rejoices in pain for pain’s sake? Or does he like showing off how tough he is by proving he can endure a lot?

No—this is rejoicing in affliction because you know that the affliction, no matter how great, is producing something in you of greater value than a pain-free life.

Christians and Affliction – Rejoicing During Affliction and Unhappiness

Christians aren’t stoics. The Christian life is not one in which we keep a stiff upper lip, minimizing the pain around us and within us. Quite the contrary, the Christian life pushes us into the world to experience it, love it, and feel its pain more deeply.

Think about Job, who, after he lost his health, his family and his livelihood, ripped his clothes off, shaved his head, fell to the ground and screamed at God. Yet “throughout all this, Job did not sin or blame God for anything” (Job 1:22).

Many Christians, if they saw Job doing this, would respond a bit too much like Job’s friends. We might say, “Job, you need a faith recharge. You need to pray more. You obviously love this world too much. You need to let go and let God.”

But Job sinned not.

When Christians and affliction comes, honest lament is a good thing. We were meant to express our pain, sometimes in extreme fashion. But our lament does not lead to despair; it leads to trust. Even when we rage, we choose to rage at God. In so doing, we demonstrate trust. We may not know what God is doing, but we trust him enough with our raw emotions. And we believe, often against our own feelings, that God is up to something good through the “affliction that produces endurance.”

Endurance, you see, is the ability to keep going when you are experiencing no other earthly benefit from your faith. Affliction raises the question: Will you keep going when nothing is working out? Is God enough?

One of the pastors at the Summit recently shared his story of rejoicing in affliction:

Back in 2010, I had just come on staff at the Summit, and I prayed something absolutely foolish. I prayed that God would teach me to walk more closely to him by showing me what it meant to suffer well.

In many ways, I wish I had never prayed that prayer. And I would never tell someone else to do that. Because the next year was the hardest year of my life. A close friend died of leukemia. My wife and I lost our daughter. For months, we were in the hospital more often than we were in our own home.

I hated that season. And it took me years to even talk about it. But God walked with me in that time. And I learned what Paul says here, that affliction produces endurance, endurance produces character, and character produces hope. It’s the most beautiful, most painful lesson I’ve ever learned.

Suffering in the believer’s life is like the cold that triggers your heater to come on. When the temperature in your house drops, your heater turns on, and all this wonderful warm air starts pouring out of the vents. The cold temperature didn’t create the warm air, of course—your heater does that—but the cold temperature caused the heater to kick on.

That’s how Christians and affliction works. Suffering makes our faith kick on and pours new experiences of trust and confidence—and yes, even joy—into the cold environment of suffering.

The colder the temperature gets, the hotter the furnace gets. In the same way, the greater our affliction, the more deeply we will know the joy of the Lord.

 

This article on Christians and affliction originally appeared here.

Parents, the Enemy Has Stepped Up His Game – Have You?

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A recent event reminded me of the biblical image that our adversary is like a lion on the prowl (1 Peter 5:8).

My 13-year-old son loves basketball. So when the NBA finals came around, he was all in. As we watched the finals just a couple of weeks ago between the Phoenix Suns and the Milwaukee Bucks, it looked like the Suns were on track to be the champs with a 2-0 start in the finals. They were apparently ‘the better team.’ But then something happened: the Bucks stepped up their game and won the next 4 games in a row, securing their place as the champions. As Bucks fans (or should I say Giannis fans?!), my son and I were pretty pumped!

There’s a lion on the prowl mode . . .

I was reminded through this that we as parents/Christians have an opponent as well who is stepping up his game. He’s not simply a challenger, but an enemy. He’s not just trying to win, but to steal, kill, and destroy. And he’s not just out for us, but of our children. He is walking about as a roaring lion seeking whom he may devour.

The fact that we can’t see this lion on the prowl (whose goal is the destruction of our children) doesn’t make him any less real, it just makes him that much more dangerous, because we at times fail to take him seriously.

. . . And there are parents in passive mode.

Many parents sadly never fight to save their children from the clutches of this enemy’s jaws until they’ve already been bit, and the tug of war that follows can potentially tear a child apart emotionally and spiritually.

I’m reminded of the truth behind this quote…

“In the race to a child’s heart the first one there wins.” – George Barna

Because of this, as parents, we must capture our children’s hearts early, and always be on the offensive, being proactive rather than passive in our approach to our children’s mental, emotional, and spiritual health. Because Satan is not willing to play fair. He never has. He never will.

