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Believe Your Children in Response to Disclosing Abuse

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If your child tells you that someone has sexually abused them, please believe them.

In almost two decades of women’s ministry I have sat with many wounded women. Without a doubt, the women who are hurting the most are those who were victims of sexual assault and also the victims of disbelief. The scenario is common: They were abused as children or teenagers and when they told their parents, their parents did not believe them.

Disbelieving the victims is common. Because abuse often happens at the hands of a family member, neighbor or trusted friend, parents cannot—or are unable to bring themselves to—believe their children because they would then have to reorder their perception of the perpetrator and also acknowledge that they may have unknowingly played a role in allowing the abuse to happen.

When the victims of abuse are not believed, untold injury is heaped upon them. Not only are they traumatized by the initial abuse, but the structure upon which they rely for safety and support is knocked out from underneath them. The second crime may be worse than the first. I think it may actually cause greater long-term harm.

So moms and dads, please believe your kids if they whisper any hint to you that something has happened. The chance that your child is telling the truth and that you know who harmed them is very high.

If your child tells you that he or she has been sexually assaulted by another child or an adult here’s how to respond: 

  • Remain calm. Though you may feel tremendous emotion, staying calm will allow your child to feel secure and willing to tell you more of the story. If they sense anger they may believe you’re angry at them or shut down because they don’t want to upset you.
  • Believe your child and give them time to put their victimization into their own words. Invite them to keep talking and show that you trust them and believe their story.
  • If your child is in immediate danger (for example if the perpetrator is still nearby) remove yourselves from any potential harm.
  • Call law enforcement. As difficult and scary as it may be, you must involve the police and report the incident.
  • Get your child professional counseling as soon as possible. Informed trauma intervention is imperative.
  • Get yourself and other family members counseling as soon as possible.
  • Surround your family with the love of a caring community—preferably a local church where you can find mature believers who will be constantly available to process this trauma with you for years to come.
  • Do remember that Jesus brings life from death and he will be an ever present help through this time of trouble. He is able to heal.

The presence or absence of belief from a parent has the power to unlock or lock the healing of an abuse victim. It’s our duty to believe our children and to respond with the utmost of care. God will help us and he will surely help them. By believing our little ones and walking through the valley with them, we pave the way for a lifetime of health, wholeness and resiliency.

This article originally appeared here.

How to Help Lead Change

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Many people in our churches and probably on our teams don’t like change. Some people really struggle with change, it stresses them. They like what they are used to. The older I get the more I understand why the Senior Saints ministry theme song is “I shall not be moved.” Literally, they won’t even change Sunday School classrooms even if the new room would be an upgrade.

Recently I heard this from a pastor who introduced some change during his first year of ministry in a church, “It’s hard to change the culture of a church.” As a result his team is experiencing some poor health as a team, they are grumbling, complaining and being critical behind his back. My knee jerk reaction would be to say hit the road to the complainers, but then we would just be sending them to the next church with the same problem.

His comment sparked a few thoughts:

Most people don’t like change. I read a stat that 80 percent of people won’t change, they oppose change. Now I don’t know how accurate that stat is but I found it on the Internet so it has to be true. I do know that most people I have encountered in life are not huge fans of change. It is like getting that lazy boy recliner broke in just right, worn out, tattered, but it is so comfortable you don’t want a new one. Change moves us out of our comfort zone.

Explain the “why.” Most don’t understand the “why” behind the change so they fight the change. This falls on us as leaders. Did we communicate the “why” behind the change? Did we communicate it clearly? Most reasonable people, once the “why” is explained, can understand the reason for the change. If we don’t clearly communicate the “why” then false perception becomes our enemy. People will resist change if they are going by a false perception.

The meeting before the change. Getting the team on board for change requires meeting with them or meetings with them to help them see the why and need for the change. To change the culture of what the team is used to doing in their ministry role without meeting with them first and thoroughly explaining the “why” and hearing their input sends a message, true or not, that their input as team members is not valued. When a team’s goal is to move the ball down the field everyone needs to know how and why they are moving the ball. They need a picture painted of the end goal.

If I walk into an old house that’s in need of great repair I can see in my mind what the house could be. I can look past the peeling wall paper, chipped paint, dirty floors, nasty carpet and design flaws to see what the house could be. Some people don’t have that ability so you must help them see it, and it takes extra effort to make that happen.

In what ways have you successfully implemented change in your ministry setting?
What made those changes successful?
How well received were those changes?

In part two of this post I’ll share five more thoughts about change.

This article originally appeared here.

3 Ways to Stretch Your Preaching Next Year

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I don’t know any pastors who, if they had the option, would choose to preach at the same level next year that they did this year. I’m sure there are some out there, but I’m confident you’re not one of them. Instead, I believe that you would choose to stretch your preaching next year. You would choose improvement over stagnation.

But the question is, how can we improve? How can we stretch ourselves?

Well, in this article, we’re going to cover some ways to do just that. And, I believe, if you give yourself to trying at least one of these things, you’ll see your preaching improve.

So let’s dive in, shall we?

3 Ways to Stretch Your Preaching Next Year

1. If you’re more of an expository preacher, preach more topically this next year (and vice versa).

Now, this comes from a conviction that one or the other isn’t any less biblical than the other.

I mean, let’s be honest: Did Jesus sit down and exegete the whole Old Testament verse by verse?

Nope. He oftentimes told stories and tied in a single powerful truth to them. He engaged those who listened to Him with the power of a story that they would connect with.

And yes, I know that as He spoke, He was preaching expositionally given the fact that He is the Word. But that certainly wasn’t His style as He preached from the Old Testament text.

And in the same way, if you’re a topical only kind of pastor, you’re missing out on the power of slowly walking through a book of the Bible, verse by verse.

It can be a stretch to try something new, and that’s the point.

As I’ve been getting started as senior pastor of First Church of Christ in Bluffton, Ind., I’ve been thinking through how I can do this.

After our sermon planning meeting this week, I believe I will, at the very least, be preaching through Philippians and Nehemiah next year. And I couldn’t be more excited for them both!

2. Coach someone else in their preaching.

You know this is true: When you teach something, you learn it more.

The same is true for when we start to dissect and evaluate our own convictions and beliefs about preaching.

And the best way to do this is to start coaching someone else in their preaching.

Maybe it’s your youth pastor, maybe it’s a lay leader, maybe it’s an associate pastor, a children’s pastor, another senior pastor in your area, it could literally be anyone. The only requirement? They want to preach and you’re willing to help them get reps.

If you decide to do this, here’s what I highly recommend:

  1. Get them reps and give them feedback within 24 hours.
  2. Go through a book or a preaching course with them and talk through the content with them.
  3. Teach them your convictions, beliefs and tips about preaching.
  4. Watch good preaching together and break the sermon down, explaining what works, why it works, and what doesn’t work.
  5. If you have the capabilities, do the same as #4, but with their preaching.

This may just be the best way to stretch your preaching next year because through it, you’ll become more critical and aware of how you preach and you’ll more quickly identify where you need to make improvements.

And a word to the voice inside your head: Yes, you DO have a ton of value to add in the area of preaching. You don’t have to be a megachurch pastor or a preaching professor to help others in their preaching. Just be you and share what you’ve learned.

That’s all we’ve done here and it’s exciting to hear how much it has helped other preachers. So step out there and find someone you can coach in their preaching. It’ll help you tremendously in yours.

3. Watch or listen to every sermon you preach and find things to work on.

I believe one of the simplest, most powerful and sometimes most painful things we can do to stretch and improve our preaching is to watch or listen to every sermon we preach.

By doing so, we’ll be confronted with our speaking tics, with our stumbles and with our struggles. And when it comes to improving our preaching, knowing what needs work is half the battle.

When we know what we need to work on, we’re going to be able to set ourselves on the path toward improvement.

And if you want to take this to an even better level, ask a fellow pastor to watch or listen to a sermon of yours and ask for critical, nit-picky, constructive feedback.

And be sure to word it like that, too. Because that will give them permission to give you feedback that will actually help you.

Because the last thing we should want is, that was good. That doesn’t help us improve. That just gives us a momentary feeling of relief. But in the long run? It gives us permission to stay where we are in our preaching.

Be Intentional

In a word, to stretch your preaching requires this one thing: intentionality.

So make a plan, give these things a try, and, over time, I believe you’ll see improvement.

You’re not at your preaching ceiling, friend. Not even close.

How are you going to stretch yourself in your preaching next year?

This was article originally appeared here.

10 Questions to Diagnose the Evangelistic Health of Your Church

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Evangelistic health of any church is not that difficult to discover.

Any good physician will make certain your physical exam includes at least three components. First, the doctor will want you to have thorough lab work. Second, all exams include a comprehensive look at your physical body. Third, the physician will ask you a series of questions that would lead him or her to know more about your overall physical and emotional health.

In my work with churches across America, I often ask a series of questions that help me assist the church to become more evangelistically focused. Recently, I took time to write down the questions I ask most often.

Look at these 10 questions to get at least some hints of the evangelistic health of your own church.

1. Are members more concerned about the lost than their own preferences and comfort?

Listen to how church members talk to understand what their true priorities are.

2. Is the church led to pray for lost persons?

Most churches are pretty good about praying for those who have physical needs. But do they pray for those who have the greatest spiritual need—a relationship with Jesus Christ?

3. Are the members of the church open to reaching people who don’t look or act like them?

The Gospel breaks all racial, ethnic and language barriers. Do the members seek to reach others? Do they rejoice when these people become a part of the church?

4. Do conflicts and critics zap the evangelistic energy of the church?

An evangelistic church is a united church. A divided church is rarely evangelistic.

5. Do small groups and Sunday school classes seek to reach lost persons within their groups?

Sunday school was once one of the most effective evangelistic tools in the church. Are the groups in your church evangelistic?