There’s a war for our children’s minds…

The enemy knows that “He who controls the mind wins the battle.”

We hear a lot about the word ‘misinformation’ in our culture today, but an even greater form of misinformation than what you’ll hear about in the nightly news are the lies that Satan is feeding our children – lies that can only be combatted with truth from God’s word.

Satan’s tools have always been the same (the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life), and while it seems like in previous generations we may have had a couple of wins, Satan is stepping up his game in hopes of an unexpected comeback before his ultimate defeat. And he’s doing it through many different avenues.

The enemy is on the prowl for his prey. He knows the power of just one generation. He’s coming in for the kill. And I fear that many parents are oblivious to it. He’s closing in on our children’s hearts and lives through their friends, their entertainment, their social media, their worldview, and so much more.

“In this battle, our enemy doesn’t take a day off, and so neither can we.”

Our kids are being onslaught with misinformation about truth and life unlike ever before as the enemy steps up their game. And by the time we see visible signs of this invisible enemy’s influence upon our children, it’s often too late.

The only question that really matters?

So my question for you as a parent is this – if the enemy is stepping up his game… are you? Do you have any safeguards in place to protect yourself and your family from his ‘unseen’ attacks? Are you being more intentional than ever before in preparing your child to be the salt and light that the world will need in the days ahead?

What has God been working in your heart about recently that you need to do to help your children get to the next level spiritually? How could you better arm them with the armor of God for this battle they are entering? How can you better equip them specifically with the truth – the Sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God?

What could you do, starting today, to be more intentional to step up your game for the sake of your children and your children’s children?

John 10:10  The thief cometh not, but for to steal, and to kill, and to destroy: I am come that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly.

 

This article about the lion on the prowl originally appeared here, and is used by permission.

Hannah-Kate Williams Sues SBC Leaders for Covering up Sexual Abuse

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Hannah-Kate Williams, an outspoken advocate for abuse survivors in the Southern Baptist Convention (SBC), has filed a defamation lawsuit against 12 leaders and institutions affiliated with the SBC. Hannah-Kate is a survivor herself of alleged abuse and rape at the hands of her father, James Williams, an SBC pastor named as a defendant in the suit. 

“My abuser keeps posting pics of me online without my permission,” said Hannah-Kate Williams in a post in June 2020. “So here ya go, dad. Since we’re going down memory lane. It was taken the Sunday before my 8th birthday, the day you stole my innocence. At the church you pastored. And yet, I survived. Alive today. Loved by God.”

​​Hannah-Kate Williams Takes Legal Action

​​Hannah-Kate Williams filed her lawsuit on Monday, Aug. 16, 2021. In addition to James Williams, the suit names as defendants the SBC Executive Committee (EC), EC committee members Rod Martin and Mike Stone, Lifeway Christian Resources, and the Southern Baptist Theological Seminary. According to the suit, Hannah-Kate’s father was a student and employee of the seminary and was also an employee at Lifeway during the period of time he was abusing her.

The suit was filed in Franklin County Circuit Court in Kentucky and alleges that the defendants “have engaged in a defamatory conspiracy to marginalize and negate [Hannah-Kate’s] advocacy in the perverted and un-Christian desperate hope that the denomination can skirt its own culpability in the damage inflicted.” The lawsuit also states that “since her advocacy began, the powers in the Southern Baptist denomination have intentionally and concertedly acted to silence her, lie about her, and deny her truth.” 

Hannah-Kate Williams’ lawsuit refers to two recently leaked letters written by Dr. Russell Moore, the former president of the SBC’s Ethics & Religious Liberty Commission (ERLC). The first letter, leaked May 29, 2021, said that members of the EC were using what Moore called “vicious guerilla tactics” against him due to his attempts to address racism and sexual abuse within the SBC.

Moore sent the letter to ERLC trustees in February 2020 shortly after a task force was formed to investigate the ERLC in order to determine if his leadership had impacted giving from SBC members. Mike Stone, who at the time was the EC’s chairman, headed the task force conducting the investigation

Stone was a candidate this year for president of the SBC and narrowly lost to Ed Litton in a runoff election during the 2021 SBC Annual Meeting in June. Hannah-Kate was one of several survivors who attended the meeting and advocated for a motion—which messengers did adopt—that an independent investigation into the EC’s alleged mishandling of sexual abuse claims be given to an independent task force.

Prior to the presidential vote, Hannah-Kate had an exchange with Stone where he reportedly told her she was “doing more harm than good to the Southern Baptist Convention.” In a response, Stone did not address the accusation that he had told Williams she was “doing harm” to the SBC, but said that every person “present in this crowded area including my wife and several other pastors and their wives…corroborated that it was a polite conversation. At no time was I unkind.” Other witnesses report that when Stone left Williams she was crying. 

The second leaked letter was dated May 31, 2021, and Moore wrote it to then-SBC president J.D. Greear, implicating SBC Executive Committee president and CEO Dr. Ronnie Floyd and Mike Stone in suppressing investigations into sexual abuse within the denomination. Hannah-Kate Williams’ lawsuit claims that both of Moore’s letters indicate that Hannah-Kate was one of the survivors whose allegations of sexual abuse were suppressed. 

The suit also names Southern Baptist Theological Seminary president Dr. Albert Mohler, not as a defendant, but as someone who failed to hold James Williams accountable for his abuse. Hannah-Kate is the oldest of six children, and in October 2019, she and her three adult siblings came forward to the police and the public about allegations of abuse at the hands of their parents, allegations which involved Mohler’s seminary (which is named as a defendant).

At the time, Mohler acknowledged the news and said, “Southern Seminary is aware of this investigation of James R. Williams, a student some years ago. We encourage everyone to cooperate fully in this investigation. This is important and if you know anything, you must come forward.” Hannah-Kate responded that day: “Thankfully, Dr. Mohler is changing the course of direction in a way that holds others accountable.”

Lecrae Posts Video of Pastor Telling Women It’s a Sin to Wear Pants; It Goes Viral

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Recently, Christian hip-hop artist Lecrae posted a clip on Instagram of a pastor preaching from Deuteronomy 22:5 and telling the congregation that it is a sin for a woman to wear pants.

The video has since gone viral, racking up over 20,000 reactions and invoking over 2,400 comments. The pastor, who isn’t identified in the video or by Lecrae, may possibly be an Independent Fundamental Baptist preacher.

The preacher is using the King James Version of the Deuteronomy passage, which reads, “The woman shall not wear that which pertaineth unto a man, neither shall a man put on a woman’s garment: for all that do so are abomination unto the LORD thy God.”

“A Christian lady wearing pants…Is it a sin? Ya,” the preacher says in the video clip. “A lot of ignorance today. She is sinning against God’s plan for civilization and she is not a part of the solution; she is a part of the problem. And a lot of Christian ladies are a part of the problem unknowingly.”

Lecrae wrote on his Instagram post: “This sermon was preached in 2021.” ChurchLeaders.com could not confirm when the pastor was speaking. Lecrae said, sarcasm evident: “Ladies, when you can’t find your size pants it may be because missionaries have been sent to the stores to save the world by buying them up.” The Grammy Award winning artist then told readers to go get their pastor because he was off to “get his wife a pantsuit,” mocking the pastor’s exegesis of the passage.

Related article: Is Matthew West’s ‘Modest Is Hottest’ Video Really a ‘Lighthearted Take’ on Modesty?

This interpretation regarding women’s attire seems not uncommon in the Independent Fundamental Baptist denomination. There are several similar sermon videos on YouTube and the internet offering a similar take.

Reactions to Lecrae’s Post

Christian hip-hop artist, author, and Bible teacher Jackie Hill Perry responded to Lecrae’s post with: “Oh darn. Now we gotta light our torches and start the britch hunt.”

Author, speaker, and television personality Jen Hatmaker said, “Sinning against God’s plan FOR CIVILIZATION?? Well, welcome to end times because these Joe Jeans cost me $165 and I d–n well wearing them.”

Social media influencer Chaz Smith posed a question: “Aight so obviously, dude is WILDIN, but my thing is this:

  • People who don’t follow Jesus will see sermons and read scriptures like this and then (understandably) believe either the Bible is written by a bunch of old white dudes who just wanna control and suppress everybody, or that Christians are hypocrites for not following all the rules in the Bible they claim to live by.
  • What’s an easy way to explain the context of Levitical law/verses like these?”