“Jesus Was a Migrant” Emblazoned on Houston Church Walls

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On Sunday night, members of Indivisible Houston, a progressive group fighting for immigration reform, proclaimed the message “Jesus was a migrant” throughout the city. During a three-hour stretch, activists projected those words on outer walls of Lakewood Church, Second Baptist Church and Houston Co-Cathedral of the Sacred Heart. The message also appeared on Houston City Hall, the George R. Brown Convention Center and Discovery Green park.

“For the most part, people were very accepting of the message,” says Daniel Cohen, president of Indivisible Houston. “Many people took pictures with the image and greeted us kindly…. People want to help their neighbors and welcome those in need.”

The only incident, he said, occurred at Joel Osteen’s Lakewood Church, America’s largest. While activists projected the image from a sidewalk, two police officers and a security guard asked them to leave, saying, “How would you like it if someone took photos of your house?” The activists left quietly, Cohen says, with no arrests.

“We don’t want stuff projected on the church that we don’t project,” says Lakewood spokesperson Donald Iloff Jr. “Other than that, we have no comment.”

Why the Group Says the “Jesus Was a Migrant” Message Is Timely

On YouTube, Cohen stated, “Jesus was a migrant [who] was fleeing violence, and we see so many other people who are in similar situations. So as people are attending Christmas services this time of year, we just wanted to remind them to embrace people who are fleeing that violence [and to] recognize their humanity, particularly in Houston, Texas, the most diverse and inclusive city in the United States.”

Referring to the impasse over President Trump’s border wall, Cohen adds, “Right now we are in the middle of a government shutdown over a racist fantasy from the president. A lot of families are under fire from the same kind of ideology that is inherent in the story of Christmas, and they are going to church to hear that story.”

Was Jesus Really a Migrant?

Debate about Jesus’ immigration status isn’t new. In December 2016, Pope Francis called Jesus a migrant, saying his birth narrative reflects the “tragic reality of migrants on boats” fleeing Africa and the Middle East. “The sad experience of these brothers and sisters recalls that of baby Jesus, who at the time of his birth could not find a place to stay when he was born in Bethlehem,” the pope said. “He was then taken to Egypt to escape death threats from Herod.”

Father James Martin agrees, based on that account from Matthew 2:12-15. He writes, “A family is forced to flee their homeland for fear of persecution. This is the classic modern-day definition of a refugee.” Although Egypt came under Roman control in 30 B.C., Martin notes, it was outside Herod’s jurisdiction and had been a traditional place of refuge.

But the website Pulpit and Pen insists that “Jesus was not a migrant, let alone an illegal one.” Because Egypt was part of the Roman Empire, people could travel freely, just like “traveling from one American state to another.”

Another article on the site acknowledges that Jesus was “a refugee of political persecution” and that his parents “were escaping a first century Holocaust.” It adds, “[They] weren’t refugees in a foreign nation, but lawful visitors and legal residents of a different province in their empire.… Don’t let [Jesus] be used for the purpose of liberal propaganda.”

 

Craig Jutila, Beloved Kidmin Leader, Dies While Snowboarding

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The kidmin community was rocked on December 26 with word of a tragic skiing accident involving well-known and popular ministry leader Craig Jutila.

As friends and ministry leaders rallied to pray for a miracle, Craig’s life slipped away.

The tragic news of his death came from senior pastor Tim Lundy at Venture Christian Church in Los Gatos, California. Craig served at Venture Christian as the family pastor.

Craig leaves behind his wife, Mary, and three young adult children—Alec, Cameron and Karimy. He is preceded in death by his son Blake.

The posts from Mary, Craig’s wife, reveal a broken heart buoyed by hope.

As tributes to this “general of the faith” flood in, details of Craig’s death are still forthcoming. Mary Jutila, Craig’s wife, posted this recently.

Emily Snider One of his lessons that I always remember is how to carry myself as a leader. He shared about a Fall event he hosted, and they ended up with more kids than they were prepared for (by hundreds). He explained that your volunteers take their cues from you, the leader. So instead of panicking, he sent a volunteer to Walmart and had them buy up all the candy. I always remember this when I start to get anxious or panic before an event.

Sheila Kopsell Halasz So I am not the only one who saw the Jim Carrey in his presentations! His energy was contagious as was his transparency. There were always so many good takeaways from his talks. They might not all have been in the order of the handout, but it was even better! I pray for his family whom he loved dearly and for all of us to continue to live healthy and not hectic lives as we grow in our essential leadership skills.

Danielle Bell The first ever Children’s Pastor’s Conference pre-con I ever attended was led by Craig. I remember thinking, why did I sign up for eight hours, I will be so bored. Well after eight hours with Craig I was energized, challenged, encouraged and equipped. I remember thinking he is like Jim Carey meets children’s ministry. He was funny but his love for Jesus and kids was obvious!

Then another year he was keynoting at Group’s conference when they did youth and kids together. I remember him asking all of the leaders to stand. He talked about how easy it would be for us to get burned-out, discouraged or quit. He asked us all to stay faithful in ministry for the Kingdom!

Dale Hudson Yesterday, an incredible children’s ministry leader went to Heaven as a result of a snowboard accident. Craig Jutila has inspired and encouraged me over the years through his speaking, curriculum, books and more. Thank you for your faithfulness Craig. We will miss you in the children’s and family ministry world.

For details about Craig’s celebration of life services and live-streaming, go to Venture Christian Church’s page.

Please join our ChurchLeaders family as we continue to pray for the Jutila family and Venture Christian Church. We will keep you posted on any updates.

The Manger and the Cross: Unlikely Bookends

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The image of Christmas is perhaps the image of the manger—tattered blankets and tufts of hay nestled in a quaint, wooden trough, now a makeshift crib.

It would no doubt fail modern standards of baby cribbing, not to mention sanitation inspections given its prior use. Yet it was fit for the Bethlehem baby and was more than a useful convenience or a necessary stopgap. It was the God-ordained sign signifying a Savior.

The manger, a rough structure unfit for humans, much less a king, would mark our Savior’s entrance into this world. It is a bookend, part of a corresponding pair marking the life of Jesus. For He also exited this world upon a rough structure unfit for humans, much less a king. One structure, the manger, the enduring image of Christmas; the other, the cross, the enduring image of Easter.

Like bookends facing opposite directions, yet an undeniable pair, consider the relationship between the manger and the cross.

The Manger The Cross
A structure designed to hold the food of common animals A structure designed to hold common criminals
Received the Messiah, wrapped in swaddling clothes Received the Messiah, stripped of all His garments
Jesus flanked by his two parents Jesus flanked by two robbers
A sign to draw shepherds A sign to draw all mankind
A place where common men came to worship A place where rulers came to sneer
As Christ lay there, the dark night was pierced by heavenly light As Christ hung there, the sun was obscured by darkness
Shepherds returned from there “glorifying and praising God for all that they had heard and seen, just as had been told them” (Luke 2:20) “The crowds who came together for this spectacle, when they observed what had happened, began to return, beating their breasts” in anguish (Luke 23:48)
In Bethlehem, which means “House of Bread”; at Jesus’ birth, there was declared peace on earth In Jerusalem, which means “City of Peace”; Jesus died during the Feast of Unleavened Bread

The Manger and the Cross of Christ: Symbols of Celebration

The manger and the cross are unlikely symbols of celebration. To give them places of honor would have been beyond odd for first-century tastes.

Mangers are feeding troughs

…and not the aesthetically pleasing, carefully repurposed pallet designs we see on display today. They were likely not even wood, but roughly hewn stone boxes whose design focused on function—holding animal fodder. In that function, the manger found itself surrounded not by well-dressed wise men, but by the waste of animals.

Crosses were not fashionable jewelry or signifiers of church buildings. They were machines of execution. Imagine modern equivalents.

What would the world make of a group of worshipers intent on revering a hangman’s noose?

How might we ridicule those who held a special place in their heart for the gas chamber?

Why is it that the electric chair hasn’t caught on as a gold pendant hung around the neck?

With these images we can begin to see why Paul wrote:

For the word of the cross is foolishness to those who are perishing, but to us who are being saved it is the power of God. … For indeed some ask for signs and many search for wisdom; but we preach Christ crucified, to some a stumbling block and to many foolishness, but to others…the power and wisdom of God. (1 Corinthians 1:18, 22–24)

It is fitting that we should celebrate such common items, such crude objects, for they preach to us this message: That which Christ touches is redeemed from its reputation, trades shame for honor, and gains godliness where there was none.

That is a message, of course, not about mangers and crosses, mere objects of stone and wood, but a message for people. Christ has come to redeem mankind. And if objects designed for ignoble use can be transformed into objects of veneration through their connection with Jesus, how much more so can we, who were designed for a divine relationship with God Himself come to life through a relationship with Jesus.

An Invitation

I invite you to take part in that relationship with God through Christ. If you’ve never trusted Jesus to be your Savior, know that He came to the world to save us each from our sins and to give us life.

Know that the sign to the shepherds was a manger. In many houses, shepherds would have been unwelcome and unwanted, but knowing that they were seeking a place with a manger, a place where people were used to the keeping and keepers of animals, they sought Christ without reservation.

You, too, might think God is unapproachable. Know that He has given us a sign, sending His Son as human, familiar with our weaknesses, and welcoming us to receive Him, to receive His life.

For the baby in the manger and the man on the cross is Jesus the risen Savior who conquers death and gives life to the lowly.

What Are the Most Important Elements to Consider When Preparing a Sermon?

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I read a story about a bank employee who was fixing an ATM machine. The door accidentally shut while he was inside its tiny maintenance room. When someone approached the machine to receive some money, they instead received a note that said, “Please help. I’m stuck in here and don’t have my phone. Please call my boss.”[1]

As peculiar of a story as this may be, I’m sure there are plenty of preachers who have fallen into a trap of being stuck instead of being unleashed to reach their audience for Christ. One little strange thing happened, and it completely threw you off the base on which you thought you’d stand. I hope this article will help you get unstuck.

What Are the Most Important Elements to Consider When Preparing a Sermon?

As rudimentary as this may sound, the most important elements to consider in sermon preparation are exegesis, illustration and application, all interlaced with prayer. After pastoring for more than a decade, I still sit in my study for a prolonged time of prayer, then I dive into the text.

Prayer

As you begin the sermon preparation process, go before the Lord with a heart of repentance and humility. Ask Him to give you wisdom as you prepare. Ask Him to use the sermon to reach lost people and see saved people discipled. Ask the Lord to use you as a vessel to communicate the Bible to people. Ask Him to begin stirring in the hearts of the hearers of the message.

After you initially pray, your time of going before the Lord is not over. Continue to pray throughout the preparation process. Weave prayers throughout the entire time of reading and writing.

Exegesis

As you exegete a text, there are a few key things to remember: The flesh of the text, the structure of it, and its central proposition.[2] Here are some practical ways to do this:

  • Read through the text in various versions, including the Greek or Hebrew.
  • Write down the main observations of the text.
  • Determine the key backgrounds of the text: geography, language, history, cross-references in the Bible, etc.
  • Perform word studies (if necessary).
  • Peruse commentaries, other pertinent books and files.
  • Determine the bottom line and outline the text.

Illustration

As you illustrate the sermon, shake it up with personal anecdotes, historical stories, current events and mostly via stories found in other parts of the Bible. These different approaches will keep it fresh for the listener.

Application

I find application to be underrated in homiletic discussions, in academic and non-academic circles alike. Tim Keller notes its importance when he says, “Every Christian needs to understand the message of the Bible well enough to explain and apply it to other Christians and to his neighbors in informal and personal settings.”[3]

Manuscript the Sermon

Write out the entirety of what you’re going to preach. If you do this, it forces you to think through the wording of every sentence. It moves your preaching to another level, whether you take the manuscript to the pulpit with you or not.

D. Martyn Lloyd-Jones puts it this way: “If therefore you do not write your sermon in full do not fall into any [of these] traps. Prepare as thoroughly as you can so that you will know in your mind what you want to say from beginning to end. I cannot emphasize this too strongly.”[4]

Prayer

As I previously mentioned, prayer is of utmost importance in the sermon preparation process. “Without prayer, our sermons may look good on paper—they may even sound good in the pulpit—but you can bet that they will never leave the church parking lot.”[5] May each of our sermons move beyond the lot, and into the hearts and lives of the hearers.

This article originally appeared here. 

11 Chrome Add-Ons to Supercharge Your Kidmin Workflow

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I’m not going to give much introduction in this post because the tools will speak for themselves as I describe them below and how we use them in our Kids Ministry.

If you don’t currently use Chrome as your main browser, you may want to give it a weeklong trial to see if these add-ons are worth the time-savings.

If you don’t know what Chrome extensions are, they basically add functionality to your browser to help you get things done more efficiently.

Simply click the link of any add-on you want to try and install it.

It will show up at the top right of Chrome beside your address bar where you can explore the options.

Now here are 10 add-ons that save me a lot of time on a weekly basis.

Simple Vimeo Downloader

As the extension name suggests, this allows you to download any Vimeo Video with the click of a button.

There’s really not much more to it than that.

We of course use it, if there’s ever a Vimeo Video we’d like to use in a service.

(Note: Make sure you have permission to download a video before you use this.)

Bitly

This is a cool little extension that lets you create short custom links to any webpage.

Want to send a link to parents, simply hit the extension and customize the name (example: bit.ly/churchparentmeeting).

To use this extension, you first have to create an account at bitly.com.

We use this anytime we want people at our church to know exactly what the link goes to.

Droplr File Sharing

This isn’t really a Chrome add-on, but it’s so helpful to us that I wanted to include it.

Basically, it’s a program you can download on your computer that allows you to create a short web link to any document, pdf, file.

You simply right click any file on your computer and select “share with Droplr Lite.”

At that point it will upload the doc and automatically add a link to your clipboard.

We use this for texting our volunteers the weekly schedule in addition to emailing them.

It also allows us to to text parents files that we want to to see like registrations, handouts or surveys.

ColorPick Eyedropper

This extension allows you to float your mouse over any color on any webpage and it will tell you exactly what that color is.

We use this a lot for parent or kid resources from our curriculum or other places that we want to customize.

Before, we always had to try to guess and get as close as we could, now we can match exactly and quickly.

We also use it to pull colors from pdf files (right click the pdf file, select open with, go to Chrome and then activate the extension).

Free Video Email for Gmail

This will add a button to your Gmail compose window to embed a video.

Simply click the button, record the video and add it as an attachment.

We use this to send Happy Birthday videos to kids and volunteers in our church; instead of recording it separately, uploading it, compressing the size to fit in an email, etc.

It can also be fun to use to send a nice note to a personal friend.

Gmass: Powerful Mail Merge for Gmail

This extension can do a lot of really cool things.

It allows you to schedule emails.

It allows you to add people’s first name to the subject line or top of the email and send individual emails from right within Gmail (think Mailchimp, except with native Gmail support).

We use this to schedule birthday emails, so we can batch all the birthdays together to do in one sitting.

We also use this to send an email to a bunch of people without them having to deal with the replies of every single recipient.

It also helps to be able to do a mail merge directly from Gmail because it tends to have a better open rate than with Mailchimp or similar services.

Calculator

This is a simple pop-out calculator, so you don’t have to open a new window to do simple math.

It also remembers your previous calculation, so if it gets closed by accident or necessity, you can go right back to what you were doing.

Grammarly for Chrome

This is like Spellcheck from Microsoft word, except for anything you type in Chrome and it does a better job than Microsoft’s spellchecker.

Seriously, it finds mistakes pretty much anytime I write something in Chrome that’s longer than three sentences.

I personally use this because it catches mistakes before I send them in emails or publish something online and helps me to look like I’m better at grammar than I actually am.

Checker Plus for Google Calendar

This is essentially a pop-down of your Google Calendar.

It allows you to see your schedule without leaving the current webpage.

It also allows you to quickly add calendar events without having to open a new tab or program.

I use this all the time to check dates, see what’s happening in the future, add calendar events from Gmail, etc.

Infinity New Tab

Whenever you open a new tab, this replaces Chrome’s default window.

I like it because you can create shortcuts to any websites you use often and it displays them in a really nice looking app icon-esque format.

Youtube Video Downloader

I included this at the bottom because it is less straightforward than the extensions above.

Chrome doesn’t allow Youtube Downloaders in their extension webstore, so you have to do what’s called a sideload of this app.

It has over 8,400 4.8/5 stay reviews, so it should be pretty safe to use.

After you download it, you’ll want to click “how to install” for instructions on how to add it.

We’ve used it for a while now, and it works really seamlessly.

You simply click a button under a Youtube video and choose the resolution you’d like to download, and it’s downloaded.

(Again, make sure you have permission to download a video before you use this.)

Bonus Add-On: Pushbullet (Android only)

This extension allows you to do two things.

First you can send and receive text messages right from your phone through Chrome.

Second, you can send or receive files and pictures directly from your phone to your computer or vice-versa.

I use this to communicate with others without having to pick my phone up as well as get and send pictures between phone and computer.

(Note: It is only available if you have an Android phone.)

Bonus Hack: Chrome Keyboard Shortcuts

You can create keyboard shortcuts to pretty much any Chrome extension.

For example, you can set your calendar extension to open by pressing alt+c (for calendar), or the calculator to open with alt+m (for math), etc.

Here’s a tutorial on how to do this.

Help Others: What Chrome extensions do you use for Kid’s Ministry?

Application: What extensions do you think would be helpful that you can download now?

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An Artist’s Guide to Managing Schedules

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If you are a typical working artist, or an artist who gets paid to make art, chances are you struggle with organizing your week in a way that allows you to do all the things that you need to do while also allowing time to create. This is a common problem for working creatives! Since most of us—although certainly not all—tend to buck against a solid, structured schedule, the result can often be an aimless, mental wandering. And then, somehow, the week is over, and we haven’t created anything.

This post is mainly for myself. I struggle with this time and time again. The cares and other “busy work” items of the week crowd my schedule and, before I realize it, five more days have passed and I haven’t done anything that an “artist” should do.

If part of your job is to be creative and make new things, I want to offer some super practical advice I’ve learned in 15 years of being a “professional” artist. That’s not to say this advice is always a part of my weekly routine—in fact, I usually fail more than I succeed—but here are a few things I aim for.

So I hope this will be helpful for those who struggle to be an artist, even in their “creative” job. (Again, this post is not primarily for artists working at other, non-artistic jobs, but rather those of us who have some element of “creating” as an assumed part of our jobs.) Striving to implement a little bit of structure into your work week will not, as our instincts tell us, hinder you, but instead will help free you up to make things.

Fight for Time to Create

First of all, let me say that I understand that many of us have jobs that do not currently allow for space to simply be creative and create. Sometimes that’s just the nature of the job we have. A million different things push and pull for our attention, and the first thing to go is any time to create. If that’s you, don’t be discouraged! That may just be your stage of life right now.

However, I will say that if you consider yourself an artist, and if that’s part of your job in any capacity, you’ll have to fight for the time to create. It might take a slow and steady change, but if you care about creating, you need to fight to have some time to do it.

This also means fighting your own apathy to create. To my horror, I recently realized that I’ve been packing my week full of meetings and tasks with the assumption that ‘I’ll write in the down times.’ I’ve been approaching it completely backward—I haven’t been fighting for time to create! Instead of scheduling everything else around my times of writing, I assumed I’d write whenever I found free time. Which means I’ll never do any writing—because there’s always something waiting to fill up every free second.