Another comment read: “Omgoodness! How much damage this guy is doing. I was ‘raised’ in that ‘manmade teaching’ crap. No ‘mixed bathing,’ no makeup, no cutting your hair, no shorts/pants, no coffee, no reading the funny paper, etc. I’m so thankful that God has blessed me and brought me out of that crap into a world of God is love and true meaning of the scriptures. Thank you, God. It was a world of DON’T and manmade laws. We are under Grace. Jesus died on the cross to get away with all the laws.”

Another comment said, “The kinda teaching that plagued my life for almost 20 years.”

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EXPLAINER: Don’t Count on a Pastor’s Letter to Help You Avoid COVID Vaccine Mandates

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As ChurchLeaders has reported, some U.S. pastors are distributing letters that grant religious exemption from COVID-19 vaccinations. But while those documents may contain valid points about a congregant’s personal beliefs, experts say they probably won’t hold up under legal scrutiny.

The increased interest in seeking religious exemption comes as more employers (as well as schools, churches, and entertainment venues) require proof of vaccination against the novel coronavirus. Lawmakers have become leery of religious exemption arguments against COVID shots, saying they’re often a cover for political positions and anti-vaccine stances. Pastors and religious liberty organizations, however, say they’re helping parishioners stand up for their God-given freedoms.

Religious Exemption: What Federal Law Says

Based on updated guidance from the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC), employers can legally mandate COVID vaccines for workers returning to on-site jobs but must provide “reasonable accommodation” in certain cases.

The EEOC states: “An employee who does not get vaccinated due to a disability (covered by the ADA) or a sincerely held religious belief, practice, or observance (covered by Title VII) may be entitled to a reasonable accommodation that does not pose an undue hardship on the operation of the employer’s business.” Examples of accommodations include wearing a mask, social distancing, COVID tests, telework, and reassignment.

Pastoral letters requesting religious exemption from COVID vaccines are unlikely to have legal standing, according to labor attorneys. Mark Spring tells Baptist News, “That you can simply say, ‘I’m morally compromised,’ or ‘I don’t want to take the vaccine,’ … that would not qualify in my view if challenged or tested by employer or government agency.” As a result, says attorney Joshua Van Kampen, “Churches should not be handing out these accommodation letters like lollipops.”

Churches Use a Variety of Religious Exemption Arguments

To support the honoring of religious exemptions, churches raise points about being pro-life, about one’s body being God’s temple, and about the vaccine’s possible risks. At Destiny Christian Church in Rocklin, Calif., lead pastor Greg Fairrington insists he’s “not anti-vax but…pro-freedom.” Last summer, when the pastor ignored pandemic-related restrictions, he said, “I believe my mandate as a pastor is to obey the Word of God.”

Freedom House Church in Charlotte, N.C., also is providing religious exemption letters, saying it’s “despicable” to force an “unproven” vaccine on employees and citizens. And Micah Beckwith, pastor of Life Church in Noblesville, Indiana, says, “People have been reaching out to me and saying they don’t feel like this [COVID vaccine] is right for our body. This is not an anti-vax thing… This is people wanting to make the decision that they feel is best for their own health.”

Oklahoma Mom Rescues 10 Afghan Girls From a Bleak Future Under Taliban Rule

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All eyes are on Afghanistan this week as chaos and turmoil ensues under the newly claimed rule of the Taliban. Thousands are still desperately scrambling to escape Taliban rule, but ten girls from The Afghan Girls Robotic Team have been safely rescued this week, thanks to one mom from Oklahoma.

Allyson Reneau could not get her mind off of girls on the other side of the world earlier this month as reports of a Taliban takeover began to grow with the removal of U.S. troops from Afghanistan.

The 60-year-old mother of 11 graduated from Harvard in 2016 with a masters in international relations and U.S. space policy. In 2019, she met The Afghan Girls Robotic Team at the annual Humans to Mars Conference.

“As a mother of nine daughters and two sons I immediately connected with the girls,” she said.

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The Afghan Girls Robotic Team is a group of girls ages 16-18 who have overcome hardship in order to pursue their love of engineering and robotics in Afghanistan.

Under Taliban rule, the future for women and girls in Afghanistan is bleak. After taking the country’s capitol of Kabul on Sunday, reports began to circulate that Afghan girls were already being married off to Taliban soldiers, likely to be sex slaves.