Schedule Time to Create 

Instead of the write-in-the-downtimes approach, I’ve begun striving to schedule creative time, and then to build everything else around that. It’s so tough to do this, and most weeks I fail more than I succeed, but I’m trying! If you’re like me, everything inside of you hates the idea of a specific, set time to create! “Schedule” creative time? What if I don’t feel inspired during that “scheduled” creative time?

I’m reminded of something that Mason Currey relates in his book Daily Rituals. He quotes author William Faulkner as saying, “I write when the spirit moves me, and the spirit moves me every day.” George Balanchine, the famous choreographer, similarly quipped, “My muse must come to me on union time.” In other words, if being an artist is your job (or even part of your job), you should be creating routinely, whether or not you “feel inspired.” A surprising majority of the artists profiled in “Daily Rituals” say something along the lines of “Inspiration is for amateurs.

For me personally, I schedule creative time for at least a couple of hours several times a week, always in the morning (usually 9 a.m.-12 p.m.). I’ve learned that I’m at my best and freshest in the morning. My mind is rested, my senses are more alert, and maybe because I’m still waking up, I tend to not overthink it. I just create and let it be what it is. I can edit later.

Schedule Everything Else Around Creative Time

Another reason I prefer creating in the morning is that I’m not encumbered by the things that pull my focus and attention away from the freedom of writing. Meetings, email and even necessary to-do list items crowd my brain if I do them in the morning, and I’ll be thinking about them the rest of the day.

That means that, as much as possible, I do my best to be proactive in setting my schedule around times to create. There will always be things that interfere, which is just part of life. But as much as it is in my power to do so, I try to follow a few “rules” for scheduling my week to keep as much creative time as possible.

These are uber-practical ideas to keep other jobs’ tasks in their place and allow my creative time to be free and without stress. They are general ideas for time management. Here they are, in no particular order. Take what’s useful for you in your context.

Meetings

  • Schedule your first meetings at the end of the day and work backward. My friend Travis taught me this trick. The temptation when someone asks to meet is just to throw it in the next available time, or even worse, leave 30-60 minutes of dead space on either side of other meetings. But if you can discipline yourself to push as many meetings to the end of the day as you can, you have the majority of the day to do the other things you need to do. Once the 4 p.m. slot is filled, I’ll either do 3 p.m. or ask to do another day at 4 p.m., and so on. Since I strive for creative time in the morning, I don’t have immediate meetings hanging over my head when I’m writing.
  • Say “no” to extra things. In his book Essentialism, Greg McKeown proposes that “anything that is not a clear ‘yes’ should be an absolute ‘no.’” If it’s not obvious that you should do it, then you shouldn’t do it. He also reminds us that when you say “yes” to something, you’re saying “no” to something else. In our case, that “no” could be the time and space to create. When someone asks to meet about something that’s not related to my job, I first ask if it’s something we can discuss on the phone, or better yet, in email.
  • Take notes and archive everything. The temptation in a meeting, especially one you don’t particularly care about, is just to sit and let the time pass. Instead, force yourself to take notes. The reason is simple: You can forget all about it the moment you leave. It’s not taking up room in your brain. It’s written down for a later time. I highly recommend Evernote for this. I jot it down and then let it drift out of my mind completely. I take notes with a “What might I need to know in three months?” mentality. If I need that information again, there it is, tagged and searchable.

Email

  • Schedule time to do email. Man, I’m awful about this one. In a world where we can see it the instant it arrives, it’s so tempting to say, “I’ll just answer this real quick.” We all know how that turns out, don’t we? Answering “just this one” easily becomes two or three or four or five, and before long, it’s 5 p.m. Having a set, scheduled time to do email during the day can save you from that. I usually aim for just after lunch and right at the end of the day. Note to self—turn off those push notifications on your phone!
  • Empty your inbox in a “last in, first out” method. This means your newest email gets answered first. This feels backward, but it’s been extremely helpful for me. The reason is this: There’s a good chance that if someone hasn’t emailed you again about something they originally asked for two weeks ago, they don’t need it anymore or they’ve figured it out. It’s not on your plate anymore. Furthermore, answering newer emails first means you’ll see the most up-to-date information on a thread, and you may be able to archive older messages in the thread (or on the same topic) without taking the time to read them in detail or needing to respond.
  • Archive. Once an email is answered, and even if I expect a response, I’ll archive it. The last thing I need is 5,000 emails in my inbox and I’m not sure which I’ve read and which I haven’t. Once I read it and answer it, I archive it. If they respond, it’ll pop back up in my inbox. I also highly recommend getting an email client that has the ability to “snooze” messages. If there’s something you need to give your attention, but you don’t really need to do it for another two weeks, snooze it until then and it’ll pop back up when it’s time.
  • Unsubscribe. If you’re like me, there’s nothing more stressful than hearing that ding…ding…ding of emails coming in. Your brain equates it with a growing to-do list and your stress level instantly climbs. But how many of those end up being mailing-list type emails from that pair of socks you bought online six years ago? Simply seeing fewer emails in your inbox helps you feel more focused, so go ahead and take three seconds to unsubscribe from those lists. (This also includes any social media alerts. You’re gonna check Facebook in five minutes anyway.) I promise, if you take the time to do that for the next couple of weeks, pretty soon the only dings you’ll hear are ones you actually need to care about.

To-Do List

  • Keep a running to-do list. This is more difficult to put into practice than you would think because most likely you don’t get assigned a bunch of things at once, but single things here and there that you assume, in the moment, you’ll remember. You won’t. This is the same thing as taking notes in meetings—just jot it down quickly so you can forget it until later. I like Wunderlist as a to-do editor. Write it down, put a “due date” on it to be reminded of your next step, then let it go for now.
  • Your email is not your to-do list. It can inform your to-do list, especially if it’s from your boss, but it is not the same thing. Letting my inbox be my to-do list means that I’m putting important emails from my supervisor next to those from fellow guitar players who are simply asking what pedals I use. Email doesn’t easily let you visualize what’s immediately important. Use your email to populate your to-do list, and then prioritize the to-do list.
  • Multiple lists help keep everything straight. For example, I have a to-do list in Wunderlist called “Studio” and another called “Office.” Remember, the goal is to forget it until you need it, so if I’m at the studio, I don’t even bother looking at the office list, and vice versa.

The Common Theme: Archive

A common theme in most of the above considerations for time management is to archive. In layman’s terms, archiving something means “forget about it until you need it.” It’s the concept of putting something in a place where it can be found, but can also be forgotten for the time being. Jotting down something you need to do in Wunderlist allows you to free your mind up until it’s time to do that. Snoozing emails cleans up the stress of a growing inbox until it’s time to handle that particular email. Taking notes and archiving in Evernote means you can free up mental space for that subject until you need to go look at it again one day. Be like a librarian who knows where things are stored and can pull a specific book when need arises.

I think we could go on and on, but hopefully this sets the stage for you to examine ways you can begin to structure your work habits to free up significant blocks of time to create.

What other tips or strategies do you use? Let us know in the comments!

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Do the Gospels Borrow From Pagan Myths?

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It’s an accusation that’s been around a long time. Even in ancient times, critics of Christianity noticed some parallels between Christian beliefs and pre-Christian myths. In the late second century, a pagan philosopher named Celsus charged, “The Christians have used the myths of Danae and the Melanippe, of the Auge and Antiope in fabricating this story of virgin birth!” In more recent times, skeptical scholars such as Marvin Meyer and Robert Price have claimed close connections between the resurrection of Jesus and the myths of dying and rising deities that marked many pagan myths.

In the simplest possible terms, here’s what these critics contend: The most marvelous claims in the Gospels—a miraculous birth, for example, as well as the idea of a deity who dies and rises again—are paralleled in pagan religions that predate Christianity; therefore, early Christians must have fabricated these miracles based on their knowledge of pre-Christian religions.

To be sure, there are some surface-level similarities between ancient myths and certain events in the Gospels. Long before the first century A.D., the myths of Egyptian deities such as Osiris, Adonis, Attis and Horus included tales of death and rebirth. The Persians venerated Mithras, a deity who (according to some claims) was born of a virgin and who died and then rose from the dead. Sacramental bread and the fruit of the vine make appearances in a few mystery cults as well.

So why should anyone see Jesus as being distinct from the pagan gods? Could it be that the New Testament stories of Jesus represent the fictive myth of an ancient mystery cult that’s survived for 2,000 years? Or is there something different about the accounts of Jesus’ time on planet earth?

When these claims are compared carefully with the New Testament Gospels, the distinction between Jesus and the supposed pagan parallels becomes quite distinct, for at least two reasons: (1) the pagan parallels aren’t as parallel as the proponents claims, and (2) many of the supposed parallels confuse later Christian practices with the actual affirmations in the New Testament Gospels.

1. The Pagan Parallels Aren’t as Parallel as Some Proponents Claim

In the first place, it’s important to be aware that most of these supposed pagan parallels aren’t nearly as parallel as the skeptics suppose. When the actual sources behind the pagan myths are closely examined, the supposed parallels have little in common with the New Testament narratives.

For example, there are dying and rising gods in some pagan myths—but these deities died and arose each year, certainly not the same pattern as Jesus’s once-for-all sacrifice for the sake of others. And the pagan myths of miraculous births are closer to divine impregnation—a mortal woman conceives a child as a result of sexual relations with a god—than to the virginal conception described in the Gospel According to Matthew and Luke.

To exemplify how these supposed parallels aren’t nearly as parallel as the critics claim, let’s take a look at one particular mystery-cult myth that’s often presented as a predecessor to the New Testament, the myth of Mithras.

So what about Mithras’ miraculous birth?

According to some reconstructions of the ancient sources that describe the birth of Mithras, Mithras was birthed from solid stone, and he got stuck on the way out. Some nearby persons in a field pulled him from the stone, which left a cave behind him. (In my imagination, I envision this supposed scene happening like this.) Some skeptics connect this birth to the birth of Jesus in a stable with shepherds arriving soon afterward. A few even refer to this birth of Mithras as a “virgin birth”!

But referring to this rescue of Mithras from stone as a “virgin birth” seems to me to be somewhat of a stretch.

I mean, I guess that birth from a rock is sort of a virgin birth. But how can you tell if a rock is a virgin, anyway? And how precisely do rocks lose their virginity?

Parallels of this sort are too vague and too dissimilar to support the claim that Christians borrowed their beliefs from pagans of previous generations.

James Tabor, a professor at University of North Carolina, doesn’t believe in the virginal conception of Jesus, and he denies that Jesus rose from the dead. Yet even he is able to see how radically the birth of Jesus in the New Testament Gospels differs from any supposed pagan parallels:

When you read the accounts of Mary’s unsuspected pregnancy, what is particularly notable … is an underlying tone of realism that runs through the narratives. These seem to be real people, living in real times and places. In contrast the birth stories in Greco-Roman literature have a decidedly legendary flavor to them. For example, in Plutarch’s account of the birth of Alexander the Great, mother Olympias got pregnant from a snake; it was announced by a bolt of lightning that sealed her womb so that her husband Philip could not have sex with her. Granted, both Matthew and Luke include dreams and visions of angels but the core story itself—that of a man who discovers that his bride-to-be is pregnant and knows he is not the father—has a realistic and thoroughly human quality to it. The narrative, despite its miraculous elements, “rings true.”

Let’s take a quick look at a few of the supposed parallels between Jesus and Mithras:

Supposed parallel: Mithras had 12 followers.
Significant problem: One piece of ancient artwork depicts Mithras surrounded by 12 faces, but there is no evidence that these were “disciples” of Mithras. In fact, Mithras had only two companions, Albederan and Antares.

Supposed parallel: Mithras was identified as a lion and a lamb.
Significant problem: There is no surviving evidence for the connection of Mithras to a lamb. Mithras was identified as a lion. However that imagery for a royal ruler existed among the Israelites (Genesis 49:9) several centuries prior to the emergence of any Mithraic myth; the New Testament writers were using familiar Jewish imagery when they depicted Jesus as a lion.

Supposed parallel: Mithras initiated a meal in which the terminology of “body and blood” were used.
Significant problem: The earliest evidence of such terminology in the context of Mithraism is from the mid-second century—nearly 100 years after the Gospels were written. In this instance, it is far more likely that Mithraism borrowed from Christian practice.

Supposed parallel: Mithras sacrificed himself for the sake of others.
Significant problem: Mithras is frequently depicted in the act of sacrificing a bull—but Mithras himself never becomes the sacrifice.

Supposed parallel: Mithras rose from the dead on the third day; his followers celebrated his resurrection each year.
Significant problem: There is no surviving evidence from the pre-Christian era for a resurrection of Mithras on the third day. Because of his association with the sun, it is possible that followers of Mithras celebrated a renewal or rebirth each year.

Supposed parallel: The resurrection of Mithras was celebrated on Sunday.
Significant problem: There is no surviving evidence from the pre-Christian era for a celebration of a resurrection of Mithras on the first day of the week, though the followers of Mithras—and of other sun-related deities—did worship their gods on Sunday. The reason for the emphasis on “the first day of the week” in the New Testament Gospels was, however, more closely tied to the fact that, in Genesis 1, God’s work of creation began on the first day. The implication was that, through the resurrection of Jesus, God was initiating a new beginning, a re-creation of his world.

2. Claims of Parallels in Pagan Myths Confuse the Historical Claims of the New Testament With Later Christian Practices

What’s more, proponents of these parallels consistently conflate later Christian traditions with what’s found in the Gospels. It’s true, for example, that pagan festivals occurred around the time when Christians later celebrated Christmas—but the New Testament documents never suggest a date for the birth of Jesus in the first place! The identification of a date to celebrate Christmas occurred centuries after the time of Jesus; Christians probably arrived at a date near the winter solstice because of an early tradition that Jesus was conceived on the same date that he died, and nine months after Passover landed the birth of Jesus in late December. In any case, since the New Testament makes no claims regarding the date of Jesus’ birth, the celebration of Christmas is irrelevant when it comes to a discussion of whether the New Testament description of Jesus’ birth is rooted in real historical events.

The same holds true when it comes to connections between pagan fertility festivals and later Easter celebrations. The term “Easter” comes from “Ishtar,” a Sumerian goddess who died, arose and ascended, and several familiar Easter motifs originated in pagan fertility cults. Yet, except for a mistranslation in Acts 12:4 in the King James Version, no New Testament text even mentions Easter! The pagan roots of later Easter imagery have nothing to do with the historicity of the Gospels.

Likewise, later Christian art incorporated both Egyptian and Mithraic motifs, especially when depicting Jesus and his mother. Yet later depictions of pagan myths in Christian art has nothing to do with whether the events in the New Testament actually occurred. It simply means that Christians artists could have been a bit more creative when choosing sources for their inspiration.

What if Pagan Parallels Do Exist?

Let’s suppose for a moment, though, that some patterns that were present in the life of Jesus could be pinpointed in some previous religion. Would this weaken the historical foundations of the Christian faith, as critics claim?

Not necessarily.

The real question isn’t “Are there similarities between the New Testament’s descriptions of Jesus and some previous pagan myths?” Perhaps there are—although I must admit that every ancient parallel I’ve examined has turned out to be vague and weak when examined in its original context.

The crucial question is “Did the events described in the New Testament actually occur?”—and the answer to this question doesn’t depend on parallels in pagan practices.

Parallels in other ancient religions neither prove nor disprove the authenticity of the New Testament documents. They simply demonstrate the common expectations of people in the first century A.D. Even if some clear parallel did exist between the story of Jesus and previous religious expectations, this wouldn’t warrant the belief that the apostle Paul or the authors of the New Testament Gospels “borrowed” these tenets from other faiths. It would mean that, when God dropped in on the human race, he chose to reveal himself in ways that the people in that particular culture could comprehend. If that’s indeed the case, it would merely mean that the myths of dying gods and miraculous births are rooted in longings that run deeper than human imagination; although the pagan religions twisted and distorted these motifs, they are rooted in a God-given yearning for redemption through sacrifice that makes the world right and new. C.S. Lewis addressed this possibility with these words:

In the New Testament, the thing really happens. The Dying God really appears—as a historical Person, living in a definite place and time.… The old myth of the Dying God…comes down from the heaven of legend and imagination to the earth of history. It happens—at a particular date, in a particular place, followed by definable historical consequences. We must not be nervous about “parallels” [in other religions]…: they ought to be there—it would be a stumbling block if they weren’t.

When it comes to parallels between the New Testament story of Jesus and the myths of pagan gods, the supposed connections are not sufficiently parallel to claim that Christian faith is borrowed. Even if some parallels were indisputable, the parallels merely mean that God worked out his plan in a manner that matched the context within which “the Word became flesh and pitched his tent among us” (John 1:18).

So what should you do the next time someone pulls out a pagan parallel?

(1) Locate the primary source. With the rarest of exceptions, the primary sources—that is to say, the actual ancient texts that describe the pagan practices—do not include any real parallels to the New Testament.

(2) Determine whether the supposed parallel precedes or succeeds the New Testament. Every text in the New Testament was in circulation no later than the late first century A.D. If the pagan parallel is from a text that was written later than the first century A.D., the New Testament writers obviously couldn’t have borrowed their information from that text.

(3) Determine whether the supposed pagan parallel connects to the New Testament or to later Christian traditions. Connections between pagan practices and later patterns in Christian worship or holiday celebrations may be interesting—but these links have nothing to do with whether the New Testament accounts of the life of Jesus are historically accurate.

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R. Beck, The Religion of the Mithras Cult in the Roman Empire (New York: Oxford, 2006) 209-210.

M. Clauss, The Roman Cult of Mithras (New York: Routledge, 2000) 68-165.

C.S. Lewis, “Answers to Questions on Christianity” and “Myth Became Fact,” in God in the Dock(Grand Rapids: Eerdmans, 1970) 58, 66.

Origen of Alexandria, “Contra Celsum,” ed. J.-P. Migne, Patrologiae Cursus Completus, Series Graecae 11 (Paris: Lutetiae Parisiorum, 1857-1866) 37.

T. Snyder, Myth Conceptions (Grand Rapids: Baker, 1995).

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When a Pastor’s Friend Leaves the Church

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I’ve asked the question dozens of times. In one way or another, I simply ask pastors: “What has been one of your most painful moments in ministry?”

When a Pastor’s Friend Leaves the Church

Obviously, the responses are diverse, but one response seems pretty consistent. Let me summarize it with this quote from a pastor who spoke to me just two weeks ago.

Critics and bullies bother me,” he said. “But at least you know where you stand with them. The greatest pain for me took place when one of my good friends and his family decided to leave the church. At least I thought he was a good friend. I felt like I had been stabbed in the back.”

I am not surprised at the pain. I am, however, surprised how common the experience is with so many pastors. At some point, I will do some digging to find out why these friends left. For now, I asked the pastors how they dealt with pain both positively and proactively. Here are the common responses:

  • They accepted the reality of the pain. “For a season, I pretended like it didn’t bother me. But I was lying to myself. I honestly felt like I had been betrayed. Once I admitted the pain, I was able to deal with it better.”
  • They prayed for the friend and his family. “That was tough. My carnal self wanted to punch him in the face. I had to pray for the strength to pray for him. God began to do a work in me that got me beyond the intense pain. It still hurts today, but I am making progress.”
  • They avoided burning bridges. “I’m glad I resisted the temptation to bless him out. It could have happened so easily. But I prayed and bit my tongue. I am so glad God gave me restraint.”
  • They answered members’ questions honestly. “The questions from other church members were expected. They knew how close we were. But he never gave me a reason for his departure. So, I just shared what I knew. I told them I was hurt. I told them I was clueless about the reasons he left. I was straightforward and honest.”
  • They were careful about forging close friendships in the church from that point. “Maybe it’s not the best thing to do, but I am wary of making close friends in the church now. I love my members. I serve my members. But I am not going to get burned again. My closest relationships now are outside the church.”