Reneau, who has kept in touch with the team over the last several years, says she “couldn’t shake” the feeling that the girls were in danger while watching the news of the advancing insurgent army in early August.

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“I didn’t know where to start, but I couldn’t shake it,” Reneau said. “I said to myself ‘What do I have in my hand? Where can I start?’ I felt a little helpless.”

The entrepreneur and author knew she needed to use her network, so she began making calls.

“I called Senator Jim Inhofe, because he is the ranking member of the Armed Services Committee,” Reneau said, adding that the Senator put her in touch with the military liaison for the Senate. “But he was quickly overwhelmed with the need to help our American citizens. So that lead went cold.”

On August 9, Renee decided to fly to Qatar herself.

“I decided that Monday, I’m just going to fly to Qatar — like a leap of faith — and see what I can do,” she explained. “Sometimes action just opens doors, [but] I was going alone, and I’m thinking ‘Do I even know anyone in Qatar?’”

That’s when she remembered her former roommate in D.C. had been transferred to Qatar just a few years ago.

“She said she worked in the U.S. Embassy in Qatar. … She was sure her boss would approve helping the girls.”

Reneau and her friend got to work filling out request forms, filing the necessary paperwork, and getting the girls’ passports in order. But organizing documents at the U.S. embassy was only part of it.

The girls “were in a sea of chaos with 8 million people and a city halfway around the world,” she said, adding that unrest in Kabul worked against their efforts.

“It’s very narrow window of opportunity,” Reneau said of the effort to rescue the girls. “I knew that if I didn’t run through that door now — it’s now or never. Sometimes you only get one chance.”

After one cancelled flight, ten of the girls were successfully evacuated.

“We were able to get them on the U.S. military side [of the airport], so they were protected over there waiting [and] the next text I got was that they were airborne,” Reneau said

The girls were flown to a secure location, where they will be able to pursue higher education.

According to NBC, Reneau is still working with a team of people in the Middle East to get 25 more girls from the team to safety.

This article originally appeared here.

Recruit Coaches Before You Recruit New Leaders

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The month prior to an alignment series or church-wide campaign is prime time to recruit new leaders and form new groups. If you want these groups to actually start (and keep going), leaders need coaches. Even if you only have a half dozen new leaders, it’s too much for you to add to your plate, and they won’t get the care they deserve. Here’s how to do it — and why:

Recruit Coaches Before You Recruit New Leaders

1. Coaches are Mission Critical

Your new leaders need the most help immediately after they say “yes” to starting a group. The window between making a commitment and starting a group is mission critical. In fact, you will lose more new leaders in this window than at any other time. Here’s how I know.

Our church in California launched 103 groups for an alignment series one fall. For a church of 800 adults, this was pretty good. After patting ourselves on the back, we surveyed these groups midway through the series to see how many planned to continue in the next series. Out of the 103 leaders, 30 of them said they weren’t going to continue. Of course, I always want them all to continue. I would have been happy if only 20 or fewer had dropped out. But, I wasn’t comfortable with 30 ending their groups. So, I sent another survey just to the 30.

Out of the 30, two of the leaders said their group enjoyed the study and just couldn’t continue at this time. The other 28 groups had never started! This led me to a very valuable principle: “Groups that don’t start tend to not continue.” These leaders had become discouraged. Some got cold feet. Others had invited some people to join their groups but got turned down. Overall, the enemy had done a number on these leaders to discourage and deflate them.

From that point on, every new leader received a coach to walk alongside them from when they said “yes” to starting a group through the end of the study. We had 105 groups for the next group launch. With the support of a coach, these groups started and thrived. Very few dropped out.

2. Coaches Help You Multiply Yourself

Without coaches, you tend to hold more meetings and send more emails. You’re not coaching your leaders. You’re spamming them.

As John Maxwell says, “Find someone who can do the job 30% as well as you can, then let them do it.” The truth is they can probably do the job 60% as well.

Face it – there is just not enough of you to go around. To make the biggest impact, multiply yourself and help more leaders. Bigger meetings are not the answer. More emails are not the answer. You must multiply yourself in order to truly serve your new group leaders.

3. Coaches are More Available

If your experienced leaders will make a weekly call to new leaders, they will receive the support they need to start (and continue) their groups. The job description is simple: (1) a weekly phone call, (2) encourage them, (3) answer their questions, and (4) pray for them. It’s up to you to call your “coaches” every week to hear what they are learning from the leaders.