Pastors, if this painful reality has happened to you, please know you are not alone. It is so much more commonplace than I would have ever imagined. I pray you will find good friends you can trust and enjoy, whether they are in inside the church or outside the church.

You need those friends. And I have little doubt you will be a blessing to them as well.

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Year in Review: 2018 Was a Difficult One for the Church

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Jason Daye is the host of the ChurchLeaders podcast. When he’s not interviewing pastors and authors, Jason serves as Director of Ministry Development for Outreach, Inc. Jason dedicates his time to encouraging and equipping churches, denominations and ministry organizations to develop their Kingdom effectiveness by creating a culture that is both incarnational and invitational. Jason lives in Colorado Springs, Colorado, with his beautiful wife and six children, where he enjoys hiking with his family, fighting rainbow trout, summiting 14ers and swapping stories with good friends.

Megan Briggs is the Editor of churchleaders.com. Her experience in ministry, an extensive amount of which was garnered overseas, gives her a unique perspective on the global church. She has the longsuffering and altruistic nature of foreign friends and missionaries to humbly thank for this experience. When she’s not writing, Megan likes to explore God’s magnificent creation on display in Colorado.

Reflecting on 2018

In this week’s episode, Jason and Megan discuss some of the highlights of 2018. The discussion reflects on the theological debates that shaped the year, some of our favorite interviews from the podcast, and some of the news stories we covered this year. Join us as we give thanks and ruminate on a year that gave us plenty of opportunities to learn and grow as church leaders.

ChurchLeaders Coverage Mentioned in the Show:

On the topic of #ChurchToo:

Andy Savage Placed on Leave of Absence (Effective Immediately)

Andy Savage Resigning After ‘gain in perspective’ Over Abuse

What the Church Needs to Learn From Jules Woodson

Update: John Ortberg Responds to Bill Hybels Allegations

Willow Creek Leaders Resign: ‘Trust has been broken’ Over Bill Hybels Case

Danielle Strickland Delivers the Message of the Moment at the GLS

Paige Patterson Out as Head of SWBTS

UPDATE: Paige Patterson Named President Emeritus After Woman Claims He Silenced Her Disclosure of Rape

Paige Patterson Fired and Stripped of Benefits

J.D. Greear: Judgment Begins at the House of the Lord/SBC

Here’s What You Need to Know About #WhyIDidntReport

The Statement on Social Justice and the Gospel:

John MacArthur on Social Justice: It’s Heresy

The “Statement on Social Justice and the Gospel” Stirs Up Controversy and Conversation

Russell Moore Responds to the Statement on Social Justice

Social Justice or Evangelism? There Shouldn’t Even Be a Debate

This Is Why Al Mohler Didn’t Sign the Statement on Social Justice

The Migrant Caravan:

Pastor Wanted to Know the Truth About the Migrant Caravan. So He Joined It

Pastor Who Joined Migrant Caravan Treated ‘like family’

Leaders We Lost:

Eugene Peterson Passes Joyfully Into Glory at 85

The Indelible Legacy of Eugene Peterson, In Quotes

Billy Graham Has Gone Home to Be With Jesus at 99

The Billy Graham Funeral Was His Last Crusade

Things That Gave Us Hope:

The Church Being the Church as Fires Rage in California

This Is the Cutest Ministry Team You Will See Helping People in California

Hellbent 823 Protects Victims of California’s Deadly Camp Fire

Podcast Episodes Mentioned in the Show:

Eugene Peterson: What Most Pastors Don’t Know about Pastoring

Andy Stanley: Why I Stopped Saying ‘The Bible Says’ When I Preach

Corey Nelson: How to Unintentionally Start a Church for Children

Craig Groeschel: How to Pastor With Integrity

Bryan Loritts: White Evangelicalism and the Hope I See

Gavin Rogers: Why I Joined the Migrant Caravan

Jon Sanders: Embrace Your Small Town, Don’t Try to Escape It

Parents What Message Are You Preaching to Your Kids?

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One of the more sobering realities in the life of a parent is that your life is preaching a message to your kids. They will leave your house with the message that your life preached ringing in their ears. When I first became aware of this reality, I started listening to myself. You know what message I was preaching? I kept saying “Stay safe and be careful.” I was teaching my kids that risk is wrong. That stepping out into the unknown is not worth it. I have since been more intentional about what I preach with my words and actions.
Recently one of my favorite pastor/authors Eugene Peterson passed away. At his funeral, Peterson’s son described the one message his father preached in his church and to his family through his life.

Eugene Peterson’s son Leif said at the funeral that his dad only had one sermon—that he had everyone fooled for 29 years of pastoral ministry, that for all his books he only had one message. It was a secret Leif said his dad had let him in on early in life. It was a message that Leif said his dad had whispered in his heart for 50 years. He remembered these words that his dad had snuck into his room when he was a child to say over him as he was sleeping:

“God loves you.
God is on your side.
He is coming after you.
He is relentless.”*

Eugene Peterson spent his life in a small church preaching a profound message to his church and his kids. One that he often repeated with his words, and by the grace of God his words matched his life. Peterson was faithful to his small church, he did not need to be a superstar, he wasn’t captivated by fame. Bono from U2 called him and invited him to come to visit his home on the French Rivera, Peterson politely turned Bono down because he was in the midst of translating the book of Isaiah. After Eugene got off the phone with Bono, Peterson’s wife looked shocked and said, “You aren’t going?” He said, “No.” She then said, “But it’s Bono!” to which Peterson replied, “But it’s Isaiah!”

He lived the message of a relentlessly loving God in the context of his local church and the life of his family. His life message was that a loving God who created us is in relentless pursuit of us. That will preach. May God give me the grace to preach this very message to myself first and my church and family second.

* Quote taken from Glenn Packiam twitter feed.

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How to Measure Spiritual Growth

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The end of the year is a natural time to evaluate the success (or lack thereof) of the past year and to set goals for the next year. However, many Small Group Point People struggle with exactly how to evaluate the ministry that has happened in the last year. But how can you measure spiritual growth in small groups. How do you know if people have grown spiritually? How do you know if small groups helped someone grow in love? How do you know if you are actually making disciples?

It is impossible to look at someone and know if they have experienced spiritual growth. However, it is not impossible to measure spiritual growth. The key to effectively evaluating small groups is to measure growth over time.

The first step to measure spiritual growth is to identify what actions or results indicate spiritual growth. For example, if you went to the doctor and she wanted to check the condition of your heart, she would check your blood pressure, listen to your heart, maybe run a blood test or do an ECG.

The same principle is true when checking someone’s spiritual heart. So, what tests do you need to run to check the condition of a person’s spiritual heart?

Here are some questions to ask to get a picture of someone’s spiritual growth:

  • How often do you pray? (Possible answers: Multiple times a day, Every day, A couple of times a week, Once or twice a month, Less than once a month, Hardly ever).
  • How often do you read/study the Bible? (Possible answers: Multiple times a day, Every day, A couple of times a week, Once or twice a month, Less than once a month, Hardly ever).
  • How much do you give to the church or other charitable organizations?(Possible answers: I regularly give more than 10 percent of my income, I regularly give 10 percent of my income, I regularly give less than 10 percent of my income, I give regularly but don’t know how much, I don’t give regularly)
  • How often do you serve others without expecting anything in return? (Possible answers: Multiple times a day, Every day, A couple of times a week, Once or twice a month, Less than once a month, Hardly ever).
  • How often do you get together with your small group? (Possible answers: A couple of times a week, Once a week, Once or twice a month, Less than once a month, Hardly ever).
  • When was the last time you told someone outside your family about what Jesus is doing in your life? (Possible answers: This past week, This past month, Sometime in the last three months, Sometime in the last year, I can’t remember)

I am sure there are many other questions you can think of. The questions will give you a snapshot of someone’s spiritual life. However, the key to measuring growth is to ask the same people the same questions over time.

If someone’s answer to the question “How often do you pray?” is less than once a month today, but in six months their answer is now once or twice a month, that is an indicator of measuring spiritual growth and an improvement in the condition of their heart.

As you evaluate your small groups this past year and plan for next year, I want to encourage you to do two things.

1. Spend some time figuring out what are the indicators of someone’s spiritual heart.
2. Commit to asking questions about these indicators every six months for the next two years.

I am praying that this next year brings amazing spiritual growth for you and your small groups.

This article originally appeared here.

5 Ways to Get Closer to God

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If you’re longing to get closer to God, check out these five insights.

1. To get closer to God, admit you can’t do everything on your own.

One of the first steps to getting a closer to God is admitting that you need him in your life. Ironic, yeah? The reality is that we can’t do everything on our own, so admitting this will not only show a sense of humility in your life but it will also show God that are putting your faith in his strength and guidance, rather than your own. As John 3:30 states, “He must increase, I must decrease.” 

2. To get closer to God, remove yourself from harmful relationships.

I believe one of the biggest roadblocks to finding a deeper relationship with God is harmful relationships. Whether these relationships be with family, friends or co-workers, taking yourself out of the equation, or at least giving yourself some healthy distance, will provide you the necessary room and energy needed to first get right in your relationship with God. You must make yourself a priority in regards to your spiritual life. Although this might sound tough to accomplish, you won’t believe the freedom and liberty you will encounter when being able to solely focus on your relationship with God without having toxic relationships getting in your way.

3. To get closer to God, get plugged into a local church or small group.

You won’t believe how much you’ll benefit from having a group of people to support you and help you along your journey with God. Getting plugged into a local church and/or small-group will help keep you accountable, give you wisdom when needed, and even be there for you in times of distress. Jesus’ church was always intended to be done within a community, so I encourage you to get yourself plugged into a community that cares about your relationship with God as much as you do. The Acts 2 church is a beautiful example of this in action; community centered around the Gospel of Jesus.