Don’t ask your experienced leaders to give up their groups to coach. You don’t want to lose your best leaders (and most of them aren’t willing to give up their groups). But, don’t ask them to coach 10 new group leaders either. Invite them to coach one or two new leaders.

Remember that expectations should be Clear, Reasonable, and Accountable. If you re-read this section, that’s what has been outlined for new coaches here.

4. Think About This

Before you start recruiting new leaders, recruit a coach for them. Consider your current leaders. Whose groups would you like ten more just like them? Invite them to coach. Think about mature believers in your church. Would they care enough to make a weekly call?

You don’t need to coach all of your group leaders. If you currently don’t have a coaching structure, coaching every leader is a laudable goal. But, you don’t need to coach 100% of your leaders right off the bat. Your new leaders need the most help. Find a coach for them. Then, work your way toward a coach for every leader. And, remember, every leader doesn’t need the same type of coaching.

Your established leaders are okay for now. After all, they’ve been without a coach for a while. Ask them to use their experience to help your new leaders. Their experience will help new leaders get their groups started.

Related Resources

Book: Becoming Barnabas: A Ministry of Coming Alongside by Robert E. Logan and Tara Miller

Course: Coaching Exponential Groups by Allen White

Post: 3 Secrets of Building an Effective Coaching Structure

 

This article originally appeared here, and is used by permission.

What Does the Bible Say About Evangelism?

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What does the Bible say about evangelism? We’ve gathered a list of familiar words to study more closely and learn what the Bible says about evangelism and outreach—and what those words mean for today’s Church as it reaches out to an unsaved world.  

 

An article on “outreach” in the Bible should be pretty short. The word doesn’t even occur in Scripture. Neither do other repeatedly used, modern-day words like “evangelism,” “soul-winning,” or “campaigns to reach the lost.” However, the concept of outreach runs throughout the Old and New Testaments via biblical words that lend new significance and meaning to our attitudes and approaches toward sharing the Gospel with the unchurched.

 

WHAT DOES THE BIBLE SAYS ABOUT EVANGELISM

 

Poreuomai (por YOU oh my): “Go”

 

In the Great Commission (Matt. 28:18-20), God gave the Church its marching orders: Go—to the whole world, to the end of the age. While in the original Greek, poreuomai is a participle, it shares the force of the imperative command to “make disciples.” We can’t make disciples of all nations without actually going. Fortunately, all major Bible translations correctly catch this idea, saying, “Go and make disciples.” The heart of outreach is reaching out—by going to the people who are lost.

 

The second half of the familiar verse includes matheteuo (mah thay TYOO oh), meaning to “make disciples.” After Christ’s disciples go, they are to “make disciples” of others. Essentially, a disciple is a learner. Our task is to enroll people into the Kingdom.

 

To sum up the Great Commission, “going” comprises the necessary prerequisite action, while “make disciples” is the main command.

 

The third part of the verse, “baptizing and teaching,” consists of explanatory components of what the command includes. Underlying the Commission is the authority given to Jesus. He has the right to tell us what to do.

 

Euangelizo (you ahn geh LID zo): “Evangelize”

 

The word “evangelize” actually is in the Bible, but it’s not translated that way. In Acts, Paul uses the word 15 times. In Acts 5:42euangelizo is translated, “proclaiming the good news.” It didn’t have to be a proclamation from the pulpit; believers just went everywhere spreading the joyous message (Acts 8:4).

 

The early uses of euangelizo are vivid. A swift runner brings the good news of military victory to an anxiously waiting city. Two horsemen race to “evangelize” a politician that he has won an election. It is “good news” to announce a wedding or to proclaim the birth of a son. The news is urgent and joyful. If those events were good news, how much more so is our Gospel?

 

Kerysso (kay ROO so): “Preach”

 

Reaching out with the Gospel also includes formal preaching. Kerysso comes from the word keryx (KAY roox), meaning a “herald.” In the ancient culture’s pre-microphone days, these public proclaimers’ voices needed to be loud and clear. The Greeks even held herald contests along with the athletic contests at their great national festivals. The herald’s job was to call soldiers to battle, to summon citizens to the public assembly, and to proclaim the king’s edicts. A herald spoke under the authority of his king; his message was not to be ignored.