4. To get closer to God, read your Bible.

If you want to get to know the God of the Bible, then you should probably start reading your Bible. I’m not saying you need to memorize the whole thing in Greek, but you should be reading it at least once a day, nurturing your heart and soul with God’s wisdom and guidance. Whether you simply read from start to finish or study through a daily devotional, reading your Bible will help build a foundation for your faith in God. Write down notes that you can look back on, and always be transparent when incorporating what you’ve learned. God will speak you in ways that will not only transform you from the inside out but will also give you a better grasp as to who you are as a person. If you want God to speak to you, start reading what God has already spoken.

5. To get closer to God, make prayer a priority.

Prayer is key. And although prayer can sometimes be looked at as weird or awkward, it’s really not at all. Look at prayer as a conversation between you and God. You’re simply talking with Him. You don’t need to light candles, burn incense or even wear a black robe. Just relax, get somewhere peaceful, and begin a conversation with God that will help build your relationship with him. Martin Luther once said, “To be a Christian without prayer is no more possible than to be alive without breathing.” That quote is packed with powerful truth, and I want you to begin looking at prayer as your way of staying connected to God. Any relationship with meaning is one that has great communication.

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Don’t Lose Ministry Momentum

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It is so easy to lose momentum in networking within your community:

  • After a great event, some people may just feel burned out.
  • Another youth leader—who was a key player in the network—leaves their church.
  • Sometimes it is the slow fade of busyness that sets in, and no one seems to want to come anymore.

So how do you overcome the networking doldrums? Here are some ideas to help you keep the “mo” in momentum.

Pray Diligently

Working for spiritual transformation in your community is a spiritual battle. Are you remembering your weapons (2 Corinthians 10:4)? A solid communication link with God is essential to the health of our networks. Prayer overcomes the obstacles in working together to reach the teenagers in our community. Ask God what He sees as the problem in your network. You may be surprised by the answer!

Connect Consistently

Ask around and make the personal connection to listen to those in your network. Why is it that you are unable to make it? Sometimes it is as simple as a schedule issue: The meeting time no longer works.

Other times it can be deeper; balance might be an issue. In one network I belong to, there was a big push to do a big event, and it was a huge success. Afterward, I was playing Frisbee golf with a youth leader who hadn’t participated. I asked him why he did not connect and he said, “All the network does is plan events.” His relational need was not being met by the over focus on doing stuff. It was time for that group’s pendulum to swing back to its people.

Lack of consistency is the number one killer of networks. Not meeting may seem to be the natural thing to do when attendance is waning. But that one time you decide not to gather might be when someone shows up who needs the group. It happened in one network when all of the leaders decided to flake, and a youth leader showed up who had never been there before. Thankfully, he pursued the leaders and become a solid member of the team. Size isn’t always important; it is still powerful when a few youth leaders gather to pray and share.

Over Communicate

Help people plan ahead. The first notice about a network meeting should be before the morning of the day the meeting is to happen! And keep the time and place consistent. Setting a regular time each month for network meetings helps people plan.

Use multiple methods to connect with people. Personal visits, social media, texting and phone calls are all important. One network in my area sends out multiple invites. I have had five invites on my iPhone calendar before! I know exactly when that group will meet for the next five years!

Finally, momentum increases when youth leaders feel like they belong and own the network. It is all about building relationships around the goal of changing the lives of teenagers for eternity.

We would love to help you develop a solid action plan for your network—one that will help you ride out the “doldrums” and keep your network moving forward. Consider getting Coaching  to help you keep your momentum going!

This article originally appeared here.

How to Save Your Marriage After an Affair

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“I’m having an affair.” If you’ve said these words, then you understand the weight they carry. They are daggers to the heart and can be deadly to a marriage, but there is still hope for healing and restoration. And, if you are the spouse who committed the affair, your words and actions in the days that lie ahead are essential and have the power to heal or break down your marriage even further. What can you do to save your marriage after an affair?

Not long ago, I received an email from a reader whose husband recently confessed to having multiple affairs during their 10 years of marriage. She believes that he is completely remorseful and fully realizes that he has broken his vows…over and over again. This couple has two children and has been together a long time. Even after hearing his gut-wrenching confession, she still loves him and wants to stay with him. Trying to hold it together, she doesn’t know how to deal with the myriad of emotions she’s experiencing—sadness, anger, frustration, confusion, desperation—you name it. I share this story with you to serve as an example of what your spouse is (or will most likely be) going through in their mind and heart. As the spouse who had the affair, it is important to remember that your spouse will experience a wide range of emotions after hearing about your affair, and it will most likely take them a long time to heal. So, please give them the time and space they need to process their emotions so you both can continue to move toward restoration.

You might be thinking, is that even possible? Can a marriage truly be saved after an affair? Yes, vows have been broken. Yes, trust must be earned once again. Yes, it’s messy and emotional and hard. However, after years of meeting with and talking to couples both in person and online, I can tell you that IT IS POSSIBLE…but it takes lots of work and constant prayer.

So, if you’re living after an affair, here are four crucial steps you must take to save your marriage:

1. Start with REPENTANCE and CONFESSION to God and your spouse.

The very first steps that must take place when you have had an affair and realize that what you are doing is wrong is to STOP seeing this other person IMMEDIATELY. Cut off ALL contact in person, online or elsewhere. Change your daily patterns to make sure you won’t run into them, change your phone number, and shut down your social media accounts for as long as it takes to make sure you won’t be contacted or be tempted to reach the other person. Then, REPENT. Ask God to forgive you for being unfaithful and to help you refocus on your commitment to your spouse. Ask Him to give you strength to confess, and then, do it. God will help you through this, but it won’t be easy. It will be gut-wrenching, emotional and heartbreaking. But, you MUST confess in order for healing to take place. And, the sooner you end the adulterous relationship, repent and admit to the affair, the better. No matter how awful and ugly the truth may seem, once the truth is brought to light that is when God begins to heal our hearts. He is our Healer, Sustainer and the Restorer of our souls, and He can do this for your marriage as well, but it won’t be a smooth journey. Ask God to help you stay the course and do what it takes to regain your spouse’s trust, and He will help you step-by-step, day-by-day.

2. Be completely HONEST and OPEN with your spouse about EVERYTHING after an affair.

You don’t necessarily need to tell your spouse ALL of the details of an adulterous relationship, but you must be willing to answer ANY and ALL questions that your spouse may have. Trust has been broken. The process to regain trust is a slow one, and this can only happen with full transparency. With that said, I want to remind the “innocent” spouse to be cautious when asking for specifics. It is hard for us to get things out of our mind once they are in there. We don’t want to keep replaying images of our spouse cheating on us with someone else over and over in our thoughts. This will only hinder the healing process. It’s OK to want specific details to better understand what lead to the affair, but knowing the details isn’t going to change the fact that it happened.

Important questions the spouse who committed the affair must answer include: Have you completely ended the affair? Have you cut off all contact with this person? Have you gotten rid of any devices or apps (i.e., secret cell phones, snapchat, etc.) that links you to this person? Are you willing to get rid of passwords, change jobs, move or do whatever it takes to not be around the person with whom you committed adultery? If you want to answer “no” to any of these questions, then you are not ready to move toward healing yet because you are not willing to give up your life with this other person for the sake of your marriage. And, the longer you resist leaving the illicit relationship and come to a place of total repentance to God and your spouse, the harder it will be to salvage your marriage. Once you can willingly and honestly say “yes” to all of these questions, then you can move on to the next step.

3. Fully COMMIT to saving your marriage even when it feels ugly and uncomfortable.

For any marriage to last, even when no affair has taken place, BOTH the husband and the wife must be FULLY and COMPLETELY committed to one another. True love will not last without commitment. When an affair occurs, the commitment has been broken, and that is precisely why some decide to divorce. The only way a marriage can survive and even thrive after an affair is by both the husband and the wife recommitting to one another. However, as the spouse who committed the affair, this recommitment starts with YOU. You must take the first step by showing your spouse how committed you are to doing whatever it takes to regain their trust and save the marriage. This will encourage your spouse to give you and the marriage a chance to heal. Both of you must be willing to go through all the emotions that follow the news of an affair, and your emotions will be all over the place. The “innocent” spouse is allowed to be angry but must do their best to not sin in their anger by punishing the “guilty” spouse with hateful words and actions. As the spouse who was unfaithful, you must face the consequences of your sinful actions and approach your spouse with tenderness and humility.

Both of you must also be willing to do things differently, and this can be very frustrating and awkward at times. A marriage counselor or pastor is extremely helpful in navigating through all of these steps and helping a couple move forward. We cannot forget the past, but we can move forward with recommitted hearts, healthier habits, and a deeper understanding of God and one another with God’s help through prayer and counsel.

Do Men and Women Worship Differently?

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A reader named Patrick referred me to this article from the Biola University Web site. It’s titled “The Feminization of the Church: Why Its Music, Messages and Ministries Are Driving Men Away.” The article includes references to Why Men Hate Going to Church, by David Murrow, and The Church Impotent, by Leon Podles. Both are sitting on my shelf, as yet unread. Both authors claim that Christianity has become increasingly feminine in its appeal and membership. Podles traces the roots back to the 13th century, when he says women mystics popularized the personal use of “bridal imagery.” In response to the article, Patrick had this question:

Do you have comments, ideas, approaches in your ministry to address the needs of men vs. women in worship (in general), music and the arts (specifically)?

First, let me say that I agree that the church at the beginning of the 21st century is becoming increasingly feminine. The obvious example is the acceptance and increase of women pastors and leaders. More subtle examples are music we tend to classify as “worship” (slow and intimate, focusing on mercy and beauty, with add2 or major 7th chords), the percentage of women at church services, and the emphasis on “feminine” traits over “masculine” ones in churches. For instance, many pastors are more prone to talk about sensitivity, tolerance and nurture than courage, holiness and the offense of the Gospel. I realize that this is a broad oversimplification of the issue, but there’s ample evidence that things are changing.