 

Part of outreach, then, is what Paul told Timothy: “Preach the Word!” (2 Tim. 4:2). God’s herald does not preach himself, but Christ Jesus (2 Cor. 4:5). The message has never changed: We preach Christ crucified—the power and wisdom of God (1 Cor. 1:23). This is what God wants us to do.

 

WHAT DOES THE BIBLE SAYS ABOUT EVANGELISM – The Why

 

Splanchnizomai (splahk NID zo my): “To show compassion”

 

This remarkably ugly-looking word is the heart of outreach—our motive for reaching out. To the ancient Greeks, the seat of emotions was not the heart, but the bowels—the splanchna. To feel something in the splanchna meant to be “moved with compassion.”

Every use of this verb in the New Testament either describes Jesus or is used by Him in one of His parables (the forgiving master, the good Samaritan, the prodigal’s father). When Jesus saw people who were like lost sheep without a shepherd, He “had compassion” on them and taught them (Mark 6:34). Moreover, it was this same compassion that prompts the Lord of Harvest to send out workers into His harvest field (Matt. 9:36-38). The heart of outreach is our compassion for those who don’t know Christ.

 

Sozo (SO dzo): “To save”

 

Jesus came “to seek and to save” the lost. In everyday Greek, the word sozo meant to “heal,” to “make whole.” When Jairus’ daughter was dying, he pleaded with Jesus to come and put His hands on her so that she would “be healed” (sozo) and live. In the next few minutes, the woman with the flow of blood reached out to touch Jesus’ garments so that she could “be healed” (sozo). When Jesus said, “Your faith has made you whole,” the word was sozo.

 

The purpose of our outreach, then, is not just to pass out free tickets to heaven. God wants to do more than just forgive people for being sinful. He wants to heal them. We bring the good news that God can heal to a broken, fallen world.

 

Koinonia (koi no NEE ah): “Fellowship”

 

When people are harvested into God’s family, they are brought into a precious fellowship, called koinonia. The Greeks used the word to describe a business partnership, a close friendship, a communal society, and even a marriage. It meant a sharing of life and intimate companionship.

 

As members of Christ’s body, we have fellowship with God and with one another. But this fellowship is not just inward; it must also be outward. Koinonia means “sharing your faith” (Philem. 1:6); koinonia is “partnership in the Gospel” (Phil. 1:5). Koinonia is reaching out to draw others into fellowship in God’s family.

 

WHAT DOES THE BIBLE SAYS ABOUT EVANGELISM – The How

 

Apologia (ah pol oh GEE ah): “Defense”

 

In ancient culture, the word apologia reflected a noble status. It was a “formal defense” spoken in court or a “strong written statement” that proved a person was in the right. The “Apology” of Justin Martyr, for example, was a dynamic defense of the Christian faith.

But the word has fallen on hard times. Today an apology is “an expression of regret for causing offense.” The most common apology is the abject admission, “I’m sorry.”

Peter challenges his readers to “be ready to make a defense” (or “be prepared to give an apologia”) in 1 Peter 3:15, which begs the question: What kind of apologia are we presenting? “I’m a Christian, and I’m ready to present my case,” or “I’m a Christian…and I’m sorry.”

 

Martyria (mar tu REE ah): “Witness”

 

In the Greek court, an eyewitness was expected to give his testimony to confirm a truth. His testimony was called martyria, and he was called a martyr. At first, the word carried no association with death—just “giving testimony.” But early Christians changed all that. Stephen was a witness, and it cost him his life (Acts 22:20). By the end of the first century, so many witnesses had paid with their lives that “the blood of the witnesses” is often translated “the blood of the martyrs.” (Rev. 17:6) They made their defense with boldness—even to death.

 

Parresia (par ray SEE ah): “Boldness”

 

In the democracy of the ancient Greek city-states, every citizen had the right to speak up and be heard. The word for their confident freedom of speech was parresia, translated “boldness.”

 

The early Church prayed with boldness in Heb. 4:16: “Let us then approach the throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need.” And they prayed for strength to preach with boldness in Acts 4:29-30: “Now, Lord, consider their threats and enable your servants to speak your word with great boldness. Stretch out your hand to heal and perform miraculous signs and wonders through the name of your holy servant Jesus.”

 

When people saw the boldness of their outreach, they could not help but conclude, “These men have been with Jesus.” (Acts 4:13)

 

 

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