Back to Patrick’s question. God has made us male and female, with undeniable differences that are biological, cultural, psychological and sociological. Those differences affect the way we process and perceive information, as well as the way we interact and communicate. Women in general tend to be more relational, talkative and sensitive to others. Men, in general, tend to be more achievement oriented, difficult to engage in conversation, and self-reliant. Again, I understand this is a generalization with exceptions. In any case, our starting point for relating to God is not the way we like to perceive him, but the way He has revealed Himself to us in His Word. Though men and women may be different in gender, we find a common root in our status as sinners. That is why Paul writes that in Christ, “There is neither male nor female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus” (Gal. 3:28). Both men and women can understand that they have fallen woefully short of God’s righteous standards and are in need of a Savior. Our “need” in worship is to realize our innate self-centeredness and self-exaltation, the judgment we were under as a result of our rebellion, the provision God has made for us in the atoning sacrifice of His Son, and our appropriate response of repentance, faith and gratitude.

But how is that communicated? In ways that are masculine or feminine? Do we respond to the current trend by singing warrior type songs, helping men get in touch with their masculine heart? Do we remind guys that Jesus was a carpenter, that He got His hands dirty, and encourage them to take risks and be a man’s man?

I don’t think so. Simply encouraging guys in supposedly masculine traits doesn’t necessarily bring clarity to the situation or resolve the current dilemma.

In my years of pastoring, we’ve sought to focus people’s attention not on the particular way we say or do things, but on the One we have gathered to worship. His self-revelation determines our communication. It’s not about worshipping God in a feminine or masculine way, but worshipping Him for Who has revealed Himself to be and in the ways He has commanded us to worship Him. As we do so, we’ll find men becoming more manly and women becoming more “womanly.” Given the current climate in many churches, this would probably result in many churches becoming more “masculine” in their worship, but also any church becoming more biblical.

We celebrate Jesus Christ in His divinity and His humanity. We should praise Him for His meekness and humility as well as His wrath, justice and fearsome holiness. We sing to God not because women like singing more than men, but because God commands us to sing His praise. We use songs that reflect God’s strength, power and majesty, as well as songs that celebrate His care, love and mercy. We take a strong stand for truth because we are to contend for the faith, but seek to do so with humility and kindness. We believe that God has ordained different, but complementary and equally worthwhile, roles for men and women in the church, and that doctrinal and directional leadership in the church is to be male. However, all we do as men or women is meant to be an expression of servanthood. When the different roles of men and women are honored, both see their gender in light of the God who created us in His image for His glory.

One pastor suggests that men and women have an inherently different way of relating to God:

“The classic example is the worship pose of the eyes shut and the arms raised in this tender embrace, singing a song that says, ‘I’m desperate for you. You’re the air I breathe.’ Guys don’t talk to guys like that.”

That may be our common experience in our culture, but it was David, the warrior-king, who penned these words:

O God, you are my God; earnestly I seek you; my soul thirsts for you; my flesh faints for you, as in a dry and weary land where there is no water. (Ps. 63:1)

One thing have I asked of the Lord, that will I seek after: that I may dwell in the house of the Lord all the days of my life, to gaze upon the beauty of the Lord and to inquire in his temple. (Ps. 27:4)

“Fainting for the Lord” and “seeking to gaze upon his beauty” may sound like feminine expressions, but they are specifically biblical attitudes. I want to learn what it means, as a man, to so desire the Lord that I am physically affected. Also, these aren’t meant to be the only ways we speak about God. They should be filled out with other expressions that communicate a love for holiness, a passion to live for God’s glory, and a hatred for sin and everything that opposes God’s will. Men in particular need to be aware of God’s command to “be watchful, stand firm in the faith, act like men, be strong” (1 Cor. 16:13). As we keep our focus biblical and balanced, we’ll find that both men and women are less concerned about worshiping God “their” way, and more concerned about becoming conformed to the image of the Savior they worship.

I realize this has barely scratched the surface of answering the question, but I pray it sheds a little light on an appropriate way to address the feminization of the church.  

Why Missionaries Go to Dangerous Places

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In the past, mission agencies and sending churches were able to identify places where missionaries might be at risk. Most went to countries that welcomed them and were generally receptive to the gospel; there they could count on safety and a healthy lifestyle while working with churches in developing countries. Unfortunately, that is no longer the norm.

During my 17 years as president of the International Mission Board, I never got used to the funerals. Death wasn’t necessarily the result of violence or because of a missionary’s Christian witness. Missionaries succumb to disease, are killed in a carjacking or in an accident while traveling a dangerous highway. Some were in the wrong place when a terrorist bomb exploded in a shopping mall or got caught in a mob of anti-American demonstrators. But there were those who were targeted because they dared to proclaim the truth of the gospel in a hostile environment.

We live in an evil and fallen world. Where the light of the gospel has not been proclaimed, the peoples and cultures are in bondage to the god of this world. Whether in the form of hostile religious worldviews, restrictive government policies, ethnic warfare and violence, or criminal elements of society, Satan poses a formidable threat to those who would seek to make the kingdoms of this world the kingdom of our Lord.

However, Revelation 12:11 tells us the key to overcoming the evil one. “And they overcame him because of the blood of the Lamb and because of the word of their testimony, and they did not love their life even when faced with death” (NASB). Christ has assured us of victory because of his shed blood. First John 5:4 instructs us: “This is the victory that has overcome the world—our faith,” and that faith is expressed in the testimony we confess. But the ultimate victory comes in not holding on to one’s own life, even unto death!

Why would missionaries put themselves in harm’s way? Here are four reasons why missionaries are willing to go to dangerous places.

1. The Desire to Make a Difference for Eternity

On December 30, 2002, three missionaries were killed by a gunman in a Baptist Hospital in Yemen. The response from the public, and even from churches, was a demand to bring the missionaries home. Some characterized it as a tragic waste of their lives. The media demanded to know why we could be so irresponsible to allow personnel to go to places where they might be killed.

But was the more than 20 years Bill Koehn and Martha Myers poured out their lives in ministry and witness there a waste? Are the seeds of the gospel that grow and eventually flourish among an unreached people not worth the cost? Certainly, it’s appropriate to pray for the health and safety of missionaries, but when that becomes the priority of our concern, we radically distort the call of our Lord who said being his disciple was a call to deny oneself, to take up the cross and die.

In the impressive roll call of faith in Hebrews 11, these heroes of the faith were characterized in verse 38 as “men of whom the world was not worthy.”

Missionaries go to places of danger for the sake of the gospel because they have resolved to not live for the comforts, security and success of this world. Rather, they have surrendered their lives to make a difference for eternity. Like the missionaries in previous centuries who left the comforts of the West with their belongings packed in coffins because they did not expect to return from disease-ravaged lands, our sent-ones today take the eternal hope of the gospel to people in spiritual darkness because obeying the Lord Jesus Christ in his Great Commission is worth their lives.

2. Obedience to the Call of Christ

In the 1980s, Muslim radicals had thrown Lebanon into chaos. In a protracted civil war in which Americans were being kidnapped, the U.S. Department of State mandated the evacuation of all Americans. In this case, missionaries were brought home, though they wanted to stay and continue their ministry. They were not concerned for their own safety but desired to remain faithful to their calling.

In a more recent situation, where anarchy prevailed and nonessential American personnel were being evacuated, a missionary informed his family and the IMB they would not be leaving. They considered themselves essential personnel. They could not be disobedient to God’s call out of regard for their own safety, especially since the chaos and uncertainties created great opportunities for gospel witness.

Military personnel are trained to be obedient to orders no matter the danger. They readily go to war zones out of a patriotic devotion without regard for whether it is safe to do so. Neither should Christians consider it optional to obey the orders of our Commander in Chief Jesus Christ, who told us to go and make disciples of all nations. He did not qualify that mandate to go only where one could witness without opposition or risk.

3. The Compelling Lostness of People Without Christ

Missionaries are willing to risk danger and opposition to engage unreached peoples with the gospel because they understand the consequences of lostness. I often highlighted the tragedy of lostness in telling of the tsunami in Asia in 2004, when almost a quarter of a million people were swept into hell. Their lostness was not because they had rejected Jesus Christ but because as sinners they had never heard that he “is the way, the truth and the life” (John 14:6). That was just one event. Every day, people around the world die apart from Christ. The lostness compels us to give our lives and go (Rom. 10:13).

4. A Passion for God’s Glory Among the Nations

To insist that missionaries avoid dangerous places is to belittle the lostness of a world without Christ, to demean the responsibility of obedience to God’s call, and to succumb to a convoluted system of values that says one’s own safety and comfort is a higher priority than sharing the gospel. But the ultimate reason it is not only appropriate but essential for missionaries to go to places of risk and be willing to die to make the gospel known is a prevailing passion for the glory of God among the nations.

Karen Watson was one of four missionary personnel killed by a terrorist attack in 2004 in Iraq. With a heart that broke for the suffering of the Iraqi people, she had resigned her job, sold her house and car, gave away most of her belongings, and went into that war-torn country to minister to the people. Knowing the risk, she had written a letter to be left with her pastor to be opened and read if something happened to her and she did not return.

The two-page, handwritten letter began, “If something happens and I do not return, there are no regrets, for I am with Jesus.” She went on to say, “My call is to obedience, suffering is expected, his glory is my reward.” She repeated and underlined twice: “His glory is my reward.”

Why do missionaries go to dangerous places and even risk death? They are compelled by the lostness of people who have yet to hear the hope of the gospel. They are devoted to the lordship of Christ, the obedience to his call, and the desire to make a difference for eternity. They are not living for their own comfort, safety and convenience for but for the glory of God among the nations.

This article originally appeared here.

